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Conversationheccy-b/r/seduction09/01/26 08:48 PM
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Outer Game heccy-b/r/seduction12/04/26 02:18 PM
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Conversationheccy-b/r/seduction23/12/24 10:28 PM
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You put that nicely fr. I am listening and I agree with everything you say. But when these patterns simply continue and I cannot seem to catch a break, then at point - for me that point was last night - emotions start to boil over and I can't just say to every shit that happens to me "it's okay, don't take it personal, it's just an unlucky moment etc." or whatever. Not sure how to go from here anymore. Controlling emotions is draining my mental energy, but all good... I will recover once again
/r/seduction12/04/26 06:26 PM
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what else then?
/r/seduction12/04/26 06:23 PM
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Anyone has a chance fr
/r/seduction12/04/26 06:22 PM
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Look, even online I can tell you’re giving off negative vibes. Yeah, that's the intention lmao. Sorry for ranting, I will go on a yoga zen trip now for 7 days to calm down, excuse me
/r/seduction12/04/26 06:21 PM
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It sucks, I just wanna catch a break and have a positive experience again with a woman. Well, I want women because I am attracted to them, which is quite natural as a hetero sexual guy? We are nothing else but animals that want to bump bodies at the end of the day. Unfortunately, I can't turn that off. I agree with the flirting and dancing part. I probably can improve there. But in the past, I've had situations where just being myself was enough (for instance abroad). Not sure why I have been ha…
/r/seduction12/04/26 06:02 PM
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then don't approach me? But yeah all good. Seems like I wasn't dancing the way she wanted me to or whatever. On the other hand, she was moving like a tree lmao. All good, me getting mentally abused by such bs really shows how stupid I am
/r/seduction12/04/26 05:57 PM
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Yeah sure... it's best to just live like a bot and not have feelings at all. I always go out with the only reason to enjoy myself and hang around with my friends listening to music and to dance. Occasionally it happens that women get in the way of that and mess it up with bullshit as described in my post. But hey all good, next time a girl approaches me at a night club, I will tell her I am gay, so I cannot get my feelings hurt, or I gotta think of something else that helps "me not to take it pe…
/r/seduction12/04/26 05:55 PM
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It sounds contradicting but just because she was dancing with me doesn't mean she is not stuck up. Literally showed 0 character. All good. I learned today that her behavior is totally okay if that's what she desires and it is my mistake for thinking that a girl that approaches ME actually would take me serious as a human being! :)
/r/seduction12/04/26 05:49 PM
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Sure, she doesn't owe me shit, all good. However, I got values and set boundaries somewhere. If a girl wants to literally dance with any guy on the dance floor, sure, go ahead, but stay away from me in that case lol
/r/seduction12/04/26 05:47 PM
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Agree. Honestly, I learned a lot over the last few years and it's funny I keep being annoyed about the same patterns. You gotta "close the deal" quickly: make out at the club or bring her home. Anything else (exchanging numbers etc) is just hot air and just gives the woman time to think how to disappoint someone like in my case
/r/seduction12/04/26 05:42 PM
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Me being pushy? She approached me lol .. but nevermind. You are right. The other guy "won". Good for him! She seems like a good, loyal girl lmao
/r/seduction12/04/26 05:40 PM
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It’s still functioning, but yeah, a pity I can’t use it for more than peeing
/r/seduction16/01/26 04:33 PM
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Nothing
/r/seduction11/01/26 06:30 PM
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Just because it works for others and you are born there doesn’t mean it’s the right place for you… but yeah, in general, NYC gives you many opportunities
/r/seduction10/01/26 10:36 AM
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Dude, moving to Colombia is like changing the dating settings to "easy". Smart move if you ask me.
/r/seduction09/01/26 09:20 PM
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Honestly, yeah, it does sound like that.
/r/seduction09/01/26 09:18 PM
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Nah it's not. Get this: Nothing really is wrong with you. You're welcome my guy always here for you
/r/seduction09/01/26 09:14 PM
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Factors are especially: people's mindset and culture. For instance, imagine being an extroverted person living in an introverted culture. That is hell basically. London could be a good fit for you, especially because your ethnicity is represented in some way and people are much more open-minded, at least I would assume, compared to rural areas or smaller cities. But this should not say that any bigger city is better. Also, depends on what you are into. I've met most of my dates in nightlife and …
/r/seduction09/01/26 09:12 PM
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Well, if you have success, there's no issue. You know where you can have success and not. Others don't even realize the impact of their surroundings and think something's wrong with them.
/r/seduction09/01/26 09:07 PM
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Is it that obvious? lol
/r/seduction09/01/26 08:56 PM
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Dublin is a fun place, and the girls are fun! That’s why you are definitely right about it being a good place.
/r/seduction10/07/25 07:06 AM
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Yeah cos the chicks there are like an LA 2
/r/seduction09/07/25 10:18 PM
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What about the job? The job has nothing to do with this. There’s even beautiful women at my job but I’m not attracted to them at all. My T levels are good, I’m working out all the time. I travel all the time and every time I’m gone my libido is crazy again because I’m surrounded by girls that are actually my type. There’s just something that turns me off so much about where I am right now. 99% of the girls here look the same.
/r/seduction23/12/24 11:01 PM
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Dude, i got the same exact situation. It’s a mindfuck tbh. I have a cute colleague at work and met her randomly on the train as we have the same train ride back home. Last night, we sat there and talked for the entire train ride. She seemed genuinely interested and asked me so many questions about myself. We were vibing - at least I’ve felt like it. I asked for her number at the end and she gave it to me, texted her, no sign of life so far. If she was acting and gave me her number just so she do…
/r/seduction06/08/22 12:52 PM
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Swiping on everyone? I did that a few times yeah. I deleted my tinder and I don’t wanna upload it anytime soon cause I’m focusing right now on getting my life right, college and work take up a lot of time and focus. But thanks for the offer, once I’m done with everything I’ll get back to tinder and try it again
/r/seduction28/11/20 02:22 PM
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I did ask myself that question as well and I tried a lotta things like changing my pics and all that. I honestly can tell you it's not my looks. Something interesting is that when I changed my location and was being shown to girls from other regions, I actually got plenty of likes. I have no idea why tho, i guess the girls in my city don't find me attractive enough huh. Another thing is that most girls that I matched with were just not my type and honestly not attractive.
/r/seduction27/11/20 08:51 PM
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Ahh lol. It feels like I'm being shadow-banned on tinder and bumble and all other dating apps I've tried are just full of bots. In case you don't know what shadow-ban means: you are basically using the app but you get no likes or only very few ones. And often you get matches that don't answer or a simply fake accounts/bots. I have no idea how I caused the ban, I guess it's because I deleted and created a new account and did this a few times over months, cause I always delete the apps and end up …
/r/seduction27/11/20 08:44 PM
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What? Cause I said it?
/r/seduction27/11/20 09:42 AM
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She might cause those kinda girls play around with our feelings. I was in a similar situation once, completely blocked contacts afterwards and then she contacted me and tried to talk to me like nothing ever happened. Those girls are psychos honestly they don’t know shit about feelings
/r/seduction21/11/20 06:07 PM
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You feel stuck? You should feel free like a bird right now lol. Work on yourself and forget her. She’s the past now. It will take some time until you have lost her from your mind, but you will move on. I recommend deleting her contacts and absolutely not getting in touch with her, not even a little bit. The more you look at her and see her number or something like that, it will take longer to move on. Just focus on yourself and you’ll find another gf. It’s not a miracle to happen, there’s billio…
/r/seduction20/11/20 04:10 PM
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Big facts right here.
/r/seduction20/11/20 04:07 PM
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I never have the balls to smile at a girl that I catch looking at me. It seems creepy af imo. I just never felt like approaching a girl on the train or similar to that is appropriate and I never felt comfortable with it. If a girl looks at me on the subway and thinks I’m cute, then she should give ME a hint, walk closer to me or something like that. Otherwise the approaching can go really awkward. I can’t tell how often I caught a girl glancing at me (in a night club), I approached her, and she …
/r/seduction15/11/20 11:09 PM
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I’m saying the same to myself. It’s a great time to forget dating and focus on our lives. But then again, I’m super lonely and kinda have this urge to go on a date or simply get to know someone, you know? Unfortunately, dating apps suck for me - I don’t get many likes for some reason and the matches I get are weird. I guess it’s time to focus on our selves!
/r/seduction15/11/20 12:28 AM
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