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| -7 | What methods do you guys use to tame a girl with attitude?You gotta fuck her good. A girl like that doesn't respect a man with bad dick | /r/seduction | 30/01/26 06:22 PM |
| 2 | Thoughts on bringing your dates to night out with friends?I think you can do it. If a girl invited me out with her friends, I would say yes. But personally if I get the choice to organize, I want to focus on the date. If you're traveling solo, this is a totally fine way to date tho because you already don't know anyone you're hanging out with. | /r/seduction | 28/01/26 04:34 PM |
| 5 | guys in their late 20's early 30's. How do you do with younger ladies?37m here. I've had younger women 23-25 match with me on apps or met in person. I find them kinda annoying because they're more demanding than the 28-35yos I typically date. It's like they feel the need to put up arbitrary rules up so I'll take them more seriously, but don't realize that I value authenticity and confidence. Unless you meet an absolute knock out, just date girls your own age. | /r/seduction | 27/01/26 01:05 AM |
| 1 | How much do you “talk” to girls?It's a conversation, not a meeting. The direction will find itself. I think the best way to handle that is to be genuinely curious. You don't need to steer a conversation unless there's something specific you want to talk about. I think one thing that makes me special is that I'm very well read, well traveled, well studied and genuinely curious. So a girl could tell me about her makeup routine or the last romance novel she read and I'll be genuinely interested. | /r/seduction | 18/01/26 02:04 AM |
| 1 | How much do you “talk” to girls?Tbh the best successes I've had is when the talking ratio is 40-60 with her talking 60% of the time. Ask questions. Pay attention. Everyone EVERYONE likes to talk about themselves. If you're honestly trying to get someone interested in you, my personal advice is to let her do most of the talking. | /r/seduction | 17/01/26 06:36 PM |
| -2 | How to respondYes 😉 | /r/seduction | 29/12/25 09:17 PM |
| 3 | How to respondI'm a dude and this gave me the ick | /r/seduction | 29/12/25 09:17 PM |
| 1 | Miami or NYC during spring time (where would you go)As someone who has lived in both cities, NYC is much easier to get laid in. | /r/seduction | 25/12/25 04:49 AM |
| 4 | How to escalate with a girl with no intimacy past?18 is not a crazy age to be inexperienced. Maybe she feels ready now to try messing around with boys. Maybe she doesn't want to. | /r/seduction | 03/12/25 08:10 PM |
| 1 | How to escalate with a girl with no intimacy past?How old are you? | /r/seduction | 03/12/25 07:46 PM |
| 9 | Once you've kissed her once, do you have to check-in every time after as well?I know the Internet says you have to ask, but I'm 37. I have been dating for 20 years, I have never asked for permission to kiss someone. I just kinda get the vibe that she wants to kiss and go for it. Tho tbh I don't date women under 25. Maybe you need to ask them. | /r/seduction | 01/12/25 10:48 PM |
| 38 | What’s it like flying women out to your city to see you?I wouldn't pay for a woman's flight if we hadn't slept together yet. Desire to have sex isn't pre-meditated. It's something that is decided in the moment. If you pay for a flight expecting sex, you could tend to put pressure on the interaction which is unattractive and could dry her pussy up. Don't spend money on a woman unless you're sure you're ok losing it without anything in return. This is just good life advice: DON'T SPEND MONEY ON A WOMAN UNLESS YOU'RE SURE YOU'RE OK LOSING IT WITHOUT ANY… | /r/seduction | 30/11/25 11:52 PM |
| 2 | What do you say when sexual tension builds but the conversation goes quiet?Kiss her. | /r/seduction | 29/11/25 10:16 PM |
| 0 | Being openly sex positive is a game changerI never trust any guy when they tell me they get laid. It's easy to talk about, but it's hard to fake. | /r/seduction | 23/11/25 07:03 PM |
| 37 | Is it bad to open up about your fuckboy beliefs/lifestyle to monogamous male friends?There's a classy way to talk about having multiple girls/partners. Nobody likes the guy who brags about it. It makes you look like you're asking for validation. Don't talk about, be about it. People like guys who women like and are humble about it. | /r/seduction | 19/11/25 09:09 PM |
| 2 | Generally, how much of post-rejection is due to nothing you had control over?Maybe you can change a girl's mind about you, but worrying about what she thinks will never work. Your friend is right. | /r/seduction | 16/11/25 05:36 AM |
| 1 | Talking feminism on datesI think if you think feminists hate men, you're not engaging with people honestly. Maybe ask yourself why women feel strongly about this stuff in a way that seems sympathetic and once you've understood that viewpoints, then you are ready to engage honestly. | /r/seduction | 12/11/25 09:22 PM |
| 1 | How approach effect your reputationYour reputation will only be ruined if you handled things poorly or rudely. Women will actually respect you more if you take rejection gracefully. | /r/seduction | 07/11/25 08:18 PM |
| 1 | What to do when a girl won’t do a simple task you ask of her?It sounds like this situation is done. | /r/seduction | 02/11/25 05:55 PM |
| 1 | Never tell her you’ll cancel prior commitments to have sex with herOr cultivate a life where you do have cool plans. | /r/seduction | 01/11/25 04:42 PM |
| 63 | Never tell her you’ll cancel prior commitments to have sex with herDon't cancel your plans for pussy. Offer a different day. | /r/seduction | 29/10/25 11:45 PM |
| 2 | Where would you go on a solo "vacation" if you had roughly one week (first week of November) and your goal was to give yourself the best chances for success in applying the strategies discussed here?Mexico City | /r/seduction | 28/10/25 02:04 AM |
| 2 | How to respond when she has a good comeback to your teasing?"haha that was a good one" | /r/seduction | 26/10/25 07:28 PM |
| 161 | She’s telling you about her problems with another guy? Bro, you’re already in the friendzone.I've been in bed with a girl while she was complaining about another dude she was sleeping with. Things aren't always black and white. | /r/seduction | 21/10/25 03:51 AM |
| 3 | My RosterThey're only on your roster if you are consistently having sex with each of them. Otherwise you're just in a bunch of talking phases. | /r/seduction | 19/10/25 04:21 AM |
| 3 | Say they don't have social media but gave me their number/asked for mine insteadThis was a normal interaction when I was younger. | /r/seduction | 15/10/25 02:26 AM |
| 3 | Cunnilingus is starting to be more enjoyable than sex. Is that just me?This whole thread is dudes who are bad in bed. | /r/seduction | 14/10/25 06:14 PM |
| 1 | Do you think “confidence” is overrated in seduction?Like... some people just have that calm, grounded vibe that pulls people in without trying too hard. So real confidence? Meanwhile the loud "I'm so confident" types sometimes come off as fake or overcompensating. So fake confidence? Sounds like you're learning what real confidence looks like. | /r/seduction | 13/10/25 10:19 PM |
| 1 | As a 21M what are some of the best ways to show women 24-49 that they can take you seriously?I think when you're young, the main thing you can offer older women is being hot and good in bed. They know they can't rely on you for anything. So the ones who are open to dating you are looking for sex. | /r/seduction | 13/10/25 09:55 PM |
| 2 | What are your tips for “talking with the eyes”?Make eye contact. | /r/seduction | 09/10/25 08:31 AM |
| 1 | So many scam coaches out there- ThesingleguyThere is no amount of money that could teach you how to talk to women. Capitalism is a stain on humanity. | /r/seduction | 06/10/25 01:44 PM |
| 2 | What's the fastest you've hooked up with someone ?Like an hour. | /r/seduction | 20/09/25 12:42 PM |
| 39 | Has anyone tried AI dating assistants? How effective are they?I know when I was younger and more insecure, I started following this sub 15 years ago and I think it was useful for a time, but the older I get the more I fear for humanity's future. An AI cannot help you talk to a girl. Eventually, she has to get to know you as you are. | /r/seduction | 04/09/25 07:42 PM |
| 1 | How to convince her to send photos?In my experience, women are turned off by men asking for photos. Asking for photos will almost NEVER help your case, but it can certainly hurt your chances. | /r/seduction | 03/09/25 01:13 PM |
| 9 | How to convince her to send photos?Don't talk to people you can't meet. Don't ask for photos until you've been intimate. Get off the computer and go outside. | /r/seduction | 02/09/25 06:59 PM |
| 1 | Girl told me she’s not able to date right now but still trying to see meI wouldn't ask. I would just try to hang out and assume sex is on the table. Worst case you have a pleasant outing. | /r/seduction | 28/08/25 11:55 PM |
| 7 | On first dates that seem to go well, about how often are women inviting you back to their place?It can happen. You have got to have an eye for girls who like to fuck. I'm not single anymore but when I was, you had to have the right conditions to get laid on a first date. 1) a girl who is down for casual sex. You will get better at spotting them as time goes on, but they typically are very eager to talk to you. Be it through a dating app or meeting in person. 2) a place to be alone. If a woman has roommates, oftentimes she doesn't want them to know she had sex in a first date. If she lives … | /r/seduction | 19/08/25 10:39 AM |
| 1 | How do y'all judge while texting if the girl is intresting enough to hangout with?Texting isn't a good way to get to know people. You'll know when you actually sit down with her. | /r/seduction | 19/08/25 04:31 AM |
| 1 | 30's aged guys how do you source leads offline? (online dont work where i live coz issa small island)The Leads are weak. | /r/seduction | 17/07/25 03:57 PM |
| 2 | What’s the point of female friendshipsWomen are more fun to talk to than most men. Most men don't think too much about what they're doing, whereas women spend every waking moment thinking about what they're doing. There's plenty to ask about. Most men will give you 1 or 2 word responses. Men are more fun when there's an activity. Women are more fun when you just wanna talk. | /r/seduction | 10/07/25 07:09 PM |
| 21 | I’m 38 tall fit , still have hair single non-felon no kids but do have a per shattered footMaybe stop doing the meth | /r/seduction | 21/06/25 04:31 PM |
| 0 | The "2 Block Rule": always pick a place within walking distance of your place for the first dateIn a LTR now, but this was my exact plan when I was single. I specifically picked my apartment because it was close to cool bars and restaurants (also only 15 mins from work) and it makes it insanely easy to get someone home after a night at the bars or a first date. I know this isn't an option for everyone because your financial situation may not permit it, but if you have the money to invest in an apartment near a cool area, it's worth it. | /r/seduction | 02/06/25 10:34 PM |
| 5 | “I don’t sleep with guys on the first date” *proceeds to sleep with me on the first date*In my experience any girl who says she's not sleeping with you is definitely about to sleep with you. | /r/seduction | 30/05/25 12:48 AM |
| 3 | Does posting on your status or stories help in increasing attraction?Yep I'm sure. Let me know if you can see a link to purchase it somewhere. I'm sure if I put my name on the list, I'll eventually see a venmo request/credit card charge. Who makes a free online dating course? You're the one who decided to be hostile for whatever reason. I was just trying to let you know that IG stories provide value outside of gold diggers, but apparently you'd rather stick your head in the sand. Yeah because I think guys like you make this site unusable. But you're right, it's m… | /r/seduction | 27/05/25 06:46 PM |
| 1 | Does posting on your status or stories help in increasing attraction?Lol not selling a dating course Sees a "waiting list for dating course" Link in profile. Hmmmmm are you sure bro? The fact that you think you have to post stories in expensive places to get interest tells me everything I need to know about your level of game. So clearly you read and understood my comment. I'm discouraging this behavior. I get capitalism is hard for everyone and you gotta pay bills somehow, but is getting into arguments with scrubs like me really uplifting your dating course? | /r/seduction | 27/05/25 06:35 PM |
| -1 | Does posting on your status or stories help in increasing attraction?Sorry bro I'm sure you mean well but you're selling a dating course, so it's hard to take your opinion seriously. | /r/seduction | 27/05/25 06:27 PM |
| 39 | Does posting on your status or stories help in increasing attraction?It does increase your attraction to a certain type of girl. If you have great seats to a game(which is known to be expensive) or you post a great view from a difficult to get into rooftop bar, some girls will slide in your DMs hoping you'll invite them. Here's the crux, these girls don't actually like you. They like the stuff and the status. You might even get some pussy out of this, but I would imagine that you'll find this ultimately meaningless. Now, I think meaningless experiences have their… | /r/seduction | 27/05/25 05:03 PM |
| 7 | Friendly reminder: NEVER take a girl out for dinner on a first dateYou should feel so confident about what you offer in a relationship that you feel that any woman who demands dinner on the first date is missing out on you. | /r/seduction | 24/05/25 08:00 PM |
| 3 | Paid coaches or bootcamps worth it?Put that money towards a gym membership and new clothes. | /r/seduction | 23/05/25 02:20 PM |
| 1 | Would it be better to limit how much I talk to my woman?If you feel like less of you is going to improve the relationship, I got some news about how good this relationship can be. | /r/seduction | 19/05/25 11:21 AM |
| 5 | Why “I Just Want a Relationship” Is a Dangerous GoalBro there's so much info out in the world. Most of it cannot be condensed into 2 sentences. Do yourself a favor and try to read stuff. The details matter. | /r/seduction | 18/05/25 07:41 PM |
| 1 | At what point do you guys bring things like flowers to girls you're seeingI buy flowers for girlfriend's. | /r/seduction | 16/05/25 09:47 PM |
| 6 | Is it a red flag a woman, you're not in relationship with, is still in contact or hangs out with an ex?Depends what you want out of the relationship. You want sex? NBD. You want a girlfriend? Red flag. | /r/seduction | 15/05/25 08:12 PM |
| 4 | Question: if they won't meet you at your place to head to dinner on the 2nd date is it just dead before launch?A normal human woman will be hesitant to meet a man she doesn't feel comfortable with at his apartment. You should have a sense of what would be comfortable for her before asking. | /r/seduction | 13/05/25 04:06 AM |
| 1 | How important is social proof?It depends on the situation and the woman. In certain settings, it will get you laid. If other women talk about you or have slept with you, some women will find that attractive. However, it is not the end all be all. You can get laid without it. You can even generate social proof by making friends with people in the room. Some women will find that very attractive. But you don't need to. You can get laid without it. | /r/seduction | 06/05/25 12:32 AM |
| 7 | I find majority of girls boring, what can I do?Are you interesting? | /r/seduction | 23/04/25 05:21 PM |
| 2 | Do the most gorgeous girls NEVER chase a guy?Women pursue in ways different from men. They make themselves available. They stand next to you in a crowd. They laugh at your unfunny jokes. They play with their hair when they talk to you. They tap your shoulder. But they expect you to do the asking. I had a girl slide in my DMs, made it abundantly clear she wanted to get drinks. I asked and did the scheduling. After we started dating, I asked her "why did you ask me out?" And her reply was "I didn't ask you out, you asked me out" and I was co… | /r/seduction | 17/04/25 04:09 PM |
| 3 | How to handle a girl that seems to play this game.Give up. I've never once converted a girl like that into a date. | /r/seduction | 16/04/25 01:08 PM |
| 2 | My dating life completely changed when I started treating myself as a brandPosts like this are why humanity is doomed. You're not wrong for responding to the world I'm this way, but the world is wrong for making you feel like you have to act this way. Do something more valuable with your brain power. Help end capitalism. | /r/seduction | 08/04/25 04:56 AM |
| 1 | How do you talk romantically?Idk I just say whatever I feel like | /r/seduction | 15/03/25 11:09 PM |
| 16 | Best Jobs for Maximizing Seduction Opportunities?Attending here. I'm sure there's a nurse on your floor who feels otherwise. I speak from experience. | /r/seduction | 13/03/25 08:03 PM |
| 51 | Best way to find horny, hedonistic women?Feeld, occasionally hinge, hostels anywhere on earth, raves, big festivals, big touristy cities. Anywhere there are drugs. | /r/seduction | 10/03/25 07:26 PM |
| 48 | This is how to respond to the classic shit-test: What makes you special and why should someone date you”If someone asks you "why should someone date you?" Just say "I didn't say you should date me" | /r/seduction | 09/03/25 08:37 PM |
| 7 | What percentage of guys have actually picked up a girl in a bar at night and close the deal at the same night?It's not about the places it's about you. | /r/seduction | 21/02/25 05:52 AM |
| 5 | What percentage of guys have actually picked up a girl in a bar at night and close the deal at the same night?I used to live in Brooklyn and it is probably the easiest city in America to get laid in. | /r/seduction | 21/02/25 05:49 AM |
| 1 | Girl says I HAVE TO bring her a gift on our first dateI wouldn't even go on the date if I was you. | /r/seduction | 28/01/25 01:45 PM |
| 53 | How long should I wait when a girl I’m interested in doesn’t reply to my text?1) don't wait, move on with your life 2) if you're going to double text, then wait a day. 3) once the second text is sent, you're done. Move onto the next girl | /r/seduction | 20/01/25 04:56 PM |
| 1 | The best cold approach game system/ course/ site for getting laid.The best course for getting laid is life. If you're not going to commit to the journey don't ask for a shortcut. | /r/seduction | 15/01/25 07:34 PM |
| 7 | How would you improve your dating life, if you had some money?Lol bro none of these are requirements. They are suggested however. But if I'm being honest, the only thing you really need to get a girl is no shame. | /r/seduction | 11/01/25 09:10 PM |
| 21 | How would you improve your dating life, if you had some money?Clothes, trips, nice dinners, nice cocktail bars, nice set of bed sheets, nice pillows(you should have 4 pillows), nice apartment in a cool area. Go see a doctor, a dentist and an optometrist. Gym membership. Sign up for fun classes like improv, or play a in rec league for pickleball or basketball. Invest the money. Tickets to concerts or festivals. My real take home point is if you build a life you enjoy living, you won't have to worry about finding someone who wants to be in your life. | /r/seduction | 11/01/25 05:49 PM |
| 3 | Want to ask out barista but also don’t want to loose my regular cafe?The two most important parts of asking someone out are knowing what to do if they say yes and knowing what you do if they say no. If they say yes, have a plan in mind for the date. If they say no, be prepared to crack a joke and never bring it up again. | /r/seduction | 31/12/24 02:09 AM |
| 2 | How do you escalate during a quick coffee date?I prefer drinks for a first date. A good bar is much easier to escalate in and the chances of sex are much higher. But if you're going to do a coffee date, then don't expect to get too physical at first, especially in the afternoon. If you're having a good time together, you could potentially transition to dinner. The fact of the matter is if you're meeting a tinder date at a coffee place, you're probably not getting laid, so you can feel free to leave the expectations of a bunch of physical con… | /r/seduction | 30/12/24 05:43 AM |
| 3 | do you think the annoying industry of onlyfans girls/ female influencers will eventually reach its peak, and die down.You guys know like 99.99% of women don't have only fans right? You're only hearing about only fans girls because you're spending too much time on social media. | /r/seduction | 26/12/24 05:49 AM |
| 2 | How do you respond to rejection texts?It doesn't matter. It's over. I work alot, so my time is valuable. So I appreciate it when people are respectful of my time, I think it's fair to be appreciative of theirs. But I don't think it's necessary. | /r/seduction | 21/11/24 01:18 AM |
| 1 | How do you respond to rejection texts?"totally understand, thanks for your time" | /r/seduction | 21/11/24 01:05 AM |
| 7 | What are some of your go-to witty remarks?You'll know it's a canned line and that will come out in your delivery. Genuine spontaneity is hard to fake. | /r/seduction | 02/11/24 05:43 AM |
| -1 | What are some of your go-to witty remarks?If you have a remark to go to it's not wit. | /r/seduction | 02/11/24 05:41 AM |
| -1 | Laughter being anti-seductiveBeing funny is very very very seductive. If you think telling jokes is getting you worse results, you're just not that funny. | /r/seduction | 15/10/24 08:46 PM |
| 6 | Best advice I can give (less than 20 words)Girls like guys who enjoy their lives. Obviously this alone won't improve your chances, but it helps. I've been painting Warhammer minis for the last few months and my GF wants to paint some now. She's not a nerd in anyway, but she thinks the minis look cool. | /r/seduction | 06/10/24 07:07 PM |
| 5 | What are some things you look for in an apartment to maximize change of getting laid?Clean sheets, comfy bed, extra pillows. Clean bathroom. | /r/seduction | 06/10/24 12:29 AM |
| 12 | Is picking up girls at the beach possible?Math isn't fundamental to the universe. Math is our abstraction of the rules of the universe. | /r/seduction | 22/09/24 08:05 PM |
| 5 | How do you put a positive spin on being a complete fuckup?Dude just own it. Your life doesn't have to be perfect for you to hold your head high. "Yeah I had a shopping addiction, I got a bunch of stuff but I regret it" "I had some problems I was dealing with but I'm recovering from it" "Life is a journey, we all make mistakes" | /r/seduction | 22/07/24 03:12 PM |
| 5 | How to reignite seduction into a bland marital relationship ?Acting like most men don't get complacent. | /r/seduction | 20/07/24 08:40 PM |
| 46 | Girls who say they “don’t kiss” on first datesDon't kiss her on the first date. You respect boundaries and don't try to change their mind. The secret is this will turn them on even more. Give it time. | /r/seduction | 20/07/24 06:06 PM |
| 5 | How to know which girls are easyDo you control who you are attracted to? No. Same for women. They don't get to pick who they are attracted to. So don't make the situation worse by being a baby about it. | /r/seduction | 18/07/24 10:21 PM |
| 15 | How to know which girls are easyIt's just a vibe. How they act. How they look at you. What kinds of stuff they talk about. How they dress. Sometimes the setting. A big hint about how easy a girl will be for you to hook up with is how easy they make it to keep their attention. It's important to note that some girls will be easy for one guy and really difficult for another guy. Don't take it personally. | /r/seduction | 18/07/24 05:08 PM |
| 18 | 2 ways to text a girlWhat elementary school did you go to? | /r/seduction | 10/07/24 08:43 PM |
| 9 | Have you ever gotten a woman to have sex who had initially laid it as a hard boundary? How did you get her to change her mind?If a girl expresses religious hesitation to sex, even if she changes her mind, I doubt you'll be able to leave her better than you found her. The only caveat being that you want to marry this girl, if that's the case, then go for it, but it'll take months to years to change her mind. Imo it's not worth it. | /r/seduction | 05/07/24 07:14 PM |
| 4 | Female attention means nothing unless it’s leads to something physical.Why would successful dudes post? They already got what they want | /r/seduction | 19/06/24 08:28 PM |
| 3 | Female attention means nothing unless it’s leads to something physical.They probably find you physically attractive and then when they talk to you they realize you're a creep. Gotta work on your personality bro. | /r/seduction | 19/06/24 08:27 PM |
| 2 | Seduction is absolute RNG, change my mind.You're able to hone in on body language better. Where her eyes are, what are her eyes communicating. You're less in your head and more present. Rejection stings less, you disqualify less. I'm struggling to come up with "concrete" examples because this stuff is subtle. The only data I can really point to is that I have been more successful in dating since then. | /r/seduction | 17/06/24 08:48 PM |
| 14 | Seduction is absolute RNG, change my mind.I guess from your perspective it is RNG because you have no idea what goes into being successful. So just spamming stuff until you get a positive response feels like the only strat. However, there's a lot of subtlety and nuance going into the interactions. Women pay attention to your energy, your confidence, your respectfulness. Everyone has different standards for those things and it takes an inquisitive mind and curiosity to really see the differences. One thing that really helped me learn mor… | /r/seduction | 16/06/24 07:22 PM |
| 2 | No PUA course is good?In a way it is contradictory. Everything capitalism does is inherently contradictory. It should be free to learn how to date. | /r/seduction | 14/06/24 01:53 PM |
| 3 | Going for drinks after work w my female co worker.I have definitely had a girl mention a bf and then still wanted to hook up later. Don't take it off the table, but you gotta be chill and let her make it clear that's what she wants. | /r/seduction | 12/06/24 05:41 AM |
| 5 | Guys who kiss/get laid on first dates, how do you physicaly escalate?Ok I think the biggest aspect of getting laid on a first date is selecting the right person. Most women will not sleep with you on a first date no matter how good your game is. You need to find women who don't have any objections to casual sex, who are strongly attracted to you, and a private place to have sex(preferably somewhere comfortable). Places where you can find women who are down for casual sex: - bars - clubs - vacation destinations - certain dating apps This list is not exhaustive. Yo… | /r/seduction | 09/06/24 05:24 AM |
| 17 | Guys who pull..How common is it for women to equally keep the flow of conversation going.I don't mind walking away if the conversation dies down. If she doesn't want to keep the conversation going then why am I trying to keep it going? | /r/seduction | 06/06/24 04:59 AM |
| 25 | Have you ever regretted going for the kissI've never regretted it, even the ones that got rejected awkwardly. It's not our fault that you have to go for it to be seen as a man. | /r/seduction | 02/06/24 06:21 PM |
| 3 | How unusual is it for a woman to be very forward when it comes to asking a guy outIt's not that uncommon. I get asked out sometimes. I usually interpret to mean she's very very keen on you. Probably an easy lay if you play you cards right. | /r/seduction | 30/05/24 05:15 AM |
| 1 | How to do the talking while we're on a date?How do you talk with your friends? You're typically chill laid back and trying to crack jokes. You gotta see eye on eye on some stuff. Don't stress too much. | /r/seduction | 29/05/24 08:21 AM |
| 0 | "Before I commit my time and energy to a date with you, how would you treat a lady?"Don't worry about wasting your time and energy" and then don't respond after that | /r/seduction | 25/05/24 07:24 PM |
| 15 | Guys who get laid every time they go to a bar, what is your secret?This sounds exhausting. | /r/seduction | 24/05/24 06:52 PM |
| 1 | How do I attract white womenThere's plenty of white women who are into minorities. There's also plenty of white women who only date white guys. The approach isn't any different tho. | /r/seduction | 20/05/24 03:18 PM |
| 9 | Be careful who you pursue a long term relationship withI ended up with the first girl I dated for 6 years. I knew she wasn't right for me 1 year in, but I didn't have the confidence to think I could get another girl. That mistake haunted me for years until I finally got my shit together. I still kinda struggle with it, but I'm much better now. | /r/seduction | 16/02/24 08:56 PM |
| 2 | What to do when a girl calls you bro ?My girlfriend calls my bro all the time. It's just how she talks. We make jokes about it. Don't make this complicated. | /r/seduction | 10/02/24 11:59 PM |
| 118 | Do you want to go back to my place?This is trying too hard. Say "you wanna get out of here?" After making out a little. She's turned on by you, she wants to go back to your place. | /r/seduction | 30/01/24 04:47 PM |
| 2 | How often do you have your first kisses at home vs out?I live in a big city in the US. 90% of my first kisses happen in public. | /r/seduction | 29/01/24 04:45 PM |
| 1 | "Be authentic" is terrible adviceWhat are the fun parts of your personality? You gotta put the best foot forward while still also being yourself. Masking who you are isn't a good long term strategy. | /r/seduction | 08/10/23 10:57 PM |
| 3 | How to prevent flakes (slight manipulation)Most of time I'm secretly hoping they cancel. | /r/seduction | 21/07/23 05:07 AM |
| 14 | What are ways that women can increase seduction when they’re not conventionally beautiful?A fun confident personality adds a point or 2 for me. Brains too. But really, don't listen to the incels on this sub. Their opinions are warped. I wouldn't take anything you read on this sub too seriously. | /r/seduction | 01/11/22 02:43 AM |
| 16 | When I have it, I dont want it anymore...It feels good for a day and then goes back. | /r/seduction | 01/11/22 01:12 AM |
| -1 | No bs, are my standards delusional?You don't sound like much fun. Go to Church? I feel like that selects for people you might be into. | /r/seduction | 29/10/22 03:11 PM |
| 15 | Is it fair to say that if you’re wondering whether they’re really interested then the answer is no?It shouldn't feel like work or difficult. It should feel natural. If you're not sure if she's into you, she probably isn't. It should feel like a natural extension of what's happening. | /r/seduction | 29/10/22 08:03 AM |
| 54 | Tom Brady discussion: Limits of status—when women fall out of love there’s no turning backLove Reddit scrubs trying to understand the complicated relationship dynamics of famous people when they haven't seen a titty in years. | /r/seduction | 28/10/22 09:41 PM |
| 2 | “I think I’m free Friday night, but I’m not sure, so let’s see once we get closer to Friday”She's flakey because she's 18. Don't wait around for her. She cancelled and she needs to reschedule. She knows you're more into her than she is into you, so she can get away with behaving this way. For future reference, you should give them 2 opportunities to see you. If she doesn't take them, then you move on. | /r/seduction | 27/10/22 06:19 PM |
| 2 | “I think I’m free Friday night, but I’m not sure, so let’s see once we get closer to Friday”How old are you and where did you meet? | /r/seduction | 27/10/22 06:14 PM |
| 15 | Men’s advice. The centered, chill guy always winsInexperienced. | /r/seduction | 27/10/22 06:14 PM |
| 14 | what makes a man seductive?Good mental health is overrated lol. I hate myself but somehow I still get laid. But I also own that I hate myself. | /r/seduction | 27/10/22 05:00 PM |
| 2 | After getting the number, when should I text?I send a text immediately after getting it and then either try to schedule a date within a day or two vs starting a text conversation (depending on logistics). | /r/seduction | 26/10/22 12:14 AM |
| 15 | You are not preserving a woman’s honor by ‘taking things slowly’ or delaying sex. You’re only hurting your chances. Always escalate and avoid the White Knight mentality with sexIt's always better to push limits and be rejected than to not try at all. | /r/seduction | 25/10/22 09:22 PM |
| 4 | is walking away the powerful thing to do or salty thing to do?The powerful thing to do is to do what you want to do. And don't hold anything against her. | /r/seduction | 25/10/22 09:14 PM |
| 1 | How to stop being jealous when it comes to a girl you really like?You are allowed to ask for exclusivity. But if she interprets that as needy, then she interprets that as needy. You are allowed to ask for what you want and she's allowed to not want the same thing. That's totally ok. And it's totally ok if this situation ends because of a disconnect. You have to choose what's more important. Being yourself honestly or continuing to hook up with someone with whom you feel insecure and saying nothing. There's also a chance she does feel the same way and she wants… | /r/seduction | 24/10/22 08:00 AM |
| 1 | How to stop being jealous when it comes to a girl you really like?Well then you should probably say something. But if she's dating a bunch of other guys, and she doesn't seem that into you, the feeling might not be mutual and she might end the situation. That's ok tho, you gotta live speaking your heart. | /r/seduction | 24/10/22 07:53 AM |
| 1 | How to stop being jealous when it comes to a girl you really like?What do you want? Is this about sex or do you want her to be your gf? | /r/seduction | 24/10/22 07:44 AM |
| 1 | How to stop being jealous when it comes to a girl you really like?Stop liking people. You have the ability to do what she's doing. The fact that she tells you about guys she's fucking means this is about sex. This is a great situation for you. | /r/seduction | 24/10/22 07:11 AM |
| 5 | Ideas for first datesCoffee or a drink. A scenic walk too. | /r/seduction | 24/10/22 04:47 AM |
| 1 | Asked a girl out once and she said she was busy, 2 weeks later I ask her again and she says yes but doesn’t seem enthusiastic.You only want to hang out with girls who say hell yes. We next girls who say maybe. | /r/seduction | 24/10/22 02:26 AM |
| 2 | Kicked on to the couchTroll | /r/seduction | 23/10/22 06:58 PM |
| 0 | 3 dates before sex rule, is there room for flexibility?Have sex when both partners are down. Lots girls will fuck on date one. | /r/seduction | 23/10/22 06:12 PM |
| 2 | Was she being sexual with me in text??How old are you? 3 months? Even when I was a virgin I didn't wait 3 months to get physical with someone. Are you sure you guys are dating? | /r/seduction | 22/10/22 03:46 PM |
| 46 | Am I(18m) misinterpreting friendship with my coworker(45f)?Is this trolling? | /r/seduction | 22/10/22 12:39 AM |
| 15 | Why does it take you so long to respond to texts?Man here, I text in bursts. I am busy, but also every woman who I am currently not dating or friends with gets a text when I feel like texting them. Texting a bunch of people all day everyday is exhausting. I pretty much only text when I'm bored or when I'm trying to coordinate something. | /r/seduction | 21/10/22 04:40 PM |
| 4 | How many times in your life have you been rejected? How often do you have dates?34 | /r/seduction | 20/10/22 05:37 PM |
| 7 | How many times in your life have you been rejected? How often do you have dates?I meet women at work, through friends, online, occasionally strangers. Idk I'm handsome, everything I say is smooth by accident, I'm in good shape and I have an admirable career. I am open all possibilities, including the ones where she doesn't want to go out with me. I think the biggest key is being totally fine being rejected. If rejection scares you, then every attempt to meet someone feels scary because they could reject you. But if you don't mind getting rejected, then you can ask anyone ou… | /r/seduction | 20/10/22 05:30 PM |
| 1 | How many times in your life have you been rejected? How often do you have dates?Total rejections in my whole life? Jeeze I lost count. I get dates whenever I want. | /r/seduction | 20/10/22 05:22 PM |
| 3 | How to approach a French or European woman like Ted Bundy as a short Asian man?Is this sub a giant troll? Are you all of you one person who can't stop posting creepy shit? | /r/seduction | 17/10/22 05:11 AM |
| 2 | Men, Here is how I quit P0rn after 16 years of addiction ?The real mvp | /r/seduction | 15/10/22 11:18 PM |
| 0 | I don't understand how people here just advise others to be 'confident'Sure it is more complex than that, but did your great great grandfather know all the theories? Did he spend weeks reading on the internet? No he just felt it in his bones and did whatever felt right. People on this sub wanna act like this is the complicated thing. It isn't. Human beings respond to confidence. People have been boning since before there were humans. Sure today's environment is unique, but do you really believe it's that dramatically different from all previous iterations of people… | /r/seduction | 15/10/22 07:06 AM |
| 2 | can get make outs but struggle to pull back to mine.I would give it some time, probably 5-10 mins is enough making out. If she's not wet by then, you're not doing it right. | /r/seduction | 10/10/22 09:12 PM |
| 2 | can get make outs but struggle to pull back to mine.Tbh I think if you're a good kisser, she'll get wet enough and not really give af what else is going on. Imo, don't jump down her throat. Be real patient and slow. | /r/seduction | 10/10/22 03:52 PM |
| 2 | she asked "do you date often" how to reply?"I try when I have time" it's better to be vague in these situations. | /r/seduction | 05/10/22 11:05 PM |
| 12 | What happens when you don't initiate intimacy with a girl with daddy issues ?I like how racialized these names are getting. Esteban is a new one. | /r/seduction | 05/10/22 04:59 PM |
| 4 | As a woman, I've noticed some things. Why do (some) men do this?Men say they want sex until they realize that you're just ok with it. They expect women to want a relationship and are surprised when she is ok with just boning. It takes real maturity to know what you want and to say what you mean. | /r/seduction | 05/10/22 03:30 AM |
| 1 | How come women are allowed to have standards but men are not?Nobody is stopping you from having standards. | /r/seduction | 05/10/22 01:51 AM |
| 0 | Do I have to go on a bunch of dates just to get laid?You don't need to go on a bunch of dates to get laid, but it's a good place to start if you don't know what you're doing. | /r/seduction | 03/10/22 09:30 PM |
| 1 | A very controversial, possibly triggering question: Is a big percentage of women in their early 20s today lazy?Most women I know work harder than the average man. | /r/seduction | 01/10/22 05:51 PM |
| 1 | What's a course you'd recommend that helps with inner game?The only school worth the price is the school of life. | /r/seduction | 30/09/22 09:13 PM |
| 81 | chick ghosted months ago, never msged her again, now she is liking my picsShe wants your attention, but doesn't want to actually reciprocate anything. Don't give it to her. | /r/seduction | 30/09/22 06:24 PM |
| 1 | how to get over oneitis?Depression? Nobody seems that special when the world doesn't seem special haha | /r/seduction | 29/09/22 06:49 PM |
| 3 | Does pursuing/double texting always kill the game?Lol I should read more carefully. I think my advice still applies. I've been double texted a few times and sometimes it reminds me that I'm interested. Sometimes it turns me off, depends on the person. | /r/seduction | 29/09/22 06:30 PM |
| 9 | Does pursuing/double texting always kill the game?Double texting once in a while is fine. It can bring you back to her attention. But if you do it all the time, she'll eventually ignore it. Use sparingly. | /r/seduction | 29/09/22 06:07 PM |
| 5 | My "text game" is my weakest part of my game. Is "Playing With Fire's" paid resources ($295) with the money?Hey OP Don't ever pay someone to teach you how to talk to women. 99% of women will never change their mind about you from texting game alone. Use texting to organize in the early phases of dating. Text conversations develop as a natural result of genuine connection. There is no reasonable expectation that the $300 would achieve anything measurable. Signed Every person on this sub PS: if you really wanna give someone $300, give it to one of the dozens of great charities, like the Red Cross. | /r/seduction | 29/09/22 12:01 AM |
| 13 | Is the game rigged from the start?Bro there's plenty of minorities who wish they were white (for more reasons than women). You're just looking at a hot guy. Some people have the right genetics and life experiences that make it feel easier for them to get opportunities. All that stuff can be easier if you get the necessary experience. Don't feel sorry for yourself. You have plenty of advantages that other people don't. | /r/seduction | 26/09/22 01:15 AM |
| 9 | Women staying more loyal when they think you're a catch?I'm a "catch". I'm a doctor, fit, 6' tall, good looking, charming, good with kids. Women ask me out. My most recent ex cheated on me. I'm paraphrasing but she was so mad that she would get jealous because women would ask me out, but I never got jealous when men would hit on her. She ended up fucking someone to make me jealous. She obviously had other problems, but nothing is a lock. | /r/seduction | 25/09/22 12:20 AM |
| 1 | When a girl brings up a perceived weakness of yours… twiceTo be honest, I can't remember a girl bringing it up. Usually I make jokes about it. Don't be sensitive about it. You know your bald. Own it. | /r/seduction | 24/09/22 08:39 PM |
| 1 | When a girl brings up a perceived weakness of yours… twiceBald guy here. Ummm you know you're bald, just own it. I think I look better than a lot of guys with hair. | /r/seduction | 24/09/22 08:03 PM |
| 1 | Would being "just friends" with girls increase your chances of hook ups and relationships?Here's a secret fact. The average woman is more interesting than the average man. Even if you're not attracted to her, she's probably more funny to talk to than most men. | /r/seduction | 17/09/22 04:09 PM |
| 2 | Why do women have little to no respect for men that are unable to attract a woman?This post screams "I don't understand why other people feel the way they do." You need to do some self reflection, therapy, or some examination. There is something about the way you live your life that causes this. Your mother probably loves and cares about you more than you recognize (not saying it's impossible for her to be a bad mother). There isn't enough information here to really pinpoint where the problem is. But you need more help than what these people can provide. | /r/seduction | 16/09/22 07:06 PM |
| 3 | What’s the missing ingredient that holds a lot of guys back from really connecting with women?True connection will exist when you can talk to a woman without an ulterior motive. It's ok to want sex, it's ok to want a girlfriend. But if you frame all your interactions through that lens, you can miss the person sitting in front of you. | /r/seduction | 15/09/22 10:52 PM |
| 26 | Easily bored by everyone I meetThis is a narcissistic perspective. Everyone has a passion, they just don't communicate well. If you take the time to dig a little, you can find it. | /r/seduction | 13/09/22 11:40 PM |
| 15 | Easily bored by everyone I meetNo don't be her therapist. You don't need to go that far to have sex. She should be able to manage herself. | /r/seduction | 13/09/22 11:38 PM |
| 155 | Easily bored by everyone I meetIf you really open your mind, everyone has something interesting about them. If you approach everything like an anthropologist, you'll see how interesting and unique some behaviors are. There's magic all around you, you just have to be open to it. | /r/seduction | 13/09/22 09:00 PM |
| 3 | Why do people say a girls body count isn't a red flag for an LTRThe real core here is you're insecure and have a problem with female agency. Don't date women with high body counts if they make you feel like that. They often are the most fun in bed and the least judgemental. | /r/seduction | 11/09/22 12:52 PM |
| 2 | I keep attracting what I don't want.You're crazy if you don't think women also just need to fuck sometimes. | /r/seduction | 05/09/22 10:08 PM |
| 1 | How to get rid of desperationDon't be desperate? And it's ok if you fake it till you make it. | /r/seduction | 01/09/22 04:07 PM |
| 10 | How much time should I spend with her exactly?As long as you are having fun. When it stops being fun, time to call it a night. | /r/seduction | 31/08/22 09:56 PM |
| 8 | You’re on a date and having a good time but you can feel things getting a bit too platonic - what’s the best way to sexualise things?Artfully touching her in ways that are appreciated. | /r/seduction | 31/08/22 03:58 AM |
| 26 | You’re on a date and having a good time but you can feel things getting a bit too platonic - what’s the best way to sexualise things?The nervous answer is kino. Usually you can make things more sexual by sitting close and resting your hand on her leg. The confident answer is don't care. If you're really confident in who you are and what you can offer, she's gotta prove to be worthy of your time. If things are getting too platonic, that's her loss. You gotta really believe that what you are is special and she's not going to find it elsewhere. | /r/seduction | 30/08/22 10:29 PM |
| 2 | Got a little wild with a date at my favorite bar. Afraid of going back with new datesTry not to make a habit of it. I have a bar I like for first dates. I've brought multiple girls there. Staff either don't care or like it. Maybe don't maul girls at the bar. | /r/seduction | 28/08/22 06:18 PM |
| -2 | What do I say when women ask me, “how many girls have you slept with”?"idk, a number that you think is appropriate 😉" | /r/seduction | 28/08/22 02:23 AM |
| 11 | How do you subtly turn a girl on?Eye contact and honest expression. Less subtly, kiss her right. | /r/seduction | 26/08/22 03:58 PM |
| 2 | Your coolest stories or other ways to convey value?You get cool stories through luck, experience and pursuing adventure. I've got a million. I fought a guy who mugged me in Chile. I ran with the Bulls in Spain. I was a doctor in Brooklyn during the spring of 2020 (that was either good or bad luck depending on how you wanna look at it). Think about the things that you've done that make you feel good about yourself. | /r/seduction | 25/08/22 08:43 PM |
| 4 | Question: How to know whether you’re giving up too early or walking away with your self-respect intact?My super simple algorithm: if she hasn't walked away, she's still open to hearing you out. Assuming you didn't trap her(please don't ever do that btw), but most people will walk away from you when you creep them out. If she's still here, game is still on. | /r/seduction | 24/08/22 06:09 PM |
| 1 | Guys who are successful with women, how long do you wait until you kiss a girl on a date?I go for the kiss as soon as I'm ready. Usually I wait until we're at a good point in the conversation and she says something I'm really into. Could be 1-3 hours. I generally don't wait longer than the first date. In my experience, you miss out if you don't kiss as soon as she's ready. | /r/seduction | 24/08/22 02:17 PM |
| 38 | First Date: Why is it bad to talk about past relationships?I almost always bring up past relationships on a first date. I want an understanding of where this person is coming from and what kind of things they might expect. I think it's important to be honest with yourself about what happened in your most recent relationship. The only red flag for me is bad mouthing an ex. I think a truly self reflective person tries to not hold grudges and tries to understand their own role in why a relationship failed. | /r/seduction | 22/08/22 01:04 AM |
| 3 | Is seduction supposed to feel mentally exhausting?It shouldn't feel exhausting. Seduction, when done right, is the most natural thing. I think it's worth examining why you feel so drained. It's ok that it's draining. Sometimes trying something that is out of your comfort zone can be tiring. It's ok to take breaks. It's also ok to re examine what you're trying to accomplish and how you can go about it in ways that aren't so draining for you. Imo seduction can be fun and joyful. But you can only do that when you've reframed your perspective. Try … | /r/seduction | 21/08/22 03:46 AM |
| 12 | If women love sex , why do they make it hard to get ?Because they don't get wet hanging out with you. Find a guy who makes them wet and you'll see how much they love to fuck. | /r/seduction | 20/08/22 05:34 AM |
| 4 | Remember, the most important trait to work on is your weakest.So what are all the important traits? | /r/seduction | 19/08/22 02:46 PM |
| 2 | None of this advice works for me. I have tried exercise, new clothes, dating apps, cold approaching, none of it works.It took me 3-4 years before I saw anything that I would have called results. Think about it, your ignorant grandfather got laid. Things might be different, but you can too. | /r/seduction | 19/08/22 03:58 AM |
| 5 | How to seduce woman over text, make her horny?Texting won't really work unless you've already established attraction through other means. Ime you can't win her over through text. You can definitely lose her tho. | /r/seduction | 16/08/22 05:08 PM |
| 3 | If I cut off every woman who didn't reciprocate my effort I would only have about one date every year or twoI don't have a problem "next"-ing a woman. I always feel like there's someone who will want to go out with me. I think most women pick up on that and are secretly aware they have to put in more effort. | /r/seduction | 15/08/22 04:17 PM |
| 0 | Getting girls is easy100% | /r/seduction | 14/08/22 09:32 PM |
| 0 | What's your response to this shit test? "You're not going to murder me are you?""Depends if your kidneys are a match" | /r/seduction | 14/08/22 05:22 PM |
| 31 | How to politely tell girls that you don't want to stay in touch?Just say "hey I'm not interested in pursuing this. Sorry. Good luck with everything" | /r/seduction | 14/08/22 03:42 PM |
| 1 | Why shouldn't you do things just to meet women?The thing is, you're at your best when you're actually interested in something. If the music at that club is cool, you'll have a blast dancing and people will naturally gravitate towards you. If you are really into basketball people will gravitate to your energy when you're on the court. Meeting women is a hit or miss game. If you're not on one night, then you'll get down on yourself and you'll stop having fun. Go to the club cuz the music is cool. Go to that coffee shop cuz you really like thei… | /r/seduction | 14/08/22 04:56 AM |
| 1 | What does confidence mean to you?Belief that it will be ok regardless of the outcome. No fear of the consequences. | /r/seduction | 13/08/22 09:16 PM |
| 1 | Should I refrain from mentioning I go to therapy to a girl.I am in therapy and I tell people I'm comfortable with. Generally on a first or second date. To me if she's not into it, then she's probably too closed minded for me. | /r/seduction | 13/08/22 12:57 PM |
| 5 | Attire: Pants that Hug or Not.Wear tight pants. Looks good. Baggy clothes are for boomers. | /r/seduction | 12/08/22 09:46 PM |
| 1 | is your goal one woman or multiple?I mean I haven't met this amazing woman yet, but many women love hoe men. | /r/seduction | 12/08/22 03:38 PM |
| 16 | is your goal one woman or multiple?The goal is one amazing woman, but I don't mind hoeing until I meet her. | /r/seduction | 12/08/22 12:37 PM |
| 1 | Is it harder to find a fwb in your 30?Imo the best FWBs I've had were women in their 30s. | /r/seduction | 11/08/22 09:28 PM |
| 1 | Is it harder to find a fwb in your 30?I mean if you're just trying to fuck, the subset of women in their 30s who just want dick are way easier to bed than younger women and frankly, they're not that hard to find. | /r/seduction | 11/08/22 09:18 PM |
| 2 | How long should I wait for a girl to text me back before loosing hope of anything happening?As soon as I send a text, I forget about it. If she texts me back, great. If she doesn't, then I already forgot. | /r/seduction | 10/08/22 03:50 PM |
| 3 | How to not let rejection bother you?I mean it is normal to care about what people think of you, but it is very mature to not care. Have the mindset that if this girl doesn't like you, that there is someone that will. | /r/seduction | 10/08/22 01:12 PM |
| 1 | Is it harder to find a fwb in your 30?Be a cop or an EMT? Idk I never tried to get with one before med school. | /r/seduction | 10/08/22 12:40 PM |
| 32 | Is it harder to find a fwb in your 30?Not any more than genital stds | /r/seduction | 10/08/22 01:45 AM |
| 5 | Is it harder to find a fwb in your 30?Lol yes. Most people's end goal is to find a long term partner. Most FWBs will not become your long term partner, so by their nature, they're generally short term. Ps: there are always exceptions. You can have a FWB for years, but those people are rare. | /r/seduction | 10/08/22 12:43 AM |
| 5 | Is it harder to find a fwb in your 30?Yes to both questions | /r/seduction | 10/08/22 12:39 AM |
| 9 | Nothing else mattersThis is the worst way to get a GF. Nobody wants to be with someone who lives for their spouse. As the adage goes "fuck bitches get money" (feel free to replace get money with whatever actually matters to you). | /r/seduction | 09/08/22 11:33 PM |
| 3 | When do you tell a girl you like her?This. Actions speak louder than words. | /r/seduction | 09/08/22 10:20 PM |
| 83 | Is it harder to find a fwb in your 30?I like eating pussy, so yes to both questions. | /r/seduction | 09/08/22 08:57 PM |
| 223 | Is it harder to find a fwb in your 30?Great question. I think having a large social circle helps. I have a bit of a reputation as a player, so 1) that builds some attraction for some women 2) all the women in your circle know that if they get involved with you, it'll probably be a mostly physical relationship. The other place is bars. Lots of horny drunk women available, many it whom want you to take them home. I've had good luck banging coworkers too, but I work in healthcare which is notorious for employing horn dogs. I think one … | /r/seduction | 09/08/22 07:25 PM |
| 45 | Is it harder to find a fwb in your 30?Totally disagree. I've been dating women in their 30s and yeah there's tons who are trying to get married, but there's also plenty who are over the bullshit and just want some dick. | /r/seduction | 09/08/22 07:11 PM |
| 320 | Is it harder to find a fwb in your 30?Tbh I think it's easier to find a FWB now than in my 20s. | /r/seduction | 09/08/22 07:10 PM |
| 8 | How to properly implement push-and-pull technique? Is there an incorrect way?When I was less successful, I put zero thought into "push pull". I focused on building real confidence. That comes with experience. You need more experience. You need more rejection. You need to build a career and a life that you actually like living. Meditation and therapy can help if there's some underlying trauma as reasons for your behavior. Those were the things that helped me. I don't believe in "techniques" to help you socialize better. Think about all the most attractive guys you know, d… | /r/seduction | 09/08/22 06:32 PM |
| 22 | How to properly implement push-and-pull technique? Is there an incorrect way?Ok I personally advise against stuff like this because it's fake. A real confident man doesn't have to think this hard about how he behaves. He just does what he wants and he never prioritizes a woman over himself. "Push pull" is just a thing you can do naturally without thinking about it when you've fixed your inner game. I find stuff like this to be a crutch and worse could be a bad habit later in your development. Imagine a world where your opinion is the only one that matters (surprise, this… | /r/seduction | 09/08/22 06:07 PM |
| 11 | What are your second date ideas?Something that you guys talked about. If you both like a certain kind of cuisine, then dinner. If you guys like a certain activity, then that thing. If you don't get anything actionable from the first date, then take her somewhere you want to go. | /r/seduction | 08/08/22 09:01 PM |
| 2 | Unlikely source: A Monk's Guide to DatingCarrying a power ranger lunchbox because you want to is probably more attractive than you think. It's unattractive to let other people's opinions dictate your behavior. | /r/seduction | 08/08/22 08:51 PM |
| 2 | Brought a Girl Home on a First Date But She "Wanted to take things slow"Bro it was one date. Lots of girls don't want to give it up on the first date. She seems into you. Give her a few more chances. | /r/seduction | 08/08/22 05:52 PM |
| 106 | Why is it that only old women check me out?Older women are more confident. Know themselves more and are able to articulate their wants and needs. ALL YOUNG PEOPLE OF BOTH GENDERS STRUGGLE WITH THIS. There's a reason older men are more attractive. Personally I find how older women carry themselves refreshing. | /r/seduction | 08/08/22 05:01 PM |
| 3 | Can therapy help with my fear of approaching? Possible social anxiety issues?Honestly approaching isn't that scary. It seems scary when you haven't done it. My best advice, accept that you will probably look stupid and embarrassed the first couple times you do it. But honestly most girls get a little intimidated and turned on if you do it right. Most people today can't approach and being able to do so is impressive. | /r/seduction | 08/08/22 04:44 PM |
| 1 | Do you need to make friends before trying to date? I currently have zeroHey OP, after skimming through the comments it sounds like you've got way more problems than dating/friendship. This is not something that strangers on the internet can fix. None of us know you and all the details to your problems. The way I see it, you can continue to let life toss you around or you can take some control. You've got grandparents to take care of, well that is an admirable quality and many women will find that attractive. And you're 6'1" with a good job. These are all attractive.… | /r/seduction | 08/08/22 04:40 PM |
| 13 | What can you say to compliment women's Boobs while making out?Obviously it's important to take feedback as everyone is different. 🙂 | /r/seduction | 07/08/22 10:57 PM |
| 110 | What can you say to compliment women's Boobs while making out?I'm a more of show don't tell kinda guy. Give em a squeeze. Play with her nipples. Nibble on them. She wants you to touch them. | /r/seduction | 07/08/22 08:38 PM |
| 2 | Attractive guysWomen will approach you more often, but usually the ones you want won't, so you still gotta approach. | /r/seduction | 07/08/22 11:23 AM |
| 1 | Is high income less useful for younger men(23)?Um buy nice clothes and watches. Get nice shoes. That's really the only way they can tell. If you still wear t shirts and flip flops everywhere, nobody can tell how much money you make. | /r/seduction | 05/08/22 06:43 PM |
| 1 | When telling stories what kind of emotions are you trying to evoke in your dating partner?Thank you. Dating isn't a performance, it's two people assessing compatibility. Being anything but yourself is counter productive. | /r/seduction | 05/08/22 04:52 AM |
| 3 | When telling stories what kind of emotions are you trying to evoke in your dating partner?I tell anything that comes to mind. I do try to avoid sexual topics. I've noticed that bringing it up puts a shield up and it's better to talk sex after you've started fooling around. I think trying to evoke certain emotions is disingenuous. Just be yourself and let nature do it's thing. It's honest and that's really who you are. I try to avoid serious topics. My brother had some health problems. I've personally experienced trauma over the past few years. I have a lot of bummer experiences. If t… | /r/seduction | 05/08/22 04:51 AM |
| 17 | How do guys pull girls at church, and if it doesn't work out, how do they keep going and keep trying if it doesn't work out.I'm not Christian but this works in mosques too 😂 | /r/seduction | 04/08/22 12:45 PM |
| 59 | Are women ever truly single?If all my exes are to be believed, they were all single for about a month hmmmmmmm 😑 | /r/seduction | 04/08/22 12:40 PM |
| 4 | What is it about Pete DavidsonPretty sure homie is just chill, funny, never really loses his shit. Plus he's got social proof. Every girl who sees him for the rest of his life will know he dated Ariana and Kim. | /r/seduction | 04/08/22 11:58 AM |
| 3 | Feel like I got here purely by my looksConfidence matters. There's plenty of unconfident attractive guys who get no girls. | /r/seduction | 03/08/22 09:02 PM |
| 1 | How much has your dating life improved since finding this subreddit?I'm 5'11". Not super tall or short. I am bald and have been since age 22 (I'm 34 now). I felt like I was invisible to women most of my life. I think most would call me good looking now, but that has more to do with how I manage my appearance. I lift weights, I eat right. I have a good skin care routine. And I dress well. If I put no effort into my appearance, I think I'm a 5. If I take care of everything then maybe I'm a 7-8. But tbh the thing I think that makes me attractive is my personality. … | /r/seduction | 03/08/22 06:00 PM |
| 1 | Milf [35F] was DTF until I [25M] told her I was a virginI know it hurts to see that happen, but trust me kid, you weren't ready for her. Imo it's better to try to engage with someone who is on your level or someone who is attracted to your experience level. | /r/seduction | 03/08/22 12:59 PM |
| 19 | How can I make better moves when we’re both laying in bed together but she’s on the edge about sex?In my experience, if you kiss her right, she will get wet and want to fuck. Don't be in a rush to do the deed. Chill, enjoy the make out. Kiss her neck. Nibble on her ears. Reach under her shirt. Touch her slowly. It has to take some time before she'll feel comfortable and horny enough to do it, but when you do it right, she'll jump on top of you. | /r/seduction | 03/08/22 06:45 AM |
| 2 | How much has your dating life improved since finding this subreddit?Idk dude I just meant "do things that don't make you feel safe" I have approached plenty of women who definitely were not into my antics. | /r/seduction | 03/08/22 04:06 AM |
| 11 | How much has your dating life improved since finding this subreddit?So I actually like club music and I like seeing cool DJs. So I usually don't go to clubs to meet women. I go for the music and trying to have a good time. Meeting women is incidental. Do things you actually like to do. That's when you're at your best. Edit: also most chads are not the threats you think they are. Most guys are not that cool. | /r/seduction | 03/08/22 04:03 AM |
| 1 | How much has your dating life improved since finding this subreddit?Totally agree. I think our society pushes people into traumatic situations and then we're surprised when a million dudes/dudettes are whining online that nobody will fuck/love them. | /r/seduction | 03/08/22 12:30 AM |
| 104 | How much has your dating life improved since finding this subreddit?Night and day difference. I read "the game" in college and then started following this sub around 2011-2012. In the subsequent 10 years, I have become everything I ever wanted to be. I don't give this sub that much credit. I have had ONS, FWB, long term girlfriends. I have pulled model level girls from clubs. I was like everyone in the beginning. Trying to read my way into someones pants. I think things kinda started to go my way about 6-7 year ago. It took about 3-4 years to really see any resu… | /r/seduction | 02/08/22 08:56 PM |
| 13 | Female friend is touchy with other male friends but not meShe sees you as a friend. Women can't resist touching guys they like. | /r/seduction | 02/08/22 01:49 PM |
| 2 | If you could go back and tell your newbie dating self anything, what would it be?Pick up is much easier than you think. Girls are more anxious around you than you are about them. | /r/seduction | 31/07/22 05:47 PM |
| 0 | I went to the doctor today, she's cute, I want to take her out on a date...I'm not sure. But nurses also care about their licenses. Which is a shame because nurses do be horny. | /r/seduction | 29/07/22 10:30 PM |
| 6 | I went to the doctor today, she's cute, I want to take her out on a date...Well I'm based in the US. Our licensing exams cover this exact topic and in almost all cases it's recommended against dating patients. This is mostly due to the sensitive nature of personal health information and how in certain cases doctors can exert a lot of power over patients. You're free to do whatever you want, but as a doctor I'm very very aware of the risks to my license. | /r/seduction | 29/07/22 06:45 PM |
| 4 | I went to the doctor today, she's cute, I want to take her out on a date...I think it's 2 years. | /r/seduction | 29/07/22 06:39 PM |
| 18 | I went to the doctor today, she's cute, I want to take her out on a date...Hi I'm a doctor, there's really strict rules about dating patients. I wouldn't bother. She could get in trouble. | /r/seduction | 29/07/22 05:46 PM |
| 1 | What are some good plausible deniability ideas (excuses) to bring a girl home?You are right, there are some women who need "plausible deniability" to fuck. But if you kissed her and got her in the mood, she'll be too horny to think about it. In my experience, if she goes home with you under any other pretense, she might not really want to do the deed. | /r/seduction | 29/07/22 01:13 PM |
| 2 | Unpopular opinion: I hate the "chase"Tbh when you get to a certain point, the chase is more fun than actually being with someone. (At least being with most people isn't that much fun) | /r/seduction | 29/07/22 12:56 PM |
| 13 | What are some good plausible deniability ideas (excuses) to bring a girl home?"Hey you wanna come home with me?" You don't have to pretend. She already knows what's up. | /r/seduction | 29/07/22 03:10 AM |
| 2 | What to do instead of shaking a girls hand?Shaking hands is fine. If it's a date from the internet, I'll go for a hug, but some women don't want to hug right away. | /r/seduction | 28/07/22 05:18 PM |
| 1 | She said “guys don’t understand that if a woman wears a matching bra & thong set as he’s getting her naked, it wasn’t him that decided to have sex”If she's wearing a matching set, she planned on fucking that night. | /r/seduction | 27/07/22 03:21 PM |
| 2 | Just be yourself and talk to women like they're human beings and you will be drowning in attention!I think society today is so alienating. People live much more isolated lives than they used to. Internet communities replacing the IRL communities we used to have. But they aren't the same and don't provide the same experience. So instead of meeting women the normal way as kids and having a normal understanding of socializing, many men these days grow up seeing women as some strange unattainable other. While longing to have the sex lives of characters they see depicted in popular media. And it l… | /r/seduction | 25/07/22 07:40 PM |
| 45 | She texted “wanna cum join me for a naked yoga session later on today?”Jeeze 54 is Gilf age? If you wanna, then do it. | /r/seduction | 25/07/22 06:09 PM |
| 1 | Can’t have fun at the bar anymore…What kind of girls do you want to bang now? What kind of experiences haven't you had? Threesome? Bdsm? Japanese girls? Marriage? Kids? The world is your oyster. | /r/seduction | 24/07/22 11:11 PM |
| 1 | how to pickup a girl at the pool?Hi What's your name Where you from What you doing out here Try to piece together a story and understand a little about her. | /r/seduction | 24/07/22 10:46 PM |
| 11 | genuine question but how do you personally treat women you’re not attracted to?Be nice. Women are human beings. I personally find the average woman regardless of physical attractiveness more engaging than men. Most men are really boring to talk to. So just talk to them like anyone else. | /r/seduction | 24/07/22 10:43 PM |
| 1 | Does plowing through negative body language ever work?If she's not interested, she's not interested. If I'm really attracted to her, I might try for longer than normal, but I have never turned a no into a yes. | /r/seduction | 24/07/22 10:38 PM |
| 6 | Can’t have fun at the bar anymore…If you're not having fun anymore, it might be time to move on. Go try something else. I get the same thing when I feel like I've "conquered" something. The fun was in learning how to do it properly. Be it play rocket league, learn medicine, or hook up with girls. At some point, this thing stops being a challenge and you don't get the same hit from doing it. | /r/seduction | 24/07/22 10:24 PM |
| 3 | Have any of you ever had strong feelings for a fat girl(not curvy fat just plain)? What would you tell a guy who caught feelings for one?You decide if the fatness is a deal breaker. But just a heads up, chubsters suck the best dick. | /r/seduction | 24/07/22 04:59 PM |
| 2 | Women are visual creatures tooYes everyone likes looking at nice looking things. However, just because you're a troll doesn't mean you can't get with beautiful women. Yes improve your looks, it opens up more opportunities for you, but don't sit here and think that looks are the only part of the equation. There are plenty it beautiful women dating guys uglier than you. Personality is the no 1 thing. | /r/seduction | 24/07/22 04:36 PM |
| 2 | honestly speaking, how is anyone supposed to be confident in this day and age?Confidence comes from being at peace with the world. Everything you said may or may not be true, but it doesn't have to bother you. | /r/seduction | 23/07/22 07:33 PM |
| 2 | In our predominant era of "hookup culture" how do you view sex?I think hook up culture is more often depicted in media than it occurs in real life. Most people I've dated often said they didn't engage in hook ups. All data collected notes that millennials and Gen Z are having less sex than previous generations. | /r/seduction | 22/07/22 01:08 AM |
| 4 | What hobbies have the most women in their 20/early 30s?Yoga. But also you shouldn't take up a hobby to meet women. Do something because you like doing it. You'll be more passionate about it and that will come out in your dates.. | /r/seduction | 22/07/22 12:34 AM |
| 1 | How to deal with a bad haircut?Thanks for your input! I did consider minoxidil but it appears my alopecia is triggered by an autoimmune reaction and minoxidil may not be effective in this situation. So I spoke with a dermatologist and she recommended these hydrocortisone injections plus a topical tacrolimus cream. It has been helping, but it can take several months. Hopefully I can have it back by the end of the year. | /r/seduction | 21/07/22 11:02 PM |
| 4 | How to cultivate a powerful nonverbal presenceWhen I was younger, I was like you. Nobody seemed to really listen to anything I had to say. Part of the problem was confidence. I didn't really believe in anything I had to say. As I've aged, I stopped caring what other thought about me. I am in a better position in my life. I have way more confidence now and even if I don't have anything useful to say, people ask for my thoughts. Meditate. Work on your career. Make your mistakes. Own all your mistakes. Over time, people will sense the differen… | /r/seduction | 21/07/22 12:50 PM |
| 1 | What makes a guy boring and how do you avoid it?If YOU aren't having fun, you're boring. You should try to enjoy your interactions. If you're not having fun, then she definitely won't. | /r/seduction | 21/07/22 12:16 AM |
| 6 | How to deal with a bad haircut?Ugh who tf cares. You're the one looking at it and feeling bad about it. Other people care less about how you look than you do. I recently developed a big patch of alopecia in my beard. It looks awful. I love my beard and I've had one for the almost the past decade. It was a great beard and I would get so many compliments. Drunk girls wanted to touch it. I had a bit of a crisis when the alopecia started. I thought I would lose my identity and what makes me Unique. I had to shave most of it off. … | /r/seduction | 20/07/22 04:52 PM |
| 2 | What are your sources to find emotional fulfilment/support?Lol man good luck. Modern society doesn't really have that. I would suggest a therapist. In the old days it was about finding the right social connections. Try to see if you can make friends at work. | /r/seduction | 20/07/22 03:59 PM |
| 2 | Is this a test?Can you do 7:30? This isn't a test it's a normal thing people do. If you can't do 7:30, then reschedule for another day. | /r/seduction | 20/07/22 01:04 AM |
| 1 | Do I have to play a character?I think identity is a social construction. People think you are whoever they think you are. But you're an animal just doing stuff because you like doing it. I think you can be yourself without having to pretend. | /r/seduction | 19/07/22 05:02 AM |
| 15 | Would redditors benefit from a 15 minute conversation with an actual woman?They would but most people have their head in their ass so it might not actually change anything. | /r/seduction | 18/07/22 12:55 PM |
| 138 | Girls dance with me then ignore meThey're girls at a party dancing with strangers. You're nobody to them. Let it go. | /r/seduction | 16/07/22 09:07 PM |
| 2 | Are there downsides to never introducing vulnerability to your interactions with women??You can't actually connect with someone if you don't actually be a human being and that includes vulnerability. | /r/seduction | 16/07/22 08:49 PM |
| 1 | I still live at home, does that turn girls off?It's nobody's fault you live at home. This is just the reality. You can still find women to date, just don't come off as a deadbeat. | /r/seduction | 16/07/22 04:07 AM |
| 1 | Question: So girls might be afraid to have sex with you cause they’ll feel like a slut, but love being called a slut in bed??🤔🤔Lol I was really high when I commented. I think the point I was trying to make is that it makes sense if you let go of your world view and try to understand the world. Some women like to be called sluts, others do not. For some it is situational. Instead if saying "it doesn't make sense" just accept that it makes sense and your current understanding is inadequate. | /r/seduction | 15/07/22 07:34 PM |
| 6 | Do You Guys Take Shots Before a Date?Yeah I've been on dates that seem really fun when we've been drinking and then we hang out sober and realize we have nothing in common. It's a crutch. | /r/seduction | 15/07/22 03:39 PM |
| 7 | Well, this is new! A mála cac who's a single mum and a Neo-Nazi!?! I feel sorry for the poor bastard who needs to keep an eye on Junior for racism, anti-Semitism, and Holocaust denial!What does she mean by "separatist"? | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 15/07/22 02:43 PM |
| 0 | Question: So girls might be afraid to have sex with you cause they’ll feel like a slut, but love being called a slut in bed??🤔🤔🤦🏽♂️ the whole world makes sense. You tiny human brain has to figure this out, the world doesn't have to subscribe to your notions of sense. | /r/seduction | 15/07/22 01:18 PM |
| 0 | Lack of interests ?Sure you can do that. But you'll probably be happier if you forgive. | /r/seduction | 15/07/22 03:32 AM |
| 3 | Should I walk a girl to the apartment entrance after a hookup?I always walk them to the car or home. | /r/seduction | 15/07/22 01:08 AM |
| 4 | Lack of interests ?Bro she's 23 and she's not into you. You're around and comfortable when she's drunk, but she's not actually into you. So she can say whatever without caring about what you think. You're probably already being kinda needy. It's ok. Some girls just want to fuck you sometimes. She'll eventually be drunk and horny again. | /r/seduction | 15/07/22 12:58 AM |
| 6 | Lack of interests ?People don't get better at communicating as they get older. Just forgive them. | /r/seduction | 14/07/22 10:34 PM |
| 23 | Lack of interests ?She's a child. She's here for a good time not a long time. The relationship will be inconsistent. Just enjoy the moments when she's down. | /r/seduction | 14/07/22 09:05 PM |
| 1 | How do i dm girls on Instagram without being ignored or looking creepyDon't. Unless you have a relationship with someone from the real world, sliding into a strangers DMs has never worked for me. | /r/seduction | 14/07/22 03:49 PM |
| 5 | How to counter a rejection in secretKid, it's ok. You're more attractive not hiding anything. | /r/seduction | 14/07/22 02:43 AM |
| 1 | Do many women realize the power they hold in dating and use it to their advantage?Idk what you're talking about. Most women are pretty forgiving on the looks part. A hot guy is fun to look at, but most women really only see it as that, fun to look at. Yes there are some girls who will fuck a hot guy regardless of anything else, but they are in the minority. | /r/seduction | 12/07/22 07:00 PM |
| 2 | Do many women realize the power they hold in dating and use it to their advantage?Every woman has a different definition. But if you've spent any time with a group of girls talking about dating, you'll know that most men they deal with are trash. Disrespectful, broke, out of shape, entitled. Imo if you're on the same level as someone physically, economically, emotionally, then you're probably half way decent to that person. The guys in their DMs are generally not that. | /r/seduction | 12/07/22 04:42 PM |
| 5 | Do many women realize the power they hold in dating and use it to their advantage?Most men suck. If you're a half way decent guy, she'll probably try to hold onto you. Just because she has options doesn't mean they're good ones. | /r/seduction | 12/07/22 03:13 PM |
| 1 | Anyone have youtuber recommendations that simply start conversations with strangers just to talk, not for pickup?Stop asking the internet for help. Go outside. | /r/seduction | 11/07/22 10:39 PM |
| 24 | What’s the psychological reasoning behind this behavior?Don't fall into the trap of thinking this is an exclusively female behavior bro. | /r/seduction | 11/07/22 10:07 PM |
| 11 | Without paying, what do you think is the fastest method to get laid in 2022?Or you could really not need it. I get laid on most first dates because my general attitude is "I'm sure someone will take this dick" | /r/seduction | 11/07/22 07:17 PM |
| 10 | Without paying, what do you think is the fastest method to get laid in 2022?Chill. Most girls wanna fuck a guy who seems like he doesn't need it. | /r/seduction | 11/07/22 07:14 PM |
| 26 | What's the best lesson you've learned on your seduction journey?Believe in yourself. | /r/seduction | 11/07/22 07:13 PM |
| 181 | What’s the psychological reasoning behind this behavior?They're convincing themselves they aren't going to fuck you, which means they're already thinking about it. | /r/seduction | 11/07/22 05:59 PM |
| 2 | How to get a girl who's insecure about herself and her looks?Insecure girls aren't worth it. Maybe the sex is good, but she will drive you up the wall with her problems. | /r/seduction | 11/07/22 05:24 PM |
| 2 | When you’re trying to bring a girl home with you and she asks you “what are we gonna do?”, what’s a good answer?"Whatever you're comfortable with" | /r/seduction | 08/07/22 06:18 PM |
| 3 | This girl I’m seeing won’t date me but she lets me play with her tits ..Sounds fine to me. You don't have to date every girl who let's you play with her tits. | /r/seduction | 05/07/22 08:36 PM |
| 28 | If a girl says she's free a certain day but is sick and will let you know later, is that a no?If she doesn't give you a solid yes, treat it as a no. You only want to hang out with girls who say "hell yes" to meeting up. | /r/seduction | 05/07/22 06:06 PM |
| 3 | Why do women say one thing but do the opposite?You notice this, but you don't notice all the times you do it. It's not just women, it's all human beings. Just pretend everyone is high all the time and trust your gut. | /r/seduction | 05/07/22 05:16 AM |
| 35 | Woman's intuition ??If you're not reaching out, they know you getting it somewhere. | /r/seduction | 05/07/22 03:42 AM |
| 1 | Dance circles?I would just worry about finding a good girl to study with. Having graduated from residency last year, I kinda wished I had tried to find someone in med school. | /r/seduction | 04/07/22 09:03 PM |
| 10 | What's a good response for when you're chatting up an older woman....."Yeah but you don't look like my mom" | /r/seduction | 04/07/22 09:01 PM |
| 1 | Dance circles?Bro there's no time for dancing. Worry about school. The ladies will come. | /r/seduction | 04/07/22 05:33 AM |
| 2 | How do you best isolate a girl on a date to go for a kiss? Trying in front of others seems like a bad idea...You just have to do it in a way that feels right. You can do it in front of others if she's feels its right. | /r/seduction | 03/07/22 08:10 PM |
| 1 | What do you do when a woman questions your manliness?Words are meaningless. People use them to say anything even if it isn't true. | /r/seduction | 02/07/22 10:18 PM |
| 4 | How to assume attractionOP I disagree with his assessment. I don't think you need a complete makeover. I think you can work with what you got. I think it's more about presenting the package in a better light. | /r/seduction | 29/06/22 05:59 PM |
| 1 | How to tell a girl I've been friends with for years that I like them?Most girls will probably try to stay friends even if they're not into you. You got nothing to lose by letting her know. (Ps I wouldn't expect it to work the way you want) | /r/seduction | 28/06/22 04:24 PM |
| 1 | The quality of women you can meet in person far succeeds the quality of women on dating appsWhere are you meeting these women? | /r/seduction | 27/06/22 08:12 PM |
| 0 | Going on vacation should I try to talk to some girls?Don't do anything to get girls. You should have friends because that's a normal human thing to do. You sound lonely and awkward. I'm 34 (literally twice your age), and I didn't date in high school. I think at your stage in life, it's worth it to invest in your relationships (non sexual ones), your career and your health. Women will just naturally come into your life if you can maintain that stuff. | /r/seduction | 27/06/22 08:22 AM |
| 3 | So how the hell do I not talk about typical boring stuff when I introduce myself to a girl?Literally talk about anything. You'll eventually realize that it doesn't matter what you say. Just look her in the eye and don't let your voice crack. | /r/seduction | 27/06/22 08:16 AM |
| 96 | I left my number for the cute waitress and she texted me "Heyyy". What do I do?This is the best response. Be honest and be unashamedly yourself. | /r/seduction | 27/06/22 07:57 AM |
| 7 | books on increasing social value?Don't waste your money. Social status is pretty easy to see with your eyes. Money, fitness, confidence, high status jobs, being friends with many women, visibility. | /r/seduction | 25/06/22 11:23 PM |
| 4 | Too many incels overtaking the forum ?There are still occasionally good posts, but most of them are super whiny. Frankly, it's good for all the guys who figured it out. Keep the rest of the dudes forever whining while the rest of us keep slaying. | /r/seduction | 25/06/22 07:23 PM |
| 0 | Got attached then got refused.Confessing your feelings is a chumps game. Any real man knows that his intentions are communicated through his actions. You don't have to reveal your feelings, she'll already know. | /r/seduction | 24/06/22 10:14 PM |
| 2 | 😎 My Standard Cold Approach Format (that I've used for 8000+ approaches)This is a great canned way to try cold approach. I'm going to give this a shot. Thanks for the write up. | /r/seduction | 23/06/22 01:14 AM |
| 3 | What would be the right timing to reveal your sexual interest in a woman?They already know bro. It ain't a secret. The only problem is that you want to keep it a "secret" until the right time. | /r/seduction | 21/06/22 11:46 PM |
| 14 | why are white women so difficult to escalate with compared to black or Hispanic women?I'm Pakistani and I've gotten with my fair share of White women. Tho I tend to agree with the sentiment that I'm not usually their first choice. There are plenty of women who will fetishize your race, even Asian or brown. Tbh, most white women aren't as interesting as you would expect. As I've gotten older, I've sorta noticed that I actually enjoy the company of minority women more. Sorry I don't have a solution. It is what it is. | /r/seduction | 21/06/22 11:43 PM |
| 2 | Why "making them wait" upsets many men...Ugh yeah. Explaining to someone with poor communication skills that the reason for most of their frustrations is their poor communication skills is impossible. I feel like it's the main reason this sub has basically become a giant argument between the people who get it and the dudes who don't. | /r/seduction | 21/06/22 10:15 PM |
| 3 | Why "making them wait" upsets many men...Exactly. The women I date often remark about how fast they felt comfortable getting intimate. | /r/seduction | 21/06/22 10:11 PM |
| 85 | why are white women so difficult to escalate with compared to black or Hispanic women?What ethnicity are you OP? | /r/seduction | 21/06/22 10:08 PM |
| 2 | Why "making them wait" upsets many men...More dudes need to hear this | /r/seduction | 21/06/22 09:08 PM |
| 5 | Why "making them wait" upsets many men...You're looking at it wrong. No woman goes on a date hoping to reject someone. She wants you to be the guy who can make her feel comfortable and sexy. You're the one giving her power over you. You don't have to be slave to your sexual urges. The problems you have are with yourself, not her. That fact that you feel less masculine after rejection has more to do with you and nothing to do with her. Paradoxically, not pressuring someone to have sex makes them want to have it sooner. | /r/seduction | 21/06/22 07:01 PM |
| 13 | Why "making them wait" upsets many men...The proper response to any resistance to physical intimacy is "I want to do whatever you're comfortable with". A woman who is alone with you is clearly demonstrating trust and valuing you. Just because she fucked a bunch of dudes before, but won't fuck you says less about her and more about you. Sex should not be had under pressure. It should be 2 people willingly sharing themselves joyfully. If she doesn't want to, you shouldn't want to. | /r/seduction | 21/06/22 05:27 PM |
| 6 | Just a Tinder Experiment that Blew my Mind!I think the part that you are missing is that while most women have lots of guys pining for them, most girls don't want anything to do with those guys. The guys they have access to are common and not interesting. They still want a guy that isn't really available. So you can get with those girls if you're better than most of those guys. | /r/seduction | 20/06/22 04:28 PM |
| 12 | I am almost 40 years old and a virgin. Virginity has defined my entire life outlook. Did I miss the boat to date attractive 20 and 30 year old women?How are you 40 and have been online dating since you were 18? The internet dating thing didn't start until the last 10+ years. Edit: and 5 days ago you were almost 30. Troll 😑 | /r/seduction | 20/06/22 04:19 PM |
| 4 | What does it mean if a girl says she used to like you?She used to like you, she still does, but she used to too. | /r/seduction | 18/06/22 10:43 PM |
| 0 | I (M20) am confused about my (F18) friend's behaviorBro this process is way simpler than you're making. Get drinks, talk, vibe, if she's down then ask her to go back to your place to smoke or watch tv and then make a move. How did your dad get laid before the internet? Jesus Christ why is this so hard? | /r/seduction | 18/06/22 08:13 PM |
| 1 | I (M20) am confused about my (F18) friend's behaviorOk then try asking for drinks first. How old are you? | /r/seduction | 18/06/22 07:56 PM |
| 1 | I (M20) am confused about my (F18) friend's behaviorYou would be surprised | /r/seduction | 18/06/22 07:55 PM |
| 0 | I (M20) am confused about my (F18) friend's behaviorBro literally just ask. I can't talk to her for you. | /r/seduction | 18/06/22 07:53 PM |
| 0 | I (M20) am confused about my (F18) friend's behaviorIf you can't figure it out with the hints she's dropping, just chop your dick off. | /r/seduction | 18/06/22 07:11 PM |
| 1 | How do I stop being a virgin loser?Why are you expecting anyone else to figure it out for you? Bro this journey is about you, not anyone else. | /r/seduction | 18/06/22 06:54 PM |
| 1 | How do I stop being a virgin loser?Bro it's a nebulous concept. It's not an easy thing to do. You gotta look inward and spend some time with your demons. I don't know what that looks like for you. The way to do this is not the same for everyone. I can tell you the tools, but you have to figure it out for yourself. | /r/seduction | 18/06/22 06:11 PM |
| 28 | The End of SeductionThis perspective is inherently immature and displays a lack of experience. | /r/seduction | 18/06/22 03:23 PM |
| 1 | How do I stop being a virgin loser?Sounds like you gotta look inward. Examine your own attitude and figure out which parts of it don't serve you. Therapy, meditation, and experimentation are great tools to use. | /r/seduction | 18/06/22 01:47 PM |
| -8 | Women with "Woke" or "Toxic Feminism" mentality - Is it worth the effort to date these type of women?If you're the kinda person that complains about "woke" ness, don't bother talking to those kinds of people. | /r/seduction | 18/06/22 12:54 PM |
| 2 | Keep striking out on first datesDid you ask them to a second date? | /r/seduction | 18/06/22 05:38 AM |
| 23 | Keep striking out on first datesSplitting the bill is not a sign it disinterest. | /r/seduction | 18/06/22 05:22 AM |
| 18 | I (M20) am confused about my (F18) friend's behaviorThis is literally the dumbest post. Fuck that girl rn | /r/seduction | 18/06/22 02:38 AM |
| 3 | Some people forget this is a seduction sub. We do not care about you being on your purpose.I do think the most guys think that their problem is a lack of women in their lives but the more they tug on that thread the more they realize that they hate themselves. However, I think with regards to seduction, there's definitely an entire lifestyle and attitude that come with it. Banging hotties will only help you so much before you realize you're still empty inside. I think that inner satisfaction is a separate issue, but I think it's ok to discuss it in this space. But yeah you're right, i… | /r/seduction | 17/06/22 09:25 PM |
| 44 | How do I stop being a virgin loser?Be ok with failing, rejection and accepting yourself as you are without judgement. The rest will build on that. | /r/seduction | 17/06/22 06:25 PM |
| 1 | Is there a reason why the girls I hook up with get drunk beforehand?Lots of people get horny when they're drunk | /r/seduction | 16/06/22 09:51 PM |
| -1 | Girls been follow similar patterns?You didn't say anything about your experiences, but OP is talking like it's EVERY woman he's tried seeing. | /r/seduction | 16/06/22 07:50 PM |
| 0 | Girls been follow similar patterns?If everywhere you go, everyone is an asshole then maybe you're the asshole. | /r/seduction | 16/06/22 07:46 PM |
| 11 | Women really don't respect guys if they aren't attracted to themThe whole attitude that nobody respects you like a human being unless they're attracted to you. | /r/seduction | 16/06/22 07:46 PM |
| 61 | Women really don't respect guys if they aren't attracted to themCan the mods do something about posts like these? It's becoming an incel echo chamber | /r/seduction | 16/06/22 06:44 PM |
| -3 | Girls been follow similar patterns?Why don't you go to therapy and try to be a happy person before you try to infect the world with your negativity? | /r/seduction | 16/06/22 06:34 PM |
| 1 | How to let her know I have a "big" dick without telling her?Dudes with big dicks don't need to say anything. | /r/seduction | 16/06/22 01:07 PM |
| 2 | girl i’m talking to sent nudes too fast and i don’t know what to thinkYou're being dumb. Relax. You like nudes? Say so. You don't like nudes? Say so. Jesus Christ this isn't complicated. | /r/seduction | 16/06/22 12:57 PM |
| 1 | She (26) blocked me (27) for replying lateYou don't know and you might never find out. Everyone has their own shit. Imo, you weren't close and didn't need to be friends so it's not really a big deal. | /r/seduction | 15/06/22 11:51 PM |
| 4 | Are we as men working too hard to get women?Yes. There's a reason they used to say Get Money, fuck bitches. | /r/seduction | 15/06/22 03:46 PM |
| 3 | Why do females move on faster?Because she can. Don't worry about them. While they're piling on top of their problems, you'll be figuring your shit out. Life isn't fair, but you have advantages that she doesn't have. | /r/seduction | 15/06/22 01:27 PM |
| 10 | What activities and things can you do to become more masculine?Being comfortable with yourself is plenty masculine. | /r/seduction | 15/06/22 02:15 AM |
| 2 | Do you think you can be a top 20 percent man when you are short?You are worried about the wrong things. There's tribes of pygmys in Africa with 5'3" dudes getting more pussy than you. | /r/seduction | 15/06/22 01:20 AM |
| 30 | Best book or course which actually turned you into a playerThere's no book that will help. There's no amount of studying. You have to get off the computer and go practice. | /r/seduction | 15/06/22 01:10 AM |
| 2 | Why do majority of people and society think we guys, we men, have the better end of the stick in the human mating game, in relationships, when men have to do all or most of the work to make a relationship happen? Men having the burden of performance or building the attraction?I do think I have it better than most women. My word means something to most people. Women get ignored, especially in professional settings. All the women and men at my job listen to me whereas my female peers often get overlooked or ignored. This is pretty much true in most places in life. | /r/seduction | 13/06/22 11:58 PM |
| 1 | i have been rejected by every girl I've asked outYou're 19 and I'm guessing super awkward. Just learn to be comfortable with yourself in all settings. Eventually someone will take a chance on you. Just keep at it. | /r/seduction | 13/06/22 08:44 PM |
| 4 | Should I have tried harder to sleep with her?It sounds like the vibes weren't right that night, but it sounds like she's not opposed to sex. Just go out again and see if she's more receptive. If she keeps going out with you, she's at least open to the possibility. | /r/seduction | 12/06/22 08:58 PM |
| 42 | Do you insist when a woman clearly wants you to?Man the number of women who were clear with their words is like less than 5%. Maybe I'm biased, but sometimes my own mother doesn't know what she's talking about. How can you expect the average woman? | /r/seduction | 26/05/22 06:56 PM |
| 40 | I (25m) have been told by women much older than me I’m good looking/handsome/nice calves. Girls my age never comment on my looksI get the same treatment. I think older women care less and are generally more confident than their younger counterparts. | /r/seduction | 21/05/22 05:50 PM |
| 6 | Is a woman's romantic interest much less stable than a man's romantic interest?I think they don't know. Sometimes they know and they don't want to tell you, but other times they have no idea why they behave that way. | /r/seduction | 21/05/22 05:42 PM |
| 3 | Is a woman's romantic interest much less stable than a man's romantic interest?Women don't know what they want. They can tell you they don't do hook ups while they're about to hook up with you. My general advice is to ignore her words and focus on her body language. | /r/seduction | 21/05/22 05:41 PM |
| 16 | Getting pussy requires hard work! How hard are you working??This sub has gone to shit. So many scrubs whining. | /r/seduction | 17/05/22 09:21 PM |
| 22 | Does friends with benefits ever work?Fwb can work long term if both people are confident there's no romantic compatibility and are enjoying the sex. Otherwise something will change the dynamic. | /r/seduction | 09/05/22 06:14 AM |
| 1 | I want to bring a board game to make my coffee dates better. What are some good games?There was this nice coffee shop in Brooklyn that had board games. It was a good spot for first dates that don't drink. I think if you're going to bring a board game, I think it should be discussed first. You gotta establish that she would be into it. I think a great date game is "Pandemic" (ironic, I know). It's coop and can be played in under an hour. | /r/seduction | 09/05/22 03:52 AM |
| 2 | I feel like you are all a bunch of losers who simply need to take care of themselves to bring confidence. Most of the advice here is shit and sad.This post is accurate. After following this subreddit for 10+ years. I feel like there's more whiny babies than at any time before. | /r/seduction | 25/04/22 06:40 PM |
| 2 | Do you guys lie to have sex? how do you handle the guilt?Don't lie to people. Especially to manipulate them. You should always strive to leave people better than how you found them. You will miss out on some pussy, but you'll sleep better. | /r/seduction | 24/04/22 08:01 PM |
| 2 | which advice changed youre whole gameTake rejection gracefully. As long as you're confident that it'll be ok if she turns you down, then you can't be defeated. | /r/seduction | 23/04/22 08:47 PM |
| 1 | What is your opinion on the phrase: "She is not yours, its just your turn"Yeah it's a bummer, but it's something they say to guys who just broke up with someone who is really hot. I wouldn't take the phrase that seriously, it's just words. If your game is tight, she'll pick you over any guy until your game isn't tight anymore. | /r/seduction | 23/04/22 06:46 PM |
| 35 | Does a girl expect you to become angry when she rejects you?Alot of men have no game and will get mad when they get rejected. Imo a big part of being an attractive man is taking rejection gracefully. It opens up more doors than you would think. | /r/seduction | 23/04/22 05:33 PM |
| 2 | Are you better off not sharing your success with guy friends?I don't talk tell people when I have sex. Either they find out or they don't by other means. People can tell when you get laid just by your demeanor and attitude. | /r/seduction | 16/04/22 05:05 PM |
| 14 | Is it a bad idea to give women an "easy out" if they have an excuse for not going on a date?If I get any hesitation for the date, then I just don't bother. I only want to date women who say "hell yes" to hanging out with me. | /r/seduction | 15/04/22 04:25 PM |
| 1 | I want to get over female validation, but this whole “build a better life” shit is hard as fuck.Hey you can do both. I do both. Don't stress yourself. Do what feels right. | /r/seduction | 10/04/22 02:16 AM |
| 0 | I've seen my female friends and sister's Hinge accounts. How can I possibly compete with what I see?I dunno I think most men are trash. I have seen some of the stuff they say to my lady friends on apps and in person and I am unimpressed. | /r/seduction | 10/04/22 02:00 AM |
| 1 | Question to all the guys who actively get lucky with girlsAll the time | /r/seduction | 07/04/22 03:23 AM |
| 2 | Biggest confidence boost?Get my career on track. I'm from a high achieving family and not having a good career really killed my confidence. | /r/seduction | 05/04/22 10:41 PM |
| 1 | Dark Triad Methods to sabotage online dating competitionYou must be really fun at parties. | /r/seduction | 31/03/22 01:16 PM |
| 2 | How can I talk about my job in a more interesting way?So change the topic. You don't have to talk about something boring. | /r/seduction | 28/03/22 06:02 PM |
| 4 | How can I talk about my job in a more interesting way?I don't care what anyone does for work. I work in healthcare and if you start talking about work that doesn't involve hospitals, my eyes glaze over. I don't think much needs to be said about your job unless someone has questions or they work in the same field. Talk about something else. | /r/seduction | 28/03/22 05:19 PM |
| 3 | What's your unpopular seduction opinion? Something you really believe, but would get down voted on this sub?You have every right to feel that way. I'm sure there's something about the world that makes it feel that way. But I see it as means to communicate better with potential romantic partners. We're taught so many myths about the opposite gender growing up, that connecting with them sounds alien. Seduction for me is a means for me to live more honestly and connect better with the people around me. I get laid plenty, ons, fwb and relationships, but seduction is about being able to express yourself ho… | /r/seduction | 25/03/22 01:44 AM |
| 4 | What's your unpopular seduction opinion? Something you really believe, but would get down voted on this sub?Hey man, you're right. There's no such thing as objective morality. Everyone is fronting to some extent. And I guess you have to prioritize your dick. I don't blame you for feeling that way, but me personally, I just try to live without hurting anyone. If that costs me some pussy, so be it. | /r/seduction | 25/03/22 12:03 AM |
| -1 | What's your unpopular seduction opinion? Something you really believe, but would get down voted on this sub?You're not wrong. And more power to you. But it still makes you an asshole. | /r/seduction | 24/03/22 11:59 PM |
| 16 | What's your unpopular seduction opinion? Something you really believe, but would get down voted on this sub?Women have no idea what they want and 99% of what they say with regards to attraction are irrelevant. Body language is everything. The only word that matters from a woman is "no". Even the "yes" is tenuous at best. | /r/seduction | 24/03/22 10:19 PM |
| 20 | What's your unpopular seduction opinion? Something you really believe, but would get down voted on this sub?You're not wrong, but you're an asshole. | /r/seduction | 24/03/22 10:16 PM |
| 2 | How do I use my second language?Bro yes you can. Don't ask these neckbeards. Figure it out. | /r/seduction | 24/03/22 06:08 PM |
| -3 | I’m so confused by all this game bullshitBro it is enough. Game is a trick guys use to think they're charming. If you just do you, there will be plenty of women who want you. | /r/seduction | 24/03/22 01:22 AM |
| 2 | A lot of people here downplay importance of physical attractivenessThis post needs to die. Looks matter sure, but they are a much smaller piece than you think. And there are tons of average looking guys getting with fine ass women. You should be focused on how you can be one of them. | /r/seduction | 23/03/22 01:38 AM |
| 17 | Guys are the biggest liarsGuys who actually get it done, don't brag about it. They just do it. | /r/seduction | 20/03/22 05:13 PM |
| 3 | What’s your hobby?Weightlifting, basketball, video games, movies, sports traveling, going out, dancing. Going to restaurants. | /r/seduction | 20/03/22 05:11 AM |
| 3 | What’s your hobby?Would love to hear more about why you like martial arts and why they changed your life. | /r/seduction | 20/03/22 05:08 AM |
| 1 | How do you talk to women when you're not into Harry Potter, The Office, astrology, Marvel movies, anime, or video games, etc?What are you into? | /r/seduction | 19/03/22 10:44 PM |
| 1 | Any time there’s a post about how a guy did NOT get laid, the guys that DO get laid should comment about what they would have done. Let’s help each other out!Well then maybe you're ready to take another step. I dunno what that looks like for you. Maybe it's time to leverage those social skills into a coffee date. The only thing on your side is time. Just try. Don't get mad if it takes a couple tries. Focus. Think about what went wrong without judging yourself or her. Try something different next time. I can tell you what I do, but you need to develop your own style. It's necessary to experiment. | /r/seduction | 19/03/22 05:48 PM |
| 40 | Any time there’s a post about how a guy did NOT get laid, the guys that DO get laid should comment about what they would have done. Let’s help each other out!Lots of y'all have self limiting beliefs. Alot of y'all are depressed neckbeards who are too fucking awkward to have a good conversation with another man. Everyone jumps straight to getting laid without acknowledging that there's a whole ladder of sociability that guy cannot climb. If you don't have at least 1 or 2 good friends, jumping into the complex social interaction that is dating is too much for it. If you can't at least figure out how to have a friendly conversation with a stranger witho… | /r/seduction | 19/03/22 10:31 AM |
| 10 | Am I the only guy who thinks it’s easier to approach women solo rather than with a friend or wing?I prefer solo as well. I can just focus on what I want to do. Going out in groups is fun, but I just don't expect to get laid when I do it. | /r/seduction | 17/03/22 02:48 AM |
| 2 | Have you ever told someone you loved them, even though you didn’t mean it?Don't say it if you don't mean it. It has alot of connotations. Just say how you feel and let the chips fall where they may. | /r/seduction | 17/03/22 02:35 AM |
| 20 | How do I let girls know on apps that I’m mainly looking for casual sex?Best explanation | /r/seduction | 16/03/22 12:55 AM |
| 0 | Do you think women are aware of the skillset guys have to have to be successful at datingThey have no idea. They have no idea when they want to have sex. | /r/seduction | 15/03/22 05:58 PM |
| 3 | Can you guys settle an argument for me? Do you think you can tell without doubt if someone is interested in you only from the way they look at you?Yes you can. Just cause you missed it, didn't mean it wasn't there. | /r/seduction | 14/03/22 07:54 PM |
| 1 | Appreciation post - girls who make the first moveI know 5'6" guys who fuck hot women regularly. They know they have limits, but they don't care. They do whatever the fuck they want. It sounds like you have a lot of basic things to work on, but you can do it. I swear when I was 23 I thought that it could never happen for me. I'm 33 now and I honestly regret thinking that cuz it prevented me from living my best life. Grow up and keep trying. It'll get better I promise. | /r/seduction | 14/03/22 05:41 PM |
| 0 | Appreciation post - girls who make the first moveBro if you don't want to believe that you can be successful or confident, just say that. | /r/seduction | 14/03/22 05:36 PM |
| 1 | Appreciation post - girls who make the first moveThis is the most reddit neckbeard perspective. There are other visual indicators that suggest someone is confident without having to be good looking. The guy laughing at the bar with all his friends cracking jokes. The guy dancing with every girl on the floor. The guy at work that everyone can trust will handle whatever the problem is. The fucking dungeon master in your D&D group. The guy at the gym people feel comfortable asking form tips. No matter what sphere of life you think of, if groups o… | /r/seduction | 14/03/22 04:47 PM |
| 2 | is there a single question i can ask to see if a woman is truly into me?Yes. "Do you want to go out?" | /r/seduction | 14/03/22 03:41 PM |
| 0 | Appreciation post - girls who make the first moveNo way bro, some people are just pleasant to be around. If she's the kinda girl who initiates sex, she'll probably go after a guy who is comfortable to be around. In my experience, the guys who are banging 9s and 10s are average looking but just good confidence. | /r/seduction | 14/03/22 01:54 PM |
| 3 | If you were in college again what mistakes would you avoid making and what would you do differently?I would have broken up with my girlfriend. | /r/seduction | 12/03/22 04:32 PM |
| 13 | How to deal with mixed signals ?Mixed signals is a clear signal. Girls who want you won't leave it up to chance. | /r/seduction | 11/03/22 05:40 PM |
| 1 | How to "breakthrough" during a conversation?What do you want? Just say that. Works surprisingly well. | /r/seduction | 11/03/22 01:10 PM |
| 1 | My new GF (4 months in) is perfect in every way except 1…..Yeah I would just leave it alone. Seems harmless. | /r/seduction | 10/03/22 09:19 PM |
| 3 | How do you guys deal with mind blanks?I dunno, who cares. You're a human being and you're allowed to blank. You should ask yourself, if this girl is so boring, why are you talking to her? | /r/seduction | 09/03/22 09:29 PM |
| 1 | Girl says “she has to think about it” when i asked for her numberIf she wanted you to have her number, you'd have it. | /r/seduction | 09/03/22 08:25 AM |
| 2 | What's the farthest you've traveled to meet an OLD match for a date?2 hours, but it was just to hook up. | /r/seduction | 09/03/22 03:07 AM |
| 1 | Response to - out of nowhere: "you wish" from her.To me it sounds like she's still down. You should try to escalate. | /r/seduction | 09/03/22 02:24 AM |
| 3 | How do I stop girls from assuming I'm just a player?Bro stop worrying what they think. Just do you. | /r/seduction | 09/03/22 01:16 AM |
| 0 | let's be real, 90% of the time it's about looks.How can you say that when you've seen average looking guys with hot ass women and vice versa? | /r/seduction | 27/02/22 07:22 PM |
| 1 | How do I slide in a girl's dms?15k followers is attractive. Most people cannot get that. | /r/seduction | 26/02/22 07:48 PM |
| 1 | How do I slide in a girl's dms?I'm not talking about looks. I'm talking about the overall package. Attractive means you're confident. If you can be your most attractive self in person, then she might welcome your dm slide. | /r/seduction | 26/02/22 11:03 AM |
| 33 | How do I slide in a girl's dms?Unless your profile is super attractive, DM sliding into a strangers DMs will almost never work. Generally, knowing them from real life and being perceived as a reasonable guy will have more success. Girls want you to slide in their DMs, they just want you to be attractive. | /r/seduction | 25/02/22 11:31 PM |
| 2 | Girl said she wanted to bang on first date but we only ended up kissing - did she lose interest?I dunno why you're getting down voted. I think you're right. There's way sexier ways to establish consent than asking. | /r/seduction | 04/02/22 08:50 AM |
| 2 | Are there even single women at bars. women that arent in a group?Bro you sound like a miserable person. Why would anyone wanna hang out with you? Instead of trying to get women, why don't you go to therapy or try to love yourself? Maybe then people will want to actually hang out with you. | /r/seduction | 03/02/22 02:15 PM |
| 15 | Just say what's on your mindBoth. I've done it on both. In real life, she has to at least acknowledge it. Online, theres a decent chance she won't respond. But if you've got a decent conversation going online, she'll at least be intrigued. Kid, I was young once and I believed what you believe. Saying that you want to fuck will get you slapped. But most women are just happy that you didn't threaten them or become angry or violent when she said no. If you can be polite, decent and unapologetic about what you want and take re… | /r/seduction | 27/01/22 09:17 PM |
| 3 | I'm almost 17 and never had a girlfriend. Sick of the "it'll happen eventually" stuff, so I'm going to make it happen.Bro you're 17. Girls at your age have no idea what's going on. Neither do you. Most of them will just be excited that you were confidently giving them attention. Just go for it. | /r/seduction | 05/01/22 07:37 PM |
| 5 | Going out as friends, should I?Don't listen to things women say. Watch the things they do. They'll tell you they won't sleep with you, but never leave your side. They say they want to be friends and then send you flirty texts. She wants you to think she's not easy but also that she's into you. If she agrees to be alone with you, she's giving you a shot to change her mind. | /r/seduction | 12/12/21 02:41 AM |
| 1 | At what age for men is it easiest to attract and seduce women?As I got further in my career, I started to attract more women easily. I think it starts around 26 for me. I'm 33 now and only getting more attractive. | /r/seduction | 09/12/21 05:12 PM |
| 2 | No, I won't dress up like a fuccboi!Ok but please tell me you shower and keep that hair clean. Smelling good is important. And you can be the guy you're talking about, and still meet women, but you need to at least maximize your version of that guy. Smell good, charming, passionate. Someone is out there for you. | /r/seduction | 06/12/21 05:45 AM |
| 5 | Other than Miami, what US cities have a lot of attractive women but barely any COVID hysteria (vaccine and mask mandates)?Get vaccinated bro. | /r/seduction | 04/12/21 04:46 PM |
| 1 | Was I being shit tested?I would forget about her. If she's actually interested, she'll reach out to reschedule. I would go out with her if she tries to reschedule, if not, don't bother. | /r/seduction | 23/11/21 08:05 AM |
| 2 | Knowing That you are a nice guyJust be who you are, but more aggressive. They really just want you to want and pursue them respectfully. | /r/seduction | 13/11/21 09:47 PM |
| 4 | How to create sexual tension?It didn't matter what you say, just try to minimize the distance. Try to touch her start with the knees and shoulders and SLOWLY progress. She should feel like you really want to kiss her. The biggest secret about women is that want to be wanted, they just want it to be done respectfully. If you can balance the desire and respectfulness, you can create a sexual vibe. | /r/seduction | 08/11/21 02:19 AM |
| 1 | How do I make the first move?Just kiss her. Nature will do the rest. Just remember, if she puts the breaks on, then slow down. | /r/seduction | 07/11/21 06:01 PM |
| 37 | Seduction is actually high level. If you don't have your life together, don't know how to hold a conversation with random people, don't know how to make friends. Trying to learn seduction might do more harm than good.I think OP thinks "having your life together" means the standard life in Western nations. Having a job. Paying your bills. Having a stable living situation. And I frankly agree. If you can't pay your bills, why are you trying to meet women? You have bigger problems to address. | /r/seduction | 21/10/21 04:07 PM |
| 28 | Would you continue to seduce and go on dates with a girl that’s somewhat physically attractive but you’re not into at all mentally just for the sex?When I was younger, I would put the effort in for girls I didn't like that much just to get some. But now, I'm not wasting my time. If I like hanging out with someone, then I'll do it. If I just want sex with someone, then it should be clear between both of us that is what is going to happen. | /r/seduction | 09/10/21 01:28 PM |
| 1 | How to reply to this shit testShe's not into you bro. | /r/seduction | 09/10/21 01:21 PM |
| 5 | [deleted by user]I'll be honest, it's literally never happened to me. I've had multiple one night stands and brought girls home from the bar. After hearing about what Cardi B used to do to guys, I have thought about it. But not enough to change my behavior. | /r/seduction | 24/09/21 11:10 PM |
| 1 | What are the best online dating resources/tips in your opinion?I don't think so. Even my most naturally awkward friends have had girlfriends and hookups. Meeting a partner is encoded in you. Don't expect to be someone other than yourself. | /r/seduction | 21/09/21 01:08 AM |
| 2 | What are the best online dating resources/tips in your opinion?Sure that's true. My learning style isn't such that someone can tell me what to do. I just need to try and mess up over and over again. I am open to learning process from other people, but I need my own experience to understand. But I'm not open to paying for it. | /r/seduction | 21/09/21 01:06 AM |
| 2 | "Just forget about getting laid and eventually you WILL get laid"Yeah totally agree. I'm always going out and socializing out of habit. I don't try to get laid, it just kinda happens. But when I'm spending all my time at home, I don't expect to meet people. | /r/seduction | 21/09/21 12:55 AM |
| 2 | Can confidence hide inexperience or does it always seep out?Just be confident in your inexperience. You didnt do anything wrong. You have every right to make mistakes and learn. Don't pretend to be something you aren't. | /r/seduction | 21/09/21 12:52 AM |
| 1 | What are the best online dating resources/tips in your opinion?I don't trust any gurus. I trust my gut. | /r/seduction | 21/09/21 12:51 AM |
| 3 | [deleted by user]Best advice in this thread. | /r/seduction | 21/09/21 12:48 AM |
| 1 | Why do people here recommend going out over online dating?You in person is different from you on line. I'm generally considered handsome and charming in person, but none of that comes out in my online profile. I feel like what makes you unique is hard to see online. In my experience, my dates are generally hotter when I met them in person. | /r/seduction | 21/09/21 12:46 AM |
| 1 | I asked a girl put and got kinda rejected. What should I do?If she says no without offering to reschedule, drop it. | /r/seduction | 01/09/21 05:20 PM |
| 13 | Should I suggest we become friends with benefits?I mean.... You guys are already having sex without committing to anything. Sounds like a fwb situation to me. | /r/seduction | 25/08/21 04:27 AM |
| 1 | Pretty sure he wants sex, I like him but I’m not ready, next steps?If I'm not into you, sex will make me realize that faster. If I am into you, sex will make me commit faster. Waiting to have sex will not make me stick around longer than to have sex. I dated a girl for a month before we had sex. The sex was blah and I realized right after that I wasn't into her. I dated another girl for a week before we had sex and right away I knew I wanted more of her. Sex will only accelerate my inclination. | /r/seduction | 01/08/21 08:52 AM |
| 1 | Ladies, how do you signal that you are open to being approached?How have your boyfriend's managed to break through? Or any casual sexual partners if any? | /r/seduction | 31/07/21 05:03 AM |
| 1 | Ladies, how do you signal that you are open to being approached?Lol that's my question. I was at a Starbucks. A girl was work her friend chatting while they were on their laptops. Both the friends glanced my direction a handful of times. No smiles. I was studying for a test. Eventually they both get up to leave. One girl just hovered by the exit and the other one left. | /r/seduction | 30/07/21 03:10 PM |
| 4 | Ladies, how do you signal that you are open to being approached?Thank you. I specifically want a woman's perspective. | /r/seduction | 30/07/21 04:46 AM |
| 37 | I care about the woman orgasm more than mine. Here’s why.My general rule, if she comes, she'll come back. | /r/seduction | 29/07/21 09:54 PM |
| 7 | Ladies, how do you signal that you are open to being approached?I don't disagree, but imo it's much easier if she's into you before you even approach. | /r/seduction | 29/07/21 04:40 PM |
| 2 | How to act sexy in front of your partner to make their mind run wild?Don't force anything. Just let your mind and body so it's thing. Wear sexy clothes, do little dances, whisper in his ears, smack his ass. I get turned on when a woman says something smart or perceptive. One of my exes picked up on this and she used to try and explain medicine or biology. I would jump her bones soon after. You gotta figure out what his triggers are. | /r/seduction | 29/07/21 03:27 PM |
| 5 | How to have harder and healthier boners?Quit jerking off. No reason a 21 yo dude should have boner problems unless you have some serious physical problems. | /r/seduction | 29/07/21 02:39 PM |
| 3 | (Q) Developing your lifestyle - what is attractive?Do stuff you enjoy doing. Nobody wants a fake who does stuff for other people. But of course not all hobbies are created equal in terms of attraction. Imo, lifting, sports, traveling, reading, clubbing, comedy shows, cooking. Being into things that she would be interested in seeing with you is always a plus. | /r/seduction | 28/07/21 04:52 PM |
| 2 | What to do to escalate after sex?Relax bro, you got the first step. Figure out what you want. Do you want to date her? Do you want to be FWB? Theres nothing to escalate other than your emotional connection at this point. Just do what feels right. | /r/seduction | 27/07/21 04:08 PM |
| 2 | What’s the best tip you can give to a late 20s guy trying to improve his dating life?1) Fix your career 2) Work out 3) Meditate 4) Make friends with a lot of people and make time to socialize | /r/seduction | 27/07/21 03:58 PM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]When do I get to be myself? | /r/seduction | 22/07/21 10:14 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Some hostels have single rooms, alot of the people at the pub crawl aren't staying at your hostel, bang a local. Get creative. | /r/seduction | 17/07/21 06:52 AM |
| 19 | [deleted by user]When I travel, I stay in hostels. They have alot of young people looking to party. People in hostels are pretty much always down to explore with strangers. They have common areas where you can ask people to explore with you. 2) they have these pub crawls, usually with other hostels. Go to them. You'll meet tons of people, most of whom are traveling and a handful of locals, trying to have a good time, and you'll probably never see again. These are the absolute best way to have ONS. I like to trav… | /r/seduction | 16/07/21 09:57 PM |
| 137 | [deleted by user]The thing about fwb is they have to be mutually beneficial and enjoyable. Also, they are almost always transient. So she has to find you attractive and fun. She has to be at a point in her life where she doesn't want anything serious and she has to prioritize sex. Imo, most women don't really qualify. And frankly most men aren't really good candidates. You can maximize your chances by being in shape, fun to be around. Great places to look are online, the gym (be warned, you'll have to be in grea… | /r/seduction | 16/07/21 02:00 PM |
| 5 | As a man are low body counts attractive to you?I think higher body counts are more attractive for casual sex. Lower body counts are more attractive for long term relationships. However, everyone lies about their body count and I wouldn't take anyone at their word with regards to body count. | /r/seduction | 25/06/21 09:34 AM |
| 2 | Group of girls from my class hates my gutsHey how do you behave in this class? Why do you think they treat you this way? Try to answer this question in a way that has nothing to do with them. Just remember your version of the story is not the same as their version or anyone else's. | /r/askTRP | 09/06/21 07:26 PM |
| 5 | Deep Analysis - IRL vs Dating AppsI work in healthcare which is notorious for coworkers hooking up. So it's pretty common for people in my social circle to be hooking up for friends/coworkers. I think friend groups breaking up over two people getting together is a high school/college aged people problem. I'm in my early 30s and nobody cares anymore. My friend groups have changed so much in my life, that I don't really care to try to protect them from drama. Ironically, my life is less dramatic and I've never had a friend group t… | /r/seduction | 04/06/21 05:19 AM |
| 3 | Deep Analysis - IRL vs Dating AppsHey I'm a Pakistani guy who has had plenty of success IRL and online. I think I'm a decent looking guy. I think online dating is easier. It's low stakes. If you mess up at an online date, who cares, literally nobody has to know. You can try new things out. However, I think the quality of women you meet online is lower. IRL, bit more of an even playing field. You have to deal with people getting in the way, social circle. Rumors. Social settings can affect how you game, can get in your head easie… | /r/seduction | 04/06/21 03:25 AM |
| 1 | If a girl in a relationship makes sexual comments to you, does that mean she finds you hotter than her boyfriend?She maybe excited by the thought of you, but don't pursue. If she is going to cheat on him, she'll let you know. | /r/seduction | 29/05/21 04:36 PM |
| 1 | "If you've ever had a one night stand or hooked up with multiple people in a short span of time, It is unfair to then make your long term partner wait months on ends to have sex with them." Is this really that crazy of an opinion?If she's fucked on date 1 with other guys but wants you to wait, then she's not that into you. If she really liked you, she wouldn't make you wait. | /r/askTRP | 27/05/21 01:24 AM |
| 1 | Why do girls put 0 effort in, it pisses me off.You're not worth the effort. | /r/askTRP | 18/05/21 06:09 AM |
| 2 | Why do I primarily Match only with fat girls ?Fat girls are easier to get with. | /r/askTRP | 28/04/21 12:36 AM |
| 2 | Give 4-5 short bullets on what you think it takes to be successful with women, or to be successful in general. No paragraphs.be happy, be yourself be on top of your shit (money, career, body) be clean be open to all kinds of experiences be attentive | /r/seduction | 03/04/21 05:48 PM |
| 3 | Is DMing girls on Instagram even worth it?DMing can work but only if they've met you from before and have a positive impression of you. A stranger? Don't bother. | /r/seduction | 16/03/21 01:21 PM |
| 0 | Do I sit in front or next to her on the first date?Go for drinks and sit next to her. Easier to touch. Sitting across is ok but then you have to try to play footsy under the table which is very high school, but even some 30 year olds are into it. | /r/seduction | 18/02/21 05:51 PM |
| 1 | I wonder how many guys in the seduction community are actually high value vs how many of them are trying to create the illusion of high value.While I understand the point of this post and these concepts, I'm so sick of your career success being the driving force behind most of your SMV. I'm a doctor. Women now approach and flirt with me way more now than they did when I was younger. It feels like you can't be loved as a man unless you are getting paid. The more you get paid, the more people want you. I did the advice on this sub. I've been following this sub for almost 10 years now. I got in good shape, I got a great job that I enjoy.… | /r/seduction | 16/02/21 08:06 PM |
| 1 | Driving an hour to fuck an 8.5 - Yes or no?I've done it. Not bad. I wouldnt do it again unless I was really into the girl. | /r/askTRP | 08/01/21 12:37 AM |
| 3 | It's hard because of shitty menI think the world and dating would be a better place if everyone acknowledged that other people's behaviors often have nothing to do with you as a person and more to do with the world and that person. Every single woman has had a bad experience with a man. Verbal abuse, physical abuse, stalking etc. If you think about that most "bad" dating behaviors start to make sense. | /r/seduction | 19/12/20 03:52 PM |
| 0 | Remember, never show weaknessI'm a good dude who has his shit together. But even I get down on myself. I fuck up. We all get low points. You'd hope that someone could stick with you through all that. I get what you're saying. It's just a bummer. | /r/askTRP | 12/12/20 09:52 PM |
| 2 | Remember, never show weaknessI'm not disagreeing, but man is it a bummer that you can't be real. | /r/askTRP | 12/12/20 09:47 PM |
| 17 | Is making out with people for the first time always so awkward?Just relax and try to enjoy it. I love making out. Sometimes it will be awkward but if you have good chemistry and can match your partners energy you will enjoy it. Ps: not everyone will be fun to kiss. | /r/seduction | 05/12/20 06:42 AM |
| 2 | How frequently do you sleep with women you’re not attracted to?I used to do it because it was easy, but I eventually realized I was wasting my time. I pretty much only chase after girls I want more with now. | /r/seduction | 10/11/20 11:00 PM |
| 1 | Ladies, does the way he asks you out affect whether or not you're going to see him?I can't imagine anyone around my age preferring a phone call to a text. | /r/seduction | 05/11/20 12:09 AM |
| 1 | Ladies, does the way he asks you out affect whether or not you're going to see him?This is exactly the kind of perspective I was looking for! Thank you. Ok so it pays to just be direct. Also her rotation is for 2 weeks. So I didn't want to schedule something right away while she was still shadowing us. | /r/seduction | 04/11/20 10:32 PM |
| 5 | Girl I want to see doesn’t want to go to a hotelProposing a hotel without having met someone is crazy. I would never agree to do that with a stranger. You can't guarantee sex on date one. Go for drinks and then feel the situation out. If she's down for sex at some point she will agree to a hotel. But date one is jumping the gun. | /r/askTRP | 19/10/20 03:11 PM |
| 8 | Why do girls joke about me being with other girls?Girls only bring up other girls being attracted to you because they are attracted to you. I always read this as them being very interested. | /r/seduction | 11/10/20 03:33 PM |
| 3 | "The guy who fails at the game is the one who goes out looking for women to make him feel good about himself. The guy who succeeds at the game is the one who goes out and makes other people feel good about themselves." - Neil Strauss, Rules Of The Game, p.116Lol of course not. I started going to therapy a few months ago. | /r/seduction | 01/09/20 09:38 PM |
| 1 | "The guy who fails at the game is the one who goes out looking for women to make him feel good about himself. The guy who succeeds at the game is the one who goes out and makes other people feel good about themselves." - Neil Strauss, Rules Of The Game, p.116I hate myself and crave validation. I don't go looking for it in other people. I just happen to find it in other people. | /r/seduction | 01/09/20 08:35 PM |
| 6 | Inner game is the real dealThis is the best summary of game. | /r/seduction | 30/08/20 09:36 AM |
| 0 | I'm gentle and intimate during sex, which apparently is bad?Most women I've been with want a man to take charge in bed. They like you to be a little rough with them. Choking, hair pulling, biting and spanking have become normalized. In my experience, usually you start gently and gradually increase your roughness. | /r/seduction | 22/08/20 05:30 AM |
| 0 | How do you not get jealous hearing about guys your age who are way more successful with women?It's natural. I've been with a good number of women, some very attractive. But every time I get rejected, or some other guy succeeds when I fail, it bothers me. I still get jealous of other guys. You just can't let it bother you to the point of being stuck or unable to take action. | /r/seduction | 15/08/20 09:18 PM |
| 1 | Treat women with respect, treat them like a human being, talk to them, don't pressure them - and it often plays out in your favor.Hey if you make your goal to only have mutually enjoyable interactions with women and treat them like people you'll naturally gravitate towards people who want to hang out with you and have sex with you. | /r/seduction | 17/06/20 12:20 PM |
| 2 | What’s your go to first date idea that isn’t dinner and/or a movie ?Drinks. Simple easy. You get to talk. You have license to be a little silly. | /r/seduction | 17/06/20 01:35 AM |
| 1 | If a girl (who’s still not your girlfriend) is open on going on a trip to a foreign city/state/country with just the two of you, does that automatically mean she’s also open on having sex with you? 🤔So I would decide if I'm ok going and not having sex with her. If I'm ok not having sex, then I will happily go on the trip. If I want sex to happen, I'll just bring it up beforehand about what she expects to happen between us and the relationship. Don't be judgemental about her response regardless of what it is. And frankly, you should know beforehand if sex is on the table just based on how she interacts with you. | /r/seduction | 15/05/20 10:37 PM |
| 2 | How do I close the date with the kiss?Imo this is not complicated. In the middle or close to the end, try to sit down next to her or touch her shoulder. There will be a lull in the conversation. Look her in the eyes and kiss her. That's it. | /r/seduction | 12/05/20 03:58 PM |
| 17 | How do you start tinder conversationsI don't use tinder anymore. Coffee meets bagel has worked for me. But I don't overthink it. I'm trying to meet asap, so I always go for the date. My script is really simple. Me: hey insert name! How's it going? Them: I'm good blah blah blah Me: I'm great, what do you like more coffee or drinks? Them: I prefer drinks/coffee. Me: oh do you want to get drinks/coffee sometime? Them: Yes. Me: great what's your phone number? Then text them and schedule a date. Really easy, nothing to overthink and get… | /r/seduction | 29/04/20 10:01 PM |
| 2 | Little simple reminders for everyone including myselfStay at home unless you have to. | /r/seduction | 15/03/20 02:09 PM |
| 21 | I think I’ve mastered this seduction thing🤔I'm not sure what's going on in this video. | /r/seduction | 27/02/20 06:43 PM |
| 5 | Over time, my mates girlfriends have weened me out of the picture. I can only see my mates for brief moments these days. Now my mates hang out in couples with her friends. They didn't like a single guy hanging around them and potentially showing them an alternative. My mates let it happen.This sounds pretty normal to me. People in relationships tend to hang out with other people in relationships. If you're pushing your "alternative" lifestyle on someone, it kinda makes sense for them to want to see you less. All my friend's wives and girlfriends try to set me up with their friends because they actually like me. | /r/MGTOW | 02/02/20 08:53 PM |
| 1 | Where to meet girls for a guy (18) not in collegeHey you're young, you got a whole life ahead of you. Get a job. Work on your school situation. You should get your house in order. If you tend to your garden, the butterflies will come. | /r/seduction | 28/01/20 05:58 AM |
| 1 | Girl takes a day to respond to textsReally simple. Ask her out. Try to nail down details. If you can't get at least a specific date out of her, just move on. Obviously, don't tell her that you're moving on. | /r/seduction | 28/01/20 05:32 AM |
| 1 | What if she starts asking about my views on relationshipsWhat do you feel about relationships? Tell her that. I'm a big believer in honesty. If you guys don't have the same opinion, then don't force it or manipulate her. There are plenty of people out there who are looking for what you're looking for. | /r/seduction | 24/01/20 01:17 PM |
| 2 | PUA workshops/training/online courses/etc.How did people get laid before the internet? Its a wonder that humanity is here. | /r/seduction | 19/01/20 01:16 AM |
| 2 | Tell me if this is bad form to try to initiate seduction with my neighbor’s wife...Do not do this. I don't agree with going after taken people, but if you are going to do it, she needs to make the first move. | /r/seduction | 15/01/20 07:04 PM |
| 2 | Last minute resistanceIf it feels forced, she won't do it, even if she wants to. Repeat after me "I only want to do what you are comfortable with" | /r/seduction | 10/01/20 11:03 PM |
| 1 | Do language barriers prevent good relationships?I've hooked up with girls who didn't speak a lick of English. Gotta do stuff that doesn't involve talking. Dancing is a good bet. | /r/seduction | 03/01/20 04:22 PM |
| 7 | Best product out there?Life experience. You can't buy it. | /r/seduction | 31/12/19 12:45 AM |
| 7 | What are some things you say to get her in the mood?Lots of great advice in this thread. But srsly, the way to turn her on is to be purely in the moment. Touch her leg, look her in the eye, tell her she's beautiful. Nature will take care of the rest. | /r/seduction | 28/12/19 04:08 PM |
| 1 | Requesting woman's perspective: Acting flirty after rejectionYeah I've heard this explanation before, but I have a feeling a woman would have different reasoning. I don't like to assume that people are using me unless I can't find another reason. I don't mind being friends with them. They're both nice and interesting people. | /r/seduction | 26/12/19 08:13 PM |
| 1 | I met a PUA in real life and his advice was: Approach, Isolate, KissYou're a guy trying to be alone with a woman. She will get the hint of where it's going. If she's not into it, you'll see it on her face real quick. | /r/seduction | 23/09/19 11:20 PM |
| 2 | Should I just accept that sometimes logic does not apply?I disagree that men are logical. We like to think of ourselves as logical. | /r/seduction | 06/09/19 10:53 PM |
| 2 | 6 Signs Signs Someone is in Love with YouMy ex did all these things until things went sour. Imo love is a bit strong, definitely attraction. | /r/seduction | 09/07/19 01:45 PM |
| 3 | Why do girls ask this?I think it's normal to to talk about romantic history. People who are interested usually do that. | /r/seduction | 22/06/19 12:39 PM |
| 1 | Should i ask her out?Because I don't know anything. I could be wrong. Clearly, you want to ask her out. Just do it. And find out. Better not to live in the dark. | /r/seduction | 03/03/19 03:06 PM |
| 1 | Should i ask her out?1) you should ask her out 2) she might say no. It doesn't sound like she's interested in you. Asking her out, forces her to make a decision so you can move on with your life. | /r/seduction | 03/03/19 03:02 PM |
| 8 | Do girls ever make a move for guys, or do guys have to do ALL the work while woman sit back and do nothing?Girls do make moves. They only do it for guys they're into and if they've been in a position of having to do it(not particularly attractive, from the East coast, really crazy about someone). You should not expect anyone to do anything for you. | /r/seduction | 06/02/19 05:28 PM |
| 6 | What do you do when a girl says insecure thing about them self?I double down. I crack a joke about the thing they're insecure about sarcastically. That way you don't pity them and you don't make them feel bad. Delivery is very important. Done right, she feels better about herself. | /r/seduction | 17/01/19 04:32 AM |
| 1 | Shit test compilation threadA shit test is anything designed to see if you are who you say you are. The best response is the first thing that comes to mind(preferably a joke) delivered with good timing. It doesn't have to make sense, it doesn't have to even acknowledge the test. Being open and honest with yourself and the women you date is better than any canned response. | /r/seduction | 09/12/18 01:39 AM |
| 2 | Asian guys, how do you deal with Asian female syndrome?Bro you not feeling like a man has nothing to do with any woman. I'm south asian. We're equals in terms of racial sexual value. I do pretty well with women of all races. You're choosing to focus on the negative. Until you reexamine your perspective, you'll feel unhappy. Good luck. | /r/seduction | 07/12/18 04:42 AM |
| 4 | Asian guys, how do you deal with Asian female syndrome?If you only see barriers, you'll never see opportunities. | /r/seduction | 07/12/18 04:28 AM |
| 2 | Went on a fun adventure with a girl, but no response when I texted her. Where did I go wrong??This. Thinking about what you did wrong will just serve to keep you in your own head when you approach. Sometimes reflection is easier to do after a lot of approaches. | /r/seduction | 30/11/18 05:24 AM |
| 1 | Is it weird to invite a girl to eat at a restaurant with your friends (they all going with their girlfriends)?I'm assuming this is a first date. Go get drinks and talk about whatever. Pick a chill, lowkey, but intimate spot. Somewhere you can be alone in a corner without being bothered too much. | /r/seduction | 27/11/18 11:41 PM |
| 3 | Is this a test?Then drop it. If she's interested, she'll text you. | /r/seduction | 27/11/18 11:30 PM |
| 2 | Is it weird to invite a girl to eat at a restaurant with your friends (they all going with their girlfriends)?Depends where the relationship is. If you think she's GF material, and you've at least kissed, I think it could grease the wheels. If she's not GF material, then don't bring her. If you haven't kissed, don't bring her. | /r/seduction | 27/11/18 11:29 PM |
| 3 | Cold irl aproach or facebook text.Cold approach. Facebook text she can ignore, subtleties get lost in texts, you can't see her body language, easy miscommunication. Always take face to face communication if you can. | /r/seduction | 27/11/18 11:22 PM |
| 2 | “As long as you don’t think of it as a date I’m in”Go and do your normal date thing. She wants to hang out, the rest is details and rationalization. | /r/seduction | 27/11/18 06:30 PM |
| 2 | I'm a virgin, and a bit afraid of finally having sex. Is there a way to learn how to be good besides, y'know, doing it?Just do it. Remember somebody else has to enjoy it for them to want to do it again. | /r/seduction | 12/11/18 05:22 PM |
| 5 | Invited a girl for a walk and dinner she declined the dinner wants to do the walk. What does it mean?Dinner is a much bigger commitment than a walk. | /r/seduction | 31/10/18 05:13 PM |
| 1 | Every mans worst words to hear from a woman when you try to set up a date:It means drop it. She knows you want to see her and doesn't feel strong enough to make a plan. | /r/seduction | 28/10/18 09:59 AM |
| 3 | "If she doesn't give you the time of day, then you just saved a ton of time"I think the best time to initiate is on the way out. Dont do it during your workout. | /r/seduction | 13/05/18 03:07 PM |
| 1 | How do I get started?Go talk to women. | /r/seduction | 05/01/18 05:18 AM |
| 30 | The 15 Golden Rules For SeductionTotally agree. You get "friend zoned" you just be friends. She has friends that would love to meet you. Build your network. Women are part of that. You don't have to date every woman you're attracted to. | /r/seduction | 23/04/17 04:58 AM |
| 1 | The Truth About Confidence (and how to build it)Tldr talk to a girl | /r/seduction | 09/04/17 06:58 PM |
| 1 | A problem I have, getting things a little more seductive...Don't go into deeper topics until you've fucked her. Could you elaborate on this? What topics are too deep? I think I bring up family too soon. | /r/seduction | 11/08/15 04:23 PM |
| 1 | Do I Call?You'll never know unless you ask :-) | /r/seduction | 06/02/15 06:27 PM |
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