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heather80/r/RedPillWomen07/06/14 04:48 AM
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heather80/r/RedPillWomen07/11/14 08:21 PM
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So true, and it goes double for the latest “You’re just my sneaky link” videos I keep seeing on tiktok. Oh yes, sis, you give him free sex with no commitment, and he’s the one getting the bad end of the bargain? No.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/21 04:20 PM
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They aren’t “still together.” He doesn’t mind keeping her around for free sex, but he will bounce as soon as he finds someone he likes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/21 04:13 PM
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It’s very obviously satire. It is supposed to be making fun of single women who want too much,
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/21 04:15 AM
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But how will you get picked if you say anything that suggests some men aren’t up to your standards?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/20 11:43 PM
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Sis, at no point was dude sampling flavors to choose between you two. He would have kept it going with both of you until he got bored. He ain’t no good.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/20 05:30 AM
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There is no legitimate reason for FDS to be taken down. Point me to the posts advocating rape of men, or any sort of criminalization against men or women. This sub is just women encouraging each other to not settle for bullshit behavior from men. Not that all men have bullshit behavior, but that the ones that do aren’t worth our time. I wish I had found FDS sooner, because I spent many years as a pickme and I wish I would have known better.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 05:13 AM
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And all of the responses with laundry tips. 😔 Why is it always up to the woman to clean up after a man’s bad behavior? LEAVE HIM GIRL.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/20 08:34 PM
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Really any “I love anal” girl.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/20 02:18 AM
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I can definitely relate. I’m allergic to peanuts. One time, at a friend’s house, I saw a jar of peanut butter on the counter, stuck my finger in it, and guess what was in there? Fucking peanut butter! How could I have known? The world’s a dangerous place.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/20 10:34 AM
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Bar passage rate 😳😬
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/20 07:04 AM
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boyfriend She’s going to wind up in a diaper for a man who hasn’t even put a ring on it. Smh. 🤦‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/20 05:20 AM
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Girl. I was such a pickmeisha.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/20 05:17 AM
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When you find his online dating profile that has been active within the last 24 hours but you haven’t heard from him for three days.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/20 06:27 AM
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Makes a great salary but says he doesn’t want to go out to dinner anymore because he wants to “save money.” Suggests you cook.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/20 06:25 AM
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Thanks, G, for the great opportunity to give you sex without even the hope of a commitment. What a find.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/20 05:48 AM
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Is it any different from what men do? Lots of guys marry after years of sowing wild oats.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/17 10:38 PM
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He so wishes.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/17 11:31 PM
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That's so gross. First, most teen girls are not thinking about marriage at all, but even if they were, there are plenty of decent men in their 20s or early 30s. You WISH you were going to get a hot teen in your 60s.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/17 11:29 PM
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Keep telling yourself that. Teens aren't interested in middle aged men unless they are gold diggers or being manipulated.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/17 11:26 PM
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It's about as real as the male wall....being under 6ft or certainly under 5'10.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/17 11:25 PM
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I had just turned 35. I was looking pretty good, and I have my life together, but I really believed I needed a man to complete the picture. I was really unsatisfied in that relationship and ended up abandoning my diet and gaining a lot of weight. I was trying so hard to make it work, ignoring about seven red flags. My takeaway is that if due to my age or other factors I am that unlikely to find a good partner, I will just be single. I can't go through another bad relationship. But I am a bit lon…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/16 08:14 PM
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You are right. I just bought into this idea that I needed to not be picky, and I thought he was as good as I could get. And maybe he is. But I would rather be alone than settle for a guy I'm just not compatible with.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/16 07:53 PM
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I mean, he was an extremely heavy drinker. Like 18 beers a night. When someone drinks that much, it demands a lot of time. We dated for nine months, and the only time we spent together was at his place, where he would get shit faced. I guess we'd try to watch movies or whatever, but he had to get up every 10 minutes to go smoke outside or go get another beer, or go pee. I don't drink at all. When he was really drunk, sex was either impossible or just very unenjoyable. I still cooked for him, kep…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/16 06:50 PM
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One started online dating behind my back while we were exclusive. When I confronted him, he said he loved me and snared to be with me but also wanted to explore his options. I couldn't accept that. The other guy just stopped giving a shit. He didn't appreciate all the things I did for him and didn't seem like he wanted to be wth me.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/16 02:25 AM
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When I'm in a relationship, I want to have sex with my boyfriend at least daily. I wouldn't be in a relationship if I didn't. But my past two boyfriends ended up disappointing me. One of them I still have feelings for. Neither one lost "SMV" or whatever, in neither case was there another man in the picture. I left because I couldn't tolerate how they were treating me. I left to be single, which to me is highly preferential to being with a man but unhappy.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/16 08:46 PM
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I have no idea of they fuck or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/16 08:40 PM
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There is always a woman who wants a boyfriend. Women want to be in relationships. I see men who are 2s in relationships all the time. Some of them don't work. They are unattractive. They are short, or fat, or deformed in some way. And yet they are cohabitating, or married. I can think of several examples where the women support them. I'm single, never been married, and I simply cannot fathom what the women get out of these relationships. Maybe it is just companionship. Maybe they don't want to b…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/16 07:52 PM
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No, those guys are creeps. There are constant posts about very young teen girls, how much sex they are having or should be having.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/16 05:14 AM
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very young teens You guys really need help.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/16 08:06 PM
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I find the RP fascination with very young teens to be so creepy. And the age stuff in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/16 04:35 PM
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That's a really stupid thing to say. Do you understand how few rapists ever even go to prison? Look at all the steps: 1) Woman has to contact police and press charges. Most don't. 2) Police take it seriously and investigate. 3) Prosecutors have to think they have a good enough case to win or they drop the case. 4) Prosectors have to resist the temptation to offer a plea with no jail time. 5) If a he said, she said goes to trial, 12 people have to believe the accuser. Most cases don't even make i…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/16 11:38 PM
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Yes, but you seemed to assert that I would regret adopting at some point, and I am attempting to explain why that is not likely to be the case.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/16 02:25 AM
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Contrary to your view marriage has plenty of benefit to women, prestige, the big day/clothes/reception etc. and alimony if they get divorced Prestige - I'm not sure about what this means. I don't feel like people look down on me for being single. The Big Day - I don't ever want a wedding. They are a waste of money. There is a chance I will marry some day, but there is no chance I will have a big wedding, or even a small wedding. So the possibility of having "my big day," does nothing for me. Ali…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/16 02:02 AM
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Do you have anyone in your life you would die for? I would die for my child. I love her beyond measure. It's puzzling to imagine anyone thinking I will regret adopting her if I remain single the rest of my life. I see so many women in marriages I do not envy. They work outside of the home as well as do 95% of the household duties and childcare. Sometimes, they are the breadwinners. They tearfully confess that their husbands have been unfaithful, or are abusing alcohol, or drive them deep into de…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/16 12:11 AM
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Oh, no regrets at all, and I won't. Are you a parent? The love between a child and a mother is forever. I'll put it this way: I see more moms happy with their kids than wives happy with their husbands.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/16 09:55 PM
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I'm a single woman and adopted a child. I do worry that men will think I got pregnant out of wedlock. I understand that me having a child might be a deal breaker to a lot of men, but I have no regrets about adopting.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/16 03:35 AM
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More and more likely to win? What polls are you reading? He is doing so bad that Hillary is competitive in a couple of deep South states.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/16 07:10 AM
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She's 280 if she's about 5 feet tall. She is beautiful but looks closer to 350-380 to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/16 07:53 AM
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Are you somehow saying it is easier dating as a obese male than as an obese female? Maybe it is easier for a fat woman to get NSA sex, but as far as relationships? Fat men are viewed as teddy bears. I see fat men with skinny to average women all the time. A wife might get fat over the years, but in couples new to a relationship, if the woman is fat, the man is fat, too.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/16 07:51 AM
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You are crazy if you think fat women have more options for dating/marriage than fat men. Every fat 35 year old man I know is married. Maybe not married to a "10," but married nonetheless.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/16 10:58 PM
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Absolutely true.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/16 12:24 AM
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I meant, it was putting it mildly, to say the least. Like when extremely obese women say, "Im no size 2." Yeah, no shit. You aren't even a 22.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/16 04:06 AM
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I was settling.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/16 12:50 AM
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My ex used to say, "I'm not Channing Tatum," and he was very unattractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/16 12:12 AM
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I often find that "not looking for a relationship" precedes the unspoken "with you." If a total 10 unicorn wanted to be his girlfriend, he might have a change of heart. I would next him.
/r/RedPillWomen04/05/15 12:49 AM
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His mom had him at 44, so I don't think he's that worried. He said we could have as many as we could naturally and then consider adopting.
/r/RedPillWomen09/11/14 02:00 AM
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Oh, I'm fat. No question. He says I'm beautiful (I'm definitely pretty), and that if I want to lose weight, he'll help me. He says, "I like bigger women, there's nothing wrong with how you look." He knows I want to please him and take care of his needs. I think he likes that quality.
/r/RedPillWomen08/11/14 02:23 AM
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He's really not. He's very strong, definitely gets his way and what he wants. He's very successful. By far, he's the captain between us. Perhaps since he likes an overweight post-wall woman you judge that he cannot be alpha?
/r/RedPillWomen08/11/14 12:47 AM
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Yes, we are exclusive. He said he only wanted to be considered for relocation/title-bump in the spring if I was willing to move with him. I think I'm single because I avoid dating. I'm overweight, which has always made me feel unworthy of male attention. I've been a home body for years. I don't want to live like that anymore.
/r/RedPillWomen08/11/14 12:37 AM
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Well, I distinguish between RPW and RP. I've never said anything negative about RPW. I think there are some RP comments that are vile. I didn't post there, I posted here. I think most RPW are focused on self-improvement and building a LTR. Not necessarily the case on RP.
/r/RedPillWomen08/11/14 12:29 AM
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Valid
/r/RedPillWomen07/11/14 08:27 PM
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I don't think women should stick to their own race. The author of the article clearly does, because he is clearly a white man targeting white women.
/r/RedPillWomen01/07/14 12:10 AM
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No, he means he (and men in general) should feel free to sample all of the 31 flavors, but that women (especially white women) should stick to white men.
/r/RedPillWomen30/06/14 12:11 AM
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Well thanks. Your original comment was disgusting, and I appreciate your edit.
/r/RedPillWomen13/06/14 06:19 PM
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If TRP and RPW commissioned a song to embody RP ideology, they could do no better than Cater 2 U by Destiny's Child. Don't believe me? Here is the link and the lyrics. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=juqws1LIH-I Baby, I see you working hard I want to let you know I'm proud Let you know that I admire what you do Don't know if I need to reassure you My life would be purposeless without you If I want it (You got it) When I ask you (You provide it) You inspire me to be better You challenge me for th…
/r/RedPillWomen13/06/14 04:42 AM
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Everything you said about how terrible my life will end up may be true. But I can tell you one thing: I am happy enough with myself that I don't need to tear someone down to make myself feel better. You are a single man, and you are clearly very angry. There has got to be some other place to take all of that aggression than a dormant thread that was resolved several days ago.
/r/RedPillWomen12/06/14 02:56 AM
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Exactly. Thank you.
/r/RedPillWomen07/06/14 08:27 PM
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We can agree to disagree. I think it is very generous of you to take the time to engage in a back and forth with me, and I thank you for sharing your opinion.
/r/RedPillWomen07/06/14 08:24 PM
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Again, I don't know what is giving you that idea. Please don't project on to me whatever notions you have about single women.
/r/RedPillWomen07/06/14 05:50 PM
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Agreed.
/r/RedPillWomen07/06/14 04:27 PM
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I see why you think that, but it isn't the wage he earns, it is that he is working what even he describes as a dead end job that gives me pause. Yes, he is employed. It does put him a step ahead of the homeless, but it doesn't mean he has drive.
/r/RedPillWomen07/06/14 03:56 PM
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I'm definitely glad I posted. I got a lot of good advice, and I agree with the general consensus here - that he either isn't that into me, or that he is a BP. I can't change my age, so even if my options are limited to almost nothing, I'm not so desperate that I am going to be happy with a BP guy.
/r/RedPillWomen07/06/14 03:51 PM
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Respectfully, I don't think that's true at all, and I don't even see how you got that from my post. There's no list here.
/r/RedPillWomen07/06/14 03:47 PM
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You are correct. I don't financially need a provider. But I want a man who wants to be head of the household, even if he makes less money. I want a leader. If he made as much as I at his job (and who knows, he might, I'm a school teacher, not a CEO), it would still concern me that at 34 he has not a good idea of what he wants to do professionally, and is looking forward to being a student until 40. And even THEN, I might be able to overlook those red flags if I saw some sort of drive in his pers…
/r/RedPillWomen07/06/14 03:43 PM
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I don't. But I need to see some semblance of drive. If I wanted to be the leader in the relationship, I wouldn't be here.
/r/RedPillWomen07/06/14 03:39 PM
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Thanks for making me literally laugh out loud.
/r/RedPillWomen07/06/14 09:37 AM
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Hmmm. I respect your opinion, but I think I am going to give up on this one. I don't mind imperfect...heck, I'm imperfect. And sure, I could make excuses for him easily, but to what end? He's passive at best and uninterested at worst, and that isn't likely to change.
/r/RedPillWomen07/06/14 08:48 AM
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Absolutely. I want to be in a supporting role, but not to someone incapable of leading me. And if a man can't lead in his own life, he can't lead someone else.
/r/RedPillWomen07/06/14 08:33 AM
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Sadly, if I'm being honest with myself, I was never physically attracted to him, and there were certainly no tingles. But that didn't matter to me. If he had shown an interest, I would have been all too happy to devote myself to him entirely. Yikes, how sick is that? I am moving on. Thank you very much.
/r/RedPillWomen07/06/14 08:25 AM
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Thank you for replying and for being candid. I think you are probably right. Ugh.
/r/RedPillWomen07/06/14 05:31 AM
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