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| 2 | Is this normal. Do girls get off on making plans but not following through.Create female profile on FB, IG and Tinder and you will see why they behave like that. This will be eye opening, and you don't have to take some very hot women pics, 6-7 will do just fine. | /r/askTRP | 29/04/21 12:13 PM |
| 1 | My mom had a sudden jump in her SMV, and just recently she's been cooking a divorce after 26 years of marriage. I hate her guts for it and I don't know how to deal with the situation.Happened to me as well. Although I have to say that my father wasn't without faults, it was something on/off between them for 10 years and it finally ended up with divorce. Seeing something like that made me to think that I don't want to get married ever. Guy my mother ended up marrying was coming to our family runned business saying he was her cousin. This made me so fucking mad, I don't know am I going to be able to believe any other woman after seeing what my mother did and how manipulative s… | /r/askTRP | 26/04/21 07:19 AM |
| 2 | RP phase where you realize you got no friends anymore...I've been without friends for years before the redpill and it was lonely time, especially after finding the redpill. For the last couple of months I've decided to make some new friends and been in contact with some old ones. All I can say it better to have bluepilled friends than no friends at all. Socializing it's important, and it's not discussed here enough, because everybody here want to be some sigma male who don't need anybody, which is not good. Striving to be able to bee alone it's good … | /r/askTRP | 11/04/21 09:32 AM |
| 2 | is using delayers beta?As for the dick size, if you're willing to put in work you can increase it. I'm doing stretching exercises for two and half months now, everyday for 20 minutes and my dick is bigger 0.4" and girth increased 0.1-.0.2". 15 minutes of stretching and 5 minutes of kegels. My goal is to increase the size up to 7" and it was 5.5" when I started. This is about penis size, you can do something about it. As for the rest you must work on different things as well. | /r/askTRP | 11/04/21 08:27 AM |
| 2 | If you give her the best D she’s ever had, she will never leave youWhile I was reading this book my opinion is the man who let her sexuality out will have her. We know that all women are much more sexual than they are showing because a lot of guys will think of her as a slut if she tells what turns her on, her sexual fantasies etc. This is why women who don't fuck around a lot and have low body count can get addicted to a man who's not judgemental about her sexuality. I think that hipergamy will kick in if a guy offers only good sex and brings her sexuality out… | /r/askTRP | 05/04/21 05:00 AM |
| 1 | How do I get rid of my validation seeking mentality?The more you focus on yourself, the less will be important what others think about you. It's a process and it takes time, just as everything. If you think that you can stop looking for validation today, it won't work. As said, focus on things you like, try things that are interesting to you, try to find ways to have more fun, learn and educate on things that interest you and over time you would less and less seek validation and approval from others. | /r/askTRP | 03/04/21 12:05 PM |
| 2 | How accurate is Rollo in saying that "if a girl truly wants to bang you, she will make it happen/make it easy"?But this can be explained by getting a high interest from someone we don't like. I have girls showing me high interest for months and all of them are not attractive to me. I know that sex with these women will be easy and quick lay, but still I don't want them, it does come to physical attractivness, which is none on my side. On the other hand, the girls I want that are attractive and have a lot of guys going after them chasing and pursuing, and from my experience majority of them play hard to g… | /r/askTRP | 03/04/21 05:52 AM |
| 19 | How accurate is Rollo in saying that "if a girl truly wants to bang you, she will make it happen/make it easy"?Is this after you've been fucking her, or when you first time fucked her she made it easier? | /r/askTRP | 02/04/21 03:54 AM |
| 27 | How accurate is Rollo in saying that "if a girl truly wants to bang you, she will make it happen/make it easy"?Is this after you've been fucking her, or when you first time fucked her she made it easier? | /r/askTRP | 02/04/21 03:53 AM |
| 2 | Flake without response what next ?I've had this happened two times. I didn't use dating apps, I've met these girls in person and since we know each others I've setup s date. They didn't show up, but after a while, one in couple of days and the other in couple of weeks started showing up. One came 3-4 times on my work, the other showed up in a bar where I'm regular and then on my work. Both of them acted strange and I don't how to explain their expression on faces and behavior. I think it was a shit test, but don't know exactly w… | /r/askTRP | 27/03/21 07:54 PM |
| 7 | Girl says "I can't wait until we go out" the day before she posts "date night" on her story with another guy. Hard next?Yes they can, my cousins have done that, dating several guys at once, having multiple phone numbers for different guys. Same as us, they can explore different options and casually date multiple guys at the same time. Those who have options will do it. | /r/askTRP | 27/03/21 12:43 PM |
| 1 | How to not seem like a loner when you are one?You need to work on your confidence and social skills. What you need to do is to start going out by yourself at first. Then when you become more comfortable you can start chatting with people who work there, after that you can start chatting with people in these bars/clubs or where ever you are. You will feel anxious a lot at first, even just sitting alone will make you anxious, but you must go through it. When you start to chat with someone, say something about the weather or current situation,… | /r/askTRP | 22/03/21 01:31 PM |
| 3 | Today is the first time I shattered my oneitis after reading Pook and Anti'-Dump's Machine. I feel sick to my stomach at the fact that I wasted so much time chasing after my ex when the signs were clearly in my face. How long does it take for this embarrassment to fo away.?This is it. Those negative feelings will fade away over time and you'll won't resent it much. But this will only happen after putting an effort on improving. Staying the same will not solve anything. | /r/askTRP | 09/02/21 11:11 AM |
| 1 | The 80/20 of Modern Game: Where to Focus Your Efforts to Get the Most ResultsThx, I'm doing meditation, but it's not regular. Most of the time I do it in the morning when I arrive on work, because it's early and there's no customers. I would feel good for some time, and then anger would come back. At least I'm understanding what is happening and what I'm doing wrong and working on fixing it. Desperation is a big problem I need to cope with. I have hobbies and things I'm working on, I'm occupied for the majority of the day. But still, I think about girls and sex a lot. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/02/21 05:37 PM |
| 3 | The 80/20 of Modern Game: Where to Focus Your Efforts to Get the Most ResultsThis is something I'm having trouble with and this post describe a lot of mine mistakes. I am a vrigin, and althought I look very attractive, workingout 2+ years, have sixpack, I have good fashion sense, and this is all before me finding about trp. I was getting a lot of IOI's before, but I was always finding reasons do disqualify those girls, but in reality I was just afraid of approaching and talking to them. I was in the anger phase for a long time, at least a year. I was charismatic before a… | /r/TheRedPill | 03/02/21 07:12 AM |
| 1 | So I Gave NoFap a Try...Try not to ejaculate for that many days and let me know what happened. Guys who don't have sex shouldn't be doing this because it's not healthy. Idk about trp teaches us to become monks, you see even you are not a monk if you had/have sex. | /r/askTRP | 15/01/21 04:00 AM |
| 1 | So I Gave NoFap a Try...Did you went 40-50 days or how much you've been doing that without ejaculating once? Look, as for monks, we don't know do they masturbate or not, I hardly believe that they don't. And also I don't look at them as some kind of role models and someone to look up to. | /r/askTRP | 14/01/21 06:04 AM |
| 1 | So I Gave NoFap a Try...This is something that went through my head, and you elaborated this even further. I don't know their background, but I do think this is so we will suppress our sexuality and be ashamed of it. | /r/askTRP | 14/01/21 06:01 AM |
| 1 | So I Gave NoFap a Try...I get your point, I've shared my experience here. I never had any issues with in form of ED. I was just testing this to see what it was all about. And I almost fucked up my dick this way because I've had issues for at least a month with painful urinating. Everyone who have sex regularly don't need to bother with masturbating, you're fulfilling your need and ejaculate. Or body is not designed to hold sperm for that amount of times, because sperm is produced in our body, it's not something that we… | /r/askTRP | 13/01/21 08:42 PM |
| 5 | So I Gave NoFap a Try...From my experience the drive came from being sick of my life and the way it was going. I know when I started my journey I was still jacking regurarly. First I got into fitness, I started noticing changes how women look at me and behave toward me, which led me to RP because I wasn't able to understand what was happening and I was researching. Motivation and drive is something much deeper than just relating it to masturbation. | /r/askTRP | 13/01/21 08:32 AM |
| 6 | So I Gave NoFap a Try...Thx bro! I've tried and tested many things on my journey to improve and change myself to become someone I would self-respect and be proud of who I am. This is one of the things I've tried and saw it's a bullshit. | /r/askTRP | 13/01/21 08:09 AM |
| 4 | So I Gave NoFap a Try...I came within a minute or two after starting to masturbate, I was feeling throughtout the day that cum just want to go out. When I squeeze my dick I was able to feel it inside. When it comes about fantasies, what I was able to explore more of my sexuality and what I like and don't like. I was able to find out that I'm more turned on by being rough with women, started feeling more attraction toward younger girls (not underage, 18-25.) But I can't say this is a result only of this, it everything r… | /r/askTRP | 13/01/21 08:05 AM |
| 15 | So I Gave NoFap a Try...I want to share my experience because I've tried 2-3 times nofap. Every time I've lasted around 20 days. What I was able to experience that this is not healthy solution at all. I was feeling angry, depressed and anxious after a week, I was also feeling horny and had wet dreams, once I've had them two in one night. I wasn't able to function like a normal human being, couldn't concentrate on anything. All I was thinking of fucking, even looking at landwhales and thinking she's not that bad. This i… | /r/askTRP | 13/01/21 07:05 AM |
| 1 | How to deal with insults?Don't act all butthurt. This passive agressive shit only women use. No serious workout program can't be managed like that. Even guys on steroids can't handle that. Reality is that you project weakness outward to people and that's why they are fucking with you. You need to work on your inner as well as physical strength and incorporate more masculine behavior. No need to become asshole and jerk, but havng balls to stand up for yourself. And like I've already written, people don't easily fuck with… | /r/askTRP | 11/01/21 06:19 AM |
| 11 | How do you handle dark ( depressive) days ?This is great advice I've learned a while ago. Whenever I feel depressed I let myself experience those negative emotions and things what are on my mind. I don't try to numb them or try to fix myself, I just let them out and I sit there in quiet. It's strange how those negative emotions can pass quicker this way. What I was also able to find out what was actually bothering me and causing me to feel negative emotions and be depressed. No matter how much our lives are going well, these days comes a… | /r/askTRP | 10/01/21 08:23 AM |
| 1 | How to deal with insults?Lift everyday? Let's be real here. | /r/askTRP | 10/01/21 07:12 AM |
| 1 | How to deal with insults?Yes, majority of them are weak and insecure, and they back down when you stand up to them. Standing up for ourselves should be personality trait no matter how we look. Nobody of us shouldn't let others to fuck with us. My point on lifting is, many of them weed out themselves when we project physical strength, they won't try anything. Not that bullying will stop completely, but it will be drastically reduced. | /r/askTRP | 09/01/21 01:43 PM |
| 1 | How to deal with insults?Resuming force is sometimes necessary and you're right a good slap in the face will make someone to respect you. But OP have different issues, first of all why is he around people who fucks with him? He obviously needs to get rid of these people. Another issue is that he obviously doesn't lift, everyone here who lifts and behave masculine know that people don't easily fuck with you because they know they can get their ass whooped. Also he must learn how to stand up for himself, he must embrace c… | /r/askTRP | 09/01/21 06:21 AM |
| 1 | Bodyweight Blowup: Let's get it!Yes, I'm glad that I didn't train like this for a longer period. Exercising the wrong way cause more harm than damage. I just don't understand why guys here disagree with you, no way that they can train like this and experience the same symptoms as many other before. Bodyweight training is a great for beginners, but it's not something to use is someone want's to progress. I know a one older guy who use the same couple of sets and not many reps to keep himself in decent shape. Just to keep his bo… | /r/TheRedPill | 07/01/21 03:49 PM |
| 1 | Has anyone here ever struggled with overcoming being too nice?There's a lot said here, and not much to add. I would like to say that it's a process that takes time. How long will it take it depends on a person how much he's willing to dedicate himself to a change and improvement. Guys already said it, you don't have to become complete asshole and jerk, you just have to be more assertive by setting up boundaries and punish people when they try to breach in. You can show respect and kindness toward people, you can help others as well, but when you become mas… | /r/askTRP | 07/01/21 09:18 AM |
| 1 | Bodyweight Blowup: Let's get it!Guys here do not agree with you, but someone who is into calisthenics for two years now I want to add something. Increasing reps and sets is not beneficial to a body and I've learned that on myself. This was something I was doing and in the beginning the progress was good, then after I while I wasn't feeling right. So I started googleing to find out what was happening. I was starting to feel anxious and depressed a short while after the workout, like a half a hour later. Researching I was able t… | /r/TheRedPill | 07/01/21 06:32 AM |
| 1 | They reject when I ask them on a date, I ignore them and move on, then they come back after a while (sometimes week, couple of weeks, month of even months later) and saying hi, or liking on social media, basically trying to get my attention - what is proper thing to do?I know all that, read Rollo's book multiple times. | /r/askTRP | 05/01/21 07:35 AM |
| 1 | They reject when I ask them on a date, I ignore them and move on, then they come back after a while (sometimes week, couple of weeks, month of even months later) and saying hi, or liking on social media, basically trying to get my attention - what is proper thing to do?Yes, only they know the reason for rejection. I don't ask beacuse it would show I'm overly invested in her and seeking her approval. I will try next time to ask again and see from there. My policy so far was one strike, but I will try for strike two. | /r/askTRP | 05/01/21 07:34 AM |
| 3 | They reject when I ask them on a date, I ignore them and move on, then they come back after a while (sometimes week, couple of weeks, month of even months later) and saying hi, or liking on social media, basically trying to get my attention - what is proper thing to do?LJBF doesn't apply beacuse these women are from my social circle and I wasn't trying to hook up or anythingwith them. I know if a woman whom I'm dating said this to me that it's a rejection. Look when I say relationship type, I know that I'm much more attractive, sexually attractive because of my physique, but I also know that I have other qualities that make me good for a relationship. Like I mentioned in other post, I'm neither a nice guy, nor a jerk, but somewhere in a middle. I'm just trying… | /r/askTRP | 05/01/21 07:26 AM |
| 2 | They reject when I ask them on a date, I ignore them and move on, then they come back after a while (sometimes week, couple of weeks, month of even months later) and saying hi, or liking on social media, basically trying to get my attention - what is proper thing to do?This is something I was thinking as well, to try setup second date and if they don't show up just move on. | /r/askTRP | 05/01/21 07:17 AM |
| 1 | They reject when I ask them on a date, I ignore them and move on, then they come back after a while (sometimes week, couple of weeks, month of even months later) and saying hi, or liking on social media, basically trying to get my attention - what is proper thing to do?What I've meant is, women are drawn sexually to masculine men, we call them chads and alphas. I have muscles and over the past two years I've developed my mindset to behave more masuline in life, be more decisive and assertive. I stand up for myself, I'm chasing to improve in all aspects of life, this has become natural to me. But the issue is that I'm still anxious around hot women, I'm still a virgin, and even though I'm much more confident and comfortable in my own skin and I get the attentio… | /r/askTRP | 05/01/21 07:15 AM |
| 2 | They reject when I ask them on a date, I ignore them and move on, then they come back after a while (sometimes week, couple of weeks, month of even months later) and saying hi, or liking on social media, basically trying to get my attention - what is proper thing to do?Read it twice, great post. Thx man! | /r/askTRP | 05/01/21 07:05 AM |
| 1 | They reject when I ask them on a date, I ignore them and move on, then they come back after a while (sometimes week, couple of weeks, month of even months later) and saying hi, or liking on social media, basically trying to get my attention - what is proper thing to do?This is something I've learned from experience as well. It's easier to have some chat first because anxiety it's not that high. At first I was nervous just to say hi. I have good social skills with people because of my job, I'm used to talk with strangers and chat with them, but I was lacking in a deparment with women because of my shyness. I have improved a lot, I believe that I will find some girl to lose virginity with soon. | /r/askTRP | 05/01/21 07:01 AM |
| 3 | They reject when I ask them on a date, I ignore them and move on, then they come back after a while (sometimes week, couple of weeks, month of even months later) and saying hi, or liking on social media, basically trying to get my attention - what is proper thing to do?As an inexperienced guy I have to fake a lot, sometimes is not that simple, but I try my best. At first it was nerve wrecking and my heart pounded a thousand miles per hour. It's easier with women that I find somewhat attractive, you know like I would fuck her, but that's about it. But with the women that I do find attractive it's not that easy. | /r/askTRP | 04/01/21 09:04 PM |
| 3 | They reject when I ask them on a date, I ignore them and move on, then they come back after a while (sometimes week, couple of weeks, month of even months later) and saying hi, or liking on social media, basically trying to get my attention - what is proper thing to do?I combine social media and approaching. I have to say that I use Instagram just to experiment, reading a lot doesn't help. So I've decided to take a shot by dm-ing girls using basic lines, cheesy pua lines, just to put myself out there more and I hope it would help me to build more confidence, and to test out what works and what not. I have to say that I wasn't butthurt as much as I would think I would be. The old me would not handle this right. I now consider this as my way to improving myself … | /r/askTRP | 04/01/21 09:00 PM |
| 5 | They reject when I ask them on a date, I ignore them and move on, then they come back after a while (sometimes week, couple of weeks, month of even months later) and saying hi, or liking on social media, basically trying to get my attention - what is proper thing to do?II don't give them attention, I say hi and that's it, didn't ask them out again. But like I've said, I'm inexperienced guy and I see this behavior in multiple women, that's why it's confusing me. This is why I'm thinking that that's because I'm more of a relationship type. I have other women who I know told me this, that I'm good relationship material. And no, I don't behave like a nice guy, just to make it clear, but I'm not jerk as well, somewhere in the middle I would say. Those who rejected … | /r/askTRP | 04/01/21 08:50 PM |
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