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If that gets you it probably means you are not over it, or you wouldn't be influenced by what that say, you would just observe how skewed their view is. But it's ok, don't worry, society and religion both help create that despicable sex shame. As I said, research how to overcome it. There would be a long talk to do, and you'll find it much better laid out by a specialized website than by me. Also, get some sexual education. There are great resources online for that too. Beyond that, what is work…
/r/seduction24/02/20 07:12 PM
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Are you sure you really came out of that mindset in the first place? Sometimes we can think we've made it when actually those imprinted ideas are still there, behind not or thoughts, but our emotions.
/r/seduction24/02/20 05:04 PM
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Research sexual shame and how to overcome it. I understand your difficulties because it's similar to what I feel. Get familiar with yourself, explore your sexuality, learn to feel good about it. Bind the idea of sex to love and attraction, or to any other positive feelings you might want to. With time you'll learn to see sex as something good and natural, and showing intent will become a way to give voice to those beautiful emotions, and you'll feel wishful to express them.
/r/seduction24/02/20 02:47 PM
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I don't know man. I really appreciate you trying to "wake up" people to what you consider the right way, but from the way that you talk about the concept of being yourself, and from the way you gave your advice, I think you are probably a skilled PUA, but not so skilled on that concept you seem to see as so wrong. Personally, the path I undertook to embrace women and seduction brought me to the advice of being myself (which takes as much effort as learning your techniques, I assure you) and I st…
/r/seduction24/12/19 10:15 AM
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No we did not. There's no evidence of it, in fact it even seems to go the other way: greater musical ability leads to less partners according to a study made on twins, and there are no close relatives to our race in the animal kingdom that have evolved an ability to produce and interpret music. Also, if that was the case, only men would make music, in the same way that only male peacock have a tail to display. To women it would be useless to play music. Let's be honest: someone carrying a musica…
/r/seduction13/11/19 12:44 AM
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"For me success would be having a conversation with a woman where she is actually engaged and not looking at the nearest exit." There you have a clue. What you are doing is determining your success based on her reaction. That's common and normal, don't worry, but it is also bad for you and the whole godibility of the interaction, both ways. What you should be declaring as successful is if you feel good in the interaction. Are you having fun? It's she interesting? Do you like the way she thinks, …
/r/seduction08/11/19 12:27 PM
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Just ask. "hey I would love to go out with you this weekend, what do you say?". Something like that.
/r/seduction08/11/19 09:58 AM
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Have you tried changing size?
/r/seduction25/10/19 05:22 PM
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Eww. This is not power. This is the exact opposite, this is giving away power, this is being so desperate for something that you let it influence your actions at the point that you hide what you desire. You know who will react like it's predicted there? Other desperate people, from whom you'll learn nothing and that will lead you to either forgetting about them or to bad feelings and unhappiness. There's nothing of masculine in all of that. A man, a real man, is one who knows what he wants and d…
/r/seduction24/10/19 09:28 PM
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That struggle, do you know where it comes from? It comes from conflict. You are fighting yourself, there's a battle inside, one part says the truth, the other tries to shout over it and plays deaf. You might surprised to know that the one stating the truth is the one that is afraid. You can caps lock all day and beat yourself up all day and try to fight it all day, you won't win. It was stated many times that bravery is not the absence of fear, but the acting despite its presence. You want to st…
/r/seduction18/10/19 01:19 PM
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You're welcome! The first one about the lawyer
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/10/19 08:02 PM
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How can I possibly know? I believe this is something way beyond a subreddit, and even beyond what you can solve alone. If you have autism you should seek professional help in these matters. Autism is a spectrum and there are many examples of autistic people that had women and relationships like any other person. The only thing I feel like saying is, why do you want a one night stand type of thing? Just to cum? Honestly, if that's the case, I'd look into what's beyond that desire. Seeking short i…
/r/seduction13/10/19 09:03 AM
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Let us know how it goes!
/r/seduction11/10/19 08:02 PM
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"Hey I like you and I'd love to hang out with you again, I really enjoyed it last time. What do you think? Saturday night maybe?" It's not your job to provide an easy way out. What you want is either a "yes", a "better this day at this time" or a "no thanks, I'm not interested". You have the right to ask, she has the right to refuse, and if you do and she does, it's your job to be able to take a clear no and be fine. No need to open the door to a soft rejection, especially before you even know w…
/r/seduction11/10/19 03:19 PM
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Two things I don't agree with in that quote. First, those things are not necessarily the face of success. What makes people in general attractive at a deeper level is confidence, generosity, humour, gratefulness, empathy, etc etc. Yeah sure, a good looking face and body and a fat bank account help, but only superficially. It's up to you what kind of relationship you prefer. Second: switch any sex related term with "person" and "people". This is not about men or women, but about people in general…
/r/seduction11/10/19 08:52 AM
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Man, no scenario where you get it easy and you also get what you want. You know as well as me deep down that there's no alternative: go and ask her out. It's ok to be nervous. It's ok to fuck it up. It's ok to be embarrassed, afraid, not sure of what to say, it's ok whatever you feel and happens. It's normal and it's the juice that we call life. It's actually good. Take a deep breath, feel the tip of your toes, clear your mind from all your thoughts, leave it blank. Then take the first step and …
/r/seduction10/10/19 11:33 PM
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I see myself in you. I'm a year older than you but at 22 I was in the same situation, with the same feelings and same thoughts. I know it's not easy to shrug off that sensation that there must be something wrong with you. I used to wonder why, of all those people out there, I seemed to be an exception. I wanted a girlfriend, I even was the romantic type of guy, I could talk to girls without problem and yet... Guys with all sorts of unattractive behaviours and body would still find someone and I …
/r/seduction10/10/19 10:30 PM
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I agree with you. I believe most tactics are either a way to fake confidence or to get things going even without it. I see lots of men here who really just care about getting laid, which is fine, except when they manipulate a woman in to thinking it's something else. But if she knows, well, everyone has free will and free choice to do what they please and I won't be judging. What you say takes knowing one self and having love for one self, which is definitely harder than manipulating people. Wha…
/r/seduction07/10/19 08:27 AM
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Question: if people are attracted to who is aligned with their preferences... Having to shift them means you are attracted to someone with different preferences, which contradicts the first statement. Why is that? May it be that it means you are seeking validation more than a person you genuinely enjoy?
/r/seduction07/10/19 08:09 AM
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That's good! Interest towards someone is something that gives worth to that person and it's ought to be welcomed if expressed respectfully. Beside, you can't and shouldn't deny your feelings, they are real and you can't change that. Going further in your exploration you'll also find that being truly attracted to someone is not something that comes after a couple of gazes or a few words. Attraction it's something much deeper that is born after you get to really know someone. What comes before tha…
/r/seduction05/10/19 07:37 PM
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As always, it's no use to look confident: you need to be confident. Everything else comes along.
/r/seduction27/09/19 01:48 PM
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See it like this: being a nice guy is unrelated to being a potential partner. Everyone has their own history and some people (men and women alike) unconsciously look for people that treat them badly because of past traumas and the like. You don't want those kind of people. So, let's focus on those who want a nice guy as a partner, someone that understand and respect them. Okay, good, you have that. Now you need to learn to have it for yourself. Does it ever happen that you are nice because you a…
/r/seduction11/09/19 01:55 PM
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I didn't read it all carefully but I got your point. I didn't not because it's a long post, but because half-way the first sentence where you start dissecting confidence I understood you were completely on the wrong path. I'll tell you what confidence is. God knows how long I've been pursuing it and when I felt it the first time it was like finding the holy grail. First of all, real confidence comes only from self love. It's completely independent from any outside influence. It's independent fro…
/r/seduction22/06/19 09:25 PM
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u/monstrousheart gave you a good finish line there. But rather than a goal, I'd say it's more a consequence of a much more fundamental thing you need to work on: loving yourself. That will make the whole difference. Self love is what gives birth to confidence, which in turn means you stop caring about other people's judgment, which in turn means you'll be at ease with whomever you might be interacting with. How do you get to self love? Well... That's a little tricky. It is not hard at all, in fa…
/r/seduction19/06/19 11:05 AM
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