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| 11 | Emotional Kung Fu for Men | harmonylion | /r/seduction | 16/03/13 06:29 PM | |
| 5 | Why "puerarchy"? | harmonylion | /r/TheRedPill | 14/07/13 03:44 AM | |
| 2 | Masculine and Feminine Purpose: Equal and Opposite | harmonylion | /r/TheRedPill | 10/04/13 12:39 AM | |
| 0 | A thought about equality, fairness, "rights," roles, etc. and the ongoing gender-feud | Rant/Venting | harmonylion | /r/TheRedPill | 09/07/13 10:15 PM |
| 0 | The Purpose of the 'Slut' Stigma -- I wrote this, looking for feedback :) | harmonylion | /r/TheRedPill | 22/02/13 10:04 PM |
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| 1 | [Meta] Dictionary-friendly definitions: Redpill, Bluepill, & HamsteringThank you very much, that means a lot. Feel free to join my new subreddit. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/07/13 04:42 AM |
| 1 | [Meta] Dictionary-friendly definitions: Redpill, Bluepill, & HamsteringIdeas are like magnets; they can be joined together to make a coherent whole that has the effects of all of them together. For instance, the idea of "democracy," which is comprised of smaller ideas like "leaders are elected" and and "legislation is voted upon" refers to all of those smaller ideas at once aligned in a certain way. Pretty simple, right? Ideas are also polar; if you've ever seen a diagram of a magnet, the current flows from the South Pole up through the North, out the top and throu… | /r/TheRedPill | 18/07/13 04:31 AM |
| 1 | [Meta] Dictionary-friendly definitions: Redpill, Bluepill, & HamsteringOur minds are governed by analogous laws, actually, which in my opinion is very cool. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/07/13 01:49 AM |
| 5 | [Meta] Dictionary-friendly definitions: Redpill, Bluepill, & HamsteringUnderstanding reality is understanding yourself, and changing yourself is changing the world. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/07/13 01:33 AM |
| 1 | [Meta] Dictionary-friendly definitions: Redpill, Bluepill, & HamsteringAnger has its place as an emotion. Anger has no place as an ideology. A lot of people here conflate legitimate angry feelings with juvenile angry philosophies. I do think that the society and institutions that taught you something faulty is an appropriate place to direct that anger. But anger is each person's responsibility; it is not feminism's responsibility to make you feel better about your anger. Once you learn some of this stuff, feminism is no longer keeping you from a satisfying romantic… | /r/TheRedPill | 18/07/13 12:41 AM |
| 1 | [Meta] Dictionary-friendly definitions: Redpill, Bluepill, & HamsteringI see a lot of anger and jadedness in people who, according to that article, are in the Acceptance stage. The article may apply to the change in beliefs, but that's only the first step. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/07/13 12:12 AM |
| 5 | [Meta] Dictionary-friendly definitions: Redpill, Bluepill, & HamsteringAccording to those definitions, a great many of the guys here are not redpill. Maybe even most. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/07/13 11:11 PM |
| 5 | How to be more alpha (for introverts)This has some decent advice in it, but if while reading it you aren't seeing a bunch of ways you could have written it better, you probably don't understand it well enough for it to be much use to you. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/07/13 07:35 AM |
| 7 | "Christopher Hitchens versus Feminism." Hitch calmly sticks to his point that *he* wants to take care of his family financially, not his wife. The female interviewer is shocked, but can't bring herself to disrespect him."They can work if they want to, but they don't have to." He's arguing for what could very easily be called female privilege. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/07/13 05:53 AM |
| 1 | Two realizations that have occurred on TRP over the past month, lets grow more from within and realize how we as a species tick...Regarding the belief that "helping people is weakness": 1) It's not true. It runs contrary to sort of beliefs that make one a good man. 2) It leads people to be selfish, and not the good kind. It's a drastic overcompensation for the previous belief that helping people will get you what you want. 3) The belief causes people to behave in ways that are really unappealing to normal people. This has the effect of scaring away people who might otherwise join us making it more difficult for others to s… | /r/TheRedPill | 15/07/13 09:05 PM |
| 1 | Two realizations that have occurred on TRP over the past month, lets grow more from within and realize how we as a species tick...I understand, though I don't really agree with the last line of your TLDR. I'm not saying it's unreasonable for people here to have this misconception -- it makes sense, I'm not blaming them for it -- but it's still a problem. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/07/13 08:03 PM |
| 13 | Two realizations that have occurred on TRP over the past month, lets grow more from within and realize how we as a species tick...Great post, I agree. Keep up the good work. There's a lot of "male hamstering" around here, a lot of which boils down to the misconception that helping others is weakness. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/07/13 05:54 AM |
| 0 | Why "puerarchy"?Why do you care about passing the shit test of a group about whose opinions you don't care? Does America rename itself "the great satan" to pass the taliban's shit test? No, we just go about our business. The red pill should just go about its. The feud with feminism is a big distraction from becoming better men. And, really passing feminism's "shit test" would be saying, "What could I do better?" Then listen to them, then decide for yourself what they may have been right about. They can't say yo… | /r/TheRedPill | 14/07/13 09:13 PM |
| 1 | Why "puerarchy"?The name is appropriate if you consider how the meaning behind the words "boy" and "man" have been subtly changed. Only -- and I do mean only -- by a small group of people, about whose opinions you claim to not care. Not "society." A leader serves others. That will never change. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/07/13 09:10 PM |
| 3 | Why "puerarchy"?Thanks for approaching this rationally, but there are layers of this that you seem to be missing too: In no culture does "boy" mean "man." It's not flipping the bird to contemporary western culture, it's trying to hijack a universal term because it seems snarky. "Puer" has meant "boy" for literally thousands of years. It's impossible, like trying to make "coward" mean "hero." To attempt to do what I just described is itself a puerile act. In attempting to defy the definition of the word, you're … | /r/TheRedPill | 14/07/13 08:40 AM |
| 0 | Why "puerarchy"?I'm actually concerned for you over the opinions of people who might otherwise join you. If you make asses of yourselves, struggling beta men who are looking for answers might think you have none, which isn't true. I believe in this community. I believe in what it aims to do. And I think that calling a redpill community "puerarchy" is the height of naivete and counterproductiveness. It's a very puerile thing to do, and when the radfems laugh at you for missing the irony, I won't be able to defen… | /r/TheRedPill | 14/07/13 07:01 AM |
| -1 | Why "puerarchy"?The Red Pill is information with which you can change your perspective, your opportunities, and your life. I know. I did it. stop acting like a woman and complaining about what other people are doing. Exactly. Stop fighting with radical feminists, stop giving a shit what they think, or what they say about you, or if they call you "boys rather than men." If they're wrong, let them be wrong, and go about your business. What you're doing is making them right, and that's why you can't let it go -- t… | /r/TheRedPill | 14/07/13 06:07 AM |
| 4 | Why "puerarchy"?It's not me -- it's an incredibly short-sighted name, and it's bad for you, no matter what. If that name doesn't change, whoever is involved will be a laughing stock. And the people who are laughing will be right. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/07/13 04:39 AM |
| -1 | Why "puerarchy"?Men know what they're doing when they take bold action. Whoever called this the "puerarchy" clearly doesn't. Acting like a boy in the name of acting like a man, and being unaware he's doing it? That's not manhood. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/07/13 04:29 AM |
| 2 | This is the best text on game I have come acrossGood for you, man. The Authentic Man Program is great, and so is the work of David Deida. His book The Way of the Superior Man may be just what you're looking for. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/07/13 04:29 AM |
| 4 | Why "puerarchy"?That is ironic, in that it betrays a complete ignorance of the history and the implications of that word. That redpillers are hubristic enough to think they can "take it back" supports the idea that they are not men. The word "puer" has much deeper roots than a couple of angry feminists. Also, men don't care who calls them boys. The "puerarchy" is acting exactly like the "oppressed," self-victimizing women it disparages -- but worse, because it claims to know better. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/07/13 04:17 AM |
| 2 | This is the best text on game I have come acrossI think it would be good for PR to make clearer distinctions between the healthy expression of "red pill" ideas and the "recently unplugged" expression. A great deal of reddit sees only the cynicism, and it makes me sad that this process, which was a big part of my life, is so widely and unnecessarily misunderstood. Perhaps there ought to be a separate sub for the rants and cynicism. The dominant atmosphere here has to shift in order to move guys through that phase faster. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/07/13 03:36 AM |
| 3 | This is the best text on game I have come acrossI agree. I suspect it has a lot to do with a lack of male leadership in society in general -- access to mentors, I mean. People who can help men deal with this unplugging so they don't just make a big mosh pit of cynicism for a few years. Therefore, I don't believe a healthier redpill-esque community is impossible. Far from it. In fact, I was in one. Ideagasms, before scandals erupted, was a haven. The leader's motto was "Vulnerability is Strength," and that became my motto. It was about fearles… | /r/TheRedPill | 13/07/13 10:54 PM |
| 0 | This is the best text on game I have come acrossI love AMP. They teach men to be men, and teach them how to treat women, without reducing women in any way. I wish this sub was more like them. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/07/13 09:03 PM |
| 13 | How feminists fail to understand masculinityIronically, I suspect a primary feature of toxic femininity is denial. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/07/13 08:14 PM |
| 0 | The 3 biggest whores I know all parrot the same line when confronted: Can't be a coincidence... possibly nsfwI'm not sure that's what women are saying. It might be what they want to say, but I don't think it's what they mean when they say that. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/07/13 01:12 AM |
| 6 | The 3 biggest whores I know all parrot the same line when confronted: Can't be a coincidence... possibly nsfwDon't recovered addicts often say something similar? Or is the difference that women say, "I'm glad I did it, I'm grateful for the lessons" and men say "I regret it, but I'm grateful for the lessons"? | /r/TheRedPill | 12/07/13 12:15 AM |
| 1 | A thought about equality, fairness, "rights," roles, etc. and the ongoing gender-feudSo if a little kid is drowning in a small fountain right in front of you, it's not your duty to reach in and save him unless you feel like it? | /r/TheRedPill | 11/07/13 08:03 PM |
| 1 | A thought about equality, fairness, "rights," roles, etc. and the ongoing gender-feudThe masculine ideal is not the peacemaker; the masculine ideal is the conqueror. Masculinity is functionality, efficiency, structure, aloneness. The most masculine kid in school is the math nerd with the pocket protector, graph paper shirt, skinny, angular, socially awkward, no fashion sense. He's all masculine and no feminine. No style, no life, no wildness, no rhythm, no playfulness, no form. That masculine ideal is crap. There's no femininity in it. Maybe you could say the masculine ideal is … | /r/TheRedPill | 10/07/13 08:22 PM |
| 1 | A thought about equality, fairness, "rights," roles, etc. and the ongoing gender-feudWell that's just like, your opinion, man. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/07/13 11:52 AM |
| 1 | A thought about equality, fairness, "rights," roles, etc. and the ongoing gender-feudI think it's much simpler than that: what everyone is fighting for is the feeling of being equally valuable and worthy as a human being, no matter what sex, race, orientation, w/e. It's a collective thirst for self esteem. I don't think anybody actually wants to change the nature of competition, striving, reality, etc. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/07/13 11:28 AM |
| 4 | Alpha's treatment of Beta Men?Pretty much; the rules of the strong apply to the weak, not the other way around. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/07/13 10:43 PM |
| 13 | Alpha's treatment of Beta Men?Be kind, but take no shit. The truly strong protect the weak -- remember this. Even when "not taking shit," use the least amount of force/harshness possible to deal with it. Power is effect divided by effort. Also, it's okay to be friends with anyone and everyone. Edit: Also, show other men how they are strong. Point out their virtues. Don't bullshit, don't sugar coat, really look for and acknowledge those things. It helps them grow, makes you a leader, and helps your people skills in general. B… | /r/TheRedPill | 09/07/13 08:52 PM |
| 2 | Last night I went undercoverWouldn't have deterred people who had no idea what it was about, which was everybody. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/07/13 03:43 AM |
| 3 | Modest woman trying to improve herself gets shamed by boombalatti for disgracing feminism (crosspost r/fatpeoplestories)Can you imagine how Jesus felt? | /r/TheRedPill | 04/07/13 10:30 AM |
| 1 | Good books on great leaders?Same author, but I think the content is more valuable. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/06/13 08:13 AM |
| 2 | Good books on great leaders?Mastery by Robert Greene. It's what you didn't know you were looking for. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/06/13 01:59 AM |
| 4 | "Women think emotionally, therefore can’t be trusted"They need to learn Emotional Kung Fu. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/06/13 12:47 AM |
| 1 | Came to this subreddit thinking I would snark, and i'm getting schooled. Recommendations for women?Thank you very much, that means a lot. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/06/13 10:33 PM |
| 2 | You guys are going to cream yourselves reading this thread. Enjoy.Doubt it, this looks like the beginning stages of self awareness. "I don't like him because he likes me too much" is one of the easier things for a woman to notice and admit. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/06/13 11:19 PM |
| 1 | You guys are going to cream yourselves reading this thread. Enjoy.Maybe they would feel better if they all knew they weren't the only one. Seems like "it's normal" is a pretty good defense against the shame, denial, and general issues women (and men) have around acknowledging this aspect of their nature. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/06/13 11:17 PM |
| 3 | #1 plastic surgeon in Belgium: "I'll stick to my previous statement: all women are whores"All you can do is make sure the relationship is smaller than you -- you don't trade your life, your dignity, for a relationship, just make sure it's only a part of you. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/06/13 09:45 PM |
| 3 | Came to this subreddit thinking I would snark, and i'm getting schooled. Recommendations for women?It is a reasonable response, but the ideas borne of a reaction are not trustworthy -- there are too many motives other than finding the honest truth still swirling around. People have to cope with that crisis, and coping mechanisms do not produce good philosophies. That's what I mean you have to be careful about. Glad you enjoyed the read. :) | /r/TheRedPill | 10/06/13 02:50 AM |
| 0 | You new fucks ask this all the timeSweet. That's a wrap. Perhaps it would be a good idea to collect the advice and links pertaining to healthy ways of dealing with emotions and ask that they'd be put in the sidebar. Would love to have this on there. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/06/13 01:12 PM |
| -1 | You new fucks ask this all the timeWhat I'm getting at is that the truth without compromise may already be completely unpalatable to a lot of people. You're totally right, and there's nothing you can do about that. The only "middle way" that remains between that and outright lying, is to sugar coat, which is, in your own words, lying. Like I said, the middle way is never between a good option and a bad option -- that's a compromise, which is completely different. To paraphrase a bit: If you get stabbed in a fatal way, nothing is … | /r/TheRedPill | 09/06/13 01:07 PM |
| -1 | You new fucks ask this all the timeYou sound like one of those guys who advocate meditation for coming to terms with (and accepting) that your wife wants an "open marrige". The appropriate handling of such a situation, if it is unacceptable to you, is to not accept it, and then take action in a way that is compatible with your core values and your sense of self-respect. Close. I would advocate using meditation to clarify your core values and sense of self respect, and then doing what you suggest. Now who's saying feelings don't m… | /r/TheRedPill | 09/06/13 12:55 PM |
| 2 | You new fucks ask this all the timeI took it as saying we can rise above feminine pettiness Yeah, that I like... but we don't have to replace it with masculine pettiness! ;) | /r/TheRedPill | 09/06/13 12:25 PM |
| 0 | You new fucks ask this all the timeI have seen plenty of debates on other subs where TRP guys (most notably redpillschool) has been nothing but civil and still get downvoted to hell. Your reputation precedes you. It's not cool to agree with TRP, "red pillers" have made sure of that. Someone with a different username might do better, providing he is knowledgeable and skillful and doesn't refer to TRP. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/06/13 12:23 PM |
| -3 | You new fucks ask this all the timeFirstly, I'd say having emotional fallout from realizing that you've been lied to all your life is normal. TRP allows the venting of that fallout. Why doesn't TRP promote the handling of that fallout? Secondly, you're going to have to qualify the bit about "barely know what they're talking about". If the world is fucked and someone says "it's fucked", and you say "it ain't so bad", you may be more content than the first guy, but you're still rationalizing. If you just realized that the world is … | /r/TheRedPill | 09/06/13 12:17 PM |
| 0 | You new fucks ask this all the time"Everything you hold dear and that which you base your worth as a human being upon, is false" may be true, but it won't make you happy. Of course it will, assuming that's actually the case! You can't be happy if you're wrong about where happiness comes from! It may not make you happy immediately, but it will open a door where there once was none. Why? Why is a logical fallacy the best way? What logical fallacy? The answer to that question might not even matter, as it already seems we're talking … | /r/TheRedPill | 09/06/13 11:49 AM |
| 5 | You new fucks ask this all the timeTelling the truth may hurt people's feelings, and they may then think you're an asshole. A lot of people here act like assholes and hurt people's feelings, and then conclude that they must be telling the truth. It doesn't work that way. It's usually overcompensation for having been "too nice" in the past, or equating kindness with weakness. If you want to understand the relationship between truth and hurt feelings, tell the truth to yourself. You may have admitted to yourself that you had troubl… | /r/TheRedPill | 09/06/13 11:35 AM |
| -1 | You new fucks ask this all the timeFacts are not venomous. They may be "vaccinous." They may hurt to hear, but ultimately they benefit you. There's no malice in a vaccine. There's no malice in a fact. It doesn't have to be spoken maliciously. I'm not a fan of "false compromise". The middle way is not necessarily more true or appropriate just because it's the middle way. That's alright; once you get better at seeing what the two "opposites" really are, you'll see that the middle way is the best way. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/06/13 11:12 AM |
| 15 | You new fucks ask this all the timeAnd who cares what "everyone else on reddit" thinks. We're not here to placate their appetites. That's what teenagers say. They end up on /r/cringepics. It's not about placating or not placating. It's about being civil. People don't hate TRP because it's so controversial that it pisses everyone off. People hate it because most people who believe it act like assholes about it. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/06/13 11:01 AM |
| 35 | You new fucks ask this all the timeYou think emotions don't matter because you're a man? News flash -- they do. This is how to deal. Confusing violence with strength is a rookie mistake, and you're all making it. You don't have to sugar-coat the truth, but you don't have to venom-coat it either. Walk the line, or continue to be thought of as whiny teenagers by everyone else on reddit. ^ See that? I didn't say anything untrue, I didn't insult anyone -- I didn't even swear. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/06/13 10:44 AM |
| 7 | You new fucks ask this all the time1) Learning the truth about women and life has nothing to do with being willing to suffer abuse from people who barely know what they're talking about, and clearly still have emotional issues from the fallout of learning this stuff. This immature lashing-out is a big part of what gives the subreddit a bad name. 2) Oh, didn't see the rant part, will relax in the future. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/06/13 10:43 AM |
| 90 | You new fucks ask this all the timeThat's all good and all, but why the assholishness? If they're "new fucks," they don't know better. This subreddit has a bad name because too many people equate being an asshole with being a leader. Leaders serve. The strong protect the weak. Set an example for the new guys, and stop perpetuating the bad name TRP has almost universally. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/06/13 09:30 AM |
| 16 | Came to this subreddit thinking I would snark, and i'm getting schooled. Recommendations for women?Thank you -- and yeah, it's a perfectly natural reaction, and it was mine to an extent too. We grow up around these beautiful creatures, expecting them to work the way we do -- we like to be worshipped -- and it never worked, and we became more and more separate from women as we idolized them more and more. I was romantic, idealistic, we expected that it should be like it is in Hollywood, where the "good guy" gets the girl and they ride off into the sunset together, and she loves him because he'… | /r/TheRedPill | 09/06/13 09:10 AM |
| 7 | Came to this subreddit thinking I would snark, and i'm getting schooled. Recommendations for women?Really nice of you to keep an open mind -- or if you wouldn't call it that, to allow yourself to be influenced by ideas that turn a lot of people off. I only comment here occasionally, as my immersion period in this sort of thing ended some years ago. While there is a lot of insight in some of the ideas here, there is a lot of cynicism and intellectual pride as well, sort of like in /r/atheism. This helps give the sub a bad name. A lot of "red pill" guys have lost their innocence discovering all… | /r/TheRedPill | 09/06/13 06:27 AM |
| 2 | New here. Anyone want to help a fellow redpiller out?YangTown.com | /r/TheRedPill | 07/06/13 05:59 AM |
| 8 | New here. Anyone want to help a fellow redpiller out?/r/nofap | /r/TheRedPill | 07/06/13 05:55 AM |
| 5 | Q: How do you maintain desire in a long-term relationship? A: Don'tActual answer: Karezza. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/06/13 05:53 AM |
| 9 | I think a redpiller was just born. A rational analysis of an abusive relationship from the abusers point of view.http://www.reddit.com/r/bestof/comments/1fsyof/an0nymouse_describes_how_an_abusive_relationship/cadujle | /r/TheRedPill | 07/06/13 04:48 AM |
| 1 | found an example of pill transformation again in r/relationshipsCute. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/06/13 04:43 AM |
| 1 | found an example of pill transformation again in r/relationshipshttp://www.reddit.com/r/bestof/comments/1fsyof/an0nymouse_describes_how_an_abusive_relationship/cadujle | /r/TheRedPill | 07/06/13 04:29 AM |
| 3 | SRS Rages because someone pointed out that it's easier for women to get laidI was focusing on the part at 0:40 or so in my clip. No women want to fuck certain men, they don't admit it, and then they complain that "it's hard to get laid." I'm not saying they should fuck these men, but "it's hard for women to get laid" is completely false. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/06/13 07:06 AM |
| 10 | SRS Rages because someone pointed out that it's easier for women to get laidI mentally salivated when I read that comment, knowing SRS was gonna pick it up. Virtually all women could get laid if they lowered their standards, because so many men can't get laid at all. It's a pretty easy observation. Women who think its hard to get laid just think it's hard to get an attractive man. Those people need to see this Louis CK clip. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/06/13 04:37 AM |
| 1 | Deconstructing sluts or why the "promiscuous women simply like sex" mantra is bullshit.What video? | /r/TheRedPill | 22/05/13 10:35 PM |
| 4 | "I'll say it again; Daddy issues are held not by neglected women, but by brainwashed men"I agree, and that's a very nice insight, but it's also in the minds of women. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/05/13 02:38 PM |
| 1 | Deconstructing sluts or why the "promiscuous women simply like sex" mantra is bullshit.My pleasure! Glad you liked it. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/05/13 02:13 PM |
| 7 | Deconstructing sluts or why the "promiscuous women simply like sex" mantra is bullshit.Also, this. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/05/13 12:34 PM |
| 27 | "An anonymous letter from a mom" = One of the best Red Pill pieces I have ever readChivalry has died of blunt force trauma, in a beatdown administered by Grrrl Power. Your mothers, your grandmothers, your schools, your family courts, your sociology professors, have spent the last two generations telling men that the are unnecessary and unwelcome. And now they’re leaving. So true, so sad. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/05/13 10:01 AM |
| -1 | Most pathetic blue-pill example I've ever seen. Telling a girl you've never met that she's "perfect"It's just projection, y'all do it too. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/05/13 06:43 PM |
| 6 | Study shows women don't like to hear about obesity, would rather remain willfully ignorant./r/fatlogic | /r/TheRedPill | 12/05/13 05:33 AM |
| 8 | Study shows women don't like to hear about obesity, would rather remain willfully ignorant.Well look who benefits from it. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/05/13 05:33 AM |
| 0 | Help! The Red Pill is Making Girls Like Me More, but Me Like Girls Less.No, not really. Cynicism from having had one's illusions about women dispelled is not the same as living without such knowledge (like most women do) and being placed on a pedestal by others who still have those illusions. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/05/13 02:29 AM |
| 6 | Help! The Red Pill is Making Girls Like Me More, but Me Like Girls Less.http://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/1dyz5b/theredpill_only_gets_a_bad_rap_because_its_so/c9veim2 | /r/TheRedPill | 10/05/13 07:11 AM |
| 37 | Theredpill only gets a bad rap because its so true that it hurts.Thanks for saying this. I feel like a lot of "red pill" guys start off with good intentions, then discover how attraction works and become cynical about women and smug in their new knowledge of what makes an attractive man. I've been there. I think it's important to learn at this stage of the game that it's not the end; as Zen masters say, "While studying Zen, things become confused." Well, while studying attraction, things become confused. We forget that women are people, we forget that we once… | /r/TheRedPill | 09/05/13 09:59 AM |
| 1 | A Challenge to those are having trouble "swallowing the pill" / think the stuff here "doesn't really work"If I feel the need to trick someone into treating me like an equal, it would indicate that I didn't believe I was an equal to begin with. You may believe you're an equal intellectually, but you don't really believe it until you act like one, and pretending isn't the same thing. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/05/13 01:24 AM |
| 1 | [science] Evidence That Chicks Dig Aloof AssholesThey dig them not because they're aloof, but because they're free. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/05/13 12:21 AM |
| 1 | A Challenge to those are having trouble "swallowing the pill" / think the stuff here "doesn't really work"I know. tricks < honesty. By tricking a girl into "treating you like an equal" you are still placing her on a pedestal, you're just lying about it too. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/05/13 09:13 PM |
| 2 | How do I seduce the alpha guy I'm dating if he has really good "game"?Love and powerlessness don't have to feel like the same thing. In fact, that's where a lot of this "red pill" and seduction thought started. Men wanted to learn to separate the two, to love and be powerful. Not "domineering," but powerful, free, with the ability to love a woman and be a man at the same time. You're on a good path to "figuring it out," but don't listen to people who are only halfway there. Plenty have "made it." Those that make it tend to conclude that self work and creating an a… | /r/TheRedPill | 07/05/13 03:00 AM |
| 2 | A Challenge to those are having trouble "swallowing the pill" / think the stuff here "doesn't really work"Then, actually become her equal. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/05/13 12:50 AM |
| 18 | How do I seduce the alpha guy I'm dating if he has really good "game"?I don't know why I can't downvote any of this, but there is a lot of crap advice being slung around. Don't pay attention to people who get too excited, they've got motives other than your happiness in mind. Sounds like you're both playing some games, both not quite approaching the relationship maturely. If what you want is an alpha guy, all you can do is devote your life to becoming an awesome woman independent of relationships, and then not settle for anything less than exactly what you want in… | /r/TheRedPill | 06/05/13 07:30 AM |
| 1 | Common Critiques of The Red PillAgreed | /r/TheRedPill | 21/04/13 12:20 AM |
| 1 | Asshole = nice guy in disguiseIt's the other way around: Nice guys = assholes in disguise ("sentimentality is veiled brutality" --C.G. Jung (paraphrased)) | /r/TheRedPill | 16/04/13 07:11 AM |
| -1 | "I wouldn't lie if we were in a relationship" - my experiences with a cheating hamster trying to get my commitmentSeems like you're equating your current and past personality -- "what comes naturally" -- with your "true nature." This is normal, but they're actually two very different things. Your true self is infinitely attractive, natural, comfortable with women, etc. Your true self is innocent, and enjoys interacting with women. You don't have to act, flirting is just playful, and it's totally fine to approach a woman and tell her how sexy she looks to you. It's fun! There's no anxiety or pressure or effo… | /r/TheRedPill | 12/04/13 04:31 PM |
| 0 | "I wouldn't lie if we were in a relationship" - my experiences with a cheating hamster trying to get my commitmentWhat's MGTOW? This is exactly how I live my life by default No, it isn't. You want to seem attractive, but you're not being attractive. Being attractive makes you seem attractive, but without any conscious effort. I always work towards what I think is right. Good. Lifting weights and acting dominating Quite the contrary. I'm a skinny meditator, and my motto for years was "Vulnerability is Strength." I once ran an entire relationship by practicing being willing to be wrong. being honest with myse… | /r/TheRedPill | 12/04/13 04:09 PM |
| 0 | "I wouldn't lie if we were in a relationship" - my experiences with a cheating hamster trying to get my commitmentRadical Honesty is a lot more nuanced than simply speaking your first thought without editing. It's also about self-honesty, and "being as you wish to seem." Be occupied. Have a life. Find your purpose in life, and pursue it to the point of not caring whether or not you're single. Women aren't supposed to be your first priority. Your life is. What would you do in my situation to be proper red pill? When I was at your stage of the game, I was mostly looking for techniques, external imitations of … | /r/TheRedPill | 12/04/13 02:46 PM |
| 4 | Is there a place for Mindfulness in the red pill life?My response | /r/TheRedPill | 12/04/13 12:09 PM |
| 0 | "I wouldn't lie if we were in a relationship" - my experiences with a cheating hamster trying to get my commitmentAlthough I haven't even had a date with another girl for a couple weeks, I haven't let her know this. I remain aloof and seem occupied This is not honesty. It may not be flat-out lying, but it isn't the honesty you're taking credit for, and judging her for not matching. You have an "endorsed contributor" badge, but I don't know how you got it, and I don't think you deserve it. I am very not impressed. The entire tone of your post is beta-trying-to-be-Red-Pill. I know because I was there for year… | /r/TheRedPill | 12/04/13 07:44 AM |
| -1 | Sex and Our Psychological NeedsI like the first one. I think she makes good points. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/04/13 10:02 PM |
| 0 | Sex and Our Psychological NeedsHis ex-girlfriend, who runs postfeminine.com, is good too. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/04/13 07:53 PM |
| 1 | What are the times you felt the best after sex?After making love to my girlfriend for about two hours without ejaculating, practicing Karezza. It healed something deep within -- not completely, but just one session felt like a big dent was made in healing deep-seated insecurity, guilt, etc. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/04/13 03:07 AM |
| 4 | What on Earth is r/TheRedPill?Thank you. | /r/MensRights | 09/04/13 07:14 PM |
| 4 | Red Pill and Relationship GameEmotional Kung Fu for Men | /r/TheRedPill | 08/04/13 12:06 AM |
| -1 | Woman: The Most Responsible Teenager In The House - If you only read one thing today, it's this.This makes me want to weep with relief. | /r/askTRP | 04/04/13 12:24 AM |
| 1 | The Purpose of the 'Slut' Stigma -- I wrote this, looking for feedback :)I think of it less as serving purposes than fulfilling different roles. If you're a boat, you need a front end and a back end. One isn't more or less valuable. You might say "the front breaks the waves, therefore it does more than the back," but without the back the front wouldn't need to exist. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/02/13 04:20 AM |
| 1 | The Purpose of the 'Slut' Stigma -- I wrote this, looking for feedback :)They are equal if you regard loving to be as worthwhile as doing. Plus, what would be the logic in having an imbalance so high up in the order of things? It would mess up the masculine and feminine natures of everything. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/02/13 04:11 AM |
| 0 | The Purpose of the 'Slut' Stigma -- I wrote this, looking for feedback :)Can you give any reason at all? I support that idea by recognizing the pattern throughout nature; I don't think I need to explicate that "equal and opposite" are the words Newton used to describe action and reaction. Also, I just revised the shit out of that. Tell me if this version makes more sense to you: Masculine and Feminine Purpose | /r/TheRedPill | 24/02/13 12:33 AM |
| 0 | The Purpose of the 'Slut' Stigma -- I wrote this, looking for feedback :)Thanks a lot, man. :) Yeah, I can feel that there may be a little inaccuracy there, but it seems to fit the pattern. I'm open to revising it (I already have, twice -- what you're seeing is the third version). Thanks a lot for your comment! Much of what I write goes against the grain, and therefore is met with resistance, so your comment was very refreshing. :) **EDIT: No, I've thought of why the cheapening idea, or something like it, should stay. Here's an excerpt from another article, Talent, C… | /r/TheRedPill | 23/02/13 10:01 PM |
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