Several months ago I met this sweet little Thai waitress at a sushi restaurant. For several weeks I flirted with her and joked that we should get together outside her work. She eventually friended me on messenger and then told me she had a boyfriend. We chatted online from time to time and right when I was about to give up on anything more, she suggested we meet and go for a walk in the park. We spent 4 hours hanging out and she spent most of that time complaining about her boyfriend. Thanks to this sub, I was able to be aloof and not behave needy. I did try to flirt and touch her casually, but I never get any reciprocation. A few weeks went by and then yesterday she asked if we could hang out today.. as friends. As much as I knew it would be torture, my gut told me it was possible something could develop. I told her to come to my house at noon. We sat around and watched videos for a frustrating hour where she would not look me in the eyes or move closer.

There I was, in that familiar situation, a hot girl choosing to spend time with me but not showing any intimate interest at all. It felt like I was standing on a cliff trying to get the guts to jump. So much of what I have read here and watched on youtube ran through my mind and I finally decided to leap. I figured that if my advance was rejected and she stormed out, I would at least put an end to my frustration.

I turned off the video and grasped her chin turning her face towards mine. I looked her right in the eyes and said "You know how I feel about you, right?". She started stammering something about "Yeah.. but..." Before she could get it out I moved forward and started kissing her. At first she didn't move or really reciprocate until I moved my hand behind her neck and started sucking her bottom lip. Then she started kissing me back. after a few minutes she pulled away and said "I know where this is going and I really can't right now". I told her I understood but that it felt good just to hold her in my arms. I told her (honestly) how nice it would be just to cuddle. She agreed that would be nice and moved her body into mine and we just hugged and caressed each other for a while. Then out of nowhere she swung herself on top of me and initiated a passionate kiss. This went on for a while until she started squirming in an arousing way.

I decided to escalate further by telling her we should get more comfortable. I grabbed her hand and led her upstairs to my bedroom. Once there, she clarified "Just cuddling, nothing more, Ok?" I responded "That's entirely up to you". We climbed on my bed and continued making out. I teased her the whole time by rubbing EVERY part of her body EXCEPT her boobs and pussy. Each time I moved my hands over her, I made a point of moving them towards her erogenous zones but then moving them away and down her leg or around her back instead. I could tell it was driving her nuts by the way she was squirming against me. Then finally she rolled on top of me and began rubbing her pelvis against mine. Once she found my erection it was all over! The next thing I knew she was pulling it out of my pants and after that, It was me slowing her down!

Thanks seddit! I'm positive this would not have gone anywhere without everything I have learned here.