Where are the baddies at?

FlatDistance5 · 2022-06-17T03:32:38+00:00

Start approaching women when your out and about. Dress nice everywhere you go, strike up a conversation and see where it goes

hotpositions · 2022-06-17T00:36:38+00:00

Nowhere near that field of occupation, but generally after school there's a pretty insane drop-off. High school through college/university is like being in a bubble... you see fellow students everyday, it's easy as hell to socialize and do all this stuff. It honestly spoils us immensely and we don't even realize it until we get older. Once you get out of that bubble, you end up relying on hangout spots to frequent often. I'm in my 30s as well, and I find that chicks on dating apps in this age group are nothing like what I'm looking for, same as you. It also makes sense why so many people end up dating coworkers.

Cold approach is definitely a great skill to have. It's one that I'm pretty weak at myself. Usually when I'm out I just mind my own business and do what I'm out there to do, not to talk to a random hot chick pushing her cart at Target. But hey... maybe it's the next thing to level up.

donaldtrumpsmistress · 2022-06-16T23:53:58+00:00

First suggestion would be to open your mind a bit re education. I've attended a great law school, went to the best UG in the state, and many of the people there were the dumbest fucking people I've ever encountered. I've also worked a lot jobs in the service industry and met some of the realest most intelligent women there. You'll prob have a better time if you focus more on meeting cool chill girls with awesome personalities over pedigree and social status

jackedsoon · 2022-06-17T01:50:30+00:00

You 34 you should be asking where the damzels are at

premedchunsa · 2022-06-17T00:50:15+00:00

Honestly, since you’re a doctor, you shouldn’t have much problem getting dates. If I were you, I’d just let everyone in my social circle know that I’m looking for someone. Trust me, everyone wants to introduce their friends or friends of friends or relatives to a doctor haha.

a6project · 2022-06-17T04:31:56+00:00

You’re in a similar boat. Similar age. But I’m in teeth. I didn’t have a residency but I worked my ass off to build a business like there is no tmrw. That was my residency.
In my experience, most of my social circle/colleagues is about to be married, married, or about to have kids. Not much single people interactions. I’ve met and dated 30s. And I realize that i need to consider kids and family in regard to my own timeline. Some of my friends unfortunately settled. IMO cold approach is so random you don’t find someone at your edu level. Your best bet is to go to professional meeting/social. It is a very small pool. I’m in a small city (not many young professionals here). I’m aiming for mid- and late- 20s. I may be a bit old for them but I’m working to make myself irresistible. I do think any quality chicks with brain and beauty find someone before 30. If you wanna chi chat DM me. I worked at the bar in college and my game has been always solid but my career driven mindset and ambitions made me miss out the sweet window of prime dating season for finding a partner.

TheVelvetyPermission · 2022-06-17T00:59:17+00:00

Dating when working full time is way different than when you’re in school with your peers. If you don’t do clubs and bars you really should find some hobbies/communities outside of work and meet people thru those.

I’d drop the identity of being Dr MD and just be a humble person looking to meet and connect. It’s probably kind of undesirable if you are leading with that in your conversations, as much as it may seem like an attractive thing. I find that as soon as I get overly focused on my work identity it really drives women away.

cronasminate · 2022-06-17T07:10:49+00:00

You should have some paid professional networking mixers in your area. The important part is that it's PAID. And did I say PAID? Don't go to free meet ups, it's where are all the weird social goblins hang out.

I've gone to a few hoping to score old rich men to I convince them to give me their money and I keep meeting women lol which is kind of hilarious. I almost dated a milf who was a director at a bank and slept with one aggressive but absolutely gorgeous newly graduate mechanical engineer looking for work. There are a lot of younger attractive professional women in these paid well-branded selective mixers.

Again do not go to any free events. They are cringe-fests.

Cold approach is something can take a few months to get results and take you years to master and it's not really practical if you just want one girl. It's for when you want to play the field for a few years or until you are old and ready to settle. Since you are great with social circle game, bring some friends attend these PAID professional mixers and watch yourself thrive.

Lonely_Man22 · 2022-06-17T02:22:49+00:00

Sounds like your very picky.

PoinFLEXter · 2022-06-17T05:49:05+00:00

Are you looking for a woman on your educational/professional level or a “baddie”? Hopefully you know how to find the former. If you’re actually just looking for the latter to have some fun, get your ass into the EDM and hip hop scenes.

maxwe11 · 2022-06-17T04:50:12+00:00

“I want someone on my education level” - time to bring your ego down a couple notches my man.

Candy-Cane69 · 2022-06-17T06:54:28+00:00

women your age will tend to be at the swanky cocktail bars rather than so much the club, hit those up and see what you find, also I find women past their twenties love places with live music ? do what you will with that info, stay confident king your a well educated bachelor!

TXMedicine · 2022-06-17T13:09:18+00:00

Yoooo congrats man! What speciality? I’m PGY2 emergency medicine lol

SkeetSkeet123hj · 2022-06-17T03:12:43+00:00

All about social circles

ResponsibilityKey427 · 2022-06-17T01:38:49+00:00

Ummm what age you going for?

MoneyHungeryBunny · 2022-06-17T04:38:20+00:00

I’m right here

MilkyWay01 · 2022-06-17T07:01:50+00:00

Don’t give up on the dating apps. They are a great way to meet women outside of your social connections. Get advice on your profile to increase your number of matches, and if you are having trouble turning matches into dates and dates into something more, you just need to keep practicing.

On another note, I’m starting med school in a month too and I imagine meeting women while one is so busy is very hard.

DucaMonteSberna · 2022-06-17T14:54:31+00:00

Clubs clubs clubs

Dating apps? not working

KAOSIIWIZ7DOME · 2022-06-17T15:15:48+00:00

Why on earth didn't you find a fellow physician while you were IN school...I say this with all due respect. Also congrats on being a medical professional.

KAOSIIWIZ7DOME · 2022-06-17T15:15:55+00:00

Why on earth didn't you find a fellow physician while you were IN school...I say this with all due respect. Also congrats on being a medical professional.

KAOSIIWIZ7DOME · 2022-06-17T15:16:06+00:00

Why on earth didn't you find a fellow physician while you were IN school...I say this with all due respect. Also congrats on being a medical professional.

jjboy91 · 2022-06-17T22:54:53+00:00

I don't even cross path with people my age on the streets so for dating I have no idea lmao

hagakurejunkie · 2022-06-17T23:28:24+00:00

There are attractive women everywhere but you're probably not going to meet them at clubs. Attractive women who aren't dull have hobbies and do interesting shit.

So start doing more interesting shit my dude.

Title	Where are the baddies at?
Author	great_account
Upvotes	82
Comments	37
Date	June 16, 2022 11:45 PM UTC (4 years ago)
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