| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 5 | Giving off the "wrong" vibe | groupof7 | /r/askTRP | 22/02/17 03:41 PM | |
| 5 | Tinder strategy for younger women | groupof7 | /r/askTRP | 06/02/17 11:01 PM | |
| 3 | Dating Direction / Advice | groupof7 | /r/askTRP | 05/02/17 10:11 PM | |
| 1 | Tinder abroad | groupof7 | /r/askTRP | 20/03/17 05:29 PM | |
| 1 | Nuanced compliance test | groupof7 | /r/TheRedPill | 20/03/17 05:48 PM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 1 | Every relationship is a negotiation, so ask for and give less than herThe asking and giving concepts are hard for me to understand - at least on a practical level. If I want company for dinner, I cook. If she doesnt reciprocate, Ill suggest she cooks dinner. Another example is women expecting the man to always pay. If she doesnt have the wherewithal to offer, I'll let her know that it's her turn. If I understand the premise youve described, then this shows too much investment? Mind unpacking this further? | /r/TheRedPill | 15/05/17 04:33 AM |
| 1 | Common mistakes, misconceptions and hamstering from newcomersno idea how "lets go out next week" is needy. someone wanna explain? maybe its an age thing, i have to plan in advance. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/05/17 02:45 AM |
| 0 | Nuanced compliance testI couldn't agree more - that'd be exhausting. The underlying theme I was trying to convey was to be naturally fun and flirty - take a jab at something as ridiculous as putting a cup on a mantle. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/03/17 10:40 PM |
| 4 | Nuanced compliance testI think you've missed the point. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/03/17 10:00 PM |
| 1 | Giving off the "wrong" vibeWhat would you change? | /r/askTRP | 24/02/17 12:48 PM |
| 1 | Giving off the "wrong" vibeThanks for the feedback about my profile. Since I absolutely don't want to get any bigger , I imagine I'll just have to accept that being slim and cut isn't perceived as dominant, relatively? | /r/askTRP | 22/02/17 08:06 PM |
| 1 | Giving off the "wrong" vibe| This post should end there. And by there, I mean "a chick im smashing says im XYZ". She's still fucking you. Can't optimize if you don't understand intent. Certainly can't be better if you don't know how to accurately benchmark yourself. |There is. Hide everything that shows you have money or a career, show boarding/scuba/travel/boxing/cooking/etc. I will try this. Thanks. |More importantly, I hope you aren't fucking a girl you met at or through work. No. Casual conversation. The consequences … | /r/askTRP | 22/02/17 07:10 PM |
| 2 | How many people who frequent TRP are *actually* crushing it in life?| Yeah, the problem is that men only have a female-centric point of view. Help me understand your perspective on this and why you think that's the case? |The hard thing about cold approaches is that the conversion rate is so low (good day-gamers claim 3% approach-to-new-lay ratio) that you have to do a lot of it to get any information about what works and what doesn't. C'mon!! 3% doesn't feel like it's a good use of time. I think that I may have increasingly unrealistic expectations. I thought 3… | /r/askTRP | 22/02/17 07:05 PM |
| 2 | Giving off the "wrong" vibeThanks! This is also common. I'm wondering how to get them to expect at least a little of it, since I think it's going better my dating life overall. Any thoughts on that? | /r/askTRP | 22/02/17 05:03 PM |
| 2 | Cheated on GF don't know what to doLooks like you have your answer. Consider this one of the more benign life lessons :) | /r/askTRP | 22/02/17 04:48 PM |
| 3 | Giving off the "wrong" vibeFairly common. | Women will say that when they're attracted to you. It's usually a "I put you in the beta category, but you're actually in the alpha one. Good" I don't fully understand this; mind elaborating? | /r/askTRP | 22/02/17 04:47 PM |
| 1 | Giving off the "wrong" vibeI get the gist of what you're saying here and appreciate that you took the time to respond. A couple notes and clarifications: | The problem is, you think you look adventurous, but in reality, every person who wants to look adventurous will use the same stereotypical pictures as you do. What kind of pics do you think I have on there? |stereotypical guy-in-his-forties-trying-to-look-fun-and-adventurous online persona Not sure if this matters, but I'm in my mid 30s. |with some of your boxing and h… | /r/askTRP | 22/02/17 04:45 PM |
| 1 | Did I fuck up or was she not DTFThanks. Without more context, it's a little difficult to give you specific advice to this situation, but I'll try. Next time you're cuddling on the couch, forget the movie. You can watch it later if you're interested. Kiss her neck when she's with you on the couch and escalate from there. If it's getting hotter, be bold and direct with your intentions. Work on the psychological aspect of getting her excited. Talk to her about what you want to do. As an aside, I don't plow through LMR. If she doe… | /r/askTRP | 22/02/17 04:40 PM |
| 9 | How many people who frequent TRP are *actually* crushing it in life?I came to the Red Pill because I've always felt that men's identities were being influenced heavily by a female-centric point of view. We could do nothing right. I had heard about the red pill and wanted to understand the nuances of the arguments being presented as well as the nature of dating, since clearly my perspective was skewed. To echo MattyAnon's format: Fitness - I'm happy with my physique and am slim, strong and flexible. I don't know the percentiles well enough to give you an accurate… | /r/askTRP | 22/02/17 04:13 PM |
| 2 | Cheated on GF don't know what to doAll good advice so far. First, was it worth it? Second, what have you learned from this experience? From there, decide where your moral code lies and stick to it. Assuming you care about this young woman's feelings, you need to decide whether or not assuaging your own guilt is more important. | /r/askTRP | 22/02/17 03:48 PM |
| 3 | Did I fuck up or was she not DTFHelp me out with some details: your respective ages, how you met and your general approach to escalating/dropping innuendo. | /r/askTRP | 22/02/17 03:44 PM |
| 1 | The utility of being FunnyAny advice for someone who's erred on the side of silly humour (it seems to work for me, except online)? | /r/TheRedPill | 17/02/17 02:08 PM |
| 1 | A letter to you, a letter to me.it makes me sick to do this to another man, but I do it because another guy would do it to me Two things on this: First - live by your code. If you feel like shit doing this, don't do it. It's really that simple. You can't control if some other guy would do this to you, but you certainly can control where you stick your rod. Second - you're doing him a favour. More so if he finds out. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/02/17 03:03 AM |
| 1 | Easy Tinder Text Game, The 6 Message RuleOut of about 13 attempts, I've had 4 first dates and 3 "x doesn't work, what about y". The responses are all from women in their 30s and 40s. The no responses were mid to late 20s. My rational was that they swiped right, so unless they're complete validation whores, they're interested. Why mince words? I'm guessing this is age-specific and will default back to putting some effort into openers for younger women. Thanks guys. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/02/17 10:50 PM |
| 1 | Easy Tinder Text Game, The 6 Message RuleHave you had much luck with the direct approach - i.e. "Let's grab a drink" - right off the cuff? | /r/TheRedPill | 07/02/17 02:12 PM |
| 1 | Tinder strategy for younger womenSpeaking from personal experience? | /r/askTRP | 07/02/17 12:47 PM |
| 2 | Tinder strategy for younger womenSays in her profile she's a "gym guru". She's fit too. Was wondering if it's an idea to put her through one of my intense workouts. You know, before the old man throws out his back. | /r/askTRP | 07/02/17 02:18 AM |
| 1 | Help me understand what's happening during first time sex with womenSounds like you're on point. How much talking are you doing beforehand? Eating them out? Lots of escalating beforehand? Personally, I've found that solid foreplay focusing on talking and teasing get most women off within a few minutes of penetration. | /r/askTRP | 06/02/17 11:30 PM |
| 1 | Dating Direction / AdviceSolid answer to the life choices question. Thanks! Do you cold approach as well or strictly rely on online dating? | /r/askTRP | 06/02/17 11:08 PM |
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