grubsztyl Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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9	[FR] Long time lurker, first time doer. 29M F-Close first date 25F. Was there any follow-up? Or just her acting flakey? It sounded promising but it’s starting to look bad.. One suggestion though, you don’t really want to insist on paying, even in a playful manner. This is just common courtesy, nobody ever said that a man has to pay no matter what. A gentleman will offer to pay but if the woman wants to pay for the meal or just her half then let it go and let her do it. That’s the elegant way of handling these situations.	/r/seduction	10/02/20 09:00 AM
9	OUCH! Watch Me Get Rejected By Multiple Women (infield compilation) Oh man. If I made a video of my rejections it’d be 28 years long.	/r/seduction	06/02/20 08:04 AM
1	Few Know thing about CONFIDENCE Don’t use argumentum ad personam on me. It makes you look even less credible than you already are and honestly it also makes you look kinda silly, trying to imply that I’m mad lol People lack confidence for many reasons. Some of them simply need an ego boost, some of them might have undiagnosed dysthymia or GAD which needs to be addressed by a professional. You don’t know the reason so stop acting like you got it all figured out. It’s not as simple as „changing your mindset”. People study psycho…	/r/seduction	04/02/20 09:14 PM
13	Few Know thing about CONFIDENCE Jesus, just stop with this coaching babbling nonsense. What the vid says: if you want to be confident then you’re not confident because you assume your not confident, so if you really want to be confident then stop trying to be confident and instead simply be confident! That’s like telling someone who’s depressed something like: well, uhh.. but have you tried being, I don’t know, happy?? There you go, depression cured!	/r/seduction	04/02/20 07:06 AM
1	She told me I was boring. What are some tips I can do to change this? I’ve been told two times that I was boring in my whole life. Both of those girls were extremely self-absorbed and unable to make a conversation which wouldn’t involve themselves as the main topic.. or something they were interested in but they had zero interests so go figure.	/r/seduction	23/01/20 05:58 AM
1	My Honest Experience with Testosterone (TRT) Right. I assume you come from the US but let me tell you that in Europe TRT is not a common practice in medicine. You don’t supplement testosterone just because you’re middle-aged. Decrease in testosterone is a natural aging process. There’s very little research about the effects and side effects of TRT (especially on the cardiovascular system) and your post is potentially harmful and can actually cause damage.	/r/seduction	18/01/20 09:02 AM
11	The 5 Most Dangerous Online Dating Mistakes Women (and Men) Make - and What to Do Instead The guy’s description from mistake #2 is such a cringe, lol	/r/seduction	09/01/20 12:32 PM
5	Doing cold approach just to get better at approaching was really bad for me mentality and lead to a low abundance mindset when I was approaching. Focusing on my purpose and approaching when I feel like it throughout my daily activities felt more realistic, natural, and lessened any nervousness. I always wonder where people find time to get 500 approaches... I have such a busy schedule and I’m always in the hurry.	/r/seduction	09/01/20 12:29 PM
2	Fucked it up, still glad that I tried Meh, it’s not that awkward. She said no, he said no problem, both can move on.. not a biggie	/r/seduction	07/01/20 10:09 PM
5	Finally had the balls to approach a girl after the gym Don’t overthink this. Seducing isn’t some science where everything has to be according to some formula. Let us know when she responds.	/r/seduction	07/01/20 09:56 AM
16	I hate social media but it helps attract women. Help? I’ve never been a big social media fan and I have an IG account to watch instastory of my friends, I have 0 photos and like 50 followers. I really don’t give a crap. If a girl is going to judge me based on that then be my guest - not the girl I’m looking for anyway. Social media just seems to me so meaningless in the long run, I’d much rather spend my free time practicing my guitar skills than invest time into internet popularity. But then I’m 30 so maybe for younger people it’s more important n…	/r/seduction	06/01/20 11:11 AM
23	How do I enjoy myself while clubbing? Well, to be honest you’re doing it wrong. Been there done that, I think there’s very few people who can pull off going clubing alone and meet women. It takes special kind of confidence and ability to mingle with strangers. I don’t have that and seems like you don’t either. It seems like clubs are not for you. I never enjoyed myself in clubs either and alcohol wouldn’t change it. Point is if you’re not having fun then you won’t attract women. If you really want this to work then get a group of pe…	/r/seduction	05/01/20 10:11 AM
32	Tinder is disgusting..pathetic OP used to sleep around using Tinder, then got one cold approach success and then immediately posts a success story where he humiliates other Tinder users. Truly entertaining, lol	/r/seduction	31/12/19 10:00 AM
25	Reminder: dont put girls on a pedestal. I used to date a single mom for a few weeks. She walked all over me, kept telling me that I was boring and had a „faggot voice” whatever that means. She would text some instagram guys for attention even when we were together. She would fish for my compliments and never oferred anything back. She would cancel our dates at last minute because she felt sick and then would post insta-story that would prove she definitely wasn’t sick. She dumped me once because she „kept thinking about her ex”. After…	/r/seduction	31/12/19 09:36 AM
1	Just be yourself and keep trying So how that worked out for ya?	/r/seduction	30/12/19 05:20 PM
2	Okay I get it now Right on, brother! Don’t be outcome-dependent! Do what you gotta do, you’ve got only one life!	/r/seduction	29/12/19 09:17 AM
1	Dating as an alcoholic This is an excellent response, thank you!!	/r/seduction	28/12/19 10:32 AM
1	To Do or Not to Do Lol, no. I’ve been followed by people in my college with whom I’ve never spoken to and I honestly don’t care	/r/seduction	27/12/19 08:35 AM
3	[deleted by user] Exactly what I’ve been doing for past year. Chicks love guys playing guitar so that’s a plus too!	/r/seduction	27/12/19 08:31 AM
3	Hey seddit, how did you get rid of the feeling that she's out of your league? I'm afraid that unless you convince yourself that leagues don't exist you probably will never reach your goal. I don't want to go all analytical on you but you said it yourself that you get needy around women you deem out of your league.. I guess you could figure out the solution by yourself just based on what you posted. Truth is you'll never be confident around attractive women unless you stop putting them on the pedestal.	/r/seduction	16/12/19 09:13 PM
3	What's the difference between pursuing a girl , whilst making your intentions clear vs being needy and desperate There's some excellent responses here. The way I approach dating nowadays is just leaving some things unspoken. It's like me and my date have a silent agreement, we like each other and agree to continue dating - there's no need to talk about it unless there's some very mixed signals involved. Just do what you got to do and keep your relation fun and drama free. Don't seek reaffirmation that everything's going well, that makes you look needy.. if it was going bad, she wouldn't agree to go out wit…	/r/seduction	16/12/19 09:01 PM
1	Took me 23 years but I finally fucking did it + question From my experience homosexual/bisexual people often happen to be in open relationships so perhaps she just wants to hook up. Not sure what to think about your close friend, though. If I was her boyfriend I'd flip out, lol	/r/seduction	16/12/19 08:01 PM
1	Amazing first dates that go nowhere https://www.reddit.com/r/dating/comments/eb02hu/anxiety_after_first_date/ Look up my post, just today I posted something along your lines. I'm in a similiar situation. How often do you text them?	/r/seduction	15/12/19 08:23 PM
1	Amazing first dates that go nowhere Out of curiosity, how do you do your follow-ups?	/r/seduction	15/12/19 06:57 PM