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Dude you weren't supposed to reply to that. Take his advice and run with it.
/r/askTRP23/11/15 03:22 AM
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Yeah, while I think that porn over-use is an epidemic and that guys should start waking up and realizing what it's doing to them, the nofap movement is treating it like full-on alcoholism or something. Why is it that if I go on vacation for 2 weeks and I don't have my laptop, porn doesn't cross my mind at all. And the urge to masturbate is attenuated because of how busy I am? I think most people who think they are addicted to porn are really just compelled to do it because they're anxious, it's …
/r/askTRP23/11/15 02:53 AM
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Props for being able to do it. I tried it, actually. Managed to stay on softcore for a few weeks but those old neural connections weren't having any of it. Cold turkey seems to work best for me, but I go on the fritz when I hit ~ day 100.
/r/askTRP23/11/15 12:54 AM
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True, but I see this coming to a screeching halt soon when his novelty wears off. The "refinement" I speak of really just boils down to not taking her questions seriously.
/r/TheRedPill25/10/15 01:36 PM
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You didn't pass with flying colors because you took all of her questions seriously. If a child told you that your engine could be louder, would you have gotten pissed off? The only reason she texted you is because she isn't used to going out with guys like you and she is aroused. But only for the moment. Deep down she knows you can be manipulating because you are already catering to every bullshit statement she's mouthing.
/r/TheRedPill24/10/15 01:15 PM
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/u/gaylubeoil gave me a really specific piece of advice for women that also extends to the average person. It is to replace some of my highfalutin, theoretical ways of expressing things with specific , visualizable examples. What I've noticed so far is that it's easier for people to listen to me, and it also has the added benefit of making them more engaged. I can see it in their eyes, it's extremely obvious. When you're also making the example/story a bit funny, it's like a fricken social homer…
/r/TheRedPill19/10/15 09:49 PM
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Yeah, exactly. This will work out much better short- and long-term. If can share some idea for rushing/events if you want
/r/TheRedPill11/10/15 10:29 PM
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Why is this all about extremes for you? Just take down the page, get rid of the name, and start a new one from scratch that looks just as standard as every other frat out there. Don't write the words "red" or "redpill" anywhere.Get rid of the red colour too. As for the rushes and members...I probably wouldn't even mention anything about the community and this sub until way after they've joined. If you're doing your job correctly, they should have it figured out that you guys have something quite…
/r/TheRedPill11/10/15 12:47 PM
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Genetic sexual attraction. It happens more than you care to know between close relatives who meet for the first time as adults. Can't believe how blown out of proportion this particular instance is compared to every other one we don't hear about.
/r/TheRedPill19/02/15 01:07 AM
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In my only useful post, I talk about the danger of the term "outcome independence". Here's an example: "Nah, didn't approach any girls last night ... I was too busy having fun with my pals. Besides, I'm outcome independent so it doesn't really matter. Whatever happens happens" I used that term to avoid discomfort many times. Funnily enough, it was when I put the most pressure on myself to approach, and when I set myself up to be disappointed if I didn't, that I was getting the most phone numbers…
/r/TheRedPill11/02/15 11:29 PM
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Here's an article worth reading. "Why Cambodians Never Get Depressed". http://www.npr.org/blogs/goatsandsoda/2015/02/02/382905977/why-cambodians-never-get-depressed
/r/TheRedPill10/02/15 03:09 AM
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ugh, thanks for writing this.
/r/TheRedPill05/12/14 12:51 AM
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Good, but I have something better. Manual coffee grinder.http://www.amazon.ca/s/ref=nb_sb_noss_1?url=search-alias%3Dkitchen&field-keywords=manual+coffee+grinder She'll get a workout cranking out those grounds, and they both get to enjoy the freshest coffee money can buy.
/r/TheRedPill04/12/14 01:39 AM
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Me too. I've been cursed with bad looks, but as it happens I have the textbook cranial shape for the clipped/bald look. source: my gay ex-hairstylist from Paris
/r/TheRedPill04/12/14 01:34 AM
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Eh, not Backpage unless you know the chick's been vetted. Try to find a review board, or better yet - a small cohort or independent escorts who work together.
/r/TheRedPill11/11/14 02:40 PM
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I think that's a bizarre question if you think about. What is it about eating food that I enjoy? What is it about sleeping that I enjoy?
/r/askTRP24/09/14 03:34 PM
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Yeah, it is boring. My sense of humor is 100% wry and I don't know how to change that.
/r/trpGAME03/09/14 07:39 PM
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I'm not. If there was someone like me out there ( because clearly I'm lying about lifting , being social, and doing the shit I love) it would be hard to prove on /r/trpgame. No, my self esteem isn't great. But I'm not allowed to be that way because I once read TRP materials and now I should already be banging every girl that grazes my arm.
/r/trpGAME03/09/14 10:42 AM
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I'm 2 for 3. I pretty much open 7s-10s. 9s and 10s are the nicest though. I think it's because nobody daygames them .... as opposed to the 7s,8s.
/r/trpGAME03/09/14 12:00 AM
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Legal trouble for talking to someone? Don't think so. Empty threat. It'll be hard to not be paranoid about it, but take it from all of us here that he's trying to intimidate you and you have nothing to worry about.
/r/askTRP30/08/14 08:14 AM
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Ironically, you motivate yourself by working.
/r/askTRP30/08/14 01:50 AM
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Eh, I'm supposed to start Krav in 3 weeks.... never did martial arts before and I thought this was my ticket to practical self-defense. What do I do?
/r/TheRedPill29/08/14 11:21 PM
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Yup. I used to feel entitled and unworthy simultaneously. Everything is set into alignment when we feel that we're worth a damn and that we're capable of achieving what anyone else can though work. It may sound obvious to many here, but it's something that took me years to accept. Accepting that you're just as able to succeed as the next day places you in a position of personal responsibility and accountability. I only took on that challenge as I matured.
/r/TheRedPill28/08/14 03:10 AM
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The girls I knew who claimed to be "sarcastic" were by far the least so, and had the worst sense of humor to boot.
/r/TheRedPill25/08/14 11:29 PM
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My deepest condolences. Just try to be with people as often as you can, and try to slowly incorporate some nice , relaxing or fun activities into your day to help you get back to normal, even if you're not so into it.
/r/askTRP10/08/14 05:45 PM
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I work with two kinds of people in the startup world - lifestyle chasers and visionaries. The lifestyle chasers don't give a fuck about what they're building and just want to exit so they can scrape together a pseudo-luxury life , the visionaries want to effect change , achieve their potential , do good, and be remembered. Which one are you?
/r/askTRP04/07/14 12:33 AM
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If you want to develop your operating philosophy from the ground up, start with Aristotle's entire Organon and later the Nichomachean Ethics.
/r/askTRP16/06/14 06:17 PM
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I think that for you guys who grew up with porn, you owe it to yourselves to experiment with abstinence. It's only when I stopped did I realize that it zapped my sex drive. I still "thought" of women, I still "craved" them and still went out. But the feeling I got when I wasn't jacking off(to or without porn) gave me a more primordial drive for intimacy. I would say the horniness was more "groinal" and less "mental". Definitely made me come off more aggressive. Chatting up girls after I just jac…
/r/TheRedPill15/06/14 05:33 PM
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That's it. I ate a bit more than maintenance, not much more. And I also exercise a lot so I didn't get any weight really. And even then, eating a bit over 2200 cal, I felt bloated and shitty. I think it's because I eat really small meals and I didn't give my stomach enoguh time to expand. (stomach is a muscle, I guess)
/r/TheRedPill22/05/14 08:50 PM
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I fucking tried. All I got was bloating, massive sweaty shits, and a feeling of perpetual malaise. I can't eat a lot. I'm just so damn tiny and it's pissing me off. Why is my back mostly shoulder blades? I don't get why weaker guys at the gym have backs that are filled with muscle and mine is just a plank with two shoulder blades poking out. It's so fucking confusing.
/r/TheRedPill22/05/14 12:21 PM
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Cool reply. I'm guilty of not eating the way I should, but I know I don't "eat big" and I don't pretend to. I get bloated if I eat more than a chicken breast and half a cup of rice. Yeah, I've "tried" to eat more but I could never pull it off. I'm not going to put up with whey farts and perpetual stomach cramps just to put on another few pounds. I stick to my maintenance calories +/- a few depending on training. Usually I just add carbs, remove fat on lifting days, and I remove carbs, add fat on…
/r/TheRedPill04/04/14 11:46 PM
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I wouldn't panic. Low body fat and good cardiovascular health come before muscle mass in terms of keeping healthy. You don't need a gym to attain those 2.
/r/TheRedPill04/04/14 09:29 PM
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REALLY? I've been asking myself how the fuck these guys are growing clouds in their delts and they STILL lift less than me. I guess I'm not crazy.
/r/TheRedPill04/04/14 09:25 PM
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I'm the middle body type. Endo? I'm not skinny. I'm a 44R for suits.5''9, 175lbs.
/r/TheRedPill04/04/14 03:37 PM
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i change between 3x6, 5x5, and rev.pyramid. i also take 2 weeks off lifting every 3 months apprx to do bodyweight stuff and cardio.(and to also rest my joints) The thing with me is I hate eating. I wonder what calories would do.
/r/TheRedPill04/04/14 03:36 PM
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The only thing that I guess bothers me is that I have round face, and you'd never know I was defined unless I was shirtless. Ok , ok. Be shirtless more often. I'll try my best.
/r/TheRedPill04/04/14 03:21 PM
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I'm starting to realize that. It's happened 4 times so far...guys telling me I need to work my arms more so I can appear as strong as I am. Say what now?
/r/TheRedPill04/04/14 03:13 PM
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One thing I don't understand. I'm in the 6''0 , in the 175-180lb range, and although I'm lifting at the intermediate level, I look really "small" compared to the guys at the gym who lift even less than me with broken form. Is it because I'm not doing accessory lifts as often as they are? (the ones that make someone "look" bigger, like arms, traps, shoulders, etc) I've had guys at the gym tell me they wouldn't believe I could lift the weight I do if they hadn't seen me do it. Not sure how to take…
/r/TheRedPill04/04/14 03:06 PM
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There you go.
/r/TheRedPill12/03/14 04:08 PM
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I'm still trying to figure out when to be my usual "this is beyond my control, stop trying to get people to behave a certain way around me" and when to lay it down when a man or woman is treating me in a way that I dislike. (rude, disrespectful, condescending, etc).
/r/TheRedPill12/03/14 02:33 PM
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Totally agree here. I still think that at the "quantum" level, it boils down to raw personal volition. Nobody pressures anyone to do anything, and I do really think that there are still a select few (even when cooperating directly or indirectly) who want to make change for the heck of it. Those guys are the real heroes. A lot of people take the Objecvitist standpoints out of context. It's not about "not needing people", but more like "not needing anything except for your own mind to achieve your…
/r/TheRedPill12/03/14 02:24 PM
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Your success is yours, and has nothing to do with other peoples' knowledge of it. If you feel that you need to tell people about it to "own" it, then that's up to you. But ... why do others need to know about it so that you can "own" it? I personally find that not disclosing my ambitions, dreams, and successes if I don't have to reinforces the very personal relationship I have with them. Maintaining some amount of privacy and/or mystique does not equate to being unable to "own your success". The…
/r/askTRP27/01/14 10:24 PM
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Try it out before you tell yourself you have no confidence.
/r/askTRP21/01/14 09:09 PM
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You're right, that should be the very minimum which on its own should be more than enough to restore people's peripheral vision.
/r/TheRedPill20/01/14 04:10 PM
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If that's how it is, that is perfectly healthy. From my experience, I can get better quality friendship from guys, but it's not a law of nature.
/r/askTRP16/01/14 05:11 AM
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1) Tell her in advance you'll be nervous, and ask her to be assertive in foreplay and undressing. 2) Your goal isn't to "please" her whatsoever. Your goal is to be a fucking animal and just go at it however you want. I think you can manage. edit: meant it as a reply to this, sorry for deleting.
/r/askTRP13/01/14 11:02 PM
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I wouldn't recommend it per se, just saying what worked for me and what may work for you. Another valid option is to realize that with the right type of hard work, you can probably get laid in under a year, and you won't have the "stigma" hanging above you, even though IMO the stigma exists for no reason. It's really just meaningless in-and-out, and you'll probably experience it at one point or another in your life. This is better overall but if you are like I was, you'll want some immediate rel…
/r/askTRP11/01/14 01:47 PM
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Shucks, I really feel for you. Sounds crazy but have you looked into homeopathic stuff for fun?
/r/askTRP11/01/14 02:53 AM
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What's preventing you from seeing someone about getting testosterone ? It's worth however much they may charge you.
/r/askTRP11/01/14 01:58 AM
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You're just jealous of her natural, effortless beauty and the fact that she has a TV show. Pshh.
/r/TheRedPill10/01/14 08:21 PM
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For some reason this story reminds me of those poor Australian DJs who were convinced by the mob that they killed Kate's nurse with a long-distance prank call.
/r/TheRedPill10/01/14 06:52 PM
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http://i.imgur.com/OOA8QzF.jpg This is a cool infographic you might like. Maybe you've seen it before.
/r/TheRedPill10/01/14 06:07 PM
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Hope you've read Ayn Rand's essays.
/r/TheRedPill10/01/14 02:47 AM
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Same here. Hardest , but most rewarding classes I ever took were in logic. I got high off that shit
/r/TheRedPill09/01/14 10:59 PM
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This is why Greek philosophy needs to find its way back to high schools. People don't have the tools to think rationally, so they make shit up ad-hoc as they go on through life all the way through adulthood, and condition themselves to not see the contradictions in their moral fibers, just because it might hurt their ego and make them feel like they've been lying to others and to themselves their whole lives. I feel really bad for them.
/r/TheRedPill09/01/14 07:34 PM
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shitlord.patriarchy. That one will be remembered.
/r/TheRedPill09/01/14 07:26 PM
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By doing an activity, you are by default not in a meditative state. I get where you're coming from, but I suggest trying it for a bit to notice the difference. Meditation ,focus,and relaxation are all very different from one another
/r/TheRedPill09/01/14 12:42 PM
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You won't get a good experience because you probably won't be totally attracted to the girl and the sex will be bad. I became complacent after I saw her, and then became depressed by the fact that finding sex organically was really still as difficult as always. Seeing another woman for a second time to satisfy that hunger again is a risky, unsustainable, and unrewarding move. I really do see similarities between porn and paying for sex...they're way too easy to access, rob you of time or money, …
/r/askTRP08/01/14 02:40 PM
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I payed for it once and I don't regret it. I got the "virginity" obsession out of my system, the shroud of penetration was lifted and I continued on with my life. edit: protection for everything, man.
/r/askTRP08/01/14 03:25 AM
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Why are people still willing to risk their shit with sexting? Seriously, I'm curious.
/r/askTRP08/01/14 01:00 AM
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I tried this out on and off and found that talking loudly stops almost all interruptions. People also seem to listen better and take me more seriously.
/r/becomeaman31/12/13 12:44 AM
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We always hear of people who complain about circumstance before their own behavior, but I still can't decide on whether or not I should move out for a better social life and independence...mostly because I need cash for a company I'm trying to start
/r/TheRedPill21/12/13 07:49 PM
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I thought I did explain it? The post wasn't meant to be polar so sorry about that.
/r/TheRedPill29/11/13 11:22 PM
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Great symphony.
/r/TheRedPill29/11/13 10:44 PM
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Surf the flow, steer the ship. Yes.
/r/TheRedPill29/11/13 09:14 PM
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Same. The absolute worst is "I'm (they're) only human". OH MY GAWD. Yeah. ONLY human. Good thing they're nothing else.
/r/TheRedPill29/11/13 09:13 PM
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Yup. Good alternative translations.
/r/TheRedPill29/11/13 09:11 PM
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"Oh look, here I am having fun with a friend and life is great. I don't need to bother approaching women tonight. Afterall, I AM outcome independent". Basically, I rationalized not talking to women I liked quite often, under the pretense that I didn't have to if I didn't want to. Obviously, I'm not telling anyone here that their take on those philosophies is the same as mine. I'm saying how I took them literally, and it eventually led to complete crisis of faith in what I was trying to achieve a…
/r/TheRedPill29/11/13 09:06 PM
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What I said was that accepting popular philosophy at face value is dangerous. It's exactly what I did, and the problem was I didn't use any critical thinking. I'm also making a comment about society here. I think that people can't even identify or explain their beliefs, and more often than not, they are contradictory. edit: I totally agree with your last statement. You should have written this post, not me.
/r/TheRedPill29/11/13 05:46 PM
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Yeah, I was emotionally detached from my mom. She was uninvolved with my life, completely. Weird. And I do remember that Tomassi article.Huh...
/r/askTRP22/11/13 02:04 AM
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I did the TRP reading, and it helped me realize why it is that 9/10 girls I would talk to were all about circumstantial stuff and how they never communicated clearly. They do irritate me, often. To be honest, I was always a bit biased towards them in that sense but I never knew how to deal with it. I know I need to stop whining. I know the post was a bit meta, but it's how I feel.I'm stuck in a place of such strong wanting that it's slowly paralyzing me and I need a way out. But you're right, I …
/r/askTRP22/11/13 01:40 AM
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My mind is my startup right now, it's so crazy. But FYI: surgery is going to run me $15,000. I'll have to go on braces for a year before surgery ($5,000). After surgery, my jaws will be wired for 2 months (no eating solids, essentially) , recovery will take a few more months, and there is a chance my jaws could revert back to where they were previously. I've been to the consultations and they're all about the same deal. Worth it? edit: Yeah, money is my #1 priority right now. I'm struggling, but…
/r/askTRP22/11/13 01:28 AM
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Yeah, but wouldn't it suck if I left this earth without having at least tasted that fruit? I've grown up thinking it was impossible, but I'm ready to put that thinking aside and make it happen. I'm in my 20s, and I really think now is the time to learn, especially if I expect to be any good in my 30s.
/r/askTRP21/11/13 09:17 PM
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Actually I just got back from a big to-do event with the most beautiful women imaginable. It was a design-related meeting, and there were girls from a modeling agency there. As much as I tried to stay calm, I was going nuts.
/r/askTRP21/11/13 09:07 PM
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Thanks dude. I'm trying hard. You know, I hope this post doesn't come off as one about low self-image. I actually think i'm OK. I'm just trying to figure out how to deal with my predicament in a rational way. I want to learn to play the game with the hand I'm dealt. In the meantime, I'm blindfolded.
/r/askTRP21/11/13 08:56 PM
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Good chance this will go down as "The Watch Fiasco of '13".It sounds like she's more interested in proving that she's ready to buy you a watch than actually buying you a watch. I'd tell her no right away.
/r/askTRP17/11/13 09:04 PM
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Interesting, you are most probably correct about your suspicions. In the back of my mind, I expected to at least develop some form of friendship with her so I could meet her friends, which I know factually are hot.It seems my last ties to college are gone... Unless I start auditing classes and acting as a student, I need to start looking elsewhere. Thanks ps. thanks for not mistaking my genuine innocence on the matter for trolling, as a lot of people do.
/r/askTRP15/11/13 10:50 PM
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nb. I know it didn't pan out with her because I was incongruent and my actions weren't in line with my feelings at all.I was all over the place. So I admit that I can't expect to progress if I keep pulling that shit. But I feel like maybe understanding this situation with the girl might illuminate something I'm doing very wrong in general...I mean, why would she ignore me completely? Does she like me, but doesn't want to talk because she thinks I'll just waste her time?Is she shy? Nto shy enough…
/r/askTRP15/11/13 03:09 AM
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Contextual, almost sure about it
/r/askTRP09/10/13 05:25 PM
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She just texted me. Birthday party tomorrow. Pre-drinks at her house, followed by a strip joint. From what I gather, it's going to be mostly girls. Either she wants me there because she wants me, or I'm non-threatening enough to be considered one of the gang. Not interested in going, and definitely not the strip club. But my heart is telling me otherwise. I feel like it's just another opportunity to practice and see what I can make of it. At the same time, I don't' want to be untrue to myself. S…
/r/askTRP09/10/13 03:14 PM
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Wow. And all along I was trying to figure out this thing that happened to me a while back. My friend met up with a lady friend and asked me to come. We didn't know she would bring a friend herself. Anyhow, my buddy had an emergency and had to leave so it's just me and the two girls. (His friend was the 8, the other girl was a 7) I just kept the conversation flowing, the 8 was super nice and the 7 just wasn't talking very much. Out of nowhere the 7 starts harassing me about my relationship with m…
/r/askTRP06/10/13 01:00 PM
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Fucking A. Well-worded.
/r/askTRP05/10/13 12:10 AM
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I meant to say...the behavior that he described of being all relaxed and carefree, but chivalrous yet decidedly masculine IS who I am. I know that that's the real me, deep down . I just need to figure out how to break out of the shell . I'm either serious or goofy, too focused or too distracted...all because I'm overanalyzing my behavior. I just want to be fucking calm and happy exactly as I am.
/r/askTRP04/10/13 06:43 PM
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Probably. I just have a fucking good memory.
/r/askTRP04/10/13 02:30 PM
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Hey mrust, Not sure if you remember this, but worth a try. Checked in with the girl a couple times recently to see what's up, got nothing back. No text or call. Looking back on it, I didn't really like her. I've guaranteed myself that I'm not saying that naively, to soften any feelings of having made a mistake. I genuinely wasn't interested in her, and that's fine. I had fun. But here's what I meant to mention. I actually drove by her apartment a few weeks ago and figured why the fuck not just c…
/r/askTRP
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Yup, I've done a few stints of 3-4 months over the past 3 years. Everytime I get close, I lose my shit and end up back on the wagon. Not getting regular sex does not help with this at all, and unfortunately it's one of my rationalizations when I'm about to watch porn again for the first time after 3-4 months of abstinence. 'Dude, you're not getting laid any time soon. Porn isn't the problem, it's your attitude and your lifestyle, so just go for it and put this nofap bullshit aside' Gets me every…
/r/askTRP
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Thanks for replying. For me, it's pretty difficult up to the first month or so. Then the second and third months are relatively easy. Around that time, I start to feel a pretty serious need for a release, so I go for it, without using porn. What happens is formulaic: I start masturbating more, and I start experiencing chaser effects. Before I know it, I'm back on the wagon.
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