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Meaning that if she's not attractive, you'd usually say fuck no, but by going to talk to her in a crowded social environment you're social proofing yourself, instead of just saying fuck no and ignoring her, sitting on a couch with your drink waiting for a fuck yes who has no idea of who you are and noticed you sitting alone having a shit night.
/r/seduction26/05/14 01:53 AM
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I believe what he contradicts is the fact that Mark does indeed preach the 'Fuck yes or no' rule, which is really useful in life but when it comes to socializing at a bar you know not a single person, social proofing would be a better pre-approach mentality.
/r/seduction25/05/14 10:50 PM
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No, seriously dancing. I live in Central America so dancing is a real big part of the culture, grinding is an absolute no over here unless people are drunk or you go to the worst "antros" (clubs you really don't want to go to.) We were dancing bachata, which involves a fuckton of kino, you're able to place your hand on her lower back, hips, almost her ass, her upper back, you touch hands, her forearm and shoulders, tummy, sides, etc... It's like the "if you're great at dancing this you're gettin…
/r/seduction18/05/14 03:37 PM
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Thanks, I indeed blew myself out as well twice in December because of pushing things too much, but I've learned to be patient and have self-esteem, I ain't running out on someone who's clearly not interested. I still haven't accepted her add until tonight, to not rush it (and clean all shit off of my facebook lol)
/r/seduction18/05/14 01:17 AM
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Thanks, I decided she's definitely not worth it, and this HB9 M just added me on fb. Not sure whether to text or fb message, anyway I'll be setting up plans for next Friday.
/r/seduction17/05/14 09:17 PM
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I can so totally relate. A few months ago (March), I went to two parties with exchange French students. 22 girls, 2 guys. Don't ask me why, girls seemed to really want the whole tropical and beach environment while guys at her school in France decided to go to NY. So first party, about five girls notice me, I introduce myself in French politely (I'm French) and they all start talking to me, I was the center of attention alongside my best friend, who's also French. Nothing happens though, only ha…
/r/seduction16/05/14 10:47 PM
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It's my first FR, and I think of it more like a get-hyped post, as you can get lucky, or make your luck. It was my first time actually getting the balls to hold eye-contact with an HB 8+, even though they usually compliment me on my looks, and just eye-contact went sooo far. So yeah, more of a get-out-there and eventually something will happen if you try.
/r/seduction09/05/14 12:31 AM
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This is my first field report, and I thought I wasn't going to share any "magical tips that'll make her love you forever" or "seduce her in one weird trick, improve your seduction skills ultimately!", because I've you've read the sidebar and been on seddit for 1-2 weeks you already probably have learned every technical thing. Instead I decided to share an experience, for others that are too shy to get out there or to actually try what they have learned to improve their game (since there isn't mu…
/r/seduction09/05/14 12:27 AM
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This is creepy shit man. Cut this out. She won't appreciate it one bit, unless you explain yourself. Even then... She gave me her full name, most likely so I could find her, I didn't give her mine though, and just said sorry for not being polite and giving her my full name, to which she responded that it was definitely no problem and that she was actually searching me through mutual friends but was writing my name incorrectly. On other circumstances, I definitely wouldn't have friended. I extrem…
/r/seduction09/05/14 12:24 AM
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She definitely seemed interested, and my looks probably don't make it worse. She just didn't seem as interested once I left her for a while, and I forgot to push it further with her because I was busy with other girls that I now realize weren't worth it at all.
/r/seduction08/05/14 06:06 PM
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It felt awesome to be honest, at in the last gaze I gave her she noticed and just came up to me, I was surprised as I was on my way to go talk to her but she was one step forward aha. I've noticed eye-contact is actually really useful and effective to a point I wouldn't even believe it, plus I'm the master of the smirk, so the whole eye-rape + smirk probably really caught her attention.
/r/seduction08/05/14 04:39 PM
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She approached me because of what I did, and she gave me her number via fb yesterday at night. I'm taking her to a gigantic party on Saturday. How's that? Dude... my goal was never, is not and will never be to become a PUA.
/r/seduction08/05/14 02:58 PM
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The thing is this group was not going to meet again until September, and she's not from my high school, our high schools have absolutely no interactions.
/r/seduction08/05/14 02:56 PM
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Check if you have any medications, stop masturbating for at least twenty days and go on a no-porn challenge of at least thirty days. It's called a "reset".
/r/seduction25/04/14 05:24 AM
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Right, I'll straight out ask her next time I see her, I'm really like what the fuck just happened because of it, she's 100% into me even her best friends have told me she's always talking about me and else. Another struggle I seem to always deal with when it comes to girls in my high school or even in all other high schools (I have friends in like 5 different schools, since my school is small and pretty anti-social.) is that girls don't even grasp the concept of an open relationship. I don't lik…
/r/seduction21/04/14 02:11 PM
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I'm not saying he does, but many many sedditors here get the idea that you should just "move on" so damn quickly, like, she flaked once but asked for rain check? Not the time to be prideful. She may have had actual good reasons. You should not give up so easily, unless she's a stranger and it really did seem like she was not interested / playing with you.
/r/seduction21/04/14 02:09 PM
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While I mostly agree with all of this, I think there are many, many other reasons a girl would flake or reject you in the first place, not only or simply not because she does not value your "inherent person value". Who knows, she may be having a hard time, just broke up from a LTR, or very simply, you're still a stranger. She doesn't owe you shit, and you shouldn't get pissed off because she flaked once, you don't know what's behind that. Just giving some insight on not being impulsive when it c…
/r/seduction21/04/14 05:03 AM
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I'll try again, one girl said yes but she's in an open relationship and currently having affairs with like 5 guys, plus she's my long time 2nd-best friend so I definitely pass / only want to keep her as a great friend. (though she's easily an hb9)
/r/seduction20/04/14 11:34 PM
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While I agree with the mentality you propose on the romantic/sexual aspect of these girls, I do not think they're immature, they simply want to have a unique experience as their first time, and I respect that, but they definitely haven't gotten around to how it works, maybe that's why they're afraid. I also disagree with older people with older advice that would never work. 8 months ago I was a total loser. I used to be popular and your typical jock w/e when I was 13-14, then I got fat and sad (…
/r/seduction20/04/14 11:33 PM
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Omg hahah now I do realise the title sounds pretty..... unsettling ahahah
/r/seduction20/04/14 11:26 PM
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Touch. No longer touch friendly parts, go for bold moves, or sneaky ones but powerful. Such as holding her hand, forearm or waist while doing something else (calling the waitress, calling someone, answering a phone call, or even just looking out the window) Slowly caress that part, and grind up until you reach the chin. My most usual and effective move is placing my index finger under the thin and the thumb on top of it, and pull her towards me closing the gap and going for the kiss, if not for …
/r/seduction19/04/14 05:30 AM
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Shit wingmen are the best wingmen. I have this friend, let's call him D (no pun intended, D is the first letter of his name), he's this gigantic, big guy, who used to be fat but since he goes to the gym he slimmed down (maybe now even too slim), he's not gifted when it comes to physical appearance but he's on another level of funny when it comes to friends-humor. (not the teasing/flirty type of humor, more like the "you're so funny"-boy clownish, still this attribute makes him really appreciated…
/r/seduction16/04/14 08:20 PM
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Please learn how to spell/write as well. The way you write is definitely unattractive and unappealing. I know you may have been typing quickly but there's an auto-corrector man, come on. As for the question itself, I'd use something like: 'and does he/she not allow you to talk to other men?"
/r/seduction13/04/14 04:37 PM
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She was obviously teasing him. Learn, young one.
/r/seduction11/04/14 01:46 PM
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I'd just first make eye contact, then say something like: "You can't stare at me like that and not say hi", she'll usually reply something like "I wasn't staring light laughter" and I reply with a slight compliment, but not a big one or you'll come off as nice/needy: "Oh yes you were with those big blue eyes of yours" and then ask something like she doesn't look like she's from here, where is she from, and then banter about whatever. Just thread on what she says and on what she's wearing/what sh…
/r/seduction06/04/14 02:15 PM
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Conversation threading.
/r/seduction05/04/14 03:20 PM
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No, thank you. I honestly think I'm using this soon. :)
/r/seduction04/04/14 02:39 AM
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Very insightful, something fresh and new, keep these going please. I really like the emotions motivations and character traits, it allows for deep but quick connections with someone.
/r/seduction04/04/14 02:19 AM
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Solid advice mate.
/r/seduction20/03/14 02:06 AM
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Anything to help a fellow sedditor.
/r/seduction20/03/14 01:48 AM
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This. Make him take you out for some food, and if he's nervous about going for the kiss or seems interested in you but can't close you, ask him blatantly "Why haven't we kissed yet?". It's a way of closing him, without seeming like you're the one gaming him / desperate. If he's not interested, at least that's one thing off your shoulders.
/r/seduction19/03/14 08:28 PM
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I used to be like that not long ago, maybe 6 months ago. What I did was, first off, filter out all of the negative influences and toxic people in my life, or at least try to deal with them as little as possible. Then I got my priorities in order, which is entertaining relationships -> studies -> free time (hobbies, improving my skills in certain things that will be useful for my later life). If you're wondering why I have studies on second instead of first, it's because I'm naturally good at tes…
/r/seduction19/03/14 08:14 PM
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One of your problem seems to be that you are seeking a relationship to fulfill yourself, someone that comes in and magically makes your life whole. But that's not how it works, and there's the trick, you must be whole yourself to be able to share to someone else and engage a relationship. Build an ecosystem of things in your life in which you should improve, and get better at them, resolve your issues little by little, become happier, lead a great life, and women will come into it eventually.
/r/seduction19/03/14 01:03 AM
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Pretty well, she gave me this tip because I was months away from the equivalent of SAT in the French system, and even though I've always been a great student, the French SAT is known to be a really tough one (alongside GaoKao in China and Japanese systems.) I mainly used it for that, but then realized I could transpose it to everyday life. I've been passing this tip around with my family and close friends, and it works wonders for them too. Drinking something also helps control anxiety.
/r/seduction23/02/14 03:33 PM
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She simply drew this circle, and separated it into two semi-circles. The top is your qualities, and the bottom is the risks, the problems. This is at the bottom because most of these negative thoughts are thoughts you once buried in the subconscious, "growing back" to your conscious like they were bad weeds struggling to get back to you and pop into your conscious. When you have anxiety, you are making the risks greater, and not appreciating enough your qualities or what you are/deserve etc. Thi…
/r/seduction23/02/14 02:07 AM
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Pretty much story of my life. I'm working on the neediness though, and acting moderately disinterested is working for me, although if you are really interested it is crucial to give out IOI's from time to time.
/r/seduction22/02/14 05:06 PM
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I used to have this great psychologist who told me after 5 months I was ready to deal by myself with my own problems (father and grand mother deceased in a 4 year span, I'm pretty young. Mother problems and siblings, starting college, leaving hometown etc...) and she told me the best "mental remedy" to all kinds of anxiety, except for clinical anxiety because that's just another thing, is to diminish your problems, look at the "risks" like they were only small things and to make your qualities g…
/r/seduction22/02/14 05:02 PM
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Might indeed be true. If it's some kind of playful small talk in which you've escalated to a base of kino and have some level of trust with the girl you might be able to pull it off and indeed make her f close you more likely! I'll definitely try this with some girl who I always joke around with and see what happens!
/r/seduction14/02/14 07:50 PM
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Well of course, what I mean after a long conversation that was entertaining and everything, the girl is an amazing conversationalist, if she starts touching my nose even I would be pretty weirded out. I mean how do you pull it off, after she has given you signs? after # or k closing? before? Thanks!
/r/seduction14/02/14 02:50 AM
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Isn't it awkward and won't she be absolutely weirded out by it? I mean, I can imagine some girl just going up to her bff and saying and this guy just started trying to touch my nose like what the actual fuck creep-o
/r/seduction14/02/14 02:13 AM
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I don't know if it's me or what, maybe the habit but I literally CANNOT endure a cold shower. Only after some time of touching it like a cat will inspect suspicious food on the ground, I get used to it and may be able to endure it although I still feel extremely uncomfortable. I just cannot take it, it makes me crawl up completely and want to turn off the shower immediately. I don't even wash myself sometimes when I take cold showers. Help :(
/r/seduction14/02/14 12:01 AM
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Thank you, may I re-post in AskSeddit?
/r/seduction11/02/14 03:34 AM
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Will do! Although I live in a city where public transport is definitely not developped and it is pretty hard to move around and get to places. I'll just probably ask if she wants to join me and tell her in an hour or straight up pick her up!
/r/seduction14/01/14 10:54 PM
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Thanks, I usually try to rush the date. I constantly ask them when, if they are decided etcetera... Last one ended in a pretty bad fight (she was being extremely condescending although I went quite overboard) and she finished with calm your thirst for your next search, it doesn't suit cute guys. Blew me away. I indeed find it hard to accept myself and only define myself for what people define me although I do have some conceptions of myself and well long story short sometimes I know who I am whe…
/r/seduction14/01/14 03:39 AM
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