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Match.com.
/r/RedPillWomen02/03/22 02:00 AM
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- I can trust him - Really excellent values: loyalty, personal responsibility, family - Has good priorities - He is a friend for life to his friends - Intelligent - Well informed - Inspires me to be a better person by how he lives his life - Excellent father - Well rounded - Takes good care of me - Good at solving problems - Reads a book to me in bed (a total dream quality for me) - Really listens to me when we talk about issues - Excellent at his job without letting his job become his life. Ear…
/r/RedPillWomen26/02/22 10:15 PM
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"I know I want to get married, I have always known that." ​ There's a chance you will feel resentment, and there is a chance you will not be married (to this man) as this man is saying he does not believe in marriage.
/r/RedPillWomen13/12/21 09:58 PM
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"I love you. I value this relationship. I see a future with you with children and a home filled with love. This is hard, but I have to tell you that marriage is a dealbreaker for me. I understand if you decide you ultimately don't want that, but if that's your stance, I need to end things so we can both find what we are looking for." But you've only been dating for 6 months. And even if he feels okay with the idea of marriage now, he may not want to marry you in 1-5 years when you are hoping for…
/r/RedPillWomen13/12/21 07:01 PM
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If you are looking for something in the lower price range, any of these: A board book (peek a who), a swaddling blanket, a baby outfit, a clutching toy (search haba clutching toy), a crib toy (search lamaze baby toy).
/r/RedPillWomen11/12/21 11:12 PM
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I think healthcare, public education funding, student loans, abortion, second amendment are all issues important to many today.
/r/RedPillWomen10/11/21 04:31 AM
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I'm not sure I believe in the political spectrum. I think there are a ton of different issues, and I have opinions that align with all different points of the spectrum across those different issues.
/r/RedPillWomen10/11/21 02:56 AM
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Did you and your husband have a big difference between your diets? Thanks for sharing! I wouldn't have thought to talk about all this!
/r/RedPillWomen09/11/21 05:43 PM
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You didn't deserve that. That was about the person yelling, not about you.
/r/RedPillWomen29/10/21 03:42 AM
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I will start by admitting I don't feel anything about the gifts or praise other women receive. But I will say that when I find myself feeling bright, sudden envy I know that it is a clue to something I want in my life. It may or may not be that you want gifts or praise exactly, you might find that you want something such as recognition or permission to do less work. A little digging in your thoughts might help you uncover what you want, and then you can make a plan to add it to your life. I also…
/r/RedPillWomen28/10/21 10:59 PM
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I think you need to fix the trust and the emotional lability as those two things are not going well in your relationship.
/r/RedPillWomen28/10/21 02:20 PM
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I don't know you. I would never call you entitled. The sentance you wrote did come across that way. It sounds like you have worked very hard and have contributed a lot to your marriage and family. The way you are telling it, though, you are taking your situation, including your pregnancy, as justification for making a unilateral decision in your marriage against your husband's wishes. I think that choice will have consequences and you and your family will experience them.
/r/RedPillWomen28/09/21 04:15 PM
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rest in my femininity right now and take it easy This sentance sounds very entitled. You are saying that because you are pregnant you should get to make unilateral decisions that have consequences for your whole family and that you made that decision in opposition to your husband's wishes. Pregnancy is miraculous but it is not a free pass.
/r/RedPillWomen28/09/21 04:04 PM
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Your options were: Insist on your way and do what you want Try to persuade him to your side Agree with him and stay in your job Leave him ​ There were other options. Like the option the husband suggested when she came to him with the problem: look for another job.
/r/RedPillWomen28/09/21 04:00 PM
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It sounds like he did offer a solution: to look for another job. It just wasn't the solution you wanted.
/r/RedPillWomen28/09/21 03:56 PM
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Negative $35. He owes her the rest of the grocery money
/r/RedPillWomen28/09/21 11:43 AM
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If non willingness to abort an unborn child with known disease/condition/etc is a dealbreaker for your fiancé, it's a dealbreaker for your fiancé. We all get to pick our own dealbreakers and then have conversations to the best of our abilities around them. If you wouldn't choose abortion in that scenario, there is nothing wrong with that. It would just make you theoretically incompatible in a way that is a dealbreaker to your fiancé. You not knowing what you'd do and thinking you'd lean towards …
/r/RedPillWomen14/08/21 08:28 PM
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To know what to expect in the first year, I recommend, What to Expect in the First Year. I'm a family physician and I asked every developmental pediatrician who gave talks to me as a resident and medical student which book they recommended for discipline and they ALL said 1,2,3 Magic. I recommend reading it while pregnant and purchase every copy I see at thrift stores to give my patients. If you have the goal of helping your child reach his or her intellectual potential, I strongly recommend Sup…
/r/RedPillWomen31/05/21 11:29 PM
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Knowing what to put on your face makeup-wise isn't the same as knowing how to apply those things. If you can afford it, I recommend going to MAC and asking to schedule a makeup lesson for something like $90. They last about an hour, they go through every thing with you. They apply each item to half of your face and then you do the other side. You can let them show you every single product which will be like $400, or you can just tell them you want minimal makeup or tell them your budget and skil…
/r/RedPillWomen29/05/21 04:55 PM
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I never thought about this. According to the article, sex can provide a man with "closeness, vulnerability, reassurance, and self-transcendence." I know it makes my boyfriend and I feel more connected to one another.
/r/RedPillWomen01/05/21 02:39 AM
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I enjoy asking Alexa to play French Cafe music when I am cleaning and making a big dinner. I read about it in a magazine and it feels like a special, transportive secret. And the music is just dreamy and relaxing.
/r/RedPillWomen21/04/21 08:44 PM
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Oh my stars yes. This. My grandmother had my father at 46. As a physician I suggest you at least look into freezing your eggs before your window for that closes. But if your goal is marriage and a family, do not put yourself in the "too late" category!
/r/RedPillWomen06/04/21 02:29 AM
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Same.
/r/RedPillWomen04/03/21 08:40 PM
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Constantly restricting calories will slow your metabolism. Yikes! That's exactly what I was afraid of! I mean it's super, super effective, but I've read about rebound weight gain and I am worried I need to think about a different plan. Thank you so much for you thoughts and advice!
/r/RedPillWomen24/02/21 04:36 PM
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This sounds so healthy and nutritious! Thanks for sharing!
/r/RedPillWomen24/02/21 12:00 AM
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Can you better define what you're hoping to achieve?
/r/RedPillWomen23/02/21 07:40 PM
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I took a course on women's studies in college and my take away was that feminism is the belief that all people are equal and everyone should get to choose the kind of life they want to have. And I agree with that belief and I think those choices include being a SAHM or having a traditional marriage. I don't think I should choose what's right for anyone else, but I don't think society should get to choose what's right for me. I am afraid I might be violating the subreddit's "no feminism" policy w…
/r/RedPillWomen21/02/21 05:16 PM
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Again, I don't understand TRP or RPW stuff super well, but I thought TRP was gone and RPW is basically "work to be your best self and don't make excuses, make sure the guy you are dating has qualities you would like in a husband, make a nice home and nice meals (whether you are single, dating or married), and when something bothers you in a relationship you lay it all out for your partner neutrally and let him help problem solve so you are both on the same side like a team." I just feel like I'm…
/r/RedPillWomen21/02/21 04:10 PM
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What about this subreddit is considered "hate"? I totally admit that I don't fully understand all the terms on this subreddit, but I really enjoy lots of the posts on here about keeping a nice house and self improvement. I feel like I'm missing something.
/r/RedPillWomen21/02/21 03:50 PM
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Thanks for sharing! Your super salad sounds fantastic! What do you dress it with? Do you really eat kangaroo?
/r/RedPillWomen20/02/21 03:25 PM
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I love your focus on getting fruit and vegetables!
/r/RedPillWomen19/02/21 02:05 AM
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40F physician here. Are you in medical school now? What year?
/r/RedPillWomen16/02/21 04:13 PM
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Oh my gosh, that sounds like the sweetest thing! I love it! Thanks for sharing that example. I hope you and your guy love the book!
/r/RedPillWomen01/02/21 01:08 AM
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Oh I've been curious about this one. How do you like it?
/r/RedPillWomen31/01/21 11:42 PM
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Okay this is adorable! I'll definitely add it to the list of ideas to suggest!
/r/RedPillWomen31/01/21 11:30 PM
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Oh my gosh, I just bought this too but haven't tried it out. It sounded like a great way to bond in 2021. Plus I love the anticipation of a surprise. I subscribed to the box that goes along with it because I figured lots of the stuff in a box could easily be done at home without a sitter. I could be wrong. Have you done any of the adventures?
/r/RedPillWomen31/01/21 11:29 PM
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Okay, so we tried DateBoxClub last night and I really liked it. I felt a little silly reading the list of included activities and I'm counting calories so I was a little nervous about the (delicious) included popcorn snack which had no calorie label. But once we did it it was really nice. First we opened the yummy caramel and cheddar popcorn bag and put the DateBoxClub Spotify playlist on. Then we lit a candle and said what we wished for the future in general. Then we opened up matching Love Boo…
/r/RedPillWomen31/01/21 05:57 PM
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You would want a physician (a family physician can either refer you to a psychiatrist or make the diagnosis of bipolar disorder) as only a physician can treat bipolar disorder.
/r/RedPillWomen30/01/21 04:14 PM
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If he actually stops sleeping or sleeps very, very little, I advise having him see a physician. Those could be periods of mania. He could have bipolar disorder which would also explain him not controlling his temper during those times. Source: I am a physician.
/r/RedPillWomen29/01/21 10:42 PM
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Oh we just got our first one in the mail but haven't tried it yet! I'll report back as soon as I do! I just wanted something I could do with my boyfriend during the pandemic. And I liked the idea of some element of surprise.
/r/RedPillWomen29/01/21 10:33 PM
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You have wigs? To dress up for your husband? Like different hair colors and lengths? Like for the bedroom?
/r/RedPillWomen21/01/21 02:11 AM
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Are gel polishes hard to get off? I've been too scared to try them.
/r/RedPillWomen21/01/21 01:12 AM
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I get called "cute" by guys on dates (before my current boyfriend) as well as as complete strangers. I think it's more about my personality than my features. I have been the only one at the table to get carded when I'm 9 years older than my friends. I wouldn't know how to answer this question except that my current boyfriend calls me sexy and the compliment doesn't even land. I've just always been cute and never that, so it's like the place in me where that would land doesn't exist. I'm sure I j…
/r/RedPillWomen23/12/20 12:14 AM
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What do you want out of dating? Like what is your ideal outcome with this guy?
/r/RedPillWomen29/11/20 01:56 PM
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I know that my opinion is a bit counter to most of the comments on here, but I would urge you to just sit with this for a bit. I absolutely agree with everyone else: You don't have to do anything you don't want to EVER. But as someone with my very own kink, I will share my thoughts in case any of them are of value to you. One book that I read and that I would urge you to consider reading is The Danish Girl. I believe Greta is the most perfect example of supportive, loving wife possible. "She alw…
/r/RedPillWomen24/11/20 09:11 PM
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I disagree with this. I think we are all rich and many-faceted individuals. A person's kink cannot squarely place them into the category of "beta" or "alpha".
/r/RedPillWomen24/11/20 09:08 PM
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What are you favorite basic, easy classics?
/r/RedPillWomen30/10/20 02:55 PM
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Um. What? I don't follow. If your husband is in debt, and he is publicly caught cheating on you, and there is no prenup, is there somehow money to pay "damages"? Also, what are "damages"?
/r/RedPillWomen27/10/20 05:33 AM
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What are your other easy weekday meals? That one sounds great!
/r/RedPillWomen02/10/20 03:32 AM
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I apologize for misusing the term, but my point is unchanged. You do not always know (nor is it your business) whether someone one is without child because of their wishes or despite their wishes.
/r/RedPillWomen27/09/20 07:57 PM
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I have a child, but I have many child-free friends. Not all people who are child-free are child-free by choice. And I have one friend who has said negative things about children in general after learning she could not have kids, and I think it came from a place of pain not an actual dislike of children. Just something to keep in mind.
/r/RedPillWomen16/09/20 05:36 AM
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Who is a good bot? You are a good bot. So good. Making those haikus.
/r/RedPillWomen22/08/20 05:05 AM
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What do you mean you go to the store with a bonnet on your head? Like what kind of bonnet?
/r/RedPillWomen21/08/20 08:58 PM
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This is going to be super frank: Never offer choices in an ultimatum (or any situation) if you are uncomfortable with one of the choices you are offering. If you find yourself giving someone two "options" and one option is so abhorrent to you that it is a relationship ender, you are trying to control the other person, not establish boundaries or offer real options. ​ You sound really distraught over the outcome. What is underlying that? What is your fear in this situation? Is it that he prioriti…
/r/RedPillWomen12/07/20 04:35 PM
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Yes. A bunch of exes have reached out, but, to be fair, until I dated my current boyfriend I had a policy of staying friends with my exes. And I'm a doctor, so I got requests for my opinion about COVID things and risk reduction measures. I got one marriage proposal - blocked that guy. Beyond inappropriate. But I think people are really stressed and lonely and they want to reach out to people for connection and comfort. So I gave medical advice and sympathy and shut down anything untoward.
/r/RedPillWomen29/06/20 07:30 PM
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Savers is amazing in my area. At least half of my clothes come from there. I also love the Junior League Rummage sale. I also shop at - J. Crew: their cardigans are timeless and very well made. - Evereve: everything there fits my post-childbirth body like a dream - Target: Always good for a quick wardrobe update, but I rarely find that their clothing lasts well. - Anthropologie: When I can't get a floral, feminine dress with a defined waistline anywhere else, Anthropologie comes through! - Nords…
/r/RedPillWomen21/06/20 11:56 PM
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You are saying you support working class men and come from the working class but don't find working class men attractive? ​ Here are the things you identified about yourself that lower your sense of worth: - You are broke - You have a low class mentality - You come from a dysfunctional family - You have a mediocre face and are average looking ​ I think: 1) You need to identify what qualities you do find attractive in a man. Do you want someone who values higher education? Do you need someone who…
/r/RedPillWomen21/06/20 11:47 PM
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The relief of my divorce was better than any moment of joy in my marriage. There are a lot of things I did that I regret and a lot of things I did that I am grateful for. In my late teens I reflected on the purpose of life and realized that, for me, it was being a wife and mother. From then on those goals were my northern star. But I was very naive and bad at picking partners. My first boyfriend was intelligent, family oriented (we played card games with his parents and sister often), protective…
/r/RedPillWomen17/06/20 08:56 PM
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Wishing you the healthiest pregnancy! Pay no attention to down voters.
/r/RedPillWomen10/06/20 06:05 AM
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It might be helpful to think of qualities you want in a man/relationship. Like a green light, yellow light, red light list. So list out things you want and which would be great to have in a relationship such as plays board game with you (green light), then list out things that would be dealbreakers for you such as cheating, sexpat, etc (red light), then list out things that might be okay or not okay in certain circumstances (yellow light). This tool could help guide you to nurture or end relatio…
/r/RedPillWomen09/06/20 05:24 AM
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As in "I wouldn't make you do something you're uncomfortable with, so it's unfair for you to ask me to be physically affectionate with you because I'm uncomfortable with it?"
/r/RedPillWomen08/06/20 02:37 AM
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Have you told your boyfriend that your #2 love langue is physical touch?
/r/RedPillWomen08/06/20 01:13 AM
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I'm a mother and a family doctor. I asked 3 different developmental pediatricians what parenting books they recommended and they all, independent of one another, said 1,2,3 Magic. The other great book is How To Talk So Kids Will Listen. Those are great for when your baby hits 2 or so. Before that, if you're into maximizing your child's IQ, I recommend SuperBaby, which tells you 12 things you can do to enrich your baby. For general baby information, What to Expect in the First Yearis a classic. I…
/r/RedPillWomen01/06/20 02:19 AM
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women’s 1950s vintage wrap dress deep v neck half sleeve Woah! That dress looks so fancy! I'd wear it for Easter. Do you really wear it around the house? It's beautiful. Is it more casual than it looks in the photo?
/r/RedPillWomen27/05/20 03:51 PM
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I am willing to totally alter my appearance to my partner's preference. I can't even see myself without a mirror. He sees me way more than I do. My partner doesn't really voice a lot of preferences, but the few he did voice (painted nails, long hair) I totally am on board with. I wouldn't alter my hair without talking to him first. Also, OP, my eyebrows went up when I saw your boyfriend's reaction that you never listen to his advice. If you aren't going to follow the advice he gives you, it's be…
/r/RedPillWomen26/05/20 09:08 PM
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I think we need to respect OP's appraisal of her situation and her right to privacy. She has done everything, in her estimation of the situation, possible to protect her children. She does not need to disclose to us (internet strangers) her location. Nor should she have her "motherly instincts" questioned. Nor should she be told she has the "mind of a child." Things do not work the same everywhere in the world. The assumptions being made in this thread are unkind, insulting and unhelpful.
/r/RedPillWomen21/05/20 05:02 PM
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No. It was a typo. I apologize. I meant Rotel. How embarrassing!
/r/RedPillWomen23/12/19 08:14 PM
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Oh my goodness! I meant Rotel! So sorry!
/r/RedPillWomen23/12/19 08:13 PM
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Someone once described having a crockpot like having a personal chef. Can I recommend some recipes to you? - Easy shredded chicken for tacos: put in 4-6 frozen chicken breasts, dump 1-2 cans of rotten tomatoes on top, dump a packet of taco seasoning and cook on low for 8 hours - Easy pot roast: Brown your pot roast beef on both sides in olive oil, put it in the crock pot, dump onions (halved regular onions or a bag of pearl onions, carrots (baby carrots or regular carrots cut in snack stick leng…
/r/RedPillWomen23/12/19 05:57 AM
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I didn't know what pasta agile e olio e peperocini was so I looked up the recipe and it looks easy and yummy! Thank you!
/r/RedPillWomen23/12/19 05:52 AM
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Oooh! Nice! What is 7 can soup?
/r/RedPillWomen23/12/19 05:48 AM
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Oh my stars, yes!
/r/RedPillWomen23/12/19 01:27 AM
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What is happy planning?
/r/RedPillWomen14/11/19 01:34 AM
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I bought my set on eBay. I just put "Amy Vanderbilt" in the search bar!
/r/RedPillWomen14/11/19 12:11 AM
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Amy Vanderbilt wrote a book on etiquette, but it was not a part of this series. I haven't read it! If you read it, I'd love to hear what you think!
/r/RedPillWomen14/11/19 12:09 AM
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It will be free to read at your local library!
/r/RedPillWomen11/10/19 11:58 PM
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Super nice boyfriend who's made me see a lot of things differently. Public libraries where I get so many great books and magazines for free! My beautiful winter grass, can't wait to lie down in it when it's mature. My parents who love me. My amazing child who is considerate, polite, compassionate and pretty easy-going. Having this afternoon off to get caught up on chores and laundry.
/r/RedPillWomen10/10/19 09:52 PM
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I was taught that feminism is the idea that man and woman are equal in my women's studies class in college. My understanding is that feminism asserts that people should be able to choose how they live their lives. A woman should not be forced to stay at home to care for the kids if she wants to work, but conversely, if a man or woman chooses to do this, they should be welcome to do so. ​ I really liked the idea that everyone gets to pick for themselves how they live their life. What concept of f…
/r/RedPillWomen05/09/19 09:44 PM
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List of my favorite cooperative board games: ​ 1) Pandemic: Super easy to learn. You play as CDC (Center for Disease Control) worker and you have to save the whole world from terrible infections before it's too late. Easy to learn (my child played it and understood the strategy at age 5), scalable difficulty (so you can start easy and work up to a nearly impossible to beat game). AND when you graduate from this, you can play Pandemic Legacy which is Pandemic but way more fun and personalized. ​ …
/r/RedPillWomen11/07/19 04:04 AM
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So grateful for my life. Grateful for my divorce. Grateful for getting full custody of my son. Grateful for an amiable relationship with his father. Grateful for my job and the flexibility and income to not have to worry about money or miss school events. Grateful for this beautiful summer, the coolest in my memory. Grateful for my parents. Grateful for my whole family. Grateful for a life filled with people to love. Grateful for a relaxing night.
/r/RedPillWomen11/07/19 03:47 AM
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