harmreductionist Archive

Upvotes	Title	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
85	15 consecutive days in the field. Some lessons learned	harmreductionist	/r/seduction	17/09/11 08:12 PM
1	Kinda goofed now I need your help seddit	harmreductionist	/r/seduction	26/05/11 05:58 AM
1	So I'm going on a scavenger hunt...	harmreductionist	/r/seduction	28/05/11 05:57 AM
0	Hottie with a body... and a boyfriend	harmreductionist	/r/seduction	26/10/10 02:27 AM

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7	My review of the Simple Pickup guys and Tyler Durden (RSD) after having seen both in field during the past week Thanks for an awesome write up. I am from the same area as the Simple Pick up crew and have seen them in the field a handful of times, and I was equally unimpressed. They are much more so entertainers who pull phone numbers than anything nearing master PUA's. None of them seem to have a lot of confidence in anything past the opener and maybe a K close (although I never witnessed them K close in the few times I have seen them out an about.) I really couldn't imagine paying hard earned money to le…	/r/seduction	17/03/12 09:01 AM
1	15 consecutive days in the field. Some lessons learned I think you are going to have some trouble with this one.	/r/seduction	19/09/11 02:02 AM
2	15 consecutive days in the field. Some lessons learned What's your problem with Jesus?	/r/seduction	18/09/11 05:02 PM
1	15 consecutive days in the field. Some lessons learned It's how you frame it. Don't try to get in state to properly escalate HB7.3 to F-close. Instead, be a charming dude.	/r/seduction	18/09/11 04:38 PM
1	Getting "In State" Drink	/r/seduction	18/09/11 08:23 AM
1	15 consecutive days in the field. Some lessons learned Pm'ed	/r/seduction	18/09/11 07:59 AM
5	15 consecutive days in the field. Some lessons learned To sum it up in one sentence: Wear clothes that feel slightly too small for you.	/r/seduction	18/09/11 07:57 AM
1	15 consecutive days in the field. Some lessons learned You really got to avoid fights there. The only downside IMHO	/r/seduction	18/09/11 07:32 AM
1	15 consecutive days in the field. Some lessons learned I would categorize them as: Dives Dives with music Nice Bars Nice bars w/ music Almosts clubs Clubs Mix it up	/r/seduction	18/09/11 07:29 AM
1	15 consecutive days in the field. Some lessons learned I'll pm you my email. This is a rough transition I understand.	/r/seduction	18/09/11 07:25 AM
0	15 consecutive days in the field. Some lessons learned and, let's be honest, freshman need to be told what they want out of life - just like women.	/r/seduction	18/09/11 07:25 AM
1	15 consecutive days in the field. Some lessons learned One of my favorite spots to game. There are chodey guys everywhere and fullerton girls are starved for a real party scene because they go to a commuter school. Seems like easy pickin's to me.	/r/seduction	18/09/11 02:58 AM
1	15 consecutive days in the field. Some lessons learned I haven't heard of it, but you can try.	/r/seduction	18/09/11 02:57 AM
1	15 consecutive days in the field. Some lessons learned Hit the ground running, brother. Please don't let yourself get into a mini-funk or worse, because getting your confidence back is the hardest part.	/r/seduction	18/09/11 02:56 AM
3	15 consecutive days in the field. Some lessons learned In a way, I kinda was before I joined a fraternity, but I am not pugnacious at all nor do I act like a douche. (at least I hope so)	/r/seduction	18/09/11 02:45 AM
3	15 consecutive days in the field. Some lessons learned That is what I did	/r/seduction	18/09/11 02:44 AM
2	15 consecutive days in the field. Some lessons learned Hitting on guys (Rushees) is one of the more interesting parts of fraternity life.	/r/seduction	18/09/11 02:43 AM
0	15 consecutive days in the field. Some lessons learned TY	/r/seduction	18/09/11 02:42 AM
1	15 consecutive days in the field. Some lessons learned Love it	/r/seduction	18/09/11 02:42 AM
1	15 consecutive days in the field. Some lessons learned City of Orange, CA	/r/seduction	18/09/11 02:42 AM
8	15 consecutive days in the field. Some lessons learned Fraternity took care of a social circle, and campus took care of the logistics. I could always just walk girls back from the house. Also girl to guy ratio was like 1.25:1 If I had any advice it would be to realize that girls are trying to slut it up in college. Because it is so rare in college, dressing well kills it here. Wear ties on normal nights and go nuts with costumes for parties. Try to make your house the venue. I threw so many parties at my apartment. Talk about good logistics and soci…	/r/seduction	17/09/11 11:09 PM
2	15 consecutive days in the field. Some lessons learned This	/r/seduction	17/09/11 10:46 PM
3	15 consecutive days in the field. Some lessons learned notice I said a shade better. I think the blazer and jeans always looks good.	/r/seduction	17/09/11 10:45 PM
2	15 consecutive days in the field. Some lessons learned Glad to help out. Thanks	/r/seduction	17/09/11 10:31 PM
5	15 consecutive days in the field. Some lessons learned hah You always want to be dressed up a shade more than everybody else.	/r/seduction	17/09/11 09:00 PM
5	15 consecutive days in the field. Some lessons learned bingo	/r/seduction	17/09/11 08:39 PM
3	[FR] Solid Attraction Game + The Emergence of a New Sticking Point My advice would be if you want to kiss her then you should probably should, you know, kiss her. Seriously though.	/r/seduction	17/09/11 08:17 PM
2	Competitive edge I disagree. Good clean fun, and reframes it as a "game" which it is.	/r/seduction	26/05/11 05:03 PM
1	Kinda goofed now I need your help seddit Got a reply. I think we are golden, back to business as usual. Will post an update.	/r/seduction	26/05/11 06:42 AM
1	what to do about the player accusation? Its pretty hard to fuck it up at this point. When in doubt answer a question with a question. Or act playfully hurt. Point is if you got here you are valuable. No matter how far into the relationship you go you need her to have a sneaking suspicion you could go out and bang someone else if she doesn't keep her shit together. Healthy fear. If you notice girls that like their dads (usually a good sign by the way, duh) they tend to talk about what "studs" their dads were in their day. You have now …	/r/seduction	20/01/11 10:28 PM
2	Picking up girls in the school environment vs real world. Me and my buddies call it the post college slump, and we are in it right now. Its a combination of it actually being harder to pickup and having to scrape together a social circle and a new life whereas it was so set before. I have in no way solved the problem, but I am approaching it with a plan. Figure out which bars go off on which nights and what the crowds are like. Look for drink specials and when in doubt ask the bartender or the locals there during the day. Join a group. Any group, I hav…	/r/seduction	28/10/10 06:18 PM
1	Hottie with a body... and a boyfriend I hear you. Just confused. Sometimes when your gaming, you forget what you really want. When should I get carried away and when should I evaluate? I should ask mystery	/r/seduction	28/10/10 04:03 PM
5	Help with getting women to qualify themselves I like to initiate some shit testing just so I can dunk on it. For me I talk about baseball, or the stupid haircut I happen to have right now or anything to get them to talk a little bit of trash. Then I make sure to stand my ground maybe throw in a neg. I say: I love baseball She says: I hate baseball I say: Thats too bad for you it is a game of subtlety This just establishes that you aren't looking to qualify her its not your MO. So then when you get her talking about how much she loves books,…	/r/seduction	27/10/10 10:30 PM
6	Help with getting women to qualify themselves Three step process that I use: First, make sure to handle/initiate the shit test well. I usually start talking about something that I know they can't possibly like. (Usually baseball) Then stick to my guns Second, bring up family or animals or something else cute and sweet and give them an opportunity to say they find one of those things important. Third, when they do say they love their family or doggies or something of that sort say something simple like 'really? (pause) I like that. Then give…	/r/seduction	27/10/10 04:47 PM
1	Hottie with a body... and a boyfriend I don't know where I admited this was definitely temporary, I admited I wasn't sure. I thought PUA was about having lots of girls in your life, and having options. I needed help with deciding on and pursuing those options I admited what I did to the last girl was shitty - I know longer plan on cheating BTW. I don't get why it wasn't pointed out that what she is doing to her boyfriend is messed up and maybe a bad starting point for a relationship. I am sorry for not being politically correct in m…	/r/seduction	26/10/10 03:48 PM
1	Hottie with a body... and a boyfriend Kinda looks like its gonna go wrong for them with or without me. Thanks for the honest reply.	/r/seduction	26/10/10 03:39 PM
-2	Hottie with a body... and a boyfriend You are oversimplifying. How do I tell if I am trying to get more than my 'rocks off'	/r/seduction	26/10/10 03:28 AM