Hey, so I've made tons of improvement. I can get numbers, dates, f-closes, girlfriends. I'm much happier with myself these days. One thing that has eluded me is the F-Close from a bar/club setting.
I don't have this problem on dates. If I can get a woman to agree to be alone with me, we will likely do something physical.
I've been better lately in bars/clubs. I can talk to women, dance, flirt, lead, but I have trouble closing. Generally when things are going well, I'm not really thinking about the F-close. I'm having too much fun. However, when time comes to close, either I forget to close and move on to the next thing or I get a deer in headlights sort of thing, which ruins the vibe and comes off as creepy. Totally ruining the frame.
My no 1 priority when I go out is to have fun, which, as we all know, is very attractive. I don't try to think about taking someone home because it used to give me anxiety. Now, the thought doesn't give me anxiety, I feel confident I can overcome this hurdle, but I don't have a plan for how to accomplish this. What are simple things that you guys do to keep your eyes on the prize and take a girl home? I can develop my own style from there.
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