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grimbasement/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/20 04:45 PM
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A guy with that much alleged experience is not in this sub and certainly doesn't give a shit if a girls is checking her texts. Fuck when I get three plates I get them confused.
/r/seduction09/01/25 12:43 PM
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I never comment here but read the side bar. Especially NMMNG. She hates you because you aren't leading and she's the captain. No more bitching here, read, do the work work on you. you aren't responsible for her feelings but you are responsible for being a little whiny bitch that she hates. You got here you need to get on a track to know where you're going before you can leadm
/r/askMRP15/11/24 09:47 PM
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She is choosing the insecurity path. Don't let her get to you, you can't control and don't let her attitude break your frame. Maybe once or twice you can redirect her to something else and let her know that the only person hurting in the situation is her and that you are going to continue to do you.
/r/askMRP15/11/24 12:17 AM
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Who the fuck are you going to "hold responsible" and HOW will you hold them responsible. More PPD victim puking and woke thought policing. Bad people will be bad and some red pill douches will do bad things. When they do whoever is harmed might have recourse. but alleging that "the manosphere" is a organized group with a leader that "must be held responsible" is seriously short bus thinking.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 12:49 AM
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Dude, I have been involved in a IRL men's group for 8 years since I got off the incel short bus and all types can and do change their lives. If you for some stupid ass reason think you are unlovable for your behavior or personality, number one: stop thinking that way it's not real. Start some affirmations, affirmations and say them every day.... I recorded a selfie vid myself saying my affirmations left some space between each and told myself each day that I was who I wanted to be.even things th…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 12:37 PM
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More PPD horseshit. You absolutely can control your personality... personality is behavior by another name. Height doesn't matter at all. Short dudes get laid, short dudes are married. If you're ugly just get jacked and make bank. Buncha Whiiney ass. Volincels. Aren't getting laid? Level the fuck up get okay with who you are and stop telling yourself why you suck. Shit ain't hard fuck a few fattjes to get your confidence up.... If you're even remotely personable and don't believe you're a piece …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 04:59 AM
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She doesn't want to have other male partners and is lukewarm on a female partner but will do it for my benefit. We don't own each other. Marriage is largely an outdated concept anyway. During our courtship I made it clear I wanted an open marriage. At first she said no, I said okay nice knowing you, she went away for a few weeks and then she came around and agreed. I might never act on it, but it's important that I have that flexibility. Using language like "allowing" is regressive as hell. I do…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/24 06:03 AM
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I'm a believer in learning to work with others in conjunction working on the self . So many people especially on this Sub convinced they're piece of shits that no one will ever care about. Much better to get into social and sexual situations. To work through issues...because hers the thing... We all have issues throughout our lives until the day we die and if we wait until we have no issues before we share our lives with others it will be a long fruitless life.we are okay just the way we are, bu…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/24 12:56 AM
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Finally something that I hope is true on PPD. Of course I'm married and have consent to date other women so... I'll say it hasn't been too easy to hook up been trying for a while now... But then I'ma busy guy and relatively happily married.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 09:32 PM
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Keep going with your "rules " and "shouldn'ts";relationships are all transactional. The only person that may have loved us "unconditionally" were our mommies. And a partner never wants to be a parent.to is.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/24 05:07 PM
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What we provide is part of our identity. There is nothing wrong with provisioning and taking care of people we care about. It's how it always has been. Yet whiny incells will bitch about the true order of things rather than leveling up and making their lives better. I stick around PPD to remind me of the sad sack of a former self I was. Stop being pussies, you get your shit together and you'll have to fight off women with a stick. Women line up for men with value and will never line up for whiny…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/24 04:14 PM
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That a lot of dudes think they're unlovable pieces of shit. It's depressing. Of course I used to think that about myself so I get it but for fuck sake, stop being a wuss and make you life better. So hard things sometimes it works out sometimes it doesn't if something doesn't work course correct and move on. No one wants to hang with people that are downers and always tell everyone what a downer they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/24 01:10 AM
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Why does anyone give a shit if someone chooses to off themselves? We can be a support and a rock and create a great life to bring others along, but if someone's going to be unstable and require constant maintenance, Jesus, who wants that? But by all means white knight away.
/r/askMRP12/12/23 11:55 PM
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Porn isn't wrong. Men can rub one off to a woman in their imagination that rape? People have painted pictures for centuries and someone runs one off no harm. We can't control others thoughts or actions. Nothing wrong with deep fakes unless used for extortion or some other crime but if I rub one off thinking of a coworker or the girl I saw earlier to lady that's my bidness and a deep fake is just that.... Fake. Just like any other derivative art...
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 12:30 AM
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Gotta love when the incel circle jerk starts in this sub. You can be okay with yourself or you can be miserable because you don't have what you perceive as success. Abundance is a mindset and as someone who orig inlly thought as you do, good partners will come along and bad ones will, but if you're in the mindset of noone will come along few will and if you're a negative, not fun fuckup people won't stick around. No one wants to hang with people that think they're unlovable or broken. You'll be …
/r/seduction29/10/22 12:30 AM
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Fat....I mean height isn't what incels make it out to be but obesity is an outward expression of the shit that is going on inside someone's head.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 02:43 PM
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49 hetero M. I'm here to remind me of the whiny worthless pussy I used to be. Believing I was unlovable because x-y-z. All the same horseshit I see from the so called incels that frequent this sub. Make your situation better and your situation is better.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 03:23 PM
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Or men can not try to control others by requiring others to not do things. Men should recognize that the common denominator in all their relationships is not the women, but it's themselves and how they react. Men adapt, pussies want everyone to conform to something other than reality. Suffering comes from desiring people to be different than how they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 11:25 PM
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PPD has some of the whineyist, pussy people in it. Wanting things to be different than how they are and asking others to change to accommodate someone's own fragility is about the most pussy behavior imaginable. Dudes are getting laid, dudes are in relationships, men know their worth and pleading for "can't we all just got along" is some of the most disgusting supplicating behavior ever. Own your life , be on your mission and purpose and the P comes. This shit ain't hard and neither is your dick…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/22 05:27 PM
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Hell no you shouldn't. Rubbing one off is the way to go man. But for real, act soon the more you think about it and don't do anything is the faster the friend zone approaches...
/r/seduction28/04/22 01:48 AM
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There are more than 1 type of male orgasm... It's amazing . Below is a good high level of one method of sexual mastery. https://youtu.be/NSfAWDuDlPk Also look into Tantra and Daoist practices....
/r/seduction14/04/22 04:33 AM
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There are male orgasms that are better than blowing a load. Even multiple orgasms. 3rd eye mind blowing orgasms no cum mess. A well practiced lover can stay hard for more time allowing self and partner multiple orgasms. I thought it was horseshit until I experienced it.
/r/seduction14/04/22 03:33 AM
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I swear reddit has no idea about real world. If a man works 40+ hours at a job and his SO doesn't work, but rather takes it upon herself to take care of his couch in his absence, the damn house better be spotless. Women today have been sold a belief that housework is below the lofty ideals of what 21st century womanhood should be. It's nearly impossible to find a woman that wants to cook, let alone the actual ability to do it. I would say that many women had daddy take care of them from day one …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/21 03:45 AM
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RP doesn't have to explain shit. Women can't understand RP... Fuck, most dudes don't understand RP.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/21 12:25 AM
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Herding cats.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/21 03:25 PM
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Unpopular opinion. Lonely sexless men shouldn't be having sex or reproducing. Being an incel is 100% about attitude, personality and being okay with who you are. Learn, lift, do interesting things, calibrate, get laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/21 05:02 PM
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If PPDers spent as much time improving themselves , stop gaming as much, and hit the gym as they do bitching about being an incel then their lot in life would change. Of course I wouldn't think any woman would want to date dudes that get together and circle jerk each other about how women won't date them. Look, I get that being a man is shamed by some in society but no one owes you a fucking girlfriend. Don't be in the percentile of doughy douche whiny man babies. Fix your shit. Get laid... That…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 10:38 AM
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Good bot.
/r/seduction21/09/21 05:02 PM
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You just go. No one else gives two shits if you're there by yourself. What people aren't cool with though is people who aren't comfortable in their own skin and overly concerned with what others think. I've met some really cool people while doing stuff on my own.
/r/seduction21/09/21 05:00 PM
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Zero. Men don't complain... They get things done... Up their game... Improve their lives. The only worse than a bitchy woman is a whiny man.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/21 12:25 AM
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Why is divorce so expensive? Because it's worth it. Yeah it'll suck to liquidate but hanging around in a unfulfilling relationship for the rest of your days is far greater a price to pay. No kids so sell the house take your half and all the 401k and let the cow graze. Should be able to amicably separate assets as many jurisdictions are a no fault 50/50 split. Alternatives to this may be open relationship negotiations but the Jesus book likely says no to that unless you're an Old Testament kind o…
/r/askTRP17/06/21 09:04 PM
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You have no control over how your wife reacts to you getting a life. The bottom line is you need to get one. It will take work and at the end of the day either she'll come around and be attracted to you again (if she ever was) or you'll need to bite the bullet and GTFO. Life's too short to deal with a whiny bitchy woman. Man up, lift heavy things, find a real purpose and mission, take care of your responsibilities and don't take any shit for it. It's a long road ahead brother but a road you must…
/r/askMRP14/06/21 09:49 PM
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Maybe, just maybe...people are nuanced and some people are aggressive and some people aren't. Maybe people are just people on a spectrum and have different ways of living their life. I've known aggressive men and I've known aggressive women. Why does everything on this sub try to put people in limiting boxes of how things "should" be?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/21 05:22 PM
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If two people are shacking up, it's common law after a while. Unless you keep finances and buy your own cars, and whoever is living with the person who owns a house pays rent, and specify any equity in property in a lease . Never purport to the state that you are a couple no shared insurance, phones, or taxes and put any agreements in writing This is what I was told from my attorney.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/21 12:51 AM
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It's not different. People on this sub... Especially dudes like to think that they are owed something so they get buthurt and complain about women, height, hypergamy, blah blah blah. It's totally cool to have standards ands it's totally cool to write someone off for any damn reason you want to. No one owes you shit and healthy people set boundaries, people on this sub complain when others set boundaries and have standards. Rinse Repeat.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/21 05:57 AM
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Short men can have the Napoleon Complex. Sometimes it's compiled with the "most valuable asset people can have is height" complex that makes them whiny pussies because they don't have what they believe is the only thing that matters. Man the fuck up, get to to the fucking gym, build a great life and the pussy will follow.... Pussy doesn't follow pussies Pussy follows men. Men have been imasculated and whine like women and so women have had to become men.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/21 04:45 PM
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"Feedback" from women is is Nice Guy approval seeking behavior. Women generally don't know what makes a man attractive to her. She can have preferences, but genuine burning desire is not a choice. You don't want to convince anyone to like you. It comes naturally . Life's too short to wait around for someone and it almost never works.
/r/seduction05/04/21 11:52 AM
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The idea of male privilege is a 3rd wave feminism ideal to marginalize men. The thinking, as I understand it blames men for all the ills in the world, men started all the wars, men have been in charge for forever and look at the shit show. Women were property because men. Everything sucks because of men. When in reality in reality men being leaders was more out of pragmatism. Was and is there mysogeny? Sure. Is it systemic? I don't believe so. Women in most societies can vote, own property, get …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/21 05:57 AM
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Whatever dude. I have a 5' 4" friend that gets all kinds of tail all the damn time. I'm 5' 11' my dad is 5'5 and he's had no issue finding women either. Height is an excuse for dudes who aren't getting what they say they want and instead of looking at their piss poor "whoa is me!!! I'm 5 4 and bald. Whine moan.... Women won't date me because I'm short. Whine moan.". No! Women won't date you because you're a whining POS who isn't okay with who you are. You'd rather bitch about shit you have no co…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/21 01:37 AM
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LawwwlzzzZ bald dudes never get laid. Ever. Jesus Homer Christ the insecurity about height and hair in this sub. Here's the thing ...If you aren't a creepy fuckwit that thinks height and hair somehow disadvantages you, you can and will get laid and have meaningful relationships. Do the inner work. Build your 5 ft 4 muscles.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/21 05:08 AM
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Dude the only thing you have control over is you. Waiting around for "society to change" is gonna be a long wait. You can get therapy, do the work and build a life you never dreamed possible or you can be a lonely POS that noone wants to hang with because no one wants to be around a Danny Downer. Be positive do your inner work and slay it. Or don't your choice.
/r/seduction21/03/21 08:02 PM
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We have a saying in my men's group helping dudes get past nice guy people pleasing behavior and especially dudes that have been married for a long time, maybe out of shape themselves and out of the dating market for a while. " Fuck a few fatties". It's about calibration and acting normal around females and some fatties actually have cool personalities and can be fun. At the end of the day they're all pink on the inside.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/21 02:40 AM
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This is not really good advice. This is what you say but that's not what's attractive to you. What's attractive is authenticity.... And also for these dudes "messing up" is usually being "overly nice".... And these dudes need to know that there's more than one woman out there. If woman breaks it off then ... next. Probably wasn't working out that great for either of them.
/r/seduction11/02/21 12:48 PM
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Move on, date other people, there's another woman out there. Don't fuck around waiting to get an ex back. Maybe wheel come back... But none of my past women that I've dated have been as good as what I have now. ... And if we decide to move on in the future there's another quality woman out there.
/r/seduction11/02/21 12:42 PM
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Boom. Eliminating the shame from porn is the way porn loses power. In the US especially years ago porn was marginalized especially in highly religious areas and cultures. Shame causes a feedback loop cycle that creates unhealthy associations and really can fuck people up. When I was recovering from leaving a cult I went to see a sex therapist and she said to look at as much porn and masterbaye as much as I wanted to... That it was okay... And after a few days the compulsion to rub one out went d…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/21 04:27 PM
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Any dude begging "for a chance" isn't a man. Guys want women that aren't a pain in the ass and know there's another woman coming by in. About 10, 9, 8..... You get the idea. Set yourself apart and in a good way, not in a unstable FDS way. Guy's don't owe women shit except safety. Men might choose to give because it suits them. Men bring something to the table and quality men find quality women and vice versa. Less quality people who need to do some fucking work go from shit relationship to shit …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/21 04:22 AM
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Or you should say "no". Jesus this isn't as hard as you make it out to be... Random dudes don't owe you shit, just like you don't owe them. Dating is fun or should be...if it isn't then make it so. No one wants to hang out with someone with a fucking chip on their shoulder. Quality dudes are no- drama llamas. Ain't no dude has time for a pain in the ass more than a couple of dates unless she's hot and good in the sack and even then it's iffy and is a distraction from his purpose unless he's just…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/21 04:06 AM
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Those two things aren't mutually exclusive. Men want women that have their own life and own friends ( good to line up 3somes). She's not the center of a man's world she's a compliment. If she constantly tries to direct the ship or co-pilot/co-create it's going to be over with a quality man. There's qualities a woman brings to a relationship but leading isn't one of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/21 11:52 PM
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The question wasn't what do women want the premise was guys need to put effort into dating... They do if that's what certain men value. I won't date half assed and I don't want to date half assed women. I put in effort for dating because I want to live a great authentic life and those I date get that benefit. It's actually a rare thing to find a woman that brings much to the table. Every once in a while one comes along but most skate by on their looks and P and not much else. That's cool for a w…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/21 11:46 PM
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Read what I wrote again. Men invite women into their space because they want them there. That's different than what you said.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/21 07:22 PM
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Men should put efforts into dates if that's his value system. Dating is about the man fully expressing himself asking a woman to come along. Half assing anything you value is a recipe for a unfulfilling life.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/21 07:19 PM
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It all depends on what your values are. You should never feel bad about about living your core. Sure breaking up isn't fun but you absolutely should live your core with integrity.
/r/seduction10/01/21 11:02 PM
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Former nice guy here... Nice guys seek approval from others and therefore don't know what they think or what their values are. Integrated men know what their values are and live accordingly. Nice guys finish last if they finish at all.
/r/seduction07/01/21 10:07 PM
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The issue is the "being funny to make women like you" like everything in life it's about motive. ETA be funny because it's your authentic self.
/r/seduction06/01/21 08:08 PM
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Instead tell them to live their values and be authentic.
/r/seduction06/01/21 08:06 PM
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It also didn't stop the dude from knocking up a woman who didn't want a kid. There's nothing wrong with abortions. There's a toll for sure but not for the kid. if a child comes to woman/family that doesn't want the baby the baby is better off dead. Forcing babies to be born usually leads to all kinds of societal issues. We want babies born into happy committed relationships not the neighborhood crack whore... And dudes shouldn't be fucking the neighborhood crack whore.... But they do.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/21 03:54 PM
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Define attractive ... And normal and attractive are dichotomies. Can't be both
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/21 02:41 AM
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You are putting too much fucking effort. Open, middle, cool quip, send.a meme at 6 pm. Ser a date... Bhah Blah. The text is for logistics and occasional notes.period. no one wants read a wall of fucking texts in an SMS. Dudes should be busy doing shit not texting.
/r/seduction19/12/20 04:03 AM
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Dudes need to man the fuck up and not let the feminist agenda define them. Dudes acknowledge their "feelings" and emotions but they aren't ruled by them. Women might care about emotions but in reality a man's emotions are his to learn to deal with. No (healthy) woman wants to be responsible for a man's "feelings". In its hard to see all this complaining from pussy men getting their "feelings" hurt because a woman says something or doesn't return attraction. Man the fuck up.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/20 01:27 AM
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Yep. We are all responsible for our own orgasms. If you can't get off on your partner that's on you. Coaching and communication is key but at the end of the day it's chemistry and head game.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/20 04:54 AM
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All this fucking judgement... Shoulds are shit. Shoulds cause suffering. Some people fucking like tits some people like eating ass some people like dressing as hamsters. People like what they like.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/20 07:09 PM
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If "benefits from hookup culture" means getting the clap you'd be right.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/20 07:28 PM
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It's not going to matter. If a woman can pull down 5 figures a month for a few years that's more than most dudes can do. I also don't think is is prevelent as this sub and trp thinks it is. There's been hoes since the beginning of time and simps that pay them. Nothing new here.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/20 05:10 AM
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When you set the date you should have lined up the logistics already. Women like a man with a plan.Also ask her to do something... Bring a bottle of wine for dinner, wear a certain color. Wear comfortable shoes.. Even something like "bring a pen". You don't even need to use it it is just about getting investment. Typical way to ask some out " I'm having dinner at at x Y Z at 7 it would be great if you'd join me.... " Blah blah from the girl " great! Meet me there. Oh an bring a pen." Contrary to…
/r/seduction28/11/20 03:51 PM
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Set the date and get off the phone. Period get stuff going in your life. You should be inviting girls to do things that you would be doing anyway so if they flake you are still having a good time. Can't say how many times a girl would flake and I would end up meeting someone else while out doing what I want. Being on the phone is lame compared to being in bed. Set the date and get off the phone, period.
/r/seduction28/11/20 03:43 PM
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Bottom line you just gotta fuck... it takes experience and knowlege. I get wanting to have a good woman to be with you.... But having male friends is far more important than making your woman your everything. Experience also allows you to determine what your values are what you want. You aren't going to get there waiting for a " friend" and someone that is your emotional support. Just fuck bro. You should be out spinning plates. If you feel you are lacking touch intimacy and all that, that's a b…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/20 05:12 AM
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Ghosting never bothers me. When I ask a girl out it's to do something I would be doing anyway. Ima having a good time meeting other people. I don't judge her. Busy? Not Interested? Unable to follow through? None of that shit matters. I'm with my favorite person regardless and chatting up others, All this worrying about others motivation it none of our fucking business. In an LTR it's a little different but everyone are agents into themselves and don't owe us shit. We get to choose who we spend t…
/r/seduction21/11/20 08:30 AM
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Why the fuck do dudes care about shit tests? Men don't ever let the drama into their circle.They don't worry about shit tests because men just handle things. If a woman is too much of a in the ass she's gone. Dudes should be using their energy living their lives. Often shit tests really are a way for a unstable woman to see if she can manipulate a man. Shit tests happen but men roll through them. Pussies avoid them or are afraid of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/20 02:19 PM
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Whatever. My group of friends are dudes that come in the door sometimes as incel wrecks and nice guys and if they get their shit together stop being fucking weird and build their life they're banging more often than once a year. Period. I've seen it literally hundreds of times over the last 5 years. So you see, my experience, while anecdotal is significant. I would say the percentage of dudes not getting laid over the hundreds I've met is less than 5%.... Those dudes just won't get out of their …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/20 05:32 PM
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70/30? 80/20? Bullshit. In my group of friends ranging from mid 20s to mid 50s 20+ dudes none of them are going a year without banging... even the fat dudes. If you are out there meeting people and living a good life, not thirsty you're gonna get laid. PPD "statistics" are shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/20 02:45 AM
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Men don't and shouldn't "need" a woman so a man should be living his life doing what he values. A man pining for some woman or "commitment" is weakness and the feminine. Men rule their own domain and when they sufficiently have their shit together they will attract their choice of women. Men chase their goals and women chase men.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/20 11:59 PM
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Nice! Good attitude But generally GFs aren't therapists.
/r/seduction10/11/20 11:26 PM
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And she'll not be your girlfriend very soon. Women don't want dudes that complain about being men and the lot that we are given in life. They want men that are doing their best and slaying it. Men deal with shit and women look for the best man they think they can get.
/r/seduction10/11/20 07:51 AM
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The way I see it is that until the talk is had (which IMO the woman should bring up by the way) assume I'm dating other people and I would assume she's doing the same. When shit gets serious she'll let you know then you can handle things at that time if you want to be exclusive then say so... if you want to still play say so Quality dudes have many women vying for their attention and shouldn't be pressured ultimatums or otherwise. And the same for the woman a dude should never pressure for exclu…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/20 07:23 AM
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It's about mindset.... And excelling in living the life you want. That's it. To go a bit further though, if you are average looking don't be average in how you live your life. It's all inner game and being aware of the open doors that present themselves when you have your shit together. Good women are attracted to quality dudes... It just happens.
/r/seduction08/11/20 02:13 PM
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Until you are willing to not attach your self worth to perceived approval of others nothing will change. A therapist won't help, well maybe a little but a therapist helps us do the tmmwork but the real work is ours to do. Its hard when one is in that space to accept, but this shit is 100% dependent about how we feel about ourselves and who we are. If we change our outlook it changes everything.
/r/seduction05/11/20 12:51 PM
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You know... I don't think that just talking to someone or even asking them out is considered "harassment". But I'm certain that a lot of dudes go that extra step and take it there.... Then, they need to come up with a "reason" the woman said no and they assume it must be because the dude isn't good looking. There's all kinds of reasons none of which are anyone's business and you can't possibly know unless she tells you which IMO rarely happensm
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/20 12:19 AM
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If you are out on a date with a girl she already thinks you are a sexual prospect and vice versa. Admit to yourself that you do want to have sex and be comfortable with it, but also don't be attached to a particular outcome. When we attempt to hide and be inauthentic with our core desires it comes off as incongruent. Touch, tease tell and just have fun. Be comfortable and shame free from the societal narrative about sex.
/r/seduction05/10/20 01:27 PM
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Check out r/NMMNG.
/r/seduction04/10/20 04:29 PM
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I generally agree... But why is there post ejaculatory guilt? I know about the no fap idea and generally think it is just as guilt ridden, and probably has its roots in religion. Can't men just enjoy their bodies and have fun by reframing and ditching the guilt?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/20 05:12 PM
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Christ man! Grow a fucking pair. Women don't hurt you. They can't hurt you. You dodged a fucking bullet with that girl that dumped you for a rapist. Find someone more quality. They exist hard to find but the better man you are the better quality woman you'll find. Women can't "hurt" a man. Men recognize there's another one coming in 15 minutes. Men recognize that if a girl leaves it's her loss. Next.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/20 06:46 AM
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Because scheduling a dentist appointment is harder than digging a ditch, litigating a lawsuit, or being a dentist. I recognize dudes need to step up and those of us with our shit together know that doing dishes, laundry etc makes our lives better. But why such an aversion from women to step up for their man? It seems very unlikely to find a woman that will cook a meal or step in with chores. In my recent LTRs I'm the cook and that's cool because I can... but would be totally cool with my gal ste…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/20 06:25 AM
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Nothing humble 'bout it... It's just a brag post.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/20 02:17 AM
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Or, one could just be congruent with one's own values. Shit tests only come to dudes that are marginal at best. You really have your shit together you welcome the shit tests. Dudes that know what's up can deal with shit tests and sometimes even welcome them. It's kind of cute when girls try to fluster someone that's centered. Girls that are testing all the damn time are likely unstable or BPD... So they're good in bed but way too much trouble to deal with. Say it with me... A shit test is not a …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/20 06:25 AM
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Dinner and a movie is the lamest first date ever. As a dude, pick something you want to do anyway and invite her along. It's usually not the what you do, it's the who you're with. With that said though, have a plan and a idea. If you don't know what you like to do figure it out.
/r/seduction17/06/20 02:29 PM
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Average men date average women. Het you shit together and walk through the open doors that present themselves. Stop worrying about what "average" is and level up your life. OLD works, meeting people IRL works. Stop being thirsty.and recognize it's a numbers game and a game if actuon.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/20 04:40 AM
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Jesus. The best time to date for a man is right now. No one owes anyone shit and attractive people, as in people with their shit together, positive self concept, working on a purpose, not thirsty for pussy brings about success. Nothing in life is fucking easy. Easy is for pussies. Fulfilling work to build something great, business, relationships, hobbies is where it's at. Stop fucking looking for "easy".
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/20 04:28 PM
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I'm a dude and I'm totally turned on when a woman cooks, cleans, does the laundry. It's a rare thing to find women that can/likes to cook. My last relationship I had a girl move in (mistake) because she indicated she would help around the house and did some chores and sex was good when I would send her home at night. For a month or so before she moved in she would iron my shirts do laundry.. Then once she moved in it all stopped... Like immediately! Started binge watching TV piling up dishes. I …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/20 03:30 PM
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Not sure just one dude did everything on the list even respectively there were likely females involved in all of them. Stem has historically been a male dominant field but men are being outpaced in education.Lots of men are fucking lazy just like the whales on the couch watching the bachelorette..
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/20 09:01 PM
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I'ma just say that it's not just women that are hypergamous. Woman let's herself go stops being an asset to my life I'll be doing some shopping for a different model. That's how it should be for everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/20 08:52 PM
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I'm going to say that porn on the hands of certain people can be a compulsion, just like sugar, food, alcohol, prescription meds anything and everything can be viewed as bad. I will also say that once the shame cycle about porn is removed it's not an issue any more. I was in a dead bedroom for 18 years and I self medicated with porn and food. But once I got out of that situation, got healthy a, saw a sex therapist and determined that porn wasn't necessarily bad and I didn't need to feel shame ab…
/r/RedPillWomen16/02/20 07:30 PM
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Because normal healthy people do. Interwebz subreddits about societal and intersex Dynamics from bitter dudes and gals isn't the best place to see it.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/20 01:06 AM
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Numbers are subjective best to not assign number values to attractiveness. Could be that because you perceive yourself as a 5 that there's something inside you that says you don't feel "worthy" the be with the super hotties. I also believe that to get calibrated it doesn't hurt to fuck a few fatties. So may dudes pedestalize women especially fine women. Of you can't fucking treat everyone the same... Even the fatties you are perceived as incongruent and even the fatties will have issues with you…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/20 04:46 PM
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Who ever said an ugly fat woman can get a man hard?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/20 12:08 AM
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Not that you car but I see dudes in their 50s in top shape banging 20 something's all the damn time. I'm in my mid forties and have women in late 20s. Women want men girls wank fuqbois.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/19 08:04 PM
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Fatties are good for one thing... Building a red pill mindset and getting past nice guy fear of pussy and blue pill conditioning. Bald ain't a thing but weight is an issue for men and women. Weight indicates so many things about mental health and general health. it isn't personal man it's just evolution. We are programmed to be attracted to healthy people and fat isn't healthy. Doesn't mean they are subhuman or unworthy just fat and sometimes kind smelly.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/19 06:29 PM
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Bullshit. It only matters if the individual makes it matter. There's tons of women shorter or taller than everyone else that could be rocked by you. Keep believing that scarcity mindset man, see where it gets you... Maybe... Just maybe it's your personality. Women don't like men that feel they are victims. A good friend of mine is 5 fucking 3 and get P thrown at him all the damn time. Excuses are weak man... Real weak. ETA if something bothers you it registers as an incongruency and is amplified…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/19 05:56 PM
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I used to feel this way... Sort of. I never wanted to pass my genes down. Was always afraid my kids would get the craY Gene my half sister had. I felt like a worthless piece of shit for years, I did a lot of work and have a life that I never dreamed possible in my sick days. The only pieces of shit human beings are those that treat others as shit. Height isn't shit, we build the fucking life we want or we make excuses... Don't be the latter you'll regret it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/19 05:30 PM
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One thing I've noticed is that RPG and conspiracies seem to make a fairly strong Venn diagram. I've met more flat earthers and fake moon landing people in my red pill meetups than anything... It's kind of creepy. So much to like about red pill it's changed my life but there's some nuts involved too.
/r/RedPillWomen11/10/19 05:11 PM
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It saddens me when I see self limiting beleiefs, environment, height, money, blah blah blah. It's all horseshit. Real men learn to adapt, make the best about what they have. Incels sit around and bitch and hate instead of looking inside. No one, women included owes anyone shit. The OP was right and had a good point. I never knew the quality of women that was available to me while I was wallowing in self pity. Shit gets better when one makes it better!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/19 03:17 PM
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