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| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 2 | Thank you FDS! I found a HVM and I'm very very happy! I never believed it could be possible for me to love myself.😂 Yes but he's married heh | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/05/20 02:33 AM |
| 13 | Thank you FDS! I found a HVM and I'm very very happy! I never believed it could be possible for me to love myself.Hit ON me lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/05/20 02:30 AM |
| 20 | Thank you FDS! I found a HVM and I'm very very happy! I never believed it could be possible for me to love myself.He's 25 yo. 😁 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/05/20 07:53 PM |
| 5 | Thank you FDS! I found a HVM and I'm very very happy! I never believed it could be possible for me to love myself.And thank you! 💜 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/05/20 07:46 PM |
| 17 | Thank you FDS! I found a HVM and I'm very very happy! I never believed it could be possible for me to love myself.Haha. 😂 I'm a sagittarius and he's a gemini. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/05/20 07:45 PM |
| 15 | For those men who are 35+ and say ‘i’M nOt lOoKiNG 4 aNYtHINg sERIoUS’ my dude you’re half way to being elderly lmao like get it together Michael. Stop deluding yourselves into thinking you’re a spring chicken, you’re not!😂😂😂 I can't breath | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/03/20 10:54 AM |
| 5 | What’s Your Instant Red Flag/Trigger Word In OLD or Texting?🤭 Yeah and this. You're giggling 'cause you asked what I do for work? Wtf? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/03/20 03:44 PM |
| 6 | I found a HVM but he doesn't go down on me. He likes to please me in other ways, but this really bothers me. All my former boyfriends liked to go down on me everytime. I can't keep seeing him because of this and it sucks.I asked does he like it and he said "Not really". He seemed to be somehow ashamed about it.. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/03/20 11:23 AM |
| -4 | I found a HVM but he doesn't go down on me. He likes to please me in other ways, but this really bothers me. All my former boyfriends liked to go down on me everytime. I can't keep seeing him because of this and it sucks.Yesterday was the first time we had sex but because we didn't have condoms, he was perfectly fine just pleasing me with his hands and he suggested it himself. He didn't need anything in return. He just wanted me to come and he clearly enjoyed it too. Yeah, he doesn't like oral sex, but he's definately not selfish in bed. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/03/20 10:59 AM |
| 4 | I found a HVM but he doesn't go down on me. He likes to please me in other ways, but this really bothers me. All my former boyfriends liked to go down on me everytime. I can't keep seeing him because of this and it sucks.Well I don't know about that. We just had sex for the first time. I didn't go down on him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/03/20 09:45 AM |
| 1 | I found a HVM but he doesn't go down on me. He likes to please me in other ways, but this really bothers me. All my former boyfriends liked to go down on me everytime. I can't keep seeing him because of this and it sucks.I don't know yet, we just had sex for the first time and I didn't go down on him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/03/20 09:43 AM |
| 1 | Most men are intimidated by smart women. He didn't pass the test.I meant this in a general way, but now when I think more closely, it seemed like a personal attack. The idea behind it was just to discuss the concept of self-knowledge. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/03/20 03:41 PM |
| 2 | Most men are intimidated by smart women. He didn't pass the test.It's translated and it has been translated as accurately as it can be. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/03/20 03:16 PM |
| 1 | Most men are intimidated by smart women. He didn't pass the test.Haha, I know that sounds stupid. But here where I live Chinese restaurants serve sushi. I guess that's what he meant.. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/03/20 03:09 PM |
| 1 | Most men are intimidated by smart women. He didn't pass the test.I didn't call sushi Chinese, he did. But here where I live Chinese restaurants always have sushi. We know sushi is not Chinese, our culture with asian food is just weird. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/03/20 03:06 PM |
| 6 | When you decide to commit and his facade comes crumbling down.I definately agree with this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/20 01:22 PM |
| 17 | When you decide to commit and his facade comes crumbling down.This is stupid. If man has showed you he's worthy, you should just dump him in case he might be a doucheback someday? So basically you're saying you should stay single. Then why you're even looking for dating tips? There's no such thing as 100% risk free relationship. Love is always a risk. It's about not making stupid mistakes and being careful of who you choose to be with. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/20 05:20 AM |
| 14 | 5 months and we still haven't had sex, yet he still drives 1,5 hours back and forth just to see me (+ pays every time). Oh no, I think I'm crushing on him!He also sends me pics of kittens in the morning to cheer me up. He's such a sweetheart (or at least it looks like it). Too good to be true. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/20 04:14 AM |
| 13 | 5 months and we still haven't had sex, yet he still drives 1,5 hours back and forth just to see me (+ pays every time). Oh no, I think I'm crushing on him!Someone like that won't come to your way as long as you are with him. Time is valuable. Your change could go right in front of you while you entertain that doucheback. Your choice though. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/20 04:08 AM |
| 29 | 5 months and we still haven't had sex, yet he still drives 1,5 hours back and forth just to see me (+ pays every time). Oh no, I think I'm crushing on him!Believe it or not but I found him from Tinder. 😂 Here, where I live, people also use tinder to find a relationship. Few of my friends have found their boyfriends from there. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/02/20 09:12 PM |
| 10 | My first time seeing #TweetLikeAPickMeThank you ❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/02/20 10:24 AM |
| 1 | I found a man who treats me right and I don't know how to handle it!Good, wise advices. Thank you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/20 01:57 AM |
| 1 | I found a man who treats me right and I don't know how to handle it!Thank you! I'll try that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/20 01:54 AM |
| 1 | I found a man who treats me right and I don't know how to handle it!Thank you! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/20 01:53 AM |
| 2 | I found a man who treats me right and I don't know how to handle it!I'm already in there, thanks though! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/20 01:53 AM |
| 2 | I found a man who treats me right and I don't know how to handle it!Happy to hear that 😊 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/20 01:49 AM |
| 2 | I found a man who treats me right and I don't know how to handle it!I'm not showing it. I guess he knows nothing about it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/01/20 01:33 PM |
| 4 | I found a man who treats me right and I don't know how to handle it!I was sexually abused by two adults when I was a child. I was also heavily bullied about it by my "friends". I guess there's some damage that can not be healed. My self-esteem has never been this good though. I know I'm worthy of love and I love myself. My body reacts on it's own and that's something I can not control with rational thoughts. They say the most difficult relationship is the healthy one after the toxic one. I know the reasons for my behavior so it helps me not to do hasty descision… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/01/20 01:30 PM |
| 1 | I found a man who treats me right and I don't know how to handle it!I've read about it. I am fearful avoidant and a codependent. That doesn't make sense but that's what I am.. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/01/20 12:58 PM |
| 2 | I found a man who treats me right and I don't know how to handle it!And I'm studying at the moment. I'll go to work when I'm graduated. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/01/20 10:55 PM |
| 5 | I found a man who treats me right and I don't know how to handle it!I have been reading a lot about healing from abuse. I had a break from dating when I focused only in healing. This issue with kindness has been there for all my life. I've been in therapy for 5 years. I guess I have to just let my feelings come and go.. Maybe I get used to it eventually. Sometimes his kindness feels good too. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/01/20 10:34 PM |
| 10 | I found a man who treats me right and I don't know how to handle it!I don't have money for therapy.. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/01/20 05:34 PM |
| 15 | I found a man who treats me right and I don't know how to handle it!My situation is not like that.. I'm not fully convinced about him yet, I don't know him that well. My problem is that when he's kind to me I feel like I want to push him away. I was in abusive relationship for four years and I think I don't know how to react when someone is caring. It's normal that he treats me like this and I know it. I just don't know how to stop being anguished about it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/01/20 05:07 PM |
| 2 | I guess I've internalized FDS-mentalityOfc. But I've been attracted to some horrible creatures lmao, so I know it goes hand in hand with feelings. I have higher standards with looks too now, mostly because of the genes but for myself too. Anyway, my point was that I know sometimes I'm overly critical about things that doesn't matter. That happened only with men who were kind and because I've had self-esteem issues. I have to put things in perspective and think about what really matters. There's a thin line between having high standar… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/12/19 12:52 PM |
| 14 | I guess I've internalized FDS-mentalityMy reasons for dumping someone could be like "Too kind“ “Balding" "Not exciting" "Doesn't give me butterflies" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/12/19 12:12 AM |
| 4 | I guess I've internalized FDS-mentalityHaha thanks | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/19 11:03 PM |
| 1 | Found a man who respects me and takes me to actual dates, like really fancy ones.. ButUpdate: I contacted him today. He wants to meet me next week. He suggested friday and I responded "I think saturday would be better. Then you wouldn't have to hurry right after work, you would have the time to shower etc.." He seemed to take it well. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/12/19 04:11 PM |
| 2 | He's very eager. I like him but I'm freaking out.Exactly. It sucks. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/19 11:06 AM |
| 4 | He's very eager. I like him but I'm freaking out.My problem is that I get turned off when someone likes me. I want to change that but I don't know how. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/12/19 09:49 PM |
| 7 | He's very eager. I like him but I'm freaking out.I'm not so good with english. I meant that I freak out like I want to run away and get away from him 'cause he's too eager.. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/12/19 09:43 PM |
| 5 | He's very eager. I like him but I'm freaking out.By that I meant that I dont feel anything for him right now but I'll continue seeing him 'cause I feel there could be a spark IF he proves he's a good guy. Ofcourse I'm not getting attached any time soon until he proves it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/12/19 09:34 PM |
| 18 | Found a man who respects me and takes me to actual dates, like really fancy ones.. ButI don't know why he smells.. I was just guessing it's because of his work. And he repairs trucks. I will suggest him saturday next time he asks. We have usually met on fridays. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/12/19 01:30 AM |
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