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Here is more info. One of the images is a long misandrist ramble but I haven't seen it confirmed as to whether it's attached to one of her accounts. If anyone can confirm please do so.
/r/MensRights17/12/24 08:48 AM
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I hope this isn't one of those studies that tries to reframe any online spaces critical of feminism as "misogynistic" while completely ignoring the litany of online spaces full of misandry.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates29/11/24 07:24 AM
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Nothing surprising at all here. Reddit mods and admins are all complicit with the astroturfing of this site. They're the exact type of totalitarian fascist that they claim to hate. No wrongthink allowed.
/r/MensRights26/11/24 07:54 PM
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Have a look at the rest of the comments in this thread before judging 364k people based on one idiot.
/r/MensRights20/11/24 07:06 PM
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The thing is it's nowhere near 50%. One of op's replies already has -40 downvotes within 15 minutes of it being posted. His views are not shared by the vast majority on this sub.
/r/MensRights20/11/24 07:02 PM
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That kind of sexism isn't welcome here. Go get some fresh air.
/r/MensRights20/11/24 06:59 PM
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Average Reddit mod
/r/MensRights12/11/24 07:31 PM
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The #whitedudesforharris campaign was embarassing. Possibly lost her votes. Just like that ridiculous ad she ran where the evil husbands are forcing their wives to vote Trump but the brave wives secretly vote for her. Whitedudesforharris was primarily a fundraising campaign based on what men could do for Harris. Not what Harris could do for men. And I'm sure the white dudes loved being addressed by their skin colour. It's so humanising. Reeks of "How do you do fellow white men". Trump spoke to e…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/11/24 03:46 AM
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Correct. Those women exist. The vast majority of women are not like that. Women don't "generally hate men" as you put it. You're taking part in the same type of generalisation that feminists do when talking about men.
/r/MensRights07/11/24 03:13 AM
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It's important to know that women generally hate men No they don't. Don't judge women based off people online. Especially redditors and especially, especially the twox loons.
/r/MensRights07/11/24 02:23 AM
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This whole argument is stupid. Both of you.
/r/MensRights07/11/24 01:38 AM
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Neither party cares about men's issues. Hopefully the democrats will see how they've disenfranchised men and will amend their stance. Harris ran a campaign centered on women and neglected men. Whereas the Trump campaign made an effort to speak directly to men. If the democrats were smart they'd try to bring men on board. However, the hivemind seems to be doubling down and further blaming men.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates06/11/24 04:34 PM
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Jesus Christ, read the article. They make plenty of great points and are clearly are on our side. Don't push people away with your cynicism.
/r/MensRights02/11/24 05:58 PM
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I get where you're coming from but I don't think this is the way to go. Fair enough if it's a personal decision to avoid relationships but I don't think an organised movement suggesting men (or women - 4b movement) avoid relationships is helpful. There are plenty of amazing women out there who are empathetic to mens issues. Let's not treat women like they're a hazard to be avoided. Because that's essentially what feminism has become when they talk about men. We need to be better than them.
/r/MensRights31/10/24 07:58 PM
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Being for men's right means you are working class? They didn't say this. Feminism and conservatism are the same shit? They didn't say this. it must always be evil conservatives. They didn't say this. Blame conservatives and vote for democrats. Criticism of conservatives is not the same as promoting democrats. You are extrapolating far too much from their comment and arguing against hyperbolised statements they didn't even make. The democrats and feminists deserve plenty of criticism for how they…
/r/MensRights31/10/24 02:27 PM
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We are not organised enough and don't do enough in the real world. If we want change we need to put in the work but that's not something most of this sub are willing to do. Complaining on Reddit makes very little if any difference. Plenty of people posting here have never done anything substantive to promote tackling male issues in real life. The people reading this will know who they are themselves. To be fair, speaking publicly can have social, employment and financial repercussions so there a…
/r/MensRights31/10/24 01:01 PM
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Sorry I should have been clearer. I mean specifically the "mensrights movement" as a term. Or "men's rights activism". Once either of these terms are mentioned the majority of people (and politicians) run a mile so it's impossible to start a conversation. And if they don't run a mile they'll start arguing against you before you've even made your point. This is what I (and I assume George) mean when I say it's become a poison chalice. Anyway, the range of men's issues extends beyond just rights. …
/r/MensRights31/10/24 02:51 AM
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I don't think those 2 are mutually exclusive. A rebranding of the movement may help make people more amenable to listen.
/r/MensRights30/10/24 11:44 AM
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He's a smart man, he's fully aware of this. He's also aware that feminist rhetoric holds the majority of public sympathy and political sway (and funding) among policy makers looking for progressive reform around gendered issues. To me, he seems to be of the opinion that rather than fight this directly and call them out for it, it will be more effective to placate them and try turn the screw slowly so mens issues are more recognised. Because even mentioning the fact that mens issues need to be ad…
/r/MensRights30/10/24 02:07 AM
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Amazing work as always. I've learned a lot. I admire Richard but I've always found it frustrating how he seems to avoid delving fully into issues or pointing out the root causes. You two had an interesting back and forth and you're improving as an interviewer. I could see at times you were frustrated with some of his statements but you allowed him time to finish his point and respectfully held him accountable when you disagreed. I have similar issues with the phrase mensrights too, it has become…
/r/MensRights30/10/24 01:45 AM
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I'm not a fan. To an extent, it's good that she has given some men's issues a platform however I often think the manner in which she presents serious mens issues actively pushes people away from engaging positively. I think first and foremost, she's in the business of farming engagement and not in the business of seriously addressing mens issues. Similar to that "Whatever" channel you YouTube.
/r/MensRights23/10/24 01:17 AM
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Good thing I didn't dismiss it then. Israeli male victims are subject to the same Empathy Gap in comparison to Israeli female victims.
/r/MensRights16/10/24 06:51 PM
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MRA's wouldn't exist in the first place if society had equal empathy for men.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates16/10/24 05:39 PM
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To be honest, I'm ok with classifying children's deaths as worse than those of men (and women). What I'm not ok with is the refusal to acknowledge innocent men dying while classifying women's deaths as on par with children's deaths. And even among male "combatants" who are killed, many are forced into combat against their will, either through forced conscription or extreme social pressure.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates16/10/24 12:37 AM
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Damn it, I knew I should've said "I'm Jaz'berry Jam". I actually found that really interesting. I'm not colour blind but I appreciate you looking out. I should've been more clear in the first place. I had completely forgotten that red and blue were associated with politics in the US so I get the confusion.
/r/MensRights16/10/24 12:22 AM
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Male disposability is so ingrained into society that innocent men (and boys deemed "combatants") being murdered in their thousands simply doesn't even register on most folk's radar. The upvote:downvote ratio for simply pointing out that men are also being murdered is pretty telling too.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates15/10/24 09:41 PM
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I don't know the gender of all these commenters. Plenty of men have this same lack of empathy. Think of the white knight "niceguys", and tradcon "men should sacrifice to protect women" types.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates15/10/24 08:26 PM
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Oh, my bad I getcha. Sorry, I probably should've been able to read between the lines.
/r/MensRights15/10/24 06:39 PM
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Ha, no I blurred out all usernames to avoid breaking sub rules. I'm the pinkish-purple user in the pic.
/r/MensRights15/10/24 06:38 PM
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You're spot on. And those same types who class all men as combatants are the same type who complain about men fleeing war who seek refuge or asylum. I'm Irish and we've taken a massive amount of Ukrainian refugees. There's a stark difference between how male and female refugees are treated. I posted this over on the Ireland subreddit a few days ago which touches on your point... "In one of the Facebook accommodation groups I'm in, I do see a lot of hate in particular directed at Ukrainian men se…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates15/10/24 06:09 PM
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No, the exclusion of men implies that men are valid military targets by default.
/r/MensRights15/10/24 05:43 PM
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Absolutely heartbreaking
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates15/10/24 05:30 PM
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I'm purple. I definitely care. Edit: My username is behind the pinkish-purple colour in the image above.
/r/MensRights15/10/24 05:13 PM
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Please don't let that user discourage you. The downvotes show that their views are not representative of this sub. Your questions have generated good discussion and you're clearly here in good faith so you're more than welcome to participate.
/r/MensRights13/10/24 12:53 PM
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Your questions are a bit vague in places but I'll attempt. To preface, I'm an egalitarian who cares about human rights in general. I speak up mostly for mens rights because male issues are generally not taken as seriously or given as prominent a voice in public discord. Also, because that's what affects my son and I directly. This is one of the few subs that allows egalitarian discussion. Overall, yes. People benefitting from gender privilege would be less happy though. I believe it exists obvio…
/r/MensRights13/10/24 11:24 AM
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I think they're blaming the government for allowing babies to have their genitals mutilated. as long as those babies are boys of course...
/r/MensRights07/10/24 11:17 PM
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Granted, the incessant need for these types to shove male victims to the back seat is incredibly frustrating but there are way bigger things to be concerned about than this imo. Let them have their statue. As long as they continue self funding and don't expect it to be paid through taxes.
/r/MensRights05/10/24 12:01 AM
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Al of this could've been avoided if the family courts treated dads as equal human beings from the outset. And to think there's a good chance they would've gotten away with it and the kids would still be living with their murderer mother if the police hadn't recovered the dash cam footage.
/r/MensRights03/10/24 02:25 PM
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I get your point. Again, I would invite you to try discuss male issues in a feminist space and see what happens. Feminism as a movement is pro-equality in issues of male privilege/female discrimination. That's fantastic and a lot of good has come from this. However, feminism is at best ambivalent (and sometimes directly opposed) to equality in instances of female privilege/male discrimination. Like you I care about women's issues and rights. I also care about men's issues. Therefore, as an egali…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates27/09/24 12:24 AM
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Feminism and egalitarianism are incompatible. Try starting an open discussion about egalitarian views in a feminist community and see how long it takes before your comments are removed or you get banned. MensLib here is a prime example of how "egalitarian" feminism is.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates27/09/24 12:09 AM
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MensLib don't give a fuck about men. They've banned me from that sub and removed all my comments, including ones supporting literal SA victims like yourself OP. I give it a few hours before this post is removed because reddit admins don't like people pointing out how they enable POS mods like this one.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates27/09/24 12:05 AM
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That's the same rule I got banned for. The mod also commented that I should, "Go be a weird MRA somewhere else". They must see discussing paternity testing as Red pill/incel.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates24/09/24 03:29 PM
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That sub doesn't give a fuck about men. Here's a comment chain where they removed my comment supporting an actual victim male of sexual assault. They removed several more of my comments there (which were all upvoted and generating good discussion) and banned me for being a "weird MRA". https://www.reveddit.com/v/MensLib/comments/1ef0ew4/how\_common\_are\_false\_accusations\_really/lfk53go/?context=3&add\_user=googitygig...new.all.t1\_lfihcfj..#t1\_lfk53go
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates24/09/24 02:52 AM
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Here in Ireland, a father's rights to his children are dependent on him being married to his kids mother. Mums are automatically awarded full custodial rights irrespective of marital status. Dad's here are not entitled to even to see their children and are forced to go to court to obtain basic rights.
/r/MensRights14/09/24 02:46 PM
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There was a poll done here not too long ago and this sub is actually left leaning overall. It's one of the few places on this site where people from opposing sides of the political spectrum are actually allowed to talk to eachother. I'm left leaning and I've been banned by several of the mainstream subs for not being left enough. It may seem right leaning in comparison to the rest of Reddit.
/r/MensRights11/09/24 06:55 PM
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Welcome to the club https://youtu.be/1bNRPdCvTyo?si=N4OA6N_6yzkxOxl4
/r/MensRights06/09/24 12:11 AM
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Soy is itself a buzz word.
/r/MensRights02/09/24 08:09 AM
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It's honestly really sad. The vast majority of women and men are just normal people trying to find love and get by in a difficult world. The rhetoric perpetuated by these types lacks all nuance and just furthers the gender divide.
/r/MensRights22/08/24 11:19 AM
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Welcome to the club. https://youtu.be/1bNRPdCvTyo?si=4GOjiZy11x7O718x
/r/MensRights22/08/24 11:10 AM
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Common sense is banned in many subs
/r/MensRights22/08/24 11:08 AM
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How do you define patriarchy? "Outdated Gendered Expectations are what Is discussed when the Term "Tóxic Masculinity" is thrown around." Yes, but specifically only those where it's men holding outdated views. Whereas outdated gendered expectations is a gender-neutral term. Now compare how often you hear about "toxic femininity" in feminist spaces in comparison to "toxic masculinity". Yes it's not mainstream and I can tell you're arguing in good faith but you're by far in the minority unfortunate…
/r/MensRights13/08/24 11:26 PM
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"Bell Hooks for example uses this lens to see where the patriarchy fails and harms boys and men in the book " Is this not just reiterating my point? Patriarchy theory itself lacks nuance. She's blaming "the Patriarchy" instead of blaming society as a whole. It implies that the reason we have a specific issue is because we had men in charge. As opposed to just having a person in charge who held contemporary views of the time. Outdated gendered expectations should be blamed instead of just indirec…
/r/MensRights13/08/24 10:47 PM
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There are plenty of women who care about men's issues. There are also plenty of men who don't care about men's issues. I don't think the issue is a male v female issue at all. I think it's more of an ideological issue. An issue that is compounded by the fact that men don't complain and when they do complain they are more likely to be ignored (by both men and women). Both of these things amplify the other. The main culprits of these issues in my view are 1. Radfems. Who view the world through pat…
/r/MensRights13/08/24 09:20 PM
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You are being so stupid. Talk to a lawyer. The police are not your friends!
/r/MensRights31/07/24 11:56 PM
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Thanks, I'll use that in future myself. I had a post highlighting mod abuse a few years ago that got removed when it hit the front page. Was on its way to the top of r/all and I guess the mods weren't happy being exposed. I wish I had archived the whole thread. https://www.reveddit.com/v/TrueOffMyChest/comments/pslvyw/riamatotalpieceofshit_mods_are_silencing_male/
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates11/07/24 07:59 PM
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That echo chamber was artificially built by the mods of r/ comics. Comments supporting the misandrist op were left up and a huge amount of comments with justified criticisms were deleted.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates11/07/24 07:46 PM
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The admins are complicit with blatant abuse of men and boys on this platform. They selectively enforce their own rules to remove material which they don't personally like. They threaten mods who don't enforce their rules with sub removal for not following the "mod guidelines". On the other hand, they allow disgusting comments (like the one op reported) to remain. If the content aligns with the admins own political beliefs, they will excuse the mods of that sub and say the "mod guidelines" are on…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates11/07/24 07:42 PM
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Just curious, have you contacted any of your representatives yet? If not, what's stopping you? You can do that without going public.
/r/MensRights07/07/24 09:32 PM
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Same man, but it'll only get worse if we stay silent. And it very obviously has been getting worse imo. Whether it's worth putting your safety at risk is for the individual to decide. And it's understandable if people want to stay anonymous. You can help by donating to mens rights orgs. You could email your local representatives. But do something! However, being brave enough to speak your mind and show your face will always go further. It's why I admire people like thetinmen so much.
/r/MensRights07/07/24 09:15 PM
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"Political activists won't support the MRM until it benefits their agenda in any certain way which feminism does and has been doing for decades." This is exactly my point.
/r/MensRights07/07/24 01:59 PM
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Yes, that's exactly my point. We need to make it desirable for politicians to back the cause. This is what women's rights activists have done and they also faced heavy backlash initially. From both men and women. And they still back women's issues even though women already have equality because doing so still gets them votes. We need more people like Erin Pizzey and Earl Silverman to speak up and take action. That's what will bring about change.
/r/MensRights07/07/24 12:42 PM
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We are not great at pushing for mens rights in an organised effort in the real world. Essentially, we need to be more annoying and less afraid of rocking the boat and facing public disapproval. Ultimately, that's what it's gonna take and the sooner the better. That's what brings about change. Complaining online in subs like this where most people already agree with us won't get us very far. I would hazard a guess that a large proportion of the users of this sub have never even emailed their loca…
/r/MensRights07/07/24 12:17 PM
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No I understand you're coming from a good place. It's refreshing to see and thanks for taking the time to look into it. The reason I used that specific example was because i have personal experience with it. I'm Irish and here dad's have zero automatic rights to their kids Their rights depend on them being in a relationship with their kids mum. So when my son was born, I had no rights to see him or have any say in his life. Whether that be where he lives, his name, where he'd go to school. The o…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates23/06/24 04:27 PM
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I think you're missing a lot of nuance. It's not so black and white. People aren't good or ghoul and that kind of attitude only shuts down any hope of discourse and furthers the right/left divide. I also wouldn't be supercritical of those who are unaware through no fault of their own. However a significant proportion of feminists (especially those who get involved politically and bring about/hinder change) are fully aware of what they're doing.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/06/24 10:25 PM
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I agree with you that male spaces can be overly critical of women. I also think the extent of this tends to be overblown. It's important to note that criticism of feminism is not criticism of women. Although many seem to view it that way. I've been called a woman hater by feminists simply for criticising the movement. I don't think it's possible to achieve achieve true equality without holding to account those who often lobby against equality. In my experience, these folk tend to be tradcons who…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/06/24 12:38 PM
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You're completely right. Id be much more critical of male feminists than female feminists. Males should at least have a rudimentary understanding of the difficulties of being a boy/man. Whereas women could be excused for their ignorance to an extent. So much so that i'd question the intentions of male feminists. In my experience, they often follow that cause because they think it serves their own interests.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates19/06/24 11:11 PM
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You said you don't entirely see the point of the existence of the men's rights movement. I'm saying you can voice that opinion but I think it's wrong. If you went into a feminist subs and said, I don't entirely see the point of women's rights you'd get banned and the comments would be much worse than here. I'm not indifferent to your opinion and nor did I say I was. So to be clear, I think your opinion is stupid. Yes, you're downvoted because people do not think your opinion contributes to this …
/r/MensRights02/06/24 01:18 PM
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The difference is you're allowed to post your views here. However wrong you may be, you're still entitled to your opinion. Now if you were to make your initial about women's rights in the feminist subs, you'd be reported for hate speech and banned by the mods.
/r/MensRights02/06/24 10:49 AM
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To be fair, they don't cheer it on. They just ignore it and pretend only men do these things.
/r/MensRights04/05/24 07:09 PM
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What is going on? There's literally a couple of these cases every week posted here. I don't doubt that this has always been happening but in the past a lot of these cases were swept under the carpet.
/r/MensRights04/05/24 07:08 PM
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Really disappointed to see a post like this here. It's exactly the type of post one would see on TwoX with the genders reversed. I get your need to vent but you can do so without resorting to blatant sexism like those in the feminist spaces do. We need to be better than that. Women are privileged yes. Dating as a man sucks yes. There are awful women yes. But women are not awful. They're good and bad just like men are.
/r/MensRights18/04/24 02:05 PM
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You refer to those issues as if they're exclusive to fgm. Why can they not be compared? The most common form of mgm (foreskin removal) is analogus to clitoral hood removal. And functionally similar to removal of the labia. Yet these forms of fgm are still banned yet mgm is not. I agree that the most severe forms of fgm are probably worse, but the laws don't make that distinction. All fgm is considered immoral whereas this is not the case with mgm. I'm not mad at you. I'm mad at feminism and the …
/r/MensRights11/04/24 08:58 PM
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Can you provide any evidence of mra groups having any real world influence in opposing equality? Because there is plenty of evidence of feminist groups doing this.
/r/MensRights11/04/24 07:41 PM
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Ask yourself why do you think it is you've never thought of that before. Even though mgm is likely more common in the country you live in than fgm. Could it possibly be that the circles you've spent your time in thus far considers genital mutilation worse for one gender than it does the other? If the answer to this is yes, then is that movement truly egalitarian?
/r/MensRights11/04/24 07:31 PM
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Nah, she seems quite reasonable so far and she's being respectful. Sure she's in the minority but I don't think it's fair to tar her with the same brush.
/r/MensRights11/04/24 07:23 PM
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How would you possibly implement this though? In the vast majority of cases the window for a safe abortion would be over by the time one could legally prove rape. It would also likely lead to an increase in false rape allegations if claiming so was the only way one could avail of abortion.
/r/MensRights10/04/24 12:18 AM
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I think this is a step back. Abortion should be available.
/r/MensRights10/04/24 12:08 AM
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The tinmen account had a good post on this the other day. He highlighted how 80% of the top pianists are male and listed a litany of articles complaining about the sexist gender gap. Then he pointed out how 75% of the top viola players are female but no articles or uproar about this gender gap. And nor should there be because it's absolutely fine. It's a really good example of the hypocrisy embedded in western society.
/r/MensRights09/04/24 12:21 AM
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Feminists only really tend to talk about male SA from a feminist point of view. Ie, they blame patriarchy or toxic masculinity. Instead of looking at the root causes. If you hung around this sub you'll see plenty of people here talk about male SA victims. If you view some of the top posts here from the last month even you'll see people highlight boys abuse by adult women and the discrepancy in which both these boys are treated in comparison to girl victims and these women are treated in comparis…
/r/MensRights03/04/24 12:28 AM
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Yes, it's a huge problem and one of the reasons male victims of sexual assault hardly ever come forward. A lot of them don't even understand they've been a victim of SA in the first place. I think SA probably affects women more overall but it's way closer to equal than feminists would have you believe from their reporting. The TV show "A Teacher" explores this topic really well.
/r/MensRights02/04/24 01:45 PM
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Nothing. The term is both unhelpful and harmful. The issue is pressure to meet unnecessarially gendered expectations. These expecttions are enforced by and on both genders. With the problem being society as a whole is more focused on addressing gendered expectations that negatively affect females way more than those which negatively affect males. A certain ilk of people blame the former on "the patriarchy" and the latter on "toxic masculinity". They do this because either way men are completely …
/r/MensRights01/04/24 02:56 PM
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It's nuanced. The majority of individuals who describe themselves as feminists absolutely do not hate men. Yet the movement as a whole, especially those in positions of influence have an overall view of woman good, man bad. So while I think most feminists are normal people, some good and some bad, the movement itself is toxic. Far more interested in painting men as oppressors and women as victims than they are in actually addressing the root causes of discrimination. And not at all interested in…
/r/MensRights01/04/24 11:12 AM
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You speak as if your opinion on women not caring about men is fact without providing any evidence to back it up yourself. Society as a whole doesn't care about men. The problem is not with women specifically. The vast majority of women are decent people just like the vast majority of men. The problem is that mens issues have historically been overlooked by both men and women in favour of focusing on womens issues. Ops post is just another example of this. There are plenty of women out there who …
/r/MensRights21/08/23 11:13 PM
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Thanks. That's very disappointing to see but not surprising at all sadly. It perfectly highlights how in general the world doesn't care about men's issues.
/r/MensRights20/07/23 08:56 PM
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In the grand scheme of feminism, these are fringe issues. Transgender people and sex workers are an extreme minority of women. I would say their main issues are women's education, women's employment/pay and violence against women. There will always be drama and significant disagreement within any movement as big as feminism. This hasn't stopped them from getting major legislative changes through the door relating to the main issues I mentioned above. Often this legislation is non egalitarian but…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/07/23 05:50 PM
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I think this is a case where both of you 2 were pleading your case while on the defensive. So you had your backs up and it's hard to have any effective communication when this is the case. It must have been a real kick in the teeth putting that work in to moderate this sub when the other mods weren't doing it, then when you finished the job being booted out. Conversely, it must also be fair annoying to the other mods having you criticise them so bluntly. Criticism is not necessarily bad but it m…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/07/23 04:44 PM
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That's why I specified "for the most part!" Even with the likes of the TERF war as you put it, they generally agree on their main issues and are successful at lobbying Governments to enact/reject policy change when it benefits women.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/07/23 03:47 PM
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Yes, before he got banned. What questions in the comments are you referring to?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/07/23 03:08 PM
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When did P & R make fun of mens rights?
/r/MensRights20/07/23 02:47 PM
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They've banned him. He obviously can't respond to comments. He edited his comment to respond to you.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/07/23 02:31 PM
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He made it very clear that he thinks this sub is badly moderated. It's precisely because he does care about this sub that he wants different mods. He is clearly riled up but I think this is because he genuinely cares and is not "ego driven" as you put it. I think he seems very impatient with his messages from the screenshots above and he should have used better and more respectful phrasing. He also should not have been so dismissive of the mods who actually built this place. I don't think it's a…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/07/23 02:26 PM
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There has been enough schisms within the male advocacy space. Even the left vs right divide is bad enough. We don't need a left vs left divide too. One things feminists do well is unite and have each others backs (for the most part). When it comes to policy advocacy, strength in numbers is more important than the policy proposals themselves. Governments will never take mens rights seriously if we're a bunch of small groups who can't even agree with each other.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/07/23 02:14 PM
2

When you bring this up a lot of times will try to argue these aren't true feminists. As if NOW doesn't have half a million paid members.
/r/MensRights07/05/23 01:54 PM
2

Can you tell me more about GamerGate and MetalGate? Never heard of them
/r/MensRights06/05/23 09:48 PM
5

I call myself tradwife because I let my man lead and I am under his rule. I don't agree with this personally but if that's what works for you and your relationship and you're happy then more power to you.
/r/MensRights06/05/23 09:43 PM
1

Neither do I but this video was still absolutely fantastic. Thanks for posting
/r/MensRights06/05/23 09:41 PM
7

Seriously, I know it's frustrating but women like this are in the minority. Your gender is not pathetic. It has its pros and cons just like mine does. The problem is my gender has less rights and protections than your gender. Especially so if the perpetrator is someone of your gender. That's not the fault of just women, it's also the fault of men who enable them. Like statistically, both of those police officers are likely male. They are also at fault for shit like this. It's a wider societal is…
/r/MensRights06/05/23 07:48 PM
3

Simply not true. They tend to be more the trad-con white knight type. At least in the US anyway. And I don't know about Austria specifically but our police (the Gardai) would definitely be right of the general public here in Ireland too.
/r/MensRights06/05/23 07:38 PM
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It's a societal problem, the media are just a byproduct. People (both men and women) tend to automatically assume the man is guilty even at a local level or when the media does not get involved.
/r/MensRights29/04/23 12:29 AM
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Here in Ireland, if the parents are unmarried women literally are entitled to sole custody. This is what happened in my case. It's blatant discrimination.
/r/MensRights17/04/23 01:12 PM
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Show me an example then. I think people go into that sub with a nonobjective point of view and put their own bias onto comments which are fine if looked at objectively. For example, they will see criticism of feminism as a criticism of women when feminism and women are distinctly different. literally in our mission statement that we support their cause for men Whose mission statement? I'm worried we're full of MRAs in here instead of leftie male advocates It's possible to be both.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates05/04/23 12:27 PM
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Link me even just one post there that is overrun with violent misogyny.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates05/04/23 05:40 AM
10

MGTOW was banned because the moderators failed to deal with the influx of new users from the r/incel sub after it was banned. MGTOW was initially quite wholesome and supportive but it became full of vitriol and the moderators were either unwilling or more likely unable to control it. But I completely agree with you. It highlights the reddit admins double standards that it was banned and yet 2x remains.
/r/MensRights31/03/23 11:15 PM
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I agree with you. It's stupid to assume she's a feminist just because she has pink hair. We don't know her motive. The issue is society and the court system are much more likely to excuse women because of their mental health issues than they are men.
/r/MensRights31/03/23 10:52 PM
1

Because Mr. Hitchens, it's a poor example given the context. Both your spaghetti monster and ability to fly are absurd examples that are by default impossible to prove. Whereas false accusations are not. Please tell me how Justin would go about proving a false accusation. What are the typical routes one would take to prove a false accusation? I'm not a lawyer and I don't know his case. But if he had a text or something from her saying "I'm gonna ruin your life" or a recording of her saying "Who'…
/r/MensRights28/03/23 07:40 PM
1

So the problem with your argument is that it is impossible to "Substantiate a claim of false argument" Simply not true. People have been convicted of false accusations in the past. And it is for this reason that we have the concept of burden of proof. Yes, and this burden of should apply to everyone. Including those who claim the accusation is false. The accuser must be able to substantiate claim, without which, their claim must be deemed untrue This is simply not how the law works. It's why peo…
/r/MensRights28/03/23 07:00 PM
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or 3. She truthfully accused him but did not have enough evidence to support her accusation. We simply don't know. She had her opportunity to substantiate her claims and couldn't. He now has an opportunity to substantiate his claims of false accusations. He has not yet done this.
/r/MensRights28/03/23 06:35 PM
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100%. The US gun culture is a massive contributing factor. I'm Irish and our police don't even carry guns. But if Sandy Hook didn't cause the US to wake up then I don't think anything will. So the only way I can see of improving the problem seeing as they won't give up their guns is to treat it at its source.
/r/MensRights28/03/23 10:38 AM
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Who says anything about amounts? We are talking about this specific case and it's what is happening to this woman. There is no way you can deny that. Surely if it's wrong to do it to a man it's wrong to do it to a woman? If you say otherwise you're a hypocrite.
/r/MensRights28/03/23 08:10 AM
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This is what I like about this sub. Mass shootings are overwhelmingly committed by males. But rather than just dismiss it as them all being incels or outcasts, the discussion here revolves around the actual root cause. That is the hopelessness and lack of purpose so many men feel which leads them down such a dark path. It's a societal issue created by the way many men are treated by women and other men. Addressing the root cause is what will actually fix the problem and save lives.
/r/MensRights28/03/23 08:00 AM
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rips to shreds potentially innocent men Which is exactly what this sub is doing to a potentially innocent woman...
/r/MensRights28/03/23 04:39 AM
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Your position would be the same as trying to provide tax relief for the rich. This makes no sense. Care to explain how? Your position is akin to assuming that because someone is rich, they earned their money illegaly. Even without evidence of illegality. Also sueing for defamation is possible but horribly not worth it or even cost effective/ effective. Much less so for poor people. JR is a multi-millionaire. Either way. It's the only way to prove he was defamed. It's stupid to assume she's lying…
/r/MensRights27/03/23 08:36 PM
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So the way to combat the problem of false allegations against men is to make false allegations against women? Do people genuinely not see the hypocrisy here?
/r/MensRights27/03/23 07:44 PM
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I'm saying people shouldn't be treated as guilty without evidence. Fuck me right. Get a grip!
/r/MensRights27/03/23 07:37 PM
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Yeah it's frustrating. All I said was we shouldn't treat her as guilty without evidence to prove she is. That's exactly what the "woke" mob does all the time to innocent men. I don't care about the downvotes per se but I do care about what it says about the general attitude of this sub. I thought we were better than that.
/r/MensRights27/03/23 07:36 PM
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You think the DA would drop a high-profile case like this without absolute proof that he was innocent? Yes I do because that's exactly how the court system works. He does not have to prove his innocence, they have to prove his guilt. If they can't, it's dropped. Also they literally said this is what happened. They worded it in such a way to make it look like they weren’t sent on a wild goose chase by some insane ex, wasting taxpayers resources. You have no way of knowing if any of what you just …
/r/MensRights23/03/23 04:07 PM
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It was wrong when people treated Justin Roiland as if he was guilty without proof and it would be just as wrong to treat this woman as if she's guilty of false allegations without proof. Be better than them. Edit: Also he can sue for defemation so that's a complete lie. That's exactly what Johnny Depp did and it cleared his name. Even though JD likely won't see a penny of what he's due, it was still worth it to prove what happened and show her guilt.
/r/MensRights23/03/23 02:50 PM
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Thanks bud :)
/r/MenSupportMen11/03/23 01:41 AM
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Not great today. Hard to get out of bed. Really struggling with college work and I've a tendency to bury my head in the sand and avoid doing the work I should be doing when i get this anxious. My kid's mum and I (separated) are in a disagreement over my sons schooling too. She wants to send him to school in September whereas I'd prefer if he does another year of preschool as he's quite small still. Ultimately she'll probably get to decide as she's primary carer. I'd also like to send him to scho…
/r/MenSupportMen10/03/23 04:20 PM
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Is that true? I never heard of her doing that but that's fucked ifit's true. I don't think we should begrudge her for her trobled relationships though.
/r/MensRights10/03/23 01:13 PM
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I mean the UK has about 5-panel weekly shows and she does the circuit of them all. She's probably in the top 5-10 "comedians" with the most air time in the UK. Certainly not obscure.
/r/MensRights10/03/23 01:08 PM
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I'm no fan of her but I don't get why the poster above is downvoted for pointing out that she's not obscure in the UK. The world does not consist only of America. Also, can we not use that word as an insult for people who are clearly not even incels. That's what the feminists do.
/r/MensRights10/03/23 01:06 PM
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Lose the overly defensive attitude and re-read my comment. You intentionally put innocent people's lives at risk, not just their feelings.
/r/MensRights01/03/23 08:25 PM
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Hard truth time. I'm not going to mollycoddle you just because you're suicidal. What you're doing is incredibly selfish. The people driving those cars don't owe you anything. They don't have to be there for you. You deliberately put the lives of other people at risk during your attempts. The driver of those cars could also die in a traffic collision. Those drivers could have kids in their cars. If they hit you then that would be incredibly traumatic. I get it. Life can be shit but it doesn't giv…
/r/MensRights01/03/23 06:49 AM
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You are average height though, not short. This guy was 5'2".
/r/MensRights08/01/23 02:02 PM
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It should not be the removal of responsibility. It should be the introduction of choice of responsibility! Whether that responsibility refers to child custody, child support or defending your country... There are so many areas men are denied choice purely because they're men.
/r/MensRights02/01/23 05:03 PM
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I know it's hard man. I'm in a similar boat. Although I was never married to my kids mum but still had to go through the courts and fight for the most basic of parental rights. Can I ask where you told your story? Did you try bring it to the attention of higher authorities like this guy? I'm sorry you've had to deal with all that shit. I find people do generally care on an individual level. But not enough to change things on a systemic level. If we have more dads speaking up I think that will he…
/r/MensRights02/01/23 05:00 PM
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Evidence doesn't matter when the system is broken. This dad is a real activist. It's through people like him that tell their stories in an honest and heartfelt manner that will lead to change.
/r/MensRights02/01/23 03:58 PM
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If anyone's trolling it's you. Again, my comment history where I've been speaking for years about men's issues is open for you to view. So after you take a second to grow the fuck up I'd encourage you to have a look.
/r/MensRights28/12/22 08:31 PM
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There are many reasons but I hinted at the main one in my comment. Society in general (including men) do not realise the seriousness of men's issues. And when they are brought up, there's a tendency to blame men for their own problems. People will scream that it's because of "toxic masculinity" or "patriarchy". So because society in general thinks women have it tougher, men's issues are forced into the back seat and womens issues take precedence.
/r/MensRights28/12/22 01:32 PM
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Is that you Andrew?
/r/MensRights28/12/22 11:11 AM
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You concern troll feminists Lol, I'm not a feminist. Have a look at my comment history ya fool. If people see racist or sexist comments towards women they absolutely do take us less seriously. Implying that the biggest concern women in these countries have is wearing bedsheets is both of those things.
/r/MensRights28/12/22 07:22 AM
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I know man. It's very frustrating. But we've no other choice. Inaccurate statements or things said in anger only sets men's rights back as it gives those who don't like us more ammo to attack. Even if that anger's justified. We gotta be composed, on the ball and hold ourselves accountable because there are always the vultures hovering over this sub just looking for an excuse to get us banned.
/r/MensRights28/12/22 01:18 AM
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I agree with you completely. I hate the term toxic masculinity. It is a real thing however the term has been hijacked by certain groups who use it as a way to blame men for men's issues. The reality is though, if we're to enact any meaningful change we have to hold ourselves to a higher standard than them. They can get away with making those statements because of how society is geared. We can't. It's not right but it's how things are. Men's issues will never get the attention they deserve unless…
/r/MensRights28/12/22 01:05 AM
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You're the one comparing those atrocities to "bed sheets" but nobody is equating them. You realise the men wear what you call "bed sheets" in these countries too. My point is you're intentionally downplaying the issues these women and girls face with your bedsheet comment as if this is all they care about when in reality they also face horrible oppression. Even in your reply, you ignore the fact people in those countries are arguing that women should not be educated and that girls should be sold…
/r/MensRights28/12/22 12:58 AM
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Saying "bed sheets" is super culturally insensitive and tone deaf. For example, I seen a video on another sub today about a Lebanese father arguing that his 9 year old daughter is ready for marriage and sex because she is "ripe" due to her going through puberty. In Iran women are now banned from attending college. Women in these countries face genuinely horrendous oppression and making light of it by joking about them complaining about "bed sheets" is one of the reasons people don't take us seri…
/r/MensRights28/12/22 12:32 AM
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No, there is definitely plenty of areas where women are treated worse. Just as there are plenty of areas men are treated worse. I don't think anyone playing the "we have it worse" card does any good to society. It especially harms the men's rights community as people in general do not know the seriousness of the issues men face. Saying we have it worse causes the vast majority of people to clam up and refuse to listen to our problems. In our head what we're saying is "men have serious issues whi…
/r/MensRights28/12/22 12:22 AM
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No I've definitely seen plenty of misogyny. I'd put it on par with misandry. Not that it's a competition. The way I see it is misogyny is over-acknowledged by society where misandry is under-acknowledged.
/r/MensRights06/12/22 01:00 AM
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No, it's very possible many women mean it when they say they intend to abort should a child be conceived but find it difficult to go through with an abortion once actually pregnant. And that's a completely understandable feeling. Women should be entitled to change their mind. What they should not be entitled to do is to force a man into parental responsibility against his will.
/r/MensRights29/11/22 09:00 PM
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Don't feed the trolls
/r/MensRights29/10/22 11:50 AM
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You came here looking for support. If you're just gonna dismisse everyone's input here then why bother posting in the first place. At least a small part of you wants to improve your life, otherwise you wouldn't have posted in the first place. The above advice gives you a chance of improving your situation whereas sitting at home scratching your balls all day will only lead to your situation worsening. You can be content in life but it will take consistent effort. And yes, sometimes putting in th…
/r/MenSupportMen26/09/22 12:40 PM
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You need to get a job my friend. Any job that will keep you busy with set hours during daytime. Even if it's minimum wage. It will help establish a routine and get you out of the house and away from a screen/book/your own head. I would also recommend specific therapy to help combat your negative self talk. Don't fuck about. It will take effort but do these things. Nobody else is gonna fix your life for you.
/r/MenSupportMen23/09/22 11:24 PM
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Because there are plenty of women out there with empathy. You should try it sometime.
/r/MensRights21/08/22 11:35 AM
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And Andrew Tate is a special case as he happens to be both.
/r/MensRights19/08/22 06:32 PM
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I agree. Andrew Tate and his ilk probably hold progress in men's rights back more than just about any other type of person.
/r/MensRights19/08/22 06:27 PM
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No, they asked how feminism is succeeding. And your points included women dominating over men (twice) and in addition, another of your points included women having improved protections over men. That is not equality.
/r/MensRights18/08/22 01:57 AM
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So feminism wins when women dominate over men? I thought it was supposed to be about equality?
/r/MensRights18/08/22 12:34 AM
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I mean, there's a sub designed to dismantle men's rights too. Several in fact. So using your own logic, it's winning too... baby.
/r/MensRights18/08/22 12:31 AM
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Hey man, it's definitely not too late. Are you back living in the "rough" area where you don't like the people? If so you should move. You are young and now is the time to do it. Do you have a job? If not then get one. Any job at all that forces you to get out of the house and interact with other people. Would you be able to go back to Uni? If so I'd advise joining some clubs and societies. Or if uni isn't an option, try the meetup app to meet some people with interests similar to yours. Keep up…
/r/MenSupportMen04/08/22 09:04 PM
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Looks like a Tube ad in London.
/r/EverydayMisandry22/07/22 12:40 PM
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This is genuinely the best way to combat this. Hold these companies accountable under the public eye. Also, if anyone here is reading this and uses EE as their phone/internet service provider, cancel your account and just as importantly let them know the reason you're cancelling. Hit em where it hurts. All these companies care about is their bottom line. Money.
/r/MensRights21/07/22 10:51 PM
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Definitely. If there's not one in your area then look about starting one. Women's groups are much more organised than we are which is one if the reasons they have so much influence.
/r/MensRights20/07/22 01:14 PM
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By putting pressure on lawmakers, non profits and politicians. Especially at the local level It'll take lots of baby steps and then eventually when the movement for equality builds up momentum larger motions will have a higher likelihood of passing. Giving out on Reddit is easy and cathartic but won't get us anywhere. It takes real world activism to enact change.
/r/MensRights20/07/22 12:47 PM
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Rape by the colloquial definition by a woman IS still a crime. It's just not a crime called rape. Yes, I know she can't be legally called a rapist. But she can still be prosecuted becuse it is Illegal. The guy above said it was legal. That is false.
/r/EverydayMisandry17/07/22 06:38 PM
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He didn't say that. He said it was legal for a woman to rape a man. That's not true. She can't be charged with rape but she will be charged with SA. So the act itself still illegal but they will get away with less punishment. That's exactly my point.
/r/EverydayMisandry17/07/22 05:59 PM
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Dude, stop overthinking it. If you wanna knit then knit.
/r/MensRights16/07/22 03:54 AM
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Same. The kid looks so happy and kind in that photo. Hard to look at it with the knowledge of what his mum done to him.
/r/MensRights15/07/22 09:32 PM
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There's also a gap between being courteous/respectful and faking a smile. Smiling helps but is not necessary. Op is not entitled to tell someone else what to do.
/r/MensRights15/07/22 01:16 AM
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This fake smile, fake friendliness, "have a nice day" thing is not necessary and shouldn't be forced. And honestly, as a non American it's very strange to worness. An employee could be having a shitty day. Being courteous is still expected but they don't have to smile if they don't want to.
/r/MensRights15/07/22 01:12 AM
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I have a kid with her so I'll never fully get away as I couldn't ever leave him but at least we're not seeing eachother. But I empathise with that fella. When you're in a certain mindset you tend to not see all the red flags waving right in front of your face.
/r/MensRights13/07/22 09:12 PM
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Some men put women on a pedestal. I kept seeing a woman I shouldn't have for far too long because I had such low self esteem at the time I thought I wouldn't get anyone better. Boy was I wrong. Women are no better or worse than us and a lot of men still need to realise that.
/r/MensRights13/07/22 08:53 PM
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No, more men are born than women basically everywhere. Men typically die earlier than women so our genes have literally evolved to compensate for that.
/r/MensRights13/07/22 03:57 AM
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Dude, stop posting on Reddit, get a lawyer and sue them if they've wronged you. And stop rambling semi coherently about the incident on social media. You think you're defending yourself when in reality you're only giving them more ammo to use against you. The first thing a lawyer will advise you to do is delete all your posts, which you should do immediately.
/r/MensRights13/07/22 03:51 AM
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It's the same here on Reddit.
/r/MensRights12/07/22 07:51 PM
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Fair play. This is exactly the kind of thing which leads to progress. Pressure on government and government funded agencies to make sure men and boys are not forgotten about.
/r/MensRights12/07/22 07:50 PM
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Because of her past and the way men and women are portrayed, it doesn't surprise me she feels this way. But sexism is never justified. And she is sexist. Be open and honest. Tell her you don't want to be in a relationship with a sexist. If she realises she has a problem, she may be able to confront her bigotry and fix it. Therapy would be a start. If you don't think she'll admit she has a problem or if she digs her heels in and refuses to fix her problem, then end the relationship.
/r/MensRights12/07/22 03:07 PM
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Very true. People here are happy to give out on anonymous boards like this one. But how many here are actually doing anything that will better the situation. Are users here writing to your local government officials? If you're in the US are you actually voting for people who care about mens issues or do you just vote red or blue everytime? One thing we have to give feminists massive credit for is that they're organised and they show up in numbers. We should be doing the same.
/r/MensRights11/07/22 10:00 PM
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Lads, can we stop downvoting people for asking completely rational questions like this one.
/r/MensRights10/07/22 02:28 PM
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That's fair. Either way, hope you're doing ok now man. All the best!
/r/MensRights07/07/22 08:14 PM
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Someone posted in this sub about how intolerant they feel feminists are of men. Op replied "That's why we have the second amendment". It could easily be interpreted as threatening violence. It was a deserved ban imo.
/r/MensRights07/07/22 08:07 PM
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I'm sorry you went through that as a child and sorry those mods treated you like shit for it. Make a post about this somewhere with screenshots. That's just horrible behaviour from the mods.
/r/MensRights07/07/22 07:56 PM
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You need to work on the way you phrase your beliefs. People will never take you seriously otherwise.
/r/MensRights05/07/22 07:25 PM
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It's not legal. The issue is that it's not legally considered rape. It is still considered sexual assault and therefore illegal. The wider issue is that sexual assault by females is not taken as seriously as sexual assault by males. This results in less men realising they have been assaulted, reporting their assault, securing a conviction of their assaulter and when the assaulter is convicted they generally receive more lenient convictions than a male would.
/r/EverydayMisandry05/07/22 02:23 PM
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This is why the abortions only in cases of rape will never work. And tbh, if a woman decides she doesn't want to go through with the pregnancy (within a reasonable time limit) and the only way she can get a safe abortion is to lie and say she was raped I wouldn't even blame her for lying. Just as long as she doesn't name someone and ruin his life. Unfortunately, if women are making this decision under pressure and from a place of emotional vulnerability, some will name innocent men. The only way…
/r/MensRights05/07/22 12:13 PM
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Babies have been born and survived at 22 weeks. I'm pro choice but I'm very uncomfortable with aborting when the baby has a chance of surviving outside the womb. Abortions up until birth when a healthy baby is essentially fully developed are abhorrent and akin to murder in my eyes. It's hard to gauge when a fetus develops "personhood" but I think this is where we should draw the line. Imo this is somewhere between the 12-18 week period. I don't think abortions should be allowed before then. Also…
/r/MensRights05/07/22 12:05 PM
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You are just amazing. Both your tenacity and your ability to self-reflect. Thank you for the hard work you're putting in. I know you'll face road-blocks and blowback but don't get discouraged. Progress is frustratingly slow but what you're doing makes a real difference.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates02/07/22 07:27 PM
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You can lol all you want. Won't hide the fact you didn't provide any examples.
/r/MensRights26/06/22 02:40 PM
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Can you provide any examples? I think this sub and the mod team generally do a good job of letting sexists know they're not welcome here. Same goes for trolls btw 😉
/r/MensRights26/06/22 02:30 PM
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Wow, it's actually really refreshing seeing her confront her beliefs. This isn't the norm in my experience. usually they reply with insults. Kudos to that woman.
/r/MensRights25/06/22 11:49 AM
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There are plenty of Feminists who don't believe that. This is one of the criticisms I have of feminism. There is no general consensus on what feminism stands for and then if you press them on this they'll just argue, "well those ones that disagree with my personal view aren't real feminists".
/r/MensRights23/06/22 05:14 PM
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I got banned from r/whitepeopletwitter for pointing this out. The entire thread was just full of people blaming men. I mentioned that women were only slightly less likely than men to be pro-life. And that the most vocal pro-lifers tend to be women. Picture the ones standing outside abortion clinics harassing service users. Almost always the majority are women. Even mentioned that I'm pro-choice myself but my comment had "incel energy'" according to the power mod.
/r/MensRights12/06/22 05:18 AM
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Yes, and you won't see feminists campaign for these things because as is, women have legal privilege in these areas. And feminists have made it very clear they are perfectly ok with privelege when it benefits women. You've seen nothing because feminists ignore these issues and pretend they don't happen. If anyone were to bring these issues up in the feminist subs the comment gets removed and the user is banned. Nobody here has a problem with feminists working to solve women's issues. That is nob…
/r/MensRights10/06/22 12:49 AM
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You seem to be conflating blaming feminism with blaming women. Remember, most women are not feminists. So it's disingenuous to do that. I see most people here blame trad cons and feminists for the draft. I'd suspect most people in this sub are against the draft too. I would put the the blame mostly on the trad cons for this but it's not like feminism is completely faultless. Several prominent feminist orgs campaigned against making the draft gender neutral. As for male sexual assault, feminism i…
/r/MensRights10/06/22 12:11 AM
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Honestly, I don't see much of that at all. Do you have any examples?
/r/MensRights09/06/22 11:36 PM
2

I'd have my criticisms of the UN but I wouldn't say it's useless. They have heavy influence politically and financially. Anyway, thanks for coming here and being so civil. It's really refreshing to see 🙂
/r/MensRights09/06/22 11:20 PM
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The issue isn't so much that it shares the day with toilet day imo. Iirc, that day was chosen because the man who proposed it wanted to honour his father and I think it was his dad's bday. The greater issue is that the UN refuses to recognise it. As does society in general. Especially in comparison to Women's Day. It's a good representation of how women's issues almost universally take precedence over men's issues.
/r/MensRights09/06/22 11:09 PM
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A big day for equality. Hopefully this will lead to more men feeling comfortable enough to share their stories of abuse. And further down the line, hopefully this will be the first step towards the removal of this carefully constructed narrative by feminist groups that domestic abuse is a gendered issue.
/r/MensRights01/06/22 07:47 PM
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Careful. The majority of single moms are just doing their best. However, I would be critical of single moms who decide to have a kid when the father has made it clear he doesn't want to be a parent as kids generally fare better when they are loved and supported by both parents.
/r/MensRights26/05/22 12:01 PM
0

Well you need guns for school shootings. None of those countries have a gun culture or lax gun laws like in the US.
/r/MensRights26/05/22 11:52 AM
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The point is not that it is the mother's or female teachers who are at fault specifically. But that these boys often grow up without healthy male role models. The fault is partially with the system/matriarcal structure in the majority of homes and schools. Education, parenthood and I'd also add social & mental health services are monopolised by women. Not even in a vindictive way, but moreso because of interest and embedded and outdated gendered roles. We see feminists who claim to be for equali…
/r/MensRights26/05/22 11:48 AM
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Man, you make some good points but your tone is needlessly aggressive. She genuinely seems to mean well, no need to be so coarse.
/r/MensRights25/05/22 09:46 AM
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https://nypost.com/2019/05/09/australian-woman-stabs-man-with-stiletto-in-drunken-assault/?utm_source=url_sitebuttons&utm_medium=site%20buttons&utm_campaign=site%20buttons Here's another. Such an injustiy she only got a $174 fine. If the genders were reversed he'd be locked up.
/r/PussyPassDenied21/05/22 04:41 PM
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Absolutely no need for it. Don't see what he hopes to achieve. Fair enough, he might not find her attractive.She wouldn't be my type either. But he can't say she's objectively not beautiful as I'm sure there are plenty of people who think she is. It seems to me like he's just trying to be controversial for the sake of it.
/r/MensRights20/05/22 01:48 AM
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I didn't go trawling back 6 years that one I just happened to have on hand because I'm used to arguing with misinformed people like yourself. And as I pointed out, 6 years is not long ago considering the pace of change in family law legislation and that these bills only pop up every few years. 6 years is relevant and it was a source which proved what I said. I also gave you a more recent source when you said that one was too old for some reason but still you refuse to acknowledge the problem. I'…
/r/MensRights18/05/22 07:55 PM
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I don't have to go back 6 years. My above comment mentioned another instance from 2019 that you're conveniently ignoring. And they still do the same today. I am denied the same rights to my own kid that his mum has because I'm a man. I've had to take his mum to court a few times every year to steadily increase my access when we should be treated equally from the start. I'm living this inequality right now. Dads where I live (Ireland) literally have zero rights to their own children if they're no…
/r/MensRights18/05/22 07:43 PM
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What's your point? 6 years is recent. Family law is notoriously slow to change. Anyway, they did the same in Kentucky in 2019. A bill which has since passed and has proven to be massively popular among both mums and dads. "Winter 2018- 2019 – Newsletter of the NOW Foundation Family Law Ad Hoc Advisory Committee" I can't link cause I'm on my phone but Google above to view the pdf. You also replied within 30 seconds so you didn't even read that article above. You're just looking for a reason to di…
/r/MensRights18/05/22 07:15 PM
2

Here is just one. https://floridapolitics.com/archives/206474-womens-rights-groups-host-statewide-media-conference-sb-668/ In this example this bill would have given an assumption of equal time sharing. Not even compulsory equality, but an assumption. NOW successfully blocked this because it would have meant less alimony overall for mums because childcare costs are factored into alimony payments. Yknow I'd love to but I don't have time to speak to over 250,000 people so I'll judge the movement b…
/r/MensRights18/05/22 07:06 PM
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I love this. One of my biggest pet peeves is the lack of representation father's get. We've very much always been treated as the secondary parent. We still are treated that way I suppose but seeing things like this genuinely warms my cold dead heart. We're getting there lads. Slowly but surely.
/r/MensRights18/05/22 06:49 PM
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Oh I'm well aware. In fact, the mod I'm referring to is one of those 5. I have got a temporary sitewide ban for "harassment" for even mentioning their name. The admins are complicit too. I've noticed this same mod licking the arse of the admins in some of the mod subs too. It wouldn't surprise me if this power mod is angling for an admin position.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates18/05/22 06:25 PM
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I'm gonna ignore your low brow attempt at an insult and press you go actually try to engage in a constructive conversation. The largest feminist org in the world (NOW) campaigns against equality in family law. And this is just one such organisation. They literally have over half a million members. How is this a few radicals?
/r/MensRights18/05/22 06:18 PM
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Yeah same, the joke is shit. It's low brow "mother in law" type unfunny attempt at humour. Also, if I'm interpreting it correctly, the "worms" part of the caption is just plain racist.
/r/MensRights18/05/22 06:13 PM
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It is about mens rights. Specifically men having the same rights as women in areas where they are denied. Any movement which is anti-egalatatian is our enemy. Feminism is one such movement. I had zero rights to my own kid when he was born because I'm a man. Men's rights activists here are trying to pass bills which would give mums and dads equal parental rights and responsibility. But these bills are heavily opposed by feminist orgs. If feminism actually campaigned for equality I would gladly ca…
/r/MensRights18/05/22 06:10 PM
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If it were only a few radicals we were talking about then it could be ignored. But even mainstream feminism at its core prioritises women over equality and thus, is deserving of criticism.
/r/MensRights18/05/22 06:03 PM
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There's a very obvious attempt on some of the larger subs to control the narrative of discussion. r/offmychest and r/whitepeopletwitter are 2 other ones. There is one particular power mod who has got their teeth into lots of the larger subs and they just ban anyone who comments anything disagreeable with their opinions. They leave zero room for nuance.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates18/05/22 10:42 AM
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Where did you see this?
/r/AntiFeminists13/05/22 05:36 PM
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You need to keep nagging them. Follow up emails every week. Nothing will happen otherwise. Hope you're in a better place nowadays.
/r/MensRights30/04/22 12:48 AM
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Sorry to hear that man. If nobody has told you upfront, this is sexual abuse and you have every right to feel the way you do. You should consider reporting it to the authorities if you feel up to it. Even if nothing comes of it you should at least get it on file.
/r/MensRights30/04/22 12:47 AM
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The Catholic church historically has treated everyone like absolute shit, including women so I'd say fair play to them. I'm Irish and we were essentially a Catholic theocracy for many years so I have absolute disdain for them. Not against individual Catholics, but for the people in power. Look up the "Magdalene Launderies" or the "Tuam babies scandal" for an idea.
/r/AntiFeminists10/04/22 02:30 PM
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The link is not direct. Think of the #MeToo movement. I remember seeing there were men who publicly spoke up on twitter about them being sexually assaulted. There were people in their replies lambasting them saying the #MeToo movement was only for women. There is a tendancy for feminists to deliberately exclude male victim's from the discussion. Male on Female assault is portrayed as worse than Male on Male or Female on Male assault. This has a knock on effect and leads to people being comfortab…
/r/AntiFeminists10/04/22 02:02 PM
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The activity is not trivial. I found it very hard to watch. The monkey clearly thinks if he can't get the cat out it will die and is extremely distressed. It's animal abuse. And they put them animals through that just for some views on the internet. I agree with your overall point about the double standards with the comment in the reply but don't downplay the video as trivial.
/r/AntiFeminists10/04/22 01:46 PM
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You actually make a good point but I think you could have phrased your comment better. It comes across as confrontational and when that happens people get their backs up and won't listen. You thankfully never see anyone upvoting comments saying "I hope a woman gets raped" but it seems ok to say the same about men. At least that sub removed the comment.
/r/AntiFeminists10/04/22 01:36 PM
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No that was in the UK. He's referring to the Aisling Murphy case.
/r/MensRights09/04/22 05:57 PM
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It is unfair. but look, just keep calling out the hypocrisy when you see it in a civil matter. Head up, and try not let it get to you.
/r/AntiFeminists09/04/22 02:42 AM
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Seen a comment on tiktok earlier, some girl said in a video about a confident short guy "you're acting a bit too tall for your height". The comment had like 30k+ likes. Imagine someone said "you're acting a bit too skinny for your weight" about a confident overweight woman. You can bet those same 30k would be the ones up in arms over that for fat shaming. Body shaming is ok just as long as it's directed towards men apparently.
/r/AntiFeminists09/04/22 02:24 AM
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That's a stupid comparison tbf. Just don't bother arguing with them, they're not gonna change their minds.
/r/MensRights09/04/22 12:37 AM
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No. People should have equal chance at being represented.
/r/MensRights07/04/22 10:13 PM
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No you can't look at it both ways. Because your way of looking at it is promoting gender based discrimination. I think people should be treated equally regardless of their gender. I'm sorry you don't feel the same.
/r/MensRights07/04/22 09:50 PM
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Yeah. Like there are numerous ways boys and men can be disadvantaged in education. But he just says "school". He sounds like an edgy 13-year-old who needs to actually speak to some girls/women in real life. I think this sub should stay from the who has it worse argument altogether and just focus on the issues. By and large, everyone is just struggling to get by day to day.
/r/AntiFeminists07/04/22 09:34 PM
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That post is extremely cringeworthy tbf. They're absolutely right to take the piss of it.
/r/AntiFeminists07/04/22 09:29 PM
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But if men fall under 40%, the same applies to them. And this would be unfair too. People should be elected on merit, not their gender. Everyone knows why these laws were brought in. It it to fix the perceived gender discrimination against women in politics. But in this example, only 24% of the candidates who contested the election were women. But they get 40% representation. How is that fair? The reason there are less women in politics is because of the decisions women make. We shouldn't be sho…
/r/MensRights07/04/22 08:37 PM
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Did you read the article? Those women also did not get enough votes to be elected. Logic dictates that were also men who did not get enough votes to get elected but would have received more votes than at least some of those 6 women. But they did not get elected because the additional seats were only for women. So they missed out.
/r/MensRights07/04/22 08:20 PM
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They received more votes than the women, but weren't elected because of the gender quota. So they missed out.
/r/MensRights07/04/22 08:16 PM
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Just because the law has been made by people who have been elected does not mean it's a good one. This law is not to the benefit of everyone. The candidates who missed out on being elected to people that the public deemed less fit for the job can attest to that.
/r/MensRights07/04/22 07:28 PM
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Oh, you're one of those.
/r/MensRights07/04/22 07:10 PM
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Do you usually find rapist's attractive?
/r/MensRights07/04/22 06:58 PM
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Constant texting can definitely be harassment and it's highlighting that abuse isn't always physical. These billboards are great and most importantly for the men's rights movement, they acknowledged that men can be victims too. This is a big step in the right direction and you still find something to complain about.
/r/MensRights05/04/22 05:59 PM
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The reason they do it is because it works. There are plenty of men desperate for female attention. Men need to stop engaging with these exploitative people. I'd include a lot of only fans subscribers in that too.
/r/AntiFeminists05/04/22 12:27 PM
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They're not the same crime though are they? Both punches yes, but vastly different circumstances. One was a punch where the victim was rushed to the hospital immediately and died mere hours later. In that case the punch was clearly the reason for his death. In the other, the woman punched him he fell and was unconscious but didn't need hospital intervention and his injuries were deemed non life-threatening. He then went home, lived his life and died 6 days later and there was no clear correlatio…
/r/MensRights05/04/22 01:27 AM
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"There is evidence from two experts, a pathologist and a neuropathologist, who concluded that your actions did not contribute to his death" Did people here actually read the article? He didn't even have to go to hospital after the punch and fall. It seems like he died of something 6 days after the punch and there's no evidence that his death was related to it. I'll be reserving judgement until I her more.
/r/MensRights05/04/22 01:18 AM
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I tried to get one started the other day. People here are so negative. It's only a bit if fun and would help get a bit of a community going. Would get more people in the discord too where we can talk without the Reddit admins breathing down our necks. It's kind of annoying tbh. People in this sub are happy to rant online but won't actually do anything. Sure if we started one it'd possibly be targeted. But why bit at least try. Edit: I messaged the mods about it too and they didn't even reply.
/r/MensRights04/04/22 02:44 AM
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Why not both?
/r/MensRights04/04/22 02:38 AM
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This sub will also be banned if the mods here don't clamp down heavier on brigading.
/r/AntiFeminists03/04/22 09:45 PM
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No that's a common myth
/r/AntiFeminists03/04/22 04:21 AM
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It depends where you live. They're certainly not neutral in my country.
/r/MensRights02/04/22 03:09 AM
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That's the spirit
/r/MensRights01/04/22 07:59 PM
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Boycott The Sun Newspaper!
/r/MensRights01/04/22 06:11 PM
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Even still. Report it in an email just to get it on record. You don't need a big legal battle over it.
/r/MensRights01/04/22 05:45 PM
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Document all of this.
/r/MensRights01/04/22 05:37 PM
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You have to take this to family court. It's shite but your options are you move on and forget about it or you take action. I thought family court would finish me off too but look, here I am. My main regret is that I didn't go to court sooner.
/r/MensRights01/04/22 05:36 PM
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Nothing to do with virtue. It's representation. Mensrights will never become mainstream without representation. It's also just a bit of fun.
/r/MensRights01/04/22 05:31 PM
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Don't just rant on reddit. Go report it to your principal.
/r/MensRights01/04/22 05:23 PM
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I just did. Make sure to upvote so it gets to the top.
/r/MensRights01/04/22 04:46 PM
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Here is the link to take part I think we should start to establish a black equals sign first and take it from there. I've created this template as a rough guide
/r/MensRights01/04/22 04:31 PM
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We'd need a proper concentrated effort to make a mark. Is there any way the mods can pin this post to the top?
/r/MensRights01/04/22 04:28 PM
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You're completely correct but are being downvoted because people here try to blame every issue on "the left". Twitter and Reddit are both heavily censored and are a direct result of capitalism. Reddit wasn't like this before tencent invested heavily. It's capatalism because they are putting profits ahead of reason.
/r/MensRights01/04/22 02:12 PM
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Seriously, posts like this one is why people don't take the MRA movement seriously. Op loosely touches on a few solid points but it's mostly just incoherent rambling and generalisations.
/r/MensRights01/04/22 01:39 PM
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I hate the term toxic masculinity. The term I prefer is performative masculinity and it's a result of unfair societal expectations placed on men to protect and provide. People are for too quick to cry "toxic masculinity" as it is just another lazy way of blaming men for mens problems.
/r/MensRights29/03/22 05:38 PM
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People here aren't gonna be happy but honestly that's a fair explanation. You're right, we don't need to know her address and it could lead to doxing off-site. So many users, mods and admins hate the mensrights movement and are actively trying to get this sub removed. Give them an inch and they'll take a mile. We can't give them any excuse so it's probably best to err in the side of caution.
/r/MensRights29/03/22 03:05 PM
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It's not ok for them to blanket ban people like that but you did overeact. Be the bigger woman. You thought wrong, there's no freedom of speech on Reddit. It's a private site and they've made it very clear which wide their bread is buttered.
/r/AntiFeminists29/03/22 11:52 AM
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"Maybe I'm thinking too much into it but I associate with the left consciously hating men and the right unconsciously hating men." I think you've hit the nail on the head with this one. Although I wouldn't phrase it as holistically as you. I'd say that people who consciously hate men tend to be left leaning and people who unconsciously hate men tend to be right leaning. But those people are a minority in both groups. Both "sides" have their issues which is why I don't think it does any good to t…
/r/MensRights28/03/22 08:45 PM
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This isn't a left Vs right issue. Stop trying to make it one. Reddit is heavily left leaning and the vast majority seem to be condemning Smith.
/r/MensRights28/03/22 04:56 PM
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Seriously. Post an archive link or screenshot or something. Giving them more clicks is exactly what they want. Scum tabloids are scum this is news to nobody. They're even more likely to post stuff like this when you literally drive traffic straight to them.
/r/MensRights28/03/22 04:53 PM
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It is silly. There are a lot of things like this in family law which need to change. That's exactly why we're in this sub. Speak to a lawyer to see what your options are. And do it asap. As in call and book an appointment today!
/r/MensRights28/03/22 02:29 PM
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You shouldn't link to that article directly. You're giving them exactly what they want. More clicks.
/r/MensRights28/03/22 12:42 PM
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This is essentially the reverse of what they're saying. Neither is true. Don't stoop to their level.
/r/AntiFeminists26/03/22 05:29 PM
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There are many Christians who share the same beliefs.
/r/AntiFeminists23/03/22 02:01 PM
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You need to give us more information. What country are you in? What are these DV laws? Do you have a court order against you? Have you tried to go to court before?
/r/MensRights19/03/22 12:17 AM
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This is what feminism is based on. Bullshit stats that look good at a glance but fall apart with more than 2 seconds of rational thought. Using the logic here. You could argue it's more dangerous to white in America than it is to be black because white people get killed more often. It completely ignores that the population of each category is vastly different.
/r/AntiFeminists17/03/22 10:25 PM
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Someone should compile a post concisely showing what happened here and post it in that very same sub. The very fact she felt the need to make 3 fake posts here to try make us look like incels is the definition of "sad cringe".
/r/MensRights10/03/22 11:43 PM
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Then link them
/r/MensRights10/03/22 11:17 AM
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I have googled and couldn't find anything of the sort. You're the one making the claim. The burden of proof is on you. It's almost like you don't have any proof 😂
/r/MensRights10/03/22 01:55 AM
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Show me these facts please. You're just making stuff up. They don't suck more taxes than they pay. Because feminine hygien products are exclusively female. So it would make sense to compare to exclusively male products. I agree. Diapers and baby wipes should be free too for people who can't afford them. So should period products. I don't think not women not having them is oppression at all. I do think we could help them out more though. Especially women on poverty.
/r/MensRights09/03/22 09:53 PM
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There are charities and non profits set up which do exactly this. But there aren't enough and they're not available to everyone who needs them.
/r/MensRights09/03/22 06:07 PM
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Men pay the majority of taxes. Why does that matter? Generally speaking, in most countries with some socialist measures, men are net benefit for society while women are money sinks. I don't think this is true at all. Women generally choose lower paying careers like nursing, teaching, child care but they're still a massive benefit to society. Even if you only look at it from a financial perspective while they're still not a "money sink" because they're still paying taxes. Less than men overall bu…
/r/MensRights09/03/22 11:51 AM
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These kind of schemes are targeted at women in poverty. They definitely have it hard. Not because they're women, but because they're poor.
/r/MensRights09/03/22 10:38 AM
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They're not demanding that just men pay though are they? They're arguing that the general population should fund them through taxes. It's a fair enough argument imo.
/r/MensRights09/03/22 10:36 AM
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I've seen this kind of attitude more from the FDS types, not feminists. And they're certainly not allies, they hate eachother. Also, nobody forced him to get that tattoo. If a woman gave him an ultimatum to either get this tattoo or she'd leave him then she's waving a red flag in his face that he chose to ignore on his own accord.
/r/AntiFeminists05/03/22 09:38 PM
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Your argument keeps changing. It's almost as if you're just making it up as you go along. She is not unique, there is without a doubt other women like her who have lead notable lives too that we haven't heard about. She had an incredible story and was still overlooked until recently. That's exactly the point.
/r/MensRights05/03/22 09:24 PM
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You can Google search by date. There are literally hundreds of links on her from before 2015. Not to mention offline sources which wiki can also reference. It seems to me you're just arguing for the sake of arguing at this stage.
/r/MensRights05/03/22 07:57 PM
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Yes, and I'm sure there are sources out there for people to write wiki articles on other people. It's not like there were no sources on her before 2016. There were obviously enough sources for a whole book to be written.
/r/MensRights05/03/22 07:28 PM
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I think the point is that we don't know their names because they haven't been written about. Mary Jackson who the book/movie Hidden Figures is based on great example. I just checked and she didn't have a wiki until 2016 when the book came out. I'm sure there are plenty of people like her who would be great to read about.
/r/MensRights05/03/22 07:03 PM
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What's your reasoning for this?
/r/AntiFeminists05/03/22 06:40 PM
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Then why did you post it here? How do you think this relates to feminism? It has nothing to do with men's rights either. It's man who's simping and has no self respect.
/r/AntiFeminists05/03/22 03:37 PM
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This has nothing to do with feminism. There are plenty of valid reasons to criticise feminism. This isn't one.
/r/AntiFeminists05/03/22 01:37 PM
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This is what I was going to say. These kinds of slogans are actually quite refreshing to see instead of the usual "Everything is men's fault and only women are discriminated against" nonsense that you hear so often.
/r/AntiFeminists04/03/22 04:56 PM
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This is sexist af and exactly the kind of comment we don't need here.
/r/MensRights03/03/22 11:59 AM
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Happened me several times with an ex. Literally hen pecking me til like 5am if I didn't. I'd usualy end up giving in just to get some reprieve. Didn't even realise she was abusive until after that relationship ended. This is all down to the incorrect notion in society that it's men who are the abusers. Know your worth lads.
/r/MensRights27/02/22 04:35 PM
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You can use reveddit to view his removed posts. I've had a look and haven't seen anything of the sort. The reality is that the most active mod on this sub is a 16 year old boy. People are complaining about a new mod coming in and enforcing Reddits rules but aren't willing to do the same. They just give out about free speech. Reddit is a private site. They don't have to and won't respect free speech. And they have shown time and time again that if a sub doesn't play by their rules they just ban i…
/r/AntiFeminists25/02/22 08:15 PM
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Yes he posted a list of actions by the admins (anti-evil team) and people seemed to blame him for it. There were about 30 actions from them over the last few months that he had absolutely nothing to do with. And apparently a lot of them actually deserved bans but the mods here had not taken action which is why the admins did. Mods not moderating their subs is a reason Reddit can use to remove a sub. That's the very reason this mod was brought in. But also on that same post he also posted a scree…
/r/AntiFeminists25/02/22 07:36 PM
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I thought they deserved the benefit of the doubt. They even posted a screenshot showing the users they had banned for transparency. That was something I've never seen another mod do. The reality is that this sub needs more moderation or it will be removed from Reddit. Then that's a community of 30000 people all with a common goal lost.
/r/AntiFeminists25/02/22 07:03 PM
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Do you have evidence of this?
/r/AntiFeminists25/02/22 06:59 PM
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I mean, isn't that literally the role of a mod? This sub needs order or it will be removed. That is the reality. I'm no fan of the admins either but they should not have to do the job that the mods are supposed to do. If you look at this mods post history it's pretty clear to me where they stand on issues which are common to us. I'm giving the new mod the benefit of the doubt for now anyway. If you're not happy then apply to be a mod yourself.
/r/AntiFeminists24/02/22 02:48 PM
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The delete log is not the comments the nod removed. Those are what the admins have removed. That's my understanding anyway. It's showing that this sub needs much more moderation if it's to remain active.
/r/AntiFeminists24/02/22 01:23 PM
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Hating feminism and hating women are different things. You're trying to conflate the 2. We are not anti women at all. We are anti feminist. It's literally the name of the sub. But go ahead, keep spreading your lies.
/r/AntiFeminists23/02/22 09:43 AM
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Sure thing bud 👍
/r/AntiFeminists23/02/22 03:45 AM
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I'm not scared of feminists. I'm scared of people here breaking established Reddit rules and getting this sub banned.
/r/AntiFeminists23/02/22 03:42 AM
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This is a common argument I see from people who try to defend feminism. But it has strong "no true Scotsman" vibes. Take for example the National Organisation of Women (aka the largest feminist organisation in the world) who lobby to ensure family laws favour women throughout the United States. NOW members span all 4 types of feminism you mentioned. While I definitely wouldn't say most feminists hate men, I would say most feminists seem to think solving women's issues is more important than solv…
/r/AntiFeminists23/02/22 03:19 AM
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Mods, you probably shouldn't allow direct cross posts or libks to subs like that. People will go over there from here and participate and they can claim brigading and use that as an excuse to get this sub banned.
/r/AntiFeminists23/02/22 03:03 AM
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type: submission author: satisfy_any_threshold: true account_age: < 6 weeks comment_karma: < 50 reports: 2 action: filter action_reason: Inexperienced account received 2 reports Ok this isn't correctly formatted but this script should help stop the new accounts from posting. I seen it over here.
/r/AntiFeminists19/02/22 06:19 PM
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Newsflash, most people were denied basic education for centuries, both men and women. But let's say for the sake of argument you're correct, and women were oppressed for centuries while men had it easy... Why should modern men be punished for this when they haven't done anything wrong? And why should modern women receive reperations just because of their sex when modern women are not oppressed and denied education? It's blatantly anti-equality. How does abortion being difficult for women in the …
/r/AntiFeminists19/02/22 12:07 AM
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I'm Irish too. Nowadays it is women who have a head start here. For example, I'm in my final year of a Biology degree. Throughout the country, most Biology students are female. Yet the vast majority of scholarships are gender based scholarship trying to increase women in stem. There is a program which offers free biology grinds to leaving cert students that one of my classmates volunteers for. It's only available to girls. And girls already do better in the leaving cert than boys anyway. I have …
/r/AntiFeminists18/02/22 05:59 PM
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This is some bs and not what this sub is about. I think most women wouldn't want to be either of these caricatures and thankfully most aren't.
/r/AntiFeminists13/02/22 09:36 PM
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No. Lots of dads want to be involved but have to get paternity tests to prove they have a right to. Or they may doubt the mum is truthful and want to get confirmation. Paternity tests should be mandatory after birth. Would save a whole lot of money and time wasted in court.
/r/MensRights04/02/22 07:58 AM
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Please edit or remove your comment. It is entirely possible to OD on Tylenol. Implying that it's near impossible is dangerous.
/r/AntiFeminists03/02/22 08:36 PM
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Try to get him alone and talk to him. Broach the topic that you've heard him receiving abuse from his wife and be honest and say you're concerned and would like to help. Bare in mind he may not immediately accept that he has been abused and don't force it on him. It's quite common for abuse victims to be in denial and this is especially common with abused men as there is this narrative in society that men can't be abused by women. Be prepared to explain what abuse is and how it can manifest in m…
/r/MensRights03/02/22 08:30 PM
6

Wow, I guess we actually have something in common.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates02/02/22 10:26 AM
3

Did you even read the comment chain you're replying to? It's 100% your own fault if you found the thread from here. Don't even interact when you go over there from this sub.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates02/02/22 10:21 AM
1

I'm curious how this works. The majority of rape cases there isn't enough evidence to prove either way. But in this instance, every single one had a proven outcome. I don't see how this is possible?
/r/MensRights30/01/22 10:07 PM
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It'd be interesting to see if you can find any news agencies which reported on both incidents. And then note if you see any bias in the reporting. I agree with the poster above. You can't use the sentencing disparity here to say there's a double standard because they are different countries.
/r/MensRights30/01/22 10:02 PM
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These 2 instances happen in 2 different countries with different legal systems. I'm not saying men aren't discriminated against in legals system. I think it's very obvious that they are. But using these 2 instances does not back up this point because of these variables.
/r/MensRights30/01/22 09:58 PM
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Here's the post. 83 upvotes before it was removed. Shows that subs mentality
/r/AntiFeminists30/01/22 01:15 AM
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Look at the sub it's posted in. Sexism is ok in those communities as long as it's directed towards men. Reddit doesn't give a fuck either if it's men on the receiving end of bigotry.
/r/AntiFeminists29/01/22 10:15 PM
0

Even if he's a grifter, he's a grifter that has actually spoken out about issues men and boys face. Better than the rest of the grifters who say nothing. they’ll go where the attention/money are at and they’re susceptible to more. This is how politics work. If speaking about mens rights doesn't garner public support then they'll stop speaking about it. He holds abhorrent views on MGM imo. We can criticise him for those views but we also can commend him for speaking up in this issue.
/r/MensRights29/01/22 07:34 PM
6

Ah, i get your point now. So the discrimination doesn't lie in the laws themselves but in the disparity in the implementation of these laws.
/r/MensRights29/01/22 01:10 AM
3

Speak to a lawyer. It sounds like you haven't spoken to a lawyer. If you haven't spoken to a lawyer you should speak to a lawyer. I can't stress this enough but you need to speak to a lawyer. Edit: Speak to a lawyer!
/r/MensRights29/01/22 01:02 AM
10

I believe it’s not possible for women to give consent for sleep sex in Canada, for instance. Is it possible for men to give consent in a similar instance where he's sleeping? I'm not familiar with Canadian law but if the laws are gendered then that's some sexist bullshit.
/r/MensRights29/01/22 12:59 AM
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Gender doesn't matter here. It's only an issue if the person sleeping didn't give prior consent.
/r/MensRights29/01/22 12:14 AM
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If a woman doesn't have to be responsible for a child they didn't want, why should a man?
/r/MensRights29/01/22 12:12 AM
2

It has by a distance the most toxic comment section of any social media site I've been on. I am genuinely extremely worried about the effect that app is having on kids developmentally. Not just the comments section but it is extremely addictive.
/r/MensRights28/01/22 01:03 PM
3

This person may obviously have poor mental health but they are also still an asshole. There are people like that in the men's rights movement and it's on these bad apples that some people try to judge the whole community. I think we need to do better at calling them out so I think posts like yours are important. I think you handled the situation perfectly. If anything you showed patience he didn't even deserve and that says a lot about you as a person.
/r/MensRights28/01/22 12:58 PM
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I don't think they ever leave this sub.
/r/MensRights28/01/22 11:47 AM
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There are definitely some women who could kick my ass. Quit peddling your sexist bs. People like you are why other people write off the entire mens-rights community. You're making us look bad.
/r/MensRights27/01/22 08:01 PM
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how was it your doing her having the burden? It wasn't. The mod is just sexist. Being against mens rights is part of their identity and they genuinely can't accept that sometimes men are mistreated. Choosing who you have kids with is the biggest decision you'll ever make. If you have any questions or apprehensions about parenthood my dm's are open. Best of luck to you and your partner. :)
/r/MensRights27/01/22 12:14 AM
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It's an attempt at gaslighting. The definition of murder is if someone killed another person. If they try and kill someone and fail it is still attempted murder. It doesn't become attempted "something else" because they failed. This is an attempt at gaslighting. Which is why I said they tried to gaslight me and not that they did gaslight me.
/r/MensRights26/01/22 09:30 PM
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Go for it. We need more people like you. Even the fact you're afraid to bring up mens issues at all is indicative of there being a problem. Maybe highlight that you're not trying to take away from very real women's issues as some people are likely to take it that way. Best of luck and make sure to let us know how it goes.
/r/MensRights26/01/22 02:19 AM
2

I love getting tools as a present. That being said, if someone got me a really good iron as a gift I'd also be delighted.
/r/MensRights25/01/22 07:25 PM
6

Listen, all this could be solved if mandatory paternity testing was implemented after birth. Women's groups oppose this. I've asked you twice already. Why do you think this is? And idk where you’re located, but child support is not granted without paternity I live in Ireland and what you're saying isn't the full truth.. All fathers have a legal responsibility to financially maintain their child. This applies whether or not the father is a legal guardian or whether or not his name is on his child…
/r/MensRights25/01/22 06:41 PM
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Well his mum admitted I was the dad. But you know what, fair enough. Paternity could be proven on the day in-hospital if mandatory DNA testing was implemented. Yet women's groups are against this. Why do you think this is?
/r/MensRights25/01/22 06:27 PM
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Lol simple solution would’ve been having a child with a WIFE. Why should my rights to my own son be dependent on being married to his mother? If you’re not married, there is nothing to say you are indeed that child’s father. The same goes if you are married. DNA testing should be conducted shortly after birth. Why are women's groups against mandatory DNA testing? Also, my kids mum said I was the father. That being said, she did tried to convince me I wasn't the father at one point while pregnant…
/r/MensRights25/01/22 06:19 PM
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OK tbh I get this. Forcing someone to give birth with their ex standing there against their will would be fucked up. Its not a pretty process. Oh this is fair. I would have liked to be in the room but didn't expect that. I did expect a call beforehand though so I could at least come to the hospital.
/r/MensRights25/01/22 05:46 PM
4

They're not mentally challenged. They're just regular bigots.
/r/MensRights25/01/22 05:12 AM
6

Honestly. I'm so sick of people trying to make every issue a left vs right thing. It leaves zero room for nuance or any productive discussion. I'd be very left-leaning and I'm the one calling out these bigots. Am I a part of this leftist cesspool too?
/r/MensRights25/01/22 04:37 AM
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Lol, I didn't take any offense. It sounds like they're being sarcastic to me.
/r/MensRights25/01/22 04:28 AM
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It's common in cases of gaslighting but it is by no means a requirement. It's also common for the perpetrators to hold a position of power, which reddit mods do. I get where you're coming from though. I know the mod is talking shit so they didn't gaslight me but it is obviously an attempt at gaslighting.
/r/MensRights25/01/22 04:15 AM
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Gaslighting is a technique that undermines a person's perception of reality. They tried to make me think I was incorrect about my rights (or lack thereof) to my own child. And in addition, that my lack of rights is somehow a privilege. It's the very definition of gaslighting.
/r/MensRights25/01/22 03:47 AM
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Exactly. I said the same thing in my reply to them and that's where the conversation ended. We weren't in a relationship yes. Why does that matter? Why should my rights be dependent on me being in a relationship with his mother? Childcare and decision making is not a burden, it is a privelege. And mensrights groups are advocating for 50:50 custody. It's one of the core tenets of the MR movement. That would make this "burden" even. But it's womens groups who oppose this. But still we're the bad g…
/r/MensRights25/01/22 01:53 AM
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There were multiple mods in the full chat. Each was as childish and hateful as the last.
/r/MensRights24/01/22 11:10 PM
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Yeah we're Irish which was basically a Catholic Theocracy for many years. Although religion is dying off fast here. It's still common for people to baptise their kids here even if they are non-practicing Catholic. It's a custom I disagree with. Oh I got the DNA test. She had tried to convince me he wasn't mine at one point which she later recanted but I had to make sure. I agree 100%, DNA testing shortly after birth should be mandatory.
/r/MensRights24/01/22 10:23 PM
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I replied to a comment on that sub where a user claimed MRA's don't think catcalling is even a thing. I'm an MRA. Catcalling is definitely a thing and most MRAs agree. Sure, a minority of assholes would dismiss it as "compliments" but most recognise it is abuse. Many don't think it should be considered as sexual assault however. Please stop generalising us." My comment was removed and i messaged them to ask why. Doing so will result in you being banned and smeared by the mods on those subs. I ca…
/r/MensRights24/01/22 10:14 PM
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I wouldn't have done that but it genuinely would have been considered kidnapping seeing as I was a legal stranger to my own kid. I wasn't allowed to be there for the birth. He also had some minor complications so he had to stay a few extra days in the special care unit and I wasn't even allowed to be in the ward without her permission. While there, she mentioned she wanted him baptised (neither of us are religious) and I said I'd prefer if he chose himself when he was older and then she was like…
/r/MensRights24/01/22 10:06 PM
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I will only name it if the mods here say it's ok. They're definitely not neutral though. They're actively trying to get this sub removed.
/r/MensRights24/01/22 09:52 PM
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It's especially upsetting seeing as they said the "burden of childcare" was forced upon my sons mum. It wasn't forced. She chose that. I wanted equal rights and responsibilities to care for my child but she refused, which is why I had to take her to court. Caring for your own child is not a burden. It is a privilege. I also reported the undeniable gaslighting to the Reddit admins but gaslighting is ok apparently. A couple months ago, someone told me that MGM being legal while FGM is illegal is a…
/r/MensRights24/01/22 09:01 PM
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This is one of the comments I was talking about and backs up your point perfectly. The top and bottom comments are the same user. There is no attempt at understanding, it's just a blatant hate rant against MRA's. The bottom comment especially makes some absolutely ridiculous claims.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates24/01/22 07:32 PM
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Look at the replies to that comment you quoted. There are plenty who called that poster out for that (myself included). I very much hope a feminist sub doesn't latch onto this MensLib have already latched onto it. Some of the comments on their thread about the mensrights community are downright disgusting.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates24/01/22 04:44 AM
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Hey op. Whether or not this is assault, I can't say because it depends entirely on your local laws. But I just want you to know that your feelings are 100% valid. Legal talk aside, I do think you were taken advantage of. What your FWB done was incredibly shitty. Also, I'd strongly encourage you to speak to a professional ablut this. Your head must be all over the place and they can help you work through your feelings.
/r/MensRights23/01/22 06:17 PM
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People who are truly sexually assaulted have no doubt. This is just not true at all. In fact, it's extremely common for SA victims to doubt whether they've been assaulted at all, especially if they're male seeing as there is this narrative that men can't be sexually assaulted.
/r/MensRights23/01/22 06:13 PM
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She's entitled to wear whatever she wants and he's entitled to break up with her for whatever reason he wants.
/r/AntiFeminists19/01/22 06:26 AM
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Either or. As long as people are treated equally. People should not be privileged or discriminated against because of their sex. It's that simple.
/r/MensRights18/01/22 04:34 PM
1

relatively calm murder Ah here. There was nothing calm about this and to describe it as such shows a real lack of tact. I suspect you're being downvoted for your tone as much as anything. FWIW, I agree with you. The disparity in outrage when victims are male is abhorrent but there is a way to discuss these matters without describing the murder of an innocent woman who was literally strangled to death in broad daylight as "relatively calm".
/r/MensRights15/01/22 08:24 PM
2

This. Women aren't against surnames. They're against being expected to take their husband's surname. Which is perfectly fair. Same with naming kids. There's no real reason kids should always take the dads surname. For example, I wanted my son to have my surname. My kids mum wanted him to have her surname. So I proposed he take both and we hyphenate it. She could pick which surname went first. So naturally, my kid has his mums surname because here in Ireland unmarried dads have zero automatic rig…
/r/MensRights14/01/22 12:51 AM
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Make sure you report them. Comments like that deserve a ban. https://www.reddit.com/report
/r/AntiFeminists14/01/22 12:39 AM
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I actually agree with you here. I haven't seen any evidence to convince me the rates are higher. I'd suspect false accusations happen at a lower rate but that doesn't negate the fact that it's still a problem. It's really difficult to quantify these things though especially using court cases as a barometer because if someone is falsely accused there's often no real point in taking it to court. I do question the validity of a lot of these surveys though who oftentimes stretch the definition of se…
/r/MensRights06/01/22 12:32 PM
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"A subsequent investigation determined in 2016 that this accusation was unfounded and that the student and Galloway had a consensual relationship". I'm guessing you didn't even read the article?
/r/MensRights06/01/22 12:24 PM
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Yes, exactly. I'd never say all women should be considered the worse parent because of what other women do. However, I am saying they should not by default be considered the better parent (which is what happens) because instances like this prove that isn't always true. Sex has nothing to do with parental ability.
/r/MensRights06/01/22 11:37 AM
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So you feel these women that murdered their children is a reflection on all women No. Read literally the first sentence of my reply above. Do you feel a man that rapes a woman is a reflection on all men and should be considered in future rape trials? No. What I'm saying is that sometimes the mum is the better parent, sometimes the dad. Sometimes both. But in society (and law in my country) women are automatically seen to be the more fit parent. This stat proves that this isn't always the case.
/r/MensRights06/01/22 11:09 AM
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Found Thanos' reddit account.
/r/MensRights06/01/22 10:54 AM
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Nobody is saying women in general are bad that would be sexist, just that women who kill children are bad. In many countries, men are denied the same parenting rights as women. One of the reasons for this is that women are generally seen as better caregivers. This is one stat that shows this isn't inherently true. It is an argument towards equal parenting laws which is one of the core tenets of the Mens rights movement.
/r/MensRights06/01/22 10:52 AM
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This is the kinda sexist shit we don't need on this sub tbh.
/r/MensRights05/01/22 07:56 PM
8

Calling them out is not the issue. Saying they're not leftist when they objectively are is the issue.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates27/12/21 04:14 PM
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Ah the old no true Scotsman argument. They are leftists. We should acknowledge that people on our "side" can be hypocritical assholes too.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates27/12/21 02:02 PM
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What did you say?
/r/MensRights17/12/21 09:20 PM
9

Yeah I don't see how you were supposed to know it was a joke. Honestly, her screenshoting it and posting bit elsewhere to make fun of you is bullying. I'd report it to your uni.
/r/MensRights16/12/21 06:53 PM
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What was the exact text from both of you? Well the best translated text if it was in Russian? I don't see how it can be seen as "mansplaining."
/r/MensRights16/12/21 06:18 PM
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UvR3LNOrsrM Please watch this video. There's every chance that will backfire. The police are not on men's side. Look up the Duluth model which is the norm for cases of domestic abuse in the US. It states that the man should be removed from the household even in cases where he is the victim. This model is in place due to lobbying from feminist orgs. Putting women ahead of equality as usual.
/r/MensRights16/12/21 12:32 AM
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Do, best of luck. Keep fighting the good fight and make sure to update us.
/r/MensRights16/12/21 12:20 AM
1

It doesn't sound like they're saying most women behave like criminals. More like they're saying that women who do behave like criminals do so because they are likely to get away with it. Which to be fair, isn't strictly true. Although they are by a distance more likely to get away with crimes than men.
/r/MensRights16/12/21 12:18 AM
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Can't really blame them for getting upset in instances such as this. Sending a pic of your genitals to a stranger IS disgusting. They're not making it disgusting. And women do get unsolicited pics way more than men. But you're completely right, it's wrong when either sex do it but only one is really taken seriously. However, the "men are gross" comment which generalises making it seem like most men do this is just blatant sexism. But as usual, because it's sexism against men it gets a pass.
/r/MensRights16/12/21 12:12 AM
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No I'd say give it a go. I think you'd regret it more if not. I would suggest doing it in writing though. If you bring it up, chances are nothing will change but they might surprise you. If you don't bring it up then it's guaranteed nothing will change.
/r/MensRights16/12/21 12:03 AM
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This is absolutely infuriating, both with how the situation transpired with the murder an innocent man but also because of the lack of media attention it has received. Cases like this are only worsened by feminist orgs who support the Duluth model which automatically assumes the man is at fault in cases of a domestic dispute. Even from the initial 911 call you can hear by the operator's tone that she is dismissive. He literally says, he's got a knife to his throat and his son is in the room and …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates09/12/21 03:45 PM
1

You can't just nitpick posts you don't like and call everyone there fake MRAs because of it. Are conservatives fake MRAs because they vote for a party that blocked equal draft picks? Of course not. Mens rights is not a left Vs right issue. There are legitimate MRAs on both sides and this divisive bs is just stupid. A cohesive voice is what's needed. MensLib on the other hand, they are the ones who pretend to care about men's issues.
/r/AntiFeminists07/12/21 12:36 PM
1

LWMA is great. How exactly are they fake MRAs? This gatekeeping of men's rights when we need all the voices we can get is stupid.
/r/AntiFeminists07/12/21 05:45 AM
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I don't like the terms toxic masculinity or feminity. If one exists so does the other but both terms are essentially a result of the same thing. Gendered expectations. But no sex "enforces" another sex to act a certain way. Encourages is probably a better word. Men will change their behaviour to attract women sure, but you can't solely blame that on women as they can't specifically decide what they find attractive. And vice versa is true also. Like women historically had expectations to be daint…
/r/AntiFeminists07/12/21 05:41 AM
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It's hard to say without knowing more info. Were you absent by your own choice? What is your reason for trying to initiate contact after 8 years? Do you just want to see your kid or do you want to work towards custody? Have you been contributing financially towards the kids upbringing?
/r/MensRights07/12/21 03:36 AM
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Someone can be an expert in one topic and completely clueless on another.
/r/MensRights07/12/21 03:16 AM
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A doctorate is a bit different though seeing as you have to produce to get one. And they don't just hand them out (usually) you definitely have to earn it. There have been some great discoveries which have stemmed from doctorate degrees. Thinking of doing one myself in rare disease research but probably won't because it'll be less work and more money if I just go into industry. Choosing to study a doctorate is not an easy route.
/r/MensRights07/12/21 03:15 AM
2

Because I'm trying to understand what you're saying. Why won't you clarify?
/r/AntiFeminists02/12/21 09:11 PM
2

I'm not asking to be convinced. I'm asking you to explain what you mean. Which you won't do. You're just rambling without actually being clear about what your point is.
/r/AntiFeminists02/12/21 08:43 PM
2

I'm entirely comfortable with my masculinity. What in the world are you even talking about? You can't even explain yourself.
/r/AntiFeminists02/12/21 08:36 PM
2

Or you could just actually answer the question?
/r/AntiFeminists02/12/21 08:21 PM
1

I have no idea what you're talking about. What is my place in a natural order?
/r/AntiFeminists02/12/21 07:02 PM
2

What do you mean by rightful place?
/r/AntiFeminists02/12/21 05:12 PM
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This is actually a sound point relating psychological violence however from looking at your other posts here people will never listen to you because you are a sexist. This sub is anti-feminism, NOT anti-women. Your "bring them to heel" comment is so far out of line and things will never change if you keep using that kind of sexist rhetoric.
/r/AntiFeminists02/12/21 03:49 PM
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👍
/r/MensRights28/11/21 12:29 AM
1

You either knew this wasn't true and lied to make the situation seem more insidious than it was. Or You genuinely didn't know that this was just a coincidence and jumped to a conclusion with zero evidence because that was what you wanted to believe. I didn't call you an incel. You probably aren't. But the above behaviours are both incel-ish.
/r/MensRights27/11/21 11:12 PM
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You're talking out your ass man. 5' 9" is literally the average male height in the US. He's not small. And even if he was actually small you'd still be reaching. It's not a thing in the "medical community". You're trying to make out like he has an inferiority complex when in reality he's just a murderous prick.
/r/MensRights27/11/21 06:47 PM
1

The guy that's still alive is the guy who commited murder. This is not self defence. He was under no threat. Bringing the gun out is what escalated the entire situation. If that gun was not present this father would still be alive.
/r/MensRights27/11/21 06:24 PM
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This is just not true. Captain America has not been cancelled. The vast majority of marvel superheroes are male. The franchise lead, Ironman, is male. There are plenty of stong male role models through out TV/cinema and in the MCU especially. And there's no reason the doctor can't be a woman. This is just a Tory MP pandering. As a poster below pointed out, the main problem is boys lack male role models in their real lives. If we had more male teachers. Or if we had parenting laws which didn't di…
/r/MensRights25/11/21 11:04 PM
12

Lol, welcome to the club. The most innocuous comment will get you banned there. The mods on that sub are sexist. They hate men. Report to admins as you clearly didn't break any rules and they are not acting within the mod guidelines. They probably won't do anything but if enough do they might.
/r/MensRights25/11/21 11:53 AM
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Ha, typical. I prob shouldn't even be surprised. Even so, plenty of people seen it. It was about one of the mods who was on a power trip basically. Found out they'd been following me from sub to sub looking for a reason to ban me. And when they couldn't find one they just invent one. And the admins won't do anything about it at all.
/r/MensRights24/11/21 08:41 PM
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I had a similar thought but I posted my story over there and it got a good bit of traction. You can check it out in my post history. Not enough that the admins cared but enough that 1000s of people became aware of these bigoted mods. Ya never know what might happen. Take some time, phrase it well and try tap into the empathetic side of people as most people are good. Unlike the asshole who wrote to you above.
/r/MensRights24/11/21 12:39 AM
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Post this to r/trueoffmychest with background info of how you actually won your defamation case. There is a concentrated effort from some mods to silence male victims. The admins are refusing to act and the more people who speak up about these mods on their power trips the better. What this mod is doing is textbook victim blaming. What they said is also a blatant lie as abuse victims are often alienated by friends and family for speaking up. And because of campaigns like #believeher victims of f…
/r/MensRights24/11/21 12:09 AM
1

That's just blatantly not true. And the other poster is right, you do sound incely. The man that spearheaded the campaign for IMD chose the date because it was his father's birthday and he wanted to honour him. World Toilet Day was chosen to reflect the day the World Toilet Organisation was founded. It's pure chance. There are plenty of legitimate reasons to be angry. You don't need to make them up.
/r/MensRights23/11/21 11:41 PM
1

No. I'm not blaming men. I'm blaming this man because of his divisive bs.
/r/MensRights20/11/21 10:40 AM
0

Take a step back. The focus is not on women. The theme is about male/female relationships because improvement in this area will also improve things for men. I never said that's the only way or that we have to suck up to anyone. If you had a valid point you wouldn't need to put words in my mouth. It may be possible for men's issues to be addressed without women's support, but it'd certainly be a lot easier with it. Please remove the chip from your shoulder.
/r/MensRights19/11/21 01:34 PM
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Jesus Christ man. You're the exact kind of person that's giving us MRAs a bad name. Maybe you need to leave the house and actually go speak to some women irl.
/r/MensRights19/11/21 01:12 PM
0

I don't really see anything wrong with this. If we're going to see true equality we need to get women on our side. Most women simply don't understand how difficult things can be for men. A lot of the time this is through no fault of their own. Both men and women have been spoon fed propaganda that life is inherently more difficult if you're born a girl. We know this isn't true but they don't. I firmly believe most people are good and if men and women can form better relationships then women are …
/r/MensRights19/11/21 01:09 PM
2

Well they didn't say anything that you said they said. So you are lying.
/r/MensRights24/10/21 12:51 AM
1

Ireland. I was depressed af. Didn't want to be alive. Got help. I'm still alive.
/r/MensRights24/10/21 12:35 AM
1

Well I'm a man, who has reached out and got therapy that has helped me. So you're talking shite mate.
/r/MensRights24/10/21 12:26 AM
2

They didn't say anything that you said they said. So you are a liar.
/r/MensRights23/10/21 11:33 PM
1

That's not the full truth though is it? There are large feminist orgs such as NOW in the US and Women's Aid in the UK and Ireland which advocate for inequality with family law being a prime example. MRAs advocate for equality in areas where men face discrimination. Feminists advocate for equality in areas where women face discrimination BUT they also lobby to suppress equality in areas where women are priveleged.
/r/MensRights23/10/21 07:53 PM
1

No, I'm staunchly against the Duluth model. It's extremely sexist against men. But that is not what this post is about. It's about men seeking therapy. And you're saying men who reach out for help forfeit that right which is not true. It's also dangerous because it may discourage men from asking for help when we should be encouraging it.
/r/MensRights23/10/21 07:47 PM
1

Yeah, don't bother because Karen S is talking shit. There is nothing wrong with asking for help. Male or female.
/r/MensRights23/10/21 06:59 PM
2

They did not say they hate women and they did not say suicide only affects men. You are a liar. If you had a valid point you wouldn't need to lie.
/r/MensRights23/10/21 06:54 PM
1

This is not what therapists say to their patients at all. I don't know where you've pulled that out of. Honestly just seems like you've a chip on your shoulder and you made it up. Therepeutic techniques generally cater more to women but that's a result of the majority of psychologists being women and women historically being more likely to seek therapy than men. There has been greater stigma and scrutiny towards men seeking therapy due to outdated sexist expectations. Thankfully, this is changin…
/r/MensRights23/10/21 06:46 PM
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Thats the entire point of this ad. Men aren't always the scary ones. It's making people question their own internal biases. I thought it was great.
/r/MensRights19/10/21 09:16 PM
3

Great to see. This is the kinda shit we need if we actually want to enact some semblance of equality in legislation. We need to get organised and this is a fantastic step.
/r/MensRights15/10/21 11:06 PM
1

Gonna have to disagree here. "Taxation without representation is no excuse for violence". Would you say the same about the American Revolution? Edit: Or what about allied intervention during WWII?
/r/MensRights03/10/21 09:12 PM
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People like that genuinely just don't have a clue how tough things can be for men because they've been spoonfed lies that we're priveleged. They just can't comprehend it. So they insult as a reflex because it doesn't fit their extremely narrow world view. The best thing you can do is to ignore these bigots and keep speaking up for equality in as non confrontational a manner as possible.
/r/MensRights03/10/21 08:55 PM
5

Ah fuck you man, spoilers
/r/MensRights03/10/21 12:27 PM
4

Wait, has this been deleted? I can still view it but I noticed all activity on it basically suddenly stopped.
/r/MensRights22/09/21 02:28 AM
2

I'm the OP and I wouldn't even say believe all men. Literally, nobody here has said that. I'd say it doesn't matter whether the story is from a man or a woman treat them with respect unless they've proven its undeserved and judge each situation on its merit.
/r/MensRights21/09/21 10:47 PM
1

Thanks ♥️. I just want equal time and equal say. Nothing more. I think I'll get there eventually but it's just so unfair that equality isn't the default and that Im basically gonna have to bankrupt myself in legal fees and years of regular court dates to get there.
/r/MensRights21/09/21 08:31 PM
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Not disrespectful at all. They're good questions and you're right, I was wrong to trust her. For context, this was not a one night stand. It was a girl I had initially been good friends with and then was seeing for quite a while. I was naive and just genuinely didn't think that this girl who I cared for would lie about something so big.
/r/MensRights21/09/21 08:22 PM
1

I'm really sorry you had to go through that. Considering the snip myself. I love my son though, he's the best thing in my life. I wouldn't rule out having more kids in the future if I met the right woman. I heard that there's a small but significant chance the reversal procedure fails. I wish we had more contraceptive options. I'll stick to the condoms for now anyway. I think it's important to mention that most women are not like this. We just had the pleasure of meeting a couple of the ones who…
/r/MensRights21/09/21 07:58 PM
1

I'm so sorry that happened to you.
/r/MensRights21/09/21 07:55 PM
2

Funny you mention that. I went there initially to tell my story, as I genuinely wanted somewhere to vent and get my story out. But I want able to comment so I guess I'd already been banned from there. No idea why. Probably because I'm subbed here.
/r/MensRights21/09/21 07:53 PM
2

People feel free to crosspost wherever they want. r/bestof commonly has posts like this do well and make it to the front page if someone wants to try that.
/r/MensRights21/09/21 07:50 PM
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Thank you
/r/MensRights21/09/21 07:48 PM
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100% Genuinely don't know where I'd be if it wasn't for places like this. I probably would have given up tbh. I've never been good at talking about my own experiences but knowing there were people who are actually willing to listen has helped enormously.
/r/MensRights21/09/21 05:26 PM
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This one. I remember being very impressed by her during Mark Zuckerburg's testimonial re the whole Cambridge Analytica scandal. It was like a headmistress talking to a little schoolboy. She seems quite progressive too which I think is very refreshing.
/r/MensRights21/09/21 05:23 PM
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Yeah a source would be great for this. Can you provide one? It would be great for future arguments. If an equal proportion of women and men who run for office get elected then that proves there is no systemic bias.
/r/MensRights21/09/21 05:15 PM
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I actually quite like AOC. I don't agree with everything she says obviously, but she seems competent at least.
/r/MensRights21/09/21 05:13 PM
1

For example, I have a kid. Here in Ireland if you're an unmarried father you have zero automatic rights to your own child. You have to go to court whereas the mum does not. Mens groups here are trying to change parental laws to make them gender neutral and have an assumption of shared 50:50 custody unless one parent is proven to be unfit. Women's groups here are blocking this because by treating men and women equally, they'll have less parental rights than before.
/r/MensRights16/09/21 05:50 PM
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Some do in fairness. They're not all sexists. I've met plenty of women who are empathetic and willing to listen in real life. On the internet however people in general are just far too argumentative and aren't even willing to consider our point of view. These people are proper sexists. I think the majority IRL mean good but are just completely unaware/ in denial about how bad things can be for men.
/r/MensRights16/09/21 05:43 PM
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Yeah, the general sentiment i get on this sub is that those who are pro-choice think it should be the woman's choice. This is what I think anyway. With the stipulation that men and women should have equal rights to opt-out of parenthood.
/r/MensRights07/09/21 08:49 PM
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Yes men should 100% have the same parental rights and responsibilities as women, including the right to opt-out of parenthood. However, If a parent decided they want to be involved and are present in the child's life initially I don't think any parent should be able to just walk away and leave the kid with the other parent without consequences (unless the other parent agreed).
/r/MensRights05/09/21 04:07 PM
1

6 weeks is far too little. Many women don't even know they're pregnant at this stage.
/r/MensRights05/09/21 01:03 PM
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The merest criticism of any woman can get you banned on Reddit while blatant sexism like this seems to get a pass on Reddit. Im genuinely starting to think the admins themselves are not only allowing sexism directed towards men but purposefully enabling a platform for it. Plenty of the bigger subs have a very clear agenda. Like over on r/whitepeopletwitter there is a very clear attampt by the mods to push pro choice content. I myself am pro choice but got banned from there for saying being pro l…
/r/MensRights03/09/21 03:51 PM
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This is a really good point. Being anti-feminist does not mean being anti-women but that's the message most people take if someone mentions they're anti-feminist. That being said, the only way that will change is if there are people who point out its indescrepencies.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/09/21 08:19 AM
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We have plenty of reason to be angry, I know this, but there's a way to deal with that anger. It doesn't matter if that's what you mean when you say "feminists". People won't hear that distinction unless you explicitly say it. If someone who describes themselves as a feminist hears you talk negatively about feminists they will take it as a personal attack. You could have an excellent point but it will never be heard unless it's conveyed in a manner that people will actually listen to. If you don…
/r/MensRights19/08/21 04:59 AM
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I'd argue the vast majority of feminists simply don't know that these feminist orgs do this. Like on the surface level, feminism sounds like a great idea. Equal rights for women, who could be against that? It's only when you look deeper into it and see how they lobby, like you pointed out that the feminism can sometimes be perfectly ok with inequity if it's women that benefit. I had no idea they did until I had my son and realised I had zero rights to even see him. And that the reason that these…
/r/MensRights19/08/21 02:23 AM
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Nah you're 100% right. Everything is becoming so polarised. Liberal-Conservative, Feminist-Mens Rights, pro-life-pro-choice. People feel like they have to pick a side on every issue and that the side they pick must align with whether they're "right" or "left". If you were to actually go through each issue most people would have moderate beliefs overall but you very rarely find people who would actually describe themselves as moderate.
/r/MensRights19/08/21 02:09 AM
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Family law too.
/r/MensRights19/08/21 01:43 AM
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Yeah bigots aren't welcome here. So don't let the door hit you on the way out. I understand that you're a troll account but it seems like people who dedicate so much effort to trolling are deeply unhappy. Have you tried talking to anyone about why you feel the need to do what you do?
/r/MensRights19/08/21 01:40 AM
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Can we leave the low hanging fruit jokes. Angry feminists are just looking for a reason for a reason to ban us and paint is all as sexists. I know you're just making a joke but don't give them any excuses.
/r/MensRights19/08/21 01:38 AM
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This has the same energy of people who excuse the black homicide rates by saying most of it is black on black crime. ALL victims deserve the same protections and opportunities, regardless of race AND sex, no matter who commits the crime.
/r/MensRights19/08/21 01:37 AM
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Listen, I'm no fan of feminism, but if you genuinely think that you seriously need to reconsider things. Sure, i'd say a very small minority of feminists actively hate men but most don't. Using terms like eradicate and bloodlust is way overstepping. They just prioritise womens rights over mens. I genuinely think most just overlook mens issues because they think we have it easy. This is the problem with feminism imo. They prioritise womens rights over equal rights. But they aren't all inherently …
/r/MensRights18/08/21 09:48 PM
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Oh, the way you wrote it read like that's what your view was. I've never heard any of the more women in stem speak out against either of these things.
/r/MensRights09/08/21 01:38 PM
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I mean I was in the social sciences myself before I changed field and there were plenty of men with similar opinions to myself.
/r/MensRights09/08/21 10:35 AM
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There genuinely are caps on the amount of male nurses allowed in some countries. Also, you're entirely right that fewer men desire to be nurses. The exact same could be said with women in STEM.
/r/MensRights09/08/21 10:30 AM
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Why do you think STEM wages are too high? What is wrong with H1B visas?
/r/MensRights09/08/21 10:05 AM
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I have a theory that one of the reasons government funding heavily favours women's initiatives is because women dominate the social sciences. Government funding is "generally" research based. It's not always good research, but generally a Govt. will say we've looked at this data from this study so we're going to implement this policy/fund this project. So most of the research into social problems such as domestic violence is naturally female biased because the majority of researchers themselves …
/r/MensRights09/08/21 09:28 AM
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What would you say about feminist orgs such as NOW that lobby against equal shared parenting laws or alimony payments. If feminism is about equality then why do they lobby to ensure men have less rights to their own kids than women do? As a feminist yourself, what have you done to combat feminist orgs that uphold these "patriarchal" notions that a woman's place is looking after the kids and a man's place is at work providing for the family.
/r/MensRights08/08/21 10:16 PM
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Do you know which mod banned you? There's a very clear targeted attempt to stop anyone who has views that men can also face discriminated from posting.
/r/MensRights08/08/21 10:08 PM
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Same, it's been such a good resource. I was at some pretty low points when I was fighting for access to see my kid and this sub was always here to remind me that there's a light at the end of the tunnel.
/r/MensRights08/08/21 05:00 PM
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I fear you're right bud. It's just not a thing I can see Reddit resolving itself as the admins have very clearly picked a "side" instead of choosing to remain neutral. I do the same on social media. Don't feel like it makes much difference though. Still, I suppose it's better than doing nothing. A good account to follow on Instagram is called @thetinmen. I think they do a great job at pointing out how unjust things are for some men in a manner that doesn't immediately cause certain types of peop…
/r/MensRights08/08/21 04:52 PM
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Proud of this sub for calling out comments like that. If you ever see a comment like this blatantly hating on women it's almost guaranteed to be a troll but there's also a chance it's an actual misogynistic dickhead. So we gotta be on top of our game to report and downvote obviously misogynistic stuff like that. There are people on Reddit just looking for an excuse to ban us. Let's not give them one.
/r/MensRights08/08/21 04:43 PM
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Good point.The only problem is that here we're shouting into am echo chamber whereas we need to change minds of others so they can see we genuinely just want true equality. I wonder does anyone know of any news agencies outside of Reddit that would take up this story. The evidence of sexism by certain mods and Reddit admins failure to address it is overwhelming.
/r/MensRights08/08/21 04:36 PM
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Who was the mod? I've noticed there are a few who mod quite a few of the larger subreddits that abuse their power but allow blatantly misandrist comments to stay.
/r/MensRights08/08/21 04:34 PM
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You actually make some good points here and I do see where you're coming from. Keep in mind however that a lot of men here are direct victims of inequality as a result of feminist rhetoric. Dad's who can't see their kids but are broke because they have to pay a fortune in child support payments or abuse victims who haven't been taken seriously and have no refuge of support because they're men. So we can be angry and bitter and justifiably so. I agree that some people on this sub (myself included…
/r/MensRights08/08/21 04:22 PM
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They clearly never said that. YouTube is not inherently a good source of info. It CAN be but it depends who you subscribe to
/r/MensRights08/08/21 04:11 PM
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There are several mods like this and this is just one example of the larger problem. I think they're being found out but it appears that the Reddit admins just don't care. Blatant sexism gets a pass time and time again here on Reddit as long as the sexism is directed towards men.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates08/08/21 04:00 PM
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If he had a more severe intellectual disability it would be fucked up. But he shows his mental and emotional capacities time and time again throughout the film.
/r/MensRights08/08/21 03:25 PM
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First off, Forest Gump is one of my favourite movies. I don't agree with all of this. I think it's very clear that Jenny loved Forest. And Forest loved Jenny. She didn't string him along for 7 years. She loved him this whole time. They were best friends throughout childhood but she felt she'd be taking advantage of Forest if she took it any further. The same way her dad took advantage of her when she was a vulnerable child. So she put her love for Forest aside and filled that gap with sex and dr…
/r/MensRights08/08/21 11:05 AM
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What a lovely person. The fact they took the time to clearly look at your situation, realize that the mods had been unfair to you and then craft such a thoughtful message of support is really a testament to their character.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates06/08/21 04:37 PM
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Ah I hope you're right. I'll delete my comment then
/r/MensRights06/08/21 02:01 AM
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I agree. Or even get organised and become a regular editor on the likes of Wikipedia to try eliminate some bias. Ive tried but I don't have the mental fortitude to deal with it. The sheer Misandry I've noticed online that goes unchecked is just too overwhelming. It's not great for the mental health.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates06/08/21 12:12 AM
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I've noticed. There's a very clear and considered objective to control the narrative. Men need to get more organised and ensure parity of representation.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates05/08/21 11:55 PM
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Holy shit. This is actually so blatantly sexist in itself.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates05/08/21 11:27 PM
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I'm starting to notice these double standards are very real here on Reddit too. I dunno for some reason I always thought it was mostly egalitarian. It's really disappointing. I fear the lack of space to talk openly here in Reddit is going to push vulnerable men towards those incel forums.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates05/08/21 11:24 PM
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No. Did you have a similar experience?
/r/MensRights05/08/21 10:33 PM
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I can't see anything. I do have a screenshot of the comment though. Where exactly do I post the screenshot? The thread hasn't been deleted. It's just my reply to the mods comment that has. I've appealed to the mods directly but no luck.
/r/MensRights05/08/21 10:31 PM
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Same with r/whitepeopletwitter sub. A mod posted her opinion that it was misogynist to be against abortion. I replied that while I'm pro choice myself, roughly half of women in the US are against abortion so it can't be misogynist. She immediately removed my comment and banned me from the sub. I tried to appeal and she blatantly lied saying I said things that I didn't say at all as an excuse to ban me. It's a shame cause I really enjoyed that sub but it appears to be policed by a mod with a very…
/r/MensRights05/08/21 09:09 PM
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I disagree. NOW is one of the largest feminist orgs in the world. The plan is to make people aware of the harm feminsm does so that people don't just automatically assume feminism stands for equality. I'm not mad at individual feminists as I believe most of them actually want equality but are unaware of this damage. But I am mad at feminism the movement and certain feminist orgs and if people can see that my reasons are justified then hopefully other people will at least question it too.
/r/MensRights23/06/21 05:49 PM
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I disagree here. Because feminist groups campaign for women to have more rights than men, not equal rights. Especially when it comes to family law. Take a look at NOW and their position on the Duluth model for example. Now tell me wheres the equality in that? I'm pro women's equal rights but anti feminism for exactly this reason. Feminism is not about equality.
/r/MensRights23/06/21 05:20 PM
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I don't get why you're being downvoted, these are good questions. Women's groups get multiple times more funding then men's groups because therebis a narrative that "women have it harder"m This narrative is largely controlled by feminist rhetoric. These groups then lobby for policies which discriminate against men and put women's interests ahead of actual equality. Informing people of the direct harm feminism causes will hopefully lessen the damage and lead to more equal rights for everyone.
/r/MensRights23/06/21 03:28 PM
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Research as much as you can so when you debate these topics your opinions are informed. Then spread the word. Hold fundraisers for men's charities. Email your local politicians. That kind of thing
/r/MensRights23/06/21 03:22 PM
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That's really refreshing to hear. Thanks for your input.
/r/MensRights23/06/21 03:18 PM
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I want to report it. What should I say? Like which parts of the content extension policy does it break?
/r/MensRights27/05/21 01:49 PM
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I'm also extremely far left and an MRA. Her being socialist and her being a sexist are not related at all. Stop trying to turn every issue into a left vs right issue.
/r/MensRights26/05/21 01:06 PM
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No, I don't believe this happens that much tbh. Why do you think this? do you have any proof? One thing I have seen from some people on the more conservative men's rights subs is that liberal hate or hatred against women can often go unchecked. I've spoken to plenty of conservatives and while I don't like a lot of them because if their views, most are just normal people and are not white supremacists (or Nazis).
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/05/21 08:26 AM
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Yeah but I frequent men's rights spaces often and I've literally never seen any white supremacist stuff. So if it is happening at all I suspect it's a very small amount who do this. It's most definitely not their modus operandi.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates12/05/21 11:49 PM
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Is this a thing? I've never seen it.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates12/05/21 10:59 PM
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And I'm sure conservatives would make the exact same arguments against us about liberal politics. Nobody is ever gonna agree on every topic. Just because I disagree with conservatives on many issues, doesn't mean we shouldn't seek to find common ground. Or make the most of the issues we share in common so we can actually strive for some progress. Instead of feckin attacking each other.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates12/05/21 10:19 PM
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No, this is not how we should go. I don't know what it is but everything seems to become a left vs right issue these days. Both "sides" do it. Mens rights should be completely bi-partisan. We need everybody's voice, even if we disagree on some aspects, we all agree on the fundamentals. Focus on that instead of our differences.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates12/05/21 04:22 PM
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Absolutely disgusting. Women'sAid have so much power and funding as well. If you're in the UK then please write to your local governmental officials about this.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates08/05/21 05:23 PM
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The thing is I don't think feminists are hate filled at all. Some are sure but most are just like you or me so I think even comparing them to Nazis is too far. Definitely disagree on the second point. Feminism has done lots of good for women in the past and there are plenty of issues which women face that do still need fixing. Especially in LMIC countries. I see a growing number of feminists with a genuine hatred of men however. This really worries me.
/r/MensRights07/05/21 09:14 PM
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Yup exactly, I thought it went without saying but thanks for clarifying.
/r/MensRights07/05/21 05:44 PM
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Yes, I fully agree. But the reason I wouldn't say I'm anti-feminist is because people don't think relationally. If I say that then feminists (the majority of which are good people), will take that as a personal attack. They will get defensive and be less likely to listen to an opposing point of view so it's counter productive. Feminism has certainly done some good in the past but I'm extremely critical of modern feminism and feminist organisations. And read the initial comment I replied to. That…
/r/MensRights07/05/21 04:15 PM
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I went to an all boys school. Segregated schools are stupid in all forms. They're just unnecessary. Boys do worse academically in same sex schools too.
/r/MensRights07/05/21 03:08 PM
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Them men joking about getting her to circumcise them need to take a long look at themselves. They manage to objectify this woman while at the same time making fun of MGM. They probably think they're being funny af too.
/r/MensRights07/05/21 02:41 PM
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Feminism is not about equality. Feminism as a movement does not care about men. I'm sure individual feminists do. But if you actually look into how feminist orgs campaign and lobby it's very evident they don't care about men.
/r/MensRights07/05/21 02:32 PM
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Maybe you should read more than just the headline. There's more to the story.
/r/MensRights07/05/21 02:16 PM
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It's not sexist, but telling someone to smile is a bit of a dick move. Happened me all the time when I worked in retail. It was always middle aged women too. Really pissed me off.
/r/MensRights07/05/21 01:55 PM
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I feel ya man. It's so hard hearing so much hatred when literally all I want is equality. Been terrible for my mental health. But so many men don't speak up about their issues, I feel like I have to add my voice to the crowd. The more people that do the more accepted being an MRA will become.
/r/MensRights07/05/21 01:51 PM
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Yes definitely. I know plenty of older members of my family who are so out of touch with their emotions because historically men have been actively discouraged from embracing them. My dad has 4 kids and never changed a nappy in his life. Irish Catholic upbringing. Have a look at my previous comments here just from today, I was talking to a 14yo boy who is suicidal and the poor kid seems too scared to tell his Dad who just doesn't understand. That's a result of toxic masculinity. Went to an all b…
/r/MensRights07/05/21 01:46 PM
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Feminism as a movement doesn't care about equality overall, rather it cares about instances where women face inequality. Feminist orgs are perfectly content with inequality on instances where women are priveleged and in some instances actively encourage this inequality (e.g. Family Law). It's for this reason that I'm not a feminist because while feminism has undoubtedly done good in the past, I believe it has now diverged so much from its original ideals that it's actually doing more harm than g…
/r/MensRights07/05/21 01:28 PM
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Speak for yourself. I wouldn't say being anti-feminist is part of being an MRA. I focus on and advocate for both mens' and women's rights. I'm an egalatarian. I'm not a feminist but I'm also not anti-feminist per se as most people who describe themselves as feminist are just normal people. But theres definitely a significant amount of feminists who are anti men. I think we need to be better than them and not stoop to their level of hate.
/r/MensRights07/05/21 01:21 PM
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I recommend you call a helpline bud. They'll be able to advise you much better than I. I looked it up, the Samaritans number in the US is 116 123. It's free. Please give them a try. Future you will be thankful if you be proactive and try tackle this thing head on now.
/r/MensRights07/05/21 09:12 AM
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What country are you in? Does he know you're suicidal?
/r/MensRights07/05/21 08:43 AM
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That's a great time to look about starting counselling. I wish I'd started at 14. Your brain is still developing so you can essentially train it to think differently. It takes work though. If your dad doesn't listen do you have any other family members you could bring it up with?
/r/MensRights07/05/21 08:36 AM
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Hey, I'm sorry to hear that man. Have you looked about getting help?
/r/MensRights07/05/21 08:32 AM
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Don't know why you're being downvoted. This kind of rhetoric is why men's mental health isn't taken seriously. It's one of the main reasons male suicide/homeless/addiction rates are so high. How can we expect people to listen to us about men's mental health if men themselves don't collectively take it seriously.
/r/MensRights07/05/21 07:30 AM
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Yeah, I wouldn't necessarily blame the woman even if she did pick him out. She went through an absolute traumatic experience so leniency should be shown towards her. The GMP, judge and jury have a lot to say for themselves however.
/r/MensRights03/05/21 03:58 AM
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They often lost on r/leftwingmaleadvocates here on Reddit too. Check that sub out, it has some great content.
/r/MensRights29/04/21 09:38 PM
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Yes please don't give up. I got called a misogynist earlier on tiktok for calling out a woman for saying she was "misandrist and proud". Like seriously, I'm somehow a sexist because I call out someone for being sexist? The mental gymnastics some people go through never ceases to amaze me. Sincerely, thank you.
/r/MensRights28/04/21 02:52 AM
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He/She is right though. A lot of boys aren't raised right. It's our job to break that cycle. That being said, if I was to have another kid i'd prefer a girl too because she would face much less adversity in the future than my son will if current trends continue.
/r/MensRights28/04/21 02:47 AM
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This is incredible. Thank you for taking the time,
/r/MensRights28/04/21 01:35 AM
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And the court bias extends to regular non-criminals too. Especially so in family law.
/r/MensRights28/04/21 01:33 AM
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Thank you for your support. Please call out this behaviour whenever you see it because this "anti-men" rhetoric is growing fast. Our opinions are immediately dismissed when people find out we're men so it means 1000x times more when a woman says it. It means so much to me personally to hear other women speak out in support of mens rights issues. For that reason I always try to be an ally for womens issues too.
/r/MensRights28/04/21 01:29 AM
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I'm not surprised you had to scroll so far down to see those comments in that sub. I will add, we need to be better than them on mens rights subs and refuse to stoop to their level of hate. While it's ok to hate on these types of feminists because of their sexist ideology, it's never ok to hate on women as a whole, and if we see hateful comments we should always call them out. This comment isn't directed at you btw op, but our whole community.
/r/EverydayMisandry27/04/21 05:15 PM
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The dictionary is not an academic source though. But you make a good point, like legally there is nothing stopping a woman from becoming president. I think the issue is that many people wouldn't vote for someone because they're a woman so historically they never stood a chance. But nowadays, if a suitable candidate emerged who's a woman I don't think people would have a problem. Edit: Also, there are still many systems of government where women actually bare excluded. But none really in western …
/r/MensRights22/04/21 09:40 PM
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I don't like that line either, it seems unnecessary and it's definitely an opinion rather than a fact. There was certainly no need to make it a left/right issue. However, read through the rest of it. There are some excellent points made backed up by actual scientific journal articles.
/r/MensRights22/04/21 09:30 PM
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Agree completely. While this sub doesn't deserve the hate it gets from the linked post, we can definitely do better at calling out misogynistic stuff when it arises. We need to be better than them if we want to see real progress.
/r/MensRights22/04/21 08:26 PM
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I agree that the patriarchy is bs but do you have sources for this? Would really help when debating feminists in future.
/r/MensRights22/04/21 08:23 PM
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To add to this, most research these lawyers use as justification is also extremely biased as the social sciences are heavily dominated by women and feminist rhetoric has much sway.
/r/MensRights20/04/21 07:34 PM
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Good shout too. you'll prob be downvoted for mentioning a left wing sub on here but I've found it to be an excellent resource
/r/MensRights14/04/21 05:44 AM
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This account is incredible everyone. Please go follow and share their stuff regularly.
/r/MensRights13/04/21 04:00 PM
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I'll be honest, I've done a lot of wallowing myself. And I've met a lot of very driven feminists but I just think they're severely misinformed. They genuinely think they're making the world better but they're just making things worse for everyone. I wish more men had some of the drive that I see in those feminists tho. A lot of men are happy to sit on the fence.
/r/MensRights09/04/21 11:43 PM
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Honestly sometimes there is no reasoning with them. It'll only be to the detriment of your own mental health. Careful with drugs too bud, there's a time and a place but I'd definitely try be aware if you're using them to self medicate. Look after yourself man. You're strong! And if you tell yourself you're not then tell that man to stfu. Don't let those bitches win. You got this!
/r/MensRights09/04/21 11:34 PM
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I disagree. I think it's much more nuanced than that. This is one thing I find so strange about US politics but I find it's creeping it's way over here (Ireland) too. Not every issue aligns with "the left believe this so the right must be against it (or vice versa)" rhetoric. The truth almost always lies somewhere in the middle. So imagine a liberal comes on here and they're on the fence about the mens rights issue and they see this guy calling people "Libtards", do you think they'll be more or …
/r/MensRights09/04/21 11:29 PM
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Ah shit, I'm sorry to hear that bud. That sucks balls and you've every right to feel how you feel. I'm definitely partial to the odd feminist rant online myself and while it feels good at the time it never really lasts. But definitely use that anger and try turn it into something productive.
/r/MensRights09/04/21 11:20 PM
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Honestly man, you have some very valid points here but it's drowned out by a lot of the stuff you're ranting about here which just doesn't matter.
/r/MensRights09/04/21 10:45 PM
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No, I mean a source which states they schedule meetings to moderate it. I'm not saying I don't believe him. I had a look at the edit history of that page and it's very clear that there is one particular feminist editing it who has an extremely biased agenda. I'm interested in seeing the videos he's talking about.
/r/MensRights09/04/21 10:43 PM
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What good does calling people libtards do here? Do you genuinely think liberal people think like this? I'm extremely left-wing and I don't think like that. None of my left-wing friends think like that. Discrimination of men is not a left/right issue. Don't make it one.
/r/MensRights09/04/21 10:34 PM
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Yes, I actually tried to find a few dictionaries contact details to complain but they all led to dead ends. I disagree however, I think it's only going to get worse as this false narrative only becomes more embedded in society. I fear we're already past the tipping point of ever having true equality.
/r/MensRights07/04/21 10:40 PM
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I admire your optimism but I don't think it'll be back to normal until men become as active as women are at fighting for issues which we believe are important. I can't see that happening for a long time unfortunately.
/r/MensRights07/04/21 09:59 PM
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Have a look at the sources for that comment. You can bet your ass womens advocates have contacted each and every dictionary listed to include the fact that women are the primary victims. Also, the social Sciences are heavily female-dominated and therefore research in these matters will have an inevitable female bias. MRA's need to be much more clever at combatting this false narrative that women are victimised more.
/r/MensRights07/04/21 09:56 PM
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Do you have any source of this? To give feminists credit, they're incredibly good at mobilizing and organizing. Maybe we could do something similar. Not to make it biased towards men, just to make sure things are fair.
/r/MensRights07/04/21 09:02 PM
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I actually can't believe you brought up Brie Larson. Just compare how she and her ex were treated by society even though he was the victim of domestic abuse and you'll see evidence of double standards clear as day. Also, it's well documented that men face greater repercussions for the SAME crimes than women. School dress codes are archaic but that remains the case for both men and women. I know in my school at least girls had the option of wearing a skirt if it was hot. "There’s a real “man natu…
/r/MensRights07/04/21 08:15 PM
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That's a very good point about people who are at their wit's end flocking to the only people who seem like they care. I have noticed a real problem with some of these groups turning into women-hate groups more so than men's rights groups. I think the left definitely need to do a better job at speaking up in favour of men's rights. At the minute women's rights seem to dominate the narrative and if you even try to bring up mens issues the conversation seems to be shut down. I know for a fact from …
/r/MensRights07/04/21 07:59 PM
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Very well put. I agree with everything. But a point on your lest sentence, this is not a left/right issue. There are plenty of people on the far left who will fight too. I'm one of them myself. If we want to make a difference we need to get as many people as possible on board and making it a left/right issue will only divide us further.
/r/MensRights07/04/21 05:12 PM
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It's not 1 in a million for me. I'd say 1 in 20 are good conversations. But if you're not effecting any change then maybe try change your approach. You're never gonna just completely flip somebody's opinion easily. If it takes lots of effort that doesn't mean it's not worth trying. And it's fine if they go home after. Not everyone needs to be an activist. But it'll sure help if more people actually understand our struggles.
/r/MensRights01/04/21 10:04 AM
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If you go in to the argument with that mindset then they're not going to listen and you're not going to listen to them. I find that very often you're completely right but sometime feminists genuinely just haven't really thought of things from a male point of view. Mostly they do get extremely defensive but I have had a few productive conversations with feminists. Although it's very difficult over the internet.
/r/MensRights31/03/21 09:01 PM
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That's refreshing to hear.
/r/MensRights31/03/21 05:53 PM
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Yeah I agree. It's completely unreasonable to dismiss everyone who has a different opinion to you as not caring. I'm extremely leftward leaning myself and I spend far too much time arguing with feminists online.
/r/MensRights31/03/21 05:53 PM
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The lengths that you stated are wrong then. You said 11 inches on average for shorts when your own source says that the shorter lengths are more common. And for mini skirts it says 4 inches below the buttocks. Not that they're 4 inches altogether. I get what you're saying though and agree completely. It definitely feels like men's clothing has stagnated and that's reflective of men's rights as a whole. Listen, do not go down the road of judging women based on what women in them subs say. They ar…
/r/MensRights17/03/21 10:03 AM
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Source for your average length of skirts and shorts? I'm skeptical of those measurements. Why are you focusing on length anyway. He asked was there an equivalent to mini skirts that men can wear and shorts are. You can buy shorter shorts like. I'm not victim blaming Women didn't accept it initially but those women who chose to start wearing trousers didn't let the fear of not getting laid stop them. I would never argue that discrimination against men is null and void. I'm sick of it myself. All …
/r/MensRights17/03/21 08:48 AM
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This whole argument has no legs. It's pointless anyway. Plenty of malls sell shorts. They're less available because of a lack of demand. If men suddenly started wearing them more often then more stores would sell them. Yet you're acting like it's some great injustice . Should a women's store start stocking neckties even if they're not gonna sell any?
/r/MensRights17/03/21 08:35 AM
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It is not hard to buy shorts shorter than knee length. They're literally a google search away if you want some. All my shorts stop well before the knee. Even if that was true, the problem is that society oppresses men, not individuals of X or Y gender. Please do not try to turn men's rights into "boys vs girls", men's rights are human rights It is true, and that's exactly what I'm saying. It's society as a whole that oppresses men, not just women.
/r/MensRights17/03/21 07:16 AM
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The fact men are judged for wearing skirts pales in comparison to the real discrimination us men face. Think family law, homicide, suicide and having bro listen to bs about us having a curfew. Women faced similar mockery for wearing trousers and the way the solved that was by getting enough women to wear trousers that it became socially acceptable. So if you want to see change then go to work tomorrow in a skirt. "Tell me this , is their anything that's social acceptable for men thats equivelent…
/r/MensRights17/03/21 06:06 AM
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Dude, please report them. A similar thing happened in Northern Ireland where a bakery refused to make a cake for a gay couple. They were homophobic bigots and were rightful sued. These women were sexist and what they did is 100% illegal. Don't let this just fester away. They need to be held accountable.
/r/MensRights14/03/21 01:34 AM
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Honestly, I imagine those people who downvoted only had their views asserted by seeing that other people also downvote. That's the problem with hive minds. Keep speaking the truth though, the tide will turn quicker the more often people speak up.
/r/MensRights11/12/20 09:29 PM
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No, offer to give them the full 30,000 but only if she agrees that should they split up then she has to return 15,000 back to the father. That'll show where her intentions really lie.
/r/MensRights01/11/20 04:02 PM
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I wouldn't say he was raped either, he may well have consented. However I'd argue that it's quite common for rape victims to not consider themselves as rape victims. Also, 2 people being the same level of drunk does not absolve everybody of assault. I do get your point though, from reading the original post there's not enough information to call it rape with any certainty.
/r/MensRights01/11/20 03:55 PM
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Cut this shit out at the source. If you're aggrieved at this bs then email dictionary.com and complain. Edit: I read the rest of the definition also. It's very clear the definition has been written with extreme bias.
/r/MensRights04/10/20 04:40 AM
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Typical. That place is a cesspool. The worst thing is there's so many of that type in the world and they have a real world affect at stopping progress for father's Feminists used to argue for increased male parental responsibility so that women would have more time to focus on their careers and such. Now they want to have it both ways. Women won't be equal in the workplace until men are equal in the home.
/r/MensRights01/09/20 04:01 PM
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Does anyone have a source for this? Would be very useful information. I'm trying to pressure my local government representatives into pushing for better father's rights.
/r/MensRights01/09/20 03:56 PM
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You're just flat out lying there. https://electronicintifada.net/blogs/adri-nieuwhof/ten-year-gap-between-palestinian-and-israeli-life-expectancy-report And it's not even just about life expectancy. It's about how these people are being treated. They're evicted from their homes and then have no option but to go to refugee camps where they rely on humanitarian aid. It's honestly disgusting that you're trying to downplay what your country has been doing. I'm done with you.
/r/MensRights17/08/20 01:54 PM
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You can cherry pick your stats all you want. The Arabs that remain in Israel are better off because they weren't forcibly kicked out of their homes and made homeless. And they moved to Palestinian land so are you counting them in your stats? Also you're focusing on life expectancy and death rates when that's not the main problem. And even so you'll find life expectancy of those at the west Bank and Gaza you WILL see that it is a full 6 years less than those in Israel. 6 years is a huge differenc…
/r/MensRights16/08/20 03:24 PM
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According to United Nations figures, 726,000 Palestinians had fled or were expelled by the Israelis between 1947 and 1949. They founded a state on what was previously predominantly Arab land. While I agree it was extremely important that Israel was founded, it's hardly surprising they attacked the state that was founded on the land they were kicked out of. The whole situation could have been avoided had things been handled a bit more delicately immediately after WWII. Palestinians are being pers…
/r/MensRights16/08/20 11:00 AM
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It's much more nuanced than that and you well know it. I'm Irish, so I have no skin in this game whatsoever. I'm just standing up for the people who are quite clearly being persecuted. Having a quick look at your Reddit account which seems to be a walking ad for Israel I'd hardly say you're neutral.
/r/MensRights16/08/20 08:53 AM
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"As of November 11, lethal force by Israeli forces resulted in the killing of 71 and injuring 11,453 Palestinians in Gaza, OCHA reported. An additional 33 were killed and 114 injured, according to al-Mezan, during escalated fighting between November 12 and 14. Many of the killings took place in the context of protests, when Israeli forces fired on people who approached or attempted to cross or damage fences between Gaza and Israel, using live ammunition in situations where lesser measures could …
/r/MensRights16/08/20 03:03 AM
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You're actually talking out your arse. Palestinians are also Semites. It's like saying a black dude attacking another black dude was a racist attack. Also your point is irrelevant as if Israel were not attacking Palestinians and forcing them off their land creating an ever smaller Palestine then they would have no reason to retaliate. Lastly, Israel's actions are only further radicalising aggrieved Palestinians. They're shooting themselves in the foot and making the Hamas problem even worse.
/r/MensRights16/08/20 02:48 AM
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Israel only acts in self defense. Are you actually serious? They've been stealing Palestinian land and killing Palestinian civilians for years. Israel are very much the aggressor and Palestinians are fighting back. I don't blame them. America are not helping the situation either. They're turning a blind eye to all the shit Israel are doing.
/r/MensRights16/08/20 02:38 AM
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Oh my god. Yeah your therapist might be onto something there. So sorry you had to suffer through that. Glad therapy has helped.
/r/MensRights29/07/20 01:51 AM
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Dude even if it didn't succeed what you've done is a step towards progress. It'll take many more of these before we get there but don't let this discourage you. I'm part of similar movements here in Ireland and yes, progress is frustratingly slow but don't leave it a few years. I think one of the reasons it's so slow is because us men don't speak up enough. So getting so many signatures is absolutely fantastic. Just keep tipping away. We'll get there buddy.
/r/MensRights28/07/20 06:55 PM
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Wow, that's honestly really impressive that you can set that anger aside. It's quite possible the victim hasn't acknowledge the fact they he's been assaulted. I'm happy for you that you've got out of that relationship and massive kudos for moving forward with your life.
/r/MensRights28/07/20 06:41 PM
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It is indeed. That's how I heard of it anyway. Decent show too.
/r/MensRights27/06/20 02:30 AM
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I'm guessing he watched Unabomber show. That phrase was the crucial reason they caught him. Both phrases are correct but apparently the less common one which he used was the original phrase.
/r/MensRights26/06/20 10:27 PM
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