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Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	I don't know if I screwed this one up ? inexperienced		griddev	/r/seduction	24/08/18 05:53 PM
0	Does low social status work against you in game when you're older ?		griddev	/r/seduction	28/09/19 07:51 PM

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1	Does low social status work against you in game when you're older ? Nah man just the opposite, having too many thing I'm good at (making art, photography, guitar, learning to code) so I spread myself thin. I used to fake it and lie a lot, but not anymore, and I'm comfortable doing this to a point, I don't lie (anymore) about not working and being in school. I guess the idea that's stuck in my head is that no woman with a stable career wants a older guy who hasn't got a job, I'm undoing my own chances thinking that I'm not worth it.	/r/seduction	29/09/19 08:24 PM
1	Does low social status work against you in game when you're older ? This is not how I present myself and I don't use these words ofcourse, I mean the first few dates go great but they always sense I don't completely open up about my past. The career part I can give a positive spin to but how can I spin never having had a actual longterm relationship ?. If I don't say it they sense it. I only dated girls for a few weeks max, bc at some point I either get too needy about finally having a girlfriend or I try so hard to be non-needy that I come across as aloof and n…	/r/seduction	28/09/19 09:42 PM
1	My Experiences With Ego Death TM really ? I hope you'll see the irony of trademarked meditation you have pay (a lot) for ... regular free meditation is just as effective, if you practice every day that is ;)	/r/seduction	27/06/19 07:20 PM
1	My Experiences With Ego Death For a sec I thought you were talking about psychedelics and dating wtf ? lol. Interesting read though on being present and aware of the bs the ego is peddling, it has screwed me over so many times. I medidate and do yoga but hasn't got me any closer to asking one of my gorgeous yoga teachers out on a date, because in my mind (there it is) it's 'inappropriate' to ask your yoga teacher out.	/r/seduction	27/06/19 04:40 PM
1	I don't know if I screwed this one up ? inexperienced I texted her back but she didn't respond, so I nexted her, can't beat myself up anymore like this over interactions that didn't go the way I wanted because I failed to show how I wanted it to go. If you don't mind I'd like your view on the following. Apart from the 'inexperience' BS (you're right!), I'm also at a crossroads in my life atm, I can't keep a officejob for long, I was fired again a month ago, after this I got tested for ADHD, major game changer, explains so much of my faltering caree…	/r/seduction	30/08/18 12:59 PM
1	I don't know if I screwed this one up ? inexperienced Sir, I thank thee. I needed to read that. I felt the fear of rejection and let it make me play on safe again. She was there with her sister who apparently left early without her knowing....so we could be alone....fuck. How do I fix this ??. From a woman's perspective here, what is she thinking of me ?. Cute but .... She's really amazing, I mean she surfs, SURFSS ! I can't even swim properly.	/r/seduction	24/08/18 07:53 PM
1	I've improved a lot in the last 2 years, but I'm still failing to find emotional stability One of them is women / having sex, which also improved for me, but I'm still way not as successful as I would like to be Women rely on You BEING with them (without pretence), not trying to Be successfull with them. It's a cliche perhaps but a important one. If you don't try to impress them you become magnetic to them, I've experienced it first hand many times, usually with girls I'm not so attracted to or good female friends. Why? With them I'm honest, showing all most of my weaknesess. You migh…	/r/seduction	07/12/17 10:41 PM
1	I've improved a lot in the last 2 years, but I'm still failing to find emotional stability Definately, it really reveals ascpects of yourself to yourself. I wouldn't high dose though (>4gr) but that's me. After it you feel a peace like never before, it doesn't last long, but it does reveal to you the layers of negative conditioning you have to let go of. Similar story here although I started my journey much later (38), it's like when I see old pics of me of 3yrs ago I don't recognize 'that creature' anymore, it's Me but it's not Me, because the New Me is more close to the Real Me (if …	/r/seduction	07/12/17 09:58 PM