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| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| 59 | Feeling defeated, need advice please | growthh77 | /r/askFDS | 16/11/20 02:50 AM | |
| 0 | Feeling defeated, need advice please | RANT | growthh77 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/11/20 02:37 AM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 10 | I'm upset I didn't leave sooner and let the abuse go onHi, I’ve been through this before too. I stayed for two years with a porn addict who lied and was emotionally abusive most of the time. He ended up leaving and I was so disappointed in myself for not leaving first. I felt so small and worthless when he left because I thought he was so terrible and him leaving me must mean there’s something wrong with me. That’s obviously not true. My brain was just trying to justify all the pain. It might take some time to heal because it’s painful getting out o… | /r/askFDS | 30/12/20 09:33 PM |
| 10 | I think my boyfriend gaslighted me i need adviceYou set a boundary by saying what he’s doing makes you uncomfortable and insecure. The only reason he came back at you with “you post provocative photos” is because he was just trying to defend his disgusting behavior and blame you. You do not control his actions. You posting photos of your own body is not the same as him liking pictures of other women. They’re not comparable. There’s no such thing as HVM with LV tendencies. You deserve a HVM. He’s gaslighting you and blame shifting. And he’s ig… | /r/askFDS | 26/11/20 02:25 PM |
| 2 | Feeling defeated, need advice pleaseI’ve decided to go do things I’m into more and if I happen to meet someone, great. If not, at least I’m enjoying my time with my hobbies. I don’t have the money for e harmony right now, but I have heard that men are more likely to be looking for relationships if they have to pay for an account. I have to get better at cutting it off when I start feeling less interested. I always think “maybe I’m wrong” but no, I can’t keep doubting myself. I know what I want and I will not lower my standards jus… | /r/askFDS | 16/11/20 06:36 PM |
| 5 | Feeling defeated, need advice pleaseYeah it’s so hard to find a HVM and I don’t even want to look for love, I want it to find me when the time is right. And you’re so right, society makes women feel like we need men and we’ll find this one man who will make everything worth it. But that doesn’t make sense. I’m going to make everything I’ve been through “worth it” by healing and becoming the best me I can. I definitely get down sometimes thinking about being alone forever and never finding the right man. But like all feelings, lone… | /r/askFDS | 16/11/20 06:34 PM |
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