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Geez dude, I know you say you’re not socially awkward but these are extreme solutions. It’s worth remembering that initially nearly EVERY guy has an inability to cold approach women, the same way none of us can ride a bike at first. So what do you do? You start of with stabilisers on a bike. You need your stabilisers, but none of the solutions above are good, if they do work (which is unlikely) you will end up depending on them because you think you need them. Have you tried cold approaching awa…
/r/askTRP15/04/19 08:54 AM
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That brightened up my Monday and made me LOL. So true
/r/askTRP15/04/19 08:50 AM
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You’re way overthinking it. When I separated 18 months the ago I was living with a female family friend, no way I could take women back there. I just found women that I could stay at theirs, sure I lost a few potential plates but nothing major. Prioritise women who have their own place, and don’t bother with women who live with parents. My personal advice for you in your circumstance is to go for single mums as plates, normally more that happy for you to go to theirs
/r/askTRP18/03/19 12:35 AM
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Some serious possessiveness going on here... very blue pill. There is only one answer, let her go. Even if she does cheat when on holiday, who gives a fuck? As long as she’s giving you want you want from the relationship what does it matter? A lot of the answers here are way to focused on what SHE will do, or not do, who’s she going with, frame blah blah blah. You shouldn’t give a shit, let her live her life, if she’s gonna cheat she’s gonna cheat... and it’s the same for you so don’t bullshit a…
/r/askTRP18/03/19 12:17 AM
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Depends on age, under 25 generation rely on text/messaging for rapport so if you only use texting for logistics you rapidly increase your flake percentage, older than that you can get away with it
/r/askTRP08/12/18 08:46 AM
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Yes if you do as the others have said. When she said that she didn't want anything more than a crush you should have laughed it off as no big deal, and even teased her about having a crush on you (I mean, she would have no chance with you.... right?)
/r/askTRP07/12/18 03:51 PM
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OK You’re proving my point, don’t gym at home Get a part time job at a shop where you have to talk to people, not for the money but to push yourself Sports is competitive, perhaps something more artistic I just meant someone who’s socially awkward as well, not a perfect unicorn. The key is that you have to push yourself.
/r/askTRP07/12/18 12:08 PM
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Don't confuse fear with higher value. They might fear you, but they don't desire you to be in their lives so you're not high value.
/r/askTRP07/12/18 11:41 AM
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Shit test, and you probably failed
/r/askTRP07/12/18 11:38 AM
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There are a few options: 1) Psychiatrist (get a male one) who deals with social anxiety 2) Are you lifting? Lift in a big gym (lifting in front of people will give you confidence) 3) Get a job that challenges your ability to present yourself, like sales 4) Go to a hobby class, if your into photography attend a photography group 5) Accept your a retard and wait until you find someone the same I would try 2, 4, 3, 1 then 5
/r/askTRP07/12/18 11:34 AM
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She said she's up for a date then you changed the subject. Be direct. You: how bout next Friday or sat Her: I'm down You: OK, Friday at 8pm at XXXXX bar (hopefully one in walking distance to your place) ​ You got it out of her that she likes a smoke, that's the perfect hamster material to get her back to your place to bang ​
/r/askTRP07/12/18 10:54 AM
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20 so porn generation? Jesus. I do worry what people take from this sometimes. The rules haven't really changed on that in the last 50 years I suspect, get her turned on so much that she puts her hand on your dick, then get it out. You can try placing her hand there to bring her along a little bit, if she squeezes its a green light
/r/askTRP07/12/18 10:50 AM
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You have to find your own balanced path with your knowledge. Some people read religious texts and bring little bits of that into their lives, some people read the same thing and blow themselves up in the name of a god. It's how you read it, balance that against your desires and what you want from life, and choose your path forward. ​ P.S It's OK to take a few wrong turns and do the odd U-Turn, everyone does. But keep moving forward
/r/askTRP07/12/18 10:47 AM
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I'll be honest I don't mind paying for things, I often find that on the second date they jump to pay anyway. I don't think it does you any harm on the first date to show that you have the means to provide for both, and money isn't a great concern for you. I'll second the vote for meeting for a cofffee, buy her one too and its still low investment. But try and sit on a sofa together or try and get a walk in there too, its hard to kino when you're sat across from each other in a bright coffee shop
/r/askTRP07/12/18 10:42 AM
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Other men won't see you as higher value for being a dick, your family and friends certainly won't, but you'll get laid more and have sex without commitment. It depends on what is more important to you? I think your ego is playing a part here, and there is some work to do for you to be comfortable in your own skin dude. You're trying to "play" roles but you have to find out what YOU really want to be.
/r/askTRP07/12/18 10:39 AM
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If you nutted first date then go for it, hardly going to be a LTR if you got it on the first date anyway, so why worry about having tight game?
/r/askTRP07/12/18 10:04 AM
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I'm 36, getting divorced. I moved out a year ago and have added 25 to the N count in that time. Youngest was 23 and a webcam girl, AFC's would pay her all day long to do shit over cam, I'd go and fuck her for free
/r/askTRP07/12/18 10:01 AM
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She dreaded the shit out of you, she was the "one" for you but you were never the "one" for her. You're seeing it all thorough rose tinted glasses dude, get it on with the one who cooks for you and forget your ex. Be happy.
/r/askTRP29/11/18 04:12 PM
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You'll be making her wetter than a rainforest in rainy season. Keep it up dude, just don't overpost on social media and also keep some mystery about you. The point is, does she regularly want sex with you? offers to cook for you? gives you blowjobs without sex? If yes then its working. If not, then it sounds like you can get someone who does
/r/askTRP29/11/18 04:09 PM
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As men I don't think we can really understand what its like to be a women, let a alone a girl assuming you mean someone younger. Female social circles are complex, and nasty, and amongst all that you have hormones and a naturally orientation to react how you feel. No wonder some girls struggle with this. If you like one of these girls though, and you can attract and LEAD her, you're golden
/r/askTRP29/11/18 04:05 PM
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All men possess the ability to think below the waist. We may say women only follow what they feel, but all men certainly at some point follow their dick and ignore their brain
/r/askTRP29/11/18 04:01 PM
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I think you're using monk mode as an excuse dude. I need to focus a little more on my career etc., so I'm looking for a little LTR to tick things over now as I won't have time to develop prospects and spin plates. Why don't you do that? just get a nice little LTR chick who understands your busy, keep focusing on what you're doing but you can beast her once a week to let all the frustrations out. Thing is, she'll love the beasting
/r/askTRP29/11/18 03:43 PM
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Its all relative to what you're willing to get laid with, what you're looking for, and the amount of time your willing to spend buttering prospects up. The guys who get laid often will either have 2-3 good plates spnning, or they are happy to have a lay that's 1-2 points below their SMV. Personally, as a mid thirties separated dad, I have good success with single mums in their twenties (as they know I understand kiddies come first, and I'll just give them positive times and no shit) and younger …
/r/askTRP29/11/18 03:37 PM
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I do think the TRP needs to chill out on the “LTR’s are impossible/worse decisions” vibe. I have plenty of male friends who are in happy LTR’s, and they know nothing about red pill teachings. It is possible. I think that a lot of the younger RP guys develop a real issue with showing vulnerability as you don’t have complete control, but the deepest relationships, be it friendship or more, require it
/r/askTRP26/11/18 12:52 PM
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Any women who tries something different from Tinder seem to have the “validation addiction” of being on a few dating apps and are a waste of time, except for attempted first date bangs if you can stack a couple of dates for one night to cover against flakes. Tinder is generally the first one anyone will try, if you can clear out your matches so Tinder says there is no-one within your search criteria then only new or returning users will pop up, if you match quick and setup a date with 4/5 days t…
/r/askTRP21/11/18 10:38 PM
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I'm 36, and I've been able to go 10 to 12 years below my age. I don't go above as generally the women aren't as appealing? One thing if using apps like Tinder is try to put your age within a "catchment". I always say I'm 35 then just brush it off as a innocent mistake afterwards. but this is because most women in the late twenties will put 25-35 in their search criteria, so if I put 36 I would be excluded. But you're 28 which shouldn't be an issue at all, perhaps your photos appeal to the older …
/r/askTRP19/11/18 11:49 AM
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I agree, that's why I said I think I'm getting accute onetitus. I'm pretty sure I desire a break from plate spinning, none of my plates are potential LTR's, hence slightly unicorning this one I guess. But she does tick all my boxes, and she's also only 10 minute drive away. However if I am in her frame, she doesn't know it yet, I've only answered 50% of her calls (normally because I've been genuinely busy)
/r/askTRP19/11/18 11:41 AM
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If you have kids, plating and possible LTR's with someone also with kids can be a good idea, especially if you have a career and hobbies to focus on as well. The crucial thing is her baby daddy being involved, so you get those kid free weekends together. On the weeknights when she has her kids, if she trusts you enough to come over when they are in bed (this works much better when the kids are young) then you are gold as the only option she has is to invite you over, so the investment for you is…
/r/askTRP19/11/18 11:36 AM
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This. And if it does bother you then you should instantly dump. What you can’t do is start moaning and whinging about orbiters as you then lose frame, probably to never get it back if in a LTR
/r/askTRP19/11/18 11:03 AM
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