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| 1 | How do I naturally increase testosterone production?Thanks for this! | /r/askTRP | 21/08/20 04:34 PM |
| 0 | Anyone here fearful of hookups due to Corona?For yourself you should be worried too, lots of healthy people get it, survive, but then got sides. Who knows if those will be permanent. | /r/askTRP | 21/08/20 02:31 PM |
| 1 | Anyone here fearful of hookups due to Corona?Yes, that’s all a given. Also, I don’t go to crowded bars or similar places. The thing is, whenever meeting a stranger there’s a risk she might have the virus (either she’s asymptomatic or she doesn’t have fever yet). Now, what do you do with that fact? You just accept it and power through (like we accept the small risk of getting into a car accident every time we drive) or just stop going on so many casual dates as before? | /r/askTRP | 21/08/20 12:52 PM |
| 1 | Anyone here fearful of hookups due to Corona?What does protecting yourself mean? You don’t know if the other person has it, as she doesn’t know either. | /r/askTRP | 21/08/20 12:46 PM |
| -2 | Anyone here fearful of hookups due to Corona?No worries. Usually being single during summer I’d be going on dates constantly, but right now, I’m afraid, to be honest. Also I got older relatives in bad health and I’d hate to pass it onto them. But how far can I last this way? It’s not even horniness, I’m starting to feel alone and depressed. | /r/askTRP | 21/08/20 11:57 AM |
| -3 | Anyone here fearful of hookups due to Corona?Because a lot of people still go to BBQs, parties... and maybe they get it but are asymptomatic and keep spreading it around unknowingly. That’s how the vast majority of contagions happen. It’s someone who knows he’s positive and decides to keep meeting up with people. Just recently had a friend who got a call from another one who tested positive. | /r/askTRP | 21/08/20 11:51 AM |
| 1 | How do I naturally increase testosterone production?Why no sunblock? Honest question. | /r/askTRP | 21/08/20 11:41 AM |
| 2 | Is jumping rope an effective way to lose fat?Thanks! Would putting a yoga math on the cement floor work to solve this? | /r/askTRP | 11/08/20 01:33 PM |
| 0 | Is jumping rope an effective way to lose fat?Thing is, my diet was already really good. I was at 10% BF without doing cardio (only going to work with my bike or walking). So I want to replace that (now that I work from home) without some kind of exercise. | /r/askTRP | 11/08/20 12:32 PM |
| 0 | Is jumping rope an effective way to lose fat?But with eating less don’t you lose energy and muscle mass? I don’t want to do “proper cut” in where I have to diminish the intensity of my current workouts. | /r/askTRP | 11/08/20 10:02 AM |
| 1 | What are some non-fiction books that truly have been useful in your daily life?NMMNG? | /r/askTRP | 26/07/20 06:46 AM |
| 1 | What are the sidebar’s origins?Thanks for taking the time to write this up, very useful. | /r/askTRP | 25/07/20 04:52 PM |
| 2 | Has anyone read the FDS strategy book?I don’t they want a beta, at least deep down. They’ll resent him almost immediately. They want an alpha but are mad they can’t get him to commit. | /r/askTRP | 25/07/20 04:52 PM |
| 1 | What are the sidebar’s origins?Also, don’t treat TRP as if it was some sort to school assignment you need to get through with the minimum effort possible while reading the Cliff notes. If you think it’s too much, then you aren’t cut out for it. Maybe you’ll be in the future. | /r/askTRP | 25/07/20 04:36 PM |
| 0 | What are the sidebar’s origins?I bet you watch the occasional Netflix series too. With the 12h that it takes for just one season, you can read the sidebar. | /r/askTRP | 25/07/20 04:34 PM |
| 8 | What are the sidebar’s origins?Yes. If you’re curious enough to read a 500 page compilation of knowledge, aren’t you at least a tiny bit curious about it’s origins? | /r/askTRP | 25/07/20 04:29 PM |
| 2 | Has anyone read the FDS strategy book?The main difference is how men in their early 20s have it vs women. A regular 22y old woman (nothing special, not ugly but not a model) will basically have every man available wanting to fuck her. The male version will be lucky if he’s the 3rd best option of a girl in her class (who most of the times will prefer to fuck an older more wealthy/mature/confident man). So what do men do, the good ones accept that lot and focus on getting better (in their careers, in their physique, in their personali… | /r/askTRP | 25/07/20 04:27 PM |
| 3 | Has anyone read the FDS strategy book?Maybe not technically incels, but it’s the same woe-is-me pathology: things are going the way I wanted, but instead of putting up the work I’m just gonna complain about how unfair is the world. | /r/askTRP | 25/07/20 04:20 PM |
| 1 | Has anyone read the FDS strategy book?That’s an interesting take. At least you found some kind of advice, in all the random posts I’ve read I didn’t. | /r/askTRP | 25/07/20 04:18 PM |
| 1 | What are some non-fiction books that truly have been useful in your daily life?Thanks! Appreciate it. | /r/askTRP | 25/07/20 03:51 PM |
| 1 | What are the sidebar’s origins?Everyone uses his time differently, but if you have time to browse reddit, you have time to read a book. Doesn’t have to be in one sitting. | /r/askTRP | 25/07/20 03:50 PM |
| 1 | What are the sidebar’s origins?Didn’t knew marriedRP existed. Do you recommend reading it if one’s not married or even close to planning to? Also, what books you consider fundamental? | /r/askTRP | 25/07/20 03:48 PM |
| 3 | What are some non-fiction books that truly have been useful in your daily life?Which ones? | /r/askTRP | 25/07/20 03:05 PM |
| 2 | What are the sidebar’s origins?I believe this is the full thing. But some versions have a different layout (A3, A4, A5...) so the page count is different. | /r/askTRP | 25/07/20 02:20 PM |
| 3 | What are the sidebar’s origins?Thanks, but I’m interested in the meta aspect of it. Who decided to compile it? What was the criteria? Was is a collective effort?... Things like that. | /r/askTRP | 25/07/20 02:17 PM |
| 1 | What to say when a girl asks you for a 2nd date, but there was no sex on the first one?Let’s say it’s her who escalates and tells you to go to her house. Then how do you say “no, not now, but let’s leave it open” ? | /r/askTRP | 24/07/20 06:36 PM |
| 1 | What to say when a girl asks you for a 2nd date, but there was no sex on the first one?I agree with your main points, but I’ve struggled in the past with how to turn away sex on a first date without it being awkward or making her feel rejected. How do they react in your case? Do you do something in particular to ease things? | /r/askTRP | 24/07/20 09:02 AM |
| 1 | What to say when a girl asks you for a 2nd date, but there was no sex on the first one?This is an extremely insightful comment. Got some questions about it: A) If she really signals she want to sleep with you on the first date, how do you turn her down without: being a buzz-killer, seeming you’re a scared little boy afraid of a confident woman or making her feel rejected or unattractive? Basically how you do it while keeping frame? B) How can you gauge whether the girl is really interested in you or she’s just a horny slut who just wanted a quick fuck and doesn’t really like you? | /r/askTRP | 23/07/20 12:15 PM |
| 1 | What to say when a girl asks you for a 2nd date, but there was no sex on the first one?This is good advice. Your wording seems better crafted, I’ll give it go. | /r/askTRP | 21/07/20 10:08 PM |
| 2 | A platonic female friend just made a pass at me, and I am not interested.If you care for her and genuinely value the friendship, then it's your duty to be as straight and direct as possible. Don't hide and also don't go "we still can be friends" or "you're nice but I value my friendship with you too much", that's all lies and shows you're a coward. The minute attraction happens between friends, then the friendship is gone. It becomes one part stringing along the other one, and that's cruel. Knowing that (that there's no friendship to save) you just need to choose: a)… | /r/askTRP | 20/07/20 12:05 PM |
| 1 | Any good TRP content on Youtube?Thanks! I've read TRM. Thing is he has like 200h of youtube content, that's why I asked for specific talks/podcast episodes. | /r/askTRP | 20/07/20 09:08 AM |
| 1 | How do you tell a girl a fling is over without being a dick about it? No ghosting allowed eitherI'm curious about your logic, how is ghosting the contrary of being soft? What's strong or brave about ghosting? | /r/askTRP | 30/05/20 06:43 PM |
| 2 | How do you tell a girl a fling is over without being a dick about it? No ghosting allowed eitherA couple of times I had a great one night stand that I wanted to continue and have been turned down super gracefully and cool. So much, that with one of them I ended hooking up with again a few months later. Being direct and honest isn’t a sign of weakness. | /r/askTRP | 30/05/20 02:37 PM |
| 2 | How do you tell a girl a fling is over without being a dick about it? No ghosting allowed eitherYes, it’s what I want. I was just missing the wording for it. | /r/askTRP | 30/05/20 09:35 AM |
| 3 | How do you tell a girl a fling is over without being a dick about it? No ghosting allowed eitherYep. Best answer in the thread. | /r/askTRP | 30/05/20 09:33 AM |
| 15 | How do you tell a girl a fling is over without being a dick about it? No ghosting allowed eitherYes! This is perfect. Thank you! | /r/askTRP | 30/05/20 09:33 AM |
| 2 | How do you tell a girl a fling is over without being a dick about it? No ghosting allowed eitherThis might be it. Thanks! | /r/askTRP | 30/05/20 09:07 AM |
| -10 | How do you tell a girl a fling is over without being a dick about it? No ghosting allowed eitherI think she would make the effort to talk to me and try to make me feel good, honestly. She doesn’t fit the careless whore type. | /r/askTRP | 30/05/20 09:03 AM |
| 7 | How do you tell a girl a fling is over without being a dick about it? No ghosting allowed eitherI want to end it because I see her just as a fun fling, I’m not interested at all in getting serious with her. I don’t even want her as plate either, I’ll have a lot more fun adding someone else new. | /r/askTRP | 30/05/20 09:02 AM |
| 25 | How do you tell a girl a fling is over without being a dick about it? No ghosting allowed eitherI might just go with that if there’s no better alternative. | /r/askTRP | 30/05/20 08:46 AM |
| 18 | How do you tell a girl a fling is over without being a dick about it? No ghosting allowed eitherHalf the guys here are “fuck her, block her and move on, don’t even bother to talk” and the other are “invent some kind of story of why you two can’t be together even though she’s amazing and you would love to, so treat her like a delicate flower”. Is there no reasonable balance? I want to say “hey, let’s end this. And not why I’m not prepared for a long relationship or that I don’t have time or that there’s someone else, no, I just want to end things”. And if she gets it, perfect. If not, I don… | /r/askTRP | 30/05/20 08:45 AM |
| 13 | How do you tell a girl a fling is over without being a dick about it? No ghosting allowed eitherNon taken, but things aren’t always as black and white. If I can end things with a girl without her feeling confused or used with just some carefully chosen words, I’ll do it. Now, if she doesn’t want to get it on purpose and wants to play the victim, then fuck her. But why start in that mode? Sometimes I feel there’s too much of an adversarial attitude here. Making a girl feel bad after a fling isn’t payback for the cunt who didn’t answer your calls a month ago. | /r/askTRP | 30/05/20 08:35 AM |
| 11 | How do you tell a girl a fling is over without being a dick about it? No ghosting allowed eitherPrecisely because I don’t wanna think too much about it every time something similar happens is why I want to have an easy way to say it prepared. | /r/askTRP | 30/05/20 08:29 AM |
| 3 | How do you tell a girl a fling is over without being a dick about it? No ghosting allowed eitherI like this, but feels a bit insincere if she later sees you again on a dating app or with someone else on the street. I want to be able to say “hey, we had fun but I’m not interested in going further with you” in a straight way. Not implying that I’m superbusy at the moment or whatever. I don’t know how to do it without sounding like a complete dick, though. | /r/askTRP | 30/05/20 08:08 AM |
| 2 | Coronavirus and the gym... (not trolling)I made a post about Coronavirus precautions last week and everyone laughed at me... Guess tables have turned now. I'm cautious (not going to shows, clubs or packed bars for the time being), but other than that I do as usual, and that includes going to the gym. My advice is the following: - Clean your hands regularly. Specially just before entering the gym room. - Chew gum so you don't have the mouth open all the time. - Try not touching your face while at the gym room. - Clean yourself thoroughl… | /r/askTRP | 10/03/20 10:33 AM |
| 1 | Fellow gym rats, where do you side between the volume vs weight debate?I’m happy with my strength right, I want more volume. | /r/askTRP | 05/03/20 09:17 PM |
| 1 | Are you altering your daily behaviour and your social life due to Coronavirus?Yeah, I bet half the people who called me crazy in this post just a few days ago are now freaking out. | /r/askTRP | 05/03/20 09:14 PM |
| 1 | Fellow gym rats, where do you side between the volume vs weight debate?Increasing 2.5-5lb isn’t sustainable when you’re past the newbie phase, IMO. | /r/askTRP | 05/03/20 09:12 PM |
| 2 | Fellow gym rats, where do you side between the volume vs weight debate?Why app, by the way? | /r/askTRP | 05/03/20 08:02 PM |
| 1 | Fellow gym rats, where do you side between the volume vs weight debate?I just wanna find a good balance between the two, not flip-flopping. | /r/askTRP | 05/03/20 08:01 PM |
| 2 | Fellow gym rats, where do you side between the volume vs weight debate?Thanks! Very helpful | /r/askTRP | 05/03/20 04:57 PM |
| 2 | Fellow gym rats, where do you side between the volume vs weight debate?What are you doing in particular? One day bench press of 8x4sets at 80kg and the other 4x4sets at 105kg for example? | /r/askTRP | 05/03/20 02:56 PM |
| 2 | Fellow gym rats, where do you side between the volume vs weight debate?I get the two approaches, but they are very interconnected. You can't lift big weights without packing some muscles, and viceversa. | /r/askTRP | 05/03/20 02:46 PM |
| 1 | Fellow gym rats, where do you side between the volume vs weight debate?How does this work? I assume the weight isn't the same for the 4rep set than the 10rep one, right? How's the weight progression, can you post a real example? | /r/askTRP | 05/03/20 02:45 PM |
| 1 | Do you do some kind of home work-out in addition to the gym?Link a good band, please. I’ll get one. | /r/askTRP | 04/03/20 06:23 PM |
| 1 | Do you do some kind of home work-out in addition to the gym?Thanks for this. What do you think about having a couple of light dumbbells? Not for biceps but for lateral raises. | /r/askTRP | 04/03/20 04:47 PM |
| 2 | Do you do some kind of home work-out in addition to the gym?Ok, I certainly don’t deadlift 2x my weight. I stand corrected. | /r/askTRP | 04/03/20 02:58 PM |
| 1 | Do you do some kind of home work-out in addition to the gym?Sore? I don’t think one should feel sore when training regularly. I only felt sore the last time I went on vacation and didn’t do any exercise while on it. You should feel exhausted/tired but not sore, IMO. | /r/askTRP | 04/03/20 02:47 PM |
| 1 | Are you altering your daily behaviour and your social life due to Coronavirus?Yes, the media wants us to stay locked at home and don’t consume or spend money. Great plan. I guess the toilet paper lobby is ultrapowerful. | /r/askTRP | 02/03/20 11:29 AM |
| 1 | Are you altering your daily behaviour and your social life due to Coronavirus?Nothing is a zombie apocalypse until right before it is. For me right now the effort/reward ratio works in favor of taking small precautions like using hand sanitizer, avoiding being in crowded spaces if it’s just for fun and forgetting (for the moment) about casual hookups. I’m just curious of everyone else’s views. I have old (and not so healthy) parents who I visit often, I’d hate it if they caught the virus through me. | /r/askTRP | 02/03/20 10:08 AM |
| 1 | Are you altering your daily behaviour and your social life due to Coronavirus?Non taken. Look, I’m not trying to convince anyone. The information is out there for whoever wants to get educated. Best of luck to everyone. | /r/askTRP | 02/03/20 10:04 AM |
| 0 | Are you altering your daily behaviour and your social life due to Coronavirus?https://www.theguardian.com/world/2020/mar/01/yes-it-is-worse-than-the-flu-busting-the-coronavirus-myths | /r/askTRP | 02/03/20 09:29 AM |
| 2 | Are you altering your daily behaviour and your social life due to Coronavirus?Well, I wasn't responsible before when it comes to emergency supplies, so I am correcting that now. | /r/askTRP | 02/03/20 09:18 AM |
| 6 | Are you altering your daily behaviour and your social life due to Coronavirus?It has 10x the mortality rate of flu (and growing). I don't want to promote panic but you're going in the opposite direction. | /r/askTRP | 02/03/20 09:16 AM |
| 6 | Are you altering your daily behaviour and your social life due to Coronavirus?I think stocking in non-perishable items is smart. You're gonna use them anyway, and there might be a shortage due to the transport supply chain getting broken soon. Also, don't be so selfish. Just because here we're all healthy 20-somethings and likely won't die due to it, doesn't mean we can't contagion someone else in our lives (family, coworkers...) who are older or more delicate. | /r/askTRP | 02/03/20 08:57 AM |
| 1 | Advice before doing my first proper cut?I rarely do cardio on my workouts. Do you recommend adding it if I’m on a cut? | /r/askTRP | 01/03/20 02:17 PM |
| 3 | What's a new habit for you that you wished you started sooner?What resources would you recommend for a newbie? | /r/askTRP | 01/03/20 10:45 AM |
| 1 | Advice before doing my first proper cut?I appreciate the write-up. I was mostly referring about the changes in the workout. You keep everything the same or lower the weights and number of reps? | /r/askTRP | 01/03/20 09:23 AM |
| 1 | Advice before doing my first proper cut?Any particular resource/guide on cutting you'd recommend? | /r/askTRP | 01/03/20 09:11 AM |
| 1 | How do you recover from getting rejected after a bad first date?This is helpful! Thanks, buddy. | /r/askTRP | 27/02/20 12:14 PM |
| 1 | How do you recover from getting rejected after a bad first date?Sure, you could say the same about 95% of the topics here. Why bother having a subreddit when all you have to do is read the sidebar and shut up? Everyone that starts a new topic thinks his case deserves specific treatment, by definition. Just don't answer if you feel a question is stupid. Do something better with your time. | /r/askTRP | 27/02/20 11:08 AM |
| 3 | How do you recover from getting rejected after a bad first date?OP here. Instead of answering one by one to your comments, I'll do it here because I'm noticing a pattern. I knew beforehand I wouldn't get a pat on the back from you guys, so even the hostile responses are appreciated. But it seems that the solution to this is "never get to attached or hopeful about a girl, be a cold Terminator, treat it as a numbers game and move on the minute it doesn't work out". Which is fine. But I'm not 19y anymore, I've been around the block and had a lot of fun followin… | /r/askTRP | 27/02/20 11:04 AM |
| 1 | Anyone here stopped eating meat but then came back to eat?Satiety how? You feel more satiated now or before? | /r/askTRP | 19/02/20 01:22 PM |
| 0 | Anyone here stopped eating meat but then came back to eat?Yeah, I might only incorporate chicken for the time being. | /r/askTRP | 19/02/20 01:18 PM |
| 1 | Anyone here stopped eating meat but then came back to eat?Did you noticed any difference related to training, recovering, packing on muscle...? | /r/askTRP | 19/02/20 01:17 PM |
| 4 | Anyone here stopped eating meat but then came back to eat?If that works for you, I’m happy. I really have no intention to convince anyone to stop eating meat. | /r/askTRP | 19/02/20 01:16 PM |
| 2 | Anyone here stopped eating meat but then came back to eat?I don’t want to enter in a debate here, but the way we eat meat nowadays isn’t very healthy at large (too much quantity and also low quality). Now, you might only be getting the finest meat and also in moderation. If that’s it, I have nothing to tell you. But it’s not the norm. | /r/askTRP | 19/02/20 11:18 AM |
| 1 | Anyone here stopped eating meat but then came back to eat?Yes, I avoid soy with a passion. | /r/askTRP | 19/02/20 10:32 AM |
| 1 | Anyone here stopped eating meat but then came back to eat?What's your take on milk? I drink a lot of it to get my macros. It leaves me bloated and wanting to lay down. How do I substitute it? | /r/askTRP | 19/02/20 08:38 AM |
| 2 | Anyone here stopped eating meat but then came back to eat?I already eat eggs and fish on the regular. The only thing I'm not eating is meat. | /r/askTRP | 19/02/20 08:34 AM |
| 1 | For the ones who lift regularly, what late lessons (meaning years in) have you learned that have been a game-changer?Thanks for this! Really useful. Lateral raises will transform your physique. Steroid users have awesome looking delts from the androgen receptor sensitivity there. I wanted as close of a look to that as I could naturally. Upped the frequency on lateral raises to 3x a week. I do them bent over so I can hit the lateral portion more effectively. I also do isometric holds at the top which aids in recruiting more muscle fiber units. My shoulders went from completely average to something I'm actuall… | /r/askTRP | 18/02/20 10:28 PM |
| 3 | For the ones who lift regularly, what late lessons (meaning years in) have you learned that have been a game-changer?You do work the same muscle twice a week with PPL. It’s meant to be done 6 times a week. | /r/askTRP | 18/02/20 08:23 PM |
| 3 | For the ones who lift regularly, what late lessons (meaning years in) have you learned that have been a game-changer?Opposite to what? | /r/askTRP | 18/02/20 07:33 PM |
| 5 | For the ones who lift regularly, what late lessons (meaning years in) have you learned that have been a game-changer?I got the opposite problem, I want to bulk but it’s hard to eat everything I need to. | /r/askTRP | 18/02/20 07:32 PM |
| 1 | For the ones who lift regularly, what late lessons (meaning years in) have you learned that have been a game-changer?Thanks! | /r/askTRP | 18/02/20 05:38 PM |
| 2 | For the ones who lift regularly, what late lessons (meaning years in) have you learned that have been a game-changer?What’s your general number of reps x set? | /r/askTRP | 18/02/20 05:07 PM |
| 2 | For the ones who lift regularly, what late lessons (meaning years in) have you learned that have been a game-changer?Interesting! I’ll try it. | /r/askTRP | 18/02/20 04:41 PM |
| 1 | For the ones who lift regularly, what late lessons (meaning years in) have you learned that have been a game-changer?In what sense? Did you eat under maintenance before? Or is it the kind of meals? | /r/askTRP | 18/02/20 04:41 PM |
| 1 | Any way to casually say "no" to a girl asking you out while also letting it open for the future?Thanks! Sounds like a sound plan. | /r/askTRP | 17/02/20 01:56 PM |
| 2 | Any way to casually say "no" to a girl asking you out while also letting it open for the future?This is really good! | /r/askTRP | 17/02/20 11:37 AM |
| 1 | Any way to casually say "no" to a girl asking you out while also letting it open for the future?And what if she makes the move? She isn’t the wallflower kind, so it’s likely she goes after what she wants. | /r/askTRP | 17/02/20 11:37 AM |
| 1 | Any way to casually say "no" to a girl asking you out while also letting it open for the future?How does that work practically? If she says, “hey, wanna get together and have dinner next week?”, how would you respond? | /r/askTRP | 17/02/20 10:24 AM |
| 1 | Anyone here dyes their white hairs?A handful is very noticeable, makes it look unkempt and dirty. If it was more then it would be a look. What’s GAF? | /r/askTRP | 16/02/20 08:35 AM |
| 2 | Anyone here dyes their white hairs?I see your point. Yes, bad comparison on my part. I stand corrected. | /r/askTRP | 15/02/20 09:56 PM |
| 2 | Anyone here dyes their white hairs?I don’t agree. If you were fat I wouldn’t told you to embrace it. I would tell you to fix it and be better. | /r/askTRP | 15/02/20 09:46 PM |
| 2 | Anyone here dyes their white hairs?My problem is that it’s only a handful of hairs on the sides. If it was more extended I’d just rock it. | /r/askTRP | 15/02/20 02:59 PM |
| 1 | Anyone here dyes their white hairs?I’m 30 and look much younger. That’s why my few strays on the sides look kinda weird. | /r/askTRP | 15/02/20 02:57 PM |
| -1 | Anyone here dyes their white hairs?I’m younger. That’s why it looks weird on me. Also, with me being blondish it doesn’t fit well. | /r/askTRP | 15/02/20 02:57 PM |
| 1 | Anyone here dyes their white hairs?I have blonde/light brown hair and my sides look unkempt with the strand whites. Not happy with it, honestly. | /r/askTRP | 15/02/20 02:55 PM |
| 1 | What's supplements do you take daily?Do you have testosterone deficiency? | /r/askTRP | 13/02/20 05:31 PM |
| 1 | Massive sudden increase in SMV, but can't quite adapt mentallyI have insurance but I think I’m gonna start with the nose first, get checked that it’s not deviated. Thanks again for your help. I might send you some DM in the future with more questions. | /r/askTRP | 13/02/20 01:05 PM |
| 1 | Massive sudden increase in SMV, but can't quite adapt mentallyYou recommend going straight to a “nose doctor” (I’m sure it has a name) first? Or maybe a sleep specialist? | /r/askTRP | 13/02/20 12:58 PM |
| 1 | Massive sudden increase in SMV, but can't quite adapt mentallyThe problem was located at your nose (like a deviated septum) or where exactly? Apologies for focusing on this (which isn’t why you asked), but I will seek medical advice after this as I think I might have a similar problem. | /r/askTRP | 13/02/20 12:52 PM |
| 2 | Massive sudden increase in SMV, but can't quite adapt mentallyInteresting! Do you know if you snored while sleeping? I'd like to take a look into my sleeping patterns as I think they aren't right, and I also think I'm not breathing well through my nose. | /r/askTRP | 13/02/20 12:35 PM |
| 1 | Massive sudden increase in SMV, but can't quite adapt mentallyHow did you found out about the sleep apnea and get the diagnostic? I'm curious. | /r/askTRP | 13/02/20 12:25 PM |
| 1 | What's supplements do you take daily?Thanks! Can you comment on krill oil, NAC and boron, please? Not really familiar with them. Why you take them and what do they do? | /r/askTRP | 13/02/20 09:07 AM |
| 1 | What do you do after bad sex?Care to elaborate on that cum on command technique? | /r/askTRP | 05/02/20 01:16 PM |
| 1 | What do you do after bad sex?Yes, sometimes the first time with a girl can’t be unsatisfaying for a myriad of reasons: bad communication, maybe you’re just tired and have an off-day, one of the two is nervous... The thing is that at the moment, this kills my confidence and then it’s hard to get back on track (with the same girl or even a new one). I feel like a fucking 15y with no experience waiting to be called out. | /r/askTRP | 05/02/20 12:26 PM |
| 2 | What do you do after bad sex?Appreciate the advice. But like I’ve said, this only happens rarely. Most of the times, sex is amazing for both me and her. I don’t think it’s a technique issue, it’s just that from time to time I don’t click with a girl and then it weights on me more than it should. | /r/askTRP | 05/02/20 09:05 AM |
| 3 | What do you do after bad sex?Thanks, I appreciate it. It’s more the 1st case. And I know there’s nothing wrong my me rationally, but after it happens then it’s like a cloud that follows me with the next few girls I’m with. | /r/askTRP | 05/02/20 07:49 AM |
| 5 | What do you do after bad sex?I hate to admit it but it really hurts with my ego, I went from (feeling) alpha to feeling like an impostor who shouldn’t even be fucking a hot girl in the first place. It honestly sucks. I’d like to have some kind of implementation or steps to follow, because it always takes me by surprise. One time it happened, and when I told the girl to meet again she brushed me off, and that sent me deep into despair. Granted, probably I was just being a big baby, and maybe she even wouldn’t have been inter… | /r/askTRP | 05/02/20 07:26 AM |
| 3 | Has any of you gotten an erotic massage?Dude, you’re not getting my point. We actually agree. What I’ve said is that I never paid for sex because it seems too personal, there would be a disconnect between me paying and her going for my dick. Like a cheap replica of something you should get for real. That’s why I see masseuses in a different way, here there’s no imitating life, you just go for physical relief. | /r/askTRP | 01/02/20 03:48 PM |
| 1 | Has any of you gotten an erotic massage?So the wank part of the massage how long it lasts usually? | /r/askTRP | 01/02/20 03:45 PM |
| 1 | Has any of you gotten an erotic massage?Oh, cool. So that whole tantra thing of prolonging the climax for minutes and minutes through edging and whatnot really does do exist? | /r/askTRP | 01/02/20 03:24 PM |
| 0 | Has any of you gotten an erotic massage?Is there really much of a difference in terms of quality and technique of a regular handjob that a hookup can give you versus the one of a masseuse professional? | /r/askTRP | 01/02/20 03:09 PM |
| 1 | Has any of you gotten an erotic massage?Thanks, but I’m mostly interested in what differentiates an erotic massage vs an escort. Do you think it’s the same so one might as well have the “full thing” and have an escort or does the massage has its own merits? | /r/askTRP | 01/02/20 02:55 PM |
| 1 | Has any of you gotten an erotic massage?But do you see these two as basically the same thing or you agree with my opinion? If you are in the mood for paying to get an hour with a girl, what would make you pick a massage instead of a regular escort? | /r/askTRP | 01/02/20 02:54 PM |
| 1 | Have you had an orgasm so intense that afterwards you feel totally drained and with zero libido?Yes, maybe I’m overthinking it and it was just a random combination of factors and that’s it. I should be grateful instead. Whatever it is, I do hope to get my libido back soon, feels weird feeling totally sexless right now. | /r/askTRP | 01/02/20 02:45 PM |
| 2 | Any way to incorporate prostate play during a casual hookup?Yeah, people should stop treating sex like it’s a fucking competition you win or loose. It’s all about having fun together, and unless I see she’s having the time of her life I cannot enjoy myself. | /r/askTRP | 01/02/20 02:31 PM |
| 1 | Any way to incorporate prostate play during a casual hookup?Nice! That’s a good reaction, honestly. You don’t want her to do anything she doesn’t like but also her keeping the cool and not spoiling the mood is A+ behaviour. | /r/askTRP | 01/02/20 02:20 PM |
| 1 | Have you had an orgasm so intense that afterwards you feel totally drained and with zero libido?What do you feel it’s the reason behind it? In my case it wasn’t like I hadn’t cum for a long time or that she was a beast in bed or even that I was that much into her... | /r/askTRP | 01/02/20 02:09 PM |
| 2 | Any way to incorporate prostate play during a casual hookup?This is very helpful! So, even the ones who didn’t want to they didn’t react badly or anything? | /r/askTRP | 01/02/20 01:39 PM |
| 1 | Any way to incorporate prostate play during a casual hookup?Did you do this on your first time or waited until there was more familiarity with the girl? | /r/askTRP | 01/02/20 01:28 PM |
| 2 | Have you had an orgasm so intense that afterwards you feel totally drained and with zero libido?Ok, OP here with a little update. Just had sex again with the same girl. It's been a good fuck, had no problems getting it up or cumming, but the intensity has been like 1/10th of the previous one. It kinda reminded me of when you're 14 and have marathon wanking sessions and get up to 6 or 7 wanks in the same day. Well, this lay has been like if it was that 7th wank, sure, still fun, but you're mostly numb and barely feel any pleasure. The whole thing is still a mystery, but one thing is for sur… | /r/askTRP | 01/02/20 12:00 PM |
| 1 | Advice to help with posture and slouching tendencies?How can one stand straight without the shoulders bring retracted? | /r/askTRP | 01/02/20 11:50 AM |
| 1 | Have you had an orgasm so intense that afterwards you feel totally drained and with zero libido?I really don’t know what happened. It’s not like she was the hottest girl ever or someone I wanted to fuck for months. | /r/askTRP | 01/02/20 09:12 AM |
| 1 | Advice to help with posture and slouching tendencies?Has anyone tried this? https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4Mrd7KrDjWw | /r/askTRP | 31/01/20 09:44 PM |
| 1 | Advice to help with posture and slouching tendencies?6'0" | /r/askTRP | 31/01/20 09:43 PM |
| 3 | Have you had an orgasm so intense that afterwards you feel totally drained and with zero libido?I don’t know if it’s even about her, really. Right now I don’t wanna see her. It’s like I’m satiated. I never had a feeling like this before. | /r/askTRP | 31/01/20 09:14 PM |
| 6 | Have you had an orgasm so intense that afterwards you feel totally drained and with zero libido?Yeah, it’s baffling. It’s like my body is saying “ok, we’ve reached peak sex... we can finally move on from it”. I feel so spent I even say no to a plate that wanted to meet tonight. | /r/askTRP | 31/01/20 06:59 PM |
| 1 | Balding young5% you get sides from the get go, the rest is unreported. Also, if you don’t have the money for HT just shave your head. Pumping a prostate medication that will fuck you up is not wise. | /r/askTRP | 31/01/20 01:38 PM |
| 1 | Balding youngIt’s not worth it. If you’re still actively balding fast just wait a bit and then get HT. Once the hair loss is stabilized it’ll probably take 10 or 15y for you too new a 2nd one, and by then maybe you won’t care. Anyway, I’m sure the procedure will be even better and more advanced. Point is, do NOT fuck with your hormones. You can end up with permanent sides. | /r/askTRP | 31/01/20 01:01 PM |
| 1 | Balding youngPlease do not take Fin. Even if you don’t experience sides right away, you’re altering your body chemistry on a daily basis. | /r/askTRP | 31/01/20 10:07 AM |
| 1 | What’s your opinion on natural (herbal) libido boosters?I’ve tried Cialis and Viagra, they work giving you an erection. Which is great if you have ED or need it in a particular case (maybe you drank too much or took drugs and you’re with a new girl and nervous you won’t perform). But in my case it didn’t have any effect in my libido. | /r/askTRP | 30/01/20 10:14 AM |
| 1 | What’s your opinion on natural (herbal) libido boosters?You take it regularly or only when needed? | /r/askTRP | 30/01/20 10:00 AM |
| 1 | What’s your opinion on natural (herbal) libido boosters?Curiosity, mostly. | /r/askTRP | 30/01/20 10:00 AM |
| 1 | A bit confused about the nudes protocolThat’s reassuring. I’ve never sent a dick pic and want to keep it that way. | /r/askTRP | 29/01/20 10:25 AM |
| 2 | A bit confused about the nudes protocolThanks, buddy! This is helpful. Do you ever send nudes? Is that expected after a girl sends them to you? I kinda feel a random dick pic is the less sexy thing ever. | /r/askTRP | 29/01/20 09:53 AM |
| 1 | A bit confused about the nudes protocolYeah, I know she must be somehow interested. That is not my point. What I mean is that usually there’s a context around nudes, like escalating, flirting, dirty talk... Just putting it out there like nothing feels lame. But maybe it’s me who’s an old fart on don’t get the culture of the “kids today”. I’m here to humbly be educated. | /r/askTRP | 29/01/20 09:52 AM |
| 1 | A bit confused about the nudes protocolWhat does one do if she asks for nudes in return? Is that expected? Do you guys send pictures of your junk? | /r/askTRP | 29/01/20 09:48 AM |
| 2 | A bit confused about the nudes protocolIs there some "TRP guide to nudes for dummies" or something similar? It's never been much part of my game. Do you guys actually request them? | /r/askTRP | 29/01/20 09:16 AM |
| 4 | How you being swole/ripped has changed your SMV?I think speaking about BF only really matters if you have solid muscle inside all that fat. I used to be super-skinny and with low BF, and I looked decent without a shirt on the beach, but with clothes I was just another lanky twink. | /r/askTRP | 21/01/20 04:58 PM |
| 2 | Who here is currently in "monk mode" and how do you feet about it?Has anyone fallen too deep into monk mode? I mean, going for too long and becoming a shut-in afraid of going out and interaction with women anymore. | /r/askTRP | 19/01/20 06:47 PM |
| 1 | How do you kept on going to the gym after having accomplished your goals?Which one you’re doing now? | /r/askTRP | 17/01/20 07:48 PM |
| 2 | How do you kept on going to the gym after having accomplished your goals?What kind of split you do when lifting one twice a week? | /r/askTRP | 17/01/20 12:40 PM |
| 1 | How do you kept on going to the gym after having accomplished your goals?You’re absolutely right! Haven’t thought of it this way. Thanks, man. Very helpful! | /r/askTRP | 17/01/20 11:29 AM |
| 2 | How do you kept on going to the gym after having accomplished your goals?But those goals aren’t the same. At the beginning I felt like a loser being all skinny-fat. So going from that to fit, was huge. Now, all the gains and increments feel very small in comparison. That’s what I’m struggling with. | /r/askTRP | 17/01/20 10:34 AM |
| 2 | How do you kept on going to the gym after having accomplished your goals?I know, but don’t you feel having specific goals and motivation makes everything easier/better? I’ve gone from the gym being a source of joy and empowerment to being a drag, something you do because you have to, like brushing your teeth. | /r/askTRP | 17/01/20 10:27 AM |
| 1 | Self-conscious about height and orthotic insolesHad to throw away all my shoes and buy new ones 1 size higher when prescribed. | /r/askTRP | 15/01/20 07:02 PM |
| 1 | Self-conscious about height and orthotic insolesIt’s all in the original message. I’m 5’11” and with boots and orthodics I’m 6’1” and half. | /r/askTRP | 15/01/20 06:12 PM |
| 1 | Self-conscious about height and orthotic insolesI’m not self-conscious about being 5’11”, I’m self-conscious about being 2.5” shorter without boots, that the girl might think I’m trying to appear taller. Specially when I’m not wearing lifts but orthodic soles prescribed by the doctor. That’s my main grip. | /r/askTRP | 15/01/20 06:07 PM |
| 1 | Guys who are into fitness - how good of a shape did you have to get into before you've noticed your SMV clearly increase?Thinking in timeframes isn’t smart. As it’ll probably take much more than you think, specially if you’re a newbie. I started in order to bulk up and look good, then I realized that the effort and time it’s not worth it. But I continued because of how well I felt after going to the gym each day: more energy, goodbye to depression and back pains... That’s why I do it. Looking good is just a nice bonus. But to answer your question, I’d say the following: 3/4 months for your friends and colleagues t… | /r/askTRP | 15/01/20 03:53 PM |
| 1 | Is there any way to have casual sex in an honest way?I had many ONS when it was clear for both parts that it was just that, I know how to spot the differences. I just wanna be straight and not a sociopath. | /r/askTRP | 14/01/20 12:17 PM |
| 1 | Is there any way to have casual sex in an honest way?Sure, that’s what I do now, afterwards. But I want to avoid the same situation in the future. I want to girl to sleep with me for the pleasure of it, not to do it because she thinks she’ll get a good fuck AND also start a relationship. | /r/askTRP | 14/01/20 11:25 AM |
| 1 | Is there any way to have casual sex in an honest way?How gays do it generally seems pretty honest and straightforward. If they just want a good time, they say it and that’s it. And if you’re not into fuck it right away, then the onerus is on you to explicitly say it. I have a buddy who can have casual sex all the time without the girls feeling disappointed. But that’s because he’s the definition of a dumb himbo. Girls wanna fuck him but none wants a relationship with him. With me, most of the times after sleeping with a girl, she wants to start da… | /r/askTRP | 14/01/20 11:15 AM |
| 1 | Is there any way to have casual sex in an honest way?I didn’t trick anyone. I had drinks with a girl, some laughs and in the end she threw herself at me, all on the first date. Didn’t make any false promises or talked about future dates. | /r/askTRP | 14/01/20 11:10 AM |
| 1 | Deadlifts, how “crucial” they are?Like what? | /r/askTRP | 13/01/20 10:34 PM |
| 1 | Deadlifts, how “crucial” they are?Yes, it’s being sorted under medical supervision. So, deadlifts aren’t useful at all when it comes to aesthetics? | /r/askTRP | 13/01/20 10:09 PM |
| 1 | Deadlifts, how “crucial” they are?What’s your back routine? | /r/askTRP | 13/01/20 09:01 PM |
| 1 | Deadlifts, how “crucial” they are?Solid advice, I won't tempt luck until I'm 100% better then. | /r/askTRP | 13/01/20 08:50 PM |
| 79 | « I don’t like muscles »It's fine to start lifting because you want to be jacked, but honestly, if that was the only benefit I'd have stopped at month 3 and never gone back. The reason why I continued is due to it enormously helping with my depression, how it basically eliminated my severe backpain issues, how I started to have a lot more energy during the day and better mood... I could go on all day. And don't get me wrong, girls will pay a lot more attention to you after being jacked, but that just feels like a nice … | /r/TheRedPill | 11/01/20 05:48 PM |
| 6 | What do you do to avoid STDs besides the obvious?STDs aren't a joke. Just because they are treatable doesn't mean it's no big deal to get one. | /r/askTRP | 10/01/20 06:40 PM |
| 3 | What do you do to avoid STDs besides the obvious?Because all the sluts out there. | /r/askTRP | 10/01/20 06:31 PM |
| 1 | What do you do to avoid STDs besides the obvious?Yes, this is great advice. | /r/askTRP | 10/01/20 04:21 PM |
| 1 | Looking for advice on how to reach one’s daily eating calorie goals when trying to gain weightWhat I’m saying is that I can’t humanely eat more during my meals, whenever I’ve tried I’ve ended up superbloated and unable to move. So, I’m trying to eat more in-between meals. | /r/askTRP | 06/01/20 04:57 PM |
| 1 | Looking for advice on how to reach one’s daily eating calorie goals when trying to gain weightYou eat rice as a snack? | /r/askTRP | 06/01/20 04:38 PM |
| 1 | Help me get a younger coworker out of a dry spellI’m not in his head, but hasn’t anything like it happened to you? Sometimes you get shitty sex the first time you sleep with someone. It can be nerves, not knowing what makes each other tick... I think it’s most likely that. | /r/askTRP | 01/01/20 09:25 PM |
| 1 | Anyone here gotten his first tattoo after 30?So everyone who gets his first one does it 100% convinced and with no doubt whatsoever? | /r/askTRP | 01/01/20 03:58 PM |
| 2 | Anyone here gotten his first tattoo after 30?It’s not external what’s holding me back, but internal. Part of me thinks that if I’ve taken this long to get one, then that means I don’t really want it, ergo it’ll be something I’ll regret. | /r/askTRP | 01/01/20 03:48 PM |
| 5 | Help me get a younger coworker out of a dry spellThat’s the right attitude. Honestly, I wish I had help like that too in my dark days. I’ve only achieved what I am now by trial and error, but wasted a lot of time and effort doing the wrong things. There’s no shame in asking for a guiding hand. | /r/askTRP | 01/01/20 02:20 PM |
| 5 | Help me get a younger coworker out of a dry spellYeah, I think some people here really makes an effort and gives good advice and helps the community. But for everyone of those there’s three little shits larping as a nihilistic chad who’s says he’s constantly fucking with 10s and has no time for weak people. Then what are you doing in reddit, asshole? | /r/askTRP | 01/01/20 01:52 PM |
| 17 | Help me get a younger coworker out of a dry spellHe’s not a lost soul, and it really seems he wants to change, just doesn’t know how. You’ve never been in a situation like it? Is this sub full of self-made-pull-yourself-by-the-bootstraps-and-fuck-everyone-else? | /r/askTRP | 01/01/20 12:51 PM |
| 42 | Help me get a younger coworker out of a dry spellYou might mean well, but sometimes I feel this sub feels like an eager young Mormon knocking on doors and trying to evangelize people to the wonderful world of TRP. Let people discover it in their own. I might mention it to him in passing, and if he’s curious and investigates, perfect. But saying “Go read this obscure book and get into a subculture” just because of a dry spell isn’t the best advice. | /r/askTRP | 01/01/20 12:41 PM |
| 13 | Help me get a younger coworker out of a dry spellAlright, one man island! | /r/askTRP | 01/01/20 12:12 PM |
| 4 | Do you guys do NoFap when you have a plate or several?I’m gonna try it for a week to start, see how it feels. | /r/askTRP | 31/12/19 09:52 PM |
| 1 | Do you guys do NoFap when you have a plate or several?Ok, starting 2020, no masturbation at all! I publicly pledge it. | /r/askTRP | 31/12/19 09:47 PM |
| 1 | Do you guys do NoFap when you have a plate or several?Interesting! And what if I’m feeling horny while showering and want to knock one out quickly (no porn)? | /r/askTRP | 31/12/19 09:42 PM |
| 1 | Do you guys do NoFap when you have a plate or several?I did NoFap because jerking off was fucking up my game. But if you already have plates, what’s the harm on jerking off during a night when you’re not with any of them? Genuinely asking. | /r/askTRP | 31/12/19 09:02 PM |
| 1 | A buddy has an interesting take on prostitutionThe whole point of the Red Pill is to get exposed to challenging ideas. There’s nothing wrong in entertaining a possibility. Like I’ve said, I hardly doubt I get an escort in the near future, but at least now I don’t have the smug attitude about it I had before. | /r/askTRP | 31/12/19 10:40 AM |
| 2 | A buddy has an interesting take on prostitutionHonestly, pre-conversation with my buddy I had zero interest. But after it, it’s crossing my mind, to be honest. So far it’s just a thought experiment. | /r/askTRP | 30/12/19 10:19 PM |
| 0 | A buddy has an interesting take on prostitutionWhy so many people are contributing to the topic only to erase it minutes later? Some of them had really interesting takes. | /r/askTRP | 30/12/19 10:18 PM |
| 1 | A buddy has an interesting take on prostitutionThat’s a very interesting take. So, getting whores even helped your game. | /r/askTRP | 30/12/19 07:54 PM |
| 1 | A buddy has an interesting take on prostitutionNah, man. It’s been quite enlightening. I don’t plan on hiring a hooker anytime soon, but my mind has been opened. I might try it in the future just for the experience. Feel free to keep adding your thoughts on the matter. | /r/askTRP | 30/12/19 04:05 PM |
| 1 | A buddy has an interesting take on prostitutionDude, I really appreciate your candidness here. I'm seeing a whole new perspective I hadn't considered. Maybe I'm gonna try it someday just to see if I know myself alright and whether I'd enjoy it or not. | /r/askTRP | 30/12/19 03:55 PM |
| 1 | A buddy has an interesting take on prostitutionSure, you’re probably get a much hotter girl paying for it. But the hotness of the woman doesn’t count for everything when it comes to one’s enjoying of sex. Do you think you’ll have the same level of “fun” with a whore? | /r/askTRP | 30/12/19 03:26 PM |
| 1 | A buddy has an interesting take on prostitutionI’m not bashing, like I’ve said I’ve kinda low-key admire my friend for having such a clear view. He doesn’t have any hangups about it. | /r/askTRP | 30/12/19 03:14 PM |
| 1 | What do you do to beat short intense bouts of crippling depression?I thought about it, but with the current climate of overprescribing meds I’m hesitating. | /r/askTRP | 30/12/19 03:01 PM |
| 7 | A buddy has an interesting take on prostitutionSo price is the reason why you don’t have sex with prostitutes? Let’s say money wasn’t an issue (you just got a huge raise), would you pay for sex then? | /r/askTRP | 30/12/19 02:59 PM |
| 2 | What do you do to beat short intense bouts of crippling depression?Thanks, man. I’ll try to journal my thoughts when going through a really bad episode. | /r/askTRP | 30/12/19 01:52 PM |
| 3 | What do you do to beat short intense bouts of crippling depression?Thanks for the advice. I’m actually doing all this, it’s the reason why I’m not depressed anymore on a regular basis. The problem are some particular days (maybe once or twice a month) when all of a sudden and with no logical explanation, suddenly I’m feeling extremely down, even suicidal. And I know it’s all in my head, but I’d like to have some concrete steps to take action. | /r/askTRP | 30/12/19 01:29 PM |
| 1 | Need advice on how to properly take better selfiesGood info! Thanks. Link doesn’t work, though | /r/askTRP | 29/12/19 06:03 PM |
| 1 | Need advice on how to properly take better selfiesThat’s what I’ve done until now, but it’ll take a while to get photos the organic way with my new look. That’s why I’m asking about selfies technique. | /r/askTRP | 29/12/19 05:44 PM |
| 1 | Need advice on how to properly take better selfiesThanks, buddy. I prefer cold approach to, but I’m in a new city but not much time to socialize and go out. So going the app route might be a necessary evil. | /r/askTRP | 29/12/19 04:37 PM |
| 1 | Need advice on how to properly take better selfiesReally appreciate your advice here. Out of curiosity, is that the origin of your dating profile pictures? You just asked a friend “hey, help me get some Tinder pics?” | /r/askTRP | 29/12/19 04:07 PM |
| 1 | Honest question for the ones who have 3 or more plates going on, how do you do it logistics-wise?But if one already have a couple of plates, why look for more? Is it scarcity mentality and thinking that if you let this chance of a lay go away then you might never get a new one again? With two plates ATM, it’s not just that I’m not making any effort to find a 3rd but even I’m actually rejecting advances. If later, I lose one or both of the plates, then I’ll start looking, and I’m confident I’ll get them. I don’t get behaving like a hungry street dog trying to eat to the point of puking becau… | /r/askTRP | 29/12/19 03:51 PM |
| 2 | Honest question for the ones who have 3 or more plates going on, how do you do it logistics-wise?Exactly! I don’t see how this is a goal for some people here. Besides feeding my ego, I don’t get how having 3+ plates is pleasurable. It feels more of a hassle than anything else. | /r/askTRP | 29/12/19 03:47 PM |
| 1 | Honest question for the ones who have 3 or more plates going on, how do you do it logistics-wise?I get how sometimes you accumulate plates without noticing, but to make it a goal is baffling to me. Is it an ego thing or people are really enjoying it? It’s what you say, it feels like secretary work. | /r/askTRP | 29/12/19 03:12 PM |
| 9 | Honest question for the ones who have 3 or more plates going on, how do you do it logistics-wise?So, every night of the week you’re either going out chasing girls or on a date with a plate? Kudos to you, but I’m exhausted just thinking about it. | /r/askTRP | 29/12/19 02:42 PM |
| 3 | A girl asked me out, any way to keep her as an option without actually going on a date with her?Fuck it! I’ll do that. You all convinced me. I really don’t want to add a third plate to the mix, though. Never been good at handling them. | /r/askTRP | 28/12/19 08:43 PM |
| 1 | A girl asked me out, any way to keep her as an option without actually going on a date with her?I really don’t care about “losing her” right now. The only thing that bothers me is rejecting her now, and if later in the road we’re both single, I won’t have the chance then. Problem is that if I say no right now, she’ll probably peg me as “that asshole who rejected me” and the bridge is burnt forever. So, how can I leave things kinda ambiguous so she goes on to do whatever she likes but doesn’t think of me as the one who said no to her. | /r/askTRP | 28/12/19 02:34 PM |
| 2 | A girl asked me out, any way to keep her as an option without actually going on a date with her?I'm not "keeping her around" for months pending of me. I don't care if she fucks a football team in the meantime. The only thing I want is to not burn the bridge. | /r/askTRP | 28/12/19 02:15 PM |
| 2 | A girl asked me out, any way to keep her as an option without actually going on a date with her?Do you seriously fuck every girl you have a chance with? Either that means that only happens far and between or you don't have things like a job/career, friends, family, hobbies... your whole life is based on trying to be with as many chicks as possible. What I'm saying is not that difficult to understand. A girl is into you but the timing is not right, why burn the bridge? Why not trying to keep it open? | /r/askTRP | 28/12/19 01:57 PM |
| 3 | A girl asked me out, any way to keep her as an option without actually going on a date with her?I'm perfectly aware that she might not be available in the future. If I really cared I'd be seeing her right now. The thing I'm asking is how to keep an open door for the future. The same way as if you're a contractor and get solicited for a job but you're already booked. Are you gonna tell them "fuck off! I'm busy" or "that's too bad, right now I'm booked for the next x weeks, but let's keep talking should you have another gig for me in the future" ? | /r/askTRP | 28/12/19 01:36 PM |
| 4 | A girl asked me out, any way to keep her as an option without actually going on a date with her?I don't have a need to fuck every girl who's available to me. If in two months I'm free and want to see her and she isn't anymore, so be it. But I'd like to keep that option open, if possible. Some of you act like a hungry street dog, wanting to eat everything right now to the point of vomit even if you're already full, because who knows if you won't be able to fuck again in the future. That's scarcity mentality. I'm confident in my abilities, so I don't mind skipping a possible lay today if I d… | /r/askTRP | 28/12/19 01:33 PM |
| 2 | I introduced a friend to some of the red pill fundamentals and he was fascinated, where to go next?There’s nothing wrong in gently introducing something. When you first decided to exercise, you started by doing an Iron Man on the first day? | /r/askTRP | 27/12/19 02:45 PM |
| 9 | I introduced a friend to some of the red pill fundamentals and he was fascinated, where to go next?Gotta admit I laughed. | /r/askTRP | 27/12/19 08:02 AM |
| 6 | I introduced a friend to some of the red pill fundamentals and he was fascinated, where to go next?I thought about it, but I personally don’t like his verbose style and also I don’t think he’s quite beginner friendly. | /r/askTRP | 27/12/19 07:44 AM |
| 1 | Anyone here likes The Rationale Male's teachings but hates its writing style?Take a laxative. | /r/askTRP | 24/12/19 06:03 PM |
| 1 | Anyone here likes The Rationale Male's teachings but hates its writing style?There are plenty of examples of good writing by "non-writers", but that requires extra care and a good editor. | /r/askTRP | 24/12/19 05:38 PM |
| 2 | Anyone here likes The Rationale Male's teachings but hates its writing style?Thanks! It's really a shame because the book could be a lot more effective was it written in a better way. Hope he puts out a revised edition soon. | /r/askTRP | 24/12/19 05:36 PM |
| 1 | Anyone here likes The Rationale Male's teachings but hates its writing style?Why make a post about anything, then? If the book was better written it could reach more people. I've recommended the book to people I think could really benefit from it and have been told they couldn't read beyond page 20. And that's a shame. | /r/askTRP | 24/12/19 05:10 PM |
| 0 | Anyone here likes The Rationale Male's teachings but hates its writing style?I'm the original OP. Original post has name calling and shit throwing, Dude, what you say "name calling and shit throwing" it's just me speaking off-the-cuff and being straight with my thoughts. Would I say the same to Rollo's face if I met him? Probably not, I'm not a dick. But I think he's a big boy and he'll be able to take the criticism, should he ever read this. You got offended on behalf of him because you're a fan, I completely understand that. I'll try to be more careful in my wording … | /r/askTRP | 24/12/19 05:06 PM |
| 1 | Anyone here likes The Rationale Male's teachings but hates its writing style?Thanks! Do you have any link at hand in were Rollo talks about the lack of editor, the decision about the font or the fact that he wants to solve those issues in a future edition? | /r/askTRP | 24/12/19 04:22 PM |
| 2 | Anyone here likes The Rationale Male's teachings but hates its writing style?EDIT: I don’t want to end this insulting someone I don’t know. I’m leaving this conversation. | /r/askTRP | 24/12/19 01:46 PM |
| 0 | Anyone here likes The Rationale Male's teachings but hates its writing style?If Rollo has already mentioned this (which I didn’t know), why not just say “I don’t have your view, but some do, heck, even Rollo himself thinks so a bit and he plans do to a new edition correcting that” and leave it? But no, you act all defensive and start to attack me. Am I supposed to provide you with a list of the books I’ve read this year? To what end, to impress an internet stranger? I won’t bother. | /r/askTRP | 24/12/19 01:44 PM |
| 0 | Anyone here likes The Rationale Male's teachings but hates its writing style?Alright, Rollo is a god and anyone who dares to say anything but is a pussy who deserves to be shamed. I stand corrected. | /r/askTRP | 24/12/19 01:40 PM |
| -1 | Anyone here likes The Rationale Male's teachings but hates its writing style?By the way, I'm reading some reviews in amazon and it seems I'm not alone in my views. This is a lot more harsher than me even: Although the principles and ideas outlined in this book are undoubtedly sound the author has a writing style of wondering thought, and a lack of conciseness that makes reading this book almost torture. Add to that the font is tiny and the pages are too small even for me with perfect vision. I have read books on accounting and investing, I have read Cisco certification… | /r/askTRP | 24/12/19 01:32 PM |
| 1 | Has anyone successfully lowered the pitch of his voice through exercises?Thanks! I'll research for exercises. If anyone wants to point out specific ones that were useful to them, that'll be amazing. | /r/askTRP | 24/12/19 01:30 PM |
| -1 | Anyone here likes The Rationale Male's teachings but hates its writing style?Also it sounds that you can't handle any critique or commentary about Rollo's writing. You think he's the best writer alive and that TRM is a sacred text that can't be improved in any way? Good for you! But not everyone needs to adhere to that view. If it turns out I'm the only one who thinks this way, then I'll shut after this. | /r/askTRP | 24/12/19 01:26 PM |
| 1 | Anyone here likes The Rationale Male's teachings but hates its writing style?If he re-edits the book and makes those changes I’ll gladly buy another copy. And I don’t feel it’s me shitting on him. If I thought he wasn’t good I wouldn’t bother mentioning or thinking about it. I just pointed out that I feel it’s a shame that due to some minor (and solvable) issues the book can’t reach the highs and audience that it should. I’m someone that reads a book a week and are used to dense and difficult texts, and even I thought that TRM could benefit from a rewrite. If it wasn’t b… | /r/askTRP | 24/12/19 12:24 PM |
| 2 | Has anyone successfully lowered the pitch of his voice through exercises?I lift, and my voice isn’t particularly high pitched. If I just stay like this, I’ll be completely fine with it. I’m just wondering about the effectiveness of voice exercises and whether they’re bullshit or not. | /r/askTRP | 24/12/19 12:03 PM |
| 10 | Anyone here likes The Rationale Male's teachings but hates its writing style?Don’t take it as an attack. You like his style, then cool. I think Rollo comes across much more eloquently on his points through podcasts and youtube talks than in writing, it’s just that. I might be in the minority, and that’s fine too. And like I’ve said, I think his teaching are amazing, it’s just the delivery which lacks for me. | /r/askTRP | 24/12/19 12:01 PM |
| 1 | Face skincare routine doubt: what’s there after the basics?Would this be a tonic? If not, what does a tonic do that a youth serum doesn’t? | /r/askTRP | 18/12/19 02:23 PM |
| 1 | Face skincare routine doubt: what’s there after the basics?Amazing! | /r/askTRP | 17/12/19 02:01 PM |
| 1 | Face skincare routine doubt: what’s there after the basics?Link me to the one you use, please. | /r/askTRP | 17/12/19 01:40 PM |
| 1 | Face skincare routine doubt: what’s there after the basics?Pardon my ignorance, but SPF cream is sunscreen lotion, right? Do you put that everyday even in winter? | /r/askTRP | 17/12/19 12:07 PM |
| 1 | Face skincare routine doubt: what’s there after the basics?What about dark spots in the nose? | /r/askTRP | 17/12/19 11:50 AM |
| 1 | Face skincare routine doubt: what’s there after the basics?Thanks, do you recommend any particular brand/product? | /r/askTRP | 17/12/19 11:25 AM |
| 1 | Have you ever been genuinely flabbergasted by a girl’s rejection after a successful date?It’s less about the girl in particular but more about being able to read the situation better next time. Unless she was a sociopath, there had had to be clues in there. | /r/askTRP | 16/12/19 12:22 PM |
| 1 | What’s a good snippy comeback after a women complains about men dating younger girls?That seems to be the wisest move. | /r/askTRP | 27/11/19 04:07 PM |
| 2 | What’s a good snippy comeback after a women complains about men dating younger girls?I engaged before, and even if you win, it’s not fun. But the child in me do want to engage, so I need a half measure. | /r/askTRP | 27/11/19 07:16 AM |
| 4 | How to politely reject a girl who doesn't want to get the hint?Honestly, her being so fucking confident kinda makes her hotter. I might go on a date with her just for this. | /r/askTRP | 27/11/19 12:35 AM |
| 2 | How to politely reject a girl who doesn't want to get the hint?Yes, some of the advice here is thoughtful and good but there’s also a lot of posturing and bullshit. Either some people here are straight up dicks on purpose in retaliation to whatever thing a skank did to her ages afo or they lack basic social skills. | /r/askTRP | 26/11/19 08:39 PM |
| 0 | How to politely reject a girl who doesn't want to get the hint?That’s an interesting take, never thought of it this way. I might go on a date, then. | /r/askTRP | 26/11/19 07:33 PM |
| 2 | How to politely reject a girl who doesn't want to get the hint?Why be a dick to this girl specifically? Just because others have treated men like shit in the past? Don’t be resentful, dude. | /r/askTRP | 26/11/19 05:22 PM |
| 1 | How to politely reject a girl who doesn't want to get the hint?Two wrongs don’t make a right. | /r/askTRP | 26/11/19 05:07 PM |
| 1 | How to politely reject a girl who doesn't want to get the hint?I didn’t get blown! If I had gone that far this would be Fatal Attraction 2. | /r/askTRP | 26/11/19 05:05 PM |
| 3 | How to politely reject a girl who doesn't want to get the hint?Don’t want to string her along either. | /r/askTRP | 26/11/19 04:29 PM |
| 5 | How to politely reject a girl who doesn't want to get the hint?Thanks! Sounds a bit corny, in my opinion, though. I need to give her an easy out. | /r/askTRP | 26/11/19 03:18 PM |
| 2 | How to politely reject a girl who doesn't want to get the hint?Like I’ve said, she’s cool. Have no interest in humiliate her or make her feel bad. But also don’t want to lie. | /r/askTRP | 26/11/19 03:17 PM |
| 11 | How to politely reject a girl who doesn't want to get the hint?Please god grant me the confidence of a (semi)hot girl. Can’t believe how she keeps going. | /r/askTRP | 26/11/19 03:16 PM |
| 1 | Anyone here started on antidepressants and was able to stop later?Have you been able to beat the depression after the meds? How? | /r/askTRP | 17/11/19 05:49 PM |
| 2 | Anyone here started on antidepressants and was able to stop later?Thanks! I’ll schedule a visit to the doctor and expose my doubts. | /r/askTRP | 17/11/19 05:48 PM |
| 1 | Anyone here started on antidepressants and was able to stop later?How did you treated it? | /r/askTRP | 17/11/19 04:50 PM |
| 3 | Anyone here started on antidepressants and was able to stop later?The thing is, how do you objectively tell you have a chemical imbalance or not? Why isn’t your depression caused by life circumstances that need to be addressed in order to get better? Then, SSRI would be just a band-aid and not a solution. | /r/askTRP | 17/11/19 03:28 PM |
| 1 | Anyone here started on antidepressants and was able to stop later?How long was the weaning off period? Did you felt worse while trying to let go of the meds? | /r/askTRP | 17/11/19 03:02 PM |
| 3 | Back to the game after a long time, feeling overwhelmed by the IOIs I’m gettingBefore it was me who decided whether there was gonna be interaction or not, now I’m thrown into it whether I want it or not. | /r/askTRP | 30/09/19 01:01 PM |
| -1 | Unpopular opinion: If after a period of lifting and eating clean, girls start paying you attention, don’t be resentful of themI don't agree. You tell a woman that your fortune is through lottery and you might get to fuck her, but she isn't gonna be as turned on as if you tell her that you build an empire from nothing. Achievement is attractive. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/07/19 05:41 PM |
| -3 | Unpopular opinion: If after a period of lifting and eating clean, girls start paying you attention, don’t be resentful of themSo what if it’s a biological reaction? At least the attraction isn’t for something random as a pretty face. No one gets born ripped, it’s something gained through effort. And that’s part of what it makes it attractive. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/07/19 05:01 PM |
| 53 | Unpopular opinion: If after a period of lifting and eating clean, girls start paying you attention, don’t be resentful of themI need to get more informed about TRP, then. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/07/19 11:41 AM |
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