| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 29 | Looking around while talking to girls | guitarislife1392 | /r/seduction | 03/04/13 11:47 PM | |
| 12 | The "Little Sister" Mentality | guitarislife1392 | /r/seduction | 12/04/13 07:30 PM | |
| 6 | Overcoming negative influences | guitarislife1392 | /r/seduction | 24/03/13 03:15 AM | |
| 2 | Dancing and shit tests | guitarislife1392 | /r/seduction | 07/04/13 04:54 PM | |
| 2 | Made out with a complete stranger today. Thank you Seddit. | guitarislife1392 | /r/seduction | 05/05/13 03:45 AM | |
| 1 | Benefits of sober game? | guitarislife1392 | /r/seduction | 10/03/13 05:00 AM | |
| 1 | Bringing girls to the bar: social value and flirting | guitarislife1392 | /r/seduction | 12/04/13 03:34 PM | |
| 1 | Kind of a noob question about texting | guitarislife1392 | /r/seduction | 15/04/13 10:00 PM |
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| 2 | Does having a muscular physique attract the WRONG type of women?The difference in making a person look "shredded" (or in your words, have lean muscles) versus "bulky" comes down to muscle mass and body fat. If a guy has enough muscle mass, he'll look "bulky." It's low body fat that makes muscle definition more visible and creates the more "shredded" look. A powerlifter will never be shredded because he has too much body fat. All muscle is created equal and the only way to build muscle is with resistance training. With the idea of bulky muscles in mind, you'r… | /r/seduction | 15/06/13 06:54 PM |
| 1 | Does having a muscular physique attract the WRONG type of women?Absolutely. It's not so much the way you look that attracts women, but the way you hold yourself because you know you look good that attracts them. Sure you'll get checked out more if you get in shape, but the confidence that comes with it is the biggest game-booster. | /r/seduction | 15/06/13 06:47 PM |
| 1 | What is the one activity/hobby/habit that you think makes you most interesting/appealing to women other than Pick Up material?The username says it. Sadly musicians don't get as many women as people think. I've had guys be like "man you must get so much pussy because you play guitar." It really comes down to game, but having a cool hobby and being talented doesn't hurt with women. But they never ask me to play them stuff! Damn, if only they could hear me, they'd get turned on pretty fast. Maybe I can use that as a pull tactic: like "we're just going to my place so you can see my guitar," to make it nonthreatening. | /r/seduction | 25/05/13 02:49 AM |
| 2 | Lighting the fire: why camping is one of the best date ideas.Hopefully you get laid while you're camping...that would be fucking in tents. | /r/seduction | 18/05/13 10:32 PM |
| 2 | Does anyone else have game without having to talk a girls head off?Me: Where are you from? Her: Baltimore. Me: That's cool. Her: Yeah...[looks into the distance] I don't know if some girls are just like that or it's just an IOD. Either way, I usually bail on those sets pretty quickly. | /r/seduction | 06/05/13 12:47 AM |
| 1 | Made out with a complete stranger today. Thank you Seddit.Honestly I'm just amazed at the amount of game I demonstrated. | /r/seduction | 06/05/13 12:37 AM |
| 1 | Made out with a complete stranger today. Thank you Seddit.Damn man, I don't think that's gonna happen, but yeah I guess I gotta be careful. That's probably why it didn't go any further than making out. | /r/seduction | 06/05/13 12:37 AM |
| 3 | Does anyone else have game without having to talk a girls head off?I love girls who actually work to contribute to the conversation. It sucks when she's just staring at you waiting for you to say something miraculous. It takes two to tango. | /r/seduction | 05/05/13 03:26 AM |
| 1 | Excitability and slowing down the pace of my speechWatch some of Mystery's infield videos. He talks very deliberately and you can tell it really conveys confidence. | /r/seduction | 03/05/13 01:12 AM |
| 2 | Your greatest moment of triumph so far in seduction?Honestly, I don't think I've ever even done that many approaches in a night. Props to you. | /r/seduction | 02/05/13 03:07 AM |
| 1 | What is a good response to "you're weird"...but in a good way, right? | /r/seduction | 01/05/13 02:01 AM |
| 1 | I FINALLY did it. Made my first approach at 24 years old.Proof that looks don't matter. | /r/seduction | 01/05/13 01:58 AM |
| 2 | I FINALLY did it. Made my first approach at 24 years old.How would one escalate over the Internet? There's a new type of game for you. | /r/seduction | 01/05/13 01:57 AM |
| 1 | How do you not take rejection personally?I like to live by the 80% Rule: 80% of the time rejection is not personal, is not a bad reflection on you, and does not mean you have shitty game. People have shit going on in their lives, and you really don't know what that includes. Maybe she just started seeing someone. Maybe she doesn't like meeting guys at the bar. Maybe she's in a shitty mood and doesn't wanna hang out with anybody. Maybe she just failed a test, her dog died, or her mom won't stop nagging her. You don't know. There are a m… | /r/seduction | 01/05/13 01:45 AM |
| 1 | If you know a girl likes you, and wants to kiss you, what's a good line to make this happen?Straight Mystery line. I think if she says no you're supposed to say "I didn't say you could...but it looked like you had something on your mind." | /r/seduction | 29/04/13 02:24 PM |
| 1 | If you know a girl likes you, and wants to kiss you, what's a good line to make this happen?Say "besame mi amor," then tilt her backwards and kiss her. Bonus if you're wearing a white tux with a rose in the lapel. | /r/seduction | 29/04/13 02:22 PM |
| 2 | To all those wondering "How on earth do I fake confidence?! I still don't know what to say..." Here's some thoughts.Still, I don't like hearing the Brad Pitt analogy simply because it makes it seem that a good-looking guy will do substantially better than an average-looking guy. If the average-looking guy has better game, he will do better with women. Brad Pitt can get scores of women because he is good-looking, but bear in mind: he's a celebrity. Celebrities have power, fame, money, and status, all of which are attractive to women. Brad Pitt even said when he first moved to Hollywood (before he made it big) … | /r/seduction | 27/04/13 11:54 PM |
| 11 | The Poker Analogy: Why Your Self-Esteem Shouldn't Be Dependent on Your ResultsLife is like a game of poker: you can't control the cards you are dealt, but you can control what you do with those cards. | /r/seduction | 27/04/13 11:44 PM |
| 1 | Body language changes your hormones and chemicals in your brain. You can literally "fake it" until you become it. "It" being confidence...This is some cool stuff. I watched Amy Cuddy's talk on body language and her mantra of "Don't fake it till you make it; fake it till you become it." Before I go out, I like to "power pose" for a few minutes where I try to make myself as big as possible (think of a victory stance) to raise my testosterone a bit. Helps me get pumped up. | /r/seduction | 27/04/13 02:04 AM |
| 2 | The real reason you're getting flakesThat Kino Escalation Ladder made me horny. God damn. | /r/seduction | 27/04/13 01:52 AM |
| 1 | What are some good openers for class?You know how passing notes was fun back in high school? Guess what...it still is. I actually got a girl's number this way. She's in three of my classes and we were talking about one of them before class started. During class I passed her a note saying "hey I just realized I don't even know your name, and we have three classes together. What's that about?" We went back and forth for a bit and I told her "we'll finish this conversation later, meet me outside." She said something about having a lot… | /r/seduction | 24/04/13 02:12 AM |
| 2 | Rejection.Agreed. You have to desensitize yourself to rejection. Embrace it. It's called conditioning: professional athletes and comedians do it, and you should too. After you've gotten rejected enough times, you just start to say "fuck it, her problem, not mine." Then try another approach. | /r/seduction | 21/04/13 07:05 PM |
| 2 | My friends held a small intervention to get me out of the game! How do I explain it to them!?I made the mistake of talking about it with my close friends. It's hard to resist, especially when you get excited about the results you're seeing and want to share them with those around you. | /r/seduction | 19/04/13 09:41 PM |
| 3 | When a girl rejects you at the last minuteHigh risk, high reward. | /r/seduction | 19/04/13 04:06 PM |
| 1 | The Fear of Rejection. It can be brokenI think I'm actually starting to embrace rejection. Last weekend I went out and approached a girl but didn't really have anything to say, so I just said "hey, what's up" and asked her name. She got super awkward and wasn't saying anything, like she was waiting for me to say something cool. I just stood there smiling and laughing at her, then I asked her why she was being awkward. Then I realized I was laughing at myself for being such an idiot and thinking that it even mattered how awkward the a… | /r/seduction | 16/04/13 11:30 PM |
| 2 | Pro tip: if your date tells you halfway through that she swallows ...GET OUT OF THERE NOW | /r/seduction | 16/04/13 01:18 AM |
| 1 | Approaching girls in/after classIf you do get to know a girl in class, just be careful not to get "study-buddy" zoned. This has happened to me a few times. Once you've got her number, use that to set up a meeting outside of studying. That way you can get to know her as more than just friends or "colleagues." | /r/seduction | 15/04/13 09:23 PM |
| 8 | How do I approach a women during the day when we both make eye contact and smile at each other?A simple "hey wait up" may work. Then the line about "you can't look at me like that without..." | /r/seduction | 15/04/13 07:15 PM |
| 26 | How do I approach a women during the day when we both make eye contact and smile at each other?I get this a lot too, the only problem is it's usually in passing. I'll be walking to class and a cute girl will smile at me and flip her hair, and I'm thinking "damn, if she wasn't just walking past I would've said hi." I guess I would have to be super quick to make it work. | /r/seduction | 15/04/13 05:28 PM |
| 6 | How do I approach a women during the day when we both make eye contact and smile at each other?He probably recognizes you from somewhere. Or he's gay. | /r/seduction | 15/04/13 05:27 PM |
| 31 | Pro tip: if your date tells you halfway through that she swallows ...If anybody has seen the show Keys to the VIP, this guy was talking to a girl in a club and asked what he should drink and she said "something with pineapple, it makes your juices taste nice." The judges were immediately like "ooookkkayyyy" haha. | /r/seduction | 15/04/13 05:15 PM |
| 9 | Pro tip: if your date tells you halfway through that she swallows ...Overly attached girlfriend? | /r/seduction | 15/04/13 05:15 PM |
| 1 | The 'Yawn' TrickAAA is doubling my rates these days. | /r/seduction | 15/04/13 05:09 PM |
| 1 | The 'Yawn' TrickYes! Mirroring. | /r/seduction | 15/04/13 05:07 PM |
| 1 | "I have to go find my friends?" how do you respondTonight's goal: get a handjob on the dance floor. | /r/seduction | 14/04/13 02:19 AM |
| 1 | Billy's Guide to LooksA lot of PUA aren't that good-looking, so I guy with that much game who's also good looking will be a knockout. | /r/seduction | 14/04/13 01:17 AM |
| 3 | "I have to go find my friends?" how do you respondDamn that's forward...that shit actually happens? I'm missing out. | /r/seduction | 14/04/13 12:52 AM |
| 0 | What are you doing before you make out?If you ever say "doe," I immediately think you're the guy from the Greg Jennings video. "But dawg...he put da team on his back doe!" | /r/seduction | 13/04/13 11:32 PM |
| 2 | The "Little Sister" MentalityI guess the little sister thing is more demonstrated in your words, not your actions. | /r/seduction | 12/04/13 10:22 PM |
| 1 | Ever closed girls that haven't seen you in forever?Just the tip? Disappointing. | /r/seduction | 12/04/13 04:39 PM |
| 1 | Alpha male mindset: Conveying high status and high value through your actionsJames Bond Well, that would require the ability to perform mixed martial arts while wearing a suit. | /r/seduction | 12/04/13 03:46 PM |
| 1 | Texting Game: Losing girls because of bad textsPeople are so awkward these days. We don't even know how to talk to each another anymore. | /r/seduction | 10/04/13 09:19 PM |
| 4 | So now I'm able to approach, get numbers, kino, go for the kiss. But how do I get her to my place?Reminds me of that show New Girl where the girl in the coffee shop said "can I get a strong double shot mocha latte?" (or something like that) and Schmidt said "We're not talking about coffee, are we..." | /r/seduction | 10/04/13 03:54 PM |
| 1 | What are some cool things that you wear that catch the ladies eye?For me it's my watch. It's nothing special really, fairly cheap, but it looks nice and people seem to take notice. I get compliments from guys and girls. | /r/seduction | 10/04/13 03:51 PM |
| 1 | As a girl, can we take your direct, lengthy eye contact with us as a sign of interest?Yeah it's fun to see that walking down the street. | /r/seduction | 05/04/13 09:37 PM |
| -1 | Looking around while talking to girlsI don't feel awkward when I'm doing it, so I don't see why it would appear awkward. Maybe I was doing it cuz I thought it was non-needy. | /r/seduction | 04/04/13 12:24 PM |
| 1 | How to answer "how old are you?"You changed your name to McLovin? | /r/seduction | 03/04/13 11:53 PM |
| 1 | How to answer "how old are you?"Neg city | /r/seduction | 03/04/13 11:52 PM |
| -3 | When facebook is the only means of contact, what's the most effective message to send?YOU WANT SUMMA THIS DOPE DICK? | /r/seduction | 03/04/13 07:08 PM |
| 1 | Text/Online game: Why do girls delay responses?I feel like it would be the opposite. If I only like a girl as a friend, I'll respond quickly to a text. It's the girls I'm interested in that I reply to more slowly for the purpose of not being needy. In essence, I'm hoping that my delaying will cause her to ask "why isn't he responding, doesn't he like me?" and make her want to chase me. | /r/seduction | 01/04/13 04:06 AM |
| 1 | Girls say that they've met me beforeThat happened to me twice this past weekend. I had one girl at the bar say to me "I keep running into you" and another claimed that she had seen me at a different bar. I had never seen either of them before. Haha, building social value I guess. | /r/seduction | 01/04/13 03:58 AM |
| 1 | Advice for guys that don't drink?I recently gave up alcohol and actually realized that my game is BETTER when I'm sober. If I go to the bar with the intent of drinking, I'm just gonna keep buying drinks and talking bullshit with my friends until I'm drunk. During that time, chances are I'm not being proactive with women. Not drinking and just standing around is super awkward, so it forces me to approach people. Dancing is another story for me though. I found that I can confidently approach people sober, but I sure as hell can't… | /r/seduction | 01/04/13 03:51 AM |
| 1 | Something to remember when family or friends hate on you for learning seductionYeah, people act like we're douchebags that just want to get laid and nothing else. Maybe some of us are just sick of being lonely, ya know? | /r/seduction | 01/04/13 03:39 AM |
| 1 | Confidence without cockiness?I associate that song with lifting since my gym plays it like fifty times a day. Every time I lift it's like "only got 20 dollars in my pockettt" | /r/seduction | 31/03/13 09:28 PM |
| 1 | After the opener, some of us freeze up and don't know what to do. What are some great transitions?I guess you gotta judge when the time is right. Don't spend too long on any one set, though. If she's giving you IOIs, why not ask for her number sooner rather than later? That way she won't have a chance to walk away before you decide to ask. As far as getting a k-close, that really depends on kino. If things are getting physical and she's getting close, or staring at your lips or something, go for it. Mystery even advised just saying "wanna kiss me?" and seeing if she says yes. I've done that,… | /r/seduction | 31/03/13 12:04 AM |
| 4 | Simple technique that can help a tonDon't fake it till you make it, fake it till you BECOME it. I like that. | /r/seduction | 30/03/13 12:23 AM |
| 1 | How to be more confident in your penisJust make sure to delete the photo after. Wouldn't want someone to accidentally stumble upon that in your files. "Holy shit, this guy keeps dick pics on his laptop? Wtf." | /r/seduction | 29/03/13 06:59 PM |
| 1 | Going alone to bars and initiating?You gotta hit the ground running. Anything to get yourself started and in a social mood is a must. Even if you run into a guy friend you know or just start talking to a group of dudes, whatever. As long as you're not standing around doing nothing. Once you start talking to somebody, you'll get into a more social mood and have the confidence to start approaching girls. Plus, you never know who's friends with who. | /r/seduction | 29/03/13 06:55 PM |
| 0 | Confidence without cockiness?"Walk into the club like 'waddup I got a big cock'" | /r/seduction | 29/03/13 06:53 PM |
| 1 | It seems girls pay more attention to guys that hang out with girls.Pre-selection is a powerful force, my friend. Last night I went out and opened twice the number of sets I was aiming for, danced with a girl, and got kissed on the cheek by a girl wearing lipstick (and it left a mark for everyone to see). By the end of the night, people had seen me talking to all these girls and I had built up a tremendous amount of social value. Before leaving, I had a girl chasing ME. So yeah, social value does work. | /r/seduction | 29/03/13 06:48 PM |
| 0 | The 'Are you asking me on a date?' reply"I don't know. If you were me, would you be asking you on a date?" I like to say weird shit like that. | /r/seduction | 29/03/13 06:47 PM |
| 0 | What do you say after kissing a girl?"I've tasted better" | /r/seduction | 29/03/13 06:45 PM |
| 3 | After the opener, some of us freeze up and don't know what to do. What are some great transitions?If there's any interest, I just ask her name and introduce myself. If I can tell she isn't feeling me, I move on and look for another set. Then you get into boring personal shit like "are you from around here" or "do you go to [insert university name here if applicable]" blah blah blah | /r/seduction | 29/03/13 06:42 PM |
| 2 | Overcoming negative influencesThis is a subreddit about seduction, in case you weren't aware. If you don't agree with it, then GTFO. | /r/seduction | 24/03/13 09:55 PM |
| 1 | Overcoming negative influencesI think it sounds good to go under the radar. It doesn't have to be something that everybody knows about. That was the decision I made earlier today. | /r/seduction | 24/03/13 04:50 AM |
| 1 | Does this pick up stuff actually work?I had a friend who told me, word for word, "just be yourself. Girls like guys who are nice and treat them like people." I almost laughed out loud. He thinks it's "creepy" for me to want to learn seduction and approach girls in bars. He keeps telling me "when the time is right, it will happen." Like I'm just supposed to sit around and wait for her to come to me or something. No hot girl is gonna show up at my door in the middle of the night and say "let's bang." Friends hold you back sometimes. | /r/seduction | 23/03/13 04:27 PM |
| 1 | Being yourself... this finally clicked for meSeriously...you got mad balls bro. Well done. But yeah, how the fuck did that work?? | /r/seduction | 07/01/13 06:00 AM |
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