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grover997/r/MGTOW05/08/20 07:27 AM
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grover997/r/MGTOW207/06/21 11:40 PM
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Conversationgrover997/r/seduction20/06/20 02:45 PM
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grover997/r/MGTOW07/06/21 11:33 PM
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Depends how hot she is
/r/seduction07/01/22 06:41 AM
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I just mean that you should act soon to meet her because right now you will still be on her mind. She will be thinking about that cool guy in the club that she gave her number too. Wondering about it. That won’t last long. The longer you leave it the less likely she is to remember you.
/r/seduction30/10/21 10:14 AM
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Invite her out for a coffee before she goes cold!!!
/r/seduction29/10/21 09:32 PM
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Tell him you are too busy right now fucking his girlfriend. Say you might be able to make it by 2:30 but if you’re not there he should just get started without you.
/r/seduction15/10/21 06:40 AM
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You have spotted my subtle wit sir
/r/MensRights14/10/21 09:23 AM
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Not really a men’s rights issue
/r/MensRights22/09/21 10:53 PM
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But don’t feminists want to tear down traditional gender roles? Man, it is so hard to keep up with all these groups!! Haha
/r/MensRights07/08/21 11:56 PM
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What’s a tradcon?
/r/MensRights07/08/21 11:21 PM
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Yeah, there are always some I guess.
/r/MGTOW17/06/21 11:12 PM
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But does anyone really complain like this if a man is single or says he has no interest?
/r/MGTOW17/06/21 11:06 PM
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You are right, a child is certainly a purpose, and all of those things happen
/r/MGTOW07/06/21 11:50 PM
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😂👍🏿👍🏿
/r/seduction06/05/21 12:10 AM
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They aren’t
/r/seduction05/05/21 11:56 PM
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I remember reading this too. I could see what was coming. It was like watching some horrible slow motion train wreck. It’s all perspective I guess. If he had of been watching someone else’s life then maybe he would of seen where things were headed too but, being in the middle of his happy, successful life made him blind to certain realities. A good lesson in never letting yourself become too comfortable.
/r/MGTOW16/04/21 02:03 PM
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Really? I thought the whole point of Wikipedia was that anyone could add or edit the information?
/r/MGTOW227/03/21 10:46 PM
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That Wiki page is a complete joke. That being said though, there is a bit of misogynistic speak in this sub. It isn’t what MGTOW is about but it does show up here.
/r/MGTOW227/03/21 10:42 PM
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And you got one! Congrats your fishing expedition was a success.
/r/seduction06/03/21 09:52 PM
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Play the game the way it is, not the way others think it should be. Keep your head down brother.
/r/MGTOW217/02/21 01:55 AM
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What publication is this? I mean, is it legit? I saw the Halle Berry thing too. I expected to see some articles/coverage acknowledging that she is just going through what men go through but, nothing. Not One! Although I did see a lot of things saying how the guy was a horrible human being and shouldn’t be granted the money.
/r/MGTOW212/02/21 06:42 AM
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Hahaha I noticed this when I looked up MGTOW. I thought about making an addition and seeing if it got removed straight away.
/r/MGTOW210/01/21 04:20 AM
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Agreed man. Both are needed. Good point well made.
/r/MGTOW227/11/20 11:02 PM
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One way to look at OP’s post would be that MGTOW has now become a home for many male rights issues when originally it wasn’t. Things such as ‘toxic masculinity’ and other beliefs which shame men into thinking less of themselves and their accomplishments are issues worth talking about. Is MGTOW the place to do it? That is the question.
/r/MGTOW227/11/20 10:50 PM
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I guess failed in biological sense, and in the sense that I just always thought that’s what life would be for me, and I was kind of looking forward to it as well. I’d say the solitude is the toughest part for me though. It’s really fighting against a human instinct. We evolved to live in family groups after all.
/r/MGTOW28/08/20 03:03 AM
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I do agree with this. Although I am trying to embrace the solitary life it has been very difficult for me. Relationships and family are challenging things, and there is definitely worth in that challenge. I do feel like I have failed because I failed to get those things sometimes. I am hoping that like OP the older I get the easier it will become to be on my own.
/r/MGTOW25/08/20 09:43 PM
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I wish I felt the same. Would make life so much happier.
/r/MGTOW15/08/20 11:50 PM
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Don’t hook up with women who look like men and you should be ok.
/r/seduction11/08/20 03:14 PM
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Where are you?
/r/MGTOW08/08/20 07:32 AM
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OMG that is so awesome. I want to print some of those and start putting them up! We should all just put 5 or so up in our areas. Haha
/r/MGTOW08/08/20 06:55 AM
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Haha yeah! I knew it wasn’t really toxic but I’ve never really dived into the lifestyle properly
/r/MGTOW208/08/20 04:29 AM
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I’m with you. Thanks, that clears it up for me more. It might of seemed a silly question but it was genuine. Lots of respect for you guys.
/r/MGTOW208/08/20 04:20 AM
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I agree with you. It was the same for me. When I was 32 that’s when I met my partner. She was 23 at the time. We had a great relationship until I was 39 and she left. ☹️
/r/MGTOW08/08/20 04:03 AM
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I think I understand. Thanks man.
/r/MGTOW208/08/20 03:04 AM
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I’m still confused on where MGTOW stands on female relationships?? Im trying to find my new purpose
/r/MGTOW208/08/20 01:51 AM
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Hey just wondering, are MGTOW people allowed to be married?
/r/MGTOW207/08/20 11:29 PM
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I became single at 39. It’s only single mums out there.
/r/MGTOW07/08/20 03:20 PM
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I want to get there
/r/MGTOW206/08/20 09:21 PM
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Strong advice. I’m having a lot of trouble doing these things myself though. I just don’t enjoy being on my own yet.
/r/MGTOW206/08/20 09:02 PM
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But being in a committed relationship with a woman makes him happy. Bit of a tough one...
/r/MGTOW206/08/20 08:57 PM
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I need to actually read these books
/r/MGTOW06/08/20 01:34 PM
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I will take your advice on board sir and detox myself of women. It shouldn’t be too difficult as now I don’t know any or get to cross paths with any in day to day life.
/r/MGTOW06/08/20 12:40 PM
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Still trying to find a way to do it
/r/MGTOW06/08/20 11:54 AM
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😂
/r/MGTOW06/08/20 11:52 AM
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So can red pilled men be in relationships with women, or do they need to shun being a couple and just live without women?
/r/MGTOW06/08/20 11:51 AM
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Thanks man, Building a support network is something I am trying to focus on a lot. It is tough though. Maybe I do need to move. It’s a little closed off where I’m living. Mostly long standing multigenerational families. Not many outsiders. Lots of people busy with families and kids too. That wasn’t so bad before because I was about to join them but now I’m the weird single man haha. It’s definitely going to take some work. Tough to know where to start.
/r/MGTOW06/08/20 11:48 AM
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So this is just a way to make you not feel bad about a situation that you can’t change?
/r/MGTOW06/08/20 11:38 AM
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Haha dependency albatross! I definitely have one of those I think. I really feel a bit aimless without a family to support and protect. I still that’s a pretty normal way for a man to be but I need to become ok doing things on my own and just for me. I’ve always found it a little boring travelling alone but once the planes start flying again I’m going to need to get out of here.
/r/MGTOW06/08/20 11:34 AM
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I’ve never had to date really. I went from my first long relationship to my last one. Both women didn’t have long histories of multiple failed relationships. I’ve only had the two. I kind of get what you said about the death of the modern relationship. I was a bit shocked. I didn’t expect it to be like it is out there. I certainly had been sheltered from the reality of it while I was in domestic bliss. It’s pretty horrible isn’t it? This sounds terrible but how does anyone actually find the idea…
/r/MGTOW06/08/20 11:28 AM
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I really want to try that
/r/MGTOW06/08/20 11:21 AM
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I don’t know why they don’t say that. Maybe they are scared of conflict. I don’t know, but yeah it does happen.
/r/MGTOW06/08/20 11:20 AM
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I wish I knew man
/r/MGTOW06/08/20 11:19 AM
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I do feel a bit doomed.
/r/MGTOW05/08/20 03:02 PM
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Thanks man. It has been hard to adjust to a solo life. I think losing so many other important people in my life at the same time has made it a bit tougher too. I know I can get there.
/r/MGTOW05/08/20 02:59 PM
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You are dead right. I do blame myself 100%. I just don’t know what it was that I did wrong. We didn’t fight, we always wanted the same things in life. I don’t know if it was one big thing or a thousand small ones but trust me I do blame myself. It took her 4 and a half years to move out of her mother’s house and live with me. It was the first time she lived out of home, her mother wasn’t happy about it. She was a single mother and it had just been the two of them since she was 3. Her family used…
/r/MGTOW05/08/20 02:56 PM
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Definitely worthwhile pursuits man. That’s so great that you get your kids involved too. Really inspiring. I actually did look for some volunteering opportunities a month or two back. Be Cayo for COVID everything was on hold. It should all be starting up again soon I hope. I like the idea of men’s or children’s charities. I think I would get a lot out of that. Another thing I thought of was being a foster carer. My life was set up to be having children about now so everything is in place.
/r/MGTOW05/08/20 02:43 PM
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I bought a puppy 3 weeks ago. She will be coming home in a few weeks time!
/r/MGTOW05/08/20 02:38 PM
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Good article. After we had started dating I found out that she had actually “monkey branches” to me from her previous boyfriend.
/r/MGTOW05/08/20 02:36 PM
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I need to be outside more. I’ve been stuck inside all year.
/r/MGTOW05/08/20 02:20 PM
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I can’t wait till we are allowed to travel again. I wish I had gone somewhere before lockdowns started. I feel like I have wasted a whole year.
/r/MGTOW05/08/20 02:16 PM
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I’ll get a copy. I just checked it out. I had someone tell me about acceptance and commitment therapy and that it might be worth trying. I haven’t done it though so will try this. How did it help you?
/r/MGTOW05/08/20 02:14 PM
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I’m sorry man, that’s horrible that that happened to you. I’m trying to refocus my energies and find a new path, a new purpose.
/r/MGTOW05/08/20 12:39 PM
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Haha you sir are awesome
/r/MGTOW05/08/20 12:31 PM
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Any tips on how to deal/process something like that? I even thought about giving it away. It just feels like it’s not mine and I shouldn’t have it. Maybe I should spend it on an experience or activity. Something that I won’t need to keep looking at ha.
/r/MGTOW05/08/20 11:45 AM
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Thanks, I’m looking for groups I can join. It feels strange having to plan out a strategy for making friends. Especially after being surrounded by so many people for so long but it’s necessary. One member on here suggested joining a co-working space, I think that is a good idea too.
/r/MGTOW05/08/20 11:41 AM
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She is. It took a week. I like this “art + something to shape your physical memory”. That sounds awesome man. I’m going to think on this. I have a bit of a home gym here so I can get into that more. I wonder what I can do for the art part. An instrument maybe?
/r/MGTOW05/08/20 11:27 AM
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Thanks man, I know that she doesn’t give a shit about me. She picked up a guy from tinder 5 days later and apparently wants to marry him already. I was really surprised how completely and quickly I was removed from her world but I know she isn’t thinking about me. I have thought about moving to a bigger city. It could be a good idea.
/r/MGTOW05/08/20 11:16 AM
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That’s a great idea! I’m going to do that!
/r/MGTOW05/08/20 11:09 AM
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Thanks. Yes, all accounts and possessions are untouched. This sounds pretty pathetic but I actually have an account with the money I saved for the wedding and kids that I can’t bring myself to spend. I’ve really had a hard time adjusting to solo activities. I genuinely got a lot of joy out of spending time and doing activities with family and friends. It has been tough trying to do them alone, but I’m trying. At my age I have found a huge shortage of groups and clubs. Careers and families seem t…
/r/MGTOW05/08/20 09:07 AM
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An upsetting thought but I have watched other people go through it and I have to agree.
/r/seduction20/06/20 03:49 PM
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Clearly to be in a relationship. It’s all I know. This is the longest I’ve ever been on my own.
/r/seduction20/06/20 03:01 PM
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