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Best.
/r/askTRP10/06/21 10:26 AM
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Plate ASAP. Get that emotion in to hard work for more gains. Life is full of surprises..
/r/askTRP10/06/21 10:25 AM
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Yo bro, Firstly, you have a right to feel so, because you are a human being. Feel it, enjoy this feeling, because it means that you are alive. The corona problem is way out of hand My story, at the moment, is very similar. Recently broke up with a girl who thought I will marry. We have a 2 year old. So messed up situation. BUT I started to get my sh*t together - not for girls, but for me - for my value as a man, for my life path and as you are from India, you will know - started to get intereste…
/r/askTRP02/06/21 12:13 PM
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I suggest Vedic astrologer (not the western), you could get some interesting information regarding careers and the path.
/r/askTRP02/06/21 07:25 AM
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Your inner gut told you the answer. I only suggest one thing - remember, people with whom you are spending time with influences not only your thoughts, but life in general.
/r/askTRP24/05/21 11:29 AM
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Yo warrior, Im saying this from my heart and experience. I was still out and she gave me a blunt response. You are progressing, on your path, a king, a warrior - it is your path and no women earned a right to get you out of your path - only you are responsible for your future, only you can achieve your future goals. She did not find you worthy, this is why there was a blunt response. It is called FOG method which is a form of manipulation - (working with fear, obligation and guilt). She wants to…
/r/askTRP24/05/21 11:05 AM
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GTFO. If woman dont unserstand building future and is not interested in solutions - suggesting. It is only victim mindset and frame game. Of course, its sad that you dont have time, but imagine far worse scenario, when you have nothing - you think she will help? If nagging and manipulations started already when you work for your future as a man - what can come next? Plenty of fish in the sea, but you are your own life master and what should be learned, will be learned.
/r/askTRP13/05/21 08:37 PM
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My bro met a girl in a pub, we went smoking outside and it was 10 seconds till their lips met and stayed together for quite some time. Before that, it was sahara for him as well - no interest in girls, just pure work and spending time with family and friends. Everything comes with right time and right circumstances perhaps.
/r/askTRP13/05/21 08:30 PM
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First - make you confident Then - Issues. Based on your situation, I remembered a story - problem with PUA skills is that guys can got into problems that after become real problems. Imagine, when you act like Orca, but inside you feel like Dolphin. You meet Orca - they are predators by nature, while you are in transition from Dolphin to Orca, Orca can kill, because it has to eat. From my experience, I was in transition - after a while, on step by step process got burned for real. Do not underest…
/r/askTRP13/05/21 12:45 PM
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Snu Snu, Now.
/r/askTRP12/05/21 10:09 AM
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Oh, man sorry (facepalm). Emotional attachment. Could be that she somewhat is better then other girls. Is it you need to level up or you are seeing girls who are lower level.
/r/askTRP11/05/21 10:06 AM
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And you said you nut as well - as it changes mindset. Im talking about nofap. It does not say anything about not seeing girls.
/r/askTRP11/05/21 09:11 AM
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Best solution for a man - be busy ;)
/r/askTRP11/05/21 07:40 AM
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If nut was released, then its tricky, no simple remedy. If nothing happened, then why to think about that? Its work, thats all. She ghosted you on a personality level - be busy, retrospect :)
/r/askTRP11/05/21 07:37 AM
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My suggestion is stop nutting and get outside and meet some people, do your stuff that increases value, experience new things. Of course when you nut - its easy, its available and it diminish your drive in life to act and pursue. Look up nofap, I totally suggest and girls really notice it (from my experience) - could be that perception does that, but it works. I recently broke up as well, getting my sh*t together and meanwhile spending more time with friends, family and when some girl will come …
/r/askTRP11/05/21 07:06 AM
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Dwayne Johnson, Vin Diesel, Jason Statham - something is common between them. Could be baldness, but could be drive in life that everyone adores.
/r/askTRP11/05/21 06:58 AM
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I understand your situation, been in similar, could be that everyone here were. By the idea, women are emotional beings, interested in women stuff. Could be that what drives her is not your personality but looks (maybe status as well?) Conversations are mainly about her? Thats standard entitlement what comes with lust - similar as sugar daddies and young models (what is common between them will be the focus - hard to explain, hope you understand my viewpoint). Don’t give me the not to date peopl…
/r/askTRP11/05/21 06:56 AM
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High desire at the start -> low desire at the end. A lot of people are that way, as more fire is burning at the start, eventually it drops, because of the main component - lust.
/r/askTRP10/05/21 02:38 PM
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Bro, What I have learned - greatest thing is not help, but an example. I asked myself, how people will take me seriously if I will be average Joe? How people will understand if they would not tasted the other side? When I recently started to be on the road to victory, I realized that people started to understand my point of view, asking more direct questions. Another thing is, when people get older, they loose ambition. That is just nature. After divorce - getting back on feet is very hard, with…
/r/askTRP05/05/21 10:15 AM
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Thanks bro.
/r/askTRP21/04/21 10:51 AM
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Thats completely different thing :) Im bending over attention seeking from her side, because of the Tinder society tendencies. Could be that she want you to be her another orbiter, but it could be even unconsciously - nature thing, because of her "guy friend" example. Another thing, girls who are sitting on Tinder always will have orbiters, because Tinder is their platform (because of response rate, attention rates in comparison to males etc. - women society). caught me with a faded hickey which…
/r/askTRP20/04/21 01:39 PM
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I just wanted to know what a reasonable expectation is with regards to male friendships It is matter of your preferences. There are guys who like open relationships, even with LTR at home. There are guys who like when her LTR is fooling around and they have orgasm because they like that she will return, knowing that she has nowhere to go. So many ppl, so many preferences - very hard to answer, when there is no information given about you, your experiences, your opinion on what you like and do no…
/r/askTRP20/04/21 12:36 PM
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I don’t really see him as a threat. Mistake spotted. They talk almost daily. Red flag spotted. Would you make it a dealbreaker if a girl was to keep a guy friend getting into a LTR if they were friends before? I have conflicting feelings on this and would like some other people’s perspectives Could be several things underneath this situation - orbiters, provided attention and validation seeking tendencies. From experience, if "guy friends" stay, every time there is a possibility of "something", …
/r/askTRP20/04/21 12:11 PM
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strapon till buss.
/r/askTRP19/04/21 09:34 AM
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Seems so similar to my story, but differences I see. I met a girl in my work (first mistake), she already had friends as males (orbiters maybe, but I saw that it was more like attention wh*re thing.; second mistake), who she dropped when I said that I am not interested in a girl with male friends. Long story, short, she has daddy issues and cheated with her ex, who is much older. That was the case - emotional deep seeded thing, which I found out only after my eyes where fully open as big as red …
/r/askTRP19/04/21 06:44 AM
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I only can suggest investing in yourself first, then you will not think about anxiety so much. Lift bro. Or if you dont like weights - calisthenics, gymnastics, combat sports and sports overall - with training you get confidence as well and not only confidence - you grind, that trains self-discipline, you grind, that increases chances to meet like minded people etc.
/r/askTRP18/04/21 06:27 AM
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I have been finding her less attractive and thoughts of wanting to break up have been entering my head. Great topic. You are not obligated to do something, to anyone. The only promise is to yourself and it is to work within you frame, add a value to the life and to yourself. My father said one great thing - you do not eat because you have to, you eat because you want to eat. Need to hear what your body tells. Conor Mcgreogor had a nice quote when he was in his prime and not crossing boundaries: …
/r/askTRP16/04/21 06:45 AM
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Thats very nice response you got there. I could only add previous comment - if her focus is not you, next.
/r/askTRP15/04/21 03:05 PM
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Because of regret and fault - inner hamster that understands consequences after the act, but emotionally at that moment she thaught differently, choosing the other.
/r/askTRP14/04/21 06:01 PM
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If she is toxic, and there is a sugar daddy involved then.. just imagine if you were married, with kids and on your 50 year old birthday found out that she is cheating.
/r/askTRP14/04/21 03:03 PM
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Jiu jitsu, wrestling, both are ideal for short guys. Look up Henry Cejudo, Demetrious Johnson, greats tips for fighting taller guys.
/r/askTRP14/04/21 02:55 PM
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Before girl said that guys who are jacked arent attractive - too much jacked. At the same day, at the evening, I pounded her. Btw I am 5'4.
/r/askTRP14/04/21 02:50 PM
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phone upside down and near her, everywhere emotional detachment strange free time gaps between work, school etc. accusing you of cheating (mirror effect) FOG manipulations when you address issue with communication or subject that could bring up specific details all of a sudden boost of new, sexy clothes, perfume, underwear and the best - more interested in sex with LTR partner
/r/askTRP14/04/21 02:44 PM
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From my experience, daddy issues, big red flag.
/r/askTRP14/04/21 02:35 PM
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Thats just a nature. When clothes are washed daily, they lose color over time. Imagine how many of them were picking wrong decisions and now sitting on the internet and hoping for the white knight :))
/r/askTRP13/04/21 06:43 PM
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Potential orbiters and white knights.
/r/askTRP12/04/21 08:19 PM
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Trp strengthens my relationship with myself. The most important relationship. LTR when its done after pill - changes drastically.. :) because beta cook needed simping, but understood that something is not right. Needed to follow the white rabbit.
/r/askTRP11/04/21 07:10 PM
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She is leaving the country somewhere This matters. Your focus on things matter. Her attitude towards you matter. As I said, this all somehow does not stick together.
/r/askTRP10/04/21 12:32 PM
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I feel a test. Probably want to see if you are from rubber or from steel based on her text(she wants you to agree and want to see if you are agreeable), but is quite interested somehow to understand you better. The game is on -> either you agree, deciding where to go (plan things), also to mentiion - maintaining rules, so she could follow or deny if you really love spending time at your place and go for a walk with coffee. Some women love walks, coffee, netflix etc., some like to go out on natur…
/r/askTRP10/04/21 12:25 PM
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Have you wondered, why you are asking on red pill forum about: 1.) To schedule a date first or not 2.) To ask her when she leaves In a case: 1.) If she would be interested, that kind of information would be unfolded 2.) If you are writing here about "to write or not" - why? is it better a date before or after the trip in your opinion Best time to date is when you feel like it. No need to fake something, its not PUA games, its your life and way to be better self, be a successful man.
/r/askTRP10/04/21 12:14 PM
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Life is interesting - when it needs, it shows obstacles. I refused to believe in that - now, after stepping on nails -> on the road to the victory with bumpy roads and belief in myself, always asking the question - "why".
/r/askTRP10/04/21 11:58 AM
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I thought for quite a time how to answer this and came up with the question - What are your life goals and inspirations, the value you want to add to this world?
/r/askTRP10/04/21 10:18 AM
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I would add my 5 cents - though hobbies you can find new friends and lots of people who would not be only as drinking buddies. New hobbies perhaps? Exploring the market?
/r/askTRP09/04/21 11:50 AM
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The basis gist is that i should focus on something that drives me? Thats the key of living and enjoying life! Im trying to manage that, life has ups and downs, but overall harvested value when pays off, thats the best. Now that you're saying this, i realise that i was super confident when i was focusing on my career & my exams & other goals in my life. gud, now get them tiger.
/r/askTRP09/04/21 11:09 AM
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yo I was needy and this feeling shows up sometimes - but - I learned that neediness comes from the situation that I am not satisfied with myself or focus on wrong things in life. To be self-satisfied and focus on people/things which do not make you needy could be the key?
/r/askTRP09/04/21 11:03 AM
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And then sighed motherfucker. Next.
/r/askTRP09/04/21 07:58 AM
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What coaches are saying - Moderation is the key. If you overwork - you gain nothing, if youre lifting less then needed - again, you gain nothing. Progress is in consistency, not overload. You do reps, when you can do normally 10, put some more weight.
/r/askTRP09/04/21 07:56 AM
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She isn’t concerned of being alone, there is an abundance of attention and sex for her to have easily And for males as well, just it needs to be done differently. See, from vedic viewpoint, women grow up already with value - what her mother teach, what her father teach. Man grow up zero, because we gain from what we earn by ourselves (value, experience) - we learn. More we learn, more we understand, more we become Gurus. Women at peack = 16-23, Men = ~35 / The rational Male. We’re fucking worthl…
/r/askTRP09/04/21 07:51 AM
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Yesterday I talked to my fellow rp friend. He said one thing - it all does no matter - focus on your life, because women focus on sinking ships. Understand that it is brilliant that shes your ex, not current. World have tons of girls, tons of possibilities! From anxiety experience, I should say - embrace yourself, feel happy that you feel it, because without it, we would not learn. Thats Stoicism. Thats Vedic philosophy. Before anyone says fuck other girls, im not focused on that right now. That…
/r/askTRP09/04/21 07:35 AM
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let myself go in terms of fitness Have you read "The Rational male"? Fitness is not for women, but for your overall health and looks. I get the pit feeling in my stomach It will be, dumping hurts, but thats why we need experience. Look from the side that it could be worse, you could have kiddo and debts and could be dumped when you are 50y old. (I have life examples, and that sheet hurts even to see from the side) my game skills lack and doesn't match up with my looks At the moment, I have not b…
/r/askTRP09/04/21 07:24 AM
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Agree on this! As my side-business is related to men's clothing - I could suggest some smart casual what could look on you great. Drop that school bag and find messenger or leather bag. there are stores, outlet stores, internet sites. Also shorts - pale white color looks awful - if youre 6'2, you can experiment more with colors, that I agree, but complimentary colors will look better and what I always say - better to wear darker colors below (pants etc.). Regarding shoes and socks, there is a cl…
/r/askTRP09/04/21 06:53 AM
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Hi! I could suggest finding not another hobby, but one thing that youre passionate about. Hobies are great, but on red pill topics is mentioned "grinding". Grinding could be business, grinding could be several jobs to increase your value, expand horizon on some specific topics.. For me, its psychology and side-business what I am passionate about. Another thing what I found that resonates with red pill thinking is the religion and philosophy, for example, vedic philosophy of life - what it should…
/r/askTRP09/04/21 06:41 AM
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Tq!
/r/askTRP08/04/21 01:52 PM
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Y'all live together, and it does making parenting a little easier, but do you want to live together? ? At the moment, I want, but if there will be losses, i will cut off. Who wanted to cohabitate in the first place She asked, and I thought why not. Have a written agreement set out between the two of you We are not married, about custody not such a worry as bad as for our child who will probably live without a father if her behavior wil not change (as it shifts so frequently to bad, because of he…
/r/askTRP08/04/21 01:14 PM
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ol! she's getting jealous bro! But emotionally distant, less intimate and it means less sex. Seems as playing on the "child field" (manipulation?). Also her anger issues come into play. Inner demons which are directed towards me, thats interesting to know why, if she cooks, cleans etc.
/r/askTRP08/04/21 12:44 PM
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yes, on point! And now she is losing interest (as it seems from my perspective) - less communication, less intimacy and sex as well. She dont want to argue - that what she says when asks for forgiveness.
/r/askTRP08/04/21 12:42 PM
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I’ve personally never been able to re establish frame(from the gutters, small things yes) and usually just cut my loses . -- Thanks for your personal view. Problem is that - thats me also. Never thought about reestablishing frame, always cut looses, but life gives lessons perhaps. is there something she still really likes about you or something you do that’s of some value to her? She never said or let me know it directly, or will bring this kind of info on the table due to jealousy. Asking for i…
/r/askTRP08/04/21 11:34 AM
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Thanks, food for thought.
/r/askTRP08/04/21 10:38 AM
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Thanks for feedback, will look up to info about maintaining the frame. This could be the reason. I assume, removing attention does not work, when she behaves bad, are there other options or it will be never ending story?
/r/askTRP08/04/21 10:32 AM
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