gregory2112 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
6	[FR] Escaping the Friend zone & LMR		gregory2112	/r/seduction	14/03/18 08:56 PM

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6	Life is Short - Take the risk It works both ways though... Had you been delayed asking out the cashier you might have been hit by a garbage truck instead and be dead now!	/r/seduction	27/07/18 08:35 PM
1	What do you say when you approach a girl? "Hi, I really like your style" "Hi, as soon as I saw you I decided I need to know who you are" "Hi, I have those same pants at home.. I should have worn them today" pretty much "Hi" then whatever you noticed about the woman	/r/seduction	02/04/18 08:23 PM
–	The only "push-pull" you'll ever need I do the same thing! What the OP is proposing could easily be taken as harassment, even from a woman that is beginning to be interested. BUT... a deep sexually penetrating look is not only more effective, it also creates some mystery and a chance for some push/pull. Quite often when I give "the look" the woman will blush and ask "what??" or "Why are you looking at me like that" I respond "YOU know" They will either get real bashful because they do. or they might say "No I don't.. tell me" Then I…	/r/seduction	29/03/18 08:30 PM
3	Guys who quit and or minimized porn/masturbating, how has your life changed? Not if you use a VPN	/r/seduction	20/03/18 07:02 PM
1	[FR] Escaping the Friend zone & LMR Trust me, I struggled with that myself, but this girl's boyfriend dissatisfied her in many ways and I figured that if it wasn't me, it would be someone else dipping into that honey pot.	/r/seduction	16/03/18 12:55 AM
3	Awkward Daygamers Ruining the Reputation of Daygame Approach - Thoughts? The internet will ruin everything eventually.. It's just a matter of time	/r/seduction	01/03/18 07:50 AM
3	Getting frustrated with my lack of success with girls that i want. Dude, I'm in the EXACT same place!!! I've spent the last 2 years re-inventing myself, lost weight, gained muscle, new haircut & clothes and LOTS & LOTS of time spent studying game & seduction here & elsewhere. Now, I get hit on ALL the time by women I find unattractive, mainly large or older worn-out looking women... I've tried to "lower my standards" and date them in order to create an "Abundance mentality" but I just CANNOT perform physically with large or old women no matter how dark the room…	/r/seduction	13/02/18 09:37 PM
2	Anyone around here from Columbus OH? Check out "Evolution Daily" on Youtube.. You live in the same city as one of the best PUA's I have watched. Heck, you have probably crossed paths with Aaron if you hang near the Short North!	/r/seduction	12/02/18 09:23 PM
3	Girl ghosted me but has returned, is it worth my time? WOW! this is an amazing reply!! If I had gold, I'd give it. Reading this actually helps me with my perspective about a few lines I have in the water that nibble but don't bite.	/r/seduction	12/02/18 09:05 PM
2	Need some guidance with a situation I'm in. It would be SUPER Beta to remove yourself from your circle or to stop being her friend! Why? Because you would be reacting to HER feelings. She feels what she feels and can't help it, just like you do. The Alpha man.. and the mature adult man would be stronger than those feelings and find ways to overcome them.. not be RULED by them!	/r/seduction	12/02/18 08:55 PM
7	Daygaming on Valentines? For years I take advantage of Feb. 14th. Anywhere you go that evening, a bar, a store, the library.. wherever, you can be reasonably sure that any woman you see there alone is either single or has a shitty boyfriend!	/r/seduction	12/02/18 08:49 PM
3	Just make everyone feel good about themselves! General Life Tip: For those who are ready There is a video out there about this.. It says you should strive to be like Ellen DeGeneres .. Most of her jokes are self deprecating and she NEVER points out other's weaknesses or shortcomings and thus she is adored by many!	/r/seduction	09/02/18 09:59 PM
3	With women you have to have an all or nothing approach I totally agree with this! After dozens of mediocre dates and h/u's I am just now taking on the mindset of "Hell Yes" or "Hell No".. no more so so, maybe it will develop into something interactions. Interestingly, When I made this decision a week ago, I started ghosting the meh girls and they are now chasing me. I also contacted the one "Hell Yes" girl I know and now we're meeting tomorrow.. I haven't been this excited about a date in a decade!	/r/seduction	08/02/18 06:34 PM
1	Finally managed to tell a random girl I thought she looked great and now I feel like shit The first time you rode a bike without training wheels you probably fell.. you also probably got a scrape or bruise and that HURT.. You felt like shit. Did you never get on a bike again? Or did you keep trying until it didn't feel awkward? Can you ride a bike now without even thinking about falling? This is true of learning ANYTHING new!	/r/seduction	08/02/18 06:11 PM
1	Need Suggestion for Perfume , deo or body spray Bath & Bodyworks has an AWESOME line for men. I use the sandlewood lotion. 3 different women at the gym have commented that I smell good, one even said I smelled "sexy"!	/r/seduction	23/01/18 08:57 PM
2	Picking up girls at the gym? It all depends on your approach... It's true that women are wary of guys hitting on them at the gym so it's best to go indirect. If I get positive eye contact from a woman or I see her a lot, I'll come over and say "hi". But the gym is my sanctuary and I don't like to shit where I eat so I have just made friends with many women at my gym and now that we are familiar they have begun to invite me out to clubs and gatherings. I see these women as a way to expand my social circle. If one of them mak…	/r/seduction	20/01/18 11:56 PM
2	Weeknights on the 9 to 5 grind I'm in the same boat and was going to the gym every evening after work, mostly to get in shape but also because I didn't want to go home and be bored alone. Surprisingly, the "talent" at the gym is more scarce than I would have guessed. Recently I found a new activity that surrounds me with LOTS of fit & attractive young women... Indoor Rock Climbing! No fattys or make up queens go to a climbing gym.	/r/seduction	10/01/18 05:24 PM
2	I get very nervous around very attractive girls, how to fight this? There is actually some GOLD here if you view it at a different angle.. Not so much entitlement, but more of familiarity. There was a post on here a while ago that suggested that you talk to ALL women as if they are already your girlfriend : "Hey, how's your day going?" or if you see her at the store buying cheerios, you just walk up and say "What are you doing? you know I don't like those!" The idea is to remove the fear of the unknown and take on a frame of familiarity. You wouldn't be nervous …	/r/seduction	10/01/18 05:19 PM
1	Grannies Volunteer at a nursing home.. you'll lose your fetish REAL quick, Or you might be more turned on than ever!	/r/seduction	28/12/17 12:49 PM
2	frustration at being unable to hold a conversation with strangers Dude, they gave you an open door and you still don't see it? me: So what are you guys up too tonight? girls1: not sure. Probably just stay here They basically said they had no concrete plans for the evening and were probably waiting for you to suggest something fun or cool... AND your offer to them was : ''Well....Bye!'' The answer to your question : But more importantly, what could I have done to extend the conversation in a non-awkward way ANYTHING!!!!!! "Oh, well my friends and I are going to…	/r/seduction	24/12/17 10:58 PM
3	Starting to hate myself because women think I'm creepy. I would need to observe your behavior to know for sure but I have a friend who subconsciously leers at women without realizing it. Waitresses at bars we frequent have actually told me that they feel severe discomfort when he looks at them. I have seen it for myself and the look he gives is much like that of a hungry animal.. he even bares his teeth slightly while smiling and ogling them. I have tried to talk to him about it but since it's not something conscious he won't even acknowledge that he…	/r/seduction	20/12/17 07:35 PM
6	Confidence is power I feel ya brother. I work out hard as well and have a small frame. Funny thing is, when I'm at the gym comparing myself to other guys, I feel small. However, when I go out in public I realize that I'm more fit & shredded than 99% of the average populace. Remember that no matter how big or shredded one gets, there's ALWAYS someone bigger or more cut SOMEWHERE!	/r/seduction	17/12/17 09:48 PM
3	Whats was the thing that pushed you to say fuck reading, its time to take action and make my first aproach? kptknuckles is spot on! I struggled going out trying to approach and then beat myself up for not doing it or for doing it badly on the few occasions I actually tried. Then I kind of gave up for a while but was still lonely so I started going about it differently. I used the advice of taking baby steps. Instead of approaching with the the intent of "pick-up" which made me nervous as fuck, I started just saying "hi" to people, ALL people with absolutely no intended outcome. The more I did this the…	/r/seduction	16/12/17 04:51 PM
0	How Women's Tastes in Men Change as They Age Love the content on your site... but had to click away because of the BARRAGE of pop-ups!! When will salesmen learn that hounding someone will NOT bring in sales?!	/r/seduction	16/12/17 04:32 PM
1	Applying success with women to the 'real world' Sadly the simple answer is to reach rock bottom... I was homeless when I was 18 and it drove me to improve my financial and career life... or die trying! It worked, I am now very financially successful. When I saw my parents wither away to nothing in bad health it motivated me to eat clean and workout.. Now I'm the healthiest & strongest me I have ever been. And now, it's due to being so lonely I can't stand it another minute that I am pursuing seduction with (nearly) the same enthusiasm. It's h…	/r/seduction	15/12/17 08:46 PM
1	[FR] Tried to have fun, had fun. I don't think it's a great idea to hook up with classmates Just something to consider.. in 20 years when you are far removed from college life you will look back and kick yourself for not banging as many classmates as you could have when they were easy pickings within your social circle! I'm 50 now and I'm just sayin'	/r/seduction	15/12/17 08:33 PM
2	Mental exercises to leverage confidence? For expert meditation info and guides check out Ajahn Brahm on Youtube. That little British monk changed my life!!!	/r/seduction	14/12/17 08:01 PM
2	Caught feelings. Unfortunately one can't MAKE someone feel something.. If that was possible this subreddit wouldn't exist! Heck, You couldn't even control your OWN feelings! "I could feel the feels creep up on me." "I didn't want for this to happen" All that you can do is accept the situation as it is AND move forward with your life. Now, you might get lucky... If you step away for a while she MIGHT start missing you and her feelings might change on their own but there is no "strategy" that will make her feel wh…	/r/seduction	14/12/17 03:31 PM
2	Sexualizing 101 ? Great comment! I would like to add one thing though. In the beginning (first date or meeting) I like to ramp up to the sexual talk subtly. Going from normal conversation right to "the dirty things you want to do with her" can be too abrupt for most women. I like to warm them up first by bringing up sexual topics in an offhand sort of way such as : "Where is the craziest place you ever got busy?" "How old were you when you lost your virginity... or have you yet?" <smirk> I also like to tell some …	/r/seduction	11/12/17 03:25 AM
1	Sexualizing 101 ? Then start practicing eye contact NOW! I was challenged by some youtube PUA video to start making eye contact with EVERYBODY and it has opened up a whole new world! I noticed some interesting things right away. At first, holding eye contact with strangers and friends alike felt much like the plunge on a rollercoaster, a stabbing tickle in the gut but that soon passed (unless the subject is a hot woman, I think that feeling never goes away.. nor should it!). After I got used to looking people in …	/r/seduction	11/12/17 02:16 AM
49	Sexualizing 101 ? Getting a kiss close is actually really simple if the energy is there and it sounds like it was for you. All you have to do is PAUSE at an opportune time. A lag in conversation? don't try to fill it, give her solid eye contact with "sleepy" eyes or strong focus as if you are trying to see fine detail. hold for a few seconds then look at her lips and back at her eyes (slowly). She will either look away if she's not ready (or super shy), or she will hold your gaze if she is ready. you can usually …	/r/seduction	10/12/17 07:12 PM
3	What kind of girls are most interested in you? It sucks, I like skinny girls but get no attention from them, however I get lots of attention from plump girls!	/r/seduction	08/12/17 06:27 PM
0	Can't tell if she's interested or hates my guts. You asked this EXACT question a few weeks ago, did all those answers not help you?	/r/seduction	05/12/17 08:44 PM
5	What's your go too 'routine' after you open in a bar? There are actually many answers to this question peppered here & there in seddit as well as on youtube. In a nutshell, you want your conversation (after your opener) to cause an emotional response in the woman. There are many, many ways to do this and many types of emotional responses you can trigger (positive, negative, fear, laughter, excitement, etc.) The main point being, If the woman does NOT feel an emotional surge during the interaction, then she will likely get bored. One example would b…	/r/seduction	05/12/17 08:21 PM
4	Field report: Hot blonde girl literally threw herself at me but got cockblocked HA! I thought I was the only one with this theory... The larger the earrings, the more loose the girl, not 100% but 95% Big hoops = horny girl Tiny diamond studs = picky girl in my experience	/r/seduction	05/12/17 06:56 PM
7	I found this girl who I am into and don't know how to keep the conversation going. You won't build intimacy over text, you need to see her again! Come up with an activity or place you will be and just throw out an invite : "Hey, I'm gonna be doing xxxx on thursday at 7pm, You want to join me?" This works well because it's stated as if you can take her or leave her. her response will say a lot about where you stand.	/r/seduction	04/12/17 08:30 PM
50	Have any of you been able to cure your Nice Guy Syndrome? It's all about rejection! When you don't put your true intentions out there and you act all nice & polite then you feel like you're "still in the running", you don't want to do or say anything that she could take offense at. By not being honest and open you shield yourself against having your intentions rejected. It's important to realize that by doing this you are already rejecting YOURSELF! The only reason NOT to show intent is to believe that your intent will be (or could be) rejected. That's…	/r/seduction	25/11/17 02:52 AM
2	Did I creep her out? Dude, you probably didn't creep her out, You caught HER doing something creepy (at least in a woman's eyes), you caught her having a boyfriend after flirting with you. You could have totally amped this up and made yourself more attractive if you had kept your cool, walked right up at first sight and said "hi" to her, forcing an introduction to the boyfriend. This would have spiked her emotions and made her think about you even more. At work, you should look at her with a knowing smirk, as if you…	/r/seduction	25/11/17 02:34 AM
1	How can I keep going and not settle? All you can do is approach more, You won't find the best apple by looking at only one! It seems that you have it in your head that if you go down the dating road with a girl then that is "settling". You should approach any woman that you find attractive, try to date her and have fun with her until it's not anymore. The thing to realize is that what you want "A girl that I find really attractive but also someone that I think about daily" is something you have to DISCOVER by dating the girl. So al…	/r/seduction	20/11/17 04:05 AM
1	Does it get easier for adults who are still socially awkward? Does pick-up or casual sex even exist at your age group? Hell yeah it does! It helps that most people guess my age at 32-36, that comes partly from genetics, but also from eating clean and being fit. Most of the women I date are 26-35. Also with age comes experience, insight and control. I can spot a woman that's only after money or one that is super needy and I have the ability to pass on them even if it means not getting laid! I have a FWB right now that's 30 and she's O.K. with no LTR. We hav…	/r/seduction	18/11/17 04:42 PM
1	Getting to the nitty gritty What you are asking for is impossible! There is no "step by step guide on what to say to a girl." If there was, it would be as useful as a "step by step guide on how to ride a bike", sure you could write one but ultimately the ONLY way to learn something like this is PRACTICE! sorry, no shortcuts, if you want to get better at talking to girls, you just have to talk to LOTS of girls! and just like learning to ride a bike, you will feel awkward at first and you WILL fall! but the more you practice…	/r/seduction	18/11/17 02:26 AM
6	Does it get easier for adults who are still socially awkward? It's NEVER too late!! I'm 50 and 2 years ago I basically re-invented myself. It was a lot of work, it was so difficult that looking back now, I'm really surprised I did it. The great thing is that once you get some momentum it becomes MUCH easier! I call it the domino effect.. It takes massive effort to push over the first domino, but once it falls and hits the next one, the momentum takes on a life of it's own. My issues were probably much different than yours but the basis of changing ones lon…	/r/seduction	18/11/17 02:20 AM
2	Approached for the first time in my college my suggestions : Don't obsess over this girl (thinking only of her) make more approaches! Don't text too much, let a few days go by when she doesn't respond make your next contact with her be to invite her to do something, doesn't have to be a date. (Hey, I'm going to be doing xxx, want to join me?) Hopefully you do see her again and when you do make SURE to kino!! It can be small subtle things like a touch of the elbow or the small of the back when leading her. DO speak to her with your eyes. h…	/r/seduction	18/11/17 02:03 AM
2	Need input on what I can change. I guess the most effective way I've ever shown my masculinity happened by accident. I was dating a woman that was hot & cold. sometimes she would be down, other times very aloof and uninterested (friend zoned) One day she came over when I was super horny but she was in cold mode. I knew from experience that past efforts to warm her up didn't work (making verbal suggestions or trying bashfully to touch or kiss her), in fact those efforts would usually just piss her off. I guess I was frustrated a…	/r/seduction	16/11/17 04:27 PM
2	Need input on what I can change. I'm taking a shot in the dark here, but I'm guessing these girls view you as a kid brother. You are likely super polite and careful not to offend. The reason women don't get horny for "nice guys" is because they're "safe" and comfy, like an old slipper. To get a girl excited you have to excite her! The trick is to project your masculinity by not being ashamed nor try to censor the fact that you are a man and when you become attracted to a woman you want to have sex with her. Obviously (I hope), …	/r/seduction	16/11/17 04:04 AM
1	What I've Learned Over Time Ha, I record analytics like this too! I thought I was the only one You must be a Taurus too?	/r/seduction	16/11/17 03:09 AM
51	K-closed and now She says "it wasn't really cool to do that" Just one important thing to consider here... If she went along with kissing and then got mad and made you out to be a bad guy.... What will happen if you eventually have sex with her? Her "second thoughts" could paint you as a rapist and fuck up your life pretty massively! Just something to think about in this age of the blame game P.S. a "shit test" would have been her saying something like "I'll bet you make that move on every girl you date"	/r/seduction	16/11/17 02:56 AM
1	[FR] Pulled chick I wanted for long, weird ONS. Even if you were to get another chance the anxiety caused from the memory of the first encounter would probably result in a repeat performance. One thing that might help your ego is that I'm 50 and the same thing has happened to me many times. Almost always the reason is that things went too fast. I learned that I must have a good vibe develop with a person before I can have good sex with them. It took many embarrassing situations for this to finally get firmly planted in my mind as a fact. Now …	/r/seduction	16/11/17 02:50 AM
3	Bumble girl is in a relationship but sent me this after 2 dates. This is a roller-coaster with a piece of track missing! Better buckle up!	/r/seduction	16/11/17 02:42 AM
11	Why do I always go from getting no girls to being on a roll. Biorhythms - bit of pseudo-science, but I seriously believe in it! https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Biorhythm	/r/seduction	14/11/17 07:39 PM
3	Anyone ever talked to a girl that you were so impressed with you didn't actually know what to do? What you ran into is chemistry my friend! For me it's super rare, yeah I see lots of hot looking chicks, but only rarely do I find one (She might not even be that hot) that makes my insides quiver and my brain hemorrhage. I don't have an answer about how to handle that, I wish I did! Any veterans out there got this one?	/r/seduction	14/11/17 02:56 AM
2	Small conversation I had. I thought I was hilarious.. +Cringing+	/r/seduction	14/11/17 02:29 AM
1	rejection anxiety? Here's a little boost to your ego... You said you are past AA, I'm not! Yes, the guy giving YOU advice rejects himself all the time, not out of fear of rejection, but out of fear of approach. Obviously you've progressed past the toughest mental block there is in game... certainly you can progress beyond this one? Certainly there's a reason why you're being rejected so much, do you have any idea why? There must be something you're doing or not doing, a vibe being felt or you're choosing the wrong…	/r/seduction	14/11/17 02:00 AM
3	I have limiting believe that I'm not good enough I saw a really good video that addressed this from "Essence of Solo", I can't find it now, but it was about what makes you "worthy". He pointed out that all humans are just bags of blood & muscle. That being worthy is not defined by material wealth or the way light reflects off our skin, it is defined by what one has to offer as a partner. This was HYUUUGE for me because I know I have a lot to offer a woman as far as companionship and ultimately that is what really maters. Ask yourself what you …	/r/seduction	13/11/17 04:35 PM
5	rejection anxiety? Ironic when you realize that every time you don't approach a woman... you have already REJECTED YOURSELF!!	/r/seduction	13/11/17 04:19 PM
1	I find seduction immoral ? If you have to ask	/r/seduction	12/11/17 07:02 PM
1	Try This Next Time You Go Out... YEP THIS!	/r/seduction	12/11/17 06:59 PM
2	Self Help Project to reduce social hell I think this is what you are looking for : https://www.amazon.com/Trial-Transform-Dating-Eight-Weeks-ebook/dp/B06XV14VDN/ref=mt_kindle?_encoding=UTF8&me=	/r/seduction	11/11/17 07:28 PM
41	Help: I Can Get a Girl To Bed, But I Personally Struggle w/Penetration - How Do I Improve? It's either desensitization from porn & fapping or performance anxiety. Honestly, the first time I'm with a woman I have the same problem from anxiety. I get all in my head about what the woman must be expecting and fear that I won't live up to her past experiences. My solution? I warn the girl in advance, so far all but one have responded positively and took it as a compliment that I would be nervous having sex with them. Often that in itself removes a lot of my anxiety Sometimes I'll take just…	/r/seduction	11/11/17 07:16 PM
2	Recommendations?? Women are enigmas! We all get ghosted like this. Sometimes I can make a guess about what happened; lack of chemistry, something mentioned that's a deal breaker for her. Who the fuck knows? I've even tried asking "what went wrong?" so far, I have never received a clear answer, either no reply or something banal, like "oh, I've been busy"	/r/seduction	11/11/17 07:08 PM
1	Hair twirling Baby steps is a start. I had difficulty with this as well, It wasn't that I didn't WANT to touch, it was that I didn't know how to do it casually and was afraid that the person would be offended or creeped out. I took some suggestions from this sub: when making a woman laugh or she makes you laugh, move in while laughing and touch her elbow or wrist. Do the same when seeing a woman that you know and greetings are exchanged, almost how you would shake a mans hand during an introduction but instea…	/r/seduction	11/11/17 06:54 PM
1	So she caught me looking from a large distance and started smiling now what? Here's a tactic for you. when you see her approaching a machine, approach at the same time as if you were going to use it, when you both arrive, apologize for getting in her way then ask if you can work in. Assuming you both do 3-4 sets, that will give you time to be in her space and build comfort.	/r/seduction	11/11/17 03:56 PM
1	Girls with low self esteem? My experience with low self esteem girls is that that are SUPER needy! I dated one who certainly was submissive and would do almost anything to gain my approval but the instant she didn't get it, she became suspicious and clingy to the point of suffocation. You have been warned!	/r/seduction	11/11/17 03:46 PM
2	Hair twirling Dude, those are ALL indicators of interest! Looking down is a sign of submission. She probably fantasizes about you all the time and wonders why you aren't responding. You REALLY need to get over your discomfort with touching, touching is HUGE! I understand it's uncomfortable for you, but so was walking as a baby, so was driving a car the first time. Just like those things, the more you practice, the less awkward it will feel and it will begin to feel normal and even enjoyable!	/r/seduction	11/11/17 03:24 PM
3	Hooking up but no date Dude, you are a back-up! You're the guy she calls when all her other dicks are unavailable and she's lonely. That's not a terrible thing, I've been a backup and had a few of my own too :-) Just take what you can get for now, but get out there and find other women to date.. funny thing if you do meet someone else and start becoming unavailable to your ex, she will probably start making you a priority!	/r/seduction	11/11/17 04:47 AM
1	Hair twirling The question isn't does she like you? (we always assume attraction around here.. right?) The question is do you like her? If so, just give her lingering eye contact.. enough that she asks you "what?" Then keep looking her in the eyes and say "I just realized how much I'm starting like you" Her reaction will tell you everything you need to know!	/r/seduction	11/11/17 04:28 AM
1	40[M] going through a major dry spell - what can I do??? ummm, just turned 50 here and trust me it's not over, In fact it's just beginning for me! 2 years ago when I saw 50 barreling at me, I decided I wasn't ready to get old yet! I cleaned up my diet, started going to the gym 4 days a week, bought new clothes and now I look and feel better than I did at 20! I'm certainly lucky that I look about 35-38 and have been on several dates with women 25-35, they find my advanced age to be a plus because I have my life figured out and know how to treat a woman…	/r/seduction	10/11/17 07:31 PM
2	3rd date options. What’s more important excitement vs proximity? Right on, you got this! PLEASE tell us how it plays out	/r/seduction	08/11/17 07:17 PM
2	3rd date options. What’s more important excitement vs proximity? naw, just make a big deal about the place. "OMG, you have got to try the sushi at my favorite restaurant!" type of thing. Then tell her you want to show her something at your place, anything, it doesn't matter!	/r/seduction	08/11/17 03:39 PM
1	How to "hand on lower back" kino naturally? I touch a woman on the arm or back whenever she makes me laugh, like ImJustSo said, it's an automatic thing.	/r/seduction	08/11/17 05:45 AM
2	Girls keep flaking Ask yourself, on these first dates how many times did you create emotional spikes? Obviously kissing is a big one, but there are other ways to charge a girls emotions that inevitably lead to physical intimacy and future dates. Kino is the first one right from the start of the date, a hug or arm touch as soon as you see her. Then touch her arm or the small of her back whenever she makes you laugh. Also steer the conversation to intimate emotional topics, about half way through the date if the vib…	/r/seduction	08/11/17 05:25 AM
3	3rd date options. What’s more important excitement vs proximity? Proximity! If she's only here for a week and a half then you need intimacy ASAP.. Then you can give her more private excitement than she could ever get eating at a cool spot and drinks at a fun club.	/r/seduction	08/11/17 04:44 AM
3	So i've been lurking here for a while This! CALLING OUT YOUR BS EXCUSES!	/r/seduction	08/11/17 04:32 AM
5	Approach: Knowing What I'm Getting into How long should the interaction last before being closed? There is no hard fast rule here, each interaction is different. I go by feel, the mood of the interaction is obvious in the first minute. If it's a comfortable, interesting conversation, it might last as long as 15-20 mins. If the woman seems anxious or keeps looking away (as if for an exit) then I'll suggest we meet up sometime in the future, if she agrees, then exchanging numbers is implied and I just hand her my phone to enter her digi…	/r/seduction	07/11/17 09:36 PM
6	I don't have the balls to do daygame, what's the best advice for you? I was just like you! For months I watched videos and read this subreddit, I would get all pumped to approach but then, when faced with that beautiful woman at the store or in a cafe I would get all in my head thinking about the many reasons NOT to approach ; "She's probably got a boyfriend", "It will be weird", "My hair is not perfect today".. The list is endless!! Finally one day I saw her, my type of hottie approaching me in the grocery aisle. Before I could even think, there she was and witho…	/r/seduction	25/10/17 03:26 PM
1	Need accountability partners for Models Challenge I have actually used the "I'm trying to get over social anxiety.. will you help me?" opener before and it creates instant comfort, although this is only good for practice as it's totally beta and almost always puts you in the friend zone with that person/group	/r/seduction	23/10/17 02:02 AM
1	I go out to bars in my city alone every weekend to do cold approach, starting to see the same people, how big of a mistake am I making? This sounds like my city, where are you? your future wing might be reading this right now!	/r/seduction	16/10/17 08:34 PM
1	The Beginner's Paradox Thank you! This concept works for SO MANY aspects of life! It's the same concept I used to lose weight and get to the gym... I felt hungry for junk foods but realized that giving in to that feeling only offered a temporary comfort and led to long term health issues. I felt tired and sore but realized that using that as an excuse to not go to the gym leads to long term fatigue and laziness. Knowing that I was able to break through those feelings gives me the enthusiasm to beak through approach fe…	/r/seduction	16/10/17 05:06 PM
3	Buddhism and Pickup I'm actually a Buddhist and yet, I don't really understand the practical application of what you're saying here.	/r/seduction	28/09/17 06:24 PM
1	Feeling discouraged. Gotta vent a little. Corey Wayne He has some good info but GAWD He talks so slow Even playing his videos at 2x speed is torture! He also uses 8 sentences to make a point that could be done with a few words!	/r/seduction	20/09/17 08:23 PM
14	Pre-openers are key in Daygame Unlike ImJustSo, I find this helpful. I think it's something I do, but not really thought about it. Certainly something to be mindful of	/r/seduction	13/09/17 06:21 PM
2	I met my crush this weekend. Tips to keep talking to her. "I really enjoyed seeing you last weekend, Let's hang out again soon"	/r/seduction	11/09/17 08:03 PM
2	What does it mean if she doesn't make eye contact but still smiles #1 rule of seduction : ALWAYS assume attraction until proven otherwise	/r/seduction	08/09/17 07:48 PM
3	If someone extends conversation does this almost always mean interest? #1 rule of seduction : ALWAYS assume attraction until proven otherwise	/r/seduction	08/09/17 07:46 PM
1	How do you manage your time between persuing new dates and keeping up with your current one If I don't invest time in her I might lose her. If you truly feel this is valid, then you are probably only hanging by a string with her anyway. I would suggest just backing off a bit, maybe cut the time you spend with the FB in half and use that time to pursue other women. If the FB does TRULY value her time with you then she will respond by showing more interest & invest more in you. If backing off does indeed make FB drop you entirely, then you know for sure that what you guys had was fragile…	/r/seduction	08/09/17 07:35 PM
1	Big apartment in center city I'm next to a couple clubs. I'll invite friends to them and my place will be a pre-game spot. Stock up on beers & cocktail ingredients and make your place the POST-game spot... Invite girls to the very special and super exclusive AFTER PARTY at your place	/r/seduction	07/09/17 07:44 PM
3	smooth way to roleplay/cold read etc? My favorite one after a bit of chatting is to look at her with a sideways glance and a smirk and say "I'll bet you're nothing but trouble". If she plays along and agrees, then I move the conversation to sexual innuendo about the kind of trouble we could get into together. If she gets offended or denies it, then I tease her. "Must get kinda boring always being good" Either way, it moves the convo forward and creates an emotional charge.	/r/seduction	07/09/17 07:42 PM
3	Guide to Alpha-style kino and some reading suggestions. Even though some of these European kino moves might not fly in the U.S., especially with strangers, I found this post very helpful, It paints a good picture of someone who is not afraid to make acceptable physical contact in a casual, easy going way. I'm really working on this because it's something I never really did or thought about. Since I started practicing kino, it's opened up a whole new texture to socializing that I've never experienced before. It's true, the more often I practice kino, …	/r/seduction	04/09/17 02:13 AM
3	[FR] Even a cringy approach is a good approach! As one of my favorite PUA's likes to say : "Every success and every failure are equal bricks in my mansion" - Aaron Evolution Daily	/r/seduction	28/08/17 07:31 PM
9	Meeting a girl i don't know in real life? Seriously??? This girl actually posts screenshots of conversations from guys that she ignores?? What a bitch! And you want to be a part of this girls life why?? Just FYI, there are 3 billion women in this world.. some of them are hot and some of those are not that conceited and mean! Just sayin'	/r/seduction	24/08/17 07:58 PM
168	Approach singles at bar who are on phone I like to use "Hey, are you checking your Tinder?" That always gets a chuckle!	/r/seduction	24/08/17 06:31 PM
3	28M advice/opinion grinding with women I wasn't there, so I can only speculate... My guess is that she was just out and wanted to have some fun and you were an easy target sitting by yourself. You're driving yourself crazy trying to nail down what she found wrong with you.. perhaps her behavior had nothing to do with you at all?	/r/seduction	18/08/17 07:20 PM
3	Bailing out for no apparent reason I have experienced the EXACT same issue! The thing I realized is that when this happens, It is because I FORCED myself to approach despite not having any belief or expectation of success. So that once the interaction begins my "inner voice" reminds me that I am attempting something beyond my ability and I start to feel awkward and uncomfortable. This feeling builds until I can't take it anymore and bail.. sometimes like a coward without any explanation or "good-bye" to the girl. What has helped …	/r/seduction	18/08/17 07:12 PM
2	I've read to much and it's now hindering and not helping. Advice? One thing I did to help get over approach anxiety was to start by approaching women I had NO sexual interest in; Fat & old women. This worked for me because it took away the whole outcome dependency issue. It also allowed me to practice my conversation skills, again with no concern of the outcome!	/r/seduction	24/05/17 08:29 PM
1	Help! Learn Mindfulness Meditation. It will help clear your mind of frivolous thoughts and thus allow you to be more aware of yourself & your surroundings.	/r/seduction	16/05/17 07:48 PM
3	I feel pathetic when I compare myself to other guys! The problem with comparing yourself to others is that no matter how much you improve any aspect of yourself, there will ALWAYS be someone further along than you. you can NEVER reach a point where comparisons will ALWAYS make you feel on top.... so, like others have said, don't compare yourself to others, simply embrace what you know are you positive qualities. The one comparison that is beneficial is to compare your current self to your prior self to ensure that you are moving forward.	/r/seduction	15/05/17 07:59 PM
1	Beginner's night out killed by weather. Anyone else? When starting out pretty much ANYTHING can destroy that little fragile flicker of confidence that can be so difficult to work up. Many of us struggle with keeping a positive frame. The irony of this is that rain actually helped my game once! A girl I had been talking to in the bar was under an awning in the pouring rain, her car was several blocks away. My car was nearby, so I offered her a ride which turned into a make-out session and number close. The important thing to remember is there are n…	/r/seduction	01/05/17 03:10 AM
14	Why being yourself actually works. And some other thoughts. I agree with this post. I followed a lot of the big name PUA's for months and although they offered a lot of information & theory they spend 2 hours bragging about how good they are and only drop a few nuggets.. even watching at 1.5x speed it can be tiring. When they do post infields, they are severely edited to only show success to the point that I have to wonder if they are even legit. Recently, I've found some of the lesser known guys like Aaron @ evolution Daily & Brian @ Engineered lifestyl…	/r/seduction	29/04/17 01:58 AM
3	What are the 5 most important tips you think everyone here should know? Depends what you consider "prime" I'm nearly 40 and yes, 18-22 was my quantity prime, but 30-40 was my quality prime... Now that I am studying game I'm working on making 40+ my prime for both! The direction you perceive yourself as going is the path you are on!!	/r/seduction	27/04/17 08:14 PM
3	How to stop overthinking? This is the reason for the "3 second rule". If you approach the very second you notice someone then you don't have time to think! Once you have immediately opened, the next trick is to focus on the girl and the conversation and not allow yourself to analyze the situation, but rather to flow with it.	/r/seduction	25/04/17 04:45 PM
1	How to ask for a date? Or do you even ask? Simply asking a woman to join you for coffee is a bit ambiguous, it doesn't show intent. Lots of people, men or women would likely join you for coffee because it's not really implied as "a date". I like to cut to the chase and find out right away if there is attraction. After a few minutes of opening conversation, I'll just look the woman in the eyes and say "I think you're really cute (or hot, sexy, etc), we should hang out some time" This shows intent and puts everything on the line real quick…	/r/seduction	24/04/17 01:56 AM
1	[FR] Outer game stronger than the inner game, thoughts on my latest coward-style approach. How I cheat daygame. I always felt this method was weak and proved beyond a doubt that you are beta.... However I'm rethinking this now that we are in the digital age. Receiving something hand written these days is super rare and might just be received positively provided that you don't just awkwardly shuffle over, hand the note and scurry away like a roach. I envision the way to do this would be to combine it with game : make sure there is exchange of eye contact first make sure the approach is as smooth as possibl…	/r/seduction	17/04/17 08:17 PM
1	Girls With Earbuds In? I don't agree with other comments. perhaps a few women intentionally wear earbuds to avoid convo, but I highly doubt that is the case with the majority of women wearing buds and it seems like 80% of women have them in now.. we are all in the throes of insane digital addiction! To answer the OP, it's simple... just attain eye contact and then point at your ear. They get the message and pull one bud out to hear what you have to say... then it's up to you to say something more interesting than what…	/r/seduction	03/04/17 08:25 PM
2	Fidgeting no, A regular meditation practice (at home alone) brings an overall "stillness", it helps calm the body and mind and it actually stays with you for a while. I try to meditate no less than twice a week and it has brought me more peace of mind than anything!	/r/seduction	14/03/17 05:51 PM
1	Failed to approach. Again. And it's soul crushing. You seem to put a lot of value in your zero approach record...As if you value being an approach virgin. You can pop that cherry real quick and easy and no longer have that "zero approach crutch" : Simply say "hello" to ANY woman! If doing so to an attractive woman is too much anxiety, then pick an old lady or an obese woman and just say "Hello, how are you doing today" Not only will you no longer be able to revel in your failure to approach any more, if you continue saying hello to women you don…	/r/seduction	10/03/17 08:54 PM
4	Getting rejected "That's O.K. I need to go take a dump anyway"	/r/seduction	09/03/17 10:02 PM
2	Who is your favourite PUA & why? Aaron of Evolution Daily Check out his youtube infields and you will see why! All his infields are full length with nothing edited out. https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCp_3ZnE5OjPbQCO_LbhObGA/videos	/r/seduction	09/03/17 09:52 PM
2	Anyone ever used a shock collar/ Pavlok for approach anxiety? The more practical method I have heard of is the $50 wing challenge. You give your wing 5) $10 bills at the start of the evening. Every time you approach, you get a 10 spot back. You either approach or lose $50... simple!	/r/seduction	01/03/17 09:34 PM
1	Can't just be myself around women. I have experienced this dynamic myself. What I figured out (and am still working on) is that deep down inside I did not BELIEVE that I was worthy. Obviously you believe you are worthy of a woman's time and conversation, or perhaps you may feel worthy of those things while you are taking her to dinner or a movie (you are providing something in return for her acceptance) But once the proffering is done and it comes time for intimacy your deep, dark, subconscious mind feels unworthy. How does one t…	/r/seduction	23/02/17 08:07 PM
2	Nick Sparks? I too am a fan of Nick. I really liked his idea of "Dropping hooks" just to see if there is a bite. I do this a lot now, just drop comments on girls in passing. sometimes they fall flat, but about 1 out of 5 times it leads to conversation.. much like real fishing.	/r/seduction	21/02/17 06:10 PM
1	Where to approach girls? For stores check this guy out : https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bDO3hxeZJUs For parks, I bring a book and find a central spot to chill and see who comes along. At a restaurant, I usually go to one with a bar and make friends with the bartender. They can be really helpful since they know the deal with all the waitresses. At any of those places if I see someone interesting, I just approach and tell the truth. "I was sitting here reading (shopping, chatting with the bartender) and noticed you and w…	/r/seduction	20/02/17 06:49 PM
1	Where to approach girls? o.k. I'll take this one... EVERYWHERE!!! I keep my eyes open for approaches wherever I am! Sometimes I will go out of my way and visit stores, restaurants and parks looking for approaches but that can be challenging because if I go somewhere JUST to look for approaches then my mind is in a different place than it would be if I was going to those places with an intended purpose.	/r/seduction	15/02/17 09:57 PM
3	How do i stay in the moment while dancing in the night club? I second this advice! The more you practice meditation, the easier it is to "snap" into the present moment and out of your head.	/r/seduction	08/02/17 06:32 PM
2	I feel like a creep trying to make eye contact with a girl in public. Is this normal? When I began, it was a daily ritual out of necessity. I had been suffering from severe anxiety & depression for a few years and stumbled upon meditation after therapists and pills failed to bring relief. My first efforts were just frustration because I didn't know how and then I found this guy : https://youtu.be/Ev6KK5M38r4?t=184 From my first "real" meditation I found relief and it has changed my life! No more anxiety, depression or pills! After a few months I started living life again and sinc…	/r/seduction	30/01/17 05:00 PM
3	Any of you guys have a great deal of success picking up women during the day in random places? There are plenty of infield videos that show "Daygame" is legit. My favorite is Aaron at Evolution Daily : https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCp_3ZnE5OjPbQCO_LbhObGA his videos are uncut and he is just a regular guy unlike many of the "professional" PUA's As you will see in his videos, It takes a lot more "inner game" during the day because the women are not expecting to be approached unlike in a club scene. I like this method because it does not involve competition, posing or playing games. It do…	/r/seduction	30/01/17 12:45 AM
10	I feel like a creep trying to make eye contact with a girl in public. Is this normal? As Nick Sparks says, Eye contact is only creepy if you aren't smiling! But even the type of smile makes a difference. A forced smile looks awkward and therefore creepy. The smile has to be relaxed and casual, the way you would smile at a friend if you ran in to them randomly. Here is one trick I have learned : When I see a pretty girl and decide to approach or give eye contact, I first close my eyes for only a few seconds, take a deep breath and try to clear my mind. It is all the crazy fearful …	/r/seduction	29/01/17 07:53 PM
2	Stop focusing on getting a girl to like you and focus on yourself! YOU need to be the magnet that attracts women to you. The Meditation method of self improvement is legit! 18 months ago I was in the darkest place of my life after both parents passed away. Seeing their decline snapped me out of my day to day life and brought on a crippling existential crisis. I saw my future as bleak and sat at home crying and wondering "What's the point, I'm just gonna get old & die". I visited therapists and got on 6 prescriptions for anxiety, depression and insomnia... nothing helped, I even lost all interest in my favorite pas…	/r/seduction	29/01/17 07:34 PM