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She wasn't super explicit over text. Stuff like "they should know what you're like" and "if I do it you should know that you deserve what's coming". Yea I'm not thinking straight at the moment. She has me by the balls and she knows it.
/r/askTRP08/04/17 03:21 AM
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Idk man. She says she doesn't want to stop, but she thinks I'm never gonna change. She feels like she loves me more and is the "loser" in the relationship. Who the fuck knows what she really wants Not brave enough to take the second option. I really want this job and I worked my ass off to get it. Not going to risk losing it just because of some dumb bitch
/r/askTRP08/04/17 02:36 AM
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She wasn't a plate, she was an LTR. I made the mistake of trusting a sociopath, but don't you think it's a little extreme to not let your LTR (assuming it's a healthy relationship) know where you work/are planning to work?
/r/askTRP08/04/17 02:11 AM
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I'm at the stage where I'm even considering getting back together with her until things are more stable employment-wise. JFC.
/r/askTRP08/04/17 02:09 AM
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She has less to lose than me. She's a foreigner and can just go back to her country if shit hits the fan. She knows her dad will support her. If I play blackmail chicken with her it's only going to get even messier.
/r/askTRP08/04/17 02:05 AM
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I'm only due to start a week from now, and as far as possible I'd rather not my first interaction with my company be shit like this. I don't even know if she's really going to do it or not. Appreciate the advice, I'm stressing out over this bitch
/r/askTRP08/04/17 01:51 AM
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Is there even a chance that I might lose my position because of this? The screenshot she has is barely "evidence". It's an established startup not, and the head of the department I'll be working at fucking loves me. I don't think she'll do it but the uncertainty of the whole situation just sickens me.
/r/askTRP08/04/17 01:43 AM
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You want a fucking shortcut. There is no shortcut
/r/askTRP22/02/17 09:23 AM
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It's weird, if you look at my previous post she unblocked her ex on Instagram a day after I got rough with her and kicked her out of my house. Now she's doing this? I don't get it.
/r/askTRP22/02/17 08:32 AM
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Thanks. Have returned all her shit and blocked her on every conceivable platform. She's actually waiting outside my house right now. Agree with you 100%. Never going to let myself get rattled by a woman again.
/r/askTRP20/02/17 05:52 PM
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Yep. Better later than never I suppose. Wish there was a silver lining besides that
/r/askTRP20/02/17 03:34 PM
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Why's it childish. It's the best way to make sure she has no way of reaching me short of waiting outside my place (which she has done as well). She goes nuts if she knows I've read her messages and don't respond, so blocking her was the only solution I could think of.
/r/askTRP20/02/17 03:33 PM
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That's pretty ambitious. Nah I don't care if she gets off or not as long as I do
/r/askTRP20/02/17 12:32 PM
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It was on the rocks for a long time, I cheated on her a couple times about 6 months in, and I had a history of being rough with her earlier in the relationship. She never really forgave me for that. Should have ripped off the bandaid a long time ago.
/r/askTRP20/02/17 12:00 PM
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This is so fucking true.
/r/askTRP07/02/17 04:59 PM
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Easier said than done right now when it's all still so fresh, but yes I definitely could've handled a lot of things better. Probably shouldn't even have entered into an LTR at this point in my life.
/r/askTRP07/02/17 04:28 PM
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I know... Just wanted to rant somewhere and be told I'm a fucking moron, and wasn't sure where else to turn to.
/r/askTRP07/02/17 04:27 PM
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Let's say I decide to just next her (which is the option that I am currently entertaining). Do not bring up the lack of trust at all?
/r/askTRP07/12/16 05:04 AM
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I would hardly say that's a red flag A girl who immediately reaches out to an ex for validation/comfort is not LTR worthy IMO. What's your opinion on this?
/r/askTRP07/12/16 05:02 AM
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You know her better than I do, but it sounds like she panicked and did what she thought she had to do. Most girls wouldn't even disclose that information.
/r/askTRP24/11/16 06:27 PM
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Lol it was clearly a joke though.
/r/askTRP02/11/16 03:14 AM
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Without context, it sounds like she's seeking comfort and I wouldn't treat it like a shit test. "Gorgeous enough to be with me" is what I might respond.
/r/askTRP04/06/16 07:13 AM
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If you're as truly as Alpha™ in this relationship as you think, I don't see how any amount of tact is going to prevent her from getting alpha widowed when everything's been said and done.
/r/askTRP04/06/16 06:51 AM
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Decided it's not. We've broken up.
/r/askTRP21/05/16 03:28 PM
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We talk more, and she starts pushing for commitment, and we waste an hour in the streets while I say no and she cries 5 times. Why were you doing this for AN HOUR?! How do I handle this? Block her. Unless you secretly enjoy the attention, which is the vibe I'm getting
/r/askTRP21/05/16 01:41 PM
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I broke up with her. Thanks for the advice.
/r/askTRP21/05/16 10:42 AM
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Yea no shit, that's why I'm on an Internet message board looking for help. Got any?
/r/askTRP21/05/16 03:04 AM
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Did I really do nothing wrong. Like somebody said in another comment, she ghosted me after an argument. The break up wasn't explicit. If the roles were reversed and she did the same to me, I doubt I'd be generous enough to believe that she "did nothing wrong".
/r/askTRP21/05/16 02:08 AM
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Thanks, fantastic insight here.
/r/askTRP21/05/16 02:02 AM
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Yea I see what you're saying, and I understand why it'd upset her even though in my mind we were technically broken up. If the roles were reversed I'd next her in a heartbeat. Opinions on what can be done now?
/r/askTRP21/05/16 02:02 AM
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Probably a break up.
/r/askTRP20/05/16 09:46 PM
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Still not gna fuck her in the car m8
/r/askTRP19/05/16 12:49 AM
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Why did you ask her what she wants? Why not? Honest question, not trying to be a smart ass. If she can tell me what she wants and I can't provide it, I'm not the right person for her. See, I'm the prize. She better 'love' me more, that's what I expect. How do you reward her for loving you more?
/r/askTRP11/03/16 12:29 PM
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I hope to god you're a troll, because the alternative is that you're a fucking moron.
/r/askTRP18/12/15 08:34 AM
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Or maybe she thinks you're gay. Is this a service industry job?
/r/askTRP10/12/15 10:35 AM
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Great read, thanks for the link
/r/askTRP04/12/15 10:24 AM
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She left the room to take the call so that reason wouldn't have worked. I just didn't like the fact that someone I invited into my house to spend time with me would be on the phone with somebody else. Is that needy/unreasonable? And yea arguing with her was a fuckin waste of time. Live and learn
/r/askTRP13/11/15 09:00 AM
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Lol what I do in these situations is just pretend to nod off and let out a fake snore. Hasn't failed
/r/askTRP11/11/15 01:23 PM
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She's not asking directly, but she keeps telling me she has no idea how to handle the situation. Anyway good advice, I know how to navigate this now. Thanks
/r/askTRP03/11/15 04:05 AM
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For sure, it never crossed my mind to give her MY money. I meant help out as in help her get back the money that is owed to her.
/r/askTRP03/11/15 03:51 AM
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I know some dudes are fine with fucking girls on their period, but if I have the option to call up another plate and have non sloppy period sex I'm going to take that option. I want to roll over and sleep after I nut, not wash my dick and make sure there isn't blood on my sheets Thanks for chipping in, I appreciate the advice.
/r/askTRP24/10/15 04:14 AM
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Cheers man. This really puts things in perspective for me.
/r/askTRP24/10/15 04:13 AM
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She knows you want sex. The period was a shit-test. You failed the shit test by saying 'it's not a big deal'. I should have explained better -- I said it wasn't a big deal that she didn't tell me she was on her period, but I made it clear to her that in future she would have to give me a heads up. I don't think I failed a shit test. And yea "nice" might not have been the best word. "Tactful" is what I was looking for.
/r/askTRP24/10/15 04:13 AM
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You make a good point...
/r/askTRP23/10/15 04:30 AM
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We finished our drinks and got a second round. If she was a plate I would've bounced immediately.
/r/askTRP23/10/15 03:56 AM
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Yup. I don't see how I could sleep with both of them regularly without encountering drama
/r/askTRP12/10/15 12:58 PM
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Not 5 mins after I replied her, she responds saying "I already miss you. What should I do?" How a person flp flops like that in a matter of hours I'll never understand
/r/askTRP05/10/15 03:42 PM
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This is pretty much what I ended up doing. I thought a "lol k" response wouldn't have been very congruent in this situation.
/r/askTRP05/10/15 03:13 PM
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Missed that post, thanks for the link.
/r/askTRP05/10/15 11:41 AM
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She's done because she's afraid of catching feelings. At least that's the reason she gave (I didn't ask why, she volunteered the information). Regardless, looks like nexting her is the way to go
/r/askTRP05/10/15 10:30 AM
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She wants to stop because she's afraid she's going to catch feelings, I doubt she's trying to play games. If it was simply a "we're getting sick of each other" situation it would be clearer for me to handle. I guess my response shouldn't change regardless? Wish her well and move on?
/r/askTRP05/10/15 10:08 AM
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Man I might have trouble getting out of bed for a male friend, much less a plate. How/why do you do it?
/r/askTRP
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I was so close to volunteering. BP habits die hard
/r/askTRP
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So is breaking up the only option here?
/r/askTRP
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