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| 371 | A cautionary tale from the '80s. This was a relative's former doctor and I found a newspaper clipping in storage. Full article in the comments.OP put a link to the trial’s conclusion in their comment. The woman was awarded $6 million for past & future suffering. Key piece of info: “Millar was 62 and Ms. Crandall-Millar was 32 at the time of the operation.” Age gap strikes again. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/03/22 03:46 AM |
| 24 | pickme pays for everything and lets him sleep with other girls! he gets to have his cake and eat it tooIt sounds like 🍆 is all he’s “good for” and she’s gotta pay for that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/03/22 04:00 AM |
| 17 | A Pickme's LifeMy partner usually makes dinner and always plans for another serving for my next day’s lunch. I usually pack it up in the morning but he goes extra when he packs it. Rolls silverware in a napkin and puts in a cold drink. It always makes me smile when I eat lunch, I feel very loved. I didn’t realize I should be whining & crying like a toddler because he didn’t put a dessert in there. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/08/21 11:38 AM |
| 36 | What’s your best FDS quote?You’re the only one responsible for your happiness. I was miserable in a relationship and had this realization. Helped me understand that he would never work to improve it, all the effort was on me. So I ended it instead of trying to fix it. I’ve also given this advice to employees who feel bad when they put in their notice. You gotta do what’s right for you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/08/21 10:02 AM |
| 109 | Along the same lines as the post about not being afraid to lie - saw this infographic on FB the other day, very helpful for the "too-friendly" of usWe never say the room number out loud at the desk, that was one of the first things I learned. Several years ago, I stayed at a historic hotel with my mom. The room we were in was near a noteworthy room in the property. My mom is an overly friendly lady and was chatting with a random guy in a shop (he may have worked there?). In her chatty oblivious way, she told him where we were from, what hotel we were staying at, and OUR FREAKING ROOM NUMBER. I hustled her right outta there before she could … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/21 03:47 AM |
| 198 | Along the same lines as the post about not being afraid to lie - saw this infographic on FB the other day, very helpful for the "too-friendly" of usI work in a hotel and we try to make small talk with our guests. The amount of info people share is mind boggling and has made me very aware of what to not say when I travel. Please remember these tips when traveling/staying at a hotel too. I’ve never heard of a creepy hotel employee but creeps are everywhere and I don’t want them to know anything about me beyond the bare minimum. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/21 01:42 AM |
| 13 | Tl;dr I hate that my girlfriend is more successful than me and takes decisions about her life without consulting meThat was my first red flag! Unless he took 5 years off before starting college, I don’t see why a 23 year old (presumably in his final years of school) would be in the same class as a 18 year old. He’s just bumming around in intro level classes for fun? Or for the 18 year olds? Gross. There’s another comment on here about the red flag of him wanting to date her for 10 YEARS. Double gross. I hope this fine lady dumps him after all his crying. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/21 05:36 PM |
| 14 | Jealous of a cat “woke up to him smiling at me smugly from atop my gfs tits”Same! Woman & cat in this story (and you & your buddy) are very similar to me and my senior cat. He’s turning 17 tomorrow (🥳) and has to take pills twice a day. I love my cat to the moon and would absolutely choose him over a man. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/04/21 03:06 AM |
| 64 | 🤷♀️🤷♀️🤷♀️🤷♀️I recently turned 40 and as of yesterday am eligible for the covid vaccine in my state (yay!). I mentioned that at work to two college-aged female employees and they both commented that they did not think I was that old (lol). I told them my pro tip to looking young is to not have children. Not having to worry about keeping another human alive does wonders for your stress! They both laughed and said their future will be child-free as well. I love that young women have the freedom to choose their… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/03/21 03:23 PM |
| 35 | This is it. Today after I talk with my therapist I will tell my husband that I am not happy in our marriage. Thank you FDS for helping me realize I want and DESERVE more.You are the only one responsible for your own happiness. That can be hard to remember (and “harsh” to live by, because you’re not relying on someone else), but it is one of the basic truths of life. Are you looking to leave the relationship or try to improve it? Only go for option 2 if your husband is committed to improving the relationship. I ended a 10 year relationship by telling him I wasn’t happy (I was downright sick to my stomach miserable). His response: “I knew we were unhappy but I tho… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/02/21 07:11 PM |
| 5 | Get more in a divorce? This is why men murder women!When my friend divorced her worthless, jobless husband, she had to pay him half of her retirement savings account (of what she had accrued while they were married). Thousands of HER dollars that she earned from HER job, while he quit his job to be a “professional musician.” She paid him because she had to and moved on. I didn’t realize that murdering him would’ve been an acceptable option. 🤷🏻♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/21 06:32 PM |
| 70 | Another reminder why not to reproduce with NVM video game playing manchildren.Slate has advice columns that I enjoy. I read one this morning from a lady whose partner plays video games 100% of his free time (surprisingly has a job). Gets mad when she suggests time management solutions. Said they talked about kids but now she’s not sure since he’s proving himself to be a selfish, lazy ass. The columnist was like “yeah no do not have children with him.” 🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/21 04:44 PM |
| 7 | The marriage subreddit is filled with woman "bragging" about their husbands doing things they should already be doing. The subtext: Its only special because most men are irredeemable LVMs.BARE MINIMUM FOR A PARTNER. I was in a long term relationship (10+ years) when my dad died from cancer. We were on vacation when my dad’s wife called & said “come home NOW.” From that point I organized everything - changing flights, getting from the airport to my car to my dad’s house. We stayed there all week as my sisters & I sat by his bedside, watching him die. My partner spent most of the time in another room because he felt “useless” and “didn’t know what to do.” 10 years together and this… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/12/20 04:14 AM |
| 9 | PrettyScale - JustScroteThingzSuch a lame neg attempt. If he thinks she’s cute then wtf is the issue? How could he be confused about finding her attractive? I wonder if anyone has said yes after he’s said that shit. I’m so glad she shut that down. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/12/20 10:52 AM |
| 44 | A very apt rebuttal to the recent terrible New Yorker cover (NSFW but tried to censor a bit)This is hilarious! The only thing missing is the massive collection of pee bottles. 🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/12/20 04:38 PM |
| 112 | "My incel friend told my wife he'd r*pe her if he could and I did nothing. Now she's upset for some reason! What have I done wrong?"“Should I have stood up for her?” Damn dude, if you gotta ask... Isn’t that one of the best reasons to have a partner? Someone who will stand up for you and want you to be treated with respect. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/12/20 01:52 PM |
| 12 | How my dogs made me realise some guys suck.I had that same experience with an ex’s dogs! He had a bitch of a Jack Russell terrier that no one would blink twice at, and a super sweet, dopey rescued/abused pit bull mix. People would cross the street to get away from me when I walked the pit. I miss that dog. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/12/20 01:46 PM |
| 14 | I just got diagnosed with Crohn's Disease. How do you continue to level up and find a HVM when you have a chronic illness?Agreed with all these other comments! I got diagnosed with endometriosis about 8 months into my relationship. I was so emotional and in so much pain that I almost ended the relationship several times, thinking that he needed someone who wasn’t “broken”, that he wouldn’t have to take care of. Talking with other women has made me realize I’m not broken. And I’ve taken care of myself my whole life; he supports me and knows when to help and when to let me be stubborn. I had a hysterectomy today and … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/11/20 04:32 AM |
| 1 | Giving up birth control?The no period was my favorite part of Mirena! My uterus started freaking out last year and now it’s nothing but periods. I’m getting a hysterectomy soon; I’ve spent the better part of my life protecting myself from pregnancy, weird to lose that weight altogether. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/11/20 05:52 PM |
| 1 | Giving up birth control?I had Mirena for probably 4 years, really liked it. Got a tubal ligation last year and like that even more! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/11/20 03:09 PM |
| 83 | Self Care DaySuch great words! “You're not part of that trainwreck, no matter how desperate they are to invite you in.” Stay strong, op. You got hurt but avoided being tied to the ass that hurt you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/20 09:24 PM |
| 4 | Man once again panicking after getting a reality check about open marriagesThis is the funniest shit I’ve seen this morning. Thanks for a great laugh! What a turd, he deserves everything he gets. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/09/20 01:08 PM |
| 8 | Men not understanding how it’s creepy for a woman to just be approached randomly on the street, at dusk!This dude is an unobservant moron who needs to wake up to women’s reality. The post right below this one in my feed is from twoxchromosomes, literally titled “I think I almost got abducted last weekend”, about a woman being followed while walking on a Sunday morning. Ugh. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/06/20 03:22 PM |
| 15 | I don’t see the problemYay! I ended a 10 year relationship for the same reason. I wasn’t his mommy and wasn’t there to teach him how to be a grown-up. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/06/20 05:16 PM |
| 22 | I guess another thing young women need to worry about now is angry short men infiltrating work spaces and intentionally trying to sabotage their careers because they can’t fuck or grow a couple inches.Wow. As a manager who supervises a lot of young people that attitude makes me livid. I agree with the other poster that his workplace will devolve into a bunch of bitter man-children. I will continue to hire, train, and develop every good candidate I can and give extra encouragement to the women. Not out of spite because I’m not a troll like him but out of sisterhood. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/02/20 07:50 PM |
| 8 | Got my first message.Dont be a LVM! Expiration date? Woman are not a piece of meat.I’m in a relationship now (I’m 39) but I got more action in my 30s than my 20s. Their “wall” doesn’t mean shit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/02/20 04:29 AM |
| 14 | Men who say “I’m worse at X household duty because I didn’t learn that as a kid” aren’t worth your timeAmen! I learned how to generally clean as a child but I wasn’t scouring cast iron skillets or trying to get ink stains out of pants. I googled that shit and practiced what I found until I got my method down. “I was never taught” is beyond lazy, it’s disrespectful. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/02/20 06:16 PM |
| 9 | How is being single worse than this? Woman’s (27F) husband starts emotional affair with coworker while his wife was pregnant, changed his phone passcode. She built a life with him for 10 years. He doesn’t try in therapy. DAILY REMINDER TO TAKE ZERO SHIT FROM MEN.Exactly! He’s the one who broke the trust, he should be working to rebuild it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/02/20 12:11 AM |
| 4 | Trying to “prove” anything means they still own you. Block and move on, retain your power and stay unbothered 👸🏻💁🏻♀️That’s such a great feeling! I didn’t have an abusive bf, just lv. We spent the last year of the relationship hardly talking or doing things together, just existing in the same space. He is extremely bothered by my happiness and how quickly I moved on. I am so much happier now that I don’t have his negativity. Like that light feeling after you take a quality poo. :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/02/20 01:50 PM |
| 23 | Best dating advice I ever got was from my mom: NEVER get involved with a man who has not lived by himself. And if he does live by himself, he needs to be doing a good job of it.I walked away from a long relationship because of this. He wanted me to take care of him without 1)taking care of me; 2)being fully cognizant of his need for a mommy, even after it was pointed out. We’re in the process of splitting up the house and all I can see are examples of his inability to be an adult (he doesn’t live here anymore and hasn’t packed his shit because I haven’t paid him yet). I’m buying out his share (less than half because LVM) because I know how to take care of myself and ca… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/02/20 04:50 AM |
| 19 | What "Wife-y" things do you avoid doing?Set up appointments for them (doctor, dentist, etc.). Definitely don’t do that if you’re not living together, but I recommend avoiding it anytime. No one’s making my appointments and holding my hand through life, he can learn how to be a grownup on his own. (My ex asked me to do this and I’m still irritated about it, obviously.) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/01/20 12:57 AM |
| 15 | This wealthy 38M has strict requirements for the privilege of dating him. Too many to post, but “female applicants” must answer ALL questions (A-Z) to even be considered. It’s written like a business proposal, but I’ve seen less strict RFP’s in sales 🤣Excellent point. His “pluses” all are in comparison to other dudes, nothing about his actual self. There’s nothing to his personality, but he doesn’t have back hair so he must be amazing! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/01/20 02:32 AM |
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