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Can you prove your claim that these are discreet sets of men? Do you have any evidence? Because I’ve met plenty of dudes who have long term relationships and also have casual sex when not in a ltr.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/21 04:55 PM
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I have dry skin/eczema so I have a completely different set of needs. You can find plenty of skincare subreddits though. So you don’t read books?
/r/ExRedPill10/10/20 08:12 PM
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That’s a really weak skincare routine. When was the last time you did a face mask. You’re disguising laziness with pretension. Put in more effort. Decide on a personal style, look up the history of that trend, go through fashion magazines and blogs and get an understanding of which people shaped that trend and are working with that canon now. In short you have no idea what you’re talking about when it comes to grooming. You have a hard time dating because you are lazy. Women have more choice bec…
/r/ExRedPill10/10/20 06:59 PM
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Who are your top three favorite fashion designers? What is your morning skincare routine?
/r/ExRedPill10/10/20 05:43 PM
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The average woman puts way more effort into her appearance than the average man. Ask any women about her favorite designers or looks and she’ll be able to name them off the top of her head. Ask the average women how many hours a week she spends on make up and what kind of make up style she goes for. You can also ask them about their skin care routine, what their shampoo does for their hair, what styling techniques they use. Ask a guy and most of the time they’ve got at most dander control. If yo…
/r/ExRedPill10/10/20 05:24 PM
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You are really delusional if you think you can be 46 and still be hot. The only reason guys give you attention as a 46 year old is cause you are low hanging fruit. They are too lazy to pursue the 18-24 year old who is getting pursued by 10 other guys already. There's a new crop of 18 year olds on the market every day lmao. We as guys, like the young women. Lady, you've prolly already crashed into the wall at 180 miles per hour, and your at the point of no return. Just accept any man that comes y…
/r/ExRedPill07/10/20 04:09 PM
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Can you show me where they say they use that categorization? I can't find them make any note of that distinction in the link you sent. And also from my experience watching straight and gay porn, I thinking you're making that up.
/r/ExRedPill27/08/20 12:44 PM
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It's pretty much impossible to find porn that isn't big dick porn though. Go to the straight men's section of pornhub and tell me how long before you find an actual average sized dick. Like maybe in an amateur video, but usually not even then.
/r/ExRedPill27/08/20 12:14 PM
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Almost all porn is considered big dick, so even if women aren't watching it for that aspect they still end up watching it. Most straight men watch big dick porn.
/r/ExRedPill26/08/20 10:33 PM
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It's not in the top ten searches for women. But I'm talking about the idea that women are obsessed with big dicks is a lie spread by men to men. There is a niche contingent of women who fetishize big dicks. Most are not particularly concerned about size.
/r/ExRedPill26/08/20 08:19 PM
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Big dick fetish is a myth propagated mostly by men. The number of women who care are very low. Do you have the numbers to back up that claim?
/r/ExRedPill26/08/20 03:42 PM
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I'm going to step aside from the "why does this make people horny" question and address this from a different angle. When practiced correctly, BDSM sex is a lot safer than regular sex. BDSM communities laid the groundwork for what we now call "active consent". All parties agree to all aspects of the sexual encounter ahead of time. Ways of ending the encounter at any point are specifically laid out. There are constant check ins to make sure all parties are enjoying the sex. And after care needs (…
/r/ExRedPill26/08/20 03:33 PM
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Ok let's break this down. What are some of your specific beliefs?
/r/ExRedPill22/08/20 10:10 PM
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Ok word. Well most people will choose their relationship and the person they care about over some abstract fantasy. Sure there are shitty people out there. But that's kind of the risk you take by opening up and being vulnerable. You have to put your trust in someone or the anxiety of worrying about whether they'll cheat will tear the relationship apart. It will become a self fulfilling prophecy. And that means that yes sometimes you get hurt. But at least you lived. The advice that the redpill p…
/r/ExRedPill17/08/20 01:05 PM
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Do you have fantasies about having multiple women? If so would you leave your partner if you had the opportunity to engage in group sex?
/r/ExRedPill16/08/20 10:48 PM
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Is the idea of being called "master" or "sir", some light spanking, and maybe a pair of handcuffs really turn you off that much? It's fine if it does. But I've known plenty of timid dudes who were great Doms in bed.
/r/ExRedPill16/08/20 04:30 PM
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Lmao dude this shit is so fucking stupid. My girlfriend and I split all expenses. We live together and split rent, utilities, food, car costs. We are partners. We fuck all the time. There is no exchange. Redpill strats only attract shitty people because not shitty people see through that bullshit from a mile away.
/r/ExRedPill08/08/20 08:53 AM
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Whose doing violence against men? Mostly other men. Whose creating terrible working conditions for men? Mostly other men. Who pushes men to join the military and who (for most of our history) mandated that only men can serve? Other men. Who oversees most of the family court cases that are sexist towards men? Other men.
/r/PussyPassDenied02/11/19 12:02 PM
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I'm not going to starve. I have a college education as well as middle class family that would act as a safety net should I somehow lose my job.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/16 08:08 PM
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...which is why people are studying it. If it worked then we wouldn't need to research on the subject.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/16 04:44 PM
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Social work is basically there to perpetuate the welfare state and finance another govt bureaucracy with phony jobs for women. We end all social programs tomorrow. What happens to all the homeless people in nyc. Most of them have mental illnesses. Are you down to let a bunch of mentally ill people die? This is what would happen. Some people are okay with that. Are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/16 04:16 PM
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do they pay living wage? Minimum wage isn't usually living wage.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/16 02:22 AM
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there has still been plenty of jobs to go around No there hasn't? I mean look around. The last fifty years we've seen the death of the lifetime factory laborer and the lifetime corporate career. Most of the jobs we have now are pretty bad and will be easily replaced.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/16 01:03 AM
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Why is the world responsible for women's unwed children Well that's why there's child support to begin with... It's so we aren't responsible for mr. rawdog cumming too soon.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/16 12:44 AM
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but what if there's nothing left to accomplish. Unskilled jobs will be automated within our lifetime. What if we don't really need someone who's not that bright or talented? Should they starve? Do we really want a bunch of people who aren't that great at anything and arent that bright going hungry and jobless? Thats basically a recipe for disaster of all sorts.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/16 12:42 AM
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I mean the answer here is pretty obviously "no."
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/16 12:39 AM
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I'm glad that blue pillers and red pillers can all agree that this is an awful idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/16 08:12 PM
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I would hope that men and women can come together and denounce this as an awful and completely misguided idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/16 08:11 PM
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because using a weapon or fire arm breaks other laws, which you will still be held accountable for. What laws would she be breaking if she didn't actually hurt you with the gun? I mean she's probably got a domination and gunplay fetish. Also cell phones allowed and all dildo bruises are from "consensual" BDSM.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/16 08:09 PM
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it matters to the man who wants to rape ehhh it really doesn't. most rape is date rape. it's not scary men jumping out of corners to fuck girls in short skirts.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/16 08:06 PM
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It's no different than someone giving you a ride in a car and suddenly saying get out of the car. I'm giving a car ride to someone. Mid way through the car ride they start being a dick. They're keep changing the music. They're telling me to to speed. They keep grabbing the wheel and 'jokingly' swerving into the other lane. They've got an open container of beer. They keep smoking cigarettes in my car. I keep telling them not to do these things, but they won't stop. Eventually I'm going to tell th…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/16 08:02 PM
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I have egregiously miscommunicated (which I find unlikely, but I'm not infallible, so I'm open to the possibility). nah this one's on you dude. HigHog is giving reasons and you're just projecting the fact that you dress to look more attractive onto her. Explain your argument better.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/16 04:35 PM
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This person is clearly a troll and a strawman. Don't feed them.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/16 04:24 PM
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because you'd face some serious societal negative effects.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/16 10:04 AM
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/r/seduction02/12/15 01:29 AM
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/r/seduction01/12/15 10:44 PM
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/r/seduction01/12/15 07:38 PM
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/r/seduction01/12/15 07:09 PM
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/r/seduction01/12/15 07:08 PM
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yes but if you look at the underlying message of most comedy its about pointing out things that are wrong with society. Even offensive guys like bill burr ultimately have good messages. I mean he has this whole bit about why there are tons of reasons to hit women, but the underlying message is that abuse is never okay under any circumstance. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AlvvCYUDHrQ I don't think there's any topic that can't be addressed with humor. I don't think anything should be off limits.…
/r/MensRights13/05/14 12:15 AM
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Well comedians are good at what they do. I don't think viewers should necessarily have those rules, but I do think it's the comedians' responsibility to tell jokes that don't show us it can be funny to rape someone. It's all about what kind of norms you enforce.
/r/MensRights12/05/14 06:39 PM
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I didn't find the Morril joke funny. I thought is was stupid, but that doesn't mean I don't understand how it works. There is a good deal of academic writing about how jokes function. It always comes back to the idea of incongruity. Our brains are programmed to recognize patterns. It's what we're best at. We're also very good at finding things that don't fit into those patterns. When things don't fit into the patterns we're used to, we find them funny. Tell me any joke and I'll find the incongru…
/r/MensRights12/05/14 06:54 AM
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The problem with rape jokes is usually how they're targeted. Take for example this joke by Sam Morril: My ex-girlfriend never made me wear a condom. That’s huge. She was on the pill........ambien. We find things funny when they are incongruous. The joke is of course the fact that we think he's talking about birth control when he's really talking about raping her while she sleeps. The problem with this joke is that the person getting raped is also the target of the joke. It's funny that she got r…
/r/MensRights11/05/14 03:20 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/14 09:39 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/14 09:04 PM
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I think that attempted suicides and successful suicides have different weights depending on the situation. Obviously successful suicides have more of an impact on society. But if suicides that were 'attempted' without real intent of dying are somehow factored out than even attempted suicides can speak to different kinds of pressures that exist in society and how they pressure men and women differently. edit: What I meant this But the most important thing to take away from this I think is that me…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/14 07:39 PM
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I'm going to assume that they aren't fueled by the same reasons as men. Suicide seems to be caused by different social pressures acting in different ways. Check out the Freakonomics episode about it. It's really interesting even it doesn't dig into the gender gap very much. I think that when there are such strong societal pressures on women to beautiful (something that neither red nor blue pill denies) women don't want to be forever remembered as a bloody mess. There is something manly about goi…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/14 07:02 PM
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Is narcissism a negative of the RP culture?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/14 05:38 PM
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Okay so everyone here is giving really shit advice because not many of these people are coming from your standpoint and understand your point of view. They think that you have to give up sexual opportunities just because you don't want to go all redpill. You don't. You can sleep around in a way that feminists won't be able to criticize. I used to be a fat awkward kid. I was the kid that all girls told their problems to but nothing more. I was quiet. I considered myself a 'nice guy.' Now I'm in s…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/14 05:36 PM
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Men and women are different. But that's too broad of an answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/14 04:04 PM
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Why hasn't the rampant and widespread acceptance of lesbians caused women to stop being affectionate and shun anything associated with lesbianism.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/14 03:43 PM
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This is actually kind of a myth. While suicide rates are higher among men, suicide attempts are higher among women. This is because men are more likely to use things like a gun while women are more likely to attempt overdosing. Guns are more effective hence the higher suicide rates. Here's the wiki.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/14 02:39 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/14 02:33 PM
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1000 is the commonly accepted sample size for the US. Gallup's website has info on it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/14 02:27 PM
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It's told women that they don't need to change, told them they don't need to serve, and that the person who matters the most is themselves. It has fueled the general narcissism in the culture, made women think that they are constantly and always the one to be worshiped and praised. It seems to me that RPs don't like this because they believe the person who matters most is themselves and that they are the ones who deserve to be worshipped and praised.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/14 01:04 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/14 12:40 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/14 12:31 PM
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That's because if you use the techniques espoused by redpill you will only attract unstable, emotionally unintelligent women. Emotionally intelligent women recognize and reject men who are so obviously trying to manipulate them. You are selecting against emotional intelligence.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/14 10:30 AM
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