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because most normal people have at least one friend, if not two or three. i know introverts who don't feel the need to always hang out, and no one complains about their lack of friends... perhaps something else is going off, or he's somehow signaling a lack of friends in other ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/18 02:35 AM
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i see you’re eager to hurry towards a temp-ban.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/18 11:00 PM
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reddit's formatting interprets a number followed by a period to be the beginning of a numbered list.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/18 09:33 PM
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automod is designed for this very kind of comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/18 08:41 PM
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no you may not. (5) No Race-Baiting or Racially Charged Content.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/18 06:13 PM
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it's incredible that in trying to mock whatever position you think i hold, you're actually comparing your own argument to something you think is ridiculous, thereby essentially suggesting even your own statement above is ridiculous, or a "game". i've never seen someone so eager to support the point of someone they clearly otherwise perceive to be an opponent. bravo.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/18 03:13 AM
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health reasons yes, that’s why all the men here insist they are so important that they should be forced and imposed on everyone. health reasons. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/18 11:20 PM
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this still isn't any kind of real response to the discussion/topic at hand.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/18 09:08 PM
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this discussion isn't really related to race, so this question/tangent is out of place here. you are free to PM the same question, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/18 08:48 PM
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i agree, though it's easy to make the connection with understanding of what groupies are, and each of those terms means (we have a sort of dictionary linked on the sidebar). if that weren't the case, this probably would have been removed (and really, it doesn't fall under any other flair category).
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/18 06:56 PM
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so close, but this belongs under automod.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/18 06:53 PM
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automod please.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/18 05:02 PM
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between stories from single friends and threads here, it does make me glad i don't have to deal with dating these days.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/18 04:22 PM
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removed for incivility. edit out your last line and it will be reapproved.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/18 04:19 PM
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a woman thinks most men are dog feces and only Chad is deserving of her golden vajajay. To women, most men are dog feces but the very few celebrity Chads are literal Gods ease up on this.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/18 03:38 PM
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male gigolos are not the same as either male or female groupies.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/18 03:08 PM
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changing this to CMV; top level comments must challenge the OP's expressed views.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/18 03:03 PM
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need proof that male groupies don't exist. while they operate somewhat differently, i've seen men act essentially the same (seeking the same end) over female musicians and celebrities.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/18 03:02 PM
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i suppose it is only lamentable to some, but alas, mods don’t actually undergo human-to-robot conversion upon their appointment (that gets pretty costly, you know), so we’re still burdened with pesky human things like opinions and the ability to disagree. jokes aside, feel free to take any further comments or questions to modmail if there’s something you want to talk about.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/18 07:03 PM
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i’ll leave it as is. if it stays removed, that’s fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/18 05:53 PM
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except when they vow to each other not to do that. be honorable, yeah? it’s not as if he would be okay with her getting it somewhere else, for reasons beyond whatever biology/pseudoscience i can already feel you mashing violently into your keyboard. people don’t work that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/18 05:41 PM
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which is fine for the individual, but then the people insisting vetting doesn’t work still refuse to accept that this is their individual view, they may still be fucking up in their vetting, and/or that they can/should just stay single then, if they truly believe that’s their best bet.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/18 04:41 PM
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👏 thank you. this is exactly it. TRPers don’t believe this is remotely possible for some reason, the way they tell it... but it’s not. you can vet a BF/GF. you can vet a wife/husband. you can vet the future other parent of your children. you can do all of this vetting smartly too. there are some exceptions, but if you don’t vet beyond “is more or less fuckable” chances are, the bad outcome is on you. it doesn’t excuse anything bad that the person did, but you did pick them.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/18 04:29 PM
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most people make promises not to be physically intimate with another person, professional or not. therapists are very clear on personal boundaries because of the personal and emotional nature of the discussions that take place in sessions. if i’m not mistaken, many encourage sharing feelings and being open with others in a patient’s life too, including spouses and SOs. it’s part of healing and recovery, so it’s not some secret relationship/talk you only have with a therapist in most cases.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/18 04:39 PM
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she takes care of the dog, then. expenses, care, cleanup. both of you get aligned on future goals about children before getting together. marry someone who honors their word when they give it. this is what people who are smart, in addition to being responsible, do.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/18 04:21 PM
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so... she also pays for what she wants, and you both only pay for what you can afford after all other finances are taken care of. not hard. if a shared pool of money can’t be properly managed between the two of you, separate them to make it easier. i wanted desperately to go to Japan recently, so i saved up and footed the bill for our trip. he wanted a motorcycle, so he saved up and got it. we both built up money for these things so that we could maintain our lifestyles while working towards tho…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/18 04:08 PM
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you go through the work to get it and take care of it. you want it, you take on responsibility for getting it. it depends on the reasons a new car is or isn’t wanted, but based on just the info above it makes sense that the person who wants the change takes on the work and duty of making it happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/18 03:23 PM
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i don’t know how to explain it any more clearly; the answer to your first question is a pretty obvious one. if you don’t want to believe it, that’s fine. based on your last sentence, it doesn’t seem like you really read my comment anyway. oh well ✌️
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/18 03:02 PM
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because those men are easy targets for women who aren't loyal or honest, and looking for a different kind of easy route.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/18 02:54 AM
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Maybe honest, hard-working guys have to fly across the Pacific to find a women who really appreciates their value. i doubt that, quite a bit actually. firstly that all men having trouble are honest and hardworking, and secondly that there aren’t any women in North America who would appreciate honesty or being hardworking in men. it’s the kind of men who don’t want to put effort into being attractive or likeable and instead are sad that women don’t need them for money anymore and have the freedom…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/18 02:08 AM
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can you edit your post and add a period somewhere or something? that should make the AutoMod comment show up.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/18 02:02 AM
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from what i remember you saying about your relationship, it’s pretty different from most here, making it a less-than-great example. i don’t think it’s unhealthy if everyone is happy and on board with it, but i’d still never want it. men here claim not to understand why, but just try asking them why they’re so disgusted at the idea of being first mate instead 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/18 01:46 AM
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automod is being lazy... can you make a small edit to your OP so it shows up?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/18 01:44 AM
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this is more suited for the general chat thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/18 01:27 AM
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she’s just responding to you going on the offensive, accordingly. don’t pick fights if you don’t want them.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/18 01:17 AM
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aw, come on. expand on this.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/18 12:34 AM
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it seems like this is agreeing with the OP, but i've had more coffee than sleep so i could be misreading. if this is in disagreement, can you ELI5 how? if not, i'll have to remove it :(
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/18 08:58 PM
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mfw don't attack people. that's godzilla's job.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/18 08:40 PM
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it seems like you disagree with the OP, but i'm not clear on how. if so, can you expand? otherwise, this comment is probably better off under automod.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/18 08:03 PM
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this is all nonsense, so i don't actually care that much about entertaining it. just wanted to make sure you knew you were wrong, and post a fun gif to boot.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/18 02:36 PM
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did you know women can do all of these things and some even do
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/18 02:17 PM
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ugh, and here i thought you were serious.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/18 09:39 PM
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please don't turn this thread into a just another woe-is-men or woe-is-incels post. we'll remove it if it goes that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/18 06:55 PM
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he wasn't anything spectacular (though not ugly either). Jr. is cuter but such an apparent piece of crap it doesn't matter. but, who cares what he looked like at 18 anyway?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/18 04:22 PM
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meh, it's just shorthand for "you're just saying/believing x to make yourself feel better", which is said here all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/18 03:35 PM
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that's not at all what she said, lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/18 02:06 PM
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you can't just post a link with no context, but you can post a link and questions or comments to frame discussion around. like: this is a comedy sketch about chivalry what do you think about the statements the comedian makes? do you think there's any truth to it? what are your thoughts on chivalry? of course, those are just placeholder/example questions, so yours can be different and you don't necessarily have to have more than one. but that general format would be okay, as opposed to just dropp…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/18 03:33 AM
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hey, so it looks like this is just a copy and paste of a comedy sketch, with nothing original included (so i've removed it). if you add some content of your own or something to discuss (maybe reducing the written sketch to a youtube video of it instead, so we can focus on your posted content), it will be reapproved.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/18 03:25 AM
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your OP is literally asking us personally.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/18 10:57 PM
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OP: it’s okay to mention someone and their post, but don’t insult them or call them names. please edit out the jab at Jammerly.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/18 10:19 PM
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be civil, you.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/18 08:46 PM
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The quest for significance is the desire to matter, to be respected, to be somebody in one’s own eyes and in the eyes of others. yes, most people experience this to some degree. think everyone knows that already, tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/18 03:56 PM
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yeah, several of us have been doing that in an effort to combat the downvoting.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/18 01:55 PM
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voting on banning this bot since replies to it seem mixed; let me know in a reply here or here what you think. if no replies within an hour, i'll just ban it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/18 01:43 PM
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excuse me.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/18 08:12 PM
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you’re not helping your case with comments like this, at all. i actually feel relieved for her now.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/18 07:40 PM
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i was talking less about actually mitigating the anxiety itself, but being able to function in society in spite of it instead of being disabled by it (which social skills would help with, barring the greatest extremes). i'm not saying it would solve the problems of being unable to sleep because you're afraid of a monster eating your toes; obviously, it wouldn't. but if you have those social skills at your disposal you are probably less likely to be "disabled" by that sleepless night the next day…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/18 06:12 PM
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dunno, i've known some guys who have described experiences worse than mine, and i'm a woman suffering from anxiety (29, non pill_. not sure it's more disabling for women. maybe even less so, given that our "conditioning" is generally to be more socially friendly and acceptable (meaning we learn to cope or at least hide it better). i believe it's been said here before (with proof) that it's more common in women, though, which i don't have issue believing.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/18 05:52 PM
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i mean, there's still a difference between being absorbed by your phone and glancing at it occasionally. not a big deal if both of you just looked at it from time to time, but if you met her glancing with total phone absorption ("all bets were off") then that's still a dick move.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/18 05:39 PM
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he does only care about sex, and she thinks he's an asshole. that's what we're talking about. i'm going to start having pop quizzes on OP's before anyone can engage with me about it if it continues to be apparent that people aren't reading before jumping into discussion. prepare yourselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/18 04:58 PM
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all of this sounds like a wonderful attempt at an excuse. it's either something special and worthwhile to you (the kind of thing important enough to you to wait for), or it's something you don't care about who you get it from (and will next next next until someone, anyone puts out). pick one. you don't get both.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/18 04:56 PM
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She asked why I was on the phone during our dates, upset that something took my attention from her depending on the context/degree of usage, this can be pretty rude to even a non-insecure person.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/18 04:50 PM
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a woman who wants to wait isn’t going to care much about the opinions of men who won’t. enough will that it’s just fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/18 03:11 AM
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Would a text/call suffice, or maybe a dinner, or several dates? several dates with dinner and texting/chatting in between. Or would you also need personality compatibility, common interests, beliefs, etc.? all of the above. What specific things would they have to do? Please state your gender when answering, thank you. female. there's no specific set of steps a guy would follow to "get" this; the closest it gets is be charming/friendly, be compatible with/similar to me, show interest in me and sp…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/18 01:05 AM
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it matters to them to be able to air their grievances; that's what people do. and obviously, it has gotten under the skin of some guys who are or perceive themselves to be the targets of that criticism. and if it were truly so meaningless, i doubt you'd insist so hard that hey don't voice their opinions or criticism. are you also a man bothered by women holding these particular opinions? it appears so.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/18 12:03 AM
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people are free to voice and disregard criticism as they please, yes. whether or not criticism has merit depends on the speaker and/or the receiver, yes. not sure what your point is, as none of this contradicts what i said and we’re basically just agreeing.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/18 11:36 PM
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the problem is that men here want to be able to live and act without criticism or consequence but that’s not reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/18 11:20 PM
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do not turn this into a gotcha. we expect good faith posting and discussion here.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/18 09:34 PM
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don’t ruin funny things with your superiority complex.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/18 09:33 PM
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he doesn’t have to stay and wait. but if he chooses to move on because sex is that important to him, he clearly accepts that he may be perceived as an asshole who only cares about sex (perhaps not inaccurately).
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/18 09:13 PM
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they aren’t wrong in that tests exist and some women use them; they just go overboard in determining what is or isn’t a shit test and eventually label any comment or question from a woman a shit test. i remember one story a guy told where his girlfriend was sick on the couch and a window or door was open, and she asked him to close it because she was cold. he then went on to brag about holding frame and not giving into her shit test or whatever, and did some asshole thing like tell her to do it …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/18 07:11 PM
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nexting someone if they don’t put out within 5 minutes of meeting you is an act committed out of desperation for sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/18 04:42 PM
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yes, OP said that. i was not talking about that or even arguing otherwise. i’m not talking about male nudity at all. i am correcting misconceptions about female nudity.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/18 02:55 PM
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i get that female nudity would be enjoyable to men... but that’s sort of the thing. it’s mostly not empowering or exciting for women, it’s just a reminder of how easily and often women can be reduced to just something to look at or be used, above all else. plenty of media which could stand on its own still makes sure to include sexy clothes, nudity, or other forms of fan service just to max out the number of people they can draw in, and it’s almost always using a woman to do so. seriously, they …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/18 01:55 PM
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better boots?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/18 05:13 AM
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i think this goes back to the pool of women they surround themselves with/try to pull from. most women i know are happy to pay their own way at starbucks or whatever; never hear that from the guys here though.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/18 04:08 AM
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if sleeping with a guy quickly is a sign of shitty impulsive behavior or a low quality woman, then the other thread should be full of men encouraging women to wait and talking about how great it is to wait. but, it’s not.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/18 03:17 AM
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based on your comment in the other thread, though, both of your marriages with women you slept with straight away ended in disaster anyway (judging by what you have said here). doing this didn’t change or save you from the bad outcomes you say waiting causes.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/18 02:49 AM
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maybe; i'm sure being here so long has made me a little more suspicious of motives here :) haha.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/18 01:43 AM
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it does come off underhanded or as a pre-cursor to a gotcha somehow.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/18 01:24 AM
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unless they really go nuts, no one gets banned for posting under automod. i’m saying i don’t understand the point of a placeholder when you can just as easily comment later without issue, but you do you.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/18 11:01 PM
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it’s not against the rules, though i’m not sure what the point is.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/18 10:56 PM
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i don’t agree that most men can’t love and desire a woman intensely at the same time, but of the two, i definitely place more importance on love than desire.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/18 10:55 PM
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it helps to note when you’re using the general you. if you are going to comment aggressively, i recommend at least indicating that you are speaking to a general group and not the individual you are replying to. easier for everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/18 03:14 PM
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AND she was on her cycle. I could smell it on her. why do you know women like this
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/18 11:36 PM
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cuddling is nice, or they're just not ready to go that far but still want to get close. if you've got no other plans and don't stand to lose anything, why not also get some cuddles in of your own? no harm, no foul.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/18 10:03 PM
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trying to reel people in today like /u/LewisCross /u/SlimLovin please leave each other alone for a little while. you can disagree on topics, but you're both just poking at each other to aggravate now.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/18 07:59 PM
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you got it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/18 03:34 PM
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you are free to hold this opinion, but it wasn't requested and it's cruel. don't be a bully.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/18 03:24 PM
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i’ve never had the typical TV version of female friendships; no Serena and Blair, no Betty and Veronica. i have had a Trish and Jessica friendship, but only once and long ago. for me, these days, it is mostly positive. we’re grown up, past the drama phase in life, and more comfortable in our skins. we chat about work, TV, personal lives, though none of those discussions get racy because we all have partners and private relationships (plus the men in those relationships are often in the same circ…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/18 06:38 AM
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Are you joking when you say it's apprehension and dread and peremptory attack; or are you serious? i will leave it to your imagination as to whether i aggressively bite men who try to talk to me or not. have a good day, Lewis...
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/18 04:58 PM
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probably because i talk about it openly and regularly, and you're a big fan of hanging on my every word :) . it was pretty clearly a joking exaggeration, though. it's easy to miss things like that when you deliberately seek out the worst in people.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/18 04:40 PM
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As an aside, I love how bloops on this sub make the case that masculinity as a whole is not being attacked. Just enter any social studies course in academia and you will see objective logical reasoning being attributed to masculinity and futher taught it is problematic and classist wrong-think. can you explain how this is related to your OP? as it stands, it just appears to be an unrelated jab at "bloops", which you can easily just post under automod or elsewhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/18 03:22 PM
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apprehension and dread. but really, i'm probably nervous either way, because i'm just anxious about social stuff like that in general. my anxiety probably gets higher the more obvious it is that he's actually approaching, as opposed to just being a guy asking a question or making normal small talk.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/18 02:40 PM
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I am not a husband! :o
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/18 09:53 PM
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find something to do other than posting silly photos.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/18 08:49 PM
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you realize this is a staged photo of one woman, yes?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/18 08:43 PM
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no, it's as sublime and others have said: it implies you are low class/trashy/desperate.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/18 08:03 PM
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i'm not so naive as to believe that's how it will go whether it was their intent or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/18 01:31 PM
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you can’t look around and determine this for yourself? i mean in public/daily life, but make no mistake, there are countless articles about aging as a woman online that you can peruse, even. countless makeup and moisturizer lines aimed at just this.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/18 04:19 AM
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Cool Girls never get angry; they only smile in a chagrined, loving manner and let their men do whatever they want. no, i don't believe this is real. while there's room for different interpretations (what you think is a guy "shitting" on her might actually just be their dynamic/not as harmful as it appears to outsiders) there is a threshold, and even the coolest of people will get mad when that is crossed. this also sounds more RPW than cool girl, to me. seems like the cool girl trope i know of w…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/18 04:28 PM
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dying to try squid ink pasta.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/18 04:53 AM
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this has been tentatively approved. please keep in mind: we do still have rules in place about discussions of race (rule 5 over there). this thread will be removed if the discussion violates that rule or crosses the line.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/18 05:11 PM
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lol, you must be one of the ones who didn’t pay attention if you think this rule came into existence with the new mods. it didn’t. it’s not censorship. it’s not abuse of power. follow the rules, leave, or be forced to leave as a result of your own conduct. it’s up to you. the end.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/18 03:56 AM
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wrong. this has been a rule for a really long time. some people just don’t care or don’t pay attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/18 03:42 AM
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actually, i reported it because i thought it was over the line and i was in the middle of something so i couldn’t handle it myself. she just happened to be online and dealt with it; don’t give her shit for being an attentive mod.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/18 05:10 PM
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if you are this affected by people with tattoos just running simple errands, you are the problem. plus, either you live in an affluent, conservative suburb in Texas where this isn't common or you can't go to Walmart without being met with an army of tattooed people. pick one.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/18 01:07 AM
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it’s the best (and especially common) when you see people taking aunts, uncles, moms, dads, grandmas, grandpas to get tattoos. in clean, well lit parlors, not back alleys and abandoned warehouses or some shit 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/18 10:36 PM
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i am always curious about the ages and general locations of people that say this. i'm not exactly young anymore, but even i 'get' it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/18 10:09 PM
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didn't watch the video, but the OP says he didn't let her pay for anything (suggesting that he insisted to pay, not that he was dragged around and forced to). also, you're in the wrong place if you're just expecting everyone to fawn over women here; men and women alike here don't have an issue calling out bullshit when they see it. the bottom line is, though, do you believe men have agency and responsibility for themselves and their money, or not?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/18 09:06 PM
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i don't care if you take them seriously or not. you aren't required to, either. but you are required to follow the rules of this sub if you want to continue participating here.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/18 08:32 PM
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be civil.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/18 08:28 PM
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unless they had a tattoo which literally cannot be covered. this doesn't exist. there is no tattoo which literally cannot be covered. got a face tattoo? makeup. got a neck tattoo? high collars or scarves. have your whole scalp tattooed? wear a hat or a wig. we're everywhere, and we're unstoppable. :)
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/18 07:43 PM
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So getting a tattoo as a woman puts you close to that group in a social sense than people sometimes realize. it doesn't, any more than having long hair or liking a certain type of music does (which is to say, not). That really depends on your job. it was a yes or no question. honestly, OP... you can dislike tattoos and think poorly of people with them. you don't need to try attributing it to anything greater than your personal preference. just like when guys try to do this about high N... it alw…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/18 05:22 PM
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greater numbers of lifetime sexual partners this seemed to imply high N, though i suppose 'higher' doesn't necessarily mean 'high'. the judgments of tattooed people here definitely do point to automatically assuming they are high N though (as this thread is already demonstrating). Well the issue is not just getting a job, it's relationships too. yes, tattooed people have stable relationships and even marriages in addition to jobs. we're not aliens. So a person with a normal level of self-conscio…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/18 04:38 PM
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ooh ooh, i can talk about this. breaking it down: Tattooing has increased in popularity during the past decade. Yet tattoos still appear to be a marker for risk-taking behavior in adults. maybe. but aside from smoking, are those really risk-taking behaviors? you can have higher N and do so in a safe and non-risky way. i'm not super familiar with health risks, but weed is legal in a lot of places now. how risky are these as opposed to spending a lot of time sitting on the couch/in an office, or e…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/18 04:05 PM
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interesting subject! can you add some comments or questions at the end to prompt/frame the discussion, though? i look forward to replies to this, but as it is now, it's not clear what questions are being asked, or what the discussion should be about. hopefully, this edit should also bring about the Automod.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/18 03:44 PM
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tbh, that’s not really an ‘okay’ reason for a woman to cry either. that’s just typically not the subject at hand.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/18 03:58 AM
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keeping this under automod for now, but just a reminder: please, please be civil to each other in this thread. there's going to be a lot of feels, don't be unkind or cruel to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/18 02:44 AM
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it's really not. i think most everyone knows what is extreme and what isn't. those who argue otherwise are either in unusual situations or making petty arguments for the sake of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/18 02:41 AM
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we are being honest. appropriate levels of vulnerability are typically not minded. it’s only here that i see people react with, “OHHHH so you’re saying you get super hot for a guy who cries and complains and mopes all the time, huh? HUH?!”
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/18 02:17 AM
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hey there, just as a heads up, we don’t allow people to make more than one thread a day or so (and this is your second one in a short period of time). i’ll give you your pick, but one of these has to be removed. it can be posted again at a later date, just not today.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/18 01:39 AM
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it's pretty tough. we have an in-office cafe type thing, and all the healthy stuff is expensive while candy bars and soda are super cheap. also, free fruit loops, frosted flakes, cinnamon toast crunch etc. every morning -_- on TOP of anything special someone brings in (donuts, cakes, or cookies for birthdays constantly). i've mostly gotten away from that stuff, but even i slip every now and then (and i work with people far less careful about their diets).
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/18 08:21 PM
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funny how i tell you that you've misunderstood and misrepresented my comment entirely... so you wrong harder. ... have at it?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/18 06:04 PM
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yes! that is totally what i said :)
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/18 05:05 PM
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she's just enforcing the rules, which is her responsibility as a mod. it's also the responsibility of the community to follow the rules, so please do. any further questions may be directed to mod mail.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/18 04:48 PM
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this thread is fine, but incel content is still not allowed. do not make this thread about incels; stay on topic or this thread will be removed.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/18 04:43 PM
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yeah. he's an adult, no? he knew how that would end, he knows what's kind or unkind. there's no way if he was that fed up and disinterested in her that it was relayed in any kind of a tactful way, either. one would hope he said it as he was breaking up with her if he finds her so disgusting and annoying, but the tenses used in his comments suggest that's not the case.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/18 04:07 PM
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we only allow people to post new threads every 14 hours or so, and you already made one today. hold on to this one though! you can post it tomorrow/once that time frame is up.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/18 03:18 PM
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she probably already knew.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/18 02:49 PM
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can't take it anymore: probably going to let myself bake/make sweets like crazy at last and just leave them to be devoured by office mates. i love doing it but i rarely do because i can't eat what i make. BUT... i really want to try making chocolates. at least this way, the temptation is someone else's problem :P.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/18 02:45 PM
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if ‘just obese’ becomes the new ‘‘healthy’ then people won’t care/the least obese will be sought after (while remaining obese).
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/18 11:13 PM
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You can't just change the definition of femininity and claim that that is now the definition. they didn't, and their opinion is most certainly relevant (as is the opinion of everyone else that commented). if you define it differently, just point out what femininity is to you and respond to the post instead of just replying to be so damned rude to the OP (which makes you look terrible btw).
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/18 08:28 PM
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there are times when it's best not to identify yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/18 05:46 PM
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once again, i understand, but we disagree, the end. if you don't want people to assume you are engaging in bad faith, don't assume they're stupid or ignorant just for disagreeing with you. you completely earn the responses that you get.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/18 09:30 PM
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don't be condescending. i didn't miss your point, i disagreed with it. your described chance is one taken with poor judgment.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/18 09:14 PM
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if it helps, i was never naked when i went for my fitting. they did have to see me in a bra for proper fitting/identifying problems, but i was never naked with the fitter.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/18 09:10 PM
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it adds in a lot of unreliable information, resulting in a guess that is just that: a guess, not educated. you could flip the women being implied as high or low N here and just as easily be correct. i mean really, saying that it works if you take the snake oil it's red pill is already a sign that it's shoddy 'logic'.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/18 08:52 PM
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i'll answer only for myself, but it's because they want to have a list of things to hate women for (whether any of those things make sense or not).
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/18 08:40 PM
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to add: most of the 'prole tells' i mentioned are from observing comments from (mostly) red pillers/men in past threads. i'm sure they'll provide more insight shortly.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/18 08:16 PM
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i didn’t say just any mother staying home for her kids, and i didn’t say it was an absolute guaranteed truth in every situation. read again.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/18 11:07 PM
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You are missing my point, the message being yelled over the loudspeaker is "all women who stay home to raise kids are oppressed and disadvantaged" i believe it's actually "all women who stay home to raise kids when they loved their careers and want to continue them may be oppressed and/or disadvantaged". but, of course, you may be seeking out different or particular media. What do you think happens when the ones who are only suited to child rear and be SAHM through their own lack of career/intel…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/18 10:00 PM
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but by your own logic, if those breadwinners/providers are working for the good of their family... then they aren't really making a sacrifice either, right? surely, they aren't victims of their own choice to remain employed and provide for their family, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/18 09:29 PM
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removing this, as it looks like the same general content found in your previous thread. if there is a reason that this can't be added to the other thread, please clarify.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/18 07:03 PM
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this is better suited for Automod.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/18 06:59 PM
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we adopted one that came to the pet store with only one eye, so her name is Odin. i named the other one Yuki, because i like Fruits Basket :)
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/18 05:03 PM
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only the non-woke would say such a thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/18 03:54 PM
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i don't think any of these movements are really that huge, or hold that much traction. there are other problems with the bot at the Austria tech fair getting that messed up, as well. but that aside... well, if the goal is to make them as human-like as possible (in other words, animate and sentient)... then maybe. if the fantastic happens and they are integrated into society to be equal to fellow living beings, then why not? in their current state, i don't really think it's necessary; as i unders…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/18 02:41 PM
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it really doesn’t matter what they are, men here will be mad at women having any standards (and then in a separate thread, cackle triumphantly over the plight of women who didn’t have higher standards and ended up with a poor partner/mate). and then have the nerve to call other people sour, lol. same ol’ same ol’. yawn.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/18 07:37 AM
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Future Diary! i almost named the new rat after one of the characters. when you get there... Minene is the best 💕
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/18 12:02 AM
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mail affecting illnesses
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/18 10:56 PM
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have done so much since i got back from Japan... changed my major, adopted a rat yesterday, and now heading home with her new friend 😊 excited to see how this goes. on a different note... finally saw Annihilation and loved it. i want to read the books ASAP.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/18 10:11 PM
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good question! building my collection has been such a pain -_- i do and don’t miss the days when i thought Target bras were sufficient.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/18 10:10 PM
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it reminds you of that because that allows you to continue thinking the worst of women based on what you believe they find attractive (instead of learning from this thread).
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/18 06:38 PM
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yeah, he seems like a surf brand catalog model. not what i would picture as bad boy. gym guy is way more bad boy.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/18 07:12 AM
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agreed. and looking again, 2 just seems like he’d be an asshole businessman that does a lot of namedropping and bragging, blech.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/18 06:21 AM
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What is your gender? female. Which of these men do you believe is either the most attractive, or if your a man, which of these do you believe is the most attractive to women? as for my personal opinion, 1, i guess. as for what society likely thinks... well, none of them are ugly, so they’re probably all just fine. business guy could have a better expression/pose though.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/18 06:10 AM
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because that says you don't know how to exist as a normally-functioning person without it (a red flag if there ever was one).
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/18 04:55 AM
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don't do that, especially in a response directly to me. you should know better, and yes, this is a warning. if you want to continue this line of 'reasoning', do so under automod.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/18 09:02 PM
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why would he be with someone unattractive in the first place, though? assuming that unattractive also means someone he isn't attracted to. it's one thing for two young people to be together, and then realize as they're growing up that one is dead weight, but being with someone unattractive/that you are not attracted to is a different kind of situation (one that begs the question of why they were together in the first place). as for the question itself: it's always acceptable, but acceptable =/= …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/18 08:59 PM
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no.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/18 11:55 AM
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tattoos, drinks alcohol, smokes, does drugs, curses, hangs out with a lot of guys, particularly in bars. assuming those are among the ones being referenced, anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/18 08:07 PM
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Just some guidance guidance? List your Pill, Gender/Sex, Married or single no pill, female, married. What's your purpose in life? What defines your life/Makes you get out of bed? hating men, and making sure everyone knows it. but really, ultimately, challenging myself and learning as much as possible. Are you actively pursuing your purpose? daily, constantly, almost overwhelmingly. If you couldn't pursue your purpose what would be your second purpose? helping people, i guess. i already do that, …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/18 10:12 PM
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completely serious songs about real situations, unlike murderous such as The Beatles - Run For Your Life or Jimi Hendrix - Hey Joe or Morrissey - Girlfriend In A Coma.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/18 10:22 PM
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that has never been permitted here from anyone. the rules haven’t changed.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/18 05:34 AM
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that’s pretty rude; wouldn’t really want someone who would talk to me like that inside of me or even around me. what a shit attitude.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/18 09:58 AM
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that’s not “white knighting”, that’s “being a crazy person”.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/18 07:55 PM
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made it to Japan! i’m super excited to be here... but austin has not done well to prepare me for mass transit systems like this 😭😭
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/18 02:22 PM
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i hate this; watching the stories has been so unsettling even from the outskirts. i hope they stop or get caught soon.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/18 03:24 PM
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In other words, you can't quote anything. lol, i don't want to hear this from someone who refuses to provide examples of what he's talking about because he 'doesn't collect idiotic comments'. i told you, it is throughout the thread. if you've been reading properly, you've seen it. if not, you haven't. but you seem to believe that chores are only boring to you and beneath you, yet something women should do without complaint, so i doubt you are reading this objectively anyway. what a shame; this s…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/18 02:05 PM
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aside from starting with the Bible, no. even with that, it was pretty hard to decide which versions of the Bible to pick from, as there seem to be a lot of different variations (not sure how minor, though). but, in the end, i just made sure to get one with the New and Old Testament plus maps, figuring that would cover it. i hope to move onto some Eastern religious texts after, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/18 09:47 PM
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interesting, and thanks for the tip; i will definitely check that out. i'm sure as i read it, or even after, i'll be interested in additional info like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/18 08:51 PM
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there seems to be a pollyanic underpinning with some blues. I used to be that way and would love to have that innocence back but life has taught me different. i'm not sure if you have someone(s) specific and mind and of course, i can't speak for everyone, but i don't think all of us are optimistic or positive out of innocence, ignorance, or naïveté (as the term 'pollyanna' implies). it's not that we're unaware of bad things or never experienced them, it's just not that productive to focus on 'cr…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/18 07:47 PM
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You are obviously over-exaggerating here. nope. you must be new. Can you quote? I haven't seen anything like that in this thread. ... or selectively reading. I used to deal with it myself with no problem, and I confirm that it's been very easy for me. I now pay for cleaning because it's too boring. I also didn't say anything was "stupid" or "almost no effort". that wasn't directed at you specifically. And by the way, I myself don't want a housewife, nor do I want to be so helpless around the hou…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/18 07:19 PM
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totally agreed, and thank you :)
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/18 07:05 PM
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sort of same... my family was only briefly devout and i don’t often get into discussions about the Bible (in part because of my own lack of knowledge), but this is an insufferable trait possessed by a few friends who are otherwise great to be around. i probably wouldn’t mind it so much if they didn’t mock and ridicule all forms of religious people; some people were/aren’t good despite claiming faith, but most i knew were just seeking structure and goodness in their lives, trying to get by like e…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/18 06:48 PM
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recently decided to start reading religious texts after finishing a fiction series that incorporated parts of the Bible... pretty excited just for the sheer knowledge of it; is fascinating (and often bizarre).
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/18 06:24 PM
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no pill. assuming this is someone i am already in a serious relationship with... drug or alcohol abuse okay if it was in the past, and allowed as long as serious actions are/we’re being taken in to solve it. have had in my past. infidelity not okay whatsoever. not in my past. promiscuity (let's call this number >= 10 lifetime partners) greater than or equal to 10 is still a big range. a little above that is not preferable but okay (less than 20), beyond that is not. not in my past. being a victi…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/18 04:34 PM
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“i didn’t say it was worthless, it’s just not really worth anything.”
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/18 02:31 PM
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well... my husband fixes our car willingly, first of all, and if he wasn’t willing we’d just pay someone to do it, for the sake of his comfort. it’s not bad to want someone who will cook and clean; most people want that. but cooking and cleaning are adult responsibilities, so someone shirking or thinking themselves above it (perceived or actually) is going to get some flack. plus, the criticism you’ll get ultimately depends on what it is you’re seeking. is it “i want someone who loves being a ho…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/18 01:17 PM
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cute!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/18 06:23 PM
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Many a good time was had on that roof (and many a cop was called on us.) familiar, and, the best times. haha.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/18 05:43 PM
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we met at a party thrown by mutual friends. we were among the more relaxed members of the group so we found each other chatting here and there throughout the night. eventually he was leaving with his roommate and i was kind of sad because the party was otherwise a little dull. i asked where he was going and "awwed" about it, spontaneous goodbye kiss happened (we were both drunk) and i suppose i got his number (i don't remember doing this, but must have), and it went from there. texting, meeting …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/18 05:09 PM
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you made the mistake of still existing while being desired, apparently.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/18 03:03 PM
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it was lunch, a daytime meal with (apparently) nothing to make it clear that it was a date and not two people hanging out. my guess is that he kept it ambiguous (covert) intentionally and hoped the meal would turn into a date, and then got mad when it didn't. that is his fault and error. men here have no problem saying that women should speak their minds when they want something (like to leave a party, an example used in a thread not long ago), and that if they don't, that's their problem. you d…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/18 01:15 PM
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without even looking: yes. hairdressers are typically really social people, so having a higher count is not surprising to me. edit: looked, and still feel the same. i don’t find him cute based on the picture, but i’m sure he would appeal to a wide group regardless (and if he’s charming/charismatic, that goes a really long way).
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/18 12:33 PM
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whichever one ends up most unhappy.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/18 11:04 PM
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that is not what i said, nor did i make an assumption about anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/18 06:51 PM
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this. everyone wants to be wanted. guys here talk about it all the time, even.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/18 06:32 PM
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my experience has been that they dont want to feel judged for what ever it is they want to say or how they say it. this, from below, but also... not harming the guy's ego or having to deal with the possibility of doing that. some guys really don't take even the slightest feedback or criticism well, and that coupled with women generally being more likely to try and please/keep the peace, well...
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/18 04:47 PM
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both are responsible for each other's, and their own. in other words... it's the responsibility of both parties to have fun while also ensuring their partner is having fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/18 02:03 PM
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ideally, 2-3 and hopefully most (if not all) someone he was in a relationship with. the attitude towards sex is the most important, but if i had the number my way, it’d be around that.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/18 01:44 AM
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in other words you can’t read. they do. i just said it. you guys are worse than the people you complain about, honestly.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/18 11:45 AM
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because you can’t help yourself. stop complaining then. if you feed the activity you don’t get to whine about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/18 11:44 AM
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my first thoughts. good grief you guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/18 11:41 AM
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It shows a lack of long term thinking it costs a lot of money. saving up is a thing. not to mention the time and physical experience/endurance you have to prep for. acknowledging consequences and just what are those? you're going to get old and saggy regardless, and most employers don't care about tattoos these days. having low ambition again, tons of industries in the west allow this, including medicine. No top 10% guy wives up a girl with tattoos. wrong. i don't care if someone simply doesn't …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/18 03:58 AM
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don't forget: women decide what is top 10% for them, not you. and if most women are tattooed in some form, well...
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/18 03:55 AM
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if you are incel chad 8 inches and thick why do you care if it is alphaa or not
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/18 03:52 AM
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i wonder if too many people were abusing it, or something. i did notice that Gin had the ||| flair, which seemed extra odd to me, knowing her. i wonder what has changed. welp, Dave Gahan forever.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/18 03:00 AM
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most recently, void something regularly makes the same posts. various members here and there create posts that i'm not convinced are out of interest in an actual discussion, or good faith, much like how some people feel about Jammerly's posts. this isn't even mentioning those that stick to comments, like Nalka, calibre_cat, dark lord whatever, any black piller. constantly, constantly saying the same shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/18 10:00 PM
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I can't think of anything that I lack. I have near endless freedom to pursue my passions and interests. yeah, definitely just different views on what happiness means. to me, happiness also includes satisfaction, which would make these two things at odds (because if i were 9-10 satisfied, i would stop 'doing' and get complacent/stagnate). i enjoy always working towards new goals and learning new things, but as a result, i'm never really satisfied or rather feeling like i've had enough. when i fin…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/18 08:27 PM
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i'm currently a student for the same reason, and it is the worst. i am definitely too old to be staying up until 2 AM writing papers when i need to be in the office the next day, haha.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/18 06:51 PM
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makes sense; i could see that. i'm only approaching 30, but even i feel that a little bit (missing out more than societal pressure, though).
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/18 06:38 PM
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yeah, women and non-reds here have been dealing with this forever. ignore it, and it dies out or at least decreases. if she is indeed trolling and trying to 'trigger' all of the men here, you guys are making it exceedingly easy and rewarding.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/18 05:28 PM
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Self ratings can be difficult to compare without objective criteria. How does my 7 compare to someone else’s 6 or 8? What if their 6 is happier than my 7? i thought about this while i was answering, and especially after... definitions of happiness and the rating both are really subjective. i cringed a little at the 9 and 10 ratings because that reads as complacency or stagnation to me, though i'm sure it doesn't mean that to the people who put forth those ratings. in other words, me at a 7 is do…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/18 05:25 PM
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the results have a score of -3 at the time i am writing this :( poor results. anyway, interesting. the drop in happiness in ages between early 30's and early 50's is interesting. i was also curious as to why, but speculated things like being single/not fulfilling life goals instead of ending relationships or new parenthood.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/18 05:02 PM
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You're mistaken if you think the popular opinion in this sub from other women represents the views of the average young woman. Whether you like it or not, that is my outlook, and understand that your opinions might be an outlier for the general female population. you’re terribly outnumbered so no, go take your own advice. it’s fine if that’s your experience, but you are not in a position to argue that it is the norm. also, don’t get rude and dismiss people because of their sexual orientation. th…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/18 12:36 PM
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(shh shh let it be a deterrent)
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/18 06:24 AM
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29 F, married, no pill. generally around a 7, varying a point or so in either direction depending on what’s going on at the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/18 11:16 PM
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nice people don't want to hurt other people, frustrated or not. they definitely don't go right ahead and do it either.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/18 08:38 PM
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it’s not about just finding anyone to ‘get a quick nut’ with, which has been explained several times now so you can stop mischaracterizing it that way. you can also show love with slow and sensual, as i said before. two different things, can experience and enjoy both. the best relationships/couples do.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/18 07:25 PM
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they're actively looking to restrict sexual access for men how is this being done, and how has it been successful? ban anything that appeals to them whether they want to do this or not, it's not going to happen, at least in the west. people always find a way. indoctrinate young boys into being simps or even downright punish men for awkward attempts at flirting. neither cat calling nor unwanted advances are simply awkward attempts at flirting. you know this, don't play dumb about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/18 03:40 PM
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ideally, you're the only one he feels that high degree of desire for, and it is mutual. that typically involves familiarity and emotional intimacy in relationships, the kind of comfort built up to let that desire loose and share it with someone. it is a very romantic thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/18 04:39 AM
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no one gets upset about either sex fantasizing about consensually being super passionate and intimate with someone (which is essentially what ravishment fantasies are). it’s high tension, high passion, but doesn’t involve violation of consent, which is why everyone keeps having to clarify the difference. some still don’t understand, or don't want to. if people are running for the hills screaming because of the fantasies you’re presenting, perhaps you should think harder about why that is.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/18 10:39 PM
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“You’d think they’d be focused on sleeping around, but really what they’re focused on is getting ahead,” explains Dr. Helen Fisher, a biological anthropologist at Rutgers University and Chief Scientific Advisor for Match. this is not inceldom, this is people choosing their focus.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/18 03:50 AM
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I just saw that this purple pill forum exists, and in my understanding, you are people who are not still fully "red" or in "monk mode" like myself. is that correct? this may or at not be true for some of those with purple flair here, but that’s not what the sub is about. the sidebar offers a pretty good breakdown though. I have one question for you: If you could choose to be what you are now (mortal beings with feelings and "need" for sex) or to become something more than that (biologically impr…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/18 10:29 PM
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that’s what the preferences/perfect partner threads boil down to.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/18 09:33 PM
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If I mention anything specific, all you're going to do is give me 100 reasons for why they're all "bad." (all of which come from people in white coats, most likely). If people want that answer, then that is for you (and everyone else) to figure out. However, I don't think that anyone will, because it's far too easy to let someone else come up with a solution and then pay money to not have to think about it. this just furthers the appearance that you don’t know what you are talking about and are …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/18 09:07 PM
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this. do what you want, keep it consensual. and re: the new points in the OP: i think people are free to judge others for their pasts, and the judged are free not to give a shit. but, this means more ‘i don’t want a high n partner’ and less ‘high n people are scum of the earth’. the latter is never cool. i suppose free discussion of sex is okay, keeping it taboo is dumb... but i don’t particularly want to hear about the sex lives of others all the time. yes. what is best will vary by person and …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/18 04:47 AM
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lmao people standing next to each other and talking to each other so wild and lame lolol lololol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/18 03:31 AM
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because the way men describe attraction is different than how women describe attraction. i mean, just look at this thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/18 10:37 PM
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asses
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/18 07:31 PM
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oh, i'm sure he has lots to say about it, with lots of caps and disparaging women and TRP CONFIRMED!!!1111 why did you make this post if you only want to hear from people that agree with you? disappointing, since i thought this was a genuine discussion attempt. there are hundreds of other subs to go do that in. if you just want to talk about this with TRPers or MGTOW or incels that already agree with you... go to one of their subs.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/18 06:36 PM
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no and no. happy to discuss what is outlined in the OP, not that interested in the video. you can describe it if you want, if not, that's okay too.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/18 06:23 PM
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adding: it's also kind of a no-brainer that physically attractive people are physically attractive, and therefore people will be more attracted to them, even if it's not the only aspect that factors into attraction. yes, hot people are hot, we know this so let's move onto the other things that matter/are more important. it's only on this sub that i see women needing to explicitly state that for men (who also like physically attractive women, surprise surprise).
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/18 06:16 PM
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well this was strange. there are certainly men here who complain about the idea of kids becoming more important to their wives than they are, though, so there's something to parts of this, for some men.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/18 04:39 PM
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oh, don't get him started. lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/18 09:52 PM
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yeah, it's definitely telling when people choose to focus on the benefit the 'giver' gets from something that is positive and beneficial to both the giver and receiver. silly silly, and no way to happiness.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/18 09:48 PM
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it doesn't quite fit in line with my top level comment, but... just for the sake of discussion, let's say it is all about self-interest. even if it is something that makes them feel good but benefits you or also makes you feel good... who fucking cares? just enjoy it, be happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/18 09:37 PM
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because it's not what the OP is asking, and a fruitless discussion; people already know what they believe on that front, i think. but anyone is free to make their own thread on that specifically/separately if they want to have that discussion. it's probably not terrible if it stays in-line with the OP, i just don't want to see this thread destroyed by it because i'm interested in the topic of the OP. it would be as annoying as when threads that mention Chad or feminism but are not about defining…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/18 09:16 PM
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i feel like this has potential to devolve into the ‘there’s no truly selfless act’ argument/discussion but as for what i give in my relationship... i keep things clean (toilets included), do laundry, bring in a second income, clean up after the cats (we both hate this), help direct the decorating (yes, he cares about the appearance of our home too), cook when the desired dish is within my abilities. i’m also cute, cuddly, funny, a good listener, a confidante, always happy to see him or help him,…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/18 08:48 PM
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or those who bring up absurd things like this in threads when they have nothing to say.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/18 07:49 PM
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i'm not wrong. not everyone views it as 'killing another human', whether you do or not. it's not as if the alternative would be particularly convenient for the child, anyway. if you don't want to be a parent or can't take care of a child, and cannot guarantee that it will have a good or even decent life (which is absolutely not guaranteed with adoption), then i personally don't see fault in the decision to terminate a pregnancy. given the disdain men here have for things like welfare, child supp…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/18 06:33 PM
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nope. you should go read the thread too, until it sinks in.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/18 03:32 PM
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only you could take an article about 'how to please your man' and try to twist it into something weird and nefarious 😂 that's not what those articles were about; it was just about trying to be good in bed.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/18 03:28 PM
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uh...
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/18 01:52 PM
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yes, they are exercising their bodily autonomy and getting an abortion because they don't want to or cannot be parents. i'm sure they'd also prefer not to be pregnant, but their primary goal is to not be a parent.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/18 01:17 AM
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cool, well now it has been cleared it up 👍 problem solved.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/18 12:22 AM
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i read much less feminist commentary online than you do so you might be seeing some different and wild things... but bodily autonomy is the reason abortion must remain an option. it isn’t the primary reason women get abortions though. in most cases, it’s pretty obvious that abortions are done out of lack of interest/capability in being a parent.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/18 12:15 AM
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yeah, i was definitely talking only about the uncommon situations and not generally, because of how useful that is in discussion. go away.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/18 02:06 PM
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okay okay go make a thread if you want to talk about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/18 02:00 PM
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come on now, the term "divorce rape" exists for a reason. yes, to be extreme and get men riled up, angry, paranoid, afraid.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/18 02:51 AM
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That aside, male circumcision is common. It's hard to convince people something is bad if half the population does it. i think this is a really big part of it. i didn't even think about it before coming to this sub. it's the norm, and on top of that, doesn't appear to have had any horrible or long-lasting effects on the men who underwent the operation as babies (when they won't remember it). is that right? maybe not, the idea of having my hypothetical son circumsized makes me sad. but, i think t…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/18 02:41 AM
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For the married folks in the building, who do you think is more "exasperated" on a regular basis in your marriage? i guess me? it's not really on a very regular basis, though. i'm not bugged by much, and when i am, i bring it up and the problem goes away. pretty much the same is true in reverse, though i suppose i've gotten better at picking up habits and identifying 'issues' before my husband has to say anything. in general, we're both pretty thoughtful when it comes to that, i just tend more t…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/18 01:24 AM
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with or without knowing you will struggle, you have control over whether or not you cheat, whether you keep your vows. he didn’t, that’s on him, zero sympathy.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/18 12:31 AM
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EDIT: I should add that Rock's tone is one of regret in this. He admits he thinks he was a terrible husband. lol, as if this makes a damn bit of difference. to the second part: good. to the first part: who cares? his regret, or the regret of any man who does these things, is worth nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/18 12:29 AM
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nothing box- much better description. it’s still a step up from guys i have zero attraction to or don’t notice in terms of how i view them... but true, they get nothing from it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/18 10:50 PM
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sure, you can moralize about pretty much anything. no doubt about that. super useful, too.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/18 09:12 PM
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or she hoped he would change, which is definitely stupid, but... people get fed up. and it’s not as if men don’t fall into that same ‘trap’; he very well may have also, in different ways. i don’t know their specific marriage details... but this is why i would advise several years of dating and living together before getting married.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/18 09:08 PM
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i mean, a lawyer can step in and correct me (of course)... but that was part of the agreement/deal made when they got married. if he didn't want to do that, he should have a) not gotten married or b) not have cheated. as someone else noted, it's not his stuff anymore unless an agreement designated otherwise. it is marital assets (and saying that isn't team woman, it's team reality). i don't know the specifics of their marriage or divorce so this might not all apply... but all of this is the cons…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/18 08:18 PM
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yeah, i guess i sort of have this box. i don’t do casual so never followed through on it, but i’ve seen/known men i found attractive that i would never want anything more than that with (which is basically what this sounds like). i am still able to tell these types of men apart, but it still doesn’t matter because i’m married now and i wouldn’t actually fuck them even if i wasn’t. i haven’t really spent a lot of time considering whether or not other women think this way. it would not be weird to…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/18 07:49 PM
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this whole thread is about concerns that men have about navigating (or avoiding) these situations. you presented a situation in which it couldn't be avoided. that's how we got here. do you even know what this thread is about? really?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/18 02:10 PM
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none of these are unheard of; just shitty. Wanting 'new' sexual partners is hard-wired into men, and we should accept that. stay single, embrace your desires. Marriage is an unhappy place for a lot of men, and it involves the woman complaining and giving him a headache when he just wants peace, and divorce is hell. stay single, you don’t have to get married. still want to get married? don’t marry a headache. !And if this keeps being the case, why are we still involving ourselves in it? In fact, …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/18 01:07 PM
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we are not talking about that, but by all means, go make a thread if you like.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/18 01:45 AM
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then ask for advice in navigating those situations? it’s really not that hard. for someone who talks about FUD all the time, this comment has a whole lot of it. be a normal person, only go in public if you want to play it safe, not a big deal.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/18 01:44 AM
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i was saying it doesn't seem like a problem not to meet up or hang out outside of work. i mean, someone can still get butthurt about it if you turn them down, i guess, but even that seems better than choosing to hang out outside of work and having something bad happen. but again, i keep work very separate from private life; other people may not be like that, i get it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/18 09:30 PM
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provide some links. surely, if it is prevalent, you should have no problem providing tons and tons of evidence showing that.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/18 08:18 PM
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crying when WF is out of your favorite organic soy = not good. sometimes you just really need it, though...
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/18 07:23 PM
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neither; was commenting on/about the thread (which it seemed like you were also commenting on). but, i didn't sleep much so maybe i misread :) ah well.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/18 03:53 PM
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if promiscuity/high n makes women sluts and there are promiscuous/high n men, there are male sluts. some guys don't like that, because they pedestalize men and love holding onto any insults they can sling at those dastardly women. it's all made up in their heads, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/18 03:49 PM
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i know on occasions i have had a rough day or whatever and my comments get a little more grumpy or snarky as a result... this is like that 100x. just go unwind with something pleasant, don't do all this.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/18 03:46 PM
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judging by your responses to people here so far, i'd have better success trying to reason with a shoe. you didn't post this for anything but screaming at and insulting people. it's clear already that you aren't here for a discussion, so no need for me to bother. thanks for understanding bye (for the love of reddit, for once in your posting life, try actually learning something from this)
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/18 03:37 PM
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judging by your responses to people here so far, i'd have better success trying to reason with a shoe. you didn't post this for anything but screaming at and insulting people. it's clear already that you aren't here for a discussion, so no need for me to bother.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/18 03:31 PM
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why won't anyone just tell me what i want to hear
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/18 03:23 PM
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the last word
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/18 03:19 PM
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it's under automod; deal with it. and judging by your responses to people here so far, i'd have better success trying to reason with a shoe. no need to even try.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/18 03:15 PM
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lol, what a quality post. not at all a tantrum or hyperemotional overreaction.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/18 02:56 PM
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if men are concerned about their behavior or potential consequences, they need to solve that problem. i have no doubt there are tons of resources online or even within companies for this (if only to help the company avoid the headache of having to deal with a problem). i mean, i’m pretty sure this is the time of year most companies start doing employee reviews and getting peer feedback is often part of that. start there (if that is the case at your company). i’m pretty sure it stays anonymous to…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/18 01:53 PM
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meh, not meeting with them outside of work seems fine; that’s not in the workplace and is a different situation. acting avoidant or suddenly not having lunch with them if you did normally before would quickly make things uncomfortable though. i don’t know if it constitutes a hostile environment, but it seems like it could get that way real fast. you would be better off studying up on how to engage professionally rather than creating a problem out of nothing by suddenly changing how you treat wom…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/18 01:38 PM
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yeah, it always ends up being just jokes when you get called out, doesn’t it? 😂 comments are (generally) removed for rule violations. that’s it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/18 12:41 PM
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Of course people are going to do whatever they want, but part of my religion is trying to convert people. it’s usually interesting to see different viewpoints like this, even ones i would absolutely never live by (like this one)... but this statement in particular immediately takes even that away. i really hope this doesn’t become a thing here. not appropriate.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/18 07:59 AM
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this discussion, with you, is no longer worth my time. believe what you want, make poor choices, who cares.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/18 12:46 AM
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k
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/18 12:14 AM
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it probably has a lot to do with if something gets reported or not, and whether or not mods are around at the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/18 12:12 AM
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people who don’t understand rules or how to follow them.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/18 11:47 PM
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if the threads this weekend have proven anything, it’s that people have a real problem with reading. if mate guarding was always about needing to 'show other men you are a man' or 'keep her from cheating' then this was always true. it was stupid desperately-gotta-be-macho crap. it was about being insecure. no way around that.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/18 11:06 PM
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so desperation and insecurity, as i said (and as OP insisted wasn't the case).
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/18 10:12 PM
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You can’t judge someone for having a preference. correction: you can judge someone for anything and everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/18 07:03 PM
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If only it was that easy. it is. What if you have an overtly shy girlfriend who isn't really capable of standing up for herself? she's going to be very visibly uncomfortable, not freely chatting back with him and ignoring you. i covered this. What if doesn't encourage the other guy, but simply expects you to mateguard? this sounds like the exact kind of women you guys love to deride and talk shit about, so again, why are you wasting your time? this also makes her sound like the type who probably…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/18 06:58 PM
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i don't need to imagine anything (and never said i was a feminist). she can say something herself or express at least indirect discomfort/disinterest. and if she doesn't, especially if you talk to her and make it clear to both of them that hey, you're still over here, why would you even want to spend any further time on her? what a stupid idea of victory.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/18 06:42 PM
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men are raised from the get go that mate guarding is the worst thing you can do, it's toxic masculinity, for insecure losers if mate guarding was always about needing to 'show other men you are a man' or 'keep her from cheating' then this was always true. it was stupid desperately-gotta-be-macho crap. it was about being insecure. no way around that. and the enlightened thing to do is sit there like an emasculated pussy and let some guy blatantly hit on your girl in front of your face. no, the 'e…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/18 06:25 PM
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nothing about that should be shocking if you’ve spent even a little bit of time here, given how often RPers say the same thing when women say what they want to hear.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/18 04:44 PM
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but low N woman don’t exist anymore because society or something 😨 nothing can be done, it’s all over guys
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/18 01:28 PM
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actually, it was probably this, which was a completely unnecessary rant barely related to the point you were making, and a needlessly hostile response to the person you were answering: And don't bitch at me about this. I didn't ask for this SMP. Women did. And powerful men decided to give it to them. To the extent your comment presents a dilemma to women, it's a dilemma they brought on themselves. They have only themselves to blame. Again - I didn't ask for this. But I sure as shit have to opera…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/18 01:17 PM
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but, you do realize that this way of dealing with things will also weed out any woman who wasn't going to bang some other guy afterward, right? i mean, sure, remove yourself from the market of women you would actually want, i guess that's best. but make no mistake, that's exactly the result this would get you.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/18 07:35 AM
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If women physically enjoyed sex there would be a market for exclusively heterosexual male prostitutes. not necessary when men who also physically enjoy sex make themselves available for free. Women think any physical sexual pleasure is an orgasm. Imagine believing that rubbing your dick once is an orgasm. That's what a female "orgasm" is like. When you think about that, muh "multiple orgasms" makes sense. no. at least in the west, i'm pretty sure only a very small minority of women think that, a…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/18 05:29 AM
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echoing sublimemongrel a little... i was going to say that the rule was probably not closely adhered to, but if you're not even really going on 'dates' and just hooking up or whatever instead (AKA, not doing what the rule would apply to in the first place), then it doesn't matter anyway. i do wonder what effect it has had on those who do still engage in formal dating, though. i would imagine that older people dating are pretty lax about it (late 40s-early 50s), but younger people dating may even…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/18 11:45 PM
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i read it and think he makes some decent points, whether or not i agree. this is not by far the worst kind of posting we get around here.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/18 11:17 PM
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it's not as if he doesn't go out of his way to be as antagonistic and unlikable as possible to people here as well, though. it's not surprising at all that he gets downvoted just for his general demeanor towards people during discussion.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/18 10:19 PM
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if men are not attracting the kind of women they consider high value, then they are not on the same level as those they consider high value. if women are not attracting the kind of men they consider high value, then they are not on the same level as those they consider high value. individuals decide what is high value to them; nothing about it except perhaps the above is universal. men and women will also have different ideas of what high value members of their own sex are, but the same 'rules' …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/18 10:04 PM
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i probably will, honestly... i am confused about how there are different ones? the last one i played was A Realm Reborn. but i like the housing and fashion the main FFXIV site shows, and i miss having super cute characters with cat ears and stuff :P
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/18 09:40 PM
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bad styling, bad hair, bad teeth, bad makeup, bad attitude, bad social skills, bad non-verbal messages (so expression, mannerisms, etc). she may actually be really nice and cool otherwise (just like guys in the same situation may actually be really nice and cool otherwise), but if her outward appearance and expression don't convey that... all of these things can make a girl/woman less attractive, and as a result, make getting an acceptable or desirable partner (no, not just stupid Chad) more dif…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/18 09:21 PM
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being someone who can be adored is necessary for this, though, and you don't get that from going to the gym. i know you guys don't want to believe this because of the challenge it presents (as opposed to working out), but if you want to be adored and liked become a likable and adorable person.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/18 08:51 PM
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everyone is qualified to call incels dumb.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/18 06:57 PM
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when you respond, but actually say nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/18 05:10 PM
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eat a tide pod.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/18 05:04 PM
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i find it hard to believe that anyone savvy enough to use tinder would be un-savvy enough to believe that is actually the man behind the profile.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/18 03:47 PM
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if i had known this existed, i would have just used this. it's perfect, and probably the actual amount of effort i should have put in to explaining.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/18 01:16 AM
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right? all i can think of is Crocodile Dentist. i mean, i guess if a guy told me i had Crocodile Dentist teeth i'd think he didn't care and/or didn't think i was that hot... but would still also think he was a weirdo for saying it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/18 10:13 PM
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a little off topic, but... they really need to update/trim this list... putting aside whether or not the more insulting ones would actually work, some of them just seem like unassuming questions (or simply awkward phrasing), and then others are just bizarre or meaningless. i can't imagine why anyone would take offense to extensions, nose wriggles, or shirt lint, and a guy telling me i have U-shaped teeth or that he favors one of my eyes is not going to seem high value to me. he's going to seem l…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/18 09:58 PM
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i was talking about my approach/response, not suggesting that's what you do.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/18 09:10 PM
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yeah, definitely can't relate. i can 'do' politeness and friendly conversation like anyone else, but i take much longer to truly warm up to someone and feel comfortable with them. i don't have a specific time frame, but i know it's not all that brief. i don't necessarily feel or act put off/offended if someone is just really engaging in conversation with me, i'll do my best to match them because it's nice and i'm aware other people can be much more social than me, but it wouldn't be anything sup…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/18 09:03 PM
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i guess i'm confused. you called it playful negging before the videos, and then asked what people think about negging or playful banter at the bottom of the OP (so it seemed like the videos where what you were asking for people's opinions on).
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/18 08:33 PM
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going to use your posted examples as reference to answer these questions... What are your thoughts on "negging" or what many of us refer to as playful banter? if that is playful banter, i guess i don't really enjoy it after all. i like having fun conversations that can involve jokes (and being sort of silly), but that are sparing with the jokes at or about someone. instead of silly and fun, the kind of approach shown in the videos would just seem kind of mean-spirited to me. i'd feel more like h…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/18 08:26 PM
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k
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/18 01:41 PM
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they start thinking they’re LeBron and that they can dictate the direction of the team. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/18 04:31 AM
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i think this is what started /r/PunchingMorpheus. key points: boastful stories from RPers often involve descriptions of relationships that are emotionally abusive. exploiting a woman's weak points (points which are simply human and also exist for men) is effective in getting what you want, but it is not a good idea because no one deserves to be treated that way. that is not how you give or receive love; "You haven't fixed anything, you've only made sure it's your SO who's suffering and not you. …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/18 04:16 AM
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the only UC person i know uses social media sparingly, and when she does, posts about nice evenings out, nice trips/vacations, relaxing at home, or her dog.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/18 03:30 AM
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of course; i started at a cheap gym with limited weight equipment until i worked my way up. i did, moved on to a new gym now where i can actually do the exercises i’m able and committed to, so... also misunderstood what kind of gym 24-hour was, but regardless, i started at a beginner gym because i was a beginner and wanted to pay beginner fees until i got more in shape/was sure i would keep up the habit.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/18 11:51 PM
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lol, your threads are exactly like hers if not worse and RPers flock to your threads just to circle jerk or add their rage to the pot, so this complaint is rich. but that aside, some non-reds end up joining in in the discussion even if it isn’t a top-level comment. no, most probably don’t get outraged because it’s not worth the energy and will just fizzle out if you ignore it. same thing that gets done to RPers who go nuts and overboard. after all, with no audience, what good are their efforts? …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/18 11:35 PM
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i think a lot of people feel that way, honestly. i don't disagree.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/18 10:39 PM
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and just look how people react and feel about them.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/18 10:08 PM
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hard to say without a picture (no, not asking). not sure if you meant build was like young Frank Sinatra, or face, either. i wouldn't take the thread you mentioned too seriously, though. IMO, it's better to look at those preferences as an ideal, rather than thinking that is exclusively what women are attracted to (unless an individual woman does explain that it is that narrow for her, personally). more "this is what i like" and less "this is what i absolutely must have". it's possible that your …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/18 08:02 PM
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don't even see the point of disagreeing when someone points out that an actress with a well-off upbringing loves getting praise and attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/18 06:45 PM
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she already seems like garbage based on the opinions of people i respect here, i'm not watching it (especially not a TED talk which is guaranteed to be long and blathery). type out spark notes on what makes her so reasonable and wonderful if there's a point there to be made. other people have put forth quality comments and responses as to why she's absurd, so if you disagree, put in the same effort. i mean, if she's so great, it should be easy to change my mind anyway, no? convince me she's not …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/18 06:32 PM
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she doesn't sound at all like someone who wanted to take responsibility for her own actions, which again again AGAIN is the point people are making here.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/18 05:58 PM
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why did you even make this thread? you don't appear to have any willingness to believe anything but what you already believed, and to hell with everyone else. FYI, you don't need to make these threads to do that, to believe what you want to believe, or disagree with other people. you can just be free and do it. but posting a thread like this and then throwing a fit when anyone disagrees with you or doesn't see Cassie Jaye as the Almighty Hero you do is just lame. you're making yourself look bad.…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/18 05:50 PM
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don't think that really matters if to her, feminism was (as someone else put it) a trendy stance taken to let someone feel all the indignation with none of the struggle. i have no interest in watching the video as everything i've heard about her/her content makes it sound like absolute garbage... but from the descriptions in this thread alone, it sounds like she took 'feminist' to mean that any past inequalities experienced by women entitled her to take take take and do whatever she wanted even …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/18 04:57 PM
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i guess the degree depends on the type, but generally, no. i doubt i would enjoy ONS because i just don’t feel comfortable getting that intimate with someone i don’t know well, even if i think they’re really hot. tried being down with that when i was younger, failed miserably, stopped trying. i would hate FWB less, but i’d be the type to get jealous and/or catch feelings because i don’t get intimate that fast/often, and would expect it to be as special and exclusive for the other person (conscio…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/18 01:36 PM
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there is an IRC room. think it might still be mentioned on the sidebar... ah, yup. last pink bubble should have the info. seems like some regulars from here hang out in there from time to time.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/18 05:19 AM
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i don't really consider this sub part of the manosphere, i don't hate TRPers, and there's more than TRPers here, but... the discussions are interesting, and it's nice to pop in and take a break from work when needed (or kill time while i'm waiting for someone to answer my email, and so on). i'm on a computer all day, naturally i'm going to browse around from time to time to give myself a break, and this just happens to be one of the places i drop in.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/18 02:51 AM
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joined a grownup gym today and had my best/worst workout in a while 😩 it is nice that there are no smith machines... but had to cut my bench weight almost in half since i’m not used to lifting freely 😭 looking forward to the day i get accustomed to it and can increase the weight...
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/18 02:22 AM
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seconding this. in high school i knew one or two girls who would be more explicit about this stuff, but i didn’t have anything like that i wanted to or could share (depending) nor did i really enjoy participating in those discussions. i generally found a way to dodge the subject with them, and didn’t make any other friends who were like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/18 11:55 PM
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there are women here that would qualify as less-feminine types, probably, but tbh it seems more feminine (or 'ladylike', maybe) to keep this stuff private.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/18 09:53 PM
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easy to go without this sort of talk when i can find discussions on anything i’m curious about online (and safely avoid any awkward knowledge about friends while doing so).
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/18 08:53 PM
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I'm tempted to do that thing we do here and just dismiss what you're saying because it so doesn't match my own experience but, actually, if this is how it is for you then this is how it is. it's okay to leave it at that.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/18 08:11 PM
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PPD Women: Nah, we don't talk about sex with our gfs, it's mostly recipe swapping and feeeeeeeelings. it ends up being more about work/personal projects, travel, or movies/tv shows with my friends, honestly. what i discuss with male friends at parties isn't different from what i discuss with female friends in private either. i don't doubt it varies by group and even individual, but especially considering every woman i know is in a long-term committed relationship, that stuff stays private and it…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/18 07:42 PM
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pretty much matches my experience as well. even when i was around people who are more active/extroverted/partyish, it typically revolved around those subjects. i go to the gym often, and if anyone is talking at all in the actual locker room, it is also much the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/18 07:03 PM
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The vast majority of men only ask: if she halfway pretty & not fat? how romantic 😂 truly, the stuff of womens' dreams.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/18 02:11 PM
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oh, i don't disagree, that would be ideal. but at least for the men who insist they want a one-sided open relationship... it's that very scorekeeping that they are obsessed with. it's a source of validation, with some sense of triumph or control for them i guess (which they may not be able to get anywhere else).
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/18 03:03 AM
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because they know the woman will do better and also can't stand the idea of potentially needing to compete with another guy (despite not caring about how the woman would feel if he's out there manwhoring it up).
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/18 02:39 AM
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yeah, it seems like traveling to and from the countries there is pretty easy, so hopefully you get to see at least a few. i do really like the cartoony style of Stories; the colors and style make me think of other games i really liked in the past (like Crash, Spyro, and so on). but the lack of portals you mentioned sounds scary... i enjoy games a lot, but i am not particularly good at them :P so that may not be for me after all. may still check it out just to see, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/18 12:55 AM
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i suppose it benefits those that want to keep the company and affections of their partner, while allowing both to act on their lust or attraction for other people instead of restricting it. it is natural to feel like that either way, some relationships just involve different expectations about how or if those feelings can be acted on. i’m not advocating for it and i wouldn’t want to be in such a relationship, personally, but that seems to be the views of those who have talked about it. that, and…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/18 11:23 PM
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no, get with the program, women bad, men good. how much more proof do you need?!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/18 10:55 PM
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when you are okay with mutual sexual non-exclusivity. really okay, not i'm-saying-this-to-go-along-with-whatever-you-want okay. there's really not much else to it that i can see. if you don't like the idea of her being with other men or having more options than you will... well, don't. it is probably not for you then.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/18 10:45 PM
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i already know they're full of shit. it doesn't make their statements any less dismissive or rude in that discussion. it doesn't excuse them from being responsible for what they say. it doesn't grant them immunity from criticism, and it doesn't make anyone who issues that criticism or expects more than just bullshit statements in a discussion "just as dumb".
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/18 09:25 PM
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if i thought it was worth my time to post a top level comment i would have, but as you are not engaging in good faith or listening to a damn thing anyone is saying, it is not. you are wrong, you don't know what words mean, and you're putting words in the mouths of others (as that person you quoted was directly disagreeing with you that it was a field report). the end. i can only hope that eventually even the mods will get so fed up with your low quality posts and discussions that it results in a…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/18 08:01 PM
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causal sex strikes again.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/18 07:59 PM
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i don't think you know the meaning of 'firsthand', 'field report', or even 'devalues'. if you cared about using any of them properly you would have checked your understanding of each, but you haven't and instead continue to post these shitshow threads. why don't you want to have an actual discussion using correct terms? why do you think your attempted gotchas are anything but transparent? just go away, ugh.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/18 07:49 PM
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i don't agree, but even if that were the case, no one gives a shit and they need to go find a different discussion to bring that up in.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/18 07:14 PM
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there's no reason men bring this up in a discussion about harassment but to dismiss harassment. not a single one. the goal of men saying this is exactly to say "well this happened to me and i was fine with it/enjoyed it, so everyone else should just shut the fuck up and enjoy it too."
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/18 06:47 PM
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most workplaces have a dress code; that is their sensible policy. high heels are pretty standard, but you'll have to provide examples of the skirts and 'body exposed' you are talking about (because i do not believe men here have an accurate view of what is actually inappropriate). if the dress code where you work allows this and it really bugs you, though... maybe you should find a place to work where the dress code doesn't make you so uncomfortable. i wouldn't work at a place with a really stri…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/18 06:33 PM
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i kind of love this bot.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/18 03:45 PM
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fighting advice here and downvoting all over the place, truly, a path to enlightenment. this is not the place for threads like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/18 03:01 PM
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then seek help. not on reddit, with a professional. get away from reddit. maybe even get away from the Internet for a while. i'm not saying anything beyond that, though, because you seem to just want to fight people when they give you the advice they asked for. want help? go get it, from a pro.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/18 02:48 PM
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most men generally don’t care about receiving that kind of attention from women. seriously; that's like the first thing men here swoop in to say when anyone brings up the subject of women getting harassed. it's right up there with common refrains of "men can't be raped!" and "that kid totally scored by nailing his hot teacher!".
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/18 02:43 PM
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try and stay away from it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/18 02:41 PM
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thank you for the advice! i don’t think we’ll have time for an onsen (and we’d have to hunt down a tattoo-friendly one), but i am looking forward to Miyajima for sure. our rail passes get delivered today 😊 painfully expensive... but nothing compared to what the fares would be without it 😂 it is cool that (i think) it also gives you use of the Miyajima ferry. enjoy the cherry blossoms!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/18 12:39 PM
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thanks!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/18 03:36 AM
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yeah, i wish i had taken more days, but, it just didn't work out that way. i don't expect that it'll be my only visit there, though; i hope to go back regularly (especially since we won't be visiting the fox village this time).
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/18 02:51 AM
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around 8. we don't actually have much sightseeing listed for tokyo (mostly shopping) but there are a couple of museums i hope to see, and we did set aside time to check out mt. fuji (plus cherry blossoms, which is why we're going this time of year). it would be cool to see some bars, though. i planned on looking for some relatively mild dive bars (playing it a little safe since it's my first time visiting, and we'll be far from home).
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/18 01:42 AM
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i'll definitely check that out; tokyo is our last stop, so i'm sure checking out bars and relaxing that way will be nice. i think i'm most excited for Osaka just because i've heard such good things about it, but there's not really a single stop i'm not excited about.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/18 12:59 AM
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yeah, probably.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/18 12:57 AM
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ooh, have fun! Europe seems super cool because there’s so many different countries to see. that’s kind of why i don’t play WoW anymore; i really enjoy it, but i just don’t have the time to commit to it (and it seems to require it). i have been kind of curious about Monster Hunter World, though. i got Monster Hunter Stories because it looked fun, and while the style is different, the concept/mechanics do sound pretty cool.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/18 11:29 PM
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yeah... husband still plays WoW and i am not ready to jump back into that, but finally couldn’t stay away from just MMOs anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/18 07:50 PM
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thanks 😁 i am hoping it is the first of many trips... i’d love to go to Korea too, and Europe, and everywhere...
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/18 07:50 PM
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thanks, i hope to! i've wanted to visit since i was a little kid; i hope you get to go there someday too.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/18 07:14 PM
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osaka, kyoto, tokyo, and hiroshima. it will be... busy. haha.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/18 07:14 PM
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ah, can't believe i forgot that one. noted, thanks!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/18 07:13 PM
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95% prepped for my trip to Japan... now i can just sit back and be excited. needed to play a non-WoW MMO again so i installed Revelation and Aion... if you have any other recommendations, though, let me know. tempted to get Final Fantasy Online again, too...
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/18 06:32 PM
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neither, because that’s always a choice 😊 and the only right one here.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/18 06:21 PM
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because he’s interacting fairly directly with another woman to get off, and building a relationship of sorts with her. not okay. if he were constantly sending letters and gifts to his favorite porn star (or even had a favorite porn star) that wouldn’t be okay either. drawing a line at cam girls doesn’t mean there are no lines anywhere else/for porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/18 04:28 PM
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yeah, that's what i had imagined it was, and i checked myself to be sure and it is. the interaction part of it definitely bugs me. i know that she probably doesn't care that much, just doing her job, but his part in it... nah, not okay.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/18 04:06 AM
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i don't think i'd automatically see it as cheating, but it depends on what's going on during the cam session. it would be hurtful to some degree either way, though, and is definitely worse than watching porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/18 03:32 AM
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yeah, condescension is better, you’re right.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/18 01:39 PM
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it works for some people, not for others. that will be too few calories for some people and you don’t have to limit that severely to lose weight, don’t be ridiculous.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/18 01:14 PM
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some people like food and see variety as a necessity. in other words, they'd break down on diets that don't include this. my boss basically lives on soylent (not sure if he eats real meals for dinner or not, though); some people are fine without that variety and really don't care about food to that degree. but others... well, it matters. not because they're useless fatties who can't stop eating, but just because that kind of diet isn't what is best for them and isn't something they can stick to …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/18 04:35 AM
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tbh, as long as you aren't condescending about it, people here probably wouldn't even object to you 'dumbing things down' for easy consumption. several of us reddit at work or in between more important tasks, so the easier to read, the better.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/18 04:17 AM
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just like tattoos are. 😂 (no)
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/18 03:43 AM
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of course i am talking about celebrities. what use would it be to talk about anyone i know personally, that is essentially a faceless stranger here? even if i did bring them up, i’m not about to violate their privacy by sharing pictures or links.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/18 02:37 AM
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in general, i think a blend of good looks/fitness, style, and charm/social graces is key. the good news is that it's not always a super high bar, and not everything will appeal to every woman (for example, i would consider a guy who just says he's nervous or shy better than someone who tries to power through, despite both of these being examples of guys that are nervous and/or shy). i don’t know you so it’s hard to get more specific than that, but i and other women can probably answer more speci…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/18 02:18 AM
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❤️🥂
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/18 01:52 AM
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he is probably the best part of that picture though. not really excited by any of them, but at least he seems interesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/18 01:07 AM
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lol
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/18 12:45 AM
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ugh, this. doable, not particularly pleasant or easy.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/18 12:42 AM
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don’t be mad just because i understood and you didn’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/18 11:33 PM
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Picture example? Why? because it's your OP and you need to define what you're talking about (especially since there are likely people here who don't go to the gym on a regular basis or know what the hell Wet Republic is, much less go there). this already shows how important bodybuilding is to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/18 10:56 PM
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true. i am one of the odd 'older ones' out that still prefers ‘cute’ (but still slim/fit) to rugged. most others around my age here do not. though... i made it to that point from liking really scrawny goth/punk looking guys in youth (so even i sort of changed that way). but, even women into the harsh masculine features have a limit/aren't into some of the images of guys that TRPers post here that are clearly intended for the male gaze, or to impress other men. not unlike women who overdo it with…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/18 09:46 PM
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i've also had some pretty cruel and/or useless teachers over a course of many years. to me, 'being a teacher' isn't a guarantee of much more than 'being a stripper' is. but, the bottom line remains that i wouldn't be in this situation anyway, doing this to my kid, so it's pretty much moot.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/18 06:55 PM
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even those stats would be more meaningful in general than your individual anecdotes. if you are going to make statements about "women these days", yes, you are going to be expected to bring more than just that to the table if you want anyone to take you and your statements seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/18 06:07 PM
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What world are you living in the kind of world that allows someone to believe this is reality. welcome to madness, lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/18 05:51 PM
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these days women cheat far more than men i don't have them handy (so someone else will have to jump in) but i'm pretty sure this has been disproven with stats, regardless of your brother's situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/18 05:48 PM
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even though this is on the really non-taboo end of things... i was surprised the first time i went to a liquor store in my hometown and saw like, 6 of the teachers i had in high school shopping there together. it was silly of me to be surprised, really, but i was nonetheless.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/18 05:16 PM
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neither. why would i drop my kid off with someone when all i know is their occupation? i've had teachers that seemed worse than some of the strippers i know; it's really not enough to go on. i get the sense you just want to trash strippers/sex workers ("see! none of you would pick the stripper! because strippers are bad! and if you do say stripper, you're lying anyway! because strippers are bad!") but, you can just go do that. you don't need to post these threads as an outlet. there are countles…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/18 02:49 PM
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if i vetted both and both seemed equally qualified to watch my child regardless of their professions. i wouldn't care if one of them (or the one i picked) was a stripper.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/18 02:14 PM
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it’s implied. if he meant ‘maybe with someone else’ but kept that to himself, then he’s even more of a scumbag.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/18 12:38 PM
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definition 2c. edit: lol, downvotes. how you hate being wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/18 04:00 AM
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why would he even be telling her he wants to wait a while if he doesn't know that the subject is on her mind? she's not constantly hounding him about it, but it's not hidden at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/18 10:11 PM
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if he knows she wants to get married and start a family soon, her goals and what she will/won't accept (aka boundaries) seem pretty clear. so yeah, this guy is a dick. i agree with others who also say she should have left him as well, though. he was wasting her time; shouldn't allow that to go on for very long, if you know your time to achieve those goals is limited and this guy doesn't respect that. i wouldn't think that befriending someone just to date them is as sneaky/cruel, but it's a weird…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/18 07:18 PM
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he admits to picking crazy women to sleep with because they’re more fun 🙄 duh, they are going to do crazy things. his experience isn’t proof or argument of anything beyond that. it also doesn’t make men any less responsible for their own contraception. in fact, if that’s the pool you pick from, it’s even more crucial.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/18 01:47 PM
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clearly, he thought he had to or just wanted to take precautions to make sure it happened. he didn't do anything wrong in securing that support. what you are describing is an ideal, but is not the reality for these two people.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/18 02:33 AM
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they really are great for those who don't want kids. i think you can even have sperm frozen or otherwise set aside in the event you still want kids down the line. granted, that path may involve additional costs, but... kids do too, and if you're on the fence or afraid or whatever, it might be worth doing that just for peace of mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/18 12:50 AM
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i don't disagree that it would have been nicer not to go 'behind her back', but the outcome would have been the same in the end so i don't see anything 'dumb' about it. agree to disagree.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/18 12:46 AM
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she’s not talked about that much in the first place, and when she is, no one is saying ‘poor poor girl’; they’re just calling out that the guy is blatantly wrong in what he’s saying (like not knowing what an actual deadbeat parent is). there isn’t anything to blame or shame her for either, which is why people aren’t doing that. i don’t see what you’re seeing, at all, and i think you’re making up these comments/perspectives just so you can complain about something.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/18 12:04 AM
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well, that OP sounds way different, and like more of a jerk/crybaby. no wonder he's getting more negative responses. the woman he described didn't want to be a parent and was clear about that all along, but had the kid based on the guy's wishes and is otherwise more than willing to pay child support. the guy, on the other hand, says the following: I love my son but I resent him. she wanted an abortion and I didn't and she made it clear she would never be involved after the birth we went to court…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/18 10:59 PM
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probably their equals. seems like those people would run in the same general circles, and end up together as a result. not much reason for a lot of crossover there. the few who don't get a relationship... i'd assume they either don't want one, or aren't willing to accept their match, what's 'in their league'. a select few will have too many problems, mentally or physically, but that is a very select few i think.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/18 09:48 PM
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those guys are still not rich because most people are not rich.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/18 07:50 PM
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and thugs aren't guaranteed to be interesting. silly thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/18 04:58 PM
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AWALT
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/18 04:08 PM
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if you're talking about this, many of the first comments i read were supportive (and those are the highest rated ones, as far as i can see). don't make things up.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/18 03:59 PM
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you know every woman saying they don't see issues with this is just going to get accused of virtue signaling anyway, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/18 03:47 PM
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I forget that college in the us is crazy expensive yeah... but it's still a dumb thing to do. As it would be dumb if she gave her child for adoption. i fail to see how either of those are dumb.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/18 03:44 PM
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i mean, i don't know how she couldn't have known she was going to owe child support. you can make the argument that going the lawyer route behind her back wasn't nice and i might agree, but she owed that support either way. she is the other parent, like it or not. from what others are saying, as well, i don't think she could have given the child up for adoption without his knowledge/consent (but i could be wrong).
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/18 03:43 PM
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i think he explained that he was still saving this money up for the child's future. speaking ideally but not legally (because i can't)... the two would have worked out a deal that both could manage, since he already said he didn't need child support anyway. but, it's not stated anywhere that he was getting the payments out of spite or putting her in any super terrible position by getting it. the support is still due either way, and college is expensive. can't blame the guy for wanting to give he…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/18 03:27 PM
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okay. i don't really think anything of it; i mean i guess it kind of sucks that they disagreed, but it sounds like the party that wanted to keep the kid is taking on the bulk of responsibility, so...
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/18 03:01 PM
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Why are "boys will be boys" jokes more ok than "women are bad drivers" jokes? i've never heard 'boys will be boys' used for any purpose but to excuse what a boy is doing Why is man spreading bad and why is provocative dressing ok? one of these actually causes an inconvenience to others while the other rarely does but, provocative outfits aren't okay in certain settings, even Why is toxic masculinity bad and why is toxic femininity ok? says who Why is mansplaining bad and female manipulation ok? …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/18 08:43 PM
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you earn it through good posting.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/18 07:25 PM
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the level of crazy nonsense in recent posts here has been way too high, even for PPD.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/18 07:15 PM
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i know. i don't agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/18 05:35 PM
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bitterness implies that an old man chasing young women would be an appealing prospect to an older woman. the answer is obvious.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/18 04:26 PM
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ohh, okay. welp, i totally misunderstood that. i thought you meant i was saying he had broken rules by personally attacking her... well, my bad. nevermind. haha.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/18 04:14 AM
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these kinds of posts are typically not allowed, or at least they've been taken down for this reason in the past. it would be one thing if he were quoting simple examples of different things from different conversations/redditors, but in this instance he's blatantly targeting one person, presumably because he already reported them and didn't get his way, which he's now upset about and wants to make sure everyone knows it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/18 03:47 AM
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i haven't defended anyone, i'm calling your post what it is (and then flipping out and reporting people for personal attacks when anything you say is criticized). seriously, get a grip or just don't come here if you can't handle having people around that annoy you/you don't disagree with.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/18 03:31 AM
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ha ha ha.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/18 03:29 AM
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you made this whole post just to call out/bitch about one person because you don't like them.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/18 03:25 AM
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if you were that concerned about the rules, you'd also have noticed that witch-hunting isn't allowed either.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/18 03:20 AM
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you don't understand consent. please stay away from women until you properly educate yourself. as it stands, in this thread, you are insisting that it is okay for you to keep going even when commanded to stop which is indisputably rape. seriously, do you want to be a rapist? people here are basically telling you how not to be that, and you are doing your best to fight them.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/18 02:25 AM
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"Wait stop!" "No "No, I don't want to do this yet, I'm not ready
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/18 01:57 AM
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all of this sounds bizarre for a first date, RPer or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/18 09:25 PM
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women could wear a burlap sack and some guys would still be unable not to think of her sexually because that's their 'bug' with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/18 06:16 PM
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well, i was. i brought up TRPers in other comments, because you don't get to just say that one side here is full of bullies (especially when you water down the definition that much). i mean, i suppose you could focus on just one group that participates here, but frankly that's bullshit and more than enough reason for me not to listen to anything else 'you' have to say. we don't agree on the definition of 'bully' though, which is fundamental to the discussion anyway, so no point in continuing.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/18 06:15 PM
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lol, of course they don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/18 06:11 PM
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no.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/18 03:38 PM
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if just ‘making fun of’ fits the bill of bullying, then it is happening on both sides. TRPers absolutely get their jabs in wherever they can, and perhaps even more frequently (them claiming that it’s just their abrasive male nature so they shouldn’t be held responsible).
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/18 01:55 PM
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yes, the world is the problem, and not you. where have we heard that before...
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/18 05:39 AM
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so you choose stupidity, then. really, get a new username.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/18 05:35 AM
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he is absolutely removing responsibility from shooters and ascribing it to women. i don’t care if you agree or choose to ignore it despite your claims of astuteness and weird desire to follow my every comment; that is what he is doing and it is bullshit. you would be wise not to align yourself with such a... being.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/18 05:14 AM
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to what end? can you even prove that this is the issue, and not just n abundance of dumb shitty men?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/18 05:10 AM
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what isn’t the product of single moms, since they are the root of all evil?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/18 05:04 AM
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no matter what, everything is a woman’s fault. never, ever, a man’s fault. he’s not responsible for the murders he committed, just like the church shooter wasn’t responsible for seeking out infants and young children to gun down. it was the fault of women, solely. men must never be held responsible.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/18 05:02 AM
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it may help you to take some time away from here. there is an initial shock that comes with being faced with perspectives like this, but don’t let it wreck you/a good thing. I admit that I may have wanted a relationship with one guy in particular...but this place has got me thinking. He could be a trp type. He might legit be the 'Chad' narrative the dudes talk about here (even tho I find it ridiculous) and since I am divorced, 30 something with a teen child, of course such a man would see me as …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/18 04:27 AM
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because you can’t handle disagreement. not my problem. do ensure you are following the rules, also. i have far less tolerance than our mods.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/18 03:40 AM
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do you know what most means
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/18 02:34 AM
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i’ve never heard anyone say that they take too long, but there’s nothing controversial or ‘virtue signaling’ about saying a bigger guy would hurt. it just would. especially since most women don’t get that much from internal stimulation anyway. it’s not virtue signaling, there’s no magic benefit women get from saying this.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/18 12:05 AM
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agreed. that, and/or some people having abnormal definitions of 'provocative'. that is probably less likely, but it wasn't that long ago that we had a thread from a guy who couldn't seem to see a difference in sexiness/revealingness between this (probably NSFW) and this.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/18 08:29 PM
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i don't disagree that some here go overboard into that territory, though i don't necessarily think that person does.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/18 08:16 PM
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not more or less than anyone else. some reds/manospherians are just more vocal about their complaints.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/18 07:42 PM
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i don’t think you had a problem expressing your argument, nor do i think people misunderstood you. if you hate tattoos, that’s fine; some people just do. but if you ask people why tattoos are liked, while ascribing highly negative and unrelated traits to tattooed people (women in particular), people are going to answer and correct you. they are rightly going to view your insults towards tattooed people as insults toward tattooed people.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/18 03:53 PM
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i’m not convinced most women who dress truly provocatively are the same to crusade and make the complaints you’re describing.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/18 02:41 PM
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Needing something like what? A loyal stepdad for her three kids from three different guys? this is how you undermine your own discussions and get written off. but whenever you’re ready to have a real discussion instead of shoehorning in your weird beef with women...
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/18 10:57 PM
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most non-spineless people dislike dealing with spineless ones. men here complain at even the idea of women needing something from them or needing to be babied; it ties into the idea (which i agree with) that men don’t actually appreciate or like femininity. being around someone who you end up having to mother or parent is exhausting.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/18 10:37 PM
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seriously. and even in that recent thread about a Western dating, the initial comments were supportive and friendly. the OP presented his situation/question in a neutral way, genuinely seeking help, and people responded in kind. i haven’t been back to that thread so i don’t know if it changed, but that is how it started, at least.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/18 07:47 PM
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geh... even though he has the right to do what he wants and i don't really know what went on in those relationships... i can't find him nearly as funny knowing about this now :/ but, that aside, your comment is spot on. (allowed myself to express some disappointment after having a few drinks since it is friday...)
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/18 04:21 AM
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i don’t think it’s Disney, Pam and Roy just weren’t compatible and she finally got fed up with him being an annoying asshole. i don’t remember super clearly, but being with her was probably frustrating for him too. some other woman may be able to counter or put up with it; it just wasn’t Pam. i don’t think even sensible TRPers deny that some women aren’t their type or likely to be in the target group that a TRPer would be focused on, and those are the women like Pam. they might have kicked up Ji…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/18 12:17 AM
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just discovered /r/tippytaps and it is so wonderful
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/18 11:00 PM
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these aren't the same; the same would be guys sleeping around with hot women when not looking for anything serious, and then wifing up someone they find dependable and, well, wifely later on. it happens all the time, and it's not some crazy malicious cycle, much as men here who aren't a part of it (and want to be) claim that it is. as for the question in the subject, though, i would probably think that guy was a jerk if he left for the sole reason that he had become more successful/thought he co…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/18 09:13 PM
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given the peculiar things he’s said about Ivanka, i’m almost relieved for her, being out of the spotlight and somewhat removed. neither way seems great for different reasons, but i wonder if this way isn’t just better.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/18 09:02 PM
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yeah, i don't know what his deal was, or what he was hoping to 'teach' her; he just sounds like a crazy person. the article goes on to say that she did get a wig to wear while it grows out, though, so at least there is that.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/18 07:52 PM
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well, that is what the post asked for. what do you think of
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/18 04:02 PM
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interesting topic-adjacent article i just read. and on another note... i was raised by/around gun enthusiasts, and i don't know a single one of them that opposes tighter restrictions for getting guns if it means making them less accessible to people like this. they'd rather not personally have a harder time getting a new gun if they wanted it and i'm sure they'd grumble about having to go through the hassle themselves... but they would also rather not make it easier for guys like this and would …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/18 02:43 PM
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no, i think his issues were beyond that (like his family members dying, leaving him with that many less people to look out for him when he's already in a bad way). i don’t think he was just a run of the mill sad dude on valentine’s. and if the articles are to be believed, anyway, he had a girlfriend that he abused, and when they broke up and she got a new boyfriend, he beat that guy up. as for this guy and TRP... it probably would just be a great source of fuel for the hate and anger he already …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/18 12:40 PM
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Is Donald happy? probably. i doubt there are any expectations of faithfulness on his part and he doesn’t seem like the type who would enjoy being faithful anyway so there’s little reason for him not to be happy. Is Melania happy? no, i don’t think so. i don’t think their relationship is necessarily the only or even biggest reason, though. Is Melania sexually attracted to Donald? lol, no. What do you think of Melania as a person? she seems nice and well-intentioned; hard to tell much beyond that.…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/18 12:20 AM
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no automod yet but... TDLR, please, so we can skip the "take that!" rant to the feminist boogeyman and get to the actual point.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/18 10:54 PM
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Well, this has got to be an interesting one. oh man! you totally got us! be less transparent.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/18 10:25 PM
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but they are becoming more lenient! not 100% there, but it's getting better... reminds me that i need to contact shops for my trip there, and hope that they aren't all booked up.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/18 10:20 PM
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put most simply... because lots of women (and men) like tattoos and want them. no future planning well, lots of them require quite a bit of planning and saving money, so that's not always going to be the case. lots of people who have tattoos know the risks and prepare for them, as well. getting to put the art they want on their bodies is just worth the potential risk (which is shrinking rapidly because, as you said, lots of people have tattoos these days). it's really not that much of a hindranc…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/18 10:14 PM
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Should I run for office?? do it! and on the main subject... i agree. it is yet another tragic week.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/18 09:59 PM
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this is accurate, and i think it resonates with a lot of the women responding here. most of the men in this thread are just insensitive dummies who would rather retreat into their comfort cocoon of woman-hate.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/18 07:20 PM
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that's why meetups might be a good place to start; you can find ones related to your hobbies and interests, and just go to get to know people similar to you. you don't have to think so hard about impressing women or what they think, and you can get more comfortable in social situations. it's sort of a win-win, because even if you don't find someone you could see yourself with romantically, you get a new friend or two. you may also be surprised to find how forgiving people can be if you just lead…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/18 05:16 PM
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no. but, make up whatever you need to just do be a silly contrarian. not much else to expect here, lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/18 04:49 PM
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no, i mean you don't understand the very basic things being said in this thread, like The point is accusing someone you love and trust of something so against their character that it cuts deep. that is a human perspective. you can't wrap your head around it, though. you would rather dig in your heels than admit that the other accusation towards men in this thread is crazy and hurtful like the accusation of carrying another man's baby would be to an honest and faithful wife/partner. it doesn't re…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/18 04:15 PM
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lol, certainly not.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/18 03:42 PM
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it doesn’t matter because we’re not talking about you.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/18 03:05 PM
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The point is accusing someone you love and trust of something so against their character that it cuts deep.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/18 02:20 PM
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The point is accusing someone you love and trust of something so against their character that it cuts deep. men here are not doing a good job of living up to their claims of superiority when it comes to reading and understanding things. what is most amusing to watch unfold: the disgust you all expressing at receiving such an accusation while still refusing to accept that those are the exact same feelings women were having in the other thread because of what the quoted sentence points out. this i…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/18 01:48 PM
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But the bottom line for me is, as I wrote, that the inconvenience for her would be so small (none at all in fact), and the possible benefit for me so great, that bitching about it just seem so incredible small-minded and egoistical that I'd probably break-off any relationship right there. you’re still focusing on the test, and not what asking for it means. men keep saying they’d break off the relationship like it’s some kind of threat, but it’s not, given that she may be even more likely to leav…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/18 01:39 PM
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you’re not wearing the seatbelt because she is a bad driver but because other people could be, then. it is not comparable. none of these comparisons that men keep trying to make actually work, on any level.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/18 01:00 PM
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most people care about the feelings of their SOs/wives and the possibility of losing them, whether you give a shit about yours or not. again, sadly to a different person: don't be obtuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/18 04:37 AM
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you are either incapable or outright refusing to see it, but this disgust and reaction you're having to the question is what women were feeling in the other thread. it is exactly the same (i am telling you, so that you can understand it whether you personally feel that they are the same or not). so now that you know (and you have no excuse or reason to claim that you do not, as i have now told you), try not to be so damned callous about it. not even just you; almost all of the men in that thread…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/18 03:37 AM
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That's horrible and insane yes, it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/18 03:32 AM
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agreed; it is those extra steps beyond infidelity that make it even worse. i wouldn't know how to continue a relationship with someone who would even momentarily consider me capable of such a thing. it goes beyond a one-time question of infidelity/disloyalty, too. literally, accusing you of lying for a lifetime.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/18 03:31 AM
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Men should panic. All the women on this tread claim they are faithful but would leave a man of he questioned that. But studies show women are no where near faithful. who cares about studies? we're talking about our individual relationships; other women don't matter, we're answering for ourselves. and a relationship where one or both parties has such strong suspicions about the fidelity of the other isn't a situation most people want to be in. not surprising. In other words, y'all make it easier …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/18 01:45 AM
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if the kid wasn’t his, he would be justified in shoving those results in her face and demanding answers. not many would disagree with you; this reaction is sheer panic and paranoia. also, there are whole subs dedicated to this, so nah.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/18 01:05 AM
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my husband actually got joke-annoyed the other day because he keeps having to tell me what his unlock code is. it’s such an unnecessary piece of information to me that i can’t be bothered to remember it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/18 01:02 AM
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yeah, there are a lot of problems involved in that question/test/insinuation.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/18 12:10 AM
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What if he was burned by unfaithful women in the past? Would you have some leniency for his lived experiences? this is also some major baggage, especially if it's past women, and not a woman. another red flag. but again, if we had reached the point of discussing children and future plans, things are serious enough that i do expect him to have more faith in me than that (and i, he, given the stage of the relationship we would be in). if he didn't, i'd have to ask myself if he ever would. as someo…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/18 11:41 PM
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and (un-tampered with) GPS trackers for the lot of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/18 11:27 PM
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That's your assumption. Do you have any evidence to prove this? can you explain why you would need to mentally wrestle someone into accepting that they were okay with a situation if it was positive and they had no issues with it? It's disturbing your comparing an uneasy experience with rough sex to a doctor sexually molesting his patients. i'm comparing tactics used, not the situations verbatim. if you are actually trying to have a legitimate discussion, rather than just trolling or shitposting,…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/18 09:56 PM
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We wrestle a little mentally but in the end I feel like she's gotten closer to accepting the sex we had as something positive. this just sounds like he talked at her enough and dismissed her concerns so much that he finally wore her down and she either got tired and gave up, or let some shithead talk her out of her feelings (because sadly, people are susceptible to that). if it was something positive, you wouldn't need to 'mentally wrestle' someone into accepting it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/18 09:20 PM
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I think women are touchy on this because they know a paternity test could leave them being a single mom that makes no sense given that several women said they’d be parting with their partner on the demand for a test alone. if they feared single motherhood, that would not be the case. men, OTOH, are panicking all over this thread. women are not the fearful party here.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/18 08:53 PM
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agreed. and, especially as the target of many attacks in this thread, even though i'm usually on their side... not impressed with the lack of mod response to OP's circus and said attacks.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/18 06:45 PM
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I’ve read through the posts and you’re framing it primarily from a “10% of men raise another man’s kid unknowingly” standpoint. if he had actually made a post about this, i'm sure he would have gotten different answers. as it stands, he asked women for their opinions, and then got upset when those opinions didn't make sense to him or mesh with his own. this has been a terribly-run thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/18 02:27 PM
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DM me the rest later. My research is terrible. lol, you are not a student of engineering or anything else (on top of being highly emotional, rather than logical). pick a better story; your comments betray your claims, consistently.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/18 02:06 PM
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💯
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/18 01:59 PM
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if the STD test demand was made out of the blue, one-sidedly, after a long time of exclusivity, then yeah, i think the man would be justified in feeling like he was being doubted or accused of something. that’s not what OP asked about, though, so that's not what these answers are about. he asked women about their feelings on their own relationships and then laughed and mocked them when they didn’t tell him what he wanted to hear, like a child.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/18 01:57 PM
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don’t reproduce.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/18 01:52 PM
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perhaps not.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/18 06:31 AM
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i don't know why you're telling me this. do whatever you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/18 04:45 AM
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nope! and it's really not that egregious or upsetting, or even that unrealistic because everyone makes dumb mistakes sometimes. but, it does sometimes happen in certain ways for men and women, differently.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/18 04:07 AM
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A genuinely innocent person will do it to prove herself; she just maintains the right to be insulted. honestly... i might not, depending on how things with the relationship after this question. it's hard to say 100%, not being in that situation, but the damage is already done by him asking/expressing his distrust and that will not be repaired by the test results, so potentially: why bother? even with the risk that this may justify his concerns, in his mind... i may not want to do another single …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/18 03:50 AM
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i don’t agree that he is “much, much hotter”. doesn’t mean he’s ugly, i just don’t see either man as being amazingly handsome (even removing my personal preferences from the equation). i work with men who look like both of them. neither are special.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/18 12:23 AM
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yes yes. and whoever is still dressing male mannequins in work-worthy button-up shirts and... sweat shorts -_- used to see that when i worked at a mall, and still come across it occasionally. i'm all about dressing for comfort, but pick one or the other, lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/18 11:51 PM
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seconded. have always hated those. especially when there are continued cutouts down the entire sleeve. are you cold or not?! do you want a tank top, or a shirt?!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/18 11:39 PM
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I feel like those kinds of jokes at the expense of women haven't really been socially acceptable or common since the 1980s. nah, definitely still a thing. it's not always negative, it can frequently be presented as endearing, but a joke nonetheless.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/18 10:58 PM
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i do not agree that their 'rating' is that low; this just goes back to what i quoted before. even if those men are rich, though, money has it's limits and there's still zero evidence that these were poor women.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/18 10:41 PM
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i believe you, random internet stranger.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/18 10:23 PM
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i'm still waiting on proof that these benevolent athletes reached down from the heavens to lift them from the depths of poverty.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/18 10:19 PM
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if you praise them hard enough, surely, something good will happen for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/18 10:07 PM
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preferring or expecting a man to attract women more attractive than he is is unrealistic, and that's exactly what happened here because men here just can't let go of both their esteem for men and personal repulsion at overweight women enough to make any remotely objective judgment about the looks and attractiveness of either. there's really nothing else to say (though i am certain you will try).
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/18 09:57 PM
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I'm still shocked that two professional athletes have lower standards than me. i'm not. men with unrealistic standards are not at all uncommon in this sub. there was a whole OP from one just the other day.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/18 09:48 PM
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neither of them are amazingly good looking. they aren't hideous, but neither are their wives. men here just can't let go of both their esteem for men and personal repulsion at overweight women enough to make any remotely objective judgment about the looks and attractiveness of either.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/18 09:40 PM
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I think a lot of guys watching car commercials are going to see men as an authority on cars (especially trucks) oh, i'm sure. i'm not confused about why the ads are the way they are; i'm pointing out that it's not accurate, though, and is sexist (as requested by the OP). it's interesting that so many in a thread about sexism are swooping in to explain things about my own examples to me, even in a seemingly benign way. it is a blessing to all that i am not in a crankier mood right now. It's gener…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/18 09:30 PM
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Victor Martinez, the Detroit Tiger's first baseman, is dating down pretty low with his wife. agree to disagree. i wouldn't call either of them ugly, there's nothing amazing about him though. even if you find her repulsive (which is not what i asked), there's not really a huge disparity i'm seeing. Jeff Horn, current WBA Welterweight Boxing champ that beat Pacquiao last summer, is dating pretty far down himself -- granted his wife isn't butt ugly or anything. not seeing a huge disparity here eith…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/18 09:02 PM
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I think viewers derive satisfaction from seeing a beautiful woman on a show or advertisement. yes. But that's contrasted with the fact that any men in the show or advertisement are presented as a person of authority on the subject. yes. But isn't that just a reflection of real life? i'm not sure i understand what you're asking, so i guess i have two answers. it wouldn't surprise me if men are frequently presented as people of authority on subjects despite not being the sole or maybe even best au…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/18 07:55 PM
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on the rare occasion i see a local car commercial, there is always inexplicably an above-average-to-pretty woman in a sundress or whatever. she's rarely outrageously dressed, but she's not the one narrating or presenting in the ad (and sometimes doesn't even say anything until the "come see us!" sort of thing at the end), so there's really no other purpose for her to be there but appeal.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/18 07:32 PM
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if some guy was going to be driven to TRP because of one comment like this (somehow making him believe x or y about all women everywhere), then he was going to end up there anyway and/or was just looking for an excuse. in other words, he was already on the downward spiral; his continuing down that path has nothing to do with the comments of other people. men have agency, no? they're the responsible ones? well...
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/18 06:07 PM
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really, who even lets us out in public at that age, looking like that?! ugh.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/18 05:58 PM
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a nice person wouldn't be 'driven' to this kind of thinking, though. they wouldn't think this, or try to blame someone else for their thoughts. a nice person wouldn't take a suicidal person's cry for help and hold it up as an example of what men should strive to do to women, or use it to say, "see, this is the only way to get bitches to stay!" they don't try to put tinder matches on blast just because they didn't 100% get what they wanted from the interaction. doing so is not nice, kind, or repr…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/18 05:26 PM
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some suicide girls are probably with pretty normal guys in terms of looks/income, though it's a different realm from runway/high fashion modeling (which is at least part of why this is the case). some that i've seen have cuter guys than others, but others have pretty normal guys/lives otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/18 05:20 PM
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i don't even think his wife is a model, lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/18 05:03 PM
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link examples please. must prove they are both ugly and poor.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/18 04:28 PM
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now you get what this sub is about.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/18 02:56 PM
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but really, you just wish women cared enough to be repulsed or hateful about this. that is also the source of all the posts talking about widespread female panic over sexbots. it’s comforting, i’m sure, but just a delusion.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/18 01:41 PM
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😂
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/18 04:59 AM
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i don't 'hear' anything, rather i observe the person saying "A woman is an AWALT" to mean "A woman (or all women) are collections of things I don't like and/or refuse to acquiesce to my demands and therefore all those dumb bitches are beneath Me, a Man" it's not the reader's problem if the speaker is misusing a term, as you seem to believe. and if the majority are misusing it to the degree that their definition is the 'understood' one and replaces the original, maybe you need a different term or…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/18 07:16 PM
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the definition i found with a quick google search summed it up well: a feeling of self-assurance arising from one's appreciation of one's own abilities or qualities. as it is generally a part of someone's being, it manifests outwardly in all kinds of ways, like: how they treat strangers do they say 'excuse me' with a smile if they bump into someone, or whisper it with eyes fixed on the floor? do they get mad and demand an apology from the other person, dead sure it wasn't their fault? how they c…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/18 06:13 PM
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and i think men here are more likely to allow their envy and bitterness to cause them to view normal confidence as overconfidence when it comes to another man attracting women around him. it’s fine; we’ll just agree to disagree.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/18 04:40 AM
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some do, sure; i didn’t say otherwise. but, most will be attracted to a reasonable level of confidence. the more that a person’s confidence exceeds normal or reasonable boundaries, the less people will be attracted to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/18 04:06 AM
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Generally, the more a guy increases in specific characteristics, such as height men like those you mentioned are an example. while they might be considered remarkable for their unique height, for many women, the height difference is actually more of a pain (and may be for the guy, too). simple things like hugs and kisses become more difficult, for example. muscularity, shoulder width, arm size there is definitely a point where this becomes too extreme and ridiculous for many women. confidence ov…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/18 03:13 AM
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There is a new guy at my company at work who is 6'11" or 7 feet tall and all the women in the office are swooning after him. He isn't that handsome, but something about his height makes them giggle and look up at him and smile. i somehow know two different men around this height, and they get the same reactions just for being so uniquely tall. men probably won't giggle, look up at the guy, and smile, but even they will comment on it or have some sort of reaction. as for the rest of this... no, t…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/18 03:00 AM
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sure, go ahead who cares
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/18 12:27 AM
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i’ve done it before, when i was younger and dumb and things were different. i just wouldn’t do it again, or if i could go back, i wouldn’t have.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/18 10:36 PM
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it’s not wrong though. that’s a fast way to make yourself an easy target, for either men or women.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/18 10:14 PM
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i doubt there’s a single person here who could challenge or change your view based on what you have written above, and the nature of Reddit/online forums. instead, you should take on the challenge yourself by looking into other circles. it doesn’t sound like you are picking or surrounded by particularly great people.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/18 10:02 PM
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it wouldn’t strain the relationship unless he got really persistent or shitty about it. i would give them so long as i could be sure there was no way they’d get into someone else’s hands, i guess. he can and does see me naked anytime though so i don’t know what the point would be. it’s weird and gross that you’re asking women here to post theirs though. just google image search some naked ladies or go to one of the many subs dedicated to that.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/18 08:14 PM
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well of course, they just said it: they’re less likely to laugh at you. it’s no surprise to anyone that some men choose younger and less experienced girls with the explicit goal of taking advantage of that.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/18 07:01 PM
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these posts are probably going to get removed; typically, only one post per 14 hours or so is allowed (to avoid spamming and make sure thread authors can properly manage and engage in their threads). some of these topics have also been covered in past threads; it might help to try searching for those first, and make posts about things you can't find the answers to. people will be a lot more likely to give legitimate responses to that.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/18 03:59 PM
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based on looks alone, not into it (but that doesn't mean he's ugly, just not my personal preference). to me, not a chad. the other things on the site are much more intriguing, like explorer, photographer, documentaries. but on looks alone, nah. actually, just did a google image search instead of just looking at the site, and some of those pictures remind me of a dumb ex. didn't get that vibe from just his site, but now... super next.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/18 05:18 AM
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best answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/18 03:19 AM
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i’m not wrong, actually, but lol lol lol yourself away, i don’t care.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/18 01:51 PM
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sometimes i don't, and just let/help him get to orgasm. i don't keep count that much; there are certainly days where i've helped him get off, and then we just went about our day and i forgot or didn't really expect anything in return. i think it becomes more like that in serious LTR/marriage situations, at least based on my own experience and what other women have said here. there's not really any fault when i am not in the mood, it's just a thing that happens and i don't mind helping him get wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/18 04:51 AM
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First of all, he said she blew him regularly during their first week of sex. i will say... if you think a guy is expecting something, either from what you hear or past experience, and you like him... you might just do it anyway. even if you hate it. until you feel comfortable enough to be honest. it sounds to me like that's what happened here; a woman doing what she thinks is expected or most desired, even when she really doesn't feel good about it (or herself, when she does it). it's not insane…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/18 04:48 AM
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never faking; i don't do that. but, i'd say maybe... well, i guess 25-33% of the time i just go along with it? sometimes i'm tired, but more often than not, it's just because he's a morning person and i'm not. i don't mind doing things his way or when he wants to, when that happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/18 04:43 AM
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oh, not at all. i think i probably am outside the norm on this one (so i wasn’t meaning to call you out or anything like that, just speaking from ‘the other side’). but yes, ultimately, as long as everyone’s happy, it works.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/18 12:48 AM
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lazy posting.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/18 08:59 PM
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Being alone with someone physically stronger can lead to death if this is true (which it is) then you cannot say bad sex does not possibly mean death to women nor causes death of women and also agree that The death is the bad part. it's okay to say that death is a possibility while pointing out that it is not the most common outcome, and is in fact extreme and rare comparatively. SpaceWhiskey did not say otherwise and has pointed this out multiple times now. it's just other people choosing to ta…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/18 04:09 PM
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i wonder
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/18 04:04 PM
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the topic wasn't being killed during sex. it was that bad sex for women often involves pain, and in extremes, can involve death. weirdos decided to focus on the most extreme thing as if she was saying it's common when she wasn't, probably because they couldn't argue against anything else she said even though they wanted to disagree, for reasons. it looks really bad, so i don't advise anyone to do it. if you've got no real argument, just say nothing and move on.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/18 02:45 PM
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she dismissed his opinions because they were coming from a male. she dismissed that 'he' (as the commenter appeared to be at the time) knows the female experience during sex better than a woman does. it wasn't a blanket denial of any of his opinions ever just on the basis of being male; he simply didn't know what he was talking about in this instance, and she called it out. rightfully so; he wouldn't know. none of the men insisting against her comment have a firsthand experience of sex as a woma…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/18 03:39 AM
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i don't believe one word of anything from that poster, lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/18 03:36 AM
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perfect example of the physique that manosphere men here mistakenly imagine women pining after.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/18 03:34 AM
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yeah, people mistake the gender of commenters all the time here, not a big deal. and no, not just sometimes. often. like really often. just like faking it, unless it’s really awful, lots of women won’t bring it up or call it out. but it definitely happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/18 03:00 AM
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she even noted that death was an extreme and not the norm, though. there’s nothing hyperbolic about saying bad sex for women typically = pain though. it does. painful sex for women is common. it goes in degrees, of course, but it is very very common. that is part of the female experience, like it, accept it, or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/18 01:50 AM
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probably turn it up on occasion when i feel tired or just not into it, but otherwise, things would stay much the same. as it is, i just make up for those no-go times later on when i'm not having the same problems/feel more into it. not much to complain about or want to change.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/18 07:55 PM
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For one to be successful in the blue pill world (say, in the realm of marriage), is it necessary for one to continuously kill the person they were the day before? i don't understand why this would be necessary, or what someone would be trying to achieve by doing this. i mean, i think it's good to look at each day as a fresh start of sorts, to take each day on as optimistically as possible (within sense/reason), but i don't think that's what you're talking about. what would be the goal or expecte…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/18 07:19 PM
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causal sex
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/18 09:51 PM
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there’s no reason that ‘rounder’ would be the norm, except that bizarro men here want it to be that way to justify what they are saying. 5’5” and 180 is just under 30 BMI, which is overweight. not obese. definitely not morbidly obese. calling any of the women in those pictures morbidly obese or insinuating that they’re insanely fat is an incorrect and hyper emotional response. they’re free to be wrong, naturally, but people are also free to point out how wrong they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/18 09:06 PM
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the first woman wasn’t 5’5” but i don’t think 2” is a major height difference (and her weight was listed as 187 anyway, so it’s still a valid example). but, at least someone finally acknowledges that not all women at that height and weight are unattractive, or even just has the sense to realize we’re not talking about old Mama June here. people are really going nuts over something that is not at all a huge deal.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/18 06:56 PM
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lol
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/18 06:53 PM
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the woman could look like either of these, or something else entirely. there are women who carry weight well and others who don’t, as demonstrated by these two pictures. aren’t reds supposed to be the ones committed to truth? you should not only know this already, but accept it as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/18 05:43 PM
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if you’re going by BMI, this person’s is just under 30 which makes them overweight but not obese (let alone morbidly obese). from a quick Google search: A BMI of ≥ 35 kg/m2 and experiencing obesity-related health conditions or ≥40–44.9 kg/m2 is morbid obesity. you don’t have to find even overweight women attractive but don’t just make shit up.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/18 05:05 PM
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pretending your question is sincere... i think i'm done for a while. i can handle the dumb or vicious responses that sometimes come up in this sub, but i don't have the patience for it this time around. i'm probably out until whatever this is dies down. congrats assholes ✌️ (not shoup)
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/18 04:09 AM
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some men genuinely don’t want to hurt their partner, some men are truly only interested in being with their partner, some of them care about their social image, some aren’t willing to risk what they would lose by cheating. or, any combo of the above. and then there are the scumbags that do cheat. a lot of what you described sounds like cultural differences, but it wouldn’t surprise me that there’s still a lot of cheating that goes on here (just in sneakier, less permitted ways).
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/18 03:03 AM
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well that was silly.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/18 01:10 AM
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even if a person understands that, it doesn't make it less painful.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/18 10:38 PM
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I didn't like that there was no follow up on Rockwell's character beating up black people behind bars. It felt like they were using real issues that black people face and trivializing them by never really doing anything about it. It was just a cheap shortcut to show he was shitty (but not that shitty, as in the end we're supposed to like him even though he never does anything about it). yeah, this bugs me too. i was drawn into Mildred's story while i was in the theater, but reflecting on it afte…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/18 09:56 PM
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I assumed the crude racist asshole thing was a caricature, but is that really what a lot of people in rural Missouri are like? Maybe it's more accurate than I thought. I figured people from Missouri would be offended by this. it seems like that had to come from somewhere... but while i definitely have some racist relatives, i've never seen that particular brand of it (and most of them kept it to themselves around us, especially as kids). in a place that rural it wouldn't surprise me, though, and…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/18 09:13 PM
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maybe, but you don't know that they aren't already aware of that and making changes in multiple areas of their lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/18 06:25 PM
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as are they, i'm certain.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/18 04:57 PM
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Okay? That doesn't negate my observation that there are more fat entitled women than incels. by labeling them as entitled, you are making a negative judgment about them. And at least incels keep that shit on the internet and are not all in your face about it in real life. here, you are presenting incels as the 'good' to the 'bad' of fat women. Fat women make crude approaches towards me and are all up in your face about their mental disorders and I still don't feel any level of animosity towards …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/18 03:40 PM
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great! now you can move on.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/18 02:29 PM
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jumping in just to make light of what i was talking about is low. if you don’t get it, don’t bother responding; i don’t have the patience to explain it further than that to someone who probably doesn’t give a shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/18 02:13 PM
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some of us don’t even do it that much. weep away.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/18 01:57 PM
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i definitely think the cops and racism were the weakest parts; i see what you mean there. Dixon’s ‘redemption’ was a little much for me too. but as for everyone else, i really enjoyed it. i have family not unlike Mildred (in Kansas but also in country-Missouri) so that may also have colored my opinions. it mirrored a lot of things i’ve seen personally.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/18 11:38 PM
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it may not help at all... but my husband loves the Nixon Star Wars collection (and they are awfully pretty). i admittedly do not know much about super fine timepieces though 😔
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/18 10:10 PM
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i don’t have an issue calling things like this out when the subject comes up but it’s not necessarily the kind of thing i’m seeking to actively or constantly discuss.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/18 10:05 PM
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i don’t know what part of this you would think is funny, but it’s not. this is low, even for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/18 07:21 PM
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finally saw three billboards yesterday, still shaken up about it... such phenomenal performances. it’s not that often that movies get me like that but it did.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/18 06:17 PM
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it’s not carrot-and-stick withholding; using that word already shows that a) you don’t get it and b) you don’t want to and would prefer to frame it as this evil thing women are doing (instead of a woman just trying to keep sex as mutually enjoyable as possible). if it’s something that a guy needs so desperately though, really, he should just leave. in most cases the special things are special indulgences that he can normally do without but still enjoys, not something that the guy is constantly d…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/18 04:47 PM
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even just letting a guy be rougher than usual or use mildly non-vanilla things (paddles, cuffs, and so on) can fit the description, honestly. also what /u/rulenumber303 said. sex involving pain or discomfort for women, especially when it is endured for the man’s pleasure, is not at all rare.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/18 04:08 PM
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i do.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/18 03:36 PM
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you’re aiming this remark at the wrong person.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/18 03:30 PM
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no, she may do extra things she doesn’t normally do because they’re uncomfortable or otherwise not particularly enjoyable for her. that’s not less ‘extra’ than anything else special happening on Valentine’s Day. considering she’s pushing aside potential physical discomfort (or even pain) for the guy, i’d say it could even be above chocolates and flowers. not unlike the housecleaning thread... bitter men here unable to show appreciation about anything are showing us why they’re in the situations …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/18 03:28 PM
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i don’t watch tv ads anymore, but i do see ‘for him’ ads online and sites that put together special Valentine’s shopping sections have them for men and women. advertising is often targeted, so that may be why you don’t see them as much.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/18 03:19 PM
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for a relationship? no, probably not. if she does both of these things actively at the time we’re dating, i would probably think she just wasn’t into me unless there was evidence to the contrary. i can say from my perspective that it’s worth considering why she’s waiting if you find yourself wanting to; it’s not guaranteed that she’s not into you. but if you have a problem with it, then clearly for you she is not high quality (and yes, that is how these quality judgments work).
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/18 01:59 PM
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oddly, i agree. i mean really, does a man that would leave because you didn’t put out fast enough sound like a high quality man anyway? blech.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/18 01:33 PM
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right...
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/18 02:16 AM
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never gamble.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/18 02:08 AM
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even if they did (which i seriously doubt because of the deliberate way you choose to interpret things), it still doesn't constitute 'most people'.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/18 02:03 AM
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Women and feminists are up in arms over men following the Pence rule which is somehow problematic but women thinking the strange man going to rape them when their own dad has a greater chance of raping them is totally fine. this has nothing to do with the Pence rule. and it is totally fine for women to take precaution in where they go or what they do regardless of whether or not someone close to them could also attack them. seriously, why do you have a problem with women taking a little bit of c…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/18 01:59 AM
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why are you taking one person’s opinion and saying that it is what most people believe? these posts and comments just get worse and worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/18 12:58 AM
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the TLDR needs a TLDR.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/18 12:56 AM
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yeah, in real movies men are always rescuing old uggos they could never love.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/18 12:09 AM
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he was saved; it counts.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/18 10:30 PM
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maybe, though i don’t think it’s limited to that. i don’t recall if this happened after they’d gotten far away so i could be mistaken, but Jackie O. attempting to hold her husband’s skull together (and hold onto what sanity and composure she could) without knowing if more shots were coming was pretty amazing, and differs from quite a few of the characters named above. editing for clarity; sorry, wrote in a hurry because 3 billboards was about to start. what i mean by this is that i don’t think i…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/18 08:11 PM
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iirc, didn’t Arwen do that? i don’t remember which Lord of the Rings film it was, but i seem to remember her making that sacrifice. could be wrong, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/18 07:37 PM
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what? why would men have a better grasp on how women feel and/or the steps they should take to protect themselves? they don’t live it, they are absolutely not the authority on it, especially not over women. that’s such an incredibly ridiculous thing to insinuate that it takes credibility away from everything else you’ve said here. you don’t know it better, and if you believe you’re asking for the same thing ‘we’re doing to women now’ and you think what ‘we’re doing to women now’ is a problem, th…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/18 03:07 PM
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I was a kid when that happened also. I find it amusing when people pearl clutch about Turner and his sentence. The outrage seems somewhat misplaced when there are people doing much worse to each other on the daily. it's probably easier for those not around people doing worse to each other on the daily (a group i'm a part of). i don't think it's the only thing people care about though, it just gained attention on a national level. i'm sure plenty are also disgusted with the Dallas man that was ex…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/18 07:23 AM
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same; it seemed like it was implied to be more non-family individuals, given the difference between family and non-family relationships/boundaries. it's entirely possible there's info out there i missed... but that was always the impression i got.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/18 07:19 AM
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well, it's probably not being talked about because it happened so long ago (and age may also be a factor; i mean, i was 8 when all that went down). but feel free to go bitch at those feminists; what she did was also terrible and disgusting, so i don't see any reason she should have gotten light sentencing either.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/18 06:02 AM
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oh boy, this should be fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/18 03:10 AM
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lots of people who are not on an opposing political party or don’t have anything to do with politics have accused Trump of sexual assault, and that’s not even what Senator Gillibrand was doing. she was saying that because of credible accusations made by other people, he should step down. iirc, Democrats said that about Al Franken, Republicans spoke out against Roy Moore. it is not always conflicted with someone’s political views, and making a blanket assumption about this (just like the other on…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/18 12:54 AM
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yeah, almost the same for this guy... i want to say he's already a parent? i don't really talk to him and only heard him mention something in passing during a meeting last year. but generally, same.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/18 09:29 PM
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i've never heard that women are more likely to be raped by family, honestly (but if there are stats, sure). while i have heard that it's more common to be attacked by someone you know, which makes sense, the FUD you're saying women should have (and apparently to a higher degree than what i'm talking about) is way more over the top to me than what i was talking about. it's not to say women shouldn't still be careful about some situations even with those they know, but what you're describing is mu…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/18 09:03 PM
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because it's clear that you're not listening to what anyone's saying, or even willing to properly discuss the subject in your OP. things you do want to make this about: rehashing every minute detail of the mattress girl case and how scum you think she is stating that no one believes women can falsely accuse a man of rape just because they didn't agree that doing racy performance art disqualifies the claim/report 'proving' that any woman wanting attention or saying anything publicly is to be disb…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/18 08:41 PM
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How is promoting that men are rapists and will rape you in a dark alley not hurtful? As it promotes the idea that all men or nearly all men are violent and/or rapists. It also further promotes men always want sex no matter what. Basically it promotes male gender roles. do you disagree that the things you said above are true for some men, and that it would be wise for women to take measures to protect themselves from said men? don't blow what i said out of proportion.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/18 08:32 PM
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lol, don’t talk to me about not being objective, making this dumb thread because of your personal mattress girl beef. but fine, have it your way. every woman who reports a rape is actually lying and only talking about it for attention and if they wear skirts, go on dates, or have sex again after reporting their rape or assault, it’s definitely a false accusation and bitch is just crazy. happy? that’s what you wanted to hear, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/18 08:23 PM
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Prostitutes and strippers do not receive a benefit from reporting they were raped or publicizing themselves to the media in related manners. Therefore there is not a conflict of interest. they’d receive the same ‘benefits’ she did. That isn't unrelated. it is to me. i also think it’s unrelated when news articles use equally unrelated stuff to try and justify someone getting shot and/or killed by a police officer for doing something innocuous/not actually criminal. it’s a bad practice.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/18 08:04 PM
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We are not talking about negating. We are talking about reasonable doubt and credibility. All the time in crimes, investigators look for motives of people to not be truthful. It's like if a woman is murdered, the husband becomes the prime suspect, unless they can clear him from involvement, or other people close to the victim. i don't believe this performance art brings her credibility into question or should provoke any doubt when it comes to whether or not someone was raped, and it's really pr…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/18 07:24 PM
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The same user has many other comments about how men's thinking needs to be changed and not women's. i don't typically agree with that person and i didn't read through the entire exchange, but i don't see an issue with what they're saying: I think right now we’re trying to recalibrate men’s thinking about sex so they don’t keep believing “not rape” is an acceptable form of sexual intercourse. Do better than that. there have been surveys where men, when presented with descriptions of actions that …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/18 07:07 PM
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justice questionable. the kid got off relatively easy, for stupid reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/18 06:46 PM
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But what the comment implies is strange, that it's men's responsibility, and not women. Avoiding these types of men is impossible, is basically what the comment is trying to say. i don't see how you're getting that the comment is saying anything about a man's responsibility, unless you're taking away that it's a man's responsibility not to rape someone (which i would agree with; his actions are his responsibility). there is always a risk that someone will do something unexpected and awful to you…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/18 06:42 PM
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Perspectives like these are dangerous, as they assume any man is a violent rapist waiting to strike. They simply make women paranoid of rape, and not empowered to help themselves and stop it. i don't see how this one comment about one story is evidence that all women assume any man they see is 100% a violent rapist out to get them; the person was just explaining something. but, given that any person has the ability to pose a risk to another, whether it's a man or a woman, for rape or assault or …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/18 06:28 PM
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no, i've never particularly liked that name. despite the few guys named Chad that i've known actually being really nice guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/18 06:06 PM
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weak minds that want only their desired 'truths' reinforced.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/18 01:47 PM
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terps do that all the time and just pass it off as ~male speak~. no reason that should be upsetting to you, then.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/18 07:08 PM
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it's not their job, and if you want to receive better responses in a discussion, consider the responses you yourself are giving out. much improvement needed. i see now why you receive such negative reactions from other people.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/18 05:41 PM
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Q: so you work 80 hours a week and pay 100% of the bills, that's gives you the right to throw your trash and dirty laundry all over the floor? tracking mud through the house and then demanding they clean it up isn't treating them like a slave? A: Yes if someone pays 100% of the bills that gives them the right to use the other as their employee. i get that it serves you to present this as an innocuous thing now because you're being challenged on it, but you know that's not what we were talking ab…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/18 05:02 PM
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got 'em.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/18 04:23 PM
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i guess that's where we disagree. i still have a general baseline level of respect towards an unemployed person because it's not a crime to be so, they're still a person, needing or expecting to be treated with common decency like everyone else. i do not share your disgust, nor do i think it's acceptable for any grown person to be tracking mud into the house regardless of if they have a job or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/18 02:42 PM
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but when those sexbots come around!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/18 02:31 PM
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it's a pretty disrespectful way to act towards someone whether you pay the bills or not. i'm with her; it's shitty, and wouldn't be acceptable to me even if it came from someone footing the bill. money does not replace the need for common decency. you may be okay with someone treating you like that; most would not be. plus, anyone who acts like that... aren't you an adult? can't you wipe your shoes? do you have no shame? blech.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/18 02:12 PM
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it's a shame men can't seem to do the same for Q4W.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/18 03:49 AM
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hm, i don't know that i experience this to any strong degree... at least, i've never dated someone that acted like my parents or family did to me. most of the first guys i dated were primarily picked because they were there and a way for me to escape my home life, to experience something different and distant from that. they weren't great guys so i guess there may be some comparable traits, but i don't think that had anything to do with why i picked them. i remember that when i was younger my pa…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/18 02:18 AM
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you'd be constantly moving and probably lifting stuff though; it's a pretty active job in most cases. even during slow periods, moving around boxes of denim isn't a bad way to spend a few hours (after which you can pound down food all you like). i'm sure being younger helped, but working retail allowed me to eat a lot of junk i probably shouldn't have been eating, with no consequence.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/18 01:00 AM
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I think more people should consider maid services if they are MC. i haven't looked into it yet and we're generally pretty tidy, but i have considered hiring someone to come in like, once a month or every two months... doesn't help that the people who owned the house before us didn't really take care of it, so having extra hands to finish getting through what they messed up would be nice. edit: people here have really weird downvoting habits, lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/18 10:37 PM
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what does that matter! also, in contrast with the claims you were making before. you don't know what you're talking about, and can't even maintain a consistent point. but, at least you got in your jabs at women and hispanics 👍👍👍 .
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/18 05:36 PM
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none of that addressed my questions. try again, if you even can.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/18 04:13 PM
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sure doesn't stop them though.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/18 03:14 PM
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punish men who aren't traditionally masculine. this seems a little over the top.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/18 02:38 PM
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all kinds of people want to be victims.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/18 02:34 PM
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if i don't have any particular reason to think she's lying, that sounds like i'm pretty neutral, and don't necessarily have any particular reason she's telling the truth either... but i guess it just depends, on things like how long i've known him, how well i've known him, the story at hand + circumstances... i can't imagine learning this about someone i don't know well. there's a lot of weird conditions here. if i didn't know a guy well and somehow knew he was accused in a way that wasn't sketc…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/18 05:20 AM
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just got here, and yeah, it is something. haha.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/18 03:43 AM
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egh. i don’t normally say things like this... but i wouldn’t be sad if that guy tripped and fell into traffic.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/18 02:09 AM
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you made up a view that Arthur held, and then clearly presented your geography teacher as something meant to disprove that view or otherwise counter what she was saying (which it didn't, especially since she didn't say half of what you were assuming/pretending she believed). don't get snarky just because your stupid comment was called out for what it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/18 09:50 PM
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right? aggressively demanding it just makes a guy seem like the type you couldn't carefully venture into it with anyway. no surprise plenty of women wouldn't put themselves in such a vulnerable position with someone like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/18 09:47 PM
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your geography teacher is no less 'one example' than the person you're talking to. did you think that providing that example actually proved anything?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/18 09:09 PM
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a classmate i had a crush on in college said he didn't expect this of women because he himself wouldn't enjoy it (i can't remember how we got on the subject). only served to fuel that fire; men who expect this are ridiculous.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/18 09:04 PM
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none of that has anything to do with changing what men prefer.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/18 07:53 PM
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i haven't visited that thread in a bit, but the OP himself answered it with a comment saying "double standards". he didn't appear to be interested in any other responses and just wanted to make a post that he himself could answer, and that everyone would then... congratulate him for? it was crappy, for lack of a better word, and people picked up on that. edit: he did it here, too. and apparently, mainly just wants to talk to people who already agree with him. it is indeed crappy.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/18 05:51 PM
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thus supporting the OP's statements.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/18 03:24 PM
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With a traditional wife at least she knows it is her duty to have sex i could be mistaken, but... wasn't this generally just for the purposes of reproduction? if she wasn't fulfilling this 'duty' out of anything but desire to have a kid, he'd still have to put in the effort if his desire was only for his wife.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/18 02:34 PM
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gloating about it is more absurd than anything you described.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/18 12:40 PM
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for me, dating ranges from the getting-to-know-you phase to before becoming an exclusive couple. it can involve both non-exclusive dating as well as exclusive dating (without quite being a couple yet).
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/18 02:12 AM
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what an incredible exchange.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/18 02:03 AM
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i never said he was the quintessential A-list celebrity. but, it’s weird how much the idea of him even being on that list baffles or bothers you and Pem.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/18 11:49 PM
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i'm not an expert on lists; just enough to know that it's dumb to put Aziz on the D-list (or say no one had ever heard of him). probably B, though. at the very least. lots of people know who he is. he's doing alright.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/18 09:55 PM
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it was instantaneous; i know it's you. everyone knows it's you.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/18 09:27 PM
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i didn't say he was A list; i scoffed at someone calling him a D-list unknown.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/18 09:26 PM
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IMO, some more muscles but not much more fat would probably be good. if there's way more muscle than fat it can look weird, but a little fat to go along with/'soften' the muscles (but not to the point of getting bulky or stocky) would be good. that would probably appeal to the widest range, i think. the really 'stocky' look seems more impressive to men than women, IME. you're still taller than the average woman, though; you might be worrying more than necessary.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/18 09:24 PM
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Aziz Ansari is a D list celebrity whom no one ever heard of before this "Grace" kerfuffle. lol! that's not true at all. it certainly put some sort of spotlight on him, but people knew who he was long before now. what a silly thing to say.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/18 09:12 PM
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k
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/18 08:50 PM
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get out of here with that. her participation is fine. if you don’t have anything to say about ‘someone like her’, here’s a tip: just don’t, and move on.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/18 08:49 PM
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probably not. ‘good’ confident men probably already know if they have something to worry about or not. ‘good’ shy guys wouldn’t have been doing a ton of approaching anyway; not much to change there. some men may proceed with more caution (instead of something as extreme as totally being driven off) but, well, okay. not seeing a huge problem there. i seem to remember that the poll results didn’t show the full text of the poll and; would be nice if they did. sexual harassment is strictly a workpla…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/18 08:45 PM
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well sure, making things up is a really easy way to comfort yourself and make-believe that you're always right. no one's disagreeing with that (but it will get called out).
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/18 08:05 PM
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your chosen interpretation of the responses here makes that a questionable statement. if you're misreading clear-cut things here, how would you be able to understand anything else?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/18 08:00 PM
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it's not that complicated, and most people do understand what she means. i don't know why this has upset you to the degree of attacking another person.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/18 07:27 PM
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haven't really seen responses like that; most have been pretty moderate "it's not my cup of tea" type stuff. if it's any consolation, TRPers probably wouldn't find much interest in the women saying that either. being sad or outraged over this is just as silly as that one guy who talked on and on about how crap marriage was ha ha ha, and then got super offended when someone told him he wasn't a good marriage prospect.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/18 07:17 PM
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You're looking at blue pill users, who think they are red pilled, posting in purple pill debate. What are you even talking about, your point is so incoherent I don't even know how we got here. you're not really resorting to the whole, "you're so crazy i don't understand you!" thing, are you? that's pretty low, especially for someone with such an esteemed title as EC. you don't even appear to be reading my comments, as i already covered this: you can't get it removed, because EC means nothing her…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/18 05:54 PM
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top comment. you can't get it removed, because EC means nothing here. if you really think it was BPers and non-reds voting that to the top instead of reds, well, i guess you are sticking with 'no true TRPer', and/or you'll even tell yourself anything to defend TRP.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/18 05:39 PM
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no, i'm not reading all of that, because a quick scan tells me it doesn't hold any more sense or value than your last comments (and i don't care for your veiled insults). on one point, though: It is only users in PPD and blue pill men who want to create this idea that "no one defines what is or is not red pill." Yes, there is one god we all pray to. It is called the sidebar. i know, i know, the goal is to be totally undetectable masterminds, so it makes sense you wouldn't agree with what i'm say…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/18 05:30 PM
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ECs don't matter though, right? it's just a guy saying things. who cares if they're an EC/vanguard/mod/grand poobah or not? it doesn't matter and they don't know anything, according to RPers asked to answer for the words of said ECs. interesting that you're saying the same about them, all while hinting at 'no true TRPer'. but not at all countering anything that i said. that didn't happen, despite so many words.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/18 05:06 PM
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lol, anything that a guy can try to lay claim to automatically becomes part of red pill theory. saying something is 'red pill theory' no longer has any meaning, except that it's something another person wants to claim credit for knowing or devising.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/18 04:40 PM
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i mean, whenever anyone brings up that TRP is only meant for casual, not guys that want relationships, a gaggle swoops in to take offense and tell us how wrong it is, so... make up your mind, guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/18 02:15 PM
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i’ve only dated within friend circles, didn’t do casual, and have no interest in that, require exclusivity, etc... so no, probably not. it may be more successful in other situations/seeking something else, but i’d (rightfully) just think this guy was a dick and/or trying to play some sort of game and (rightfully) decide he wasn’t worth my time. edit: i think DemonConsulting also sums up some of my feelings/reaction to it in her 2nd paragraph. it doesn't make me feel good, so i wouldn't want to c…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/18 01:45 PM
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a little ways into watching Shin Godzilla (finally) and i already love it so much 😭 making up for my disappointment at what Pacific Rim 2 looks to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/18 12:51 AM
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it's not uniquely male. not remotely.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/18 05:44 PM
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it's not uniquely male. not remotely.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/18 05:44 PM
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a uniquely male tendency to force smile through adversity jfc
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/18 02:06 AM
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don’t
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/18 11:35 PM
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okay, stay and hate your time here. i don’t care; you’re the one whining here.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/18 09:49 PM
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they don’t. but again, no one is forced to be here; go on, then.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/18 07:01 PM
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but he still looks good! at least, to me... but yes. haha.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/18 04:40 PM
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i cannot.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/18 04:25 PM
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that's generally their response whenever you call this out... so, people stopped asking this question for the most part. literally, haters gonna hate.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/18 02:57 PM
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we've gotten a lot of this lately, relatively casual sub members whining about the mods not acting as they'd like them to act, not serving them way they are most satisfied with. patience runs thin. no one is forced to be here.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/18 02:55 PM
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good for her and them.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/18 10:02 PM
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if i were alone, i probably would. to a lesser degree, but yes. it's just a caution i've had for a long time; it has nothing to do with politicians really. better safe than sorry, and all that.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/18 09:27 PM
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i would consider those men (2), average. probably between 2 and 3, honestly; to me, i think they're all a little above average-looking. call it 2.2. they would probably prefer group B. they might have a chance at getting with women in group B (given that they seem like the could be fun/social), but it probably wouldn't be a high chance. not clear what this is supposed to demonstrate, though. i don't think this thread was needed for people to understand this.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/18 09:18 PM
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the original piece from Babe is just reporting Grace's words; in that quote, Babe itself is not accusing Aziz of sexual assault. the secont quote doesn't mention non-consent or sexual assault directly, though i suppose you could interpret it that way (but i don't know that that would be very useful in a lawsuit).
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/18 06:34 PM
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saving this as an example of someone who didn't really encounter problems (by all appearances), but still got all bent out of shape over TRP telling them this or that. OP: stop letting TRP tell you whether or not your life is a lie, or how to think, or how to feel, or how to act. you decide. you might end up agreeing with them anyway, which is... really sad in my opinion, but before you let some silly subreddit of randos sway you to this degree... think. for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/18 03:07 PM
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yeah, everything above sounds reasonable; i definitely agree about the communication with a purpose, too. it would be weird and bug me otherwise, for sure. i don't think it's something we actively think about in order to not do (it's more just knowing there's a line, and where it is) but there are certainly some boundaries, for both of us.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/18 02:08 PM
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Well yeah if you have a yard and they can go in and out while you're away that's different. I'm thinking more about the young professionals I know who live in apartments and leave their poor dogs in crates for 10 hours a day. It makes me sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/18 04:37 AM
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Mike Pence has received considerable flak for his choice not to... attend functions where alcohol is served without his wife. i think it makes sense to avoid being alone one-on-one with the opposite sex (or the sex that you're attracted to), but personally this doesn't seem like it would be 'improper' in quite the same way. a social event or more formal party where you might have a glass or two of wine seems more likely for men like them, to me, and given that it seems like either a strange over…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/18 04:33 AM
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it's sad how much this comes up on this sub, and as far as i've seen, exclusively from red pillers.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/18 03:51 AM
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interesting article i recently stumbled upon, about male sexuality and straight men that have sex with other men.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/18 12:58 AM
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do they look the same? function the same? include all the same features? do you think there’s not a single difference between them?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/18 12:33 AM
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edgy
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/18 09:13 PM
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not that i've seen, but maybe so. doubtful that it's to nearly the same frequency though; just this past week we've had a ton of threads with this essential goal from men.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/18 08:26 PM
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there's not a need for this. it might work for some people, but plenty of others know they want to commit without doing any of this. they already know they like someone enough that they don't want to be without them, or see them with anyone else. just by using their brains and hearts.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/18 07:29 PM
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even mild "sensitivity" doesn't mean shit. like, i've been rejected in favor of guys who were richer, or taller, or more muscular, or more aggressive, or white, or blue-eyed, or drug-dealers... but never, NEVER in my life have i seen a non-committed woman reject me in order to go fuck a more "sensitive" dude. by your perception (because the chances of someone having a conversation with a guy they're rejecting where this comes up is bizarre). and/or, you were never engaging or attracting women wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/18 04:40 PM
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1) having testosterone doesn't make a guy a raving asshole, except to guys who see anyone that looks good, has success with women, and isn't a whimpering doormat as a raving asshole (for achieving what they can't). you may or may not be a guy with that view; men that think that way certainly frequent this sub, though. 2) i doubt that; they just appeal to different types of women. it's also important that the 'sensitive' being talked about here is defined correctly; not unlike what /u/mypasswordi…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/18 03:58 PM
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😂😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/18 03:56 PM
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yeah, it was a poor choice for the 'unattractive' guy. i remember him being actually pretty great. you can find bad pictures of almost anyone, but i don't even think he's bad-looking, especially not to the degree that this thread implies i should.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/18 02:19 PM
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how unsportsmanlike.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/18 02:12 PM
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what if dinosaurs still roamed the earth?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/18 01:55 PM
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so that women can laugh and celebrate that we caught another one, guys! please. do it for us.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/18 01:28 PM
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yeah, yeah that’s it... lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/18 12:46 PM
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most honest answer: neither. neither sound great to me, and in reality, i would settle for neither. i don’t share or get with people i’m not attracted to. but i see more problems with sharing a guy than being with an unattractive one, so just for the purposes of this question i choose the unattractive man. for this, assuming neither are celebrities and that i am instead thinking of attractive vs. unattractive in my own opinions. but re: the celebrities, Paul Giamatti seems pretty cool anyway, fr…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/18 12:44 PM
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it was italicized even in the original comment i was quoting, which it appears you didn't properly read. if you still want to view it incorrectly after having things pointed out to you, though, go right ahead. you have my permission.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/18 04:55 AM
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Think Disney romance, and that's what a lot of children are brought up to believe. Men believe that women are kinder, gentler, and less capable of evil than men, and that they ought to be treated as such. did you miss that basically just as many women in disney films were supervillains (if not more)? how does anyone miss this if they claim they received enough exposure to the stories to think that women were only wonderful?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/18 04:02 AM
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Just ask out any incel lol. They would be glad to become your sexbot. weird, and no, lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/18 04:00 AM
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pretend. you guys are always posting silly retorts like, "oh, so you're saying lying about this and manipulating like that is just fine?! well good, i'm gonna!". go on, then, if it's so easy that you'll blab about it like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/18 03:55 AM
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i was referring to the situations in the OP where the women complained/placed blame externally. i obviously wasn't referring to the 'telepathy' part as i did say in the same comment that i sometimes do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/18 03:34 AM
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first of all, no, i didn't say it was my go-to, just that i've done it before. and i was referring to the situations in the OP where the women complained/placed blame externally. i obviously wasn't referring to the 'telepathy' part as i did say in the same comment that i sometimes do that. this is clear to anyone who's here to do more than just lololol their way through a thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/18 09:45 PM
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i mean, i've definitely done the "i want to leave, let's try telepathy" thing before, but if it doesn't work i just remind myself to actually say something next time instead of getting mad.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/18 09:22 PM
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if this is an attempt at mocking, it could use more substance.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/18 09:09 PM
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I now see the poster you're replying to was 100% serious. I took his initial comment as about 50% serious, 50% jokey. But, anyway, it's now kind of interesting to see him doubling down on this. indeed, haha. What I do see with these responses, and the general 'omg PPD women think male supermodels are fug how can any normal man ever hope to find a laydee???!' tone here sometimes is that these dudes, and the one you're responding to here just, in part, don't get how female attraction is different.…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/18 08:54 PM
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what does this have to do with you at all, though?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/18 08:15 PM
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i don't know (or choose to spend time around) anyone who acts like this. maybe you just need different friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/18 06:54 PM
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And I'm supposed to trust the women of PPD to explain how attraction works for women in general? Yeah, no thanks. I'd rather read a romantic novel. then why are you even here? just dismiss the sub entirely and move on. no losses to either side. no longer will you have to be outraged over women stating what they find attractive, or that they don't want to get with guys who have seen a bunch of prostitutes, or even that they don't want to engage in explicitly detailed discussions about every perso…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/18 06:11 PM
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don't know.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/18 06:09 PM
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Some of this is has to be denialist downplaying: a The other guy is just meh b Not my type c not that crazy about either d Neither is my type e Both are not my type none of that is saying that the guys are unattractive; just that the woman in question doesn't necessarily, personally find themselves attracted to the guy, and/or they don't match the type of the woman responding. that, coupled with how female attraction works... it makes perfect sense. several didn't seem to know who either of thes…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/18 06:03 PM
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seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/18 05:47 PM
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don't know. guess that's for you to research.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/18 05:46 PM
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you can find someone both hot and likeminded to not marry, and you don't even have to be so desperate and sad to do it. in fact, it's advised not to be that at all. if you feel this strongly, though, it wouldn't surprise me if it seeps out and the people you don't want to see it actually pick up on it. oh well.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/18 05:44 PM
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men these days don't have a choice! because of women!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/18 05:29 PM
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instead of putting your effort into being dishonest and desperate, why don't you try just being honest and find like minded people instead? plenty of women don't want to get married either, at their stage in life or ever. you both avoid the exact problems you're hoping to avoid, and get to just have some fun. win win.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/18 05:25 PM
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maybe? it seems odd to me, to think about since i've never done it... but i can't really think of any reasons why not. if he's into me and we're exclusive and he checks all other boxes, i don't see any problems with it, certainly not some weird issue with submission.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/18 05:18 PM
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better proof than... your actual words that everyone can see, right up there?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/18 05:07 PM
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For example: toned, well-groomed, smiling men were generally rated as more attractive. Anxious or avoidant women tended to rate down the men who had "toned," "well groomed" or "smiling" characteristics. Results there were statistically significant. not denying that there are women here with anxious or avoidant personalities... but i don't think anyone was saying these guys were uggos or whatever. generally, they're also both toned, well groomed, and smiling. based on that, i don't think your com…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/18 05:00 PM
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i'm not convinced of any of that by your post. but even if that were true, your investment in what they think, do, and say (and your 'concern' over their mental states) is telling.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/18 04:38 PM
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no automod so... men with fear of those things that outweighs their interest in getting married should definitely avoid marriage. it isn't for everyone. if you're that worried about it, then don't. i do not disagree that a man with these worries should remain unmarried.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/18 03:20 PM
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Are many BluePillers mentally ill? Or at least dealing with some serious emotional/psychological issues? the amount of obsession and hatred I see coming from TBP is bordering on psychotic sometimes. What kind of happy, well-adjusted individual thinks like this? there's just the general amount of obsession and effort put into making fun of TRP. I am guessing none of them see the deep irony of this post. this is the exact kind of thing that you're criticizing. if you switched TBP and TRP, this cou…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/18 03:13 PM
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Imagine going into this much detail about how much you'd enjoy watching and talking about someone else's misery. What kind of happy, well-adjusted individual thinks like this? ... the same kind that enjoy talking about the miserable situations that sluts and single moms and any woman that rejects them will end up in. the same kind that spends more time poring over article after article about feminism than lots of actual feminists. some of them do take it to extremes (something you will see in ne…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/18 03:03 PM
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there it is! thanks for showing up to prove my point 😊
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/18 12:40 PM
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The Smiths, the Cure, Souxsie and the Banshees, Fine Young Cannibals, Depeche Mode... aka, my work playlist, haha.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/18 12:38 PM
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they've settled into thinking women are horrible liars, and don't want to hear otherwise because they'd have to face that they're wrong and have just had poor experiences/choices/luck.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/18 04:37 AM
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Sean Faris is a total basic bro. yes! this. thank you; i knew there was something else that bugged me about him, and that's it. blech, bros.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/18 04:20 AM
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yes, whether or not i call someone out for having a stupid over-the-top emotional reaction to a high n woman depends on whether or not they're having a stupid over-the-top emotional reaction to a high n woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/18 03:10 AM
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not enough exclamation points.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/18 02:36 AM
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In other words, if average women make it difficult for men to get laid eventually they will begin to think about the cost of sex and put a monetary value on it. i don’t care. they’re free to do so, and weed themselves out of my pool of potential partners along the way (were i single). Your values don't have to be like his, but every woman who feels disgusted at men who use prostitutes isn't exactly being a slut to kill the sex market. i’m not disgusted at those men, just the idea of being with t…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/18 02:35 AM
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even as a non body hair fan, agreed about the waxy greasy look. same for pretty much any bodybuilder pics posted here by guys... the natural no/minimal body hair is good (to me), weird ken doll is not.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/18 12:57 AM
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not that crazy about either of them but probably Francisco. neither are unattractive and both have cute smiles, but something about Francisco seems more real/natural. also, more genuine, less troublemaker. besides, like others, i prefer the guy with the slimmer build. will say that slimmer guys are sadly lacking in butt sometimes though ☹️ but generally, everything else... edit: lol
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/18 12:55 AM
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the importance of things that would bode well for a long-term relationship grew (from important to really important). stability in career/person, someone i can trust and tolerate, etc. etc. i still valued those things when i was young, but it was less important because those relationships/interactions were less serious, and i didn’t necessarily stay on top of those things either (having a good career, being super reliable or easy to be around). if there’s anything that really really changed, it’…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/18 12:14 AM
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it's removed, i can't see it. but i think pinkgoldrose is just fine; i haven't seen any issues with her participation in discussions in the past, despite the amount of people that are all too happy to be cruel as shit in response to her.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/18 10:32 PM
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does what depend on the person making the judgement? i don't know what your problem is with my opinion on the subject, honestly. who cares? i'm no one to anyone here. i'll decide whether or not to continue even trying with this discussion based on your next reply.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/18 06:39 PM
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around 21. we met just before i turned 21, and went exclusive shortly after. even if i ended up single now, though, i'd stay away from guys with high n. we're just not compatible, i'm just not interested.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/18 06:26 PM
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i'm 29. married, so thankfully i don't have to worry about this anymore, but, still stand by what i said before.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/18 06:15 PM
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i am not making such assumptions. you are free to do so; i did not, am not, and won't discuss as if i did/am. i already noted the kind of thing i was referring to in my initial comment (did you actually read it?): when they try to attribute their feelings to some sort of logic instead of just admitting it's feelings, and when they go beyond simply having a preference to essentially trashing high n women for no real reason other than that they're high n.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/18 06:04 PM
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not unlike the question in the OP, there are factors that can affect it, but in general, 5+ starts to make me uneasy.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/18 05:51 PM
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When I was younger I used to be adamantly anti-prostitute, and anti-strip club too. I had guy friends who were open about seeing a prostitute, or being willing to do it, and I was surprised and honestly a bit self-righteous. I once was in Las Vegas and scoffed offendedly at a streetwalker who propositioned me. I often find the same women who might poo-poo seeing a prostitute will also find it inappropriate and unrealistic for men to think they can find casual FWB's all over the place, or have wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/18 05:50 PM
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the idea of being with that guy is gross to me; i don’t see an issue with men feeling the same way and/or rejecting a woman because of how her past makes them feels. i did say this already, you know.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/18 01:40 PM
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your tax dollars are already spent on that, and would be even if welfare went away.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/18 04:51 AM
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Pro Life! ^<sup>TM</sup>
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/18 04:50 AM
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gross, no. if he did once, a long time ago, when he was young and dumb etc. etc. i might let it slide, but if he saw multiple ones, once or multiple times each... that's just too much. depending on the number... i feel the same about high n guys. they're not necessarily bad people, but i don't think i'd want to be with them. i don't care if men don't want to be with high n women, especially given the feelings expressed above. i will, however, call them out when they try to attribute their feelin…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/18 03:40 AM
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i can't believe someone downvoted this. you guys are out of control, lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/18 09:23 PM
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oh man. i just started it; i bet i can identify every one of these, which will make it even more sad somehow when they don't. i probably owned every CD and listened to them nonstop through high school. edit: at least lip ring knew most of them. haha. edit edit: torturing myself by listening to the ones about 90s music now... sigh.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/18 07:17 PM
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it really is heartbreaking, haha. and just generally unsettling, to see how much has changed.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/18 06:57 PM
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orange-to-red ombre hair was a success! i missed a few spots here and there bleaching my roots (particularly in the back)... but it came out almost perfect. not bad, for a first try. am pretty happy with it :)
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/18 04:45 PM
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it's a legitimate question. you're just using this thread to wedge in complaints and trash talk about women anywhere you can, and it's terribly transparent.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/18 04:08 PM
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like the others, if you just up and do it suddenly, then yeah that’s pretty shitty and cruel if you (though this one is much harder to do in secret, i think). i agree that it would be nice for men to have an ‘out’ in extreme or difficult circumstances, not unlike abortion, but that doesn’t mean i think any and every guy who uses it is a great guy or can’t use it in a way that harms others selfishly. it’s just as possible for a guy to use that in a cruel and hurtful way. this responds to both pos…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/18 04:05 PM
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The whole metoo trend could have been a great way to raise awareness on sexual abuse for anyone who suffered from it, regardless of their gender. But sadly enough, the whole thing got watered down trivializing actual victims, especially when they happen to be male. i think it still was a great way to raise awareness on sexual abuse, and has absolutely succeeded on that point. i know that just having the discussion brought peace to several of my friends, male and female alike, but on a grander sc…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/18 08:53 PM
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she didn't say anything controversial, and as far as i've seen, she's more than happy to engage in discussions with people when they respond to her. OP is just upset that she disagreed, and isn't willing to put the effort into either discussing or debating with that. OP is the problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/18 06:33 PM
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a great study in unreliable narration. one of my favorite things about it. it really was absolutely excellent.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/18 06:22 PM
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it's the OP's job to engage and discuss with people responding to his post. if he wasn't willing to do that, he shouldn't have posted a thread asking for people to respond. it's a failure of the OP to run away from people responding to him, or to only engage with those he feels he can 'convert' or get agreement from. an ideal OP would still discuss views different from his own, even if he didn't feel he had much chance in changing them. there's still something to be gained from that, for those i…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/18 05:23 PM
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Except the tv they watch is shit. i'm sure you only watch the most intellectual
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/18 05:06 PM
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no, just stupid trolling. her question was legitimate.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/18 03:16 PM
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you should probably leave Reddit entirely (serious). leaving just this sub might not be that effective in achieving your stated goal if you just go to other subs.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/18 02:47 PM
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it didn’t seem quite in line with what the OP was asking, and sometimes if i’m unsure, i’ll comment here instead. a lot of RPers/manospherians make these posts with premises that aren't at all reflected in reality, or that take something seen in reality to insane extremes. i’m not going to talk about why women are ‘passive objects’ as he’s requested, because i don’t think all or even most are, and what he’s describing isn’t a ‘woman thing’ (essentially).
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/18 02:45 PM
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reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/18 07:02 AM
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Women don't want to ask men out. Women don't want to make the first move. Women don't want to propose. Instead they subtly hint they would like man to do so what do you think of women who do these things? what do you hear people saying about them? no one is immune to wanting not to be criticized, and it seems to me that women who do these things still get it somewhat harshly, depending. Women don't want to be entrepeneurs. Instead they go to industries that have already reached maturation, where…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/18 06:44 AM
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your comments make it seem like you know either strange women, or no women.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/18 05:48 AM
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i don't know what kind of gotcha you're trying to pull; i already explained my reasoning, and that's it. please refer yourself to my last comment until it sinks in.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/18 04:55 AM
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I'm a married mgtow. does not compute. also, there are rules here. you should avoid attacking and insulting others not only because it is against those rules, but because of how it makes you appear and affects the way people engage with you/whether or not they want to.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/18 04:52 AM
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k
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/18 03:49 AM
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i don't, but i see both the VR porn and sex bot/bot brothel as far beyond owning, say, a fleshlight or tenga and using it on occasion. he's owned those; i don't mind. in fact, iirc, i bought one of them for him, when i worked at an adult store. but if you need the kind of immersion that either a bot or the VR brings, and often, then that does seem like a problem/form of escapism. it crosses a line, and if we both start resorting to that instead of each other, for our own reasons, well... everyth…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/18 03:25 AM
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seems like if women are stealing all the jobs, we're getting work done just fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/18 03:22 AM
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i mean, they asked, and no one gave a straight answer. if no man wants that, then someone should try actually answering the question instead of posting some dumb flip remark like the other person did.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/18 03:21 AM
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i doubt most people who don't like shy guys are quite so abrasive or judgmental about it, but if you're really extroverted, for example, someone shy could be a real drag for you (and you for them).
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/18 03:14 AM
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If MGTOW men felt they were truly offered all the above you mentioned they would likely not look to sexbots. they're so caught up in simultaneously ranting about women and lamenting their 'plight' that they wouldn't recognize those things if they were right in front of them. they would never be satisfied. nothing will ever be good enough for MGTOW, and it wouldn't surprise me if they really think pretty poorly of themselves too. that's not the behavior of someone who likes themselves; would know…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/18 12:55 AM
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the closing of the incels sub is really taking its toll on PPD.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/18 09:10 PM
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dolls, currently, are not all that easy on the eyes. certainly not in a way that would make them superior to even a somewhat unattractive person.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/18 07:34 PM
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i don’t watch porn, but if i did, the feminist kind sounds much more my speed. it sounds more like what i prefer in reality. i’ve only watched any porn made for men as a joke, if a friend showed me a dumb parody or something; i think the last i saw was a Big Bang theory parody, years ago. it was atrocious, and the XXX DVDs aimed at men that were sold at the adult store i worked at looked just as ridiculous.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/18 05:54 PM
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whoa.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/18 04:10 PM
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try a glass bottle.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/18 02:28 PM
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seems pretty eye-for-an-eye to me. don’t complain.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/18 02:25 PM
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oh, i remember this now! yes, that was something, haha. thank you for posting. edit: aw, people i miss.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/18 02:05 PM
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i guess maybe i could deal, if i had my own too? i think that would eventually damage our intimacy so much that we would just grow to stop using anything but the bots, though. depending on his enthusiasm and frequency, it’d be offputting to me and i’d feel pretty uncared for. it would be real enough to be and i in different ways that it would likely get problematic.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/18 02:04 PM
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it appears she's pointing out that the wars were also started by men; that's the fault, not necessarily the men who went off to fight in those wars. no dog in this fight, i don't know enough about history, but at least for that particular comment, that appears to be the meaning. really, i'm not convinced this isn't just an RPer trolling around; it's hardly a coincidence that it ranks among the most extreme on this sub. but hey, everyone has their friday night fun, no?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/18 04:19 AM
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because he can't imagine women not doing this when that's what he believes, as a man, he would do if he were in the same position.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/18 03:08 AM
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this is sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/18 02:57 AM
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just focus on working out, damn.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/18 02:46 AM
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it's been a weird day for sure. i don't even know what to say about this, haha. took a break from my wine and textbook reading... found this. too much.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/18 02:45 AM
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am sad i missed this.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/18 01:27 AM
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so you believe most people will use power over others unfairly/to their advantage, but you also believe they won’t, and then again that they will eventually? sigh. that aside, i don’t disagree that some women would use that ‘power’, and this is now the third time i’ve said that. but if you live under the impression that most would do it just to hurt you, that they’re out to get you, you’re doing yourself a disservice, voluntarily. and, the problem lies with you, not women or anyone else. cast bl…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/18 12:50 AM
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what i said is a possibility regardless of which of those situations it is; if a person’s upset and doesn’t want to be open or vulnerable with the source of upset, to protect themselves and try to recover, that’s why they’re not feeling up for sex. it’s possible for someone to maliciously withhold in either of these situations too. let me say it again: it’s just not the only possible reason sex would be off the table.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/18 12:30 AM
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... or being hurt/angered by a partner is just a major turn-off. i certainly don’t feel like being intimate or vulnerable with someone if i’m already hurt or angered by them (opening myself up further to someone who has already, for the moment or even longer, abused what openness i already had with them). other women here have expressed the same sentiment; it’s not some vicious withholding game, i just don’t want to be in the same room with someone who has hurt or upset me, much less the same be…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/18 11:56 PM
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your comments are all over the place; i don't know what you're getting at, and you aren't even being consistent from one to the next. not interested in... whatever this is, so i'll leave you to it. seriously, bizarre.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/18 10:14 PM
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okay, so? i still don't get how this is supposed to relate to what i said, or what point you're trying to make. it's a view held by all kinds of people, no matter what regard you have for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/18 10:08 PM
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i choose to be miserable alright
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/18 09:58 PM
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You guys don't get to distance yourselves from that without allowing for the same variation among non-blues and reds. For the record, yes, there is nuance, but I refuse to give that notion one red second of airtime as long as turbocuck journalists and bloggers write their screeds of generalization against all men with nary a peep in response. i don't even know what the hell you're talking about here, or what it has to do with my comment. i'm not a TBPer, i'm just pointing out that it's not somet…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/18 09:57 PM
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It's easier to put up with my gf's BS it's easy to have a positive and loving relationship. why do you guys get with women that you seem to be annoyed with and think so poorly of
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/18 09:44 PM
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The entire premise of the blue pill is that "men aren't doing enough" to stop the things women find uncomfortable and oppressive. i agree that there's a group of people out there that believe this (i saw quite a bit of it when the metoo thing started, for instance), but that has nothing to do with either TBP or the blue pill. i'm sure there are reds and non-reds alike that feel like men don't love women; it's not unique to a pill. though, in general, it's not something i see getting brought up h…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/18 09:37 PM
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seconding Gin's comment... i couldn't articulate it quite as well, but i feel essentially the same about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/18 09:03 PM
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Just this one thing, i don't know if i can ever fix this? i mean, probably not? it's really in her control, and there's no guarantee that she can or will change over time (just as there's no guarantee she won't). in my opinion only, based on the info in the OP only: if you're happy with the way things are, ultimately, i don't see a reason for anything to change. that's assuming this is not bothersome enough to be a dealbreaker and just comes to mind every now and then. but... if you can't accept…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/18 07:41 PM
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i don't get it either... i thought i just wasn't awake enough yet, but glad that i'm not the only one confused.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/18 04:01 PM
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interesting. makes sense though; as others have said, disgust and contempt isn't exactly great for a marriage. we get frustrated or cranky every now and then, but i can't imagine ever being so upset that i rolled my eyes at him even in private.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/18 03:11 PM
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i don't think i've seen that complaint even once, here or anywhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/18 02:55 PM
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Depends what's on the check list. Most men probably don't have a check list that excludes 80% of the female population. their lists of slut tells + their claimed aversion to sluts (for 'love') does exactly this.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/18 02:35 PM
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no, the gatekeepers of manhood at TRP, of course.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/18 03:44 AM
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you have to earn it. someday, someday...
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/18 11:04 PM
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interesting post! looking forward to the (genuine) responses.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/18 10:12 PM
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okay, so then, you agree with me and all of your previous comments were pointless... ? rich, coming from someone claiming other people are weak. how easily you change your tune.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/18 10:09 PM
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it's pretty clear he was comparing "portion of red pillers that believe women belong in the kitchen" to "portion of feminists that believe in kill all men".
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/18 09:50 PM
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hey, i just watch what they do, not what they say. instead of shouting pointlessly at me, go direct your anger at them for doing the dumbass thing of getting themselves this reputation.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/18 09:04 PM
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going to attempt coloring my hair like this over the weekend. am nervous, but excited.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/18 08:16 PM
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Some men can behave like puppy dogs when they should behave like bulldogs. weird goals, man.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/18 06:41 PM
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omg
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/18 05:01 PM
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it doesn't seem that rampant to me, honestly (though it certainly used to happen a lot more). do you have examples that might help show the frequency? i would give my usual advice of reporting it if it gets out of hand, but i just don't see that happening, really.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/18 04:01 PM
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it is advised to answer my question, which is relevant to this thread as well as this discussion. but since you can't or refuse to do so despite being asked multiple times, i will assume that your answer is no. you do not believe the following is true whatsoever: there’s a huge difference between not committing to women and actively leading women on to think that you will commit, just so they’ll sleep with you. one of those is cruel, and the other is not. men can and do exhibit both behaviors. a…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/18 03:47 PM
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thanks!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/18 03:28 PM
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you really can't answer yes or no to my question? that should alarm you.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/18 02:57 PM
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yes or no only; this is very simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/18 02:25 PM
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well basically... it's probably a combo of things, but mainly that i actually sleep now... i was getting a pretty unhealthy amount of sleep, and as much as it pained me to give up time that i could have been doing something else, i had to (and it's thankfully made me 'alive' enough that i can make up for the time i gave up, mostly). there were other 'personal' things i was working through off-sub through most of last year; it's just spread to here now too, i suppose. don't worry though, my opini…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/18 02:24 PM
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i didn’t say that James Bond = Bridget Jones. but Star Wars and basically all major action films involve both action and romance and have for a reeeeally long time. that appeals to men and women alike, it makes sense that creators and companies would make use of it to their benefit (and enjoyment).
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/18 01:43 PM
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i don’t think so. it’s moot now since the post is up again, but i think the only way to give a post a new title is to create a new one entirely.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/18 01:40 PM
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there’s a huge difference between not committing to women and actively leading women on to think that you will commit, just so they’ll sleep with you. one of those is cruel, and the other is not. men can and do exhibit both behaviors. do you disagree?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/18 01:39 PM
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i never said that, and fuck off with your insults.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/18 01:37 PM
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sounds like you need to pick better, or simply try something else, or if all else fails, realize that you may be getting matched with your equal/proper counterpart (which is not guaranteed to be what you want).
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/18 01:34 PM
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Stop trying to make me sound like an angry woman-hater. If she claims to like me but doesn't want to have sex with me, I assume that she doesn't actually like me and is saying it for any number of reasons, some of which are selfish. she's hinting to me that she wants me sexually to get something from me, whether it's attention or resources or whatever. self-interest conflicts with mine. you're doing that on your own; these are not the words of someone who is even neutral about women. if you're n…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/18 03:16 AM
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You say that shes not using him, but we know theres a good chance hes paying for the dates and put the majority of the effort into making the night happen. it's not like the guy's planning out elaborate weekends with resorts and 5-star restaurants. this sympathy plea is not going to work; get a coffee and go on a walk through a park. Where it gets a little darker is when being upfront will cause him to drop interest, and the girl doesnt want that, so plays along and then its his fault for gettin…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/18 03:13 AM
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The guy can't like her AND want to be sexual with her? If he wants to be sexual, then everything else was JUST to get laid and nothing else? if he prioritizes getting laid over just being in her company, if the idea of her not putting out ASAP for him is bothersome, if he's spending the whole time they're together wondering when she'll shut up and take her clothes off while pretending to be friendly and go along with what she wants, even going so far as pretending to be friends or care about her…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/18 03:05 AM
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it was flaired CMV because you made an assertion as the subject: (1) No affirmative claims in titles. Unlike all other posts, CMVs may have titles that contain direct, affirmative claims. it's either just going to be changed again, or removed entirely if the flair keeps getting changed.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/18 01:19 AM
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men do not enjoy romance being squeezed into every action movie as a side plot. they absolutely do. you are dead wrong, lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/18 01:08 AM
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question: why would you say you want to be with her on a more intimate level instead of something more clear and direct if you’re not trying to play ambiguous and take advantage of her feelings? there are ways to be even more clear than that, to get the hint across that all you want is to get laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/18 12:50 AM
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action and romance films are often just blended together now (and both are enjoyed by both now too), so there’s little point in making that comparison. women may tend to enjoy romantic stuff more than men, but that doesn’t mean they’re asking every man for the whole world. exaggerations are a really poor way to make a point, especially in a place where there absolutely are men who believe those exaggerations are reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/18 12:38 AM
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men don’t only want sex; i don’t believe that about even most men (which is not to say that sex is meaningless to them, but that it is not the only thing that they value women for). there are a few shitheads happy to actively take advantage of girls that like them, lead them on, or just keep things ambiguous until they get sex and then just ditch the girl. it’s cruel, most of all, and generally just poor character.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/18 12:25 AM
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yeah, what a bitch, wanting to get to know you first. women: the worst. i have no trouble believing that you are acting only out of self-interest, though. still sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/18 11:08 PM
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if they're not feeling fulfilled by her company then they aren't actually enjoying it that much, now are they? i'm not saying an interaction or relationship shouldn't eventually progress to more (depending), but if you're so fine with walking away ASAP if she doesn't put out for you, then no, you don't care about her. and, it hurts to find out that someone you genuinely care about feels that way about you.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/18 10:48 PM
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"watch what they do, not what they say" like that doesn't also apply to some men.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/18 10:47 PM
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The fact that you think guys want to go staight to dry pound town is disappointing. what do you think inexperienced and/or careless young men do? He doesn't want to be used. except she's not using him. the girl we're talking about, she's not doing anything malicious or untoward to the guy who's just looking for the nearest, easiest hole and doesn't mind playing friendly for a short time to get there.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/18 10:42 PM
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unless you're saying you can't know, at all, if you have any interest beyond sex in a woman before you sleep with her, then you should be able to easily understand where women are coming from. if you're one of those types who thinks women are nothing unless they're sleeping with you, then you won't and you'll see them as vicious harpies holding back to watch you suffer, but there's also not much to talk about if that's the case.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/18 10:40 PM
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pretty prolish to be selling t-shirts for a silly reddit sub, tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/18 10:27 PM
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well, that's sad, and what i can only assume is projection; if you don't want anything out of her but to sleep with her, then i suppose it makes sense that you think any woman who enjoys your presence without sleeping with you is maliciously withholding it to be selfish and cruel. why you wouldn't want to try and learn something from what women here are telling you, though, i don't know. unless of course you think women are worthless unless it comes to sleeping with them, in which case... yeah, …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/18 10:11 PM
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If all he cares about is sticking his dick in you, then you didnt do a very good job of reading the situation beforehand to be enamored by his presence. you're talking about 2 different things here. it's not difficult at all to like someone and enjoy being around them even if this is all they desire, especially if they're being friendly and charming and engaging (as a truly interested person would) with the sole intent of getting into someone's pants. you do know that men often lead women on lik…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/18 10:09 PM
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you seem to be equating 'wants to be around me' with 'insinuating sex' or 'leading me on' which is weird... but that aside, by time 2 or even 3, realize and ignore your desire to sleep with her if you don't want to deal with everything else that comes with it. not hard, go find someone willing to offer what you want. if you're both on the same page about casual that's a different story, but that's not what we were talking about (someone who wants to spend time with you without sleeping with you)…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/18 09:55 PM
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then i guess he doesn't like her, and he can leave her alone so she can move on to someone who actually does think she's worth something. both move on, win win. men who care aren't bothered by waiting.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/18 09:36 PM
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and if she does sleep with him right away, no barrier to entry, she's an awful worthless scum-of-the-earth slut lololol (who still loses out on the attention of the guy she likes, to boot). i don't think most men have this problem, but RPers consistently prove that there's simply no way for a woman to 'win' with you guys. this, among other things, is what's earned the negative reactions and reputation you all whine about.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/18 09:14 PM
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i mean, how could a woman truly fail when there are men lined up outside every door waiting to hand out money and prizes?!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/18 09:12 PM
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Sometimes they made me feel guilty by questioning my feelings for them or my attraction to them, or by making it seem like I led them on. Then I would start thinking, am I really a tease? ugh, this. yes, i got this once or twice in middle school even, over something dumb like a kiss. it wouldn't surprise me if this contributed to the perceived lack of femininity that so many men here complain about. there's still plenty of femininity to go around, but when that femininity just opens you up to be…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/18 06:52 PM
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the quotes here have something to do with it, especially if you're raised sheltered, religious, 'traditional'. however, you do have to grow out of that at some point even if your upbringing wasn't on your side (barring extremes). Grace should have left the apartment as soon as shit got weird. your friend should have kept saying no, or gotten the hell out of there. i can get saying 'no' if you really are in fear of your safety (even something like that youth pastor driving out to a secluded place…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/18 06:43 PM
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so then you shouldn't have any reason to complain about the stories, obviously.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/18 06:36 PM
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All of these are examples that would get mocked on TRP as professional failures and jokes.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/18 06:27 PM
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these are all realistic examples.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/18 06:15 PM
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Going to have the leave this conversation now -- got to make a living. yes, i'm sure that's why, and not that you said something dumb and indefensible.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/18 04:34 PM
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i am definitely going to hunt down each respondent personally and accuse or frame them for harassment. thanks for narrowing down a pool of people for me, OP.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/18 04:18 PM
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do you think that sexual harassment, sexual assault, abuse, and rape are all real things that happen to women, that they are allowed to share their stories about? if you do, then you shouldn't really have a problem with MeToo, as a whole. if you don't... well, okay, lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/18 04:16 PM
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probably. i really need to give up hope that shitposters here will change their ways, and engage like normal people. gets me every time...
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/18 03:50 PM
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is there a link to the poll/survey itself? i can't seem to find it in the article; trying to find it on YouGov now, but if you have it, it would be most beneficial to have the actual poll involved in the discussion. the article linked in the OP mentions work environments here and there, but it's not clear if that's what the poll-takers were also asked about (which affects the discussion and results significantly).
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/18 03:23 PM
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if i feel like i can do it right, i may steal this (if that's okay with you, haha). if not, i look forward to your post on it! i'm leaning towards wanting to see it again too. it exceeded my expectations, for sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/18 03:09 PM
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people also went to see The Post, Straight Outta Compton, Spotlight, Detroit, a decent portion of which were not alive or only vaguely aware of the world at the time of the events. i've heard a lot of talk about I, Tonya; i'm sure plenty of people will go and see it, especially given how the movie appears in the trailer.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/18 02:43 PM
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go ahead.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/18 02:39 PM
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ugh, stop. obnoxious.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/18 04:06 AM
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if you don't ever see women with loving men in your life, i suspect it's your outlook and willingness to see them that is the problem. after all, think about how much you'd have to amend or go back on if you admitted to seeing them! much to lose, there.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/18 04:00 AM
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no need, i was clear.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/18 03:46 AM
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because he wants something, anything to justify to other people why he feels that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/18 03:00 AM
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i think i played the same way... Polly Pocket plus those dinosaurs and plastic safari animals, haha. on another note, i bought one of these not long ago! i want more though... my love of toys and action figures never went away, haha.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/18 02:55 AM
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aw. yeah, i think i did too, if not mostly then at least often. i ignored it sometimes but that just got me in trouble 🙃 edit: whoops, misread. i got the non-insteads a lot. it was done cleverly so that i didn’t pick up on it for a long time, but i got it a lot from pretty much everyone but my dad (but even that relationship was strained in its own way).
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/18 02:09 AM
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:O awesome! i had forgotten all about those... so great 😊 i wish i still had my Street Sharks. so weird, but so fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/18 02:08 AM
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hard to enjoy a lot of good fiction or games without those words. if i still had my Goosebumps and R.L. Stine and ghost story books to count how often those words appear...
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/18 01:51 AM
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i think the ‘insteads’ are better, allowing children freedom to have fun and make some decisions for themselves, but i don’t think that necessarily translates to them becoming independent, assertive achievers. as for the question in the subject, i think a balance is best, perhaps with a little more of the ‘achiever’ than people pleaser, because you just need that to survive here. neither extreme is good, but i don’t see something particularly ‘wrong’ with leaning more towards one of those than t…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/18 01:46 AM
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yup; a lot of relationships and effects from them to examine there. that, and the way the movie questioned the events throughout, etc. etc... the age thing never even came to mind. i wouldn’t post about that because it just invites trolls to be disgusting and waste everyone’s time. i can’t think of how i would even frame or start it (why i never make threads) but if i manage it i will try to post it. odds are low though, so anyone else is free to do the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/18 01:24 AM
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lol, yeah okay, no one outside of Reddit has ever heard of Louis CK. no need for me to address the rest of your comment if that’s how you’re playing it. if you want to believe everything is awful and the sky is falling as a result of this article, go right ahead.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/18 01:20 AM
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seventeen, mostly. i looked at a cosmo here and there but it was rarely relevant to my situation so i typically didn’t bother.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/18 01:04 AM
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i guess? if she was being honest in her claims and they weren't outlandish, i don't see how that makes them ridiculous or how she could expose them as such. on top of that, if she had said those other things and they weren't disputed, i don't know why that would make it an exaggeration or fabrication. men do those things sometimes too. i don't disagree that this story has been less harmful because the 'accusation' and story are also less severe, but i don't follow your same train of thought to g…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/18 10:49 PM
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gatekeeping is more like, trying to keep something exclusive, to protect it. like men who don't want women playing, commenting on, or having anything to do with videogames. no stinky girls in the super cool clubhouse, that sort of thing. pointing out that we've had multiple threads about one story in a short period of time and calling them annoying isn't gatekeeping, it's just asking everyone to chill out about this one thing and stop taking over the sub with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/18 10:35 PM
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it's not even going to take that long; if i'm not mistaken, next to no one is talking about Louis CK, and he actually did get opportunities taken away. soon as the news finds someone else to talk about, they will. this isn't really any kind of a story at all, so it won't take long.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/18 10:32 PM
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i almost wish i had, haha; now i'm disappointed i didn't. at least there were still laughs either way.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/18 10:23 PM
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having seen it this past week... i'm surprised we've had so many threads about Aziz, but nothing about I, Tonya. there's a lot to unpack in that movie that i think most here were too young to live through or remember clearly (at least, i only had vague memories of it). anyway, way more interesting to discuss.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/18 10:22 PM
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tsk tsk, not a thing you should promise. suppose we'll see, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/18 10:20 PM
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apparently i can't help myself. i will instead blame the icy weather and below freezing temperatures that have kept me cooped up in the house today -_- .
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/18 10:16 PM
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probably not. this is super minor compared to other allegations, and it's not being taken that way as far as i've seen.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/18 10:06 PM
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oh? :( edit: oh, crap. i see why now. hahaha. that was supposed to be a link to one of my other comments, not that gif -_- i am sorry, fixing now, lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/18 10:04 PM
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read and learn, if you dare. edit: now, with the right link!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/18 09:39 PM
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it's not. just yesterday there was some dumb thread holding up a (fake) example of a guy grabbing cosplayers to demonstrate how men need to be aggressive to get anywhere with women. if you're real quiet while browsing PPD late at night, you can probably hear tiny whispers of "she didn't jump into my lap right there at the restaurant!" or "she refused to something with me in the bedroom that she did 3 boyfriends ago!" or "why is she going out with that jerk and not a good guy like me!". /u/SpaceW…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/18 09:33 PM
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no escape.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/18 09:15 PM
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probably nothing; aside from a bunch of news articles (several of which are in his favor), has anything really bad happened to Aziz?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/18 09:12 PM
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It’s clear that Aziz laid some good dick to SOMEBODY at CNN. based on the descriptions from Grace, honestly... i doubt that. criminal or not, it all sounded really terrible, not sexy or exciting at all, and certainly not any indication of skill or prowess. regardless of the allegations in the Babe article, it was laughably bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/18 09:07 PM
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i don't know about their quality (only use wacom, when i do) but tooya tablets at least seem to be comparable. have not used one myself so i can't speak to their quality, but they seem pretty similar and not so cheap as to be suspect. i'd assume that product reviews would be handy in identifying any issues or flaws, next. edit: this is a little different but i've been itching to get one. i've enjoyed just using drawing apps on a regular tablet, too, much more than using the plug-in computer tabl…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/18 07:58 PM
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and in a week or so, they'll be back to telling everyone how tired they are of this being so important to everyone else, even though they talk about it even more than the damn news outlets.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/18 07:52 PM
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i've seen a lot of caps-lock abuse in my years, but never like this IN THE YEAR 2018
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/18 07:46 PM
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same feeling. if we even needed to discuss it at all, we would have been fine with just a single thread on this, enough already.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/18 07:43 PM
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of course! :)
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/18 07:29 PM
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Women respond viscerally in their vagina lol... possible next flair.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/18 07:20 PM
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i would advise focusing your energy on something more productive and useful. these vows are always so sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/18 06:41 PM
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if you were actually reading beyond what you felt you could use a silly smiley at, you'd see that i already said they had the same rights to privacy: none. i personally think it makes sense for her to stay anonymous; that's not the same as saying she has some inviolable right to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/18 06:38 PM
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i already said she has no more right to privacy than he does. but obviously she does get to sit there in anonymity and do this... because she is. there's no law against her doing that either (and as mentioned above, i get why staying anonymous would be more important for her).
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/18 06:36 PM
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throughout the years... as a teen, i read a lot in magazines, and sometimes talked things over with friends. early to mid-twenties, would research online instead, trying several different sources and viewpoints (while still occasionally talking it over with friends). now, mostly just do online research and use my own sense/experience to figure it out if something comes up that i'm not sure of on my own. ultimately, a combo of reading several different sources and viewpoints on a matter combined …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/18 03:48 PM
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well...
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/18 03:43 PM
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the alt situation on this sub is ridiculous. at least try to cover it up, you know?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/18 03:04 PM
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This puts the woman in a position in where she is at risk of rape if she agrees to be in the private company of a male. this has already been true for a long time; it’s not some new thing. life is full of all kinds of risks (another example: getting struck by lightning). i don’t think this ‘incident’ is going to have the major impact you do.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/18 09:47 AM
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men are also doing some pearl-clutching over this; i hope you’ll go poke fun at them too.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/18 06:28 AM
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my answer is valid as stated above; celebrities are more protected than non-celebrities. i don't care if you agree or not. this sub has plenty of people ignoring reality for their favorite fantasies; just look at some of the threads posted today. it's okay if you're another one, it's nothing new.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/18 05:22 AM
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yeah, you’ll show us for sure!!! there are no men who act or congregate in a subreddit to do and talk about doing just this already, after all!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/18 03:53 AM
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because that’s most comforting for you, duh.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/18 03:52 AM
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common sense and the things i said above, obviously.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/18 03:24 AM
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a Roy Moore accuser’s house just got burned down, iirc. while working, i’ve had people upset enough with me for not giving them what they want that they tracked me down online, and wouldn’t have a hard time finding out fairly personal things if they really tried. she’s not nearly as protected or well off as he is; absolutely stands to lose and risk more, because people are crazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/18 03:15 AM
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no, this is just terribly written. if you are a fan of the screeds at TRP, it makes sense you might not realize that, as those are also terribly written (but in different ways). it seems more like you’re so desperate to see women painted in a negative light that you would choose to believe this poorly written thing is true just to satisfy that need.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/18 01:18 AM
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nah, that makes sense the way it is; she’d have a lot more to lose/at risk by having her name released. does she have a ‘right’ to privacy? maybe not, same as him. but i don’t think it’s an issue that her name is private.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/18 01:12 AM
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Suddenly, if you're poor, socially awkward, discriminated unfairly against, or unattractive (or all of the above) a woman doesn't need to settle for you early in life or ever. a guy like this wouldn't have been successful in this 'way back when' either, though. not romantically, sexually, or otherwise. he wouldn't somehow 'win' an attractive partner or any partner at all; i don't think that was ever guaranteed to the type of man you described.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/18 11:28 PM
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some of this article is reasonable, but as mentioned elsewhere in this thread, he doesn’t have some right not to be talked about. she is allowed to share her story, they are allowed to write on it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/18 08:16 PM
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sounds like both contributed to a bad situation. he should have noticed/responded appropriately to her signs and statements of disinterest, and she should have gotten out of there ASAP when it got weird/beyond what she wanted.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/18 06:36 PM
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What do we do about this? not be so desperate for sex that you use this as an example of how to act all the time. also, what ridiculous writing on that post. that seems even more fake than the other open thread right now.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/18 02:53 PM
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edit your comment to appear serious about your question and i’ll edit mine to elaborate.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/18 02:16 PM
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these often tend to be fake so it wouldn’t surprise me if this was too. the thinking presented as being from a woman seems off to me, so it may even be yet another one written by a guy. if she’s having doubts over this encounter it’s probably for the best she splits with fiancé, IMO, or just really commits to that relationship and not letting this happen again. seems to me that if it’s not this guy, it’ll be someone else, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/18 02:07 PM
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oh wow; yeah, i can imagine it’s pretty crazy. just the little bits of 3D animation i did was pretty intense, and it was novice-level.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/18 01:58 AM
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would not be surprised if there were several subreddits like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/18 01:08 AM
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i haven’t done it since i was actually in art school... but might try working on an animation project soon 😊 i have missed getting to play with the software and general fun of it...
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/18 11:34 PM
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and just when i thought you embarrassed yourself enough in the first comment, we got an encore!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/18 08:35 PM
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Instrosepction wow
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/18 08:16 PM
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you don’t need a huge wedding, or a wedding at all. wanting to be able to walk away at any time is right up there with wanting to wait to take advantage of any future better opportunities (and you don’t just walk away from someone you actually love). you’re not disproving that men who don’t want to get married have a high chance of either not loving their partner or holding out for a better deal; that much is clear. we’re just going in circles as a result, so i’ll leave it here. my work is done.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/18 07:21 PM
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why would they be concerned about ‘binding legal resources contract’ (especially if it’s wanted by one part of the couple) if there was no concern about the future of the relationship, or the actions of the party wanting marriage? or, to put it another way, if it’s real love and you’re with the best person you could get with, why not get married (especially if they want to)? you are not proving or convincing me that there’s any reason except for not loving who you’re with that much, or holding o…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/18 07:10 PM
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Untrue. As one example, if I spend money on a video game, I'm more or less guaranteed what I paid for. And if it happens to be bad, I can actually trade it it in and get some money back for it. Less risk, more reward for spent time and money. that's not true either; just look at the outrage over microtransactions, or the reactions people have when online services for games get discontinued, resulting in a total loss of progress and in-game content. but we're not equating romantic relationships t…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/18 06:52 PM
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why is marriage a shitty situation in general for men? why are they happy where they’re at, instead of being married? what would marriage take away from them?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/18 06:21 PM
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what does that have to do with anyone else or ‘a lot of women’? what was this comment about a tiny tiny subset of people meant to contribute to the discussion?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/18 06:15 PM
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stumbled upon this today and thought it was an interesting read... the subject of ‘family’ comes up often when talking about dating, red flags, etc. and i’m usually one of the odd ones out since family closeness isn’t quite as high on my priority list... anyway, the article gave a lot of insight about ‘the other side’ that i end up being on here.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/18 06:04 PM
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does everyone see marriage exactly as you do, and if so, how did you confirm that?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/18 05:59 PM
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people do care, though. this wouldn’t be coming up at all if no one ever, anywhere, cared. it doesn’t matter if the country you live in views it differently or not. she also pointed out pretty clearly that the negativity surrounding illegitimate children isn’t solely about the legal claim aspect: There are many places where 80% of the children being bastards would be reason for shame. The place you grew up isn't that way, and that's great, but that doesn't change the reality of people who still …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/18 05:55 PM
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Even if it costs you your happiness? sounds to me that going ahead with things she doesn't want would have a greater negative impact on her happiness. if she doesn't need or want to compromise, what's wrong with that? if she went ahead with something she didn't want, not only would she be unhappy and stuck with an unwanted lifestyle/outcome, she would have compromised on her personal rules or principles and let herself down (and maybe people around her too, depending on how she views family, etc…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/18 05:18 PM
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I’m gonna sound really pretentious yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/18 02:52 AM
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interestingly, the tees and jeans seem far more problematic to me than tattoos. maybe i’m some weird hybrid of proper and not. sucks this happened to you either way, though :/
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/18 11:54 PM
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yeah, the denial is bizarre. you can think it’s distateful or just stupid, that’s fine, but denying it happens is just... wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/18 11:52 PM
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My issue that I'm guilty about is what I would do to take women, especially really pretty ones, off the pedestal: Imagining that they are all 18 years old/like children. The women are children thing makes beautiful women easier to talk to though. from here. you may do this now because you have a hard time not seeing women as inherently wonderful or superior, as you’ve claimed, but you are still making use of their advice and their way of thinking. the complaints absolutely do apply, then. if you…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/18 04:38 PM
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took longer than expected for the mad people to show up here.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/18 02:55 PM
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lol, upvoted
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/18 02:14 PM
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it’s not, not in the way i said. don’t talk to me about things you don’t understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/18 02:08 PM
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doubtful. it’s been going a while, to the degree that calling it a fad is really silly. no one’s upset if you don’t get a tattoo; it’s weird how mad some people get about others having or liking them.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/18 02:03 PM
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I think it was exactly what you said - and I know the shop that did it and will not go there. I still want a tattoo, but it does have to have some meaning to me or relation to my personality, but I'm just a poor bastard right now who's getting out of debt and going to motherfucking school (yeeeeeaaaaaahhhh bitches), so I can't really afford to drop a couple hundred on... skin paint, essentially. oh, i get that completely. and for some reason, my financial aid doesn't disburse until after classes…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/18 05:47 AM
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if you’re not from here or regularly spend extended (really extended) periods of time here, there’s nothing further to discuss. it’s a thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/18 05:01 AM
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it’s not that bad; i have color tattoos, i’ve lost a decent amount of weight, and no real problem so far. (granted, i’m really pale so i have had that avoiding-the-sun thing down for quite some time.) i do anticipate some fading with time, but it's not necessarily something that will happen super fast. i will eventually get old and saggy sure, but that was happening regardless. i’ll wear it with grace as long as i can and then succumb to my inevitable fate of being a grouchy old lady.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/18 04:03 AM
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i don't know for sure as i've never had to deal with that/don't know anyone who has, but i'd assume that was either really poor aftercare or a shop problem, honestly. Mercedes pretty much covered it; it's really easy to avoid infection so long as you take some basic steps to keep it clean.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/18 01:54 AM
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it just appeals to some people. i wanted them as soon as i knew what they were, and got my first the minute i turned 18. i stopped getting them recently to deal with some minor medical/house stuff that cost me, but as that gets wrapped up, i'll be right back at it. also, my body was never perfect nor did i ever think of it that way, lol. i don't think it's wrong for people to not want tattoos, but wanting and getting them isn't really that wild either.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/18 01:52 AM
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Do women assume things about men based on their looks? everyone assumes things about everyone else based on their looks, so yes. Are looks really that dependent on genetic factors for men? looks are that dependent on genetic factors for women too, though perhaps to a slightly lesser degree; makeup can be handy. it doesn't fix everything, though. Have you known other guys with an edgy/tattoo look that are good with women? depends on your definition of good, but generally yes. i have tattooed guy …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/18 01:44 AM
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this is such a bizarre thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/18 09:04 PM
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something's not adding up, honestly. either you hang out with crazy people, or you (or your friends) are really messing up the approach. this is not remotely a normal occurrence, so if it's happening regularly (as opposed to a silly drunk every now and then), it's gotta be one of those two things.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/18 09:03 PM
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you're also focusing specifically on burgers, and missing what i'm saying; a week of dollar menu food is still cheaper than grocery shopping for a variety of ingredients and different meals, which is what most people who do cook do. it's not insanely expensive, but it is more expensive and takes more effort so people who don't care about that won't bother.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/18 07:56 PM
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Sassy women, more "fun" women, etc. I feel like men would look over a woman's inability to cook well if she was pretty and had an engaging personality and complimentary interests. i don't agree that "fun" and "traditional" are mutually exclusive (so that's not what i'm talking about), but the OP definitely mentioned more than just BPD.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/18 07:54 PM
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you seem to have a problem with me based on this thread, i don't know why. you're also focusing specifically on burgers, and missing what i'm saying; a week of dollar menu food is still cheaper than grocery shopping for a variety of ingredients and different meals, which is what most people who do cook do. it's not insanely expensive, but it is more expensive and takes more effort so people who don't care about that won't bother. but, i don't care to put any effort beyond that into explaining th…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/18 06:07 PM
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most fast food places around me have a dollar menu, and it's easy to get, no planning needed, no cleanup, no keeping stuff in the fridge, and so on. it's not how i live, but if someone didn't give a shit about how to cook, wanted to keep things as fuss-free as possible, just wanted to eat and go about their business, that would make sense to me. it might be a little peculiar or questionable since it is different than how i live, but it wouldn't automatically inspire disgust in me or make me cons…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/18 05:35 PM
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among several other things, yet some people are zeroing in on that and ignoring the rest, apparently because it gives them more 'license' to talk trash. tiresome, pathetic.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/18 05:13 PM
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can't speak for people who literally don't know how to cook at all (and don't), but there's a lot that can be done with minimal skill these days. at least in the US, a lot of supermarkets make decent pre-packaged meals that you can just throw into the oven, complete with protein and vegetables, or things like soup meal kits and so on. services like blue apron are slightly more advanced, but still make it pretty easy shopping and cooking-wise. there are more decent takeout options in some places …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/18 05:11 PM
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i don't get how it's being interpreted as "going out and getting super smashed" either. what a limited, negative way of looking at it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/18 04:56 PM
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oh man, if people made a complaint thread each time someone tried to dismiss their arguments by outright calling them fat or ugly...
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/18 04:25 PM
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the mods aren't perfect, but i think the likelihood is high that you're selectively interpreting their responses to play the victim or feeling that "what i don't like" = rule violation (which isn't always the case). i'm sure you're not the only one, either; those that complain the loudest tend to have the same problem. i deal with this sort of thing off-reddit often, so it's pretty common to me and easy to identify (also probably why i stick up for the mods a little more than others). i don't pl…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/18 02:44 PM
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But it's perfectly ok for Blue commenters to say "jeez, who hurt YOU" and those Blue comments stay up EVEN WHEN REPORTED. When Reds make the same comments, they're routinely deleted. then take it to modmail to find out why? there's no way for me to comment further on that since i can't possibly know who reported what, when (something that i don't think even the mods can do, since reporting is anonymous). i've been here for a while, though, and there's always 1-2 people on either side that say th…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/18 02:33 PM
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... and then when the mods attempt to address this, there’s outrage at tighter rules, accusing them of being uptight haters of fun. i don’t see comments like that enough to bother me, but you could always either report or ignore them. pretty sure most people do one of those things and move on.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/18 12:44 PM
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yea but when women talk about their experiences with low quality men nobody claims that they just attract shitty guys. i guess it depends on who you surround yourself with, but people here say this often. it's the same for men and women. if you smell shit everywhere you go...
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/18 01:51 AM
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probably. a lot of people who suffer/suffered from mental illness end up being fascinating (and there are certainly terrible ones too). "mentally ill" is a big umbrella though; the focus on BPD here (in the sub, not just this thread) is odd.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/18 11:02 PM
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those aren't mutually exclusive, though. just like having a career and being a homemaker are not mutually exclusive. perhaps instead of cutting your mother out of her life or silencing that influence, try having a conversation with your daughter if you have concerns about some of the things she may or may not learn from your mother. you risk becoming the bad guy by alienating family like that and trying to destroy their relationship instead of communicating and having a dialogue with her. also, …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/18 10:24 PM
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i'll try to respond more in-depth once i have a little more energy to have another go at real advice... but this sort of thinking helped me a lot when i was getting over stuff. i didn't know about this quote, didn't read marcus aurelius, but it's a great way to think about introspection and how it can help. you may still see some really crap traits in people even after doing this. in fact, you probably will, because people who have crap traits exist and you're likely to encounter them multiple t…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/18 09:10 PM
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this OP is ridiculous. but that aside... the situation is creepy, but i wouldn't say the girls are, just for expressing interest. they aren't a threat just for doing that. a guy simply being friendly and blushing during a conversation isn't either. it may not even qualify as flirting, tbh. some people are just nervous/shy. it wouldn't surprise me if an overweight teen girl was self-conscious and shy, either. but, it seems like a very misguided move that's probably not going to end greatly for th…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/18 04:00 PM
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insane hyperbole nope.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/18 01:39 PM
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i should probably save it for the next time a situation comes up, haha. it's actually really tiring to write up and give out advice like this, the really personal kind.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/18 04:41 AM
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guess you weren't really watching then.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/18 04:26 AM
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really, if they're going to say that then superman, spiderman, batman, punisher, and countless other superheroes and protagonists are boring and dumb because they're driven by strong feelings/regrets/sadness related to their families. lotta people being real dumb about this, in both threads.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/18 03:55 AM
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it's not. it's right there in the movie.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/18 03:47 AM
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agreed. and even if he was weakened or going easy on her, she was still way less skilled; she mostly managed to fend off his swings while running. her fighting was sloppy, his was fairly smooth. i don’t know why everyone’s acting like she totally dominated the fight with perfect lightsaber skills/fighting.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/18 12:16 AM
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no, why would it be? how silly.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/18 10:48 PM
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the energy people are putting into trying to convince others that they’re upset about anything but some women being portrayed a little positively could be spent on so much more. also, the person i was replying to did talk about ‘can’t have women dying in battles’. understand that other people and their comments are also part of the discussion, not just you and yours.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/18 07:35 PM
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so you guys are mad when women don't die, and also when they do? lol. we didn't even know the names of most of the women that died, and their screen time was minimal. that wasn't about glorifying women; it was about the fight, and sacrifices made through the resistance's efforts. male pilots died too. claiming that no women died in battle is completely incorrect, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/18 07:15 PM
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instead, you should provide examples of movies that aren't like that. much quicker. you can name them, can't you? you wouldn't say something like that without being able to provide examples, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/18 07:06 PM
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i’m becoming less and less convinced you’ve even seen the film. lots of female pilots died, AND HOLDO
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/18 06:33 PM
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she barely got through her fight with Kylo; the difference in skill between them was glaringly obvious (and one of my favorite things about the movie because of the difference in fighting choreography/styles, which are always very well done). she fought Luke with the staff she’d already been using to defend herself for years. it’s been a bit since i saw it so i could be wrong, but i don’t remember her defeating Luke with a lightsaber at all; most of the fight involved her staff. i’m not 100% on …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/18 06:29 PM
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so mad.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/18 06:25 PM
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the resistance is not remotely all female.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/18 05:58 PM
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it’s not weird; he had a momentary lapse fearing that a new evil was arising. he killed no one, and it was literally just a moment of fear (which is completely understandable given all that he had faced in the past). there’s nothing out of place about that. it’s only viewers who want him to be an absolutely flawless character (that they probably idolized as children) that take issue with this to the point of outrage.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/18 05:55 PM
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weak, weak attempt at an argument. all characters are there to advance the story and move things along, which he did in really big ways. he’s a very well-loved character. so many people ITT just revealing how desperate they are to see men as victims, no matter what.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/18 04:57 PM
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well, then refer yourself back to my first comment. nothing else to say if you’re willfully making it out to be men bad, women good despite all the evidence otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/18 04:55 PM
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really. and i still don’t think presenting Kylo that way is anti-male; men and women have flaws, that’s it. i didn’t think Kilgrave was an anti-male creation either. you can point out that men have flaws without being anti-male. RPers and the like have no problem acknowledging flaws in men anyway, so long as they can either use them to present men as disadvantaged, or adopt them into whatever hero persona they're attributing to those men (like obstacles to overcome, and so on).
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/18 04:47 PM
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read the thread or check sublimemongrel’s posts; there’s a section detailing the flaws of the female characters.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/18 03:42 PM
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nah.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/18 02:51 PM
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there are witches and dragon-owning women obliterating armies in game of thrones, but you have a problem with Star Wars having female characters with some strengths and skills? k. you are set on abandoning sense just to promote the idea that the women are perfect; you’re ignoring their flaws entirely to fight that point, which is really sad. look closer for yourself and stop parroting whatever someone else is trying to hammer into your head.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/18 02:50 PM
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sure, they’re clairvoyant and planned to have a woman as the main character just to cash in on events happening years ahead of their planning that they totally foresaw. yeah, you’re right. that’s not an insane suggestion at all. you people will say anything, lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/18 02:45 PM
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you are blind if you don’t see men talking about how great sweet little Asian women are compared to those horrible bitchy Western sluts. go to any Asia-centered YouTube channel or news site and there it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/18 02:36 PM
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yeah, when you’re trying to save a universe, dating kinda goes on the back burner.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/18 05:57 AM
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i bet!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/18 05:54 AM
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no, that’s ridiculous. having scenes with humor doesn’t make him a useless bumbling space janitor sidekick; all of the characters had funny scenes, throughout nearly all the movies. his knowledge from being a stormtrooper was extremely valuable, not to mention just his general companionship with the other characters.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/18 05:51 AM
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He did Force himself into her mind and torture her in Force Awakens, etc. yeah, i bristled at that scene; it was... felt bad. and he does seem to toy with her emotionally sometimes, what with the whole withholding parental info thing, and then saying she's nothing, except to him. interesting. i'm probably somewhere between 1st and 2nd camp, but i can see where even the 3rd is coming from (and if they were a couple in reality, i'm sure i'd be staunchly in this group).
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/18 05:04 AM
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i want to say his speech involved pointing out that the escaping resistance members were going to die anyway (as they were in the midst of being attacked) and he seemed alright with it in wanting to start everything anew, but i'm not sure that he was actively wanting to go around 'cleansing' the world to achieve that end; he just seemed to be okay with letting both sides see their destruction through a natural course of events. the more i talk about this movie the less sure i am about what i rem…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/18 04:58 AM
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fair enough; that probably would have been smart. i'm just saying, she did have multiple conceivable reasons for choosing not to share her plan with him that lots of people seem to be ignoring because of their love for poe, and how she was presented as his antagonist. people in this thread are saying holdo was presented as this perfect hero, but i don't think the movie ignored that some sort of compromise between the two or different action by her could have led to a different end, either. holdo…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/18 04:51 AM
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linking their response to me here, since it was actually for you. it was annoying to see the 'problems' getting danced around so i chimed in, but that's about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/18 04:47 AM
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i didn't say anything about you, actually, but good to know who you stand with, i guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/18 04:41 AM
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"Probably"...... Gonna need a little more than that to even consider what you're saying. The Force Awakens was released 2 years ago. movies like this take huge amounts of planning and production, at least a year or two. there's no way they could just rush into suddenly choosing a female protagonist at the last minute. it doesn't work that way. i used "probably" since i didn't know the exact number of years off the top of my head, but generally major movies = major planning.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/18 04:34 AM
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everything you say
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/18 04:29 AM
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it's sad that people are choosing to see Finn as an imbecile just because he's not the leadiest of the leads. he was instrumental to things happening in both films and was a really, really well-loved character; why is this being ignored?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/18 04:27 AM
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Rey and Kylo is a whoooooole ‘nother can of worms, I see daily arguments about the ethics of it lol. I can elaborate if anyone’s interested. i am a little bit curious; i haven't seen much on this. despite really liking Kylo/Rey in TLJ, i can understand that view a lot more adding in/thinking back on TFA (and i remember some of those scenes making me uncomfortable, for that reason).
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/18 04:22 AM
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there have been some decent comments on this, ranging from the possibility of a spy on the ship (given the tracking), to poe being seen for what he is and suffering the consequences, to just a difference in how holdo operates vs. leia. i mean, poe is an aggressive risk taker, who had just ignored leia's orders (resulting in unnecessary casualties and his demotion) and then went on to make plans behind holdo's back and stage a mutiny. he's a wildcard, and iirc, they were in a pretty dire situatio…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/18 04:17 AM
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why don’t you just explain what problems a reasonable and intelligent man might have with the movie, if it’s not what she’s saying? so far, there’s little different from what she said in this thread, so if you’ve got something else, well, go on then.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/18 03:55 AM
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let me guess were you also mad when Star Wars games allowed gay romance
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/18 03:51 AM
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oh, good call! i will have to check it out... but only on a weekend where i can really get lost in reading :P watching it unfold was glorious so i’m sure i’ll want to consume as much more of it as possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/18 03:49 AM
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same. wanting this. i love their tension and connection.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/18 03:24 AM
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the planning for this probably happened several years ago, not magically now, and she’s not the first female protagonist ever so no, it isn’t suspicious.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/18 03:15 AM
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yeah, that’s totally what the whiners complaining about this are going to do, just as soon as they’re done ranting on the Internet... definitely then...
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/18 03:11 AM
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the problem is that you want everything to present women as wonderful so badly, to rail against it, that you can’t or won’t see anything else. shame; you’re missing out on so much, for so little reward.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/18 02:15 AM
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yes, on all fronts 😊 the jacket!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/18 02:08 AM
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that, and that she was small or something; they got mad about her super-strength and getting out of tough situations. but yeah, she’s deeply flawed, and pretty much every situation she survived ended up with people getting hurt because of her or her actions. it was insane to see the complaints. the best was when they were mad that trish, a woman, could fight any of those men during their kidnapping plan that one time. like the ultimate defeat of trish and jessica wasn’t intentional or making a p…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/18 12:55 AM
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but are you a real one
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/18 12:38 AM
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why are you refusing to acknowledge these as flaws? stop. they’re obviously flaws. your interpretation and refusal to acknowledge the depth and flaws of these characters is your real problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/18 12:37 AM
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it’s like when they got mad about Jessica Jones being too perfect or whatever, all over again.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/18 12:36 AM
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agreed. and i seem to be in the minority, but to be honest, i’ve never gotten the Finn/Rey chemistry/crush thing anyway. it’s always been apparent to me that they care about each other and are a fun duo, but i’ve just never felt the spark between them. i feel nothing more for them than i did for Rose/Finn (though i feel kind of meh about Rose, on her own, whereas i like Rey). am on board with Poe/Finn, though. that is actual chemistry.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/18 12:31 AM
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or anything where women have even the slightest hand in saving the day, even alongside men.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/18 12:27 AM
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yes, you are the single solitary person my comment was directed at. just you. no one else. good catch 💕
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/18 12:18 AM
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it’s ultimately just appearing that the loudest complainers about this are mad that anyone but white men have significant roles, and decide to class that as ‘feminist propaganda’. they can’t stand seeing more women or racial diversity. even in this sub that’s what it essentially boils down to. it’s happening in this thread, just like it has in past threads about movies. there’s some bizarre inability to accept strength, competency, or any redeeming qualities in characters that don’t fit this bil…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/18 11:25 PM
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i miss when it seemed like people could just enjoy a story and characters on their own merits, and not go over the top with either praise or criticism, trying to cram it into either a feminist or alt-right-whatever box. both types who do that are jerks ruining it for everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/18 09:44 PM
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compatible with you personality-wise this is sort of where the problem arises, though (depending on how you define personality). a person's preferences and views are parts of their personality, so even if they mesh really well with someone x, y, z ways, the a, b, c ways that they clash or don't mesh in still matter and have the potential to be dealbreakers. i wouldn't want to be with a high-N guy because it speaks to a difference in how we view intimacy, which is central to a romantic relationsh…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/18 09:06 PM
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i read your comments just fine, i simply don't care about whatever petty pride or 'masculinity' you're trying to use as justification for doing nothing about violations you find problematic (while casting blame on everyone but yourself and RP). the mods have already explained that they can't be everywhere, all the time, reading every single comment the second that it's posted. if you choose not to report it, ultimately, you can blame yourself for nothing being done. good job.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/18 04:36 PM
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I mean he talks against the rich but he owns three houses. a local radio DJ on a show i listen to also owns 3 houses (i think, might have sold one). i'm pretty sure one of my senior managers at work owns multiple properties in other countries. this is not something restricted to the rich.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/18 02:34 PM
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seems to be a lot of people here betting against you (shame on them) but... hold on to this feeling. as you said, even if this doesn't work out, now you know that what you thought was dead or impossible, isn't. it's a good step forward out of a sad and dark place. congrats 😁 edit: i do agree with those advising not to rush into things, though. some caution is still okay; giving things time to grow, getting to know her, and so on.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/18 02:24 PM
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seriously 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/18 01:31 PM
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