happyguy20 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
20	Botched main event		happyguy20	/r/MarriedRedPill	27/08/17 12:35 PM
16	Wife hates that I push intimacy at random times		happyguy20	/r/askMRP	05/10/17 01:28 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	Married, but not for long, maybe... This seems highly manipulative. She's only going to comply if she truly has nothing else/no where else to turn. Everything about this and you seem toxic. You know that this is just dragging the inevitable out. I don't know man. You seem miserable. And you think that subjecting others to your misery and demands will make it better. You need work on you. Obviously you are not an Oak as your Frame is weak. If I were you, I'd just draw up the papers and get out. I feel bad for your kids... they prob…	/r/MarriedRedPill	03/02/18 02:49 PM
3	[FR] Housemate has cuck bf for 4 years but loves me. Today I confronted her about it. You might be the BP here. You are still a 23 yr virgin. I'm not trying to belittle you, but I think you are pursuing a bad path. You probably don't have enough experience to see if her affection is sexual toward you. Stay away from this girl until you move out. Don't pull any moves on her. It's already fucked up since you did not STFU and tried to talk through her feelings. You are likely a beta orbiter... better off moving along and practice hitting on girls outside the home (i.e., bar, club, g…	/r/TheRedPill	01/02/18 09:28 PM
1	Need Some Help Analyzing Wife's Offer For Duty Sex Yes, never turn her down. You are man. You will take it/her/sex when you want, not when she wants. You have needs, alpha man always fucks when offered (unless you are repulsed, but your seed wants to live). If she is starfish, fuck her from behind so you don't have to look at her disappointed face and just go to town. Tomorrow, though, you need to become a new person. Stop doing shit for her. Don't be an ass, but start living for you. Don't give in when she starts to "ask" for a massage or other…	/r/askMRP	29/01/18 09:35 PM
1	So, can marriage work? You are 20 now. I wouldn't worry about marriage prospects yet. In fact, you'll probably date many girls that would like to have marriage prospects with you. I'm not saying avoid LTRs at all costs, but focus more on having fun, getting your career going, advance your education (if needed/desired), and travel the fucking world solo. Check out the FIRE reddit thread to get yourself ahead of the curve financially. In about ten years, evaluate your prospects and make sure you are fucking awesome. If …	/r/askMRP	19/01/18 03:39 PM
4	Is my wife crazy or am I going rambo This. This is how you want to act.	/r/askMRP	19/01/18 03:12 PM
9	So, can marriage work? Yes, marriage can work (my perspective after 8 years of marriage, several kids, and the outlook is still very good). It takes a lot of work, but it is very viable to have a happy stable marriage. Since this is an MRP forum, my thoughts: N-Count doesn't really matter. (too high or too low may present other issues that will surface, but by themselves it doesn't matter). For me, I just don't want to know, I've never asked and I've never stated my n-count either. Don't get married before 30... thoug…	/r/askMRP	19/01/18 03:03 PM
3	The shame and frustration of a fat wife after red pill awakening. This is only a comment about possibly leading your wife. I won't rehash your options, but it seems you really want to "stay" (at least until your kids are about 18). One remaining option to lead your wife is to consider fat camps/retreats, which are located worldwide. I don't think they are called that, but rather spas. Not cheap, but I know some women who have gone and experienced lifestyle transformations. I also know some who's lifestyles changed only marginally afterwards. But there are a co…	/r/MarriedRedPill	11/12/17 02:11 PM
1	Attractiveness Thanks for the clarity here, I really appreciate it. I'm hoping that reading 1,000s of posts (along with the side-bar) will help cement/internalize what I am trying to do... I'm already lifting, seeing physical improvements. My emotional and mental improvements are lacking. In fact, I seem to be more on edge, more likely to rage at being rejected... which is not going over well. Since the MRP and lifting, my handling of rejection seems to be good for while and then every month or so seems to rea…	/r/MarriedRedPill	08/11/17 09:41 PM
1	Own Your Shit Weekly - October 31, 2017 OYS #3; MRP Week 9 Height: 6’0’’ Weight: 196 lbs (unchanged for the last several weeks) SL5x5: SQ 120 BP 120; DL 115; Read: NMMNG, MMSLP (2 years ago), WISNIFG, RM-yr1, MAP (last year), 16C Poon, Book of Pook, approx. half of RP sidebar. General Overview Relatively new, so Lift/Frame/STFU and reading are my concentrations for the next year, all with the goal of improving my attractiveness. Everything has been really really good, until a major fuck up/issue two nights ago. Frame/OI: Overall I was…	/r/MarriedRedPill	31/10/17 03:35 PM
1	Own Your Shit Weekly - October 17, 2017 Wife and I jointly decided to go vegan after watching What the Health. Not a great film/documentary, but it was enough of a reminder of what we already knew. Years ago, we were vegetarians for about six months. Going vegan this time was mostly because of factory farming/environmental along with the goal of improving my health (this was preMRP decision). Wife wanted to lose some weight. We both view the vegan thing as likely temporary. We noted how easy it is to pick a meat, and plan a meal aroun…	/r/MarriedRedPill	17/10/17 02:54 PM
1	Own Your Shit Weekly - October 17, 2017 OYS #2; MRP Week 7 Stats: Age 40; wife 39 and 3 young kids. Married 7, together 11. Income: $120K me; $33K her. Height: 6’0’’ Weight: 196 lbs Lifts: Squats 135 3x10; BP 95 3x10; DL 95; Read: NMMNG, MMSLP (2 years ago), WISNIFG, RM-yr1, MAP (last year), 16C Poon, Book of Pook, approx. half of RP sidebar. General Overview Relatively new, so Lift/Frame/STFU and reading are my concentrations for the next year, all with the goal of improving my attractiveness. Frame/OI: Much better maintaining Frame …	/r/MarriedRedPill	17/10/17 01:58 PM
2	Another threat is coming My take is you want to stay married. Maybe you will, maybe you won't. The best plan is to be the best you (as you already know). My advice, which is just reaffirming other advice here, in order of importance, is: 1) LOSE the weight NOW, ...act like you are about to go to prison and need to get ripped or you will be someone's bitch asap. I can confirm that You will be Hungry, but stay focused on the plan. 2) I second talking to 3 attorneys. Get ready for divorce. But STFU about it. When it happen…	/r/askMRP	11/10/17 03:08 PM
1	Own Your Shit Weekly - October 03, 2017 OYS Week 1; MRP Week 5 Stats: Age 40; wife 39 and three kids ages 6 to 2. Married 7, together 11. Income: $120K me; $33K her part-time Height: 6’0’’ Weight: 196 lbs Lifts: Squats 135 3x10; BP 95 3x10; DL ?; Read: NMMNG, MMSLP (2 years ago), WISNIFG, RM-yr1, MAP (last year), 16C Poon, Book of Pook. General History I’m relatively new here. I’ve had some prior posts here after “incidents”. I’ve lost about 20 lbs over the last 2 to 3 months. Prior to MRP discovery, I was more focused on losing weigh…	/r/MarriedRedPill	06/10/17 08:59 PM
2	Read the sidebar and STFU Hey, so I'm a newbie and I appreciate the feedback here on askMRP. I spend a lot of time getting through the sidebar readings, and there is a ton more to do. Sometimes I search for posts that would be applicable to my (at the moment) questions. The problem for me (and I'm sure others) is that when my eyes were opened, the intensity and realness of the knowledge creates a likely Rambo situation. Extinguishing the BP self doesn't happen overnight, so armed with the knowledge of how "it's going to …	/r/askMRP	06/10/17 01:20 AM
1	Wife hates that I push intimacy at random times Thanks. I've read and re-read all of Athol Kay's works over the last couple of years. The lifting coincided with the family joining a gym together (and Athol Kay saying lifting is key, plus for losing weight, lifting is key based on outside news articles). The RP/MRP lifting mantra has given me a different set of results to expect from lifting (before, I just wanted to get thin again, but now I want to get big). For the rest of the readings, I meant if you read the MRP sidebar from top to bottom…	/r/askMRP	05/10/17 02:18 PM
1	Wife hates that I push intimacy at random times I think you are right, but should I keep up my passes while I'm improving? or back off a smidge?	/r/askMRP	05/10/17 02:00 PM
2	Wife hates that I push intimacy at random times Thanks, I'll add those as must reads, still have barely brushed into the game/pua.	/r/askMRP	05/10/17 01:58 PM
2	Botched main event So, do I refrain from saying "I love you" or only say it once every ten times she says it? How do I shift my whole being that has been for all for the benefit of my family? I am becoming more of an asshole, but it's in spurts (like a whole day) and then I revert back to a "what's best for the family" mentality. So I'm just becoming more of a prick without the frame (yet) to justify or even hold it. As for lifting, I've been exercising consistently for the last month or so, upped my lifting progr…	/r/MarriedRedPill	28/08/17 04:42 PM
1	Botched main event agreed, but where I am now, I really don't want the "D" option... I'm the breadwinner (and she works part-time) and I'm afraid any separation will bleed me dry... I haven't fully explored what would actually happen... in the end, really just want to feel like my wife is attracted to me and we fuck like we did pre-kids... I know this is a covert contract with my efforts... but this is the MRP forum.. I won't overtly reassure her that it's fine.	/r/MarriedRedPill	28/08/17 03:00 PM
1	Botched main event So overall, I really fck'd it up. Being a newbie, my knowledge is way ahead of my abilities. I've been lifting for the last month, reading MRP for the last two weeks, had read MAP and MMSLP last year... but with my initiations, sex improved to about twice a week over the last year... still, something was missing... sex was always on her terms/timing (even though it was always from my initiation)... things that used to be in rotation were now not wanted... I lost my frame, I'm still living in her…	/r/MarriedRedPill	28/08/17 02:47 PM
1	Botched main event I think you are spot on, thanks.	/r/MarriedRedPill	28/08/17 02:22 PM
-8	Botched main event Plus, I haven't actually gotten laid on a date night in forever, so it's not expected by me (hahaha.. helps my frame!)	/r/MarriedRedPill	27/08/17 01:54 PM
5	Botched main event No dinner on our date nights, drinks and some activity (like an old arcade, or bowling in a hipster setting)... Just a chance to the kids... I try to make sure there are multiple destinations each night...	/r/MarriedRedPill	27/08/17 01:51 PM
3	Have any of you read Doc Love's "The system" and what were your opinions on it I bought the system about 20 years ago. Same thing, found him on askmen, just had an awful breakup with the love of my life, and I was searching for why. Totally changed me. While I didn't try to become more attractive, I learned not to take women at their word but their action. I also learned that it is numbers game, literally... Ask every girl for their number... In hindsight this trained me to be bolder, to expect rejection (but one in ten saying yes is better than zero in one, for fear of fa…	/r/TheRedPill	16/08/17 03:21 AM