What are your second date ideas?

thefragile- · 2022-08-08T17:56:36+00:00

Something fun but physical. Bowling, mini golf, pool etc.

ImpressiveGrocery959 · 2022-08-08T21:05:40+00:00

An activity like bowling, mini golf, arcades etc.

Helps to bring out the inner child and see how much fun the are. It also is quite relaxed and lets you get a good view of how they are in different situations

great_account · 2022-08-08T21:01:52+00:00

Something that you guys talked about. If you both like a certain kind of cuisine, then dinner. If you guys like a certain activity, then that thing. If you don't get anything actionable from the first date, then take her somewhere you want to go.

austinrose7 · 2022-08-08T17:56:49+00:00

First date high energy activity based date (art museum say).

Second date formal (dinner say).

Third date invite her over and cook for her (schmexy time).

Fourth date in a group setting with your friends (this one is optional).

Within four dates you’ve got her to perform in all the environments you’d expect her to spend time with you so that you know if she’s a fit your lifestyle (outside your fam, but too early)…

To be clear, you aren’t trying to seduce her - you are giving her a thorough interview to make sure she’s a good fit for your lifestyle.

Vinegar_Tits_9 · 2022-08-08T22:25:31+00:00

I love going to an arcade. Fun! And a bit of flirty competition when it comes to games

justadudenameddave · 2022-08-08T23:31:49+00:00

Bowling is a phenomenal date idea or Dave and Busters, something competitive. Whatever you do do not let her win if you are good at the game you are playing. Women can sense it.

motherseffinjones · 2022-08-08T22:33:15+00:00

Netflix and dick is usually a great option but that depends on the vibe she is giving you

polosport84 · 2022-08-09T04:28:01+00:00

A few I set up that I hope you can pull inspiration from.

Arranged to meet outside a particular establishment. Walked along the river, came across a swing set and chatted for a bit, headed into the livlier section of town, got a cup of coffee and talked for a bit in a cozy corner.

After coffee we headed over to a chocolate shop down the street, picked out a few interesting pieces and chatted on a sofa together.

Visited a local park and played a round of mini golf (had a blast btw), strolled back to the river sat near it's banks, chatted a bit more and walked her to her car.

Date lasted 3.5 hours.

Another was Ipacked a bottle of wine and fruits. Picked her up and went on a walk in a well populated forest preserve, drive to play mini golf (see the pattern here) and then found park near her house, sat the the baseball field bleachers, drank wine and ate strawberries and cherries. It was one of her favorite dates.

Date lasted 4 hours.

Find a place that has game tables, like Jenga, bags or a shuffle board.

systemctl_status_me · 2022-08-08T22:48:50+00:00

Ice skating/axe throwing is a great time. Especially if there’s drinks involved before!

Crosfitlvr42 · 2022-08-08T17:51:13+00:00

A concert, fair, festival, low impact activities...

jjwondor · 2022-08-08T22:00:34+00:00

Been wondering about this myself. Want to do something that’s more than just sitting and talking. A festival could work. An activity followed by food? I like getting to sit next to each other to make it easier to break the touch barrier too

burakbenxd · 2022-08-09T07:18:15+00:00

Walks in the parks are great, then go to a secluded area for an intense hookup session ;)

burakbenxd · 2022-08-08T19:57:03+00:00

I’ve had decent luck with dinner and a movie for a second date.

ttgbos · 2022-08-08T21:49:05+00:00

I did museum and ice cream the other day. You could invite her over, and draw in adult coloring books together if she’s comfortable enough to trust you

yanshixo · 2022-08-08T22:00:02+00:00

Bookstore!

AnthdieSoos · 2022-08-08T22:47:49+00:00

swimming

The_GOAT27 · 2022-08-09T04:04:32+00:00

Yeah something physical, we went snowboarding for our second date. Was her idea but it is best to do something within her physical capability

FranciscotheBull · 2022-08-09T17:25:33+00:00

I think it depends on her personality as well. Since it was drinks the first date, bowling or billiards are good options. If you two want more time for each other to chat and all, I would suggest something lighter and chatting like a brunch date or some sort of relaxed environment.

Klokikus · 2022-08-08T18:28:19+00:00

Pray that 2nd date actually happens :) :'(

Romantic_Adventurer · 2022-08-08T18:51:40+00:00

Depends on her.

I have had second dates that were kinky and sexual.

Also have had second dates that were 100% neutral like walking in the park.

It depends on the person, the mood.

And about sweaty, I have taken people on dates hiking that ended up in full-blown crazy freaky seksy time after. Just depends on the physical fitness of the person, I guess.

Send me a message if you are interested in learning more!
Stay grateful, Romantic_Adventurer.

grasshopper241 · 2022-08-08T18:13:53+00:00

Go grocery shopping together then cook a meal.

no_not_this · 2022-08-08T21:34:20+00:00

My house for dinner and closing the deal.

FalconVita · 2022-08-09T07:16:51+00:00

outdoor

jjboy91 · 2022-08-09T17:57:14+00:00

I hate going out for drinks, no matter the date haha Usually an outdoor activity the city is organizing it photography, scuba diving

Title	What are your second date ideas?
Author	grasshopper241
Upvotes	34
Comments	47
Date	August 8, 2022 5:47 PM UTC (3 years ago)
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