grasshopper241 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
34	What are your second date ideas?	Conversation	grasshopper241	/r/seduction	08/08/22 05:47 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
–	Society didn't lie to men about women and dating. Porn did. That's what I thought they meant, yea.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/07/26 06:00 PM
–	Society didn't lie to men about women and dating. Porn did. Women get sexual attention for merely existing. We were told men and women are the same.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/07/26 03:09 PM
7	Modern Dating Basics: What Every Beginner Needs to Know in 5 Minutes Dude, if he pulls back now he'll ruin it. She'll think he lost interest or is cheating and might bail herself. As long as he's not the one pushing for it, it's fine.	/r/seduction	17/12/24 09:02 PM
5	36F here and I would love a cold approach but in an appropriate manner. "You take the initiative and lead, but do exactly what I want" - Women	/r/seduction	26/08/22 01:33 AM
1	What are your second date ideas? That sounds quite nice actually. I just feel like I need to offer something more definitive. Maybe I'm overthinking it.	/r/seduction	09/08/22 04:11 AM
3	What are your second date ideas? Only if you look good in a swimsuit 😬	/r/seduction	08/08/22 10:54 PM
2	What are your second date ideas? I love bookstores and they spark great conversations but for a whole date??	/r/seduction	08/08/22 10:53 PM
2	What are your second date ideas? I'm late 30s. Could be a difference there.	/r/seduction	08/08/22 08:06 PM
2	What are your second date ideas? Movies seem good. You can talk about the movie and it takes pressure off the dinner needing to be the whole night's activity. Is that too cliche these days though? Doesn't seem like anyone goes to movies anymore.	/r/seduction	08/08/22 08:04 PM
1	What are your second date ideas? That's a good list but I'm by far my best at bar conversation so I always start there. Do you have a repeatable high-energy activity you use?	/r/seduction	08/08/22 06:33 PM
3	What are your second date ideas? Those seem good but I'm never on top of what's going on in my area. I'm looking for something easily repeatable.	/r/seduction	08/08/22 06:31 PM
9	What are your second date ideas? Seems like a solid 3rd date idea, but a little fast for a 2nd. Maybe it depends on what you're looking for. Do you find women agreeable to this on a 2nd date?	/r/seduction	08/08/22 06:30 PM
2	What should be my reply when girls tell me on the date that they're screening me? "Well, obviously. You're not supposed to say it out loud though. What is this, your first time?"	/r/seduction	07/08/22 05:03 AM
1	What works romantically doesn’t always work socially, and vice versa. This is why I've gotten amazing with women but worse at friends. Good observation.	/r/seduction	03/08/22 08:09 PM
22	What works romantically doesn’t always work socially, and vice versa. This is why I've gotten amazing with women but worse at friends. Good observation.	/r/seduction	03/08/22 08:08 PM
5	Thought of the day: She’ll fuck you if you make her feel attractive + have a connection with her This explains why so much advice here sounds rude and ineffective to me. I come across as high value and it doesn't apply to me.	/r/seduction	27/07/22 03:11 PM
1	Thought of the day: She’ll fuck you if you make her feel attractive + have a connection with her Interesting. Say more.	/r/seduction	27/07/22 07:49 AM
12	How do guys feel about their arm being held? I love it! I vote yes.	/r/seduction	19/06/22 05:06 AM
1	My mood has been severely affected by my belief that society is obsessed with youth (and mostly youth in women.) Are you the same one who keeps posting that nobody likes pussy?	/r/seduction	09/06/22 02:59 AM
1	Men's fascination with male genitalia makes me upset. Yep, no one likes pussy. That checks out.	/r/seduction	04/06/22 03:30 AM
1	When on a first date, should I kiss the girl in public or somewhere more private? I've never tried a public kiss, but it seems like you couldn't kiss as passionately in that scenario. Plus I usually use "Can I walk you to your car/home/etc?" as an invitation to go somewhere more private and give me confidence that she wants to be kissed.	/r/seduction	11/05/22 12:31 PM
91	I am above average looking and a lot of women want to sleep with me [M25] but it scares my virgin ass It just takes practice, you'll get there. Do a little better each time and take easy wins where you can get them. You're nervous because your focus is on what you don't want to happen. Change your focus to what you do want to happen and you'll come across confident.	/r/seduction	09/05/22 10:49 AM
26	How do you personally word it when you are asking a girl on a date? I do think it matters how you ask, but that's almost word-for-word the line I've settled on. "You seem x" conveys that I'm judging her, but positively. "Seem" implies I haven't decided for sure yet. Then the straightforward ask shows confidence. Then picking a place and time minimizes uncertainty and the mental friction to agreeing.	/r/seduction	09/05/22 10:26 AM
1	Think about dates as episodes of a huge, unique adventure I agree about being fun and interesting, but I don't want to put on a show for her. I indulge my own unique interests with her, and my genuine enthusiasm is contagious.	/r/seduction	09/05/22 09:46 AM
-16	How do you personally word it when you are asking a girl on a date? Yikes. I prefer to date women with self esteem.	/r/seduction	09/05/22 09:37 AM