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Um, contact her if you like her. Worth a shot, right? She acted totally into you when drunk so she probably is. She may do a better job of hiding it when sober though so play it cool, don't expect her to be all over you again. But absolutely see her again, just to see.
/r/seduction04/11/19 08:02 PM
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Maybe she gives a shit about the people she sleeps with? Its not very enjoyable to do a sexual act the other person is not really into. Feels kinda half assed and abusive. She likes it because she likes it aaaand he likes it. She doesn't want him to do it out of obligation cause that ruins it for her. She only wants to do it if it's going to be amazing for both of them and honestly, that's how all sex should be. If he isn't craving your pussy then it's not worth your time. May as well just get a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/10/19 05:08 PM
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Then can I expect an apology or some kind of vindication? I want you to apologize for your advantage What exactly am I apologising for? Being female? Being attractive? Being attracted to men who tick all my boxes? I can't help my preferences and my body as much as you can help yours. I am sorry you live deprived of intimacy, but that isn't really anyone's fault. Not yours and not mine. It's just the situation, as shit as it is, as unfair as it is. I know a part of you is angry and you want to ha…
/r/seduction09/10/19 01:57 PM
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What you're saying makes perfect sense to me. It's hard to deny that the odds are really stacked against dudes these days, and yes, dating sites are not helpful to anyone in the long term, really. It's funny you mentioned autism, I always end up going for austic guys without knowing even though I'm in no way autistic. But that's just kinda my thing, I guess. I know that isn't common. The job thing is kind of important to me, a job, or an art, or some kind of occupation, doesn't have to earn much…
/r/seduction07/10/19 12:20 PM
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It's hard to explain, but if a guy is "too clean" I find that unattractive. Like yes they have to be hygenic, but if every time I hug them I get punched in the face with perfume or deodorant that's not ideal. There's such thing as not enough deodorant but also such thing as too much. They need to be at least dirtier than I am, or I feel like the roles are reversed. For some reason, stereotypes mostly, if a guy is above a certain level of groomed I feel like he's more interested in himself than h…
/r/seduction07/10/19 11:34 AM
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I don't know about jawlines lol, a guy can have a beautiful jawline but still not be that attractive... You're right though, if I'm not super physically attracted to someone then it's more difficult. But then, yeah, being good looking is not enough for me still, or like, it's important but just as in important as a whole lot of other things. An absolute yes is respectful, knows his own limits, respects yours, flirts well even if unaware he is flirting, yes is attractive enough, has an interestin…
/r/seduction06/10/19 08:28 PM
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I do not enjoy these sweeping generalisions, my man
/r/seduction06/10/19 06:59 PM
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I don't think it's the date that he did "right", it's picking the girl to go on the date with where he was successful. Trust me, if I'm on a date with a guy and I really like him, he can make as many mistakes as he needs (as long as he doesn't really cross any major lines). He's already won me over and this is just the dance for the sake of dancing. If he fucks up his foot work its just a cute mistake I can point out, tease him about, then we can keep dancing. Whereas if a guy is on ice, every l…
/r/seduction06/10/19 06:56 PM
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Yes. If you're feeling anxious or you struggle, it's way better to be upfront about it and put your cards on the table. I don't know how common this is, but awkwardness can be really attractive for me. I guess it's a bit of an extra challenge or just makes the tone of the date a bit more grounded and honest. Easier to make a bond with someone if they're vulnerable, I guess. Easier to build trust or something. Plus you can make it a running joke to check in how you're both doing. As long as it's …
/r/seduction06/10/19 06:47 PM
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NB: if you take too much care she may think you aren't interested in women. It's a balance. Attitude and intentions play a big role as well.
/r/seduction06/10/19 06:38 PM
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Am woman so may not be qualified to answer as am obviously biased. But it's a few reasons 1) often, not in all cases, some other person has come in and offered something the women sees as better. Maybe better chemistry, maybe better set up, could even just be a better body, or they have history, or some other reason. 2) even if we do not have more options we feel that we do. Every movie geared towards women is about the perfect man just falling in love with them even if they live with thier pare…
/r/seduction11/09/19 09:00 AM
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"How you doing?"+douche smile = Joey's magic recipe for success
/r/seduction09/05/19 02:40 PM
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Yeah, I wasn't expecting you to cross examine my every sentence so I didn't put a fuck load of effort in when I probably should have lol. But yeah, I mostly agree with you tbh just I'm a bit trash at communicating sometimes. Thanks for being reasonable tho
/r/seduction06/05/19 04:28 PM
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I think you've jumped to some conclusions. Let me break down what I mean more clearly because we probably ultimately agree. If anyone walks up to me in the street and starts talking, I will hear them out (unless I am actually late for something already, in which case I'll tell them that and apologise). I talk to them because I don't know what they want yet and I'm not going to assume its something unimportant. It's rare for strangers to talk in my country so it's usually important or urgent or s…
/r/seduction06/05/19 11:40 AM
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It's not traumatic, it's just like... annoying and off putting. Like if I want someone to approach I'll smile or generally give some indication that its chill. Also you can tell by how someone is walking if they don't want to be bothered. Like if I'm clearly in a rush and someone stops me for no real reason it's annoying. You would be annoyed too. If I'm chilling in "tourist mode" it's more acceptable, but like, it's still walking into my life uninvited. So whoever is doing that should keep thst…
/r/seduction05/05/19 02:34 PM
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Idk man, I generally don't think cold approach is fair to people who are trying to get on with thier day. Like I wouldn't like it if a dude came up to me for no reason other than to get his dick wet, unless he was really fucking charming. Maybe look out for girls who smile at you or make meaningful eyecontact or something
/r/seduction05/05/19 10:30 AM
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Don't tell her your name until she's giving you her number?
/r/seduction05/05/19 10:01 AM
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Yeah that's a good reason in my opinion, as long as its something your doing for you, and not for some stranger you don't even know yet
/r/seduction28/04/19 05:25 PM
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Right but if he doesn't actually like it then it doesn't show passion, cause there's no passion to show. It's just an extension of his job, something he feels he has to do. You're right, it doesn't really work. If he is genuinely interested and passionate about it then that's different. I think we pretty much agree tbh
/r/seduction28/04/19 09:42 AM
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I think hobbies are great, but also forcing can be a waste of time
/r/seduction28/04/19 09:05 AM
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I mean, work and/or general proximity. Like he probably has a friend/sibling who can invite him to a few parties. He says he goes to bars already. He can chat to the shop keepers/take an interest in those around him. He can even just chill in the smoking area of the bar on his phone with a lighter and offer it to people when they ask. It depends on the culture but there are a lot of ways. Plus apps etc. He doesn't need to drop a wad of cash and a couple of hours a week on something he doesn't en…
/r/seduction28/04/19 09:04 AM
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I don't get why you need to have hobbies and stuff to be datable. I'm a woman and I couldn't give a shit if a guy plays badminton or not. If social meet ups aren't your thing they aren't your thing. It seems like a big waste of time and money just to maybe impress a girl you don't even know you'll like. Like, if you enjoy crossfit, have at it, but doing just so you can tell some random girl about it seems.. Unfair on yourself
/r/seduction28/04/19 07:55 AM
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Yeah, the whole underdog thing can work really well if you're trying to change/deal with your situation by yourself anyway. Not expecting help/reassurance but accepting it if it comes. It's super masculine and super hot. But there's a difference between explaining the situation to her and wining. Expecting sympathy or being unwilling to change/deal with your predicament comes off as pathetic
/r/seduction20/03/19 08:58 PM
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Imma female, and dude, you just blew my mind, that's totally spot on Though I would add that in my personal experience being funny kind of seals the deal. There's a lot of comedians that I wasn't sold on until they opened their mouth. Maybe there was a bass attraction I wasn't aware of, but they just seemed like anyone else, then a 30 minute show of them killing it on tv I can 100% see myself flirting with them irl. Same goes for normal guys. I would pick the sarcastic, fun guy who I really clic…
/r/seduction20/03/19 08:54 PM
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But I'm so nice to you why won't you go out with me. Those other guys don't deserve you but I do.
/r/seduction20/02/19 12:33 AM
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If completely depends. Sometimes you can, but you can't keep her around without genuine effort and investment.
/r/seduction26/11/18 11:00 AM
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Yeah that's where the real game is at
/r/seduction25/11/18 09:18 PM
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For you it's not about getting laid anymore, it's about attaining a goal for your self esteem. It's natural to move the goal post. But realise it's the dopamine you're chasing, not the beautiful and intelligent women. They're a means to an end for you. If I were you, I would try and look for women that are not only funny and beautiful, but classy, independent and worth dating for a long time. You'll find new challenges in getting absolutely brilliant women to stick around with you for months. Or…
/r/seduction25/11/18 02:56 PM
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Eye contact is good, but it needs to be at the right moment. If she's established it don't break it. Unless you're not into her or not ready of course.
/r/seduction08/11/18 08:35 AM
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Start by just having the intention of talking to her, not closing. And practice talking/flirting with them. Then by the time you are approaching women for their number or a date, you will be naturally confident.
/r/seduction08/11/18 08:33 AM
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It's complicated. Yes, many women do. Are they aware of it? Not really. Just 'that guy seems to have his shit together' Will every woman have these exact values? NO. NO WAY. Not every woman cares about if a man is dominant or if he has a steady income. Many women would NOT date the guy who is following all these steps. But then, many woman WOULD. The man always need to offer the woman something. Not always these things. And vice versa the woman needs to offer the man something. It can be as simp…
/r/seduction08/11/18 08:31 AM
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Dude, you don't have to put your monthly income on there or anything. Just one or two things you like and a cute joke, it can even be self-deprecating if that's your sense of humour. One guy I saw on there just had "yes, I only have one t-shirt" because coincidentally he was wearing the same shirt in every picture. That's cute and it sells and it's absolutely enough. If you're really that prospectless why are you rejecting the idea of something that might help. Maybe it's not going to fix all yo…
/r/seduction05/11/18 07:34 AM
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Yeah it is you that said that to me. But it's the only info I had on the stats so I just rolled with it! I wonder if the app ever releases it's statistics, cause I'm sure that would be a really interesting read. It makes perfect sense that location has something to do with it, and also the population of people in your town in your age range and how many tourists come through etc. I didn't even think of that.
/r/seduction05/11/18 07:25 AM
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She probably reads it and then forgets. She reads a lot of bios that are basically exactly the same. But she still passes judgement based on them. Or at least some do for sure
/r/seduction05/11/18 07:20 AM
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Some guy on here just told me that 0-5 a month was average but maybe that was just him??? I'm basing my standards off what he told me. I'm a female so it's like every person you match has matched you back cause... guys aren't that picky... which gets really annoying really fast, I might add. But yeah, absolutely be more selective. Just go for the girls you like. It's a waste of everyone's time if you swipe right on every single girl on there without actually having any interest in half of them.
/r/seduction04/11/18 06:00 PM
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I mean, depends on the girl? Some definitely do. Personality is more important than looks for women. And anyway, it's worth having a good bio cause it just widens your net in general, and it makes the girl feel less shallow if she's matching you cause you made a cute joke rather than because you look one way or another.
/r/seduction04/11/18 04:53 PM
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Dude, 3 matches a day is pretty good. What does your bio say?
/r/seduction04/11/18 02:17 PM
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Yeah but just having good pictures isn't really enough either. You need the combo.
/r/seduction04/11/18 01:44 PM
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Okay but the tinder thing is because many men like every single girl's profile instead of choosing the girls they actually find really attractive (also the women put very little information up because they will get matched regardless). So if I get a match on there it means absolutely nothing and if women aren't really really judgmental and picky they'll just get swamped. Not because they're special, just cause they're female. So both men and women are forced into that corner and it's not ideal f…
/r/seduction02/11/18 06:11 PM
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Oh yeah this totally works
/r/seduction01/11/18 04:13 PM
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Oh yeah this totally works
/r/seduction01/11/18 04:03 PM
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A girl will date a guy if he improves/balances her life, he doesn't have to be a tank. It's more important that he has a personality that is attractive than a body that is attractive. Often those with less fit bodies feel a need to compensate with humour for example or being caring. Which is attractive to a woman who may feel that she lacks these qualities in her life, either herself or in her friends, exes and those around her. Also she may be fit because she is very self conscious and she may …
/r/seduction01/11/18 01:46 PM
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yes. all fit women are exactly the same. all the things that this guys says are true of every single fit woman.
/r/seduction01/11/18 01:37 PM
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haha, is everyone on here a dude? Lucky me :) I subscribed cause I thought it was seduction in general rather than just the boy's side. Seductive techniques are also relevant to women, I pulled the moves on pretty much every one of my past relationships and even just kisses etc. (for the most part). And yes I've been rejected many times, but I don't really mind. This way I don't have to be patient waiting for them to approach me, and I get to date men who are a little out of my league. But after…
/r/seduction01/11/18 11:43 AM
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Username no longer checks out :)
/r/seduction31/10/18 03:52 PM
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That's really impressive
/r/seduction31/10/18 01:46 PM
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Haha, yeah well, not everyone with a hero complex is like that. I think you're talking about women who are desperate which is different, but maybe sometimes falls into the same catagory When I was younger I had it and I dated this very sweet very emotionally vulnerable/suicidal guy. For me what I got out of that relationship was a sense of capability to help someone. The relationship was mostly talking about him and his issues and convincing him he was great, which he was, and is more so now. I …
/r/seduction31/10/18 12:47 PM
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That's awesome, man. Good luck in your seductive en devours
/r/seduction30/10/18 10:38 PM
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Well, you've definitely met them, they're everywhere it's really common. It takes a little more than just low self esteem though... basically, do you have the ability to appreciate them? Because that's the bit they're really interested in. Many men with low self esteem are going to pursue them and fail, because they're not rock bottom enough/humble enough to see the women as the heroes they want to be seen as. Basically she wants to feel like she's reaching down and pulling someone up, practical…
/r/seduction30/10/18 10:08 PM
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yeah it happens. I wouldn't say it's a healthy dynamic, I'm just saying it's a thing.
/r/seduction30/10/18 05:26 PM
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You don't have to be a winner to stand a chance. Some women have hero complexes. In that case all they're looking for is a guy with low self esteem that will value them and make them feel like they have something to offer. I'm pretty sure this is quite common, and if you don't feel like you can do the winner thing, maybe you can try and do the loser thing? It works in it's own way. It's another one of those values this dude was talking about. The ability to appreciate. It only works if it's none…
/r/seduction30/10/18 11:00 AM
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No, you're not coming off as an asshole don't worry. We just have very different experiences and interpretations of those experiences and yeah, neither is wrong. I can see exactly what you're saying. Perhaps my tastes in men are different to others, but I'm definitely not the only woman who thinks this way. ​ "Furthermore, if the girl is finally able to be your girlfriend, it makes her feel wonderfully special because out of all the other girls that you could have chosen to go after, you chose h…
/r/seduction29/10/18 04:25 PM
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If hooking up is for the sake of occupying/entertaining yourself and it's a mutual exchange, as in, that's what they, the women, want as well, and everyone is aware of the situation... that's different. That's a form of escapism and is part of societies hook-up culture. That's a lifestyle choice, and a whole other debate. But sleeping with a woman for practice... I would say that's actually detrimental to your 'game'. In my experience of snogging (making out with) potential partners, the ones th…
/r/seduction29/10/18 12:23 PM
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Dunno man. My first time was with another virgin and in a serious relationship. Was pretty good. Second time was with a virgin again in a serious relationship. Also pretty good. Pretty special, loving and emotionally deep and meaningful etc. I get where you're coming from that the more you practice the better it gets but really... The more you get to know your partner through foreplay the better it gets. The reason my sexual experiences have been nothing but positive is because the men in my lif…
/r/seduction26/10/18 06:39 PM
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Best way is through social circles and events eg talking to girls that go to your lectures. Or maybe at a concert or a bar. It helps if you have some friends with you so that if it doesn't work out you can laugh it off with them. Most of the time, in the beginning, it's not going to work out. Just don't take it personally, the girls turning you down probably just don't know you very well
/r/seduction26/10/18 04:51 PM
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