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Red Pill Exampleguywhoisambitious/r/TheRedPill24/11/19 07:25 PM
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guywhoisambitious/r/askTRP16/08/19 04:05 AM
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guywhoisambitious/r/seduction20/10/19 12:55 AM
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Building Powerguywhoisambitious/r/TheRedPill30/03/20 02:19 PM
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Bro forgot about that. Don’t dump her. You’re overthinking.
/r/TheRedPill20/06/22 08:28 PM
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You’re very wise. People who seek validation, worth and happiness through external achievements create conditions of worth for themselves and become prone to misery and confusion.
/r/TheRedPill17/12/21 06:26 PM
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I agree with you. Intrinsic value precedes extrinsic accomplishments.
/r/TheRedPill16/12/21 07:24 PM
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I see a lot of similarities between this subreddit and nonewnormal. Both red pill, but in different “domains”.
/r/TheRedPill30/07/21 08:15 PM
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“Getting laid doesn’t require you to be amazing; it just requires you to try” Wow. Amazing quote dude. And love this post too. The fact that you were able to overcome all of your problems, and try your best to fix your life and stay positive is an inspiration. Love the tone of this post too. Tough love advice is needed. Straight to the point advice. I needed to hear this. Big props to you dude.
/r/TheRedPill30/07/21 07:48 PM
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One of the best posts on this subreddit. Bravo. I learned about this concept elsewhere a few years ago, but I can’t remember where.
/r/TheRedPill30/07/21 07:33 PM
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One of the best podcast episodes of any podcast I’ve ever listened to. If there was only 1 person to represent the entirety of TRP, it would be Whisper. He has great knowledge and wisdom, is able to stay objective and balanced, and communicates his ideas clearly and effectively.
/r/TheRedPill30/07/21 07:28 PM
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Wow. This is life changing. I've always known about the happiness and pleasure dichotomy but i've never seen it communicated like this. I've always loved your posts and it's great to see you continue contributing with these amazing ideas. Thank you
/r/TheRedPill17/05/21 05:41 PM
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I feel you bro. I had to switch high schools and move cities and that was the hardest thing I've ever had to do in my life. It happened so suddenly, I basically cut contact with all my childhood friends and was moved to a city and school that I hated. It took me many years to fully get over this, but things are great now man. Just thought I'd say that no matter how bad it seems, it can get better!
/r/askTRP11/04/21 01:03 PM
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First of all, fuck everyone making fun of you for this post. I know where you’re coming from. I used to be a newbie too. Now to answer your questions. 1) Bring a water bottle. Bring a mask cuz of covid (If relevant in your area). Bring your gym pass. 2) You can eat a banana before your workout if you’d like. Try not to eat too much food beforehand. Lately I’ve been going first thing in the morning, and drinking coffee before my workout. 3) Wear gym shorts and a t shirt. In terms of shoes, lots o…
/r/askTRP12/11/20 04:40 PM
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Okay thanks!
/r/seduction15/09/20 06:26 PM
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Ok will do!
/r/seduction15/09/20 06:26 PM
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Where do you go to meet girls and play the numbers game ? How do you do it ?
/r/seduction15/09/20 06:02 PM
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Bump
/r/seduction15/09/20 05:58 PM
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If she asks me why i didn't text her I'm thinking I'll say something like: "I used to like you back in high school but at the time I didn't really know how to make a move so I figured I'd just move on and maybe we'd recconect in the future"
/r/askTRP15/09/20 05:10 PM
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I ignored her because at the time I knew that I’d be unable to make a move. I wanted to gain more experience with chicks that I had no prior history with because it was easier that way.
/r/askTRP15/09/20 04:18 PM
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I know
/r/askTRP11/06/20 02:26 AM
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I've read the whole thing man. Been a part of this sub for years now. We all have our down times, this is one of mine. But I'll get over it.
/r/askTRP11/06/20 02:26 AM
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Completely agree. I never understood frats that haze their pledges.
/r/TheRedPill31/03/20 03:04 AM
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Yea I can definitely see the value in joining a varsity team. However, it is much more time consuming than joining a frat. Depending on your program, some people can’t afford the time investment.
/r/TheRedPill30/03/20 07:19 PM
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Fair enough. We all have different goals, values and circumstances.
/r/TheRedPill30/03/20 07:16 PM
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I don't see how what you're saying contradicts what I am saying. I agree with you.
/r/TheRedPill30/03/20 04:09 PM
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Alpha and beta is a spectrum and you can always move from one end to the other end. They are also pretty subjective terms. I prefer to use healthy and unhealthy behaviour
/r/askTRP28/03/20 06:33 AM
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Sounds like a shit test. I would personally just take it as banter and go with it.
/r/askTRP28/03/20 06:29 AM
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I’m no master when it comes to this stuff, but if you think you went overboard you could apologize and tell her you were just kidding or something.
/r/askTRP28/03/20 06:27 AM
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Yea it’s really crazy to think about. Good news is that redpill is sorta becoming mainstream now with the notion of “simps”. I guess some guys buy premium Snapchat because it’s some sort of fetish? Honestly nothing else really makes much sense to me. Porn is free.
/r/askTRP28/03/20 06:24 AM
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I’m personally not too opposed to replying fast. I just go with how I’m feeling. If I’m busy or I don’t feel like replying, I don’t. If I want to reply, I do. It’s more so about creating a great life that keeps you busy so that you don’t overthink things like how fast you should text.
/r/askTRP28/03/20 06:21 AM
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Hey man I used to struggle with this exact thing. How old are you if you don’t mind me asking? I’m 20 years old now and I’ve been able to improve my perspective quite a bit from a couple years ago. Living a great balanced life is awesome in theory. But you need to spend less time thinking about it and more time developing an exact step by step plan on how to improve in those areas. Much much easier said than done. I’m naturally quite a compulsive person so I had to learn the hard way that mental…
/r/askTRP28/03/20 06:19 AM
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Hey man. I’m 20 years old now and a couple years out of high school. I remember the days of high school. They were really tough and I feel for you. Just try to push through and get through it bro. College/uni is much better. I also struggled with putting on muscle. And I wasn’t able to put on real muscle until after I graduated high school despite starting at around 15 years old. Everyone’s body is different. Maybe your body still needs to develop. What kind of workouts are you doing? I didn’t g…
/r/askTRP28/03/20 06:10 AM
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Ok thanks
/r/seduction26/03/20 11:50 PM
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Thanks for the detailed response. What do you recommend I do? I sorta just wanted to confirm with her whether or or she has lost interest in me. I know that sounds idiotic but I’m naturally a super honest person when it comes to my emotions like that. If I feel the vibe is off I’ll ask the person if they’re no longer vibing with me and tell them it’s okay if they’re not.
/r/seduction26/03/20 11:27 PM
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It's not really my fault. Nobody knew there would be a quarantine that would come. In my mind, I thought I'd be meeting up with her again in like a few days.
/r/askTRP26/03/20 10:33 PM
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The quarantine could last until the end of summer. So meeting a new girl could be hard. At the very least I wanted to be able to talk to her sometimes, you know, to keep my sanity lol. I have friends I can talk to on the phone, but it's different when you're talking to a cute chick who's into you.
/r/askTRP26/03/20 10:29 PM
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I did fear it. Now I probably won't be losing my virginity for another 5 months until the summer is over. This whole quarantine situation really sucks. What should I do about the girl? Should I try to call her again in a week?
/r/askTRP26/03/20 10:24 PM
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Why not? just curious. Would it sorta just kill the mood?
/r/askTRP11/03/20 09:39 PM
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Thanks man. I'm going with the mindset of "lets see what happens". We were also both drunk that night at the club. So maybe I won't even like her when we meet later tonight.
/r/askTRP11/03/20 09:37 PM
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Alright thanks man. I'll probably also ask her to dim the lights or whatever.
/r/askTRP11/03/20 09:36 PM
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Leaving the house will take a lot of time. I’m a 19 year old and have a long way to go before I have the financial means to do so.
/r/askTRP27/12/19 03:49 PM
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I have tried to shut down disrespect. With friends it’s easy because you can always just move away from them. But with family members they are always there. I don’t take shit.
/r/askTRP27/12/19 03:47 PM
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You just said a bunch of words without actually saying anything. May you please elaborate ?
/r/askTRP27/12/19 03:46 PM
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You seem to misunderstand. Never said I deserve access over my siblings. I said that when we agree upon something then they shouldn’t go back on their word. It’s not a car issue, it’s a character issue.
/r/askTRP27/12/19 03:46 PM
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You know nothing about me and nothing about the way I was raised. As I said I’ve had a tough childhood and still trying to figure things out at 19.
/r/askTRP27/12/19 03:45 PM
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Being playful doesn't help because it feeds the ongoing disrespect.
/r/askTRP22/12/19 07:51 PM
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couldn't find it. Sidebar is huge. What are the answers?
/r/askTRP21/12/19 04:54 AM
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Hey man. Just reading your response again 2 months later haha. I've had success with messaging girls a second and a third time even though they didn't respond the first couple times. But I think I might just stick to the rule of thumb of un matching them if they don't respond and it's been like a week. I feel my state of mind would be better that way because I'm gonna be thinking about messaging constantly if I don't do this.
/r/seduction18/12/19 06:12 AM
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thats a good point thank you.
/r/askTRP17/12/19 01:02 AM
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man it just hurts to lose a close friend. FUck. Maybe a simple conversation can stop this whole thing.
/r/askTRP17/12/19 01:02 AM
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There's a whole story with the uber thing buts it a long story so I won't get into it. The point of the conversation is to bring up the fact that he lied to my face the other day and also to bring up the fact that lately we haven't been "vibing" lately as friend. Remember that this was a close friend of mine, not just some random acquaintance. Maybe instead of just shunning him and going my own way a simple conversation would be a good idea. I know guys don't like to talk about their feelings an…
/r/askTRP17/12/19 12:57 AM
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Thanks man. So maybe its not worth having a conversation with Friend c after all. And good on you man. Best of luck. Can't believe how many fake people there are out there.
/r/askTRP16/12/19 04:42 PM
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Thanks man. Will do. Do you think I should have any open conversation about this with Friend C? or just forget it and go my own way and not give a fuck, without being butthurt of course. Me and Friend C used to invite each other to everything, like basketball games and stuff. Should I try to repair the relationship by giving out an invite next time I'm doing something?
/r/askTRP16/12/19 04:17 PM
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Thanks man. But moving out for another 5-6 months isn't a solution. We have a group lease until like May or June. But yea these guys clearly don't respect me. I'm just wondering if I'm a part of the problem.
/r/askTRP16/12/19 04:09 PM
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Im trying really fucking hard man. It's tough though.
/r/askTRP16/12/19 04:08 PM
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We hung out a lot first year. Really got along and vibed. Went out a lot together and played sports and studied. It was pretty natural. But slowly realized that they are pretty shitty friends who don't really give a shit about me on a deeper level. Maybe I'm part of the problem as well.
/r/askTRP16/12/19 04:08 PM
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Yea I ended up apologizing about that. The night time issue is no longer a problem. But thats part of living together right? We all make mistakes and learn from them and learn to compromise. What do you mean by bug out, if that was the only issue?
/r/askTRP16/12/19 04:07 PM
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Please explain what you mean by meme end. I do watch Gary V and I have seen some charisma videos. Trust me, I'm naturally a pretty charismatic and social guy now that I'm out of my shell.
/r/askTRP16/12/19 04:06 PM
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So I should just forget them and go my own way. Having a conversation about it would be pointless?
/r/askTRP16/12/19 04:05 PM
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No idea lmao. I don't think of myself like that.
/r/askTRP16/12/19 04:04 PM
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ok I won't chase then. Should I still have that conversation with Friend C. And no it wasn't just an uber fare. We did everything first year. We went out constantly, played sports, hung out all the time...
/r/askTRP16/12/19 04:04 PM
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Moving out won't happen til the end of the year, so May or June. A part of me thinks that they are just shitty friends. But another part of me thinks maybe I'm the problem. Because if you're always surrounded by crap, maybe that's because you are crap (as the other comment says). Should I just have an honest conversation with Friend C?
/r/askTRP16/12/19 04:51 AM
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As a 19 year old I can really relate. If you want to talk more pm me. And know that procrastination is not a laziness issue but an emotion regulation issue. See your school councillor or a psychologist as well. That can really help. May I ask, do you have OCD? because as a person who does, it can be tough as fuck. Part of your problem is the "perfect life" thing. All you have to focus on is one decision at a time. Just try to make better decisions as a whole. Stop worried about the perfect stuff…
/r/askTRP16/12/19 04:48 AM
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I don't have a big social circle. I don't go to parties and go out much. I don't get much girls. But I am trying. I'm working out, improving my wardrobe, trying to make conversations with others. I'm trying really fucking hard. But these other guys have had the advantage of having an awesome childhood and high school and friends all their life. Having high value friends is only something I have experienced for a year or two. I come from parents who had absolutely no social life and it was really…
/r/askTRP16/12/19 04:36 AM
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as a 19 year old I can sort of relate. Dad is what this sub would call beta for some of his actions. I still love him. I was close to showing the red pill but changed my mind at the last second. Decided it was best to keep it to myself. He's almost 60 years old now. I think showing him this world at that age will do him more harm than good. But he is a respectable man because he is willing to learn and admit to his faults. I've had conversations with him and told him some nuggets of the red pill…
/r/askTRP27/11/19 07:28 AM
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Yea sure why not. Don't let this sub constraint you in any way. Experiment. Try new things. Talk about whatever you want to talk about. I'm personally a super philosophical dude so I talk about deep shit all the time.
/r/askTRP27/11/19 07:21 AM
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Depends on what you want right now. Do you want to keep spinning plates? If yea then just let her go if she's not interested. Maybe message her to hang out in a couple weeks, maybe she'll have changed her mind. Maybe that post wasn't even about you. People go through all sorts of things. Just keep worrying about you and living a kick ass life. If you feel like she's not down right now just give her some space for a bit.
/r/askTRP27/11/19 07:19 AM
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Listen to yourself, your soul. When you are alone at night and have nothing to do and you're there with just your thoughts. What is your soul (for lack of a better word) telling you to do? It's those types of emotions that will lead you to where you want to really go. Be honest with yourself and be open to learn.
/r/askTRP27/11/19 07:16 AM
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Forget about her and focus on other girls
/r/askTRP27/11/19 03:17 AM
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If you know her in person, reference that fact, or something you guys have talked about.
/r/seduction27/11/19 02:55 AM
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damn this is the kind of post I like to read. Guys dont be afraid to make a move! Being bold and courageous is one of the best qualities you can have!
/r/seduction27/11/19 02:53 AM
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At this point you’re overthinking. If u wanna watch sports, watch sports. If you don’t, then don’t. Not everything has to be about the value it gives you. Sometimes you just want to relax and watch a good match.
/r/askTRP26/11/19 06:14 PM
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no problem man. And don't dive into red pill theory too much. Live life and try to learn things naturally as they come. You're only 16. I'm currently 19, and I made the mistake of getting too deep into philosophy and red pill and that sort of stuff when I was around your age.
/r/askTRP26/11/19 07:22 AM
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I was really into this chick in high school but was always too scared to make a move. Now I’m in college and she texts me every few months asking how I’m doing/if I want to hang out. So honestly just treat the person like you would treat any girl. If you wanna hook up, go ahead and do it. The reason I don’t personally do it with this chick is because I’m no longer that person I was in high school and I don’t want to go back to those associations. I might in the future though.
/r/seduction26/11/19 02:38 AM
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Yea man he’s just confident and has a lot of social momentum going his way because he makes a lot of these types of videos. It’s honestly just about practice. If you practice enough you’ll get there. It’s nothing unbelievable really, just a shit ton of practice
/r/seduction26/11/19 02:35 AM
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Most important thing I go, and I think it was from this book, was that sometimes simply giving a compliment to someone instead of a confusion of a compliment and a criticism does SO MUCH MORE to inspire that person to get better. I’ve seen it first hand. I was training my bro on how to play basketball. I used to always have that compliment plus criticism approach. But I realized he tried much more and go much more inspired to work harder on the sport when I sometimes didn’t even bother to give a…
/r/askTRP26/11/19 02:34 AM
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There’s a lot of info missing. How was the overall approach like ? And anyways that’s just one person. Don’t get hung up on it.
/r/seduction26/11/19 02:31 AM
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I’m really not the right guy to ask. I’m only 19 and getting into it myself. Those were just my 2 cents on it. Lots of videos on YouTube and on this subreddit about it though.
/r/seduction26/11/19 02:29 AM
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Honestly I’m not a master on this or anything but I view cold approach as like having normal conversations. You’re essentially just talking to people around you in order to give value and receive value. Take it slow though. Maybe go to the mall and ask random people for the time or directions and then just kinda build it into your normal day. Other day I saw a cute girl from one of my classes on the bus so I just said “hey you’re from my class right ?” And we had a long cool conversation. I once…
/r/seduction26/11/19 02:23 AM
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Hey man you’re still really young. And I remember in high school there were real convos as welll. Just be yourself bro and try to have real convos whenever you want, I’m sure some people will join in.
/r/askTRP26/11/19 02:18 AM
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I don’t think I would personally ever do it. But honestly it’s up to you. Follow your instincts.
/r/askTRP26/11/19 02:16 AM
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There’s a difference between disrespect and a shit test. And example would help. Ask yourself what you would do if you had abundance and were happy.
/r/askTRP26/11/19 02:15 AM
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So you asked her out and she said she had a date? First of all it’s better to ask for her schedule. Something like this: You: hey do you wanna grab coffee? Her: yea sure when? You: whats your schedule like this week? Hey: I’m free on blah blah blah. You: ok cool let’s meet at this time at this location.
/r/seduction26/11/19 02:14 AM
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Yea or getting drinks. If it’s during the day I like coffee.
/r/seduction26/11/19 02:12 AM
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First of all take a break from reading trp. I personally took a 1 year break from all this! Non of this means crap if you don’t SLOWLY implement it in your life. In terms of going out and socializing, it takes time man, sometimes much longer for some people (like myself). Socializing didn’t come easy for me. Took years. Now I’m pretty much a natural. Practice is the only way. Not theory. Not reading. Make small measurable goals for yourself. For example tell yourself you’re going to go out once …
/r/askTRP26/11/19 02:10 AM
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Be honest with yourself about what you want and what is realistic. Then take small steps to improve. Create some sort of structure in your life. Like fix your sleep. Then tell yourself you’re gonna lift 3 times a week. If you’re unhappy about your life circumstances and environment , change it. Small measurable goals. Don’t overwhelm yourself and don’t beat yourself up.
/r/askTRP26/11/19 02:07 AM
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Did you try to isolate ? Lead her somewhere ?
/r/seduction26/11/19 02:01 AM
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Have you checked out the married red pill site?
/r/askTRP26/11/19 01:59 AM
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I know some guys are sucking your dick on this post but bro you need to grow the fuck up and realize that both you and her are not living in a healthy way.
/r/askTRP26/11/19 01:54 AM
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Fuck the books. You need maybe 1 or two and that’s a maybe. Follow your instincts instead and take some damn action. No book will ever take the place of action. This is coming from a guy who used to be obsessed with reading all these books that have the same damn message. Some of these authors claim that they didn’t even need to read a book to get the information they are sharing. Just live life man, make mistakes, learn from your mistakes. Don’t worship books, it’s just the information that’s i…
/r/askTRP26/11/19 01:53 AM
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Hey man I haven’t gone through what you have. But I do see some similarities. I’m also 19. Hit me up to talk bro. You’ll be through this. I believe in you. Start with talking to a psychologist and try to get rid of one bad habit at a time. Most important thing right now is to get your health back on track (this includes socializing). Create measurable goals. Hit me up if you need help with that.
/r/askTRP25/11/19 09:21 PM
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in the short term.
/r/askTRP25/11/19 05:04 PM
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The quality of the set is important. Don't have high expectations if the in person interaction wasn't good. And being funny is honestly not that important. Just be confident and cool about things.
/r/seduction25/11/19 05:57 AM
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Been on two dates this week with two separate girls. First girl texted me first after our date next day telling me she had a good time and wanting to hang out again. Girl number 2 didn't respond for 2 days so I texted her and set up a second date at my place which she accepted. Depends on the situation. My gut sort of told me girl 1 would text me and that I had to text girl 2. Depends on if you're busy or not. I would refrain from texting the next day. But I am pretty new to this and a lot of ga…
/r/seduction25/11/19 05:55 AM
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I would imagine napoleon and Julius Caesar.. not sure though.
/r/askTRP25/11/19 05:51 AM
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Depends how they said. It's kind of weird thing to say in my opinion. Not my type of joke at all. But don't overthink it. Plenty of girls out there. Maybe they were flirting. Maybe they were just crazy. who knows.
/r/askTRP25/11/19 05:50 AM
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Congrats man!
/r/seduction25/11/19 05:39 AM
1

count to 5. walk up to her and ask something like "hey I'm looking for directions for blah blah blah". Once you're comfortbale doing that, or asking for the time, you can get into deeper conversations.
/r/seduction25/11/19 05:35 AM
1

However the fuck you want to go about life. don't overthink it. Stick to your natural wiring while still experimenting a little it on the side. Most of your time should still be lived by following your natural insticts
/r/askTRP25/11/19 05:33 AM
1

lol I think I"m the one who made that post.
/r/seduction25/11/19 05:30 AM
4

Read the book the millionaire fast lane. Entrepreneurship is the way to go.
/r/askTRP25/11/19 05:26 AM
1

Seems like you got butthurt. Just keep calibrating and escalating. And if she really is just fucking around, then go find yourself another girl. You have abundance don't you?
/r/askTRP25/11/19 05:25 AM
0

Need more info. What do you mean "gotten to talk to me". How good was the in person interaction?
/r/seduction25/11/19 05:23 AM
1

lol try not to call the girl you're with another girls name. You calmed her down and fucked her. I don't see a problem here. Take this with a grain of salt, I'm a virgin.
/r/askTRP25/11/19 05:20 AM
4

who gives a shit honestly. Not worth lying in my opinion.
/r/askTRP25/11/19 03:09 AM
2

Appreciate it bro! Good luck on your MMA fight, rooting for you.
/r/TheRedPill25/11/19 02:32 AM
1

Thanks man. Even if your flat doesn't go out much, just go out alone once a week. Or join a club at school that has a lot of social events.
/r/TheRedPill25/11/19 02:31 AM
1

Just created measurable goals for myself. At first I just went to the mall and did things like asked for the time, or ask for directions. Then I started talking to people from my classes or around me about random stuff.
/r/TheRedPill25/11/19 02:30 AM
4

thanks man. To get her to cuddle I just told her "come here" and we cuddled. But unfortunately the most I could do was just some kissing. I didn't know whether to keep going or to back away lol after a few kisses. I even said something awkward like "you can put your head on my chest if you want". She laughed and said she was comfortable how she currently was (with my arm around her). And yea I lift. I was lifting like crazy last year, almost every day. I have to get back to doing that.
/r/TheRedPill24/11/19 09:26 PM
5

Thanks man! I'll be posting updates.
/r/TheRedPill24/11/19 08:32 PM
6

I think both of you are correct. It's important to distinguish infatuation from love.
/r/TheRedPill24/11/19 07:53 PM
9

I did tell her haha. And then I asked her since it was my first time, how should I do it properly. She told me she doesn't know because guys are usually the ones who initiate. She is also 2 years older than me.
/r/TheRedPill24/11/19 07:46 PM
4

Thanks man!
/r/askTRP23/11/19 11:41 PM
1

I dont think its worth it bro. There are a lot of girls out there.
/r/askTRP22/11/19 05:18 PM
3

Yea you’ll never have strong frame if you’re worrying about whether you’ll enter her frame. Just do what you feel like doing.
/r/askTRP22/11/19 04:18 PM
4

alright, maybe something like "hey I had fun the other night, I want to hang out again, movie at my place? we can watch blahblah"
/r/askTRP21/11/19 01:54 AM
1

ok sounds like a plan
/r/askTRP20/11/19 11:16 PM
-3

right now is okay? Should I start with something warmer like "how was your day" or "had fun last night"
/r/askTRP20/11/19 11:04 PM
1

Ok so should I text for logistics or wait for her?
/r/askTRP20/11/19 10:04 PM
0

sure thing. How many days should I wait?
/r/askTRP20/11/19 10:03 PM
27

Hey man I was in the same boat til this year. My advice for you is to have a simple weekly goal: 1 date a week. This is working for me. That’s all. That date can be anything. But you need to go on 1 date a week. I’d recommend doing 3 things to get that 1 date a week. First is to use tinder. You said you’re in good shape so just try to get some nice pictures or just use ones you already have. And swipe whenever you’re free during the day. The second thing is to try to go out once a week. Don’t wo…
/r/seduction20/11/19 05:59 AM
1

any actual advice for me bro?
/r/askTRP20/11/19 03:12 AM
1

I would have pussied out regardless because I wasn't ready. But yea it was good that I had something. Now I can actually be prepared for when it happens.
/r/askTRP20/11/19 03:00 AM
1

Ive already read it bro. thanks for the advice. I think inviting straight might be better. If we go for drinks, realistically I'm gonna be paying for the drinks and the uber and that adds up. If its a movie than its pretty chill. She can bring some wine and I can order a pizza. What do you think?
/r/askTRP20/11/19 02:57 AM
1

Alright bro thanks for the advice. Next time I'll just let her pay for the drinks if I paid for the food.
/r/askTRP20/11/19 02:50 AM
1

hm I dont drink wine but she told me she likes wine. Maybe I can tell her to bring the wine ? and ill take care of the snacks?
/r/askTRP20/11/19 02:49 AM
0

okay bro.. I realize I messed up. Should I invite her directly over, that's the question?
/r/askTRP20/11/19 02:33 AM
1

any other advice? Should I invite her to my place to watch a movie next?
/r/askTRP20/11/19 02:28 AM
0

bump.
/r/askTRP20/11/19 02:24 AM
1

Okay you sound like a pro haha! That sounds like a good plan. Two problems. One is that my roommates are always home. But they are housemates not roommates so we.l each have a separate room but share the common area. Other problem is I don’t live near anyplace that has wine or alcohol. Maybe I can say something like, “we can go out for a walk at some point”. Kinda awkward cuz it’s Winter but maybe it’s work. What would you recommend for snacks? And for board games will a deck of cards work ? I k…
/r/seduction20/11/19 02:21 AM
1

Haha yea man, only my second date ever, but I’ll get to kissing and stuff eventually! Should I invite her to a movie at my place or is that too much ?
/r/seduction20/11/19 02:15 AM
1

thanks man, just had a successful one now :)
/r/askTRP20/11/19 01:53 AM
3

Hey man. I'm also pretty new with dating and stuff but this has worked for me so far but take it with a grain of salt because I am a beginner: after a date I usually like to wait two days for the girl to text me first. I went on a date a few days ago and I felt it went a little awkwardly so I did not text her at all. After like 36 hours the girl texted me saying she had a good time and that she wants to hang out again.
/r/askTRP19/11/19 11:02 PM
-1

Great read. I'm in college so this was helpful. But couple questions: You said to always have a drink in your hand. I've been to clubs and honestly nobody hold their drink in their hand unless they are near the sitting area or near the bar area. On the dance floor or around, you'll rarely ever see that. Seems awkward. So what should be done instead? The clubs I've been to, almost impossible to make any conversation. Super loud. So how should I communicate with girls instead, especially if they a…
/r/TheRedPill19/11/19 06:50 PM
-7

"I'm sure they talk shit behind your back". Looks like you might be the one with fake friends because real people don't do that.
/r/askTRP19/11/19 03:27 AM
-5

then I won't be able to hear alarm in morning
/r/askTRP19/11/19 03:24 AM
0

get get earplugs because then can't hear alarm in morning
/r/askTRP19/11/19 03:24 AM
-1

too late now.. stuck with them for several months
/r/askTRP19/11/19 03:23 AM
-3

can't hear alarm with ear plugs and I dont personally like white noise. and yea these people were crazy screaming and shit
/r/askTRP19/11/19 03:23 AM
-1

can't hear alarm with ear plugs
/r/askTRP19/11/19 03:23 AM
2

can't hear alarm in morning with earphones
/r/askTRP19/11/19 03:23 AM
1

Alright man thank you. And yea I’m just Trynna see if I like her.
/r/askTRP18/11/19 05:47 AM
1

I’m afraid her friends will be watching us and stuff. Idk why but I’m feeling so nervous
/r/askTRP18/11/19 05:21 AM
1

Ya it’s just coffee
/r/askTRP18/11/19 05:20 AM
1

ok thx
/r/askTRP18/11/19 04:59 AM
1

bump
/r/seduction18/11/19 04:56 AM
1

I've never done yoga honestly, not sure what to do.
/r/askTRP18/11/19 04:44 AM
1

can't.. its in the morning and got a class before
/r/askTRP18/11/19 04:40 AM
1

hey man I was once in your boat. For me, for redpill to be true, there needed to be a proper framework for both male and female strategy. I would recommend reading the EC "Whisper" I believe his name is, posts. He has a lot of posts in red pilled women and it makes perfect sense. He has an answer to a lot of the contradictions that seem to come from the red pilled view . They are not in fact contradictions, as you will see if you read his posts.
/r/askTRP17/11/19 01:02 AM
1

only post I've made about this girl lmao. How is that hung up. And what errors have I made?
/r/askTRP16/11/19 12:00 AM
1

Bro this is another girl from that other post...not the same person lmao I've got like 5 options man.. chilll
/r/askTRP15/11/19 11:51 PM
1

ok sure
/r/seduction15/11/19 11:41 PM
1

ok
/r/askTRP15/11/19 11:36 PM
1

ok
/r/askTRP15/11/19 11:36 PM
1

can't she lives far and I won't have my car til next saturday
/r/askTRP15/11/19 11:34 PM
1

should I text her at all before the date in 8 days?
/r/askTRP15/11/19 11:28 PM
1

so nothing for 8 days?
/r/askTRP15/11/19 11:27 PM
1

we've already set up a date. I'm driving up in 8 days to go see her. Hottest girl I've matched with on tinder. I texted her yesterday and she just responded now. We have a date and time set up. Should I only text her the day before? During the week? Call her?
/r/askTRP15/11/19 11:24 PM
1

lol
/r/askTRP15/11/19 08:20 PM
1

so if girl 2 doesn't answer, should I text her like a day before the meet up day?
/r/askTRP15/11/19 06:45 PM
1

ok
/r/askTRP15/11/19 06:44 PM
1

damn good line. reason the dates are more than a week apart is because they live super far and I don't have a car with me unless I go home. and I only go home every two weeks.
/r/askTRP15/11/19 05:31 PM
1

thx
/r/askTRP15/11/19 05:20 PM
0

already read it bro. I'mjust making rookie mistakes because I'm thirsty I can't lie. Still a virgin and trying to change that.
/r/askTRP15/11/19 05:14 PM
1

wish I read this before actually texting. Oh well, its just one girl.
/r/askTRP15/11/19 05:13 PM
0

yea man its gotta be better.
/r/askTRP15/11/19 05:09 PM
1

few days between each.
/r/askTRP15/11/19 05:08 PM
-2

yea...
/r/askTRP15/11/19 05:00 PM
-3

I'm new to this man. I thought maybe some persistence would pay off.
/r/askTRP15/11/19 04:33 PM
-3

ended up just texting her. Lets see if she responds.
/r/askTRP15/11/19 04:33 PM
0

ok yea but the question is what should be done about that fact. Maybe be bold and call?
/r/askTRP15/11/19 04:25 PM
1

so not say anything?
/r/askTRP15/11/19 04:05 PM
1

bump
/r/seduction15/11/19 03:52 PM
1

ok thx
/r/seduction14/11/19 12:51 AM
3

ok
/r/askTRP14/11/19 12:50 AM
3

ok
/r/askTRP14/11/19 12:50 AM
-1

bump
/r/askTRP14/11/19 12:27 AM
1

hm ok
/r/seduction14/11/19 12:26 AM
1

hmm ok.
/r/askTRP14/11/19 12:02 AM
1

bump
/r/seduction14/11/19 12:02 AM
3

its bullshit. its okay to show vulnerability sometimes, even to girls. IF they don't fuck with you then you find someone who does. Fuck anyone who says otherwise. Were humans not fucking robots.
/r/askTRP10/11/19 08:03 PM
0

I disagree with this advice. I still need to build rapport I think. Thanks though. And btw, I'm not trynna be the guy who gets his asshole licked lmao.
/r/askTRP09/11/19 05:07 AM
0

should I just talk to her throughout the week then?
/r/askTRP09/11/19 02:32 AM
1

I think you commented on the wrong post haha.
/r/seduction09/11/19 02:24 AM
2

I'm confused what do you mean?
/r/seduction09/11/19 02:20 AM
2

ok I will bro. I cut the convo short because I didn't wanna over text and mess things up. thats a cool perspective thanks. I;ll randomly message her tmr like after the gym or something.
/r/seduction09/11/19 02:18 AM
1

what?
/r/seduction09/11/19 02:16 AM
1

whats that?
/r/seduction09/11/19 02:12 AM
1

ok perfect thanks man! I'm so tempted to just text her right now, but we just talked 2 hours ago and said I gtg. probably too soon. I'll text her tmr maybe.
/r/seduction09/11/19 02:12 AM
1

okay so I'll text here and there just to make sure she doesn't flake
/r/seduction09/11/19 02:07 AM
2

what about talking to her throughout the week?
/r/seduction09/11/19 02:07 AM
-1

so when should I text her. should I try to build some rapport over the next 10 days?
/r/askTRP09/11/19 01:55 AM
1

bump
/r/seduction09/11/19 01:54 AM
1

sure thing I will. any other advice?
/r/seduction09/11/19 01:48 AM
0

man I live in Canada so way too cold for that, and I don't live near a beach, but thanks for the idea.
/r/askTRP09/11/19 01:34 AM
0

Okay drinks it is. I'll taker her to a nice bar where a lot of people my age from my campus go to. This 10 day thing is starting to worry me. Should I message her and ask her if she could do anytime sooner?
/r/askTRP09/11/19 01:33 AM
0

alright boss. Anything else?
/r/askTRP09/11/19 01:30 AM
2

we live in Canada. drinking age is 19 lmao. Also how can I make sure I don't fuck this up?
/r/askTRP09/11/19 01:30 AM
1

nah man literally matched with her a couple hours ago. I barely know this chick but she's hot as fuck lol and is laughing at all my jokes.
/r/seduction09/11/19 01:02 AM
1

what do you mean bro. Worth noting that this is basically my first time taking a girl out lmao.
/r/seduction09/11/19 01:00 AM
1

Hey congrats man. Keep up the good stuff!
/r/seduction08/11/19 10:24 PM
2

you got this bro!
/r/seduction08/11/19 10:24 PM
2

I'm in a similar boat OP. I guess the only way is to go out alone, but then that just feels a bit weird. I guess I must get used to going out alone before I get a good social circle that likes to do those things too.
/r/askTRP08/11/19 10:11 PM
1

thats pretty impressive. How did youre schedule work exactly?
/r/askTRP08/11/19 10:08 PM
1

Great question for OP. I was once in his exact boat and I burned out because I didn't really want to do those things. I was just doing them because every book and online guru was telling me to do them.
/r/askTRP08/11/19 10:07 PM
1

you're doing too much bro. Youre gonna burn out. I've been through exactly what youre trying to do here. May I ask how old you are?
/r/askTRP08/11/19 10:06 PM
2

Could you explain what are the whack shit that you don't fall in line with?
/r/askTRP08/11/19 09:59 PM
2

I agree with this comment. OP doesn't seem like he's being truthful to himself.
/r/askTRP08/11/19 09:58 PM
22

As a student, this is what my priorities look like: School and business: school work, extracurriculars, job, starting a business, finances. Health: Eating well, sleeping well, lifting weights. Physical appearance: Haircut, hygiene, style. Social life: Taking risks, going out, meeting girls, making friends, having fun. Happiness: Being happy and comfortable with my life. ​ Of course I'm not able to hit everyone on this list. Right now I'm struggling with several things, but this is what my basic …
/r/askTRP08/11/19 08:21 PM
4

One of my favourite books.
/r/askTRP08/11/19 08:13 PM
11

Essentially, the combination of being someone who takes social risks (for example, approaching that cute girl and telling her you like her necklace, or starting a conversation with that guy who's sitting next to you in class), ... with being someone who is empathetic/comforting (in a genuine way, you can't fake it, you have to let go of things like resentment and realize that everyone was put on this damn earth and some people just got more lucky than others and that that doesn't mean they're al…
/r/seduction08/11/19 05:07 PM
1

sounds good. Good luck man!
/r/seduction20/10/19 05:07 PM
1

Damn bro I'm in similar spot. How will you start?
/r/seduction20/10/19 04:54 PM
1

yea man most girls go with a group of friends, and what sucks is that these girls are the same girls who go on my campus. My campus is sorta big so maybe thats not really a problem. Can you share some tips on your early experience getting into night life?
/r/askTRP20/10/19 04:51 PM
1

That's difficult man. I guess I'll keep improving myself and eventually that friend will come...
/r/askTRP20/10/19 04:47 PM
1

I live in Canada so 18/19 is legal age. Hm yea it's harder than it seems. I'm also super busy with school work and actual work. I've also got very high standards so that makes it difficult. But yea I guess I'll take it a step at a time..
/r/seduction20/10/19 04:46 PM
3

easier said than done.
/r/seduction20/10/19 04:42 PM
1

Probably am. Or maybe looking for some encouragement or something.
/r/askTRP20/10/19 04:42 PM
1

Ah man thanks so much, I'm 19 and in Canada so I feel like we were in similar situations. Few questions and comments: - you said there were two ways to get women on the dance floor. One is to extend the arm after eye contact, I understand this. However, the second one is always difficult for me. How should I make physical contact behind her in a non creepy way? - So do you recommend night clubs or bars? I assume probably night clubs where it's busy so I don't seem like a loner lol. I know a few …
/r/seduction20/10/19 04:41 PM
1

ok but how can I not be thirsty if I am? I'm trying to go out to get women and make friends and have fun. How can I act like I'm some cool aloof guy if thats not the case right now.
/r/seduction20/10/19 04:36 PM
1

anyways clubs have already been joined by now
/r/seduction20/10/19 04:35 PM
1

I've also got a busy schedule in terms of school work and actual work.
/r/seduction20/10/19 04:34 PM
1

I live with 4 friends in a house thats sorta close to campus.
/r/seduction20/10/19 04:34 PM
1

Really? Tell me more.
/r/seduction20/10/19 04:33 PM
1

agreed. thanks.
/r/seduction20/10/19 05:19 AM
1

ah okay. I assume you're a female right?
/r/seduction20/10/19 04:38 AM
1

ah okay. Unfortunately I don't really know where the meet ups and mixers are taking place.
/r/seduction20/10/19 04:37 AM
1

yea bro good luck to you! You seem like you have the hunger and the vision to get it done.
/r/seduction20/10/19 04:36 AM
3

I think because I'm craving this affection so much, its making me come off as needy or whatever. But I guess that's part of the process until I get laid.
/r/seduction20/10/19 03:34 AM
1

what's your goal if you don't mind me asking, like what industry or what not.
/r/seduction20/10/19 03:33 AM
1

Yea bro for sure. I have big goals in life. I agree that right now is the time to grind. But I also want to spend a bit of time living life too. Balance is key, I think everyone finds their own balance.
/r/seduction20/10/19 03:33 AM
3

Thanks man appreciate it. I like the advice.
/r/seduction20/10/19 03:32 AM
1

Thats the type of step by step action I love. I agree with the first part of joining a frat next semester, but for now I can't join a sport team because the season has already started for sports. So maybe in the mean time I do something else, but what?
/r/askTRP20/10/19 02:22 AM
2

easier said then done. Can you elaborate
/r/askTRP20/10/19 02:01 AM
1

You're pretty much just telling me to go get some social circles. How? What should I do at this point?
/r/askTRP20/10/19 02:01 AM
0

bump
/r/seduction20/10/19 01:27 AM
1

Around what time is best to go out you think? And should I go to night clubs or bars, or something else?
/r/askTRP20/10/19 01:24 AM
1

Just pisses me off sometimes that some people don't have to work for shit, just born attractive and with good parents that taught them how to be a man at a young age. But then again, I'm very lucky to be born in this situation, life isn't bad compared to some suffering and living in shitty situations.
/r/seduction20/10/19 01:08 AM
1

Hm, don't know if the offer this. even if they did, too late to sign up now, all that is done at start of the year.
/r/seduction20/10/19 01:07 AM
2

I'll have to respectfully disagree with you bro. I don't want to sacrifice these years.
/r/seduction20/10/19 01:06 AM
1

Ok but what parties man? Clubs, bars? I don't have friends I can go out with. I should go out alone?
/r/seduction20/10/19 01:05 AM
2

Thanks.... I tried tinder didn't work, I got professional photos didn't really work, tinder has been such a waste of time man.
/r/seduction20/10/19 01:05 AM
1

wake up at 10 am Head to campus, I got class in mornings and early afternoon, head to gym sometimes, come back home where I cook for myself or go eat somewhere, or order food, then I'm just sorta doing nothing til I go to bed, sometimes I do homework and stuff but mostly just watching Netflix or some bullshit. It's not the way I want to live. I want to have a life,
/r/askTRP20/10/19 01:03 AM
1

Yea man,.... approach anxiety, scared of rejection and coming off as creepy I guess.
/r/askTRP20/10/19 01:01 AM
2

approach anxiety, I'm afraid of rejection, of people seeing me do this, of failing miserably. I know it's all irrational, just can't help it.
/r/askTRP20/10/19 01:01 AM
1

ok thx
/r/seduction14/10/19 01:02 AM
2

that's what I've been doing bro, they haven't come...
/r/seduction13/10/19 07:12 PM
2

I understand your point but its so hard to concentrate when everyone around you is also having fun.
/r/seduction13/10/19 05:07 AM
1

what is GWIA?
/r/askTRP12/10/19 10:35 PM
1

Okay.. I guess I should need to push through and do it
/r/askTRP12/10/19 10:35 PM
1

Ok so hypothetically lets say I start a frat, how the hell would I do that? How did you do it? I'm curious.
/r/seduction12/10/19 10:20 PM
1

Honestly, frats have already been chosen at this point. And I don't have time with that anyways, with school work, actual work, gym..
/r/seduction12/10/19 10:16 PM
7

Man I'm busy. School work, actual work, gym, I barely have time. clubs have already been set at this point, I don't have many friends to go to parties, and parties are expensive because of transportation, and I don't use social media. I also think it's kinda odd to randomly approach people at this point, I'm not a first year student. I know I sound negative as fuck...
/r/seduction12/10/19 10:16 PM
2

Ok let me ask this another way. What one thing would you recommend I start doing right now that I haven't been doing? I keep hearing that you shouldn't cold approach in college so I haven't. Only other option is social circle game, and I've been trying, but it's not leading anywhere. I don't want to sound rude. I'm just super frustrated man.
/r/askTRP12/10/19 10:11 PM
1

What should I do outside of my comfort zone? Your advice seems super general man.
/r/askTRP12/10/19 10:09 PM
1

You're basically telling me I have to interact with girls. How? Approaching randomly? I can't do that. Social circle? I don't have many friends. Please elaborate.
/r/askTRP12/10/19 10:08 PM
1

Bump.
/r/seduction12/10/19 09:48 PM
2

Hey man do you mind if I ask how old you are?
/r/seduction12/10/19 09:16 PM
1

ok thanks for the detailed response man
/r/seduction08/10/19 12:58 AM
1

Yes to all your questions. But anyways I handled everything fine and I've got some new friends now. I was just saying that they are higher value socially than me (more friends, get more girls...)
/r/askTRP29/09/19 12:25 AM
2

Yea, I'll try to be as chill as possible, be myself and go with the flow.
/r/askTRP27/09/19 10:52 PM
0

Yea man it was weird. Ended up just unmatching
/r/askTRP21/09/19 03:43 AM
-1

Slightly spelled differently. Man all of them are cute too, and different girls. Ended up just unmatching with all
/r/askTRP21/09/19 03:43 AM
-2

What?
/r/askTRP21/09/19 03:27 AM
1

worst part is I lied about that. I guess I was paranoid because I heard about some scams of people trying to get your phone number.
/r/askTRP13/09/19 04:47 AM
1

Alright thanks man
/r/askTRP13/09/19 03:40 AM
1

You sure? Before I left she even implied that she wanted me to stay and talk more. Maybe youre right
/r/askTRP13/09/19 03:40 AM
1

Or just not give a fuck about what anyone thinks and leave if he wants to leave.
/r/askTRP06/09/19 10:49 PM
1

Anything could have changed her mind. Or maybe her mind never changed and she was pulling a prank or something. There can be a million reasons. Just don't be so hard on yourself. Many times, it's not you, it's just them. This is one of those cases. Move on and game more girls and keep kicking ass in life. Good luck dude.
/r/seduction06/09/19 10:28 PM
1

You're still young man. At 16 I was the same, and I knew about the red pill around that time as well. It killed me. Just don't be so hard on yourself. I'm 19 now, and I can't tell you how much I've changed. Take it slow. You'll get there.
/r/askTRP06/09/19 10:22 PM
2

Everyone is different man. If you don't like them, then you don't like them. But just don't be afraid to experiment sometimes in life. You might change your mind.
/r/askTRP06/09/19 10:21 PM
2

I used to think it was the correct way of thinking. I became so serious I was almost James Bond like. But then I slowly started to understand why this way of thinking was bad for me. I didn't want to lose that child inside of me. I liked to be goofy sometimes and fun and do whatever the fuck I wanted to do. I liked to have a sunny disposition at times. I didn't want to become a fucking machine/robot. So I stopped overthinking all this shit. I did what felt natural. I realized that things like bo…
/r/askTRP06/09/19 10:13 PM
3

Mind if I ask you how old you are? I used to have the same problem. Now I feel as though my goodbye is perfect. All it takes is practice. Put yourself in uncomfortable situations, eventually it will become second nature.
/r/askTRP06/09/19 10:08 PM
1

Hey man. Seems like you're in a tough place. Let me help you get started. Your first step is to go to the gym and do some lifting. This will boost your testosterone and confidence. This is the routine I would suggest to start with: Day 1: Activity 1 - Bench Press Activity 2 - Deadlifts Day 2: Activity 1: Bent Over Rows Activity 2 : Standing Shoulder Press Activity 3: Squats Start with 3 sets of 8 repetitions. Alternate between the two days. Try to work your way up to going 4 days per week. The a…
/r/seduction06/09/19 05:01 AM
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I've been away from TRP for like a year. I've learned more during that year than I did when I was constantly consuming information on here. I think that many people underestimate their ability to retain information. Once you read and understand something new, it's time to go out and experiment and try it on your own. Only you have the full context of your situation. From my experience, the ratio between information consumption and experimentation (in other words between theory and action) should…
/r/TheRedPill04/09/19 08:11 PM
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Always choose trial and error over information consumption.
/r/TheRedPill04/09/19 03:55 AM
2

Ya man I can somewhat relate. My parents never really had a social life when I was growing up. Socializing and making friends was hard for me. Just gotta keep going though, you'll eventually become super comfortable talking to people and girls.
/r/seduction16/08/19 10:01 PM
3

Go see a doctor bro. Maybe hormonal levels are unbalanced or something.
/r/askTRP16/08/19 06:59 PM
2

do you lift n eat heathy?
/r/askTRP16/08/19 05:49 PM
1

Ya man. Sorry for the rant haha. Good luck! Let me know if you ever need help with anything.
/r/seduction16/08/19 05:21 PM
4

Congrats bro!
/r/seduction16/08/19 05:12 PM
3

I'm talking about his point that some people play bullshit hierarchical games.
/r/TheRedPill16/08/19 04:57 PM
6

Hey bro. When I was 14 I had some pretty bad gyno/man boobs. I'm 19 now. That shit pretty much went away. Don't overthink man.
/r/askTRP16/08/19 04:51 PM
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Hey man, you're young. You are only 16. Focus on things like having fun, making friends, lifting at the gym, maybe even grooming and fashion. Don't overthink a lot of things. Overthinking has a paradoxical effect on progress. If you just slowly improve yourself, girls will naturally seem to come toward you (not saying you shouldn't have courage and not make a move though). You'll also notice that as you start to improve yourself, things like flirting and texting will come naturally. Instead of f…
/r/seduction16/08/19 04:44 PM
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Completely agree with number 2. Fuck people who feel they need to be "alpha". It's paradoxical, but the more you don't give a fuck about it, and the more you are YOU, the more you will be perceived as "alpha" or whatever bullshit word people want to use. I hate putting on a persona. I just follow my internal compass.
/r/TheRedPill16/08/19 03:20 PM
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I don't drink wine lol.
/r/askTRP16/08/19 03:14 PM
1

Hm okay. So maybe just be honest about how inexperienced I am, and just kinda embrace that?
/r/askTRP16/08/19 03:14 PM
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I don't know. She might be experienced, I didn't ask. but one thing I think I know for sure is that she doesn't believe I'm a virgin. If it makes any sense, I don't cary myself like I've never fucked. I even joke around with friends about how much I fuck, when it's all a lie.
/r/askTRP16/08/19 03:11 PM
2

Fuck what anyone things. Just be yourself as cliche as it sounds. I know my answer lacks nuance, but this is more of an emotional thing rather than a logical one.
/r/seduction16/08/19 03:10 PM
2

Thanks man! It's just a girl I met. She seems into me and I'm into her.
/r/askTRP16/08/19 03:06 PM
1

Thanks man I'll check it out.
/r/askTRP16/08/19 03:03 PM
1

Thanks man Ill check it out later.
/r/askTRP16/08/19 03:03 PM
2

lol why?
/r/askTRP16/08/19 03:02 PM
2

We might go for a drink beforehand. Bad idea?
/r/askTRP16/08/19 03:01 PM
0

What do you disagree with?
/r/askTRP16/08/19 03:00 PM
1

I just wear deodorant. Should be fine right?
/r/askTRP16/08/19 02:59 PM
1

Best alcohol then for this type of thing? We might go for a drink beforehand.
/r/askTRP16/08/19 02:58 PM
1

Any tips for foreplay?
/r/askTRP16/08/19 02:57 PM
1

I will thanks!
/r/askTRP16/08/19 02:57 PM
2

Wash it? I guess you mean hop in the shower with her beforehand? I don't think it will come do that. How do I know it's clean?
/r/askTRP16/08/19 02:56 PM
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Completely agree. The ratio of doing/reading should be like 5 to 1. I’m subscribed to trp and getdisciplined but I rarely check them. Instead I focus on lifting, male fashion, making money, grooming/skin care... I also see a psychologist every few weeks just for the that sake alone.
/r/askTRP16/08/19 02:46 PM
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Working on my confidence/appearance before even thinking about dating/getting girls. Things like lifting and male fashion, and grooming have skyrocketed my confidence. Now I feel like any girl would be lucky to have me.
/r/askTRP16/08/19 02:44 PM
2

Yo, I don’t understand the downvotes. Good on you for asking! But I live way too far away from Wisconsin. Just thought I’d give some encouragement. Good luck bro!
/r/seduction16/08/19 02:38 PM
2

By genuinely being a good dude who also has boundaries and self respect.
/r/seduction16/08/19 02:36 PM
1

Congrats bro! Love that you stuck around for a couple minutes. Nothing wrong with talking to random people.
/r/seduction16/08/19 02:34 PM
1

Do u have ocd by any chance? I can relate to what you’re talking about. I can give some advice on what I did to overcome my analysis by paralysis and my ocd.
/r/askTRP16/08/19 02:32 PM
2

I don’t know. Should I ask ? She doesn’t know I’m a virgin.
/r/askTRP16/08/19 02:24 PM
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Don't overthink bro. Female friends can still be friends. I don't care what anyone says. This doesn't mean you shouldn't be spinning plates with other girls.
/r/askTRP16/08/19 05:04 AM
1

Completely agree. There are two sides of the same coin. Only you know the full context to understand in which area you need to be focusing more on. Something tells me it's in the practical area (talking to OP).
/r/askTRP16/08/19 05:03 AM
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A cheesy as it sounds, it's best to compare yourself to who you were yesterday rather than with who is in your age range. There are just too many variables when it comes to age. Some guys started earlier, maybe they had a better environment, parents, genetic... Some guys started later but are still killing it. That's the reason creating such a graph is not only difficult, but useless. "What's the point of anything". Careful there. Nihilism can be a dangerous path.
/r/askTRP16/08/19 04:58 AM
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ok thanks
/r/askTRP16/08/19 04:39 AM
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Thanks man! I'm not gonna know how to do basic stuff like touching her vaJJ. I feel like asking her if I'm doing it properly is not masculine/dominant. Do you agree? I guess I just gotta wing it and hope for the best.
/r/askTRP16/08/19 04:30 AM
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Thanks man but..Eat pussy? I heard I shouldn't on my first time with a girl...
/r/askTRP16/08/19 04:23 AM
2

thanks!
/r/askTRP16/08/19 03:10 AM
1

thanks man. If I read those, I don't need to read the book?
/r/askTRP16/08/19 02:56 AM
1

Yea it's great. His first book is amazing too. Better yet, when you finish, you will realize that there's a forum online with a bunch of like-minded people talking about ideas and execution and stuff. It's called The Fastlane Forum.
/r/askTRP16/08/19 02:12 AM
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lol. Living the experience several times (learning by doing), instead of by writing about it sounds like autism? You do realize that a large part of the population learns best this way right?
/r/askTRP13/08/19 10:56 PM
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I think it was a mixture of an objective and a subjective thing. Subjectively, I have OCD, like I said, so I naturally tend to get compulsive over things. But objectively, I have noticed this phenomenon where people are becoming obsessed with trying to retain information, either by reading, journaling... I've talked to psychologists about this because I'm curious, and they have even told me themselves that the human mind is being underestimated. Simply reading a book once is good enough. You do …
/r/askTRP13/08/19 10:41 PM
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Sure, it can be helpful to some, but not for me. Plenty of things in life has to do with associations. I dislike associating someone I'm fucking/dating to a child. They are a woman, I am a man. I have boundaries. I have frame. I have confidence. I have abundance. It's that simple.
/r/askTRP13/08/19 09:50 PM
1

Like I said, you need to work on you SMV, I gave you some examples.
/r/askTRP13/08/19 09:47 PM
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Hi. Of all the theories on TRP, this is one of them that I disagree with. Many things in life have to do with how you frame them. I personally prefer the frame "be a healthy man with boundaries", instead of "treat women like children". If you work on yourself and respect yourself, you will naturally deal with women well. Be bold, develop your charisma, be confident, understand the masculine feminine polarity, and things will hopefully go well.
/r/askTRP13/08/19 06:55 PM
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For me, keeping a journal was a mistake. I got overly compulsive with it, perhaps because I have OCD. You have to understand that you are internalizing things... it just takes time. Just keep working on your confidence, SMV, lifting, fashion... You'll get better over time. Trust that your brain will learn, because it will. Mistakes are natural. Maybe a journal will work for you. For me, it made me compulsive and unhappy.
/r/askTRP13/08/19 06:52 PM
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Hey man. Just wanted to tell you that I remember when I used to ask questions like this. I came to the conclusion that I was overthinking a lot of things. This question is an example of that. Buddy, if you focus on things that will improve your SMV, such as lifting, fashion (having nice fitting clothes), grooming, skin care... You'll notice that you'll stop overthinking a lot of things. Your facial expression/smile is more of a side effect of other things. Instead of trying to focus on bettering…
/r/askTRP13/08/19 06:49 PM
0

Completely agree with " [a lot of people] use aversion towards social media as a coping mechanism because they know it's a market they will never be able to tap into. " I like Gary Vee's perspective on social media. I believe that building your own personal brand is important.
/r/askTRP13/08/19 06:45 PM
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Hey. If you focus on lifting, having nice fitting clothes, grooming, skin care..., you'll notice that texting and talking to girls will become easy. In short, if you work on your SMV, you'll feel confident, and you'll stop overthinking a lot of things.
/r/askTRP13/08/19 06:41 PM
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Congratulations buddy. I know it probably took a lot to do that. It sure did for me when I asked out my Oneitus a while back. Good on you! I know it might be difficult, but I think cutting contact completely is best. That is what worked for me. Took a couple of months but things started to get great after that.
/r/askTRP13/08/19 06:36 PM
2

As I wrote in another comment, I recomend the book, "Unscripted". I think it will answer your question.
/r/askTRP13/08/19 06:33 PM
2

Since you mentioned the script, I will recomend the book "Unscripted". One of my favourite books. It is about entrepreneurship
/r/askTRP13/08/19 06:31 PM
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This! Most of the crap on this sub is a bunch of people overthinking everything. Work on becoming a healthy person, raise your SMV, take care of your finances, your body/mind, your character, learn how to draw boundaries, learn who YOU are... all of the basic common sense stuff. Everything else will come naturally. You see a cute girl? You wanna approach her? Do it! You wanna compliment her? Do it! Fuck what trp says. Learn as part of your process. Experiment with things. Become a good person an…
/r/TheRedPill26/07/19 09:06 PM
2

thanks for the advice man.
/r/askTRP17/07/19 02:58 AM
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lol thanks man
/r/askTRP17/07/19 02:47 AM
1

she said: nah, I just don't wanna go out with you.
/r/askTRP17/07/19 02:40 AM
1

lmao you're good
/r/askTRP17/07/19 02:38 AM
1

This is what happened: Me: Let's see how you really stack up. Let's grab a drink on Saturday. Better not be lying about your height. Her: ooof. ​ WTF. What am I supposed to say now lmao. Maybe, "you'll be making louder sounds than that when we meet"?
/r/askTRP17/07/19 02:33 AM
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lmao I asked her what she likes to do. She said what she likes to do is to unmatch me. And proceeded not to unmatch me lol.
/r/askTRP17/07/19 02:28 AM
1

hm interesting. Should I just ask her out for drinks or wait a few more messages?
/r/askTRP17/07/19 02:16 AM
1

too aggressive
/r/askTRP17/07/19 02:10 AM
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She's like a 9. Isn't this a shit test?
/r/askTRP17/07/19 02:04 AM
1

sent.
/r/askTRP17/07/19 01:50 AM
1

I'm going back and forth with this cute tinder girl. Not sure how to respond to one of her messages. Can I dm you to get your advice? You seem like you know what you're talking about.
/r/askTRP17/07/19 01:38 AM
1

what about inviting her for a date in a few days, not right away.
/r/askTRP17/07/19 01:29 AM
1

I gotta start cold approaching.
/r/askTRP17/07/19 01:28 AM
1

youre kidding...
/r/askTRP17/07/19 01:26 AM
1

But then I’ll only have 2 total pictures, for now at least. Can I start with that? What would you recommend I use for those 2 pics (I’m talking about poses). How many of the 2 smiling? How many looking at camera?
/r/TheRedPill14/07/19 04:16 AM
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Hey looking for advice on this: Pretty much my only pictures are from a photoshoot outdoors (a few pics indoors) I went to a couple days ago. I wore 2 different outfits. I have about 5 amazing pictures in each outfit. Clothing on point, I look fit, haircut on point. In your opinion how many pictures in each outfit should I use to start my tinder account. I’ve never used tinder before. I’m also not active on social media. I’m 19 btw.
/r/TheRedPill13/07/19 02:41 PM
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You don’t get it. My confidence in myself in high. I have great frame and I understand social cues pretty well. I know how to flirt too. My confidence in my ability to attract hot girls is low. The whole situation felt odd.
/r/seduction10/07/19 06:59 PM
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Grow into your own frame. Fuck the James Bond frame and fuck whatever else frame you wanna “hop into”. Don’t overthink all of this. If you wanna experiment go ahead. Keep being you. Practice makes perfect.
/r/askTRP10/07/19 04:34 AM
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As Gary v always says, macro patience, micro speed. Have patience man. If you’re standards are so high, you’ll feel like shit when if u fail. Incrementally try to improve. Small steps.
/r/askTRP10/07/19 04:32 AM
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Hey bro. You can DM me anytime to talk. Also, fuck this guy. If you wanna make trp your journal, go ahead. Nothing wrong with making observations and looking for advice.
/r/askTRP10/07/19 04:29 AM
1

Go with the flow brother. Don’t overthink. Just keep trying to incrementally become a higher value man. Everything else will come naturally.
/r/askTRP10/07/19 04:27 AM
1

Nah trust me not weird at all.
/r/askTRP10/07/19 04:26 AM
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Plenty of fish in the sea. You know the situation best. Sometimes it just ain’t worth it.
/r/askTRP10/07/19 04:25 AM
2

Nope. Don’t let people tell u it’s normal. It’s your life. Take control.
/r/askTRP10/07/19 04:21 AM
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Trial and error. Do your research. Took me lile 3-4 therapist/psychologists to find the right one. First one was a fat lady. She was nice but clearly not for me. Second was also a female. That’s when I realized that having a male was important. They can relate more to me. Third was an old guy. Smart guy but I needed someone a bit younger with a fresh perspective. Finally found one. He’s great. He swears during our talks. He dresses sharp and you can tell he hits the gym. His advice is very balan…
/r/askTRP10/07/19 04:20 AM
1

Just a reminder. A real man does whatever the fuck he wants to do, including not being discrete if he doesn’t feel like it. Honestly I think most of the stuff on this sub is overthinking. Be a man of high value and all of this will come naturally.
/r/TheRedPill10/07/19 04:15 AM
1

yea I should have done something like this
/r/askTRP10/07/19 04:01 AM
1

so ur saying I should cold approach?
/r/askTRP10/07/19 03:34 AM
1

Fuck. I'm gonna download tinder and go on a few coffee dates. Hopefully that will rise my confidence.
/r/askTRP10/07/19 03:02 AM
1

This situation was an anomaly. I don't think I attract cute girls off the street.
/r/seduction10/07/19 03:01 AM
1

Already read the book. Good reminder thanks.
/r/askTRP10/07/19 02:59 AM
0

fuck me...
/r/seduction10/07/19 02:41 AM
2

Thanks for the advice. However, I have read so many books and so much theory that I’m just sick of it now. Time for actual practice and action haha
/r/seduction07/07/19 07:59 PM
1

Hey man. Just some encouragement from me. I was once in this situation. Totally over it now. And I feel better than ever. You got this.
/r/askTRP07/07/19 04:55 PM
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I'm proud of everyone in the comment section. People seem to really be encouraging OP. Good job OP. It gets easier. Just keep going. From my own experience, when you take a long time to do something, it gets harder. So the fact that you were able to ask her out after 3 years is huge.
/r/askTRP07/07/19 04:38 PM
2

Yea man. I just contacted a photographer to take some pictures of me so that I can start a tinder profile. I've never been one to have pictures of myself or use social media so I'm hoping this will be a good investment.
/r/seduction07/07/19 12:56 AM
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Thanks man.
/r/seduction07/07/19 12:22 AM
2

Thanks man. Fully agree. Can't tell you how much I appreciate the encouragement.
/r/seduction07/07/19 12:21 AM
1

Check out this post on the main sub. It's called "Nice or Asshole? How healthy are you? How healthy were you?" I think that shift in perspective will help you.
/r/askTRP04/07/19 06:57 PM
1

From my experience, its good to have the worst-case scenario at the back of your mind. But it's also important to not get consumed by this information, because there's a real world out there and not everyone is evil. I stayed away from red pilled stuff for a year, while still have the basis of that information at the back of my mind. Now that I'm back, I have a more healthy perspective. Also worth mentioning that a lot of people are in the anger stage right now. Typically, when you act one way (…
/r/askTRP04/07/19 04:58 PM
1

Another thing is that this sub is bipolar as fuck. One day everyone telling me I'm a bitch. The next day everyone telling me I took shit too far, when I literally followed the advice of 90 percent of the commenters. Both posts got hella hate comments and dislikes.
/r/askTRP02/07/19 03:54 AM
4

Respects bro.
/r/askTRP02/07/19 03:52 AM
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Facts bro. My last post everyone calling me a bitch with zero substance added to that. Makes no sense to me.
/r/askTRP02/07/19 01:52 AM
2

Nah it was all in good fun don't worry. We even had a friendly goodbye as I said. I"m not an idiot.
/r/askTRP01/07/19 10:41 PM
1

Assaulted? He tried touching me and I pushed back. 😂
/r/askTRP01/07/19 07:10 PM
1

Stay away from red pilled stuff for a while. That's what I did for like a year. The good thing is that I still have that red pill knowledge in the background, but it doesn't consume me, I'm able to still be myself and not overthink everything. Do whatever the fuck you want to do. Only you have the full context. Only you can have the full self-awareness.
/r/askTRP01/07/19 05:38 PM
1

Alright I’ll do that.
/r/askTRP01/07/19 05:03 PM
1

I was right, links aren't allowed.
/r/askTRP01/07/19 04:59 PM
1

Didn't think links were allowed. That's my bad. I'll do that now.
/r/askTRP01/07/19 04:56 PM
1

I don't get it man. I respect your work, I've been on this sub for a long time. Small victories are stepping stones. Even though it's not much, at least I was able to improve on my frame and learn to create boundaries.
/r/askTRP01/07/19 04:54 PM
1

Looks like your time (or lifetime, using your own words) is worth a lot, already commenting 3 times on this thread, passive agressively, if I may add.
/r/askTRP01/07/19 04:52 PM
1

Don't you think it would have been smarter for the guy to first look at my last post before commenting?
/r/askTRP01/07/19 04:50 PM
0

Also, man* not boy.
/r/askTRP01/07/19 04:44 PM
1

What are you implying?
/r/askTRP01/07/19 04:43 PM
0

He deserved it. My default is to always be a nice respectful guy. But if someone fucks with me, I'm gonna do the same. Also, thanks man, best of luck to you too.
/r/askTRP01/07/19 04:22 PM
2

FINAL UPDATE: Copy pasted here in case it gets removed for being a separate post. On my last post you all pretty much called a bitch. I was pissed at first but it did create a fire in me. Yesterday was my last day of work. I was working with the AMOG guy. I fucked with him so much that I'm sure he's glad I'm gone. First, I told my boss to get this guy fired and find someone new and explained a few things. My boss agreed. Then, during work, I made fun of the fact that he's 60 and is still dishwas…
/r/askTRP01/07/19 04:15 PM
1

Ok I will
/r/askTRP01/07/19 04:13 PM
0

All caps.. you mad bro?
/r/askTRP01/07/19 03:45 PM
0

Do your homework and read the previous post.
/r/askTRP01/07/19 03:43 PM
-2

Appreciate it brother. However, I've stood up for myself a lot in the past. This situation was an anomaly.
/r/askTRP01/07/19 03:40 PM
0

Ran away? I got a job that offers almost twice as much as this one. Fuck off.
/r/askTRP01/07/19 03:38 PM
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It was just a means to an end. Everyone starts somewhere. Trust me, I've got much bigger goals than that.
/r/askTRP01/07/19 03:38 PM
3

Yea man. Busting balls should never be a one-way thing.
/r/askTRP01/07/19 03:32 PM
1

check out my update post. You were right. I should have just messed with him this whole time.
/r/askTRP01/07/19 03:15 PM
1

check out my update post buddy.
/r/askTRP01/07/19 03:13 PM
1

Check out my update. You were right. He's a fucking paper tiger.
/r/askTRP01/07/19 03:12 PM
1

Check out my update post.
/r/askTRP01/07/19 03:09 PM
1

Okay so I got a question. Where does one draw the line then? You can't always be stoic. Sometimes you need to get angry to show your boundaries. You can't always laugh things off or act like it didn't piss you off. Why not wear your emotions on your sleeve at times? I think theres a delicate balance.
/r/askTRP01/07/19 03:00 PM
1

My bad. You were the helpful guy. I thought you were someone else.
/r/askTRP30/06/19 06:44 PM
1

My frame is whatever the fuck I want it to be. It's not an objective thing nitwit.
/r/askTRP30/06/19 06:43 PM
0

Yea I agree
/r/askTRP30/06/19 03:39 PM
1

Alright thanks man. So basically I should laugh it off sometimes but also get aggressive sometimes? Like when do I know which one to do. My first instinct at someone slapping my ass would be to get angry.
/r/askTRP30/06/19 03:38 PM
1

Alright thanks for the advice man. Can you elaborate on the weak replies and tell me what I need to improve on ?
/r/askTRP30/06/19 03:34 PM
1

Thanks man. I appreciate the thought out and serious answer from you.
/r/askTRP30/06/19 05:28 AM
1

when you fight with a pig, you both get dirty but the pig enjoys it.
/r/askTRP30/06/19 05:03 AM
1

Thanks for adding substance buddy.
/r/askTRP30/06/19 05:02 AM
1

found the subreddit but not the post. Could you explain it?
/r/askTRP30/06/19 03:36 AM
1

I always give respect first. But he disrespected me (and I disrespected myself) so I don't respect him.
/r/askTRP30/06/19 03:35 AM
1

Basically I;ll be agressive/assertive and push him away hard and stare at him like I'm not fucking kidding around.
/r/askTRP30/06/19 03:29 AM
2

I just got a pretty good office job away from this shit.
/r/askTRP30/06/19 03:25 AM
1

lmao
/r/askTRP30/06/19 03:25 AM
0

So youre saying his actions are okay??
/r/askTRP30/06/19 03:25 AM
-1

FUck off. it was a mistake and I wont let it happen again.
/r/askTRP30/06/19 03:24 AM
1

Fuck earning respect from him, he has to earn my respect. Fuck him. Also what is that google link?
/r/askTRP30/06/19 03:24 AM
1

I guess your intentions are in the right place. You're right in a sense. I will treat this whole experience as a learning experience and will not allow this shit to happen again.
/r/askTRP30/06/19 03:23 AM
1

Yes I fucking lift. I just reported him. I know I should have been more assertive. I'm very embarrassed and will not allow this to happen again.
/r/askTRP30/06/19 03:22 AM
1

I feel like that's such a pussy move. Also the ass slapping is the only thing I'm not too sure about. Like I explained it very well could have been an accident because I think I remember him holding dishes in one hand or something. And he never looked back or gave a smirk or anything like that.
/r/askTRP30/06/19 03:22 AM
0

Or punch him in the fucking face.
/r/askTRP30/06/19 03:21 AM
1

I have a new job that pays wayyyyyy more starting soon. I've already given my notice for his job and my last day is in a couple days.
/r/askTRP30/06/19 03:21 AM
0

Wow thanks for the descriptive advice, not like I've been called a bitch 100 times already on this fucking thread.
/r/askTRP30/06/19 03:20 AM
1

Can you please explain. I don't understand. Are you saying nothing was wrong with his actions??
/r/askTRP30/06/19 03:19 AM
0

Yes I fucking lift. I lift a lot. I'm pretty big and strong for my age. I'm tall too. Another reason this whole situation pisses me off.
/r/askTRP30/06/19 03:19 AM
1

Just replied to you on another message buddy. What do you think?
/r/askTRP30/06/19 03:18 AM
1

I would never say it offline. It's for the context of the story. All im saying is that I should have behaved by being more assertive and aggressive.
/r/askTRP30/06/19 03:18 AM
1

Well I should never allow him to act like he's my superior. I either out frame him or tell my boss. I don't ever let someone touch me how I Don't want to be touched and I get angry if someone fucks with me. This is my reality, my frame, my world, nobody fucks with me. That should be the mindset.
/r/askTRP30/06/19 03:17 AM
2

Okay I'll do that next time someone touches me. Thanks man.
/r/askTRP30/06/19 03:16 AM
1

Thanks makes sense.
/r/askTRP30/06/19 03:15 AM
1

Yea you're probably right about him.
/r/askTRP30/06/19 03:15 AM
1

Alright my bad I phrased it wrongly.
/r/askTRP30/06/19 03:14 AM
2

You sound like a real angry dude. You do realize I'm 19 right, out of high school. Look back at yourself at that age. You don't think I know I'm acting like how I am? I'm trying to fix it! Calm the fuck down and don't comment if you're just gonna be a toxic asshole.
/r/askTRP29/06/19 08:15 PM
2

Sounds real insecure dude. You're probably the biggest bitch under that tough guy mask.
/r/askTRP29/06/19 08:01 PM
0

When the fuck did I say it's charming? I said I didn't want a creepy guy doing shit like that to me. I even caused a big scene once and he acting properly for a couple days. And the paw might have been an accident since we are always carrying shit. I think it even happened once by accident with one of my friends and I've done it accidentally a bunch of times as well to people and laughed it off. I said the way he talked and acts can come off as charismatic, like someone taking advance of social …
/r/askTRP29/06/19 07:59 PM
1

What do you mean?
/r/askTRP29/06/19 07:51 PM
1

I;ll tell him in two days before leaving (my final day) and explain everything to my boss.
/r/askTRP29/06/19 07:48 PM
1

Bro thanks for the encouragement. That's what I needed right now.
/r/askTRP29/06/19 07:48 PM
5

What do you mean by paper tiger?
/r/askTRP29/06/19 07:45 PM
6

Fuck off if youre gonna insult me instead of adding substance.
/r/askTRP29/06/19 07:45 PM
-4

Alright youre right.I'm just pissed all these people are insulting me instead of helping. They know nothing about me.
/r/askTRP29/06/19 07:45 PM
2

Okay okay I get your point
/r/askTRP29/06/19 07:28 PM
3

Nah fuck that I already have a new job.
/r/askTRP29/06/19 07:26 PM
1

Okay thanks man.
/r/askTRP29/06/19 07:26 PM
1

Okay thanks man
/r/askTRP29/06/19 07:25 PM
-3

Jesus Christ man. Every fucking body making fun of me. Like I’m looking for some serious advice? You don’t think I know I look like a bitch ?
/r/askTRP29/06/19 07:25 PM
3

Lmaoo
/r/askTRP29/06/19 07:24 PM
-9

Why the name calling? I feel ashamed and I have this problem and all I hear is people calling me a bitch and making fun of me. I’m trying to deal with this issue.
/r/askTRP29/06/19 07:24 PM
0

I’m staIght. Why the name calling? I already feel like shit because of my behaviour.
/r/askTRP29/06/19 07:22 PM
3

I’m not gay. I’m being serious. Everyone acting like they never went through a stage where they acted like a bitch. I’m ashamed and I’m trying to fix the issue.
/r/askTRP29/06/19 07:22 PM
2

why do you say that?
/r/askTRP19/06/19 03:12 AM
1

Yea it looks like a nice program I want to give it a shot.
/r/askTRP24/04/19 07:44 PM
1

I disagree. Incremental exposure seems to be the answer.
/r/askTRP24/04/19 06:19 AM
2

Thanks I'll check it out.
/r/askTRP24/04/19 12:20 AM
2

Thanks man.
/r/askTRP24/04/19 12:20 AM
8

Don't fear being goofy, you don't want to become a robot. I made the same mistake by trying to act like the James Bond masculine type. I realized that isn't the person I am. I'm more of the cocky funny type and I like being goofy and stupid at times. However, I also understand the importance of being masculine. Balance and self-awareness are what are most important. Trust yourself and trust you instincts while keeping an open mind and a desire to learn at the same time.
/r/askTRP23/04/19 08:16 PM
4

I will try it out, thank you.
/r/askTRP23/04/19 08:06 PM
2

Why? where you from?
/r/askTRP23/04/19 08:05 PM
1

Read the book Breaking Out of Homeostasis. Pretty much, your homeostasis is always trying to maintain the different feedback loops going on in your body and brain. You need to break out of those negative feedback loops. The book gives great practical advice on how to do that.
/r/askTRP23/04/19 08:02 PM
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