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| 1 | How to handle this situationThis post seems old now, but my MIL is doing the same thing to my SIL, but she doesn't have a man in her life. You are the man of the house, so some subtle suggestions. What else can I do to make my requests taken seriously? Strong men don't make requests, they take action. I told my wife that she’s an enabler No she's not, you are. You both don't want him there but are enabling him. So, don't blame her, take responsibility for your household. Tell HIM "You're my wife's father and I love you… | /r/askMRP | 02/12/21 06:52 PM |
| 1 | My Plate’s 100 Dates Challenge but wants a steady supplyu/hollabomb It was a shit test! LOL. She tried to see if you'd get jealous, checking to see if you got any feelz. Since she isn't a "tik tok influencer" already, it's just a bunch of crap. As other's said, she feels the wall coming and gauging you for an LTR. It's the opposite of the "pregnancy call" but the same desired effect, trying to make you SOGOTP. Make sure you don't use the condoms she gives you anymore, bring your own! | /r/askTRP | 30/11/20 08:42 PM |
| 4 | 5x5 Stronglift QuestionI've been using SL5x5 for a long time. It works for me for the most part and I do it Sun, Tue, and Thu. It does not however provide enough arm, chest, or abs, so on Mon, Wed, and Friday I do cardio and focus on those other areas. As far as it being for "beginners" it's not really true although, the app itself is assuming you don't lift. Adjust the weight to what you feel comfortable. Typically take your 1RM x 80%. WHat you need to understand is STRENGTH vs HYPERTROPHY. To build a lot of power, y… | /r/askMRP | 11/11/20 07:54 PM |
| 1 | Lifting during Covid?I've had COVID, it wasn't shit. Bit of a fever, annoying dry cough for couple days. Good news is now I have antibodies. This is a bigger problem: she's expressed that she needs to be in a bigger place badly due to how crowded it is in here. So bringing in the equipment could blow up the relationship You're living in HER FRAME. Is her value higher than yours? Why you have her feelz of being crowded as being more important than your being swole and juicy? I'd move them in without warning to make a… | /r/askMRP | 06/10/20 09:01 PM |
| 1 | an idea I want to flesh out before posting on RPC 'proper (didn't know that was a thing)', already banned on r/MensRights, what's my RPC heresy?I agree, that was hard to read brother. Whole thing feels like one giant run on sentence and it was hard to keep the thoughts separate. | /r/askRPC | 05/06/20 01:53 PM |
| 7 | Finally Divorced*doubt* | /r/askMRP | 08/05/20 07:41 PM |
| 2 | Wife wants me to take her back and I'm torn.Become the best version of yourself and all your options are better. | /r/askMRP | 07/05/20 02:10 AM |
| 5 | Wife wants me to take her back and I'm torn.How is this not the top comment? You, u/LazerSpin are and always were the problem here. If you knew how to be stoic, DARE, or at least STFU you would have never had a fight with her a day in your life. Should you leave her? Probably because you will trust the fate of the relationship on her promises to be a good wife that are as good as words written on a sandy beach. Then you will "kick the can down the road" to another woman who will audition for wife, realize you're the bitch, and repeat. Ins… | /r/askMRP | 06/05/20 02:59 PM |
| 2 | Wife wants a career? Ruining thingsshe wants to start selling on beauty products on Facebook. FTFY: "She is bored and wants to spend $3000 on makeup and let her friends on facebook know about it and quit after six months because a friend of hers just did the same thing and doesn't want to be the only one scammed" | /r/askMRP | 23/04/20 01:53 PM |
| 2 | Sidebar in a PDF?At LEAST get Audible so they get SOMETHING | /r/askMRP | 20/04/20 02:29 PM |
| 1 | Tried everything, deep in 11 year porn addictionSure | /r/askRPC | 10/04/20 01:41 PM |
| 1 | Want to make my girl more sexual and dirtySorry this is coming a couple days later u/nrtthrowaway So far I haven't fully verbalised and went full on " Hey, do this or that". Usually I go with plausible deniability or with flirting So, you aren't telling her exactly what you want, you're being a nice flirty guy and hoping she will somehow read your mind and give you what it is that you "really want". Bruh, this is a textbook case of COVERT CONTRACT. Read the sidebar. I do lead but I'm not pleased with how she follows Vague men get va… | /r/askMRP | 06/04/20 08:19 PM |
| 8 | Best book in the bible to start with for a non-believerJohn | /r/askRPC | 03/04/20 05:24 PM |
| 8 | How did you learn good text game?Exactly. Here's an example from yesterday: Wife is texting about something while cooking. So I tell her to send me a picture whatever she wants me to kiss. She replies "Meh". I'm flirting with her and she give me a classic shit test. Old version of my would have been butthurt, discouraged, could have been offended, or who knows what. That reaction is still in me, but I brush it off and instead, I reply "oops sorry, wrong person". Teasing her more, remaining playful, having an abundant mindset, l… | /r/askMRP | 02/04/20 02:54 PM |
| 2 | Tried everything, deep in 11 year porn addictionu/strivingfortruth116 I first found porn when I was about 4 years old and was a slave to it for years. Couple questions from an OG here. I have some really easy questions, then maybe later, some really hard ones, but I am hoping you can come to the same realization on your own. When and where are you looking at the porn? What devices or media are you using? Who else knows about this IRL? How is your social life, finances, school, work, family, etc? How often do you read the word? How often are y… | /r/askRPC | 30/03/20 08:20 PM |
| 1 | Should I respond to my ex-wife's text message?Full disclosure to my other comments, he IS overthinking the whole thing | /r/RPChristians | 27/03/20 04:35 PM |
| 2 | Should I respond to my ex-wife's text message?emailed him to ask what he'd like me to do with it You could have just mailed it, dropped it off at the bank, or chose to say nothing. Instead you opened up a dialog. Something that required a response to your message. No doubt you were feeling some anticipation about his reply. Curious about his demeanor. Wondering what feelz you'd have while reading it. If you really didn't "give it any thought", you'd have tossed it in the garbage years ago. Why even hang on to it so long in the first place? … | /r/RPChristians | 27/03/20 04:33 PM |
| 2 | Should I respond to my ex-wife's text message?Her text: This is a bid for attention. I am sure you were a "nice guy" husband and she could always get your attention to vent all her feelz onto you while soaking up all your attention. I am sure she misses that. Why now: The wall. It hits every woman. Her hypergamy told her should could do better and maybe she had a guy in mind already, but for many reasons, she might now be actually seeing you as her best option. Your income is there and you haven't moved on, you are probably fatter and less … | /r/RPChristians | 26/03/20 09:49 PM |
| 2 | Going to the club as a ChristianI think going to the clubs is single-handedly the best thing to help you master social dynamics While I agree on the premise that it is a good place to sort of practice with very very low risk and a chance to improve skills and build confidence, it isn't without it's drawbacks. The thing is, that women in the club have a completely different level of initial inhibitions, sense of their value, presuppositions about your intent, as well as their own agenda too. For example, it is naturally assumed… | /r/askRPC | 24/03/20 03:19 PM |
| 3 | Is it weird for me to require a virgin or nobody?Is it weird for me to require a virgin or nobody? Not if this is the full context, but it isn't. Wanting to find someone who is a virgin because you are one yourself and wanting to be equally yoked is a great concept and a noble one. However that isn't what is going on with you. Drawing from your other posts and this one, you are actually the one with issues, not them. You reveal that your motives aren't that you want a woman to be pure because you are, rather you are getting insecure and feelin… | /r/askRPC | 23/03/20 03:10 PM |
| 6 | I'm in the early stages o have alot to work on here's my story.just got TWOTSP Skip it for now, read Rational Male by Rollo Tomassi first. You got a serious anger phase coming and RM will help you process it and understand what's up better. I assume you are talking about The Way Of The Superior Male, that is more for someone already doing pretty well trying to improve their game and take it to the next level, you're in a rebuilding mode. You need to work on the basics. I have lifted 5x/week for 7 years Use big weights. Leaves you sweating your ass off and… | /r/askMRP | 17/03/20 10:22 PM |
| 7 | What advice to give to my dad?and post the video!? | /r/askMRP | 16/03/20 02:50 AM |
| 2 | Does plausible deniability & hypergamy absolve women’s sins?It's been my personal experience that a woman will do something that she has already justified in her mind and will stick to her thought process no matter how flawed it is. Conversely, men will do a thing more thoughtlessly or impulsively, then justify it later and/or admit his error. Hence, many married men have apologized countless times themselves, but can count on one hand how many times they have received an apology from their wife. LOL, just look at pop and country music. Ton's of female s… | /r/askRPC | 09/03/20 07:00 PM |
| 7 | Does plausible deniability & hypergamy absolve women’s sins?Does plausible deniability & hypergamy absolve women’s sins? PD is something that isn't unique to women trying to absolve themselves from sin. The first examples are found in genesis when God asked Cain about his brother Abel and he replies "Am I my brother's keeper?". Everyone does this from the man clearing his browser history or washing his junk before coming home to his wife to the woman lying about her notch count because there wasn't a witness to corroborate the story. Do they even know … | /r/askRPC | 09/03/20 03:17 PM |
| 4 | ConfusedYou are not in the right subreddit, God bless you. Try r/truechristian | /r/RPChristians | 09/03/20 02:02 AM |
| 5 | I guess my main event is going to be today.What is a main event? I like to think of it as the end of the 1000ft rope. At this point, you should already be completely identifying and passing shit tests. You should be in shape, dressing better, smelling better, gaming better, and other women should know it, and you should know that they know it. You should have changed directions from being on the faggot train and now on the Alpha express. Full stop. If you aren't owning your end, you are just a faggot who has said one too many dad jokes w… | /r/askMRP | 06/03/20 09:47 PM |
| 1 | Seriously doubting my faith - Where do I turn?"shrug off my doubts" and move on believing in God anyways Let me reword this a little bit. What you are implying is to "soldier on" with "blind faith" and that's not at all what I mean. What I recommend doing is locking yourself in a room or on a mountain top and speak to God as if he's right there and say "I'm not moving until you reveal yourself to me because I HAVE to know that you are there, that you hear me, and that you love me" and pour out every single doubt, disappointment, resentment,… | /r/askRPC | 04/03/20 03:38 PM |
| 8 | Semen and vasectomyNot me, but my neighbor got snipped and his wife still got pregnant. To make it even weirder the kid turned out to be black and they are both white. The vasectomy must have changed his DNA or something because she told him she'd never cheat on him and he believes her. | /r/askMRP | 03/03/20 05:27 PM |
| 2 | Seriously doubting my faith - Where do I turn?I got bad news and I got good news. Bad news. None of the scientific facts found in the bible or testimony of other men will do that much for you. When doubt comes in, it doubts everything and everyone you know, so all new evidence will be met with skepticism. Like m meeting an honest politician, lol! I won't believe them for a minute. Good news. There is only one way you can know for sure. From God himself. Jesus makes a claim that is beyond impossible and no other god even attempts. He said "i… | /r/askRPC | 02/03/20 02:15 PM |
| 1 | How do I embrace rational egoism while killing my ego?Be humble enough to admit you need to improve and avoid ego-investment into flawed ideas and flawed people that hold you down. Then prioritize your own happiness because you and you alone are responsible for your success in all aspects of life. | /r/askMRP | 26/02/20 09:33 PM |
| 7 | Really struggling with turning down non-christian women. Not sure how best to turn them down. Just need some encouragement.Thank you for saying this, I was wondering if anyone else thought this. First off, ALL women in the gym dress like that, to assume she isn't a Christian based on that is presumptuous, especially since you were checking her out yourself. Without asking, you really can't say what her experience is with Jesus or what God's will is. See the book of Hosea. Secondly, if you are a man of integrity, you should be able to hang out with her and find out by talking to her. Attraction is important too. God … | /r/RPChristians | 25/02/20 03:52 PM |
| 3 | How to deal with Admin. Assistant?smash a HB5 FTFY: smash a "wall-smashed" HB5 | /r/askMRP | 25/02/20 03:24 PM |
| 3 | A little help - advice on aftermath of big fightYour missing the concept with Dread. Covert Contract is a man chasing a woman. Doing things and expecting her to reciprocate because of them. It is an attempt at negotiating attraction. Think of a puppy begging for a treat. The human has all the value and power and the dog is needy, begging, and has no real leverage. Like the human, this makes a woman even more aware of her power as the sexual gatekeeper and reinforces her place on the pedestal. A human gets bored really fast playing fetch and a… | /r/askMRP | 24/02/20 07:12 PM |
| 3 | A little help - advice on aftermath of big fightu/IRunYourRiver Quick summary: You are butt hurt because she's still lost attraction and you still have her on a pedestal and you fear losing her. You believe deep down that you can use morality to negotiate loyalty and attraction and it doesn't work that way. You SHOULD have already realized you are the prize. If you don't, she never will see you like that. Be confident even if it's unreasonable to you in the moment. You should have zero fear of losing her because you can replace her with a you… | /r/askMRP | 24/02/20 05:31 PM |
| 1 | Christian GirlsWhat kind of church do you recommend? I would suggest going to ANY church at first and pray for direction as to whether you should stay. It is the role of the Holy Spirit to guide you in these manners, but you gotta be willing to be obedient and you gotta do your part in praying. Another option too, ask your christian friends what church they go to and attend with them. To a genuine believer, it's a huge blessing to be asked this and to bring a friend along. Even better if they stay. Church isn'… | /r/RPChristians | 23/02/20 04:55 PM |
| 3 | Q&A on Sexual "Brainwashing"He's spitting game, son | /r/RPChristians | 19/02/20 08:12 PM |
| 1 | Was I too nice to this bitch?Fair enough | /r/askMRP | 19/02/20 03:10 PM |
| 3 | Was I too nice to this bitch?I’d like to know why it keeps popping up AWALT | /r/askMRP | 18/02/20 05:21 PM |
| 20 | Was I too nice to this bitch?First of all.......... I reply, I’m fine, we will talk about this in person. Which I have to repeat a few times as she continues to text. Pay attention rookies. This was the CORRECT move. He didn't take the bait and DEER over text, he used broken record, her hamster kept spinning, and he got an apology. Most of you faggots can count on one hand how many times your LTR/wives have apologized. Take notes. 4th time this has happened in recent months Bare with the terminology, but you can't "ALPHA … | /r/askMRP | 18/02/20 05:09 PM |
| 4 | Proactive ways to increase Faith? I wish I could see God moving in my life.There is power in your words. SPEAK what you've learned out loud in the right moments. Consider just Proverbs 15 1 A soft answer turneth away wrath: but grievous words stir up anger. 2 The tongue of the wise useth knowledge aright: but the mouth of fools poureth out foolishness. 3 The eyes of the Lord are in every place, beholding the evil and the good. 4 A wholesome tongue is a tree of life: but perverseness therein is a breach in the spirit. 5 A fool despiseth his father's instruction: but he … | /r/askRPC | 18/02/20 04:58 PM |
| 1 | QuestionIt does "feel" like a cheat code, but using a code requires an extremely small amount of data or effort to unlock rewards or status that has not been earned. You can't be alpha without putting in the work. It's more akin to a long history of leveling up through gameplay, tutorials, and finished quests/levels. Even a celebrity had to work their ass off for many years in order to become that "overnight success". | /r/askMRP | 10/02/20 08:06 PM |
| 1 | QuestionBeing alpha isn't a cheat code like a video game that gives you more "points" in the "fucks to use" stat line of a character that is measured by pressing the F key when near any NPC woman to see how effective the trait is. Facts: Correlation does not equal causation. Beta is unattractive and gets less quantity and quality of sex in his life. Being alpha and all it entails is more attractive. Being more attractive gets you laid better and more often as a side effect. Alpha does NOT need validatio… | /r/askMRP | 10/02/20 03:23 PM |
| 9 | I’m at a confusing place and don’t know what to do.YOU FRIENDZONED YOURSELF Precisely | /r/RPChristians | 06/02/20 09:16 PM |
| 12 | I’m at a confusing place and don’t know what to doI'm gonna add in 2 cents. You, and everyone you've spoke to are taking all this way to seriously. For you, remain outcome independent, meaning if she says no to hanging out, no big deal. If she says she's "talking" to another guy, who cares, just spend time with her if you want to anyway. If you guys hit it off, then it fizzles, so what? It's only awkward if YOU act awkward about out, feel me? You've already put way more thought into this than it deserves. Enjoy her company and if it goes some w… | /r/RPChristians | 06/02/20 08:48 PM |
| 9 | Resources For MRP ConceptsReading - NMMNG, MMSLP, WISNIFG, Book of Pook. Rereading NNMNG. So... is this your "planned" reading list? What have you ACTUALLY read? Almost all of those books cover outcome independence and MMSLP and Book of Pook are mostly about game which includes kino and flirting. Don't bullshit, you won't make improvements and you will be doomed to stay a faggot forever. There are also MANY posts in the sidebar that cover this stuff too. trying to learn more tactics, strategies, advice Make sure you ar… | /r/askMRP | 05/02/20 03:21 PM |
| 1 | Catholic, Married 20yrs, 5 kids, 40yrs oldI want to ask her to soften her belief of the "life giving" parts of finishing inside but not sure as a Christian man that that is leading my wife towards Christ and I dont want to put her in that position. Artificial birth control is out of the question. So... you have a certain way you want to have sex (details unimportant), but you want to get her to approve of your feelings. This is the essence of almost the whole post. YOU need to OWN how you feel. Don't ask her to soften her beliefs, that … | /r/RPChristians | 13/01/20 11:03 PM |
| 1 | StrugglingWhat do you mean by sexual temptation? It's a bit vague. Like tempted to look at porn? Find a ONS? Stare at women in the gym? Call up an old flame? Be specific. Also, what else is going on in your life? Hobbies, bible study, church, prayer, friends, family, tv shows, movies, internet activity, gaming? What do you do to fill up your free time? | /r/RPChristians | 10/01/20 04:49 PM |
| 9 | Wife advice (first post)Please reply to DS so we can better help you. In the meanwhile, I can all but guarantee you aren't regularly going to the gym. That kind of commitment and investment into yourself helps with all these things. I won't go into the "why" but you gotta trust us, you have to be going about 3 times a week and lifting heavy weights, not just cardio. You wrote: My wife wants me to be more dominant in bed. And: since obviously it's what she wants Can you see the problem? To be dominant, be it in the bedr… | /r/RPChristians | 27/12/19 07:32 PM |
| 5 | Is it unethical for me to pull at Bible study?Please define a couple terms: Pull Is this just talking to or flirting or escalating to game, dating, plate spinning, hooking up, one-night stand, spinning plates, or vetting for marriage??? This is a really vague word and not much context. Youth Group Are we talking about children, early puberty, teenagers, college age, or a young adult group of 20 somethings? Again, really vague here. such temptation (s) Tempted to do what exactly? Have conversations, make eye contact, distract people from… | /r/askRPC | 26/12/19 08:06 PM |
| 26 | What's the best book for building the Oak?Meditations by Marcus Aurelius is good. So is the book of Proverbs actually. | /r/askMRP | 18/12/19 02:43 PM |
| 2 | Skin CareClinique for Men is good to me | /r/askMRP | 17/12/19 09:14 PM |
| 15 | Branch swing to low SMV BetaOne last question, do I tell his wife and blow up his life too? Move on, this is petty. What part of hurting his wife and kids moves you ahead in your mission? Absolutely none of it. Let this pain of being cheated on with a loser sink in and make you realize that you completely let yourself go. This isn't his fault, her fault, and definitely not his families fault. It was yours, just like the rest of us, the only direction out of your situation is to own up to what you did and to solely focus on… | /r/askMRP | 16/12/19 04:32 PM |
| 1 | Wife spent $9k behind my backABSOLUTELY FIRST MOVE: Get her to cancel the class and get full refund. "Honey, if you want a marriage, you must cancel immediately and obtain a full refund, I'll see you for dinner tonight" ... exit to the gym, don't wait for a reply, don't discuss, don't explain, justify, rationalize, get angry, blame, raise your voice, or even walk quickly to the door. Just be calm and confident she will do exactly as told or die trying. If she does, you may have something to work with. If not, her unwillingn… | /r/askMRP | 14/12/19 04:40 AM |
| 1 | LTR dreads herself about my sexual pastHoney, if you are jealous about the women I've slept with, then I totally understand. In fact, let's call them up, invite them to dinner, pop some bottles, then we can all come back to our place to talk about this like adults and then after we explain it, you and I can both sleep with them if it makes you feel better. | /r/askMRP | 11/12/19 10:01 PM |
| 3 | Advice on moving forward with Christian dudes who are bp?https://www.mensfraternity.com/products or the successor https://www.authenticmanhood.com/product-category/33-the-series/ is FAR BETTER if you want to use "church approved" stuff. All these really won't discuss sexual strategy though, but at least a better representation of biblical masculinity and leadership that places Christ first, mission second, then the wife. Those two have a strong focus on finding your purpose and that is probably worth your time, especially for young unmarried men that … | /r/askRPC | 11/12/19 04:01 PM |
| 2 | Caught STD. What to tell wife?lol | /r/askMRP | 10/12/19 06:34 PM |
| 0 | Caught STD. What to tell wife?Any advice on how to break it to her? Use as few words as possible while still conveying the truth. Skip all blaming, excuses, reasoning, explanations, etc. I wouldn't even tell her it was from oral and absolutely not that it was a whore. This isn't a guarantee that the marriage is over, but it's a guarantee you aren't going to be able to hide your feelings like a little bitch anymore. Time to tell her it's FMOFU and accept me as I am, blisters and all. | /r/askMRP | 10/12/19 05:30 PM |
| 5 | Wife (who actively tells me she wishes we could divorce) wants to spend Christmas with her family alone. Response?You need to figure out what makes your wife feel attracted. This places YOU IN HER FRAME. Women love this little guessing game because it makes men jump through hoops for validation. We already know what is attractive, so just be attractive and don't be unattractive. The sidebar has all the answers about being attractive, trust it. Women will tell you what makes them comfortable and lessens their dread anxiety. My wife has actually said things like "I like your belly" and "I don't want you to tu… | /r/RPChristians | 10/12/19 04:54 PM |
| 1 | Wife (who actively tells me she wishes we could divorce) wants to spend Christmas with her family alone. Response?Basically this just means her hamster LITERALLY controls the ship. Like most women but x5 when it comes to feelz and being emotionally driven. She's not special, BPD is what happens when you become a drunk captain and give too much life to her fears yourself. Everything you listed about her with emotions, truth, logical reasoning is AWALT. Don't think she's special or different from other women. Don't give it more power or give yourself more of an excuse here. You are what changed. During your d… | /r/RPChristians | 10/12/19 04:50 PM |
| 6 | Thanks for the wake up callWhatever you do for her, do it out of your abundance, not out of obligation or to get something in return. There is nothing that says you HAVE to be a dick because she's sucking on someone else's. Good move getting it in writing that you and her agree to the arraignment, I've heard of other ex-wives verbally changing the pickups to make it look like the dad is either keeping them too long or trying to take them when not authorized to fuck them in court. That's the truth too. A common tactic is t… | /r/askMRP | 04/12/19 10:12 PM |
| 1 | Could mate guarding saved us all from doom?Could mate guarding saved us all from doom? I see where you are going but Adam remaining perfect as a means of the salvation of man is just as works focused as us now earning our salvation through our own works. It is simply not what God planned. In order for the Godhead to demonstrate mercy and compassion, they had to allow Adam and us to fall and become sin so that he could provide the only worthy sacrifice in the Son, Jesus. He knew man would fall and that was the point, to express His mercy … | /r/RPChristians | 04/12/19 03:27 PM |
| 2 | Need Beta AdviceYes, even when you are top on a cis-female, every time you bust cheeks your still a faggot. LOL | /r/askMRP | 03/12/19 03:46 PM |
| 16 | LTR is friends with a co-worker who has high SMV. How to handle jealousyFrom other posts, sounds like your game is shit, you've become boring, probably play too many video games, don't have a social life outside her, care too much about what she thinks, and generally you simply no longer give her feelz. Could be a fat t-shirt wearing slob too, but your posts are too vague to really know what's going on. What are your stats, lifts, body fat, finances? What have you read, books, sidebar post series, youtube video series on RP, etc? What is your mission, how long have … | /r/askMRP | 02/12/19 04:30 PM |
| 0 | Asking for alpha adviceFrom another post "I have no choice but to accept my reality" Yeah, you are a blame shifting, excuse making, victim. Take ownership that you should like Al Borland without a beard and don't give her feelz. Read Rational Male and take inventory on everything you dropped the ball on. Can you save this marriage? Probably not at this point, so get your shit together and get a better woman. | /r/askMRP | 02/12/19 02:52 PM |
| 5 | Want to move back to my parents house with my wife, stuck due to mother and wife conflictDiagnosis: They only fight because you take turns operating in each of their frame. If they were operating in YOUR FRAME, you wouldn't be manipulated be EITHER of them instead of them fighting over which one of them is your boss. Cure: Sidebar, Rational Male, When I say no, I feel guilt, No more Mr Nice Guy Oh, there's this too... On the other hand, my wife also have panic & anxiety attacks and she is also suffering from OCD. Bullshit. OCD: she's bored and inventing shit to bitch about. Panic & … | /r/askMRP | 27/11/19 06:24 PM |
| 6 | As a Red Pill Christian man, I have two questions.Sure, but it's an over simplification though. Others can be broken down to be family > local fellowship > church body at large > neighbors > etc.. SDA isn't really a "red pill" position. That said........... I know people that are devote SDA believers and have attended some bible studies with them and watched some of their teachings. They do have some pretty deep theological problems and the fact they worship on Saturday is about the only difference that is harmless. First of all, from their inc… | /r/RPChristians | 26/11/19 05:45 PM |
| 1 | Need more books to read on Masculinity and TRP.Your handle... it disturbs me. On one hand, I hate Joe Buck so much I like his name being used as an insult. On the other, when I read his name, I can hear his voice in my head. | /r/askMRP | 26/11/19 05:18 PM |
| 3 | Need more books to read on Masculinity and TRP.UEMcGill's readings for Redpill Husbands: Course Prerequisites No More Mr Nice Guy, Robert Glover Married Man Sex Life Primer, Athol Kay When I Say No, I Feel Guilty, M. Smith Red Pill 101 The Rational Male, Year One, Rollo Tomassi and the book The Mindful Attraction Plan, Athol Kay The Sixteen Commandments of Poon The Book of Pook- Online The Book of Pook Free Audio Version The Red Pill Sidebar "I get it!" "No, you really don't." - Triadis3 Graduate Level The Way of the Superior Man, David Deid… | /r/askMRP | 26/11/19 03:12 PM |
| 2 | Am I irredeemable?It's a pain unlike any other. Good. Let it hurt. Feel it. Embrace it. Let pain do it's job. Pain is there to teach you to keep you hand off of the stove and to not jump from buildings. The pain should cause you to hate what you've done and not repeat it. Use that pain to get your ass to a gym and a department store. I don't know much about you, except that your username implies you think you are smart, your post history says you are in India, and you've recently lost a lot of money. Oh, losing m… | /r/askMRP | 25/11/19 07:53 PM |
| 3 | Why does girl offer Snapchat instead of number?She sees you as more of a fan | /r/askTRP | 22/11/19 05:52 PM |
| 6 | How to encourage wife to workout more?This combined with the lack of exercise feels like a ticking time bomb. The hamster/dread dynamic here is all wrong. I am not familiar with you and your map, but generally speaking, she should be worried about "why is he trying so hard to get IN shape?" instead of you thinking "I am worried that my only option for sex could possibly balloon up at any moment". This points to a lack of consistency in your total game. To be honest 16%BF isn't that bad, but I have a feeling you are operating IN HER … | /r/askMRP | 22/11/19 03:31 PM |
| 2 | Peacocking still worksLet's do this! | /r/TheRedPill | 08/11/19 05:21 PM |
| 12 | Wife Threatened Divorce Last NightNot bad, but next time do it without saying anything about her tantrum at all the same way Germany treats the 1930s and 1940s. Mentioning the "willing to forget" shows your still in her frame. Just say " I changed my mind after all, I do want to go on the date. Wear the black dress with the lacy thong underwear and matching bra". This only talks about what you want. Date, sexy dress, and underwear you plan on seeing and then removing. I'm not saying her feelings don't mean anything, but to lead,… | /r/askMRP | 08/11/19 05:05 PM |
| 21 | Wife Threatened Divorce Last NightRelax and pay attention to her actions and not her words. She said "i want this house and the kids" but CAME BACK TO BED. She's just noticed the boat is moving. Keep going, feed a bit of comfort here and there. she said, "You know what? You aren't going to break me." "What do you mean by that?" Great response. Keeps frame, flips the pressure back onto her as long as you aren't showing any defensiveness. I got up for work and left without saying good bye. Once I got to work I texted her tha… | /r/askMRP | 08/11/19 03:49 PM |
| 1 | Came clean about using Viagra last nightselective True enough. I come from being overly secretive myself, it was often completely unnecessary too, so opening up was a challenge for me. u/SoggyTrain, try reading The 48 Laws of Power by Robert Greene, you'll appreciate these chapters: Law 4: Always say less than necessary Law 5: So much depends on reputation, guard it with your life Law 12: Use selective honesty and generosity to disarm your victim | /r/askMRP | 06/11/19 10:47 PM |
| 1 | Fiance gave me her old laptop to use for work - a look into her past has me worriedShe glances at dudes who are attractive (normal obviously). I got a simple answer to this. Become the man that other women glance at when you are both together. It sounds like you have the adequate muscle mass. Start to eat clean, add some cardio, and get rid of the round edges. How's your hair, clothing, grooming, and cologne? Lot's of guys get comfy in LTR's and don't keep up shaving, haircuts, or update clothing. Don't neglect your scent either. I've stepped up my game and it pays off big tim… | /r/askMRP | 06/11/19 04:29 PM |
| 5 | Came clean about using Viagra last nightI said I'm done hiding shit from her. This might be the smartest thing you've said. A high quality man will own his shit and people in his life, wife, kids, bosses, employees, vendors, clients, and the world can either accept it or not. In order to have an abundant mindset, you have to accept your warts and all. She didn't speak to me for the rest of the night but was pleasant this morning. This might come to a surprise, but women appreciate honest communication and this kind of vulnerability.… | /r/askMRP | 06/11/19 04:15 PM |
| 7 | Sharing church with soon-to-be ex-wifeYa know, this doesn't add up..... She is not a believer, wants divorce, wants you out of the house, yet wants to keep going to the same church and even the same small groups? Did I miss anything? Seems like either her desire for divorce is simply a massive S# test or perhaps she's more of a believer now than you give her credit for? If she really wants a divorce and isn't a believer, I'd expect her to at the very least immediately quit the "charade" as it would be to her and unplug from the chur… | /r/askRPC | 06/11/19 04:04 PM |
| 2 | Texting and investment in potential helpmeetJust curious.... how in gods name are you 1-2% bodyfat? I know, right? I don't even think my hands are that low!? | /r/askRPC | 04/11/19 10:42 PM |
| 3 | Fiance gave me her old laptop to use for work - a look into her past has me worriedAlthough I believe in AWALT/hypergamy, I also believe it's a spectrum. It's not a spectrum, but it is conditional and exacerbated by circumstances. For example; if you are weak, hypergamy says "MONKEY BRANCH" and loudly. If you are acting like a high value man, hypergamy "MAKE SURE HIS BALLS ARE EMPTY". Is marriage with this woman doomed from the start or am I over analyzing what I found? You are over analyzing and if you keep doing it, you are doomed. You can't unfuck her previous partners, t… | /r/askMRP | 04/11/19 08:46 PM |
| 3 | Texting and investment in potential helpmeet1-2% body fat LOL Nope! Not unless you are surviving some kind of cancer or have a completely insane diet. Which one do you look like? https://athleanx.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/05/Body-Fat-Infographic3.jpg "My question is, can you carve a pumpkin better than me "White Claw"? This is why we tell men to text logistics only. Primarily because she gets her feelz from your attention no matter how it comes be it texting, phone, even stuff as petty as facebook "likes" or being tagged in memes, whi… | /r/askRPC | 04/11/19 07:08 PM |
| 2 | what is the RPC reason for not engaging in hookup culture?Everything that God tells you to abstain from is harmful for us and everything he tells us to do is good for us. The law is good. u/Deep_strength has explained in good detail what happens from disobedience, but consider God's heart in the matter. He wants us to have life and have it abundantly. To prosper, not suffer. Even in Deuteronomy 11 and 28, God is laying these out IN ORDER so that they would be blessed. To be honest, if you sin and destroy your life, it doesn't make God any less glorious… | /r/askRPC | 04/11/19 04:11 PM |
| 3 | Help me understand the compulsive cooking and cleaning...He he dies.... he dies. | /r/askMRP | 04/11/19 03:48 PM |
| 3 | TRT fight again, same questionShe is insecure looking for comfort so you manufacture some dread by saying you are happy to look elsewhere for this increased need for sex? Nice! Clearly the issue isn't the TRT or Viagra, it's your communication. You are hiding drugs, pushing when you should pull, and not making her feel like she is apart of your sex drive or encounters. Your game is weak and she knows it. Didn't you once say she felt like your sex was "drug fueled"? That wasn't a shit test, she was trying to tell you legitima… | /r/askMRP | 02/11/19 03:57 PM |
| 2 | How do things change with a third baby?Current kids are ages 6 and 3. Congratulations and good spread! I have 5 kids, 21, 18, 13, 9, and 4 all from same mom. Immediately have those kids conditioned to help and give them a lot of praise when they do, it will pay off for YEARS. The six year old can fetch diapers, blankets, nookie and the three year old can get things too as well as sitting down next to the youngest to keep the baby company and watch cartoons and teach her how to play with baby toys. As the youngest grows, so will the j… | /r/askMRP | 31/10/19 02:34 PM |
| 4 | Relapse and Hysterical BondingDo not tell the wife about being suicidal, she can't help and won't help. It will cause her to actually lose attraction and respect for you. Talk to a man, whom you respect and admire, repeatedly over a long period of time. Options: Get to a real therapist in real life. Get to a church and meet with a pastor. Find a mentor on here or r/rpchristians you really connect with and respect their input. I'll post some names I'd recommend later. Are you a believer or not for the purpose of making better… | /r/askMRP | 29/10/19 01:28 PM |
| 2 | How to deal with atheist parentsThose are the things to share, especially #2. Don't be afraid to share the things that make you sound crazy to those who haven't experienced the supernatural things of God. The bible says there is POWER IN OUR TESTIMONY, and even though you can't "give" them your evidence, they will no doubt be able to plainly see that you aren't lying to them. Then let the Holy Spirit do his job, it's not your responsibility to make anyone believe, but God's (1 Corinthians 2:10). | /r/askRPC | 28/10/19 04:15 PM |
| 4 | How to deal with atheist parentsHow do you credit this to Christ? Or more specifically, how do you know that either it's from Jesus or that you personally know that Jesus is in fact real, no matter how silly it sounds as opposed to your life improving my following specific teachings or attending a church? I ask this way because many peoples lives do improve when they join cults or fake religions too, but what is "the thing" that has you convinced of Christ? | /r/askRPC | 28/10/19 01:28 PM |
| 3 | How to deal with atheist parentsWhat is your testimony? Like why do you believe? That is typically the BEST thing to say to anyone about your faith. | /r/askRPC | 27/10/19 10:50 PM |
| 18 | Failed comfort test?Maybe, but also maybe not. Without any context about you, your money, your career, her current career, your lifestyle, or how well you are owning the leadership position, there is no way to give you any kind of meaningful advice here. Also....CUT THE SHIT Write down your stats (height, weight, bf%, lifts). You are keeping a journal of your workouts right? Write down all the books you have read in the sidebar and one sentence about what you learned from each one (even if you haven't finished it y… | /r/askMRP | 26/10/19 08:05 PM |
| 3 | Two WeeksShe was dead set against kids and even said if she got pregnant she'd have an abortion Just mouth hole noises that get your guard down. Pay attention to actions, not words. Women say a bunch of crap to get men to get them pregnant for a variety of reasons. Do you even know her cycle? Complaining she has no money. Couple BJ's and you are her emotional tampon all over again. Absolutely do not keep this woman as a plate. It doesn't work first of all to demote a wife to a plate and secondly the mi… | /r/askMRP | 23/10/19 08:24 PM |
| 14 | Is my marriage salvageable?Is my marriage salvageable? No. It died a long time ago. You are living with a woman you have kids with. She is a roommate, the mother to your kids, someone you split bills with, and maybe a friend, but this is not a marriage and she is not a wife. I see a lot of you blaming her for all this stuff and so I give you zero percent chance this will end well. On top of that you are comparing her to women that haven't had to live with you and get to know you, so this won't end well. What I don't see t… | /r/askMRP | 23/10/19 01:17 PM |
| 3 | Emotional self sufficiencyOk, this is all a lot to take in. I read your OYS too. I've also read your comments to other people and recognized your handle. It seems like you have a lot of practical head knowledge but lacking the right touch when applying it. It's like you are just off by one gear in the race and at times the revs are too high, other times they are too low, if you follow the analogy. Reset daily. People, myself included, have blind spots to protect our pride and ego, that self defense mechanism tends to als… | /r/askRPC | 23/10/19 01:07 PM |
| 3 | Emotional self sufficiencywondering if I've done as much work as I had thought It's really difficult to look at your own eyes. Paul himself said he dies to himself daily and does things he wishes he wouldn't and didn't do the things he wished he would. Be humble about progress and be kind do yourself during failure, but either way, keep working and striving for perfection. becoming emotionally self sufficient So, in the secular/pagan mind, you become your own mental point of origin. That essentially means that you are … | /r/askRPC | 22/10/19 04:50 PM |
| 30 | I let my LTR show me her DM’s after she asked me about it. Does that show weakness on my part?Mate guarding is weak. Being jealous is weak. Having a woman no one tries to DM is weak. Telling your girl to stop wearing make up and looking hot is weak. She's giving you pressure, competition, and trying to make you jealous in the name of being transparent. I'd use a pressure flip on her. Smile, nod in approval, then say something like "If you weren't hot enough for guys to DM you, I wouldn't be here sugar tits. Just screenshot the funny ones for me before you ghost them." | /r/askMRP | 21/10/19 05:06 PM |
| 0 | Shit Tests starting again with LTRShe said “let me answer it.” "Don't answer, it's my side chick, so only answer if you're ready for a threesome" | /r/askMRP | 20/10/19 04:41 PM |
| 9 | I Lost the Gift CardIf she knows about it and knows the amount just tell the truth. "Hey honey, remember that gift card we got? (She replies) well it was stolen from the car while I was at the gym". Keep it simple stupid. The deeper issue here is not the lost value of the card, but that you seem scared to tell your wife bad news. If you are crafting stories for her benefit, you are in her frame and making her happiness or wrath like an idol where you are willing to consider a lie to cover it something she will find… | /r/askRPC | 19/10/19 08:37 PM |
| 2 | I'm torn between two womenThat's not your problem to fix, pray for her and focus on Jesus | /r/askRPC | 10/10/19 11:33 PM |
| 2 | Differentiating between shit test and comfort test with a depressed wife.contemptuous attitude I see where you are coming from, her tone makes all the difference reading those words. Even though she was giving you attitude your response in the moment was still DEERing as you got defensive of your feelz and explained what you were doing. I mean, if it was really bad, just leave the room and say nothing, reset by going to the gym, work on a project, or grab a book and come back in 30 minutes and show exactly zero butt hurt. Your mindset has to be like you aren't going … | /r/askMRP | 10/10/19 10:09 PM |
| 5 | I'm torn between two womenLook, don't take this the wrong way, I am totally being serious and you might not want to hear this. You need to go monk mode for a while. You are using women and sex for validation, you are needy, you don't have any frame, you are living to please your flesh, and are making a lot of really bad choices. For the next month, ghost all women, pray, read a chapter from Proverbs, hit the gym and lift, pray morning and night, daily. No drugs, no internet, no alcohol, no porn, no junk food, no soda. Ju… | /r/askRPC | 10/10/19 09:20 PM |
| 1 | "Communicating Boundaries" in an LTR...Agree, you cannot make any guarantees. Hypergamy floats. To your original point, there is always an element in a new LTR that she is "auditioning" for the wife position. That said, you should always expect her on good behavior right away and some red flags to come out later. Better to let those red flags slip earlier during the vetting process rather than later after a legally binding contract is signed and kids are brought into this world. However, you have to carefully balance that with sett… | /r/askTRP | 10/10/19 08:28 PM |
| 1 | "Communicating Boundaries" in an LTR...LOL, I got up, walked away from the keyboard, read a different post in the bathroom, and got you mixed up with that one. That said, 12 Levels of DREAD is the only way to keep any kind of respect from her and removing your time and attention without being defensive or butt hurt is the surest way to correct behavior. Words are worthless. | /r/askTRP | 10/10/19 06:30 PM |
| 9 | Differentiating between shit test and comfort test with a depressed wife.Sometimes it's not a test, it's genuine communication. This might be that, being frustrated about mental health. Being the "fixer" you admit, you've probably offered a lot of suggestions in the past, so that's what she would expect you to do again. Now that you realize that's not what women want or need, but the listener, the oak, it's still going to take her a while to adjust to this new response from you and to trust you aren't going to judge the situation, analyze the problem, and spit out a … | /r/askMRP | 10/10/19 06:25 PM |
| 5 | How to overcome awkward self consciousness?Stand in their way, make strong eye contact, when they notice your piercing gaze, they should immediately stop in their tracks in surprise. Weaklings will cower in fear, look away, and quickly move. A worthy opponent shall stop, placing their dominant foot back slightly in a prepared stance. Then bow slightly while maintaining eye contact, raise up your hands into a fighting position. Should they match your intensity, urinate on their shoes. If they establish dominance over you, run about ten fe… | /r/askRPC | 10/10/19 05:42 PM |
| 1 | "Communicating Boundaries" in an LTR...You got this all wrong. If she is a plate and you feel disrespected, by all means next her. I didn't say this was an LTR, you did in the title of your post. If so, then you don't next or soft next to set boundaries. Actually, that never works for setting and enforcing boundaries. What you need to work on is DREAD. As I am reading your comments, this isn't actually about a party is it? This is starting to sound like a shit test that she is intentionally trying to get you worked up to see what hap… | /r/askTRP | 10/10/19 05:25 PM |
| 1 | "Communicating Boundaries" in an LTR...going to her friend's party alone etc? How insecure you gotta be for this to break your boundary? | /r/askTRP | 10/10/19 04:43 PM |
| 1 | LTR and trip to vegas. First red flag in 1.5 yearsI wouldn't think twice about it, I'd make her go and suggest a few places for them to go. If you don't have the abundance and confidence to let her leave your sight, she will leave you because of your lack. I suggest a "change of heart" and that you confess you were wrong and that you completely trust her. I've been to Vegas 12 times and only brought my wife once, if you ever plan on having a life outside of being with her you have to lead by showing her that you aren't a jealous controlling ins… | /r/askTRP | 10/10/19 04:14 PM |
| 3 | How to have children?Dont be such a faggot and assume all relationships end poorly. I dont even know you and I wouldn't sell you that short automatically. Just lead, let her follow, show your boys how to be a man by example, show your girls the kind of man they should look for. I'm not saying planning is a waste of time but worrying certainly is. | /r/askMRP | 10/10/19 03:00 AM |
| 14 | Wife Moved OutShe doesn't want to lose me Uh, she moved out?! Acta non verba she is doing the same Beta orbiters will already be hitting her up when they notice you're pics aren't in her gallery and relationship status disappears. Just in case no other teams start calling her in while she is now a "restricted free agent", she wants to be able to resign, get her old locker, and keep the number on the jersey. She complained that I'm pressuring her and giving her an ultimatum. I don't know about you, but I h… | /r/askMRP | 09/10/19 06:32 PM |
| 2 | LTR lied about having slept with someone. I have proof, but not sure I should confront her with it.she was saved right before she met me, about 8-9 months ago Not exactly equally yoked then either I assume. That's really the bigger issue, that she isn't as mature of a christian as you probably are. Besides her confession of faith, what fruit of the spirit do you see in her? Are you both regularly attending church, studying the bible, and praying both alone and together? I ask because it would seem a lot of people "get saved" but no discernible changes actually happen besides expressing remors… | /r/askRPC | 09/10/19 06:15 PM |
| 3 | LTR lied about having slept with someone. I have proof, but not sure I should confront her with it.My (30) LTR (26) of six months and I have both had sex prior to our relationship and prior to being saved. ........... a conversation from a year ago Did you both just get saved this year? Congrats if so, but other wise this seems like the timeline doesn't add up for her still being promiscuous and easily dishing out lies. she was pretty open about this dude and dudes she had slept with. Apparently not, they never are. Women tend to "trickle" the truth out in small increments revealing more and … | /r/askRPC | 09/10/19 05:47 PM |
| 2 | Need some advice on how to handle a situation.This is not a thing you should PLAN ahead of time, rather you would do something like this WHEN you are rejected while initiation a sexual advance. I don't actually like the phrasing either, it's butthurt and poorly framed. If you are planning on trying to get it on for the purpose of being defeated so that you can implement this tactic, then you are going about it wrong. Never "try" to get shot down. That's some stupid ass shit. I think what you ARE doing is building a life outside your wife an… | /r/askMRP | 09/10/19 01:41 PM |
| 5 | DB, found my wife cheatedFirst of all, good for you with regards to finding your balls and MRP. All is fair in love and war right? Keep fucking her brains out, improving your game on her, flirting, passing shit tests, showing your kids what a quality man looks like, and how a quality man treats himself and those he is in charge of. You may or may not leave her, but don't live your life based on things that may never come. Right now, she's your wife, you are her husband, you are improving and that hard work is bearing fr… | /r/askMRP | 08/10/19 05:39 PM |
| 2 | Struggling with paying for everythingIt irks me a bit that I am funding almost everything, without any real sign of appreciation / acknowledgement Covert contract? Confirmed. Either you buy it out of your abundance or you don't buy it at all. I was considering asking her to sign some sort of legal document such that if we were not together anymore and sold the house, we would each recoup what we put into it first before splitting the remainder. Anyone done anything similar to protect themselves financially? Is she on the mortgage… | /r/askMRP | 07/10/19 04:52 PM |
| 5 | N-Count?She’s 27, HB8 but still looks 21 How old are you? What are your lifts? Body fat? Income? Etc? Which books have you read? What is the last actual shit test you got and how did you handle it? Maybe you don't even know you are being tested! I mean, if you are a 300lb "professional gamer" making $500 per month on your twitch account from your mom's basement and she is still into you, go for it! 18 including me over 10 years Bullshit. They NEVER tell the truth. It's probably between 30 and 60, but … | /r/askMRP | 04/10/19 06:26 PM |
| 3 | Porn RecommendationsI don't recommend watching porn, read it to her instead. Get an erotic thriller are read that out loud to her or together, taking turns each chapter. Skip 50 Shades of Gray too, that's not very good. Shop for a book that has them doing stuff that you suspect she wants to do but is too shy to try of that you want her to do but too much of a pussy to ask. https://www.amazon.com/Best-Sellers-Kindle-Store-Erotica/zgbs/digital-text/157057011/ref=zg_bs_unv_kstore_4_7620225011_1 Check out the sub-genre… | /r/askMRP | 03/10/19 07:50 PM |
| 2 | I doubt God's willingness to forgive meWhat I believe about salvation is that it's conditional. So, kind of. It's based on the condition that you either are or are not predestined for salvation according to Romans 9, Ephesians 1, John 6, and others. Scripture is actually really clear that it is God that does the chosing, the Holy Spirit that does the regeneration and gives us faith as an irrevocable gift, and that we are sealed until the day of redemption and nothing can separate us from the love of God. I don't know everything and… | /r/askRPC | 02/10/19 04:21 PM |
| 1 | Wife Moving Out: An UpdateMarried Man's Sex Life Primer by Athol Kaye if you are absolutely trying to work it out. Rational Male by Rollo Tomassi if you are absolutely going to leave. Read both, just adjust the reading order accordingly. Also highly recommend the youtube series from BluePill Professor called "Saving a low sex marriage" as a really good crash course. Sorry I don't have links, I'm on mobile now. | /r/askMRP | 01/10/19 11:24 PM |
| 2 | Wife Moving Out: An Update"Sex addict" is a shaming term that works pretty well on nice guys who are using covert contracts. It also is works to block men who are weak at closing. You are probably coming off as a little kid who keeps asking mommy for another cookie. In other words, you look pathetic and you are in her frame still. Use gym bag routine with her and whether you go to see your plate or lift plates that particular time is up to you, but you can give her first shot your time and sex if you want to that way. St… | /r/askMRP | 01/10/19 01:25 PM |
| 5 | Wife Moving Out: An UpdateWow, you set a boundary, you were outcome independent, you called her bluff, she caved. Now you stand there like Wiley Coyote actually catching the roadrunner, but haven't a clue what to do next. That's awesome. Well, the truth is you don't go anywhere. It's up to her to move or stay, 1000ft rope. If you are actually being outcome independent than you do you and she can either get on board with the newer better version of you or leave. Right now I'm a bit lost. After something like this, exp… | /r/askMRP | 30/09/19 09:42 PM |
| 2 | I believe wife is attracted to another man in our group.STATS | /r/askMRP | 30/09/19 01:42 PM |
| 15 | My struggles of being in the bottom tier of menNever react out of anger or butt hurt and when you do, don't care what anyone thinks. Have you read "No More Mr Nice Guy" yet? | /r/askTRP | 27/09/19 03:07 PM |
| 2 | Types of males explained - need your thoughtsWell, name checks out, lol | /r/askMRP | 27/09/19 12:23 PM |
| 3 | Self-sabotage - as middle aged men, what are you struggling the most with?What do you think are the self-sabotage behaviours you struggle the most with? The blue pilled ones | /r/askMRP | 25/09/19 09:10 PM |
| 3 | OYS - Where Progress is Made (09/25/19)I had a huge rant/puke typed here trying to lay out and solve the enigma wrapped conundrum of my wife but I deleted it. Not gonna lie, I do this a lot. Sometimes I need a place for my anger to go and to process my feelings, sort them into what really happened vs what I just think happened. It will help with the RAMBO / RP rage that you are going to eventually get to. Spoiler alert, you will become angry during this journey. Both at her and yourself. I used to write these long a letters "to her" … | /r/RPChristians | 25/09/19 09:06 PM |
| 1 | Thoughts on Dating someone below your market value in looks.WHY do you want to jump into an LTR right now FFS? Honestly, you are in no shape to be in an LTR with anyone. As I recall, you were being cheated on and not really owning up to your part of the failed relationship, the things that you did to cuck yourself. On top of that, you had serious oneitis and were actually considering staying with a woman you caught cheating just a month ago. You were so unaware of what was happening, you didn't even immediately recognize her bid to stay together was just… | /r/askMRP | 24/09/19 09:07 PM |
| 9 | Putting future plans on holdhave the experience with living with our friends. Translation: You are boring. My wife couldn't wait to move in when we were dating because I was the coolest person she knew. Yeah, I'd become a beta drunk captain later after the kids, but back then I was fun. If she'd rather experience having shitty roommates than join you on your mission, your mission must really suck. What's the brochure look like? I’ll think about the situation and feel contempt towards her Classic reaction to a covert cont… | /r/askMRP | 24/09/19 03:36 PM |
| 1 | Are there any good podcasts or YouTube series that you guys would recommend?Yeah, I know a lot of them. However, what is it you are looking for? | /r/RPChristians | 24/09/19 02:41 PM |
| 5 | Types of males explained - need your thoughtsu/Techn1cksS is the youtuber and he's looking to get more subs on his channel :-) | /r/askMRP | 23/09/19 06:54 PM |
| 4 | Anniversaries.Sure, take her on a date, but buy her some NICE SIX MONTH ANNIVERSARY JEWELRY for her to wear first. | /r/askMRP | 23/09/19 01:24 PM |
| 3 | Wife is pregnant, now what (I know what)As fate would have it, we had sex once in her last cycle, I was apparently off on my calculation of when her ovulation was, and she got pregnant. Nope, it's not your calculator that's not right, something else isn't adding up. Might want to save this in your bookmarks https://www.dnafamilycheck.com/services/dna-paternity-test?gclid=CjwKCAjw8ZHsBRA6EiwA7hw_sXYpkhuz2Z6Oq6-vqZtJS0qOTwWoNut6Jxr6nJP43MXIbxHgI4LiBhoCDTYQAvD_BwE | /r/askMRP | 20/09/19 05:33 PM |
| 1 | Hormone imbalance?You mentioned before her high carb diet and her invincibility to your leadership. Wheat/gluten is an eczema trigger and men who are not at all respected at home can cause "cunty" behavior when they attempt to "persuade" their wives of anything. | /r/askMRP | 19/09/19 07:47 PM |
| 1 | I don't enjoy sex, what should I do?**Put your tongue between your teeth and your upper lip, that's about what sex feels like for me and it's about just as exciting. It made me feel weird, but ....I did it. I am impressed you found such a direct and relatable representation of experiencing a physical sensation and the joy and enthusiasm that it brings you. I feel like I go a normal amount of time before orgasm (about 20 minutes or so after entry). I may have been doing it wrong, I could not get my upper lip to orgasm. That seems… | /r/RPChristians | 19/09/19 07:31 PM |
| 1 | OYS - Where Progress is Made (09/18/19)I have felt a bit lost on my faith. What you will discover in Romans, John, Ephesians, and Galatians is that salvation is not of your works, but it is a gift from God that is irrevocable and was predestined from before the foundation of the earth and all that the Father has chosen will come to Jesus and none will slip from his fingers. How amazing is that? When we sin, WE DRIFT from Him, but he also desires us to turn to him and be reconciled even right now. Don't even reply to another post befo… | /r/RPChristians | 19/09/19 03:11 PM |
| 3 | As a 23 years old married guy, I don't know how to keep plates in secret. How do you keep your plates in secret?I really didn't know what I want............. I am now very nondirectional. Take a couple days to yourself to sort it out. Like get away for a weekend, no cellphone, no laptop, no video games, no tv, no wife, no friends, no side chicks, no alcohol, no weed, no porn, no sex, and maybe even get out of the city and into the country. Go fishing or hiking and completely escape all the "noise" of life and think about where you've been, where you are, where you want to go, and how you want to get there… | /r/askMRP | 19/09/19 02:53 PM |
| 1 | As a 23 years old married guy, I don't know how to keep plates in secret. How do you keep your plates in secret?Ok, I read your history. I personally hate divorce and the whole infidelity thing, but this is what I think you do. Work on your frame. Stop living your life as if you can only see through other people's eyes. You seem to be very easily persuaded to do huge things that have life altering consequences. I'm pretty sure you want to fuck other women mainly our of your insecurity than anything else and no matter what you do next, this is a huge problem that you need to fix. Be honest with this shot-g… | /r/askMRP | 19/09/19 01:33 PM |
| 11 | As a 23 years old married guy, I don't know how to keep plates in secret. How do you keep your plates in secret?The only thing I can think of is: Why the hell did you get married to this woman? Does she not fuck you already? At 22, you decided to gamble half of you future earnings by placing a bet for all your chips on one girl that you knew wasn't even good enough to not fuck other women a month before you signed legally binding documents that make this woman, who you will eventually get caught by, entitled to half your shit. I say just tell her you want to fuck other people, invite her to join, start to… | /r/askMRP | 19/09/19 12:58 PM |
| 1 | OYS - Where Progress is Made (09/18/19)I got bad feet too, I have to wear braces. I tell you though, don't neglect the back or it will get injured when you are lifting big weights. I have to see an orthopedic doctor to get my braces, without them I have constant back issues, so I feel you on the pain. That said, since strengthening my back with squats and deadlifts, I can actually go without those braces for days at a time because my back is pretty strong now. We have different issues and I'm not a Dr, but I'd recommend talking to on… | /r/RPChristians | 18/09/19 10:54 PM |
| 1 | Rule Zero on FacebookYou must have evidence on Hillary Clinton or something?! | /r/askMRP | 18/09/19 10:09 PM |
| 2 | OYS - Where Progress is Made (09/18/19)squat 135.... Add to that that my gym only has smith machines. Watch some youtube videos on how to use the Smith Machines properly. You have to change your foot positioning and adjust your range of motion. Once you get it, it's works quite well. When you do your squats, are you sweating pretty hard? Are you legs or your back what's getting weak? I'd guess it's your back and leg press won't help that at all. After all, you're legs are already used to hauling around +250lbs right? Make a video of … | /r/RPChristians | 18/09/19 10:04 PM |
| 6 | OYS - Where Progress is Made (09/18/19)First time I've seen your posts, glad you're here. Kind of starting from the bottom it seems? Bad news is your not in a good place at all right now are you? Even worse it's all your fault. Good news is however, if you make changes, your wife and kids are very likely to follow suit quickly. ZEROs on everything here: Quiet Time, Prayer, Fellowship, Social Life, Gym Time, Sexy Time, Evangelism, Bible Study, Outdoor Time So... what, if anything, are you really doing with your time? I don't want to… | /r/RPChristians | 18/09/19 09:49 PM |
| 1 | Rule Zero on FacebookIt's been a while and I actually don't recall an option to choose. I think it was actually XML files (not html) for all the messages placed into separate folders per person and the images were also in different folders separated by person. | /r/askMRP | 18/09/19 08:34 PM |
| 2 | OYS - Where Progress is Made (09/18/19)Been a minute since last update. PHYSICAL Summary: Only getting to gym about twice a week, so numbers are staying steady improving since back recovered. I need to reighn in the diet, get to the gym another day, and do more cardio. StrongLifts 5x5: SQ 310, BP 180, ROW 130, OHP 95, DL 295 Extra Workouts: I've been letting my body recover when I do get to the gym, then doing High, Medium, and Low chestflys or doing workouts with the dumb bells. Weight: 200, 25% BF MENTAL & SPIRITUAL Her and I had a… | /r/RPChristians | 18/09/19 08:28 PM |
| 1 | Rule Zero on FacebookIt's changed then, I saw convos from people I unfriended and blocked? And pics too. Matter of fact that's why I did it. Wife likes to send nudes on messenger, then deletes them from her phone, from the chat, and checks my phone to make sure they've been deleted from my side. They were in the content I downloaded so i got them back! | /r/askMRP | 18/09/19 07:12 PM |
| 4 | Rule Zero on FacebookPost your username and password, I'll help you free of charge | /r/askMRP | 17/09/19 09:16 PM |
| 1 | Rule Zero on FacebookWhat was the fallout? | /r/askMRP | 17/09/19 08:52 PM |
| 7 | Rule Zero on FacebookLast year, I used the "download your content" feature to see what that was about. Everything. Every post, comment, like, personal message, photo, like, and even photos sent in Messenger is saved permanently, even if you've deleted it. | /r/askMRP | 17/09/19 05:48 PM |
| 4 | There's no such thing as "Redpill Aware" - Take the first step in owning your shit.Should I have a threesome? = I want to be cucked My absolute favorite kind of shit post. I almost wish it was repeated more than every 6 months. Can't please your wife all on your own? I got just the solution! Bring in someone who is better at sex and more attractive than you are to save that dumpster fire marriage and help her shop for and try out your replacement at the same time! | /r/askMRP | 17/09/19 05:34 PM |
| 1 | Rule Zero on FacebookMore on par with ASKTRP/ASKMRP so far. I feel like Rich, Rian, and Jon have a plan, but facebook's UI is just trash too. | /r/askMRP | 17/09/19 05:26 PM |
| 1 | Rule Zero on FacebookNot much so far, except that it's getting a lot more conversations started. | /r/askMRP | 17/09/19 04:51 PM |
| 2 | I honestly don't know what to say..comfort test?Technically, your right! There isn't anything in the ASKMRP sidebar that's useful, it's all in the r/marriedredpill. It think the CUT THE SHIT post should be in this sidebar though | /r/askMRP | 17/09/19 02:11 PM |
| 1 | Wife critical of parenting style -- update on post from a few days agoI disagree that you can't reach a better place. After all, comfort isn't necessarily "blue pill" and "alpha" isn't necessarily being a "selfish prick". You can comfort her without entering her frame, DEERing, being weak, and remaining the alpha by praising her, complimenting her performance or looks, giving her your time and attention, and validate her behavior when it's on point. You can also dismiss her hamstering when it doesn't fit the narrative as long as you aren't doing it with becoming d… | /r/askMRP | 16/09/19 06:02 PM |
| 1 | My Wife's Emotional AffairVery true | /r/RPChristians | 16/09/19 05:39 PM |
| 1 | My Wife's Emotional AffairVery true | /r/RPChristians | 16/09/19 05:39 PM |
| 3 | Seeing Past Through the RP Lens (Not really a question.)I guess I was giving her comfort tests LOL. Careful typing stuff like that, if I end up laughing so hard while I have a full mouth of coffee and ruin keyboard, laptop, and monitors, then I'm sending you the bill. Thing is, she was being incredibly honest I just had a break through moment myself this weekend with my wife and I told her that I like how she always keeps it real. Thing is, I a have learned to ignore her words and watch her body language and her actions. She spins stuff and rewrites … | /r/askRPC | 16/09/19 02:50 PM |
| 10 | My Wife's Emotional AffairWow, confronting her the way you did and making her vow to accountability was not a good move here. Using your evidence. Instead of you appearing to be switched on or getting a prophetic word from God, she knows you snoop and can't leave any evidence any more. She will tighten up OpSec. Accountability Spouses. Bad move, she will not be open with you nor will you be with her unless there is nothing serious to tell. When the truth finally comes out it's not good, she's usually decided to "kill the… | /r/RPChristians | 15/09/19 11:41 PM |
| 3 | Wife hinting at threesome? Tips?Yep, don't to it, it's a trap! | /r/askMRP | 13/09/19 09:51 PM |
| 1 | How to keep wife on budget and avoid stupid fights about moneyGive her enough rope to hang herself. When she does, don't be mad. My wife currently does NOT have a credit or debit card with her name on it, they are in my office desk and I give them to her when she needs them or give her cash. She wasn't always like this either, a few years ago I was being a drunk captain and let her ring up an extra $15k in credit card debt. Google "Envelope Budgeting" | /r/askMRP | 13/09/19 03:20 PM |
| 2 | How to keep wife on budget and avoid stupid fights about moneyTHIS RIGHT HERE> Dave Ramsey class or book will tell you how to lead and get her on board. | /r/askMRP | 13/09/19 03:17 PM |
| 1 | Confronting the myth that you have to “earn sex” in marriage, and that if your wife deprives you, or worse, cheats on you with another man, it is completely your fault as a man for not being “red pilled” enough to stop her. This attitude is blue pilled, and takes away responsibility from women.I'm not averse to it. Awalt. Hey, I'll go as far to say all women have the capacity to cheat. Yes, it is possible that a man could do everything right and a woman could still cheat too. When they do, they are responsible for their actions and don't get a free pass of anything. If you like, I'd agree they voided the marriage agreement and should be divorced and get nothing except what they actually bought themselves and lose custody by default. Then, kick them out of the church they attend as wel… | /r/RPChristians | 12/09/19 01:44 AM |
| 1 | Confronting the myth that you have to “earn sex” in marriage, and that if your wife deprives you, or worse, cheats on you with another man, it is completely your fault as a man for not being “red pilled” enough to stop her. This attitude is blue pilled, and takes away responsibility from women.Ok, I'll concede that a woman could use DIVORCE to RAPE a man. That said, I still say that the man being divorced absolutely owns a big chunk of the blame in that failed marriage. I've been involved in a lot of divorces indirectly as support to both the man, the woman, or both even. Even doing counseling before the word divorce was even mentioned, but they didn't own anything they did. None of those guys had any kind of frame whatsoever. In a way, I still have to say those women who cheated we… | /r/RPChristians | 11/09/19 10:26 PM |
| 1 | Confronting the myth that you have to “earn sex” in marriage, and that if your wife deprives you, or worse, cheats on you with another man, it is completely your fault as a man for not being “red pilled” enough to stop her. This attitude is blue pilled, and takes away responsibility from women.I think he has multiple accounts and is down voting comments he doesn't like. Look at all those that are upvoted vs downvoted. Especially since most comments that are 2-3 deep don't get any attention normally. | /r/RPChristians | 11/09/19 06:31 PM |
| 1 | Confronting the myth that you have to “earn sex” in marriage, and that if your wife deprives you, or worse, cheats on you with another man, it is completely your fault as a man for not being “red pilled” enough to stop her. This attitude is blue pilled, and takes away responsibility from women.That is quite a reach from anything I've said and it's a bit disturbing. That said, there are times any victim of any sin or crime can look back at a situation and see they clearly there is a huge spectrum of both responsibility and accountability for both parties. For example, I wouldn't have thought of rape to talk about, but since you have rape on your mind, if I indulge you in your discourse and share graphic details and they stick in your mind and you decide later today to fantasize about m… | /r/RPChristians | 11/09/19 02:16 PM |
| 3 | Confronting the myth that you have to “earn sex” in marriage, and that if your wife deprives you, or worse, cheats on you with another man, it is completely your fault as a man for not being “red pilled” enough to stop her. This attitude is blue pilled, and takes away responsibility from women.What's the point in holding women accountable? Like, then what? Stone them? Have the church shame them? Force her to return to you? Telling men to focus solely on things they can take action on isn't shaming, it's taking ownership. Take Hosea as an example. He married a slut or prostitute and she left him after they had children. The bible doesn't go into great detail of their actual relationship, but we know she left him to return to either a pimp or boyfriend. What is his recourse? What are hi… | /r/RPChristians | 11/09/19 02:23 AM |
| 1 | Confronting the myth that you have to “earn sex” in marriage, and that if your wife deprives you, or worse, cheats on you with another man, it is completely your fault as a man for not being “red pilled” enough to stop her. This attitude is blue pilled, and takes away responsibility from women.If she cheats, SOME of it is absolutely your fault. | /r/RPChristians | 11/09/19 01:38 AM |
| 2 | Confronting the myth that you have to “earn sex” in marriage, and that if your wife deprives you, or worse, cheats on you with another man, it is completely your fault as a man for not being “red pilled” enough to stop her. This attitude is blue pilled, and takes away responsibility from women.Forgive me for being blunt. I see a lot of men in the church embracing your views and they are lazy men who want what they haven't earned. They want to negotiate desire by peer pressure, societal norms, guilt via scripture, while not being stand up men, embracing Godly leading, or obeying scripture themselves. Your arguments are their arguments. They end up divorced and see their kids on weekends and summers while she remarries and never looks back. Do the (right) work. | /r/RPChristians | 10/09/19 11:40 PM |
| 2 | Confronting the myth that you have to “earn sex” in marriage, and that if your wife deprives you, or worse, cheats on you with another man, it is completely your fault as a man for not being “red pilled” enough to stop her. This attitude is blue pilled, and takes away responsibility from women.You want "society" to save you or maybe "church elders" so that's how you "said that". It's last to look for anyone else to keep your marriage happy outside of the frame model that God has provided. Look to no one but yourself and God for success in life, love, business, or any endeavor. The more you are like Jesus, the more blessed you will be. Steph Curry has HIGH STATUS. You are conflating that with FRAME. As said before, hypergamy floats, which means that no matter how much money you have, y… | /r/RPChristians | 10/09/19 11:36 PM |
| 2 | Confronting the myth that you have to “earn sex” in marriage, and that if your wife deprives you, or worse, cheats on you with another man, it is completely your fault as a man for not being “red pilled” enough to stop her. This attitude is blue pilled, and takes away responsibility from women.There is so much fail here................. I just don't even know where to start. Let me just summarize by saying it looks like: You don't want to take responsibility or accountability for what you do and don't do You feel entitled to get whatever you want without putting in any effort You are just now realizing that "hypergamy floats" and think it's an excuse to not build a Godly frame You think society owns more of the blame than crappy husbands Rant Just so we are clear, you aren't the first… | /r/RPChristians | 10/09/19 10:09 PM |
| 12 | Books to start addressing financesNo major debts except a mortgage, but I'm a complete newb with money. You're doing fine, keep it up! This is a great starter: https://www.amazon.com/Dave-Ramseys-Complete-Guide-Money/dp/1937077209 Most people borrow too much and use credit cards they can't pay off the same month and get buried. Just don't do that and you're 15 years ahead of most people. For insurance and investments, there are SO MANY to pick from it's dumb to take advice from people who don't know your goals, background, histo… | /r/askMRP | 10/09/19 09:07 PM |
| 2 | Getting better "game"Also... I will just end it nicely and talk to somebody else. This is beta-speak for quitting as soon as you don't know what to say next. Lot of field reports of guys being boring, using corny lines, having too much space, not speaking, or taking fitness tests too seriously and quit at the first sign of resistance. I have no idea about IOI's or any of that stuff. Keep reading more books. Until then, assume everything is an IOI and you are just irrationally and comically confident. That in itself … | /r/askRPC | 10/09/19 09:01 PM |
| 3 | I honestly don't know what to say..comfort test?She says "aww" and then shows me more from her phone, I politely smile and nod and tell her that I have work in the morning and that we should sleep. That was a bid for positive attention in which you rejected her. The next part about "I've noticed" is her punishing you for not responding well. Should have looked at the photo and said, "That kiss? You think that was good?! ... Come here!" or something like that. Escalate. The rest of you post is her punishing you and you DEER like a simp. I ju… | /r/askMRP | 10/09/19 01:32 PM |
| 2 | FR: The Spell is Brokenhttps://trpbackup.com/posts/2 see link for DEER VS DARE, excuse crude language | /r/RPChristians | 09/09/19 11:16 PM |
| 1 | FR: The Spell is BrokenWow, there's a lot to unpack here. First of all, there is a lot of occurrences of "my wife", "she", and "her" in this post and that already says a lot about you. 28yo, ...... Wife 31 You chose "difficult mode". So, you found an older woman? This immediately makes it really difficult to be the leader here. She will have a VERY hard time not seeing you as lesser. You are like a little brother she has sex with or the oldest kid in the household. You, on the other hand, I am guessing, naturally abdi… | /r/RPChristians | 09/09/19 07:01 PM |
| 1 | Children fightingWow, such a wide range of options and opinions. My wife doesn't think our kids should have any conflict of any kind. No disagreements, no arguments, always share, always be tolerant, patient, kind, empathetic, etc. That is not how the world works though. I'm pragmatic about it myself. First and foremost, are you teaching them effective communication skills? How to properly articulate their feelings, wants, and grievances? If they don't, you are the faggot then. How about good negotiation tactics… | /r/askMRP | 07/09/19 04:22 PM |
| 6 | Compliance testsMy wife is like this a lot, especially back seat driving. Can't say "Yes dear" I beg to differ. It must be done with sarcasm. You could also change it up and give a "Heil Hitler!" and do the Nazi salute. It's a ancient form of Agree and Amplify that has been passed down from our fathers and grandfathers. I personally like to act "as if" I was actually as dumb as her comment suggests. Parking spot: "Where?" "I'm sorry, which spot? *she points* Sorry, I don't see it, where again?" as I just pull… | /r/askMRP | 05/09/19 05:27 PM |
| 2 | She stopped making future plans. How to respond?I suggested plans that involve booking a hotel somewhere. Are you the worlds worst travel agent or her husband? Don't suggest a damn thing anymore. Come back and tell her you've already booked the hotel like a man would do and make it be a place that YOU want to go. Saying "somewhere" is so vague and this was clearly a bid for validation more than actually discussing plans. She saw through it. "Do you think we should be making plans for it this early when we don't know what can happen before t… | /r/askMRP | 05/09/19 04:58 PM |
| 3 | That Girl at WorkHow would isolating, escalating, or using kino with this coworker create passive dread when his wife doesn't work there unless he does it and brags about it? (edit: subtle hints they pick up on as per your other reply). Sure, but I am not suggesting he stop talking to her or tell her to back off, just to keep from taking the next steps in seduction. | /r/askRPC | 04/09/19 10:06 PM |
| 4 | That Girl at WorkAct like you don't see it. A woman at my gym was being like this to me too. Half the reason she is doing it is because you are married and "safe" to be flirty with and can easily say she didn't mean it like that. Don't talk about your marriage and if they do come up, only speak well of your wife. Oh, and don't be alone with her and certainly don't escalate to touching her hands, shoulders, back, or even more intimate places. | /r/askRPC | 04/09/19 07:15 PM |
| 29 | Wife being nice during separation?ILYBINILWY Explained for men under 30: I am bored of this video game, so I am gonna put it on PAUSE or find a safe place to camp while I look through all the other games in my library. I won't actually turn it all the way off or take it out, just want to see if something else looks better to play, but if nothing else looks better I'll just pick up where I left off because it's just a game and I can play it however and whenever I want to and it will be there when I want it. | /r/askMRP | 04/09/19 03:06 PM |
| 1 | What do you guys make of this situation?Normally, I would advocate to stay together more than nearly anyone in here, but WHY? | /r/askMRP | 03/09/19 07:36 PM |
| 5 | What do you guys make of this situation?No kids so this is straightforward. No kids so this is straightforward. No kids so this is straightforward. No kids so this is straightforward. No kids so this is straightforward. No kids so this is straightforward. No kids so this is straightforward. No kids so this is straightforward. No kids so this is straightforward. No kids so this is straightforward. No kids so this is straightforward. No kids so this is straightforward. No kids so this is straightforward. No kids so this is straightforwa… | /r/askMRP | 03/09/19 05:58 PM |
| 1 | So this happened...Not saying I'd take her in, I probably wouldn't. Men take care of others, it is one of the reasons we are better. | /r/MGTOW | 27/08/19 11:23 PM |
| 2 | Rethinking about MGTOW as a ChristianThe problem with providing you more than anecdotal evidence is that the accusations themselves are anecdotal. In short, during a divorce, and specifically during custody, a judge will consider both verbal accusations without evidence or if a complaint has been filed, or even charges pressed but not convicted. Why is this a problem? Obviously if mommy just says to the judge "he beat me, he stalks me, he harasses me at work, and out children are terrified of him" but produces no evidence, no phone… | /r/RPChristians | 26/08/19 05:32 PM |
| 15 | Echo ChamberOther forms of living in the moment: Get to work Read that book Lift that bar Speak up for yourself Make another call Invest the time Clean the garage Etc.... This is why you must plan your work and work your plan. Minimize the hamster's talk time. The hamster always leans on the side of weakness, doubt, and laziness. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 26/08/19 01:34 PM |
| 3 | Separated and don't want to be married againStay plan is the go plan | /r/askMRP | 24/08/19 04:00 PM |
| 2 | found pic of ex in ltrs walletEver wonder "How good is my game, like for real?". Yours is lacking. You just got your sign. So is her staying out till 2am. Your post history suggests that you must be aesthetically on point, but quickly and repeatedly turning their feelz off immediately after sex. Usually, I am in the MRP subs, not sure why I opened this up today, but typiclaly when this happens to LTR's and marriages, it is because the guy places the girl on a pedestal, gets needy, contacts too often, shows insecurity, asks j… | /r/askTRP | 23/08/19 01:41 PM |
| 6 | [17m] How can I kiss her?At some point, say "Let's go get some fresh air" Lead her outside by the hand Keep her close when outside Let it happen naturally Bonus: If it doesn't work, just say that some random guy on the internet said it would work | /r/askTRP | 23/08/19 01:32 PM |
| 3 | Rule #8: Don't argueIn all fairness u/Cmvplease2 , speaking for myself and most of us here. We aren't just a bunch of assholes waiting around for some unsuspecting dipshit to fall into a trap so we can kick his ass by calling him out. Well, some are, but no one you've called out. Most instead are people who fucked their lives up pretty good by doing everything the wrong way and someone else helped us out. Good men offered mentorship, often without asking anything in return. We are now paying it pay to other guys wh… | /r/askMRP | 22/08/19 10:08 PM |
| 5 | Rule #8: Don't argueRight?! | /r/askMRP | 22/08/19 09:55 PM |
| 2 | Leave and CleaveGreat clarification | /r/RPChristians | 22/08/19 01:07 PM |
| 29 | A Man and His StruggleDoes he LIFT? What are his stats? Has he read the sidebar? Sounds like a faggot to me! | /r/MarriedRedPill | 21/08/19 06:38 PM |
| 9 | Wife found ED Pillswe both stopped initiating about a year ago, though she has never turned me down when I initiate........ Met up with some young, super hot SB girls for some fun times Faggot she was very vanilla Nope, you are. what kind of frame should i keep? The hell kind of question is this? Try they "ANYTHING BUT A FAGGOT" frame with a pair of white sneakers? sex with my wife doesn't turn me on as much You already didn't have sex willingly for a year?! Don't put this on her, get your Testosterone checked… | /r/askMRP | 20/08/19 10:23 PM |
| 8 | Wife Sending Selfies to Orbiter / ChadHonestly, you should have read the sidebar books and posted in OYS a long time ago. My 21 year old son and my brother are "red pill aware" too, but don't believe the gospel or follow the teachings of the prophets. Huge difference man. You created this problem, probably killed her attraction for you by the "death by 1000 cuts" variety because of your half-assed approach. You should NOT tell her how you know what you know. You know less now than before. Her actions only create more questions and… | /r/askMRP | 19/08/19 09:16 PM |
| 0 | Can you demote a wife to plate status?I suggest you "gamble" away your shared liquid assets at the casino. Blackjack table, large denominations. You'll probably "lose" everything. | /r/askMRP | 18/08/19 11:25 PM |
| 4 | Catching onitits for a side pieceone woman who is much more attractive then my wife is telling me these things Who cares? Women will say anything. Their mouth noises mean absolutely nothing. She might be trying to "just see" if she can spin YOU as a plate (orbiter) and use you as an emotional tampon too. Found MRP and struggled to swallow the pill, still may be swimming around in my gut. No shit, you're a bonafide normie. No OYS postings, no field reports, nothing to suggest you didn't just find this TODAY. You are in relatio… | /r/askMRP | 17/08/19 05:04 PM |
| 1 | OYS - Where Progress is Made (08/14/19)She is legit anxious about the kids going back to school. She did some school shopping last night and already more pleasant to be around. That said, in her eyes, I have becoming boring. Our oldest used to watch the kids a lot, now she's gone most Friday and Saturdays. Chilling at home is relaxing for me, but as a SAHM, boring to her. She is also spending a ton of time with her friend going through a divorce too, so July we didn't see each other too much. No, I haven't been golfing even though it… | /r/RPChristians | 16/08/19 07:24 PM |
| 4 | Need advice with wife falling out of love with me.I am worried I am going to lose her. Don't let it show. Don't look for her to approve of anything or validate you. That is extremely unattractive faggot level shit. Work you plan as if you're a prize fighter training to get in the ring with Mayweather or Tyson in their prime. She couldn't tell you honestly if the training is going to pay off, so you'd never ask her in that circumstance, right? Be like that. Lose your weight, get swole, be fun, learn to game, learn to flirt, initiate, isolate, es… | /r/askMRP | 15/08/19 03:43 PM |
| 3 | Need advice with wife falling out of love with me.We are all eating a shit sandwich here, drop the excuses, get to work. You need to live your life "AS IF" you are the man you are trying to become and she's damn lucky to have you. Like, you aren't "winning her back" but you've "woke up and realized what a beast you are". | /r/askMRP | 15/08/19 03:35 PM |
| 5 | Need advice with wife falling out of love with me.That's more likely her just checking a box so when she leaves she can tell herself that she "tried everything" and was a "good wife". Use it as a way to kino, when she comes in, make sure you are standing up, put your arm around her to the small of her back or her ass and pull her in for the kiss, then let go like it was completely normal. This will make it "your kiss" not just her checking that box. | /r/askMRP | 15/08/19 03:32 PM |
| 1 | OYS - Where Progress is Made (08/14/19)Hobbies: Fishing, golf, building rockets/fireworks, working on cars, guns She is just nervous about them starting school mainly. I took the oldest daughter to the college yesterday to sign her up for classes. Two boys need supplies, shoes, and some shirts. She will be on edge until the open houses. She still used to homeschooling them and since they have gone to publis school she gets funny this time of year. It is annoying to me, I should actually be more reassuring to her. Not wrong about want… | /r/RPChristians | 14/08/19 11:00 PM |
| 2 | OYS - Where Progress is Made (08/14/19)I just yesterday went to my university counseling center to seek help for depression based upon childhood trauma. I've tried fixing myself and have prayed to God, but it has been many years and I'm still dealing with the same feelings. Been there done that, for both myself, my wife, and oldest daughter. Talking about it to someone is the best therapy. I am pretty much over it and have been for years. I can talk about it to anyone anytime because I've been so open about it, that it's become almos… | /r/RPChristians | 14/08/19 04:34 PM |
| 1 | OYS - Where Progress is Made (08/14/19)OYS 08-14-2019 Background 40y, 5'7", 200lbs, 5 kids, 21 years with wife, married 14 of them. Sinner, saved by the shed blood of the Lamb, was predestined for adoption to himself as sons through Jesus Christ, according to the purpose of his will, to the praise of his glorious grace, from before the foundation of the earth. Currently Reading Bible Have Read Bible, RCP Post Series, RM, Book of Poon, MMSLP, 48LOP, HTWFAIP, SWOM, Don't Sweat The Small Stuff, SAONGAF, T5LL, a lot of Zig Ziglar, Brian … | /r/RPChristians | 14/08/19 04:10 PM |
| 6 | Opinions: Do you ask a woman out to begin dating?Do you ask a woman out to begin dating? Asking a woman "out" is a requirement to dating. How else would you arrange to meeting for the date? This "ask a woman out" wording gets conflated with entering into a long term relationship often, sorry for being picky, it just bugs me. Culturally, in Israel and in the early church, you didn't "date". Usually your families matched you up, a promise was made but could be set aside if there was sin. Then a betrothal period happened which was a legal contrac… | /r/RPChristians | 13/08/19 02:44 PM |
| 15 | [FR] Straight from the horses mouth 😱"I want to feel like we're partners." Sure, just remember who's the cowboy and who's the horse *wink* | /r/RPChristians | 12/08/19 05:09 PM |
| 2 | I fucked up last night had a fight with the wife.u/savageinthebox Immediate triage. Enough people have kicked you in the balls about getting drunk and you are making a "vow" of sorts to us to quit. Don't fuck up and make this promise to HER now or BLAME your faggotry on being drunk. The drunkenness just exposed what was already there. Making the promise to quit will place her frame over yours, so own up to being a faggot without using the ALCOHOL AS AN EXCUSE. I am not one who is against apologies, but do not use the words "YOU" "BUT" "BECAUSE… | /r/askMRP | 12/08/19 03:53 PM |
| 1 | I can't control my diet.I'm also going to go out on a limb here, sounds like you've got unresolved emotional trauma and haven't found healthy ways to deal with it. That said, sounds like food is your drug of choice to find comfort in (btdt). Many people latch onto those "vows" we secretly make to ourselves when we've been hurt. That lets other lies creep into our hearts with a voice that sounds just like our own, sounds so real. Sorry to learn of the pain you are just beginning to heal from and but I am very glad you'v… | /r/RPChristians | 11/08/19 08:58 PM |
| 2 | Shit Test Again- Same shit about TRTMy wife gave me a shit test about increasing sexual initiation, and demanding higher quality. I simply told her that I had always wanted it like this. Any time, any where, the nastier the better. Previously, I was acting like too much of a pussy coward to express my feelings and make my needs known. Since I decided to stop the PMO cycle (nofap) and make sex with her my only release, my balls fill up and tension builds more. I'm sick of being the kind of faggot who doesn't put his own needs first… | /r/askMRP | 10/08/19 03:47 PM |
| 2 | Shit Test Again- Same shit about TRTCucked by machines I'm dead | /r/askMRP | 10/08/19 03:38 PM |
| 4 | Feedback on mission / hobbyI have a feeling you'd feel guilty if you said NO. I think there's a book in the sidebar about that if I could just remember the name... | /r/askMRP | 09/08/19 05:58 PM |
| 1 | Career beta looking for tips on maintaining frame, without anger, during early transformationSorry, u/austindcc, I am kind of late to the game, but here are some thoughts after seeing your post history and some of the other comments. ADHD is a label that you should try not to get to wrapped up in your identity. Is it a thing and do you actually have it? Maybe, maybe not, that's not the point. We don't care, she don't care, no one cares because you aren't special. As a wise person said "We are all eating a shit sandwich out here" so don't make this your flag to fly when you want to feel … | /r/askMRP | 09/08/19 03:20 PM |
| 2 | Need help setting a boundaryYes, yes it is | /r/askMRP | 08/08/19 06:10 PM |
| 26 | Need help setting a boundaryI justified it to myself as trusting but verifying. Think of this like taking your child's temperature when they have a fever. You looked at her text messages and found some bullshit, just like taking their temp and seeing it is 100F. You can't scold a toddler and say something like "Johnny, I told you I hate it when you have high temperatures, you need to keep it at 98F or else!". Sounds dumb, right? In the same way, how you are going to say "Jane, I hate it when you find me boring and unattrac… | /r/askMRP | 08/08/19 03:51 PM |
| 23 | Way of the Superior ManWhen he writes, he does so in such a way that it appears he believes in gender fluidity or is trying to please the mentally ill crowd. So, in theory, you could apply his insights to the traditional M+F relationship or MFFF+, M+M, F+F, etc and embraces the concept that everyone has elements of masculine and feminine, and he's not wrong either. This was kind of distracting to me while reading because it's hard to follow along while rolling your eyes, but like anything, you gotta pick the meat off … | /r/askMRP | 08/08/19 01:21 PM |
| 4 | Looking for advice for 'nice guy' kidsSo vague... but sure my son may eventually fall under the curtain of NMMNG. AMALT. If hypergamy is the curse all women are subject too, being the "nice guy", abdicating leadership, DEERing, passivity, and weak behavior is ours. Asserting oneself into alpha behavior is learned either by family, culture, or in most of our cases, through pain and suffering. I have sons 21, 13, and 8. I was SO BLUE when raising my oldest, but he and I talk regularly about the behaviors he witnessed and the fallout. … | /r/askMRP | 07/08/19 04:31 PM |
| 2 | Dealing with LD WomenThere isn't a book for "different" women, because they don't exist. We say AWALT for a reason. Women are reactive to their environment and circumstances. You might need to factor in the strong influence of their social group IF they are exhibiting more authority and stronger frame than you are, but you can rise above it or minimize the other external influences. | /r/askMRP | 06/08/19 03:19 PM |
| 13 | Shit test passDad jokes are beginner level. When you agree and amplify try to do it in such a way she actually thinks you are serious. The longer it takes for her to realize you've messed with her the better. Dad jokes just don't have the lasting pressure flip I like to get. | /r/askMRP | 06/08/19 01:18 AM |
| 4 | Tips for Threesome GameExactly | /r/askMRP | 05/08/19 02:22 PM |
| 11 | Tips for Threesome GameFull disclaimer. The threesome talk with the LTR is often just part fantasy and part shit test. I have no idea what the percentages are, but I'm comfortable enough to say that often times if you are too eager to run with the idea, you've just failed a shit test and they've lost some sort of long-term attraction for you that probably won't recover. Think of the question "which one of my friends do you think is the hottest?". Under those same circumstances, taken to fruition, the threesome ends up… | /r/askMRP | 05/08/19 02:21 PM |
| 4 | I'm in a bad spot mentally. I feel trapped. I have a very good work from home job but I feel like it's destroying my social life and my SMV.Get a babysitter, go on a date, ply her with adult beverages if necessary. Oh, and she is following your lead, so quit being negative yourself. | /r/askMRP | 03/08/19 01:37 AM |
| 12 | I'm in a bad spot mentally. I feel trapped. I have a very good work from home job but I feel like it's destroying my social life and my SMV.This! I worked out of the house myself for over a year and it sucked. Home didn't feel like a relaxing place anymore and it was difficult to be productive while working. Now I shell out $300 per month to rent an office out of the house from my friends business and we share a breakroom with a pool table, 3 TVs, leather couches, pinball machine, and a 3 door beer cooler. | /r/askMRP | 02/08/19 10:37 PM |
| 1 | Wife has been frantic and emotional about the upcoming family vacationfreaking out saying, "ugh... I look so fat." "I hate the beach" "god, my sister's gonna make fun of me and give me shit" and "blah, blah, blah" She was fishing for compliments and/or comfort. By the way, your sister in law has better dread game than you do. what's up with that? She should care more about what you think than her, what level of dread are really on? | /r/askMRP | 02/08/19 04:24 PM |
| 2 | My experience having a break up with my first christian girlfriendI also tolerated her mother............ I think it's quite possible that her mother saw through your weak frame and perhaps correctly judged you as such. I would NOT want a man dating my daughter that put her on a pedestal as you've said you did. Before you go and judge her as rotten chaff, consider maybe she saw something in you and wasn't wrong. Don't be so quick to be a victim, blame other people for your failure, judge, and hold on to unforgiveness. I guarantee that woman has nothing on the … | /r/RPChristians | 02/08/19 03:53 PM |
| 5 | Shit test...did I pass?Good for you. Seriously, lots of guys stopped waking up with a hard on on their 20s or 30s and just accept it as normal. Somehow the idea of getting on TRT comes off as less manly, which is insane. To think, people will settle for female level hormones instead of taking a pill because they don't want to "be a pussy" makes absolutely no sense. Testosterone is what makes you able to not give an F when it matters and stand up when you should. Take control of situations, not put up with bullshit, ma… | /r/askMRP | 01/08/19 10:12 PM |
| 3 | The Main EventAgreed, but still not as ideal as having an effective MAP and the proper response. There ARE men who do work their plan, improve, establish frame, become more attractive, and the wife, for whatever reason, doesn't respond. That is largely the exception though and again, not something to work toward as some think they should. Having been a support person in more marriages than I care to talk about. After speaking to all involved, often the issue is the man continuously breaking frame and sabotagi… | /r/RPChristians | 01/08/19 09:14 PM |
| 3 | The Main EventMain event conversations are a display of low value, but this is offset by the hysterical bonding that follows. It would seem many guys "work toward" a main event the moment they hear about it. Clearly, it's a last resort and can only climax to this point IF the man has been incompetent in his lead and ineffective in his MAP. Best to focus on improving. | /r/RPChristians | 01/08/19 08:59 PM |
| 20 | Shit test...did I pass?Get your Testosterone levels checked. You shouldn't be so dickless even at your age. | /r/askMRP | 31/07/19 10:17 PM |
| 12 | Knowing the path and walking the pathIs it acceptable.... Sure. Take as long as you need sweetie, you deserve it. Get some wine, chocolate bon-bons, put on Lifetime movies for a couple years. You are a strong independent woman and don't need no man! snap snap | /r/askMRP | 31/07/19 12:01 AM |
| 1 | I had to act and I acted.Many people don't have an actual MAIN EVENT. Changes can be more gradual and nuanced as it is with me and a lot of others. You still have to pass a lot of shit tests to convince her you are for real. By your own admission, you don't even have your own frame fully established for her to commit to, so this was definitely not "it". Lot's of changes over a short period of time is bound to make her confused. Her hamster was probably spinning big time. "Is he having an affair?" "Is he having a stroke?… | /r/askMRP | 30/07/19 04:53 PM |
| 20 | Before you found rp, while you were still drunk, is there anyone here whose wife found rp before you? What did she do to inspire you to OYS?My wife used to say stuff like "I kind of wish you'd be a construction worker or a fireman". She didn't know what she was asking. I was in my 20s and in sales, doing well actually, but I had turned in my balls for a bottle of blue pills. Unfortunately, most women are incapable of articulating what they want from you and because they want you to "get it". IMHO, every shit test is a challenge from a woman to her man to either swallow some red pills or chop his balls off and punish him for being a … | /r/askMRP | 30/07/19 02:01 PM |
| 7 | Wife prohibiting me from DJing in bar of my choiceAct like you don't care what the consequences are and that you make up your mind like a big boy. Like "why would I worry about the consequences?" Shrug, smile, wink, slap on the ass. As if you can't possibly understand why anyone would have confused this in the first place. The shit test she gave about the booty shorts is from dread and good. Then came a sort of comfort test about cheating. If that comes up, just ask her her "why would I want to cheat?". You aren't directly saying you will or wo… | /r/askMRP | 29/07/19 08:12 PM |
| 3 | Finally passing shit tests, but more questionsWell, thanks acknowledges the humble repentance and you then let it go. You gain nothing by staying butt hurt, keeping score, or being petty. In fact if you do those things, it is then telling her by your actions that it is okay for her to do those things to you. | /r/askMRP | 29/07/19 05:46 PM |
| 9 | Finally passing shit tests, but more questionsYou are coming off as roll playing and it is confusing her. Find your balance of kino and be consistent. Purposely withdrawing attention for extended time is butt hurt. Just ling enough for the behavior to stop or her mood to shift back into your frame, then resume as if it never happened. You also should be sure to reward good behavior, like the apology. I know guys who have never heard an apology in a 30 year marriage. Also, be better about wording, "it's okay" implies her behavior was accepta… | /r/askMRP | 29/07/19 04:52 PM |
| 0 | Household FinancesBut I can't shake the feeling that it's a bad idea - a really, really bad idea. I see what you are trying to do, but it's passive-aggressive to yank control like that. What you are desiring is not control, but her SUBMISSION. Control and manipulation with your assets as leverage feels good for the moment like keying a car that cut you off, but doesn't bring long term satisfaction. Work your MAP and slowly and methodically climb the ladders of DREAD until things click. | /r/RPChristians | 29/07/19 02:41 PM |
| 3 | How do I start implementing dread.I love her and dont want to lose her but also dont want to lose my self. Lose yourself and you WILL lose her. Find yourself (your frame) and you MIGHT keep her. | /r/askMRP | 25/07/19 12:33 PM |
| 2 | I keep failing her subtle shit tests, take them too seriouslyYou missed the point. The entirety of your situation suggests that you invited her to get her to buy in, to approve, to support your endeavor in order to give it validation. Like you want her to see you doing it to get credit for it. That's now how this works. You get "credit" once you become the kind of guy who doesn't GAF what people think because YOU KNOW you are the prize in your heart of hearts, not because someone else witnessed it and approved. Having hobbies, gym time, sports is an oppor… | /r/askMRP | 24/07/19 03:31 PM |
| 12 | Don't talk about fight clubOrbiters gonna orbit more likely. MRP is a lonely path. My own brother blue-pilled himself into a terrible divorce and wouldn't even read MMSLP to gain any insight. I lent out Rational Male to another friend hoping I'd have a friend IRL to sharpen the iron with, but after a month he returned unread and asked if I had it on audio book. | /r/askMRP | 24/07/19 01:58 PM |
| 4 | I keep failing her subtle shit tests, take them too seriouslyI feel like for every negative blue pill responses, I need several alpha/red pill ways to counteract it. You can sum up all of your struggles by saying that you lack abundance. You are too insecure, which makes it too difficult to take her down from the pedestal, too neurotic to shut up your hamster, too weak to get out of her frame, too needy to NGAF, seek her validation so you needed her buy-in to your contact sport, and that's why you are also trying to overcompensate blue pill responses with… | /r/askMRP | 24/07/19 01:47 PM |
| 9 | Need Opinions from Married RPs: Is My Wife Gaslighting Me?I'm being gaslighted This is a victim mentality. You are clearly having problems, but you will never work your way through them if you are seeking to blame someone else for your situation. Women are reactive creatures looking to follow the lead of their man. You need to own your behavior fully if you are to have any chance to make any changes. Absolutely accept full responsibility for the situation AS IF her being a woman has all but removed her will to do anything except respond to either good … | /r/RPChristians | 23/07/19 03:22 PM |
| 8 | Husband had an affair - seeking feedbackI feel he wants it just swept under the rug.......... The only two requests I have given him are 1) Unblock his phone and 2) block her number. Sounds like you are the one who wants to sweep your marriage issues under the rug. I am by no means justifying his infidelity, but I am willing to bet you are both quite dysfunctional and need to work out a huge list of issues. Case in point, you already mention issues with submitting to him and being respectful. That submission and respect can be a valid… | /r/RPChristians | 23/07/19 02:34 PM |
| 14 | Making Progress, but have questionsWOW, can we get a BOT for this? It's so telling regarding frame. | /r/askMRP | 22/07/19 03:44 PM |
| 3 | Making Progress, but have questionsI'm not really concerned about her cheating Really, you aren't concerned? Why did YOU mention it then? | /r/askMRP | 22/07/19 03:09 PM |
| 3 | Making Progress, but have questionscompany has strict rules about leaving the hotel/it's not completely safe Nice, she has plausible deniability | /r/askMRP | 22/07/19 02:24 PM |
| 4 | Feeling Guilty and RedemptionI've recently been feeling different after a couple of life events and realize that I hate the person that I've become. Conviction comes from the Holy Spirit, God is moving in your life. I want to change and be a more Godly person, but I don't know if I deserve it after all of these transgressions towards God. You're right, you don't deserve it. That is why salvation is a gift and it's of grace. While we were still sinners, Christ died for us to be the sacrifice for our sins so we could be sav… | /r/RPChristians | 22/07/19 02:16 PM |
| 5 | If you could go back in time and do anything different at the beginning of your relationship, what would it be?Hypotheticals are for faggots | /r/askMRP | 21/07/19 11:24 PM |
| 13 | Lifting question, herniasBelts might help, but dude your medical condition is so unique and personal that you should actually talk to a Dr , PT or OT, and meet with a trainer. | /r/askMRP | 20/07/19 04:56 PM |
| 7 | Cheating, divorce and lost new girl. Need help.... grieving .... heartbroken ..... popping Xanax nonstop and can’t sleep or eat ...... I’m in a bad place, thanks. Suck it up and own it. You created this mess, you gambled and lost, you are reaching your own rewards. If you fail to embrace the suffering, you will never learn from it. You looked to the women in your life for validation and excitement instead of knowing your self worth and being the source of the excitement and it all crumbled. Sounds like the only person that thought you were e… | /r/askMRP | 19/07/19 03:19 PM |
| 5 | She's sleeping on the couch? (EXAMPLE)Hypotheticals scenarios are for faggots | /r/askMRP | 19/07/19 02:07 AM |
| 2 | Night time routine / talking / initiatingwhen I get to bed, I've been initiating right away ...... she started talking, I listened for a minute or so and then when there was a pause I initiated So, you wait until you are both going to sleep and call that "right away"? Sounds like you are waiting until the last minute to me.... until I keep reading anyway. You don't even do that right away, you let her start talking and wait for a pause? Sounds like she is still in charge then, wouldn't want to interrupt the boss, right? Weak. What I'… | /r/askMRP | 18/07/19 03:01 PM |
| 4 | Using RPC principals as a last resort for my sex starved marriage.depression, anxiety, and insecurities started to flow ..... I only exacerbated the problem ..... even physically abusing me at times. I have a high anxiety wife too. Can't let her see you do anything weak or unattractive. Be calm and completely non-reactive to her bad behavior. You should NOT put up with physical violence and you need to make sure you never escalate the situation. Don't get mad, just walk out without saying a word. Go to the gym, come back in a couple hours and act like it never… | /r/RPChristians | 17/07/19 04:45 PM |
| 16 | Question regarding men being the ruler of the familyAdam was always in charge of the garden and in charge over Eve. God spoke to Adam, then Adam to Eve. It was Adam's job to name the animals, tend the garden, and to keep himself and Eve from eating of the forbidden tree. Until this chapter or point in history, there was NO SIN. Therefore no need to define order and to talk about obedience as there was no disorder or disobedience. The concept of rebelling against the hierarchy had not been introduced yet. Genesis 3:16 defines part of the curse tha… | /r/RPChristians | 15/07/19 03:18 PM |
| 3 | How did you approach your wife?Tattoo on girls are advertisement for dick by the way. My dad was in the hospital recently for surgery, they have RN's coming in hourly to check on him. One is an HB8 with brunette hair and she has a world atlas style map on her arm. So I tease and say "did you have to cheat at geography in college?" confused, she says asks what I mean, then grin and I point/touch her tattoo and ask "or do you love to travel?". Face blushed hard, she starts to explain how she likes traveling, London, etc, but ne… | /r/askMRP | 15/07/19 02:57 PM |
| 2 | How did you approach your wife?Ok, so what are you doing wrong then? What part of what you read are you either failing or unwilling to try? | /r/askMRP | 15/07/19 03:28 AM |
| 2 | How did you approach your wife?First dated her cousin, but after that relationship died we met again years later through mutual friends. What books have you read from the sidebar? Do you have hobbies? Do you have friends? Do you go to a gym or several of them? Women can be easily bored or socially anxious and bury themselves in social media while out to alleviate their perceived suffering. Good news is that it is extremely easy to be more interesting than the glowing screen. Tease them about almost anything to get their atten… | /r/askMRP | 15/07/19 03:07 AM |
| 1 | OYS - Where Progress is Made (07/10/19)Holy crap dude! So.......her concerns are not exactly unjustified, are they? Exactly. He is A LOT like I was, but doing it maybe a year younger and not even trying to be sneaky. I got away with a lot too because my parents did NOT pay attention, or maybe even care? Not sure still, but he gets caught all the time, is not good at being sneaky, does not apologize or kiss butt. If I am being like a pschyotherapist, I'd say he is trying to get her attention and feels rejected. I try to coach him in h… | /r/RPChristians | 12/07/19 09:14 PM |
| 1 | OYS - Where Progress is Made (07/10/19)Last week you said he was getting along better with her since putting the 8 year old and the 4 year old together. So what's going on here? He is getting along with them better, so now it's down to him and mom. I think this is the root problem; jealous of the attention the younger kids from her and of the freedom the older kids have. Middle of all 5 kids. I want to give him MUCH more freedom and even outlined what I my expectations are and what I am willing to extend him for freedoms. When it's h… | /r/RPChristians | 12/07/19 06:50 PM |
| 1 | OYS - Where Progress is Made (07/10/19)Thanks, I'll do this. I was considering cables too. My gym doesn't have standard bar bell, just the Smith Machine and the barbell row doesn't feel right in it. | /r/RPChristians | 12/07/19 03:01 PM |
| 5 | Continue with kino or back off?Continue with kino or back off? Don't just continue, get better at it. Honestly, she wants you to, but women shit test because AWALT, but a quality man DNGAF. He teases her for being bitchy and comes in closer. He doesn't get butt hurt, he smiles with a shit eating grin. Being cordial is for divorced couples or soon to be. Husbands and wives are meant to be close, intimate, passionate. Get better at passing shit tests and at flirting. I've put a pause on initiating sex the last week or so. a… | /r/askMRP | 11/07/19 08:07 PM |
| 3 | Female Psychologist wants husband to become BetaOh FFS | /r/askMRP | 11/07/19 02:48 PM |
| 4 | MonogamyFixed on our wives only We should not lust after other women or covet another man's wife, but doesn't mean we don't notice. I comment regularly now without fear when we meet new people if the are genuinely attractive. It's about frame, so work on treading water before jumping in deep waters. It is healthy to notice attractiveness, to be attractive, and to be flattered and flattering. accountability and filters FYI....Do not have HER be an "accountability partner". Huge mistake, then you are oper… | /r/RPChristians | 10/07/19 09:06 PM |
| 1 | OYS - Where Progress is Made (07/10/19)She has always viewed herself as hotter than me, so do/did I. Was guilty of oneitis and putting her on a pedestal, so I've worked up to Level 8. I recently went to Level 9 because of the 3 month decline and regular starfish. I think that caused the correction, was good at delivering the "facts" without drama or emotion. I hold frame pretty well now and I did admit being displeased with her and eventually apologized specifically for not saying something sooner and letting it build up into bittern… | /r/RPChristians | 10/07/19 08:46 PM |
| 1 | OYS - Where Progress is Made (07/10/19)OYS 07-10-19 Background 40y, 5'7", 200lbs, 5 kids, 21 years with wife, married 14 of them. Was using and selling drugs in my teens when we met. Today, both of us pretty radically changed praise God. Clean from drugs since 1999 at 20 years old. Drink an occasional beer or three but never get drunk anymore. We are both in leadership at our church. I preach sometimes, she does children's church. Both of us mentor/disciple men and women respectively. Currently Reading Bible Have Read Bible, RCP Post… | /r/RPChristians | 10/07/19 06:53 PM |
| 11 | MonogamySo true! Personally, when I look at porn, I can't even go to a gas station without starting at every woman's butt, crotch, and cleavage and at the very least ponder if I like them. I'll catch myself looking to see if they are looking back at me and if they do, hoping they smile. The other thing that drives the desire is our insecurity. We all have that burning question in our minds; "Am I man enough?". We seek validation in many forms to test it too. Sports, hunting, fighting, business accolades… | /r/RPChristians | 10/07/19 05:11 PM |
| 1 | MRP/TRP says it's my fault if my wife cheats on me. What does RPC say?Yes, you are complicit and are going to be held accountable. I think what you are looking for is to vindicate men from the sins of failed relationships. Natural things are created by God and reflect spiritual truths. Cause and effect are His design. Every action having an opposite and equal reaction. There are consequences for everything we do. Every sacrifice and every sin has an effect on the world around us. All of the sins of the husband harm his whole family. The bluepill man causes pain an… | /r/RPChristians | 10/07/19 01:48 PM |
| 2 | I’m meeting her dad tomorrow. Any advice?Just be yourself. u/TurnerK28 I agree with Rifle. Don't try to get sucked into his frame, he will see right through it. Let the chips fall where they do. If you are a "crappy guy", take the loss, feel the pain, use it to get better. By default, he won't like you because no one is good enough for our daughters. You will be just tolerable at best, but if she ends up being happy around you, then you'll grow on him. Otherwise, if he says to the wife "well, that one wasn't so bad" when you leave, tha… | /r/RPChristians | 09/07/19 04:01 PM |
| 3 | Did any of you married men "talk" about sex before getting married?.............so You suggest to specifically NOT ask about kids, faith, money, and sex? Just skip that part of vetting for marriage because you are (shouts like a drill sergeant) ATTRACTIVE AND STUFF! | /r/askMRP | 09/07/19 12:50 PM |
| 4 | Did any of you married men "talk" about sex before getting married?Right, I agree you can't negotiate desire, it is either there or it isn't. If it's not, don't even bother asking those questions at all I suppose. However, that has nothing to do with what you expect from her in a relationship. Things like, how you invest or spend money, or the morals you want to raise your kids with, and yes knowing if they even like to have sex are big picture things. Long term compatibility. You are conflating the entirety of an LTR with momentary sexual desire. A man who doe… | /r/askMRP | 08/07/19 11:48 PM |
| 6 | Did any of you married men "talk" about sex before getting married?Did any of you do this either pre or post red pill aware? Nope, I we were VERY young and partied a lot, so no, we didn't talk about any of this stuff. Thankfully they kind of worked out anyway, but I am a extremely rare exception. If so, why? I was 18, horny, full of testosterone and she just followed me everywhere and super horny too. She just moved in because we ended up in my place every night anyway. What was the outcome? Like I said, a rare win playing the game this way. We'd quit doing… | /r/askMRP | 08/07/19 07:36 PM |
| 1 | Girl left because I played a song before we fuckedShe's an Alpha Widow, it was "their song" | /r/askTRP | 06/07/19 02:05 AM |
| 1 | OYS - Where Progress is Made (07/03/19)Is this a mini main event that I read about? Maybe for me, not her. I let it get bad enough to reach the point I didn't care to kiss up and she saw it. She's always been attractive, sexy, and had to avoid wanna be orbiters. For the better part of 18 months, I have been improving everywhere and getting decent results in all areas, including the bedroom and our relationship. HOWEVER, there's been lingering oneitis. A bit of that dread that she has ready suitors and I don't. Well, I get IOIs now. I… | /r/RPChristians | 06/07/19 01:54 AM |
| 2 | Curious about RP Christian denominationsI thought it stopped until I tried to prove to a friend using scripture. | /r/RPChristians | 04/07/19 11:50 PM |
| 1 | Curious about RP Christian denominationsRaised Methodist, then went Assembly of God, now ND. Theologically follow doctrines of grace but am absolutely a continuationist on the Holy Spirit | /r/RPChristians | 04/07/19 10:34 PM |
| 11 | Matthew vs RPit seems like being one (doormat) is going to get me into heaven No, the shed blood of Jesus is the only thing that will get you to heaven brother. Can't earn it, no matter how many people you let walk on you. | /r/RPChristians | 03/07/19 07:32 PM |
| 0 | OYS - Where Progress is Made (07/03/19)OYS 07-03-19 Background 40y, 5'7", 205lbs, 5 kids, 21 years with wife, married 14 of them. Was using and selling drugs in my teens when we met. Today, both of us pretty radically changed praise God. Clean from drugs since 1999 at 20 years old. Drink an occasional beer or three but never get drunk anymore. We are both in leadership at our church. I preach sometimes, she does children's church. Both of us mentor/disciple men and women respectively. Currently Reading Bible Have Read Bible, RCP Post… | /r/RPChristians | 03/07/19 04:13 PM |
| 1 | Is the greatest thing you can do for a person to bring them to salvation?bring them We don't bring them, the Holy Spirit does the saving, drawing men to Christ. Our call is to LOVE on another. It's a bit easy to feel like evangelism is an be all, end all calling, but it is only a small portion of all we are asked to do. Even discipleship speaks of a long term fellowship of teaching and correcting after they are saved. made up for it This really feels like "works" based teaching. Just to be clear, if you mangle someone in a car wreck, nothing will make up for it bes… | /r/RPChristians | 03/07/19 02:07 PM |
| 9 | Recent Christian, about to just give up on women.marriage is truly a sin in the eyes of god Nope, not at all. I've asked god to bring me a good wife. Be patient. When I hear stuff like that, it just makes not want to ever bother with women again. Sorry brother, hypergamy is not exclusive to the world, but AWALT. Just like men tend to quit, get defensive, make excuses, rationalize their sin, shrink from their leadership, become indecisive, and procrastinate. Keep working on your relationship with God, praying, listening, and pursuing exce… | /r/RPChristians | 02/07/19 06:42 PM |
| 2 | Jekyll and HydeScripture does not make such designation to one particular sex. Both men and women have the ability for a variety of reasons to give into rage, brawling, outbursts, etc. Beer makes a brawler might occur in men more than women for example, but not always. Hormones might make women act crazy a little each month, but my hormones make me pretty insane as a teenager. Immaturity, emotions, anger, rage, passion, and the full range of emotion and/or sin is common to all people. Most of the specific inst… | /r/RPChristians | 02/07/19 05:52 PM |
| 6 | (Xpost from asktrp) My wife is depressed, and I would appreciate some insight so I can help herWhether she and I are together or not children are a goal of mine. It's just a question of whether my kids are with her or not. So....more indecision. If it's not her, cut her loose. | /r/askMRP | 02/07/19 05:11 PM |
| 9 | (Xpost from asktrp) My wife is depressed, and I would appreciate some insight so I can help her"it's your fault" It is... your fault. She clearly isn't a helper on your mission or a first mate on your boat. You took off and forgot to bring her along. Without kids for her to take care of, a business to run, or some kind of goal to contribute to, then she feels useless. And no wonder too. So, what is she? A tourist? Aging eye-candy? I don't know if having kids is a great idea at the moment, but late 30s, early 40s is ADVANCED AGE for having kids and considered high risk by that fact alone. … | /r/askMRP | 02/07/19 04:51 PM |
| 7 | Confirmed my LTR has been cheatingNext her. You can't plate her, you need to establish frame first. You'll keep falling into hers. Keep as LTR? No possible good can come of this. Seriously, only grudge sex with a chance of pregnancy or STDs. Focus on yourself, hit the gym and do arms and cardio, whatever is save while back heals. Read Rational Male and start posting in OYS. Oh, and rejoice you didn't marry her, for real! You dodged a bullet. | /r/askMRP | 02/07/19 12:48 PM |
| 3 | Wife pushing back after upping my SMV and holding frame.she's worried for the marriage..........she wants better communication...."shut down".... Extended STFU turns into stonewalling. You are not understanding when to let it go and resume being awesome again. | /r/askMRP | 01/07/19 09:15 PM |
| 1 | Anyone have tips for creating time and space for sex when there are always children in the house?getting blown while the baby was looking at me or while breastfeeding felt weird. I've thought about this a couple times over the weekend. Your wife actually gave you head WHILE BREAST FEEDING!? Not gonna lie, that's bad ass man! I doubt you can even find porn that sick you lucky bastard! I hope she swallowed for the baby sake. | /r/askMRP | 01/07/19 02:36 PM |
| 1 | DHV "battle" between me and my wife; question.resulting in me almost ending the relationship (long story, but I corrected the behavior and it has never happened since). Sounds like faggotry?! We've all been there, done that, but done different levels and forms of it. How we gonna help you when we don't know what you do when you go full faggot? The way this reads, it actually seems like you think it was HER fault and that you FIXED her! LOL! freelance media world Oh FFS. This is great for drug addicts, traveling the world, and for honing y… | /r/askMRP | 01/07/19 02:11 PM |
| 4 | Wife not a good motherStop living by covert contracts. Also, babies can't walk, you have a toddler and you gotta let them crash sometimes and you can't treat their crying like an edict from God. Chill out man. | /r/askMRP | 30/06/19 08:04 PM |
| 22 | Small Text meme, But worth the read.Ok MGTOW bro, have my upvote | /r/MGTOW | 29/06/19 03:27 PM |
| 2 | Anyone have tips for creating time and space for sex when there are always children in the house?First of all, kids act grossed out, but it is actually healthy and reassuring for them to know their parents still have it. My kids get kind of clingy at times and even when we just want some space, I will tease them and say we are going to our room to make out, so keep away unless you want to walk in on some heavy kissing or more. That said, my wife has a hard time shifting from mom to wife. She has that whole "I've had kids on me all day and don't feel sexy" thing going on most days. New anxie… | /r/askMRP | 28/06/19 04:17 PM |
| 1 | Covert Contracts and STFU22 years into this and shit tests are like pitches in baseball. I've used all sorts of stuff along the way and the key having one really good swing that hits a walk off homer and the game is over. You gotta recognize all the different pitches, learn when to swing, learn when to let it go, and most importantly having the ability to get a lot of base hits consistently. There are a ton of shit tests and lots of ways to deal with them. Get used to keeping frame and not getting rattled because you ar… | /r/askMRP | 27/06/19 07:21 PM |
| 13 | Covert Contracts and STFUMy wife used to do this and it became really bad. Not only criticism but back seat driving like she was part of an unwanted GPS system. I would get so angry that I found I was intentionally driving bad to piss her off. Things like running yellow lights, +10 over limit, hard braking, fast accelleration, etc. Worse yet, subconsciously at times I would trust that she was helping and actually miss something like her blind spot because she gave me an unsolicited update all week long, until it would h… | /r/askMRP | 27/06/19 03:17 PM |
| 10 | Covert Contracts and STFUCC is covered pretty well and I assume you get it from the books, so let's open up the STFU a bit. This can be a little more nuanced. Your woman will shit test you. When you receive the disrespect, your default blue pill feeling pushes you to act by addressing it right away. Maybe you say something sarcastic, maybe you scold her and tell her not to talk that way, possibly you go full hulk and body slam her from the top turn buckle. None of those is recommended. STFU is simply not showing a rea… | /r/askMRP | 26/06/19 06:16 PM |
| 2 | Text message gaming questions with wife.Would you say that seduction via text is just for guys spinning plates/non-commitment relationships? No, seduction via text is reserved for guys who don't have to ask which 256 character text string will drive my wife crazy. Chad can text his plate a message saying "penis happy" and make her wet because his game is on point, he lifts, he has frame, he grooms, and other women want him too. You can't because you haven't put in the work. Think of it like this. My 3 year old kid walks in the kitch… | /r/askMRP | 26/06/19 03:11 PM |
| 3 | No Wife / Why Women Don't Need You / Do not marry her...Satisfying marriages I grade my wife pretty hard and I am shooting for extremely high goals. I would say the average western man would rate my marriage currently at least a 7 out of 10 even with the recent uptick in anxiety and blowback from her new medication. We've been together since high school, missionary sex is pretty much on demand where she and I both O, I do what I want, when I want, no affairs, no longer harpy, follows my lead most of the time but occasionally tries to take the wheel, … | /r/RPChristians | 26/06/19 02:59 PM |
| 3 | Wife's permissionShit test is about compliance and checking frame for weakness. Comfort test is about her insecurity. I think she wants compliance but this is rooted in her insecurity. Since you handled the affair like a good little blue pill boy, mommy expects compliance and probably thinks she is entitled to it. If you had established frame already, you would do whatever you want, but you don't have it and I don't think you understand what abundance mentality really is. What to do? Get your bitch ass in the gy… | /r/askMRP | 25/06/19 09:17 PM |
| 1 | OYS - Where Progress is Made (06/19/19)Bingo. I try to get her to talk about it with me, friend, or therapist, but she isn't having it. It is absolutely from childhood trauma, abandonment issues, and oppositional defiance, trust. For a long time they were dormant but taking the leadership role seriously either is just horrible timing or has challenged some other defense mechanisms she had in place like being in control or at least getting her way often. I feel like the meds are at best a bandaid, but more likely a crutch that will hi… | /r/RPChristians | 24/06/19 04:39 AM |
| 2 | Validation & MRP, contradictionsLooking for mommy to give you the ol' starfish Saturday sex because you did the dishes and made her happy; bad validation. Her giving you fun, enthusiastic sex to let you know you are the king and don't need to look elsewhere to meet your needs; good validation. | /r/askMRP | 24/06/19 04:31 AM |
| 2 | Question about handling a woman when she ventsI see myself as a guide for my wife. Like she is actually unable to navigate herself through her drama alone. When men have issues we are quietly thinking in our heads, but I don't think the hamster let's them work quietly. The brain seems directly connected to the tongue like a bike pedal to the chain. I see my role as the one to move the story along and kind of coach her venting. As if she doesn't know how she even feels yet or how to process it until she speaks the words out loud. Lol, almost… | /r/askMRP | 24/06/19 04:17 AM |
| 1 | Knowing what you know now, would you get married/have kids again?Truth | /r/askMRP | 21/06/19 09:30 PM |
| 20 | Changes starting to get traction. Wife starting to become insecure.Seems to be a pattern, let's see if we can find a source She says No that is your path. and I have tried getting her to sit with me the past two nights to sit down with me and read the bible as well as go to the gym but she says she will pass... She isn't following your "lead" here... at all. Studies show that if a man goes to church there is nearly 90% likelihood that the whole family does too AND comes to Christ. Those men who suceed are leading, those who don't imho are begging. Her respo… | /r/RPChristians | 21/06/19 06:15 PM |
| 1 | Question about Christian womenSolomon, like David his father were the Alpha of Alphas. | /r/askMRP | 21/06/19 04:47 PM |
| 1 | OYS - Where Progress is Made (06/19/19)My guess is that you're become tired of the tests and they haven't become fun Yeah, that is the truth. maybe you don't like me anymore /// Is there any truth to this statement? No, she apologized for being harpy since, blah blah about this and that. Are you that place where she can safely retire from her day? Perhaps I am not lately and I am making excuses. It's super easy to diagnose other people but so difficult not to believe your own excuses, so I'm gonna shake it up and take her for an even… | /r/RPChristians | 21/06/19 04:02 PM |
| 3 | Question about Christian womenAre women less "hypergamous" TL/DR: No, they are AWALT. The culture can be different. Red pill concepts are biblical concepts for the most part with a few variations. A christian man pursues his mission, and receives validation from God and scripture instead of himself. Dread level 9 and 10 you don't use divorce as a threat or go to Level 11 or 12 unless of course she divorces you and is not a believer or she cheats. Something like that. It's my opinion that guys noticed that biblical masculinit… | /r/askMRP | 21/06/19 03:45 PM |
| 1 | Why does my girlfriend show absolutely zero red flags?Oneitis is the actual blind spot for her BS. | /r/askTRP | 20/06/19 11:02 PM |
| 2 | Why does my girlfriend show absolutely zero red flags?I didn't see where you mentioned a year together. This changes a little bit but not much. You still don't have skin in the game as far as I see it. You haven't invested anything yet except some time, a little money maybe, met some friends and family. You don't have kids, haven't bought a house together, haven't bought a huge diamond ring, and certainly haven't got legally married, so you are still in the interview process. You claim to be over 50 N count. Well, this is NOT that game. That is a c… | /r/askTRP | 20/06/19 08:18 PM |
| 1 | Why does my girlfriend show absolutely zero red flags?I'm married, by choice, so I get it. Married Red Pill is better and harder. Just know she hasn't shown you the real version yet, that's all. | /r/askTRP | 20/06/19 07:25 PM |
| 1 | Why does my girlfriend show absolutely zero red flags?Why does my girlfriend show absolutely zero red flags? She is auditioning for the lead role as WIFE | /r/askTRP | 20/06/19 03:58 PM |
| 1 | OYS - Where Progress is Made (06/19/19)Sorry I am being brief, I wrote that in the gym waiting for a squat rack to open up. Meds //// Libido //// Working on it //// What does this mean for you in an action sense? First, it is business as usual. I am still passing tests, gaming, applying kino, being flirty and fun. I am resisting the urge to go rambo, but it's a real urge. Turned down the starfish Refused to fetch her vibrator and just did caveman. Roll over and just sleep without pouting. Making myself less available. Taking the kids… | /r/RPChristians | 20/06/19 03:13 PM |
| 1 | OYS - Where Progress is Made (06/19/19)Back in the gym, pulled muscle and tennis elbow feeling over 90%. 200 sq, 70 ohp db, 250 dl, 80 BP db, 60 row Wife is doing marginally better with anxiety. Still on meds which has sapped her energy and libido. Working on it. Spending a lot more time with the boys. Seeing payoff too. I've realized from them that the wife is contradicting what I say. She is inconsistent and using obserd cold threats to try to scare them. This is a huge issue since I'm hammering home to them to be genuine, realisti… | /r/RPChristians | 19/06/19 11:40 PM |
| 12 | Your woman is one of your greatest creationsThe only thing my wife did a year ago was take care of the kids (badly) and clean. Bang bang! Not a single time did I get encouragement from her. Even if you did, it is rarely authentic. I would get mocking about going to the gym and wearing a sport coat casually at first. Passing shit tests would get comments like "oh, did you read that in one of your self improvement books?!". his hard work has benefited someone else This in so many ways is a real measure of being a what I envision "A MAN"… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 19/06/19 07:59 PM |
| 5 | Trying to get started with young kidsthe hang up is that we've got two kids, 4yo and 10mo, that are needy as FUCK Any excuse is good enough for someone wanting to quit or say it's too hard for ME, but don't blame your kids for your shitty life. Own it yourself. If they are actually that needy, it's because those hours that you are spending with them are shitty ones where you aren't making the most of your time. Get real with yourself. How much time you looking at porn, playing on your phone, surfing the web, talking about black peo… | /r/askMRP | 19/06/19 06:22 PM |
| 3 | Their behavior, not their words tell you all you need to knowPlease share examples of what you guys have seen and how you handled it. Love to hear them. Same, your wife treats me just like that too! But seriously congrats on the progress. | /r/askMRP | 17/06/19 03:51 PM |
| 7 | Strategic Thinking Help Needed – Boundary Violation ConsequencesA horse woman?! Does the horse know she is cheating on it with you occasionally? Sorry bro, those chicks are crazy and you are the side piece. | /r/askMRP | 16/06/19 02:22 AM |
| 2 | She's a reflection of me1000 ft rope and you work the levels of dread in order. No one goes 0 to 100 mph, it takes time to internalize change effectively and authentically. A huge mistake would be skipping right to level 10 or higher before you've put in the work and time. | /r/askMRP | 15/06/19 03:48 PM |
| 2 | HD/LSE Wife... any tips?The way I see it, I think I need to give a healthy dose of comfort/SE boost while passing the test to prevent needing to do damage control afterwards. Maintaining frame is the key here. Smiling in a confident or cocky manner and NOT in a sarcastic or mocking way and you'll be fine. If you had more specific examples of the actual test and responses that are giving you the most trouble, the comments in here will be more useful. | /r/askMRP | 13/06/19 06:09 PM |
| 4 | HD/LSE Wife... any tips?Been there, done that. You have entered the realm of SHITTY COMFORT TESTS. In the short term, women enjoy dominating a man and while it is enjoyable for a moment it ultimately fails. HOWEVER, relinquishing that control or having the one being dominated rise up, even in a healthy way, can be scary and threatening. You gotta remember that passing a shit test is actually taking your balls back out of her purse. She knows in her heart that you could be a powerful force to deal with if you actually f… | /r/askMRP | 13/06/19 05:27 PM |
| 11 | Watch your shoes...big vomit post...Do any of you fuckers know if there's any SPECIFIC tools for guys that have Peter Pan Syndrome? I love the irony! Marcus Aurelius Meditations and Jordan Peterson 12 Rules for Life comes to mind first. Sorry, I won't actually read them to you though. | /r/askMRP | 11/06/19 07:06 PM |
| 1 | Question: Does Emotional Connection require High Dread? Also, she lost it.Honest reflection is the only way out of the messes we created. FWIW, what you did is almost a play by play reenactment of crap I've done myself | /r/askMRP | 11/06/19 05:13 PM |
| 1 | Morning goodbye - boundary or clingy?Give less F's | /r/askMRP | 11/06/19 02:39 PM |
| 2 | Experienced RP Newly Returned to ChristianityIn short, no. Divorce is of course only acceptable for adultery, right? Context is key. All levels of dread should be done with kindness. I think many men in both RPC and MRP are filled with bitterness and often run through all the levels faster than a used car dealership performing a 125 point inspection before flipping a trade in vehicle. Often times they just skip right to level 9 within the first couple weeks, level 10 a week later, and just start cheating after just 8 weeks. This whole th… | /r/RPChristians | 10/06/19 03:13 PM |
| 0 | Experienced RP Newly Returned to ChristianitySure, I agree with that, but if 1-6 and a variant of 7-10 aren't enough, a Christian man doesn't start to pick up women, have one night stands, side chicks, girl friends, wife swapping, etc. | /r/RPChristians | 10/06/19 01:13 PM |
| 1 | Experienced RP Newly Returned to ChristianityU/Zin-zin I think you are conflating the upper levels of dread employed by some (not all) in the secular r/marriedredpill. Dread levels 1-6 fit with my walk and marriage without any issue. A version of level 7 that looks more like being confidently social, engagung in evangelism, leading in fellowship fellowship, and basically fearlessly and actively engaging anyone at anytime. I don't isolate, escalate, kino, or close any deals. I'm confident and practiced enough to remind her that I know I'm t… | /r/RPChristians | 10/06/19 01:51 AM |
| 12 | Question: Does Emotional Connection require High Dread? Also, she lost it.Want to see if I handled this properly Uh.....no It seems pretty clear to me that you were angry that she canceled on the hotel Room. You were hoping to get some good sex. She said no we're not going to do it. So everything you did over the course of the last couple days was being petty, manipulative, passive aggressive, and all meant to punish her because you didn't get your hotel Room. In order for things to get as ugly as they did, you were escalating every step of the way. I don't doubt that… | /r/askMRP | 09/06/19 12:20 PM |
| 4 | Setting boundaries with LTR orbiters?I think your showing you are a low value man if these same guys either don't care to befriend you or that you are maybe shy or insecure. Don't try to play that "they are losers" card either because if they are real losers and you don't have a high enough value to scare off "losers" then you aren't pursuing excellence. You also can't enforce a boundary. Bringing it up shows you are insecure and jealous.... because that's what it is. I'm willing to be you have zero female orbiters yourself. That's… | /r/askMRP | 09/06/19 03:44 AM |
| 1 | Bumps in the roadLol, I wish mine was the same way | /r/askMRP | 08/06/19 11:06 PM |
| 2 | What’s your “walking around” Dread Level in your marriage/ LTR?Dread is an answer to hypergamy. Hypergamy floats, so it is a constant adjustment. Typically all you need to do is remind her that the dread waterline rises too. | /r/askMRP | 08/06/19 04:14 PM |
| 1 | Substitute for deadliftsYou can do other stuff, but if your knees are shot, there isn't any other full body exercises you can do that will work everything even close to squats. Burpees maybe? | /r/RPChristians | 08/06/19 03:39 AM |
| 5 | Bumps in the roadFrom my experience, my wife only cares about money issues when she wants to spend it. An example was last year we paid some medical bills and expenses on a credit card and when we got a tax return, I paid them off. She asked about how much of the tax return we had left and when I told her none and laughed she lost it. I DEERed by telling her I didn't want to pay X% on credit cards, so I paid them off. Trickle truth.........turns out she wanted to get a new furniture set for the living room. See,… | /r/askMRP | 07/06/19 02:39 PM |
| 2 | Substitute for deadliftsAbsolutely no substitute for squats and deadlift. If you have to pay someone to help you figure it out, do it. I used to watch the bar, keeping my head down, shoulders rounded, and using my lower back too much. Since figuring it out, I love deadlifts and squats. Buffdudes are great on youtube, watch this video for good form. https://www.youtube.com/watch?time_continue=42&v=-4qRntuXBSc EDIT: Also, you should switch up to doing 5 x 5 sets. | /r/RPChristians | 07/06/19 02:23 PM |
| 6 | FR: Losing My ReligionJust admiring her gall Broseph Smith ;-) | /r/MarriedRedPill | 06/06/19 10:24 PM |
| 2 | FR: Losing My Religionwell-documented bullshitter .....but the seer stones?? | /r/MarriedRedPill | 06/06/19 08:52 PM |
| 7 | FR: Losing My Religionshe can’t be with someone who is half in and half out of the marriage She threatens divorce and THEN has the balls to say that!? The hypocrisy is so hot my the screen is loose on my phone! | /r/MarriedRedPill | 06/06/19 08:43 PM |
| 5 | How do I punish this behaviourIt is my house as much as hers. False. It's either your house where you are the king and she serves you or it's Mommy's house where you get to play in it. There is zero middle ground and you are no king. How do I punish this behaviour? You don't. You tried to be a man and make a decision about where to put your toys in her house and all she had to do was be a bit grumpy to you for a moment and she had your hamster spinning. You should just apologize to mommy and go do the dishes. What would … | /r/askMRP | 06/06/19 04:40 PM |
| 2 | VentPain and suffering is what gives birth to passion. Looks like your "mission" is to avoid risk, avoid pain, avoid investment, avoid effort, and avoid suffering. Paradoxially, you are taking the worst calculated risk possible, wasting your value that could be invested and will end up with nothing but pain and suffering. Your reward in the end is that the calamity that is about to become your life will maybe give you the pain and suffering you need to finally get the passion you desire. There is a … | /r/askMRP | 06/06/19 04:26 PM |
| 1 | How do you handle it when she starts feeling you're not emotional enough or (insert any shaming tactic that tries to convince you you're wrong for not being a softy)This. OP, you aren't failing because you aren't falling apart for her viewing pleasure, it's because you aren't providing some form of comfort. That's the point of being an oak, you are strong enough to support other people. An oak that tree that doesn't shade the hot sun or block the wind is just good for lumber. | /r/askMRP | 05/06/19 07:44 PM |
| 5 | Dread Delay?This post is so vague it's almost not worth a response. Do you lift, BF, weight? Ages? Length of relationship? # of kids? What level of dread are you on? How long did it take you to get there? What have you read and what did you learn from it? FOR STARTERS I'd say because of you lack of OYS posts and this being your first attempt at a field report that you aren't being consistent. To her your changes probably look like cringy LARPing more than dread inducing. drop some level 7 dread The trut… | /r/askMRP | 05/06/19 01:57 PM |
| 1 | Fiance withholding information about rapeShe told her parents and they didn’t press charges. This seems to be a dark family secret. Interesting. It's almost like her parents either didn't know that it happened, don't care that their daughter was raped, don't care that a child molester's family doesn't know what they do to kids, feel fine allowing a child molester to get off scott-free to hurt more children............. or ............... is there another option? Perhaps that isn't what happened at all. guy who molested her Did she … | /r/RPChristians | 31/05/19 04:10 PM |
| 4 | Thoughts on Proverbs 5?This verse is the biblical wisdom that we are now calling Red Pill truths. God knew about female nature including hypergamy and fitness tests. He knew women would grow cold at times and with hold affection as a form of control and manipulation. He also knew men would be thirsty for validation and approval and would use sex as a way to measure it. He knew husbands would grow frustrated and resentful at being henpecked, cut off, or from constant starfish. He knew immoral woman look jealously at ma… | /r/RPChristians | 30/05/19 05:12 PM |
| 28 | My wife was never that interested in sex, until she asked for an open marriage to explore her sexuality“Passionate Marriage” by David Schnarch I'd give it a 4 out of 5. It's probably a "near miss" for sidebar quality. She has some deep religious sexual shame that has really fucked her up. Wrong, it's not the religious part she has issues with it's you, she just wanted to spare your feelings. The religion is a cover story, an excuse. Women BREAK rules for alpha, MAKE rules (or excuses) for betas. If she found you hot or was worried (and cared) about losing you, she'd be doing all sorts of nasty … | /r/askMRP | 29/05/19 10:54 PM |
| 1 | OYS - Where Progress is Made (05/29/19)busy day, so I will do the condensed version Relationship: 4 Wife is now on anti-anxiety meds and it sucks. In the past two weeks, sex drive is nill and dread not nearly as effective. All this is proving to make me quite indifferent towards her in general. I'm trying to be compassionate and understanding in the moment, while also trying to not become resentful and butthurt over time, but I am not liking this change. Physical: 5 Pulled a muscle in my back 3 weeks ago, then RE-INJURED it pretty … | /r/RPChristians | 29/05/19 07:55 PM |
| 4 | What tools and techniques do you use to internalize a frame?writing down positive affirmations 10-100 times a day This is "reading the script", not even up to the level of role playing. Let me summarize what u/johneyapocalypse was getting at, you need to TEST yourself to find out if you will or won't break. Stuff that developed MY frame will be different than you. Some of my examples include being in dozens of fist fights as a young man and winning, losing, and drawing. Being interrogated by police and beating a charge (don't ask!). Overdosing on LSD a… | /r/askMRP | 24/05/19 10:03 PM |
| 10 | Handling wife's bitchy behavior in public.LOL, happens to me, but not necessarily dressing people down, but other rude behaviors. Her normal thing is to actually stand in peoples way or push her cart right in front of people that you can clearly see are trying to pass. I don't EXCUSE it, but I do believe that they deserve to hear an apology and they deserve to be acknowledged when they've done nothing wrong. Especially if it was something like what your wife did. I've worked retail in high school and got chewed out before about crap tha… | /r/askMRP | 23/05/19 01:53 PM |
| 6 | FR: THANKS!!!!If this is what it takes to finally take her off the pedestal, good for you! I see you've finally got your lazy ass to a gym too. Let me ask....did you already confront her with the evidence? Make an announcement that the marriage is over? Did you move out of the family home? Plan out your next steps carefully and don't rush anything by being emotionally reactive. Be methodical, be intentional, be calculating, be resolute. I hate to say this, but you should send some of that kids spit to 23 and … | /r/askMRP | 22/05/19 11:04 PM |
| 3 | That moment your bp reality came crashing down.My wife took my virginity so my ego cries itself to sleep at night. Confused... are you feeling like this because she was your first or because you weren't hers? Your ego shouldn't be based on what someone else has or has not done, feel me? It should be based on what actually makes you a high value man. I'm not saying that it isn't unreasonable to be disappointed about her lying, but my friend, no amount of being butt hurt will make her a virgin or give you an n-count higher than 1. Also, having… | /r/askMRP | 20/05/19 09:02 PM |
| 2 | AA/AM/Stfu is not workingMy wife gets mad, it should have ZERO impact on your frame broseph. Just say "wow, that must really suck to feel that way" then offer her a nice hug or a shrug, her choice. What are you going to do, MAKE her feel happy? If so, how? By DOING something to her, for her, with her? Even if it worked, would that make YOU feel differently about the kind of man you are? Would it finally validate your worth? Would she really be able to fill that huge void and calm your self doubt about your value as a ma… | /r/askMRP | 20/05/19 08:25 PM |
| 8 | AA/AM/Stfu is not workingPlus two kids and then she will get with the program. | /r/askMRP | 20/05/19 08:17 PM |
| 2 | AA/AM/Stfu is not workingIf I sit down and calmly try to talk to her I remember you, the guy who leads by talking to her girl like he's having a Lifetime TV life lesson and then wanting her to point her head down at a slight angle, look up with big eyes, stick out her bottom lip and say "Owkay, I sworry". Meanwhile you are getting drunk on weekends, being a dick to her, not owning your shit or being responsible for the way you act when you are drinking. ACTA NON VERBA. Get your life together and get her off of the pedes… | /r/askMRP | 20/05/19 06:00 PM |
| 2 | Getting a divorce after a 10 year marriageHer turn was up | /r/askMRP | 20/05/19 04:39 PM |
| 5 | I Fucked up should have STFUPretend your butt hurt moment never happened. If she brings it up to you DARE, but avoid STFU as it looks like your still resentful. I like the other suggestion, but I've literally done the exact same thing as you and each time she'd press me I just smiled, shook my head in bewilderment, and said "I don't recall that conversation at all?!" and laughed. She pressed again and I doubled down "that does not sound like anything I would say....sorry, got me confused with some body else..". She showed … | /r/askMRP | 20/05/19 10:59 AM |
| 2 | The little baby is sad and angerLet go of the bitterness. Forgive her as if she can't control her nature, reset, keep improving, DARE, DARE, DARE, DARE. | /r/askMRP | 19/05/19 04:07 PM |
| 2 | The little baby is sad and angerLiving like roommates That's your problem. GAME her. Find it in the sidebar. Short version: From her view, IF you found her attractive and valuable, you'd smile at her, give her some attention when she acts right, slap her butt when she passes, tease her, touch her, etc. If you DO NOT do those things and initiate without building tension it will seem forced or as if something other than her has you excited. As others have said so eloquently "You have to heat up the pan before you put in the meat… | /r/askMRP | 19/05/19 03:08 PM |
| 6 | Just being a bitch?First of all, nice lifts, no homo. Secondly, breast feeding is giving her all the feelz she needs, be patient. | /r/askMRP | 12/05/19 07:13 AM |
| 2 | Do women really change?Try here, you are in the wrong place, this will not be possible for you outside of a video game. https://forums.thesims.com/en_US/discussion/778852/two-wives | /r/askMRP | 10/05/19 02:57 PM |
| 1 | OYS - Where Progress is Made (05/08/19)Yeah she has become a hypochondriac, or has "health anxiety". It has to do with underlying abandonment issues and stress comping problems. Problem for me is she doesn't believe it when it comes to her in my voice because I've been very dismissive and even angry about it in the past. My back is around the sciatic nerve. Comes and goes, I aggravated it lift a full wet vac in an awkward position due to it having a broken handle. It's getting better though. Finances. This is always an issue for us s… | /r/RPChristians | 09/05/19 07:55 PM |
| 9 | Dealing with extremely narcissistic wifeWOW. I don't think she's capable of understanding that a relationship is a two-way exchange No, she is actually communicating quite well as a matter of fact. One of the first lessons here is to pay attention to her ACTIONS, not her words. Her actions are communicating that she is not in this relationship anymore. You are Isaiah Thomas at best to her, maybe Carmelo Anthony. IT is ON the Denver Nuggets but sits on the last seat on the bench and is given zero minutes despite being an MVP level pl… | /r/askMRP | 09/05/19 03:35 PM |
| 8 | Wife and guy telling "nice" things between....u/FinancialLeopard5 you should listen to u/SBIII. What he's told you is the truth here and more kindness than you deserve. I'm writing this with tears in my eyes. I've tried.. God knows that I've tried all things in the last two years when I've opened my store. Didn't worked out. I can speak to the topic of failed businesses. Been there, done that. Move on. Not everything will work out for you at first and seeing HOW a man reacts in the face of adversity can either kill all attraction or build… | /r/askMRP | 09/05/19 01:08 PM |
| 1 | OYS - Where Progress is Made (05/08/19)she was disappointed she has not squirted It's just pee, so it's nothing her body does that is equal to ejaculation in a man. They are just being freaky, which is hot and for them to be comfortable sexually to "let it go" a bit is awesome, but that's all it is. Then I mentioned White tiger tantra and explained it to her and demonstrated to her where her G-spot is and that sort of thing. Her pelvis area is very tight so I recommended for her to do female keggels. Sounds like too much talking ab… | /r/RPChristians | 08/05/19 10:20 PM |
| 2 | OYS - Where Progress is Made (05/08/19)Online Bible study/fellowship on Thursday nights Interesting, how is this done? Skype or something? Hernia Oof, sorry to hear about that, pray surgery and recover goes well! | /r/RPChristians | 08/05/19 09:56 PM |
| 3 | OYS - Where Progress is Made (05/08/19)OYS #14 Last one HERE Background 40y, 5'7", 199lbs, 5 kids, 21 years with wife, married 14 of them. Was using and selling drugs in my teens when we met. Today, both of us pretty radically changed praise God. Clean from drugs since 1999 at 20 years old. Drink an occasional beer or three but never get drunk anymore. We are both in leadership at our church. I preach sometimes, she does children's church. Both of us mentor/disciple men and women respectively. Currently Reading Bible Have Read Bible,… | /r/RPChristians | 08/05/19 09:51 PM |
| 0 | New to the red pill and married for 5 months, I need a plan to create a framereread *Face palm* | /r/askMRP | 08/05/19 04:27 PM |
| 3 | New to the red pill and married for 5 months, I need a plan to create a frameThat FLAIR! .........I'm crying | /r/askMRP | 08/05/19 02:42 PM |
| 13 | New to the red pill and married for 5 months, I need a plan to create a frameBuilding frame.......some actual advice. Stop looking at porn. Bold assumption, right? Well, you can't even hide your porn activity from ME, a complete anon on the web who doesn't know you or have access to your devices. Why you say? You are a needy bastard and you're using it for validation. How's that you say? Well, when a woman shows herself to a man, especially with strong eye contact and moaning, it's because she wants him, she desires him, she approves of his masculinity, she wants to at… | /r/askMRP | 08/05/19 01:21 PM |
| 1 | Finding men to do life withI'm calling BS. Check your heart though, are you acting or not acting because of fear? Be it fear that you would fail in leading, fear of ridicule for wanting change, or fear that they could reject you it isn't of God to be ruled by doubt or fear. Moses lead the captives out of Egypt even though many didn't want to leave and some begged to return to Egypt. You lead and if the follow to the promised land, so be it. If they stay in Egypt, so be it. | /r/RPChristians | 07/05/19 02:32 AM |
| 3 | Finding men to do life withWhy don't YOU lead them out of there? | /r/RPChristians | 06/05/19 10:22 PM |
| 50 | Two Year Progress ReportThis question is in all of us: What if I put in all the work and I become the best version of myself after exerting maximum effort and she still doesn't find me attractive? That's you brother. What you actually did was skipped DREAD LEVEL 6 and LEVEL 8 because you are afraid of her rejecting you still, so you sought out strange instead. LEVEL 9 would be impossible because, to be honest, as far as she is concerned she is financially and sexually more valuable than you are. You've only visuali… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 03/05/19 08:11 PM |
| 6 | LTR of 5 years is about to dump me.Not adding up.... A month ago, you said you were losing attraction for HER and how your desperate enough to ask strangers on the internet for help to save the relationship. Meanwhile, she was giving you shitty-comfort tests saying "I think you want to break up with me" too. Sounds like the end of the road for you two and you should both be happier? But wait, there's more... Now she invents a fight, you engage (idiot) Over text message (idiot) You counter by taunting her to break up with you (i… | /r/askMRP | 03/05/19 05:53 PM |
| 6 | How "iron" is iron rule 2?lots of women will not like that answer No matter what your answer is, even if it is ZERO. | /r/RPChristians | 03/05/19 05:14 PM |
| 1 | OYS - Where Progress is Made (05/01/19)Yeah, no confusion I need to cut. I just don't want to and I like lifting more each time I go to the gym. | /r/RPChristians | 02/05/19 09:34 PM |
| 1 | How do I respond to "Would you still love me if I was fat?"Good for you. Lol, this is askmrp, most first time posters are clueless beta simps whose wives are mid-swing monkey branching by the time the first ask for help. They ask things like "is it a shit test if my wife wants a threesome with me and her boss Chad?". Fyi, post in OYS and you'll get better answers as most of us check post history to see what level of faggot we are talking to. To me, zero history is automatically Level 9000 faggotry. | /r/askMRP | 02/05/19 08:10 PM |
| 1 | OYS - Where Progress is Made (05/01/19)The weight Dec 12 I had underestimated my BF by not calculating it right. Still not 100% sure on how to do it honestly. I was dropping lbs and inches but between Easter and a birthday party being almost all carbs I put it back on. I am between 20% and 25% and still gaining muscle. | /r/RPChristians | 02/05/19 06:55 PM |
| 2 | How do I respond to "Would you still love me if I was fat?"a lot of thinking Yeah, maybe..... I use phasing like that when trying to make a point with my kids when they do a crappy job with chores or not getting along. Could have lead me down my own experiences rather than the average person. u/skip_legday What's her tone? What's the context? Is she walking in front of you while you slurp Mt. Dew, eat Doritos, and play Fortnite or is she covered on chocolate cake, crying, and grabbing her love handles? | /r/askMRP | 02/05/19 04:46 PM |
| 1 | OYS - Where Progress is Made (05/01/19)OYS #13 Last one HERE Background 40y, 5'7", 203lbs, 5 kids, 21 years with wife, married 14 of them. Was using and selling drugs in my teens when we met. Today, both of us pretty radically changed praise God. Clean from drugs since 1999 at 20 years old. Drink an occasional beer or three but never get drunk anymore. We are both in leadership at our church. I preach sometimes, she does children's church. Both of us mentor/disciple men and women respectively. Currently Reading Bible Have Read Bible,… | /r/RPChristians | 02/05/19 01:48 PM |
| 4 | How do I respond to "Would you still love me if I was fat?"This is different than "do I look fat in this dress?". This is not a shit test. Would you still love me if I was fat? FIRST thing I thought of is she's dropping a hint that she is losing attraction for you. Usually a shit test or comfort test has to do with whatever is going on in the moment. That is where the feminine is in her element, not in the "big picture" like men are. She's bringing something up in the future as if she's taken a step back and trying to look at things from a big picture. … | /r/askMRP | 02/05/19 01:23 PM |
| 69 | Tips for Marriage CounselingYeah, I got some tips. If you are going to counseling because she asked, you failed. If you are reading books to improve because she asked, you failed. If you are walking on egg shells around her, you failed. If you are trying to make her happy, you failed. If you are turning your life around to keep her happy, you failed. ..................If you do anything FOR HER, you FAIL. Stop going to counseling and tell her without being a victim. Just state it plain and simply as matter of fact. Whe… | /r/askMRP | 29/04/19 11:11 PM |
| 3 | When to try? When to give up?You are a broke ass Nice Guy who has no ambition, no drive and most likely looks like a fat / skinny cunt who has other issues that you aren't telling us about, your wife is repelled by you and no-one in their right mind would fuck you. You don't even have cash to get a hooker to blow you. Nice work here u/SBIII Look, it's pretty clear now u/FinancialLeopard5, you've become a stay at home mommy and your wife wants to have sex with a real man. My brother fell into a similar situation. Even after … | /r/askMRP | 29/04/19 01:45 PM |
| 2 | When to try? When to give up?Hmmm, the guerilla warfare ambush method didn't work? Perhaps try something a little less "rapey" and start your flirting earlier in the day. Sort of "heat up the pan before you put in the meat". | /r/askMRP | 29/04/19 01:20 PM |
| 1 | So I’ve finally committed to lifting so I can be the Christian I want to be, I need help. It’s the one place I’ve always feared and haven’t committed to.A mistake I made that it looks like you are doing too. Proper sequence is , lift THEN cardio afterwards. You really need all your strength during your lifts, you can do cardio a bit tired no problem. SL5X5 is excellent place to build your core strengths. The reason why is it they are for the most part full body exercises. You will eventually plateau and need to change it up, but that's months down the road and you will have transformed a lot by then, physically and mentally. | /r/RPChristians | 29/04/19 12:57 AM |
| 3 | Damnit - Infertility and Meu/LongRoad_518 FWIW, my wife and I did foster care for a family friend who is on meth and has a little girl same age as our youngest. Both him and the baby momma were supposed to make a last ditch effort to get clean, get jobs, and get an apartment. They did none of those things and in fact got pregnant again. For some reason, none of her extended family wanted to step in either. When she came into our lives she was almost feral. We thought possible FASD or brain damage even. After 9 months in a… | /r/askMRP | 24/04/19 01:16 PM |
| 2 | The push/pull gameMission Sounds like you don't have a mission or a plan in the relationship. I'd argue that while the relationship is her work you should still have a vision for what you want. I have no ties to this woman. No kids, nothing. I do not need her for financial stability, assistance with my mission or anything. There you go. She's realized she's a plate and knows you aren't invested. She probably had visions of being Mrs Red-SFPplus and now she is poking the relationship with a stick looking for signs… | /r/askMRP | 23/04/19 08:35 PM |
| 1 | The push/pull gamepush/pull game is starting to get pervasive She's bored. Countpudyoola's dog brings you a ball for one reason and one reason only, to play. You can choose to throw it and play... or don't. Like the dog, her game is just a bid for attention and that seems to be all it is in this case. Push and pull is simply about creating tension in order to release that tension somehow. To build anticipation which can lead to excitement. It can be quite fun. Who knows. You assume I have a plan. I do not. (fro… | /r/askMRP | 23/04/19 06:42 PM |
| 43 | Female calls out another female on her bullshitSlow clap for the woman in the comments. I hope she finds herself a good red pilled man, not some billy beta. | /r/MGTOW | 23/04/19 01:16 PM |
| 1 | Premature ejaculationu/Needimprovenentguy Many have mentioned here it is a mental thing, they are 100% right. First of all from a RED PILL lens, the ABUNDANCE mentality vs SCARCITY is a key factor. If you are in your own opinion "sex starved" you are going to be placing too much focus on the actual sex itself instead of enjoying the moment and drinking her in. Change positions. Often. Again, it is about abundance. If you are having missionary sex once a month, it's the highlight of your month. If you are having … | /r/askMRP | 22/04/19 01:21 PM |
| 15 | How to begin leading your kid away from wife’s negative influence?JUST DREAD MY FRIEND. Just saw a post today from a woman who suddenly realized that, in her own words, "I realized that I have absolutely nothing to offer men". Maybe the wall has hit her? Maybe she's growing up? Maybe she's finally her maximum N count and is "ready to settle down"? The dread is settling in, so she's self reflecting. As long as you are the problem, no woman will ever look at her own actions or feel like she is to blame for anything. Captain your ship and put her on a 1000ft rope… | /r/askMRP | 19/04/19 09:55 PM |
| 3 | Shit Test DemeanorLol, that reminds me of all the r/askmrp comments | /r/askMRP | 19/04/19 02:01 PM |
| 11 | Shit Test DemeanorCONTEXT NEO: What are you telling me..... that I can dodge bullets? Morpheus: No Neo, I am trying to tell you that when you're ready..... you won't have to. LESSON Keep lifting, keep owning your shit, keep improving, keep unplugging from the blue pill, keep up your hobbies, keep up your social life, talk to people including women, and generally keep being a high value man. When a self aware, high value man gets a shit test from his woman, it should be laughable. Like Neo doing his blurry bulle… | /r/askMRP | 19/04/19 01:09 PM |
| 3 | Wife escalates with physically assaulting me during argumentsSad but true, even though she's in the wrong, she still has an entire system that supports her. If she breaks a nail punching your face, you will be the one arrested. | /r/askMRP | 18/04/19 02:16 PM |
| 3 | Wife escalates with physically assaulting me during argumentsI find it really amusing that when I read your comments, I can hear your voice in my head from having watched your youtube videos. Thank you for that by the way, it was my very first exposure to MRP. I then immediately read MMSLP from your recommendations and found this subreddit. | /r/askMRP | 18/04/19 12:44 PM |
| 3 | Wife escalates with physically assaulting me during argumentsIf you run from almost any kid of large predator like grizzly bears, lions, tigers, etc their instinct is to chase and maul you because you are acting like prey. Likewise, when a woman is shit testing you, if you act wrong, it also sends her a message like the animal. If you are butt hurt, you are acting like someone immature, selfish, or weak. If you are defensive, you are acting like you are in fact guilty of something. If you make an effort to explain yourself, you are acting like either that… | /r/askMRP | 17/04/19 06:11 PM |
| 2 | OYS - Where Progress is Made (04/17/19)OYS #12, LAST ONE HERE Background 40y, 5'7", 198lbs, 5 kids, 21 years with wife, married 14 of them. Was using and selling drugs in my teens when we met. Today, both of us pretty radically changed praise God. Clean from drugs since 1999 at 20 years old. Drink an occasional beer or three but never get drunk anymore. We are both in leadership at our church. I preach sometimes, she does children's church. Both of us mentor/disciple men and women respectively. Currently Reading Bible Have Read Bible… | /r/RPChristians | 17/04/19 04:34 PM |
| 8 | Anybody else feel like this?1 Cor 7 32-35 I want you to be free from anxieties. The unmarried man is anxious about the things of the Lord, how to please the Lord. But the married man is anxious about worldly things, how to please his wife, and his interests are divided. And the unmarried or betrothed woman is anxious about the things of the Lord, how to be holy in body and spirit. But the married woman is anxious about worldly things, how to please her husband. I say this for your own benefit, not to lay any restraint upon… | /r/RPChristians | 16/04/19 01:55 PM |
| 5 | She's pregnant- Were LTRLots of shit tests. Challenging my masculinity/drive. u/SaladThunder After looking at your post history, I think you are in denial. If you've spent anytime in r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen, even just for humor, you'll quickly see there is epidemic levels of pregnant thots on dating and hookup sites that left the peice of shit that got them prengant and are desperately looking for any beta bux / backup plan to replace their poor choice of a man. They get a new look on their life when pregnant and sudde… | /r/askMRP | 15/04/19 01:44 PM |
| 2 | I cried when I watched a video about seeing loved ones in heavenThe bible says that right now " For now we see through a glass, darkly" and, "when he appears we shall be like him". I think this is a mistake to think that we will forget our experiences as human in the flesh on earth and that our love for each other, the only thing we are told will have lasting value, would be forgotten or lost. Looking forward to seeing my 4 children that didn't make it to child birth myself as well as loved ones that I've lost way to early and prayed asking God for peace and… | /r/RPChristians | 15/04/19 01:07 PM |
| 5 | Broke up with my girlfriend after she tried breaking up with me 4 timesSooooooo much fail here. I don't know where to begin. Oh, yes I do! The sidebar! https://www.reddit.com/r/marriedredpill/wiki/config/sidebar You put her on a pedestal, chased her approval and now she hates you for it. .....And you use porn so much you broke your dick? That's attractive! | /r/askMRP | 12/04/19 04:54 PM |
| 1 | A little something to take the edge off? Stripper anyone?Yeah, post in OYS for sure. Glad you got some too. Kids sleep in the same room as us Ouch! Change that ASAP! She can't turn off the "mommy brain" and be your wife with them in the room. Are you all living in a 1 bed room apartment or do they actually have a different bedroom that they aren't using? | /r/askMRP | 12/04/19 04:21 AM |
| 1 | A little something to take the edge off? Stripper anyone?u/Rogue68486 how has the past week gone with regards to initiating, game, flirting, etc? | /r/askMRP | 11/04/19 09:29 PM |
| 1 | OYS - Where Progress is Made (04/10/19)This is good. Is he still getting along better with Mom? Kind of, depends on the day. I am being the example of patience to her, which is a role reversal from how I was 10 years ago with the older kids. Are the tests about how much there is yet to be done regarding Spring Cleanup? Yes, and her desire to move into a nicer house. This is older and things break very easily. Are you making her feel loved when she's around, despite her sinful lifestyle? Yes, or at least I think so. It is difficult wh… | /r/RPChristians | 11/04/19 09:27 PM |
| 24 | Learning from a blue pill fatherVague... so very vague. I am guessing you are this way in real life too, after all we are complete strangers and you have told us almost nothing of yourself and haven't even really asked a proper question. I will say that most men here that are honest, forthcoming, candid, and humble are able to get a lot out of this community. Your approach will not yield those results. You don't go to the doctor when you are sick and tell him "I am in the best shape of my life, but just in case my parents made… | /r/askMRP | 11/04/19 06:01 PM |
| 1 | OYS - Where Progress is Made (04/10/19)OYS #11 Last one here Background 40y, 5'7", 198lbs, 5 kids, 21 years with wife, married 14 of them. Was using and selling drugs in my teens when we met. Today, both of us pretty radically changed praise God. Clean from drugs since 1999 at 20 years old. Drink an occasional beer or three but never get drunk anymore. We are both in leadership at our church. I preach sometimes, she does children's church. Both of us mentor/disciple men and women respectively. Currently Reading Bible Have Read Bible,… | /r/RPChristians | 10/04/19 06:22 PM |
| 7 | Have recently rediscovered my faith, but can't break the self destructive cycle of obsession and possible body dysmorphia. As well as having extremely pessimistic views on the world.I still have a lot of insecurity like most men do (mainly about my height tbh, 5'9 I can relate. I am 5'6", balding, and have rarely found another person with more body hair that I have myself. In high school, it used to make me feel like I was being excluded from a "better version" of life or something, but ultimately it was my insecurity, not the actual height that was holding me back. In short, give less F's about this. After a close friend committed suicide, I adopted a DGAF attitude towards… | /r/RPChristians | 10/04/19 06:06 PM |
| 3 | The bitch cheatedThat's Lucas Joyner's number! | /r/MarriedRedPill | 08/04/19 03:37 PM |
| 2 | The bitch cheatedshe swore Listen, no one who has ever told the truth on anything during the history of language has ever felt the need to convince another person they are in fact telling the truth by saying "I swear on .........". Anyone who even suggests swearing on a dead person, a bible, on God, on their baby, or whatever is flat out lying. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 08/04/19 03:34 PM |
| 1 | Discussion: Is it okay to masturbate to thoughts of your wife?When I travel for work, my wife sends me pics, texts, or videos so I can masterbate while away. Sometimes I will use the pics alone, but it is better when we do it together either sexting or video call, but either way it isn't hidden from her and in a very real sense she is a player in the game. | /r/RPChristians | 06/04/19 03:10 PM |
| 3 | A little something to take the edge off? Stripper anyone?Prolapse repair? Maybe wait on the sex FFS. I am guessing that MIGHT have contributed to why you didn't get any sex last 7 months too? Still, game, flirt, isolate, escalate, be happy with head, hj or anal. | /r/askMRP | 05/04/19 05:03 PM |
| 2 | OYS - Where Progress is Made (04/03/19)Feels like when Ahab tells Elijah he saw the small cloud the size of a man's hand rising from the sea after praying for rain! | /r/RPChristians | 05/04/19 02:47 PM |
| 3 | Am I Holding Frame Well or Just Being Stupid?Total break of frame. You said you normally DEER but didn't, then next paragraph keep explaining your position, coming to the defense of your fitness page, and since this was all via TEXT, you didn't come off to her as "unphazed". In fact, her opinion is that you are "disrespectful, insecure, borderline abusive, ..... treat her this way". Don't text. This is why you don't use text messaging for personal communication. Both of you think you had a completely different conversation because you ar… | /r/askMRP | 05/04/19 02:39 PM |
| 5 | A little something to take the edge off? Stripper anyone?How do I initiate sex? And then act non reactive when she puts it off? Bruh, you read MMSLP, right? Or did you just add it to your Amazon list of things to buy? It's true, you don't "ask for sex", but that doesn't mean you stand around and wait for it to fall from the sky like rain. Game: Pass shit tests, hide all butt hurt, erase all bitterness, be attractive, do not be unnattractive, words of affirmation, compliments, whatever her love language is. Flirt: Sexting, slapping her on the ass, teas… | /r/askMRP | 05/04/19 02:10 PM |
| 2 | OYS - Where Progress is Made (04/03/19)Fu: 21 year old is taking initiative in his life now. Paid rent early, renewed tabs on the car, exercising on his own, watching less garbage on YouTube. Says he is surprised himself at the changes, but it is what I've been praying for. Also making new friends that want to hang out with him. He is a loner if allowed to be. These seem like small things to most of us, but kind of a big deal for him. | /r/RPChristians | 05/04/19 03:07 AM |
| 1 | OYS - Where Progress is Made (04/03/19)This is awesome. Are you and your wife on the same page on how to handle this now? What has caused the change in behavior? Same page... sort of. She is still to reactive when he acts up, but most of the time when I am there, she and I are in agreement that whatever he is screaming about, the screaming is the biggest issue that needs dealt with even before we find out if his brother stole his turn on a video game or called him a name. Is the therapist a Christian one, or a secular one? Well, we… | /r/RPChristians | 04/04/19 07:28 PM |
| 1 | OYS - Where Progress is Made (04/03/19)OYS #10 Last one here Background 40y, 5'7", 198lbs, 5 kids, 21 years with wife, married 14 of them. Was using and selling drugs in my teens when we met. Today, both of us pretty radically changed praise God. Clean from drugs since 1999 at 20 years old. Drink an occasional beer or three but never get drunk anymore. We are both in leadership at our church. I preach sometimes, she does children's church. Both of us mentor/disciple men and women respectively. Currently Reading Bible Have Read Bible,… | /r/RPChristians | 04/04/19 01:33 PM |
| 3 | I lost my way, how do i recover? Feedback desiredShe... She... She... She... She... She... She... She... She... She... She... She... Wow, 12 times! Is that a record? Fix your frame, find your mission, start by reading Rational Male. Do you lift? | /r/askMRP | 03/04/19 09:38 PM |
| 2 | So I guess I need to figure out relationships. They’re a lot harder than they advertise...https://trpbackup.com/posts/2 | /r/askMRP | 03/04/19 09:30 PM |
| 2 | So I guess I need to figure out relationships. They’re a lot harder than they advertise...DARE only works if you exhibit ZERO butt hurt. You obviously took it personally first, that validated her feelz towards you. It's like running from a tiger, the fact you are running makes you look like prey even if you aren't on their menu. | /r/askMRP | 03/04/19 01:07 PM |
| 2 | A question that I get sometimes from non-believersJesus said "few are chosen" | /r/RPChristians | 03/04/19 12:16 AM |
| 5 | Blue Pill Question From A Confused 22 Year OldShe probably monkey branching and subtitling hinting, killing the puppy. Who are you? Height, weight, body fat, lifts, how often do you initiate, rejection rate, what is her SMV, what is your SMV, got kids, what makes you a good catch, what RED PILL books have you read? | /r/askMRP | 02/04/19 08:02 PM |
| 3 | Early in RP - need advice on how to appropriately handle this situationI am planning on outlining these reasons (Except #6) as I don’t think I have the SMV to just say I have my reasons and that’s that. After I discuss my reasons I plan on STFUING and providing empathy, fogging, etc. Got that backwards, you stop explaining and rationalizing things to her immediately. A simple "not now, honey" kiss on the forehead, then broken record if she asks again. Especially an outline or a powerpoint or anything that looks like it's more advanced than your "gut". John Wayne di… | /r/askMRP | 02/04/19 07:04 PM |
| 10 | A question that I get sometimes from non-believersIt is a fair question to ask and a good one to have answer for. I've heard the argument also applied to aborted babies, children that die young, and those with developmental disabilities. There is an important part in the question to talk about and that is " never had the chance ". On our own merit, none of us ever stood a chance. The bible doesn't say that we are saved because we hear the gospel in our native tongues, then understood what we heard, then contemplate our fate, then make a conscio… | /r/RPChristians | 02/04/19 04:58 PM |
| 1 | Movie depictions of building frameThe Boyfriend School with Steve Guttenberg? LOL This is the comedic pic. Probably Blue Pill AF https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0099450/?ref_=nm_flmg_act_68 Straw Dogs (remake and original) are a good picture of a nice guy turning from wimp to bad ass https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MeE-qTiaFT4 is the remake | /r/askMRP | 02/04/19 04:36 PM |
| 9 | noticing a pattern in my wife responding to my new red pill aware lifeWhen addicts are weaned off of a drug, there becomes a point when it's still their blood stream, but in much smaller doses. When this happens, normally the addict goes and gets another bag, drink, smoke, or another blue pill. Or, you are like a captain that has always sailed by the coast, always watching the shoreline for navigation. You now have a compass instead and the Blue Pill Mountains that used to validate your direction have just gone out of reach of your telescope. The wind just caught … | /r/askMRP | 01/04/19 03:17 PM |
| 6 | Beta Bux and Alpha FucksKeeping hypergamy in check is like holding water in your hands. It is constantly seeking cracks in the container or weakness to erode around a leak to escape. | /r/askMRP | 30/03/19 04:10 PM |
| 1 | How to approach wife for sexStats https://www.reddit.com/r/askMRP/comments/82875i/cut_the_shit/ | /r/askMRP | 30/03/19 01:59 AM |
| 7 | What examples of F.R. are relevant here?Whatever improvements to your marriage, your walk, your mission, your ministry, your parenting, warming up your marriage bedroom, finding your wife, making friends.... anything that you've received help in. Just like your testimony in Christ, it is about what He did for YOU. | /r/RPChristians | 29/03/19 11:18 AM |
| 1 | How To Act Interested?I'm never bored in any place or situation. I'm guessing that you are so insecure that you don't open your face hole to say what is on your mind. I was once like you. I read a couple books called "don't sweat the small stuff" and from the sidebar, "how to win friends and influence people". They helped me to be less stuck inside my own head. When the the conversation slows down, you should have the motivation, energy, and leadership to be the one to introduce the next thing to her. Also, maybe get… | /r/askMRP | 24/03/19 10:13 PM |
| 2 | 60 DOD Week 1 Part 1 - LiftingPlanet fitness is close to my house and next to the grocery store we use. With front door parking, good number of dumb bells, and I use it. If I had to go another 15 minutes or if it cost another $50 out of the monthly budget, I would have waited another year to start. I was reading MRP for 8 months before getting properly called out for always saying "going to start" or thinking calisthenics were "good enough". Lifting has GREATLY improved nearly all aspects of my life. Wife is also coming now … | /r/MarriedRedPill | 24/03/19 09:58 PM |
| 7 | Why post-breakup GF asks for reunion, but turns into a bitch once I'm about to accept?Oh .............................................................................................................. my https://www.reddit.com/r/asktrp/comments/9jfb1n/how_many_red_flags_am_i_not_seeing_should_i/ You. Weren't. Kidding. （°0°） （°0°） （°0°） （°0°） （°0°） | /r/askMRP | 22/03/19 10:44 PM |
| 66 | Why post-breakup GF asks for reunion, but turns into a bitch once I'm about to accept?A pathology report, in chronological order. She found you attractive when you met. Started to date because she liked you and would touch your wiener. Things were fun at first *You thought, maybe she was "the one". *You put her above everyone else. Friends, hobbies, good credit, saving money. She became unhappy and started to bitch a little. *So you did everything to make her happy. *Asked her opinion, looked for her approval and validation. *Got you to spend up all your time and money with her. … | /r/askMRP | 22/03/19 04:17 PM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - March 19, 2019By the time this is over, I will have spend close to 35% of the time I was in a relationship with my wife, attempting to leave and divorce her. OUCH!!! | /r/MarriedRedPill | 22/03/19 03:09 PM |
| 3 | Super random semi unrelated question.Physical meet ups are far and away more beneficial and building than talking to a wall on OYS. Says the guy who doesn't post in OYS, stays completely anon, hide his flaws & strengths, hides his struggles and progress, doesn't make himself an example of becoming vulnerable or displaying leadership. Not much in the respects of receiving correction, encouragement, or reciprocate to another guy just waking up from the beta-matrix. So far, you sound like just the kind of guy I'd want to meet in perso… | /r/askMRP | 22/03/19 03:01 PM |
| 4 | Super random semi unrelated question.Weekly OYS | /r/askMRP | 22/03/19 01:51 PM |
| 13 | I'm 34, what's your advice besides the women?Stop asking dudes if they want to fuck your wife, reading rape stories, and simply consuming porn in general. It robs you of your testosterone, your motivation to improve, and your time. Read the sidebar starting with Rational Male and start a lifting program today as if your life depended on doing squats, bench press, over head press, barbell rows, and deadlifts. Follow all those things and come back in 6 months a new man who is looking forward to the rest of his life instead of being unsure. | /r/askTRP | 22/03/19 01:02 PM |
| 1 | OYS - Where Progress is Made (03/20/19)The part that I dislike is the story of telling a man that when she's picking you apart "She's usually right". All in all his depiction of female nature is very very vague and yes, this section is blue. I read this part a while back so I am afraid that I might be conflating it with something else too. Will brush it up better, look at the notes I made as I read it and make a book report including praise and criticism. | /r/RPChristians | 21/03/19 09:05 PM |
| 3 | OYS - Where Progress is Made (03/20/19)Baptism of the Holy Spirit Yes! Seek this brother. I myself prayed daily for about 30 days in a row before I received it and it was easily the most amazing thing to happen to me. The disciples prayed for 10 straight days after Jesus left them. My wife prayed twice asking for it and recieved, so I guess it is different for everyone. Don't let people who HAVEN'T experienced it tell you it doesn't happen or you don't know when it happens. I've done pot, crack, opium, lsd, mushrooms, and all of them… | /r/RPChristians | 21/03/19 08:34 PM |
| 1 | OYS - Where Progress is Made (03/20/19)Sin is still sin. Disrespect is still disrespect. This speaks to a deeper question. If my wife is testing my fitness with some form of disrespect, it is sin, agreed. However isn't it ALSO is a reflection of how my own frame is being perceived by her? Clearly I should reset and consider what make her think that it was appropriate or that I was the kind of man that would tolerate it as well. He posits that marriage will make all of your own flaws also known to someone else that will quickly, not a… | /r/RPChristians | 21/03/19 07:47 PM |
| 3 | OYS - Where Progress is Made (03/20/19)The book is falling a bit short of what I'd consider RPC cannon so far. India Jones I agree looking forward to new adventures is good, especially in contrast to complacency or doing the same thing over and over again. That isn't what they meant by "relive" though, and that's my fault. To REMINISCE or REMEMBER the good times. Let your fountain be blessed, and rejoice in the wife of your youth Proverbs 5:18. I think they are right that those feelings are just barely hidden below the surface and me… | /r/RPChristians | 21/03/19 07:34 PM |
| 1 | OYS - Where Progress is Made (03/20/19)Don't let her tan. It's just to get a base for the trip to Florida. We are from above 44 deg lattitude, so she would burn bad if we didn't tan first. Otherwise, I've never been in one before myself and she doesn't do it either. Curious - 7 because of your readiness, or because of what you're actually doing? Both, I don't track specific encounters, but I talk about to people everywhere I go and most of my conversations lead to talking about Christ. Not all are a "roman's road" method, but like th… | /r/RPChristians | 21/03/19 05:59 PM |
| 2 | OYS - Where Progress is Made (03/20/19)Jury still out on SEXY CHRISTIAN. So far to summarize what I've read it's basically for MEN AND WOMEN to read together and do home work and talk together. Broken up into 3 main sections; Purpose, Power, Passion, and Intimacy. So far the stuff I've read covers: Intimacy is awkward, but embrace it anyway. God ordained your marriage. (biblical sovereignty) Relive your "magic moments" because the feelings are still there, just dormant. Your mate makes you angry by design to teach you to be more chri… | /r/RPChristians | 21/03/19 04:10 PM |
| 22 | How do I make the first move without being creepy when a girl invites me to her home?I WAS AS DUMB AS YOU ARE ONCE! At first I laughed, then I cringed because I remember all the clear signals that I completely missed when I was in high school. Girl I was crushing on hard invited me over to watch MALCOM X when her parents were gone. Kept saying this movie is boring and staring at ME instead of watching the movie. I got mad because she wasn't "at least giving it a try" and left. Fast forward six months, she tells me in one conversation that her parents have to go to a work christm… | /r/askTRP | 21/03/19 02:31 PM |
| 2 | When is it the appropriate time to pursue side plates?My personal opinion is that if you're married you shouldn't fuck other girls. I am too, however if I wasn't..... what makes you think any woman would want you if she won't even touch you? | /r/askMRP | 21/03/19 04:44 AM |
| 1 | OYS - Where Progress is Made (03/20/19)This weekend I really wanted to cuddle and be beta.. not that beta is bad Beta IS bad, but cuddling is NOT beta. Physical touch is one of the 5 love languages as the book suggests and KINO is an important part of heating things up, showing affection, and for providing comfort and affirmation. What is beta is being needy, expecting your chores earned it, negotiating for it, pouting or any display of butt hurt if you don't receive it. Wife and I sometimes watch TV in bed before falling asleep and … | /r/RPChristians | 20/03/19 10:07 PM |
| 1 | What am i doing wrong?u/anonibah Welcome to the party. We all start out betas here and you're clearly no exception. You are NOT special, your problems are NOT unique, your wife is NOT a unicorn, you are NOT called to have such a shitty life. There ARE answers to your problems, but you have to do the work, read the materials, own up to your shit, LIFT, and of most important, be honest and humble. Find the link provided by u/SorcererKing below. This is DAY 0 when you came out of the closet at a blue-pill munching bet… | /r/askMRP | 20/03/19 09:44 PM |
| 1 | OYS - Where Progress is Made (03/20/19)Re-learning how to initiate Being rejected repeatedly, acting entitled to sex and having zero game, or just getting in a rut can create a strange distance and unfamiliarity with your wife. People also change, you go through different seasons, bodies change, all kinds of things cause us to skip off of the tracks. I am no different, so I've found a couple things to help overcome my analysis paralysis or make it a more natural transition to sex. One nugget that I got from this book I am reading c… | /r/RPChristians | 20/03/19 07:33 PM |
| 1 | OYS - Where Progress is Made (03/20/19)It will happen, and when it does and you share it, tag me! | /r/RPChristians | 20/03/19 06:11 PM |
| 1 | OYS - Where Progress is Made (03/20/19)Evangelism. 4. Notched this one up again. I'm finding little opportunities to speak my faith. This is great! I would love to hear some field reports and testimonies. | /r/RPChristians | 20/03/19 05:22 PM |
| 1 | OYS - Where Progress is Made (03/20/19)OYS #9 Last one HERE Background 40y, 5'7", 202lbs, 5 kids, 21 years with wife, married 14 of them. Was using and selling drugs in my teens when we met. Today, both of us pretty radically changed praise God. Clean from drugs since 1999 at 20 years old. Drink an occasional beer or three but never get drunk anymore. We are both in leadership at our church. I preach sometimes, she does children's church. Both of us mentor/disciple men and women respectively. Currently Reading Bible, "SEXY CHRISTIAN"… | /r/RPChristians | 20/03/19 04:28 PM |
| 8 | Huge fight with LTR, helpNot trolling huh? Crap, I was hoping you were actually. Ok, I'm on mobile now so I'll just add the things others missed. You are a MAN though. Apex of apex predators, top of the food chain, made in the very image of God. You are the best gender of the best species on the greatest known planet in all creation. Stay off the MGTOW and MENSRIGHTS subs. Feminists are a collection of angry women caused by multiple generations of drunk captains. They aren't right in their solution, but right to be mad.… | /r/askMRP | 18/03/19 08:27 PM |
| 9 | Huge fight with LTR, helpLOL, you got me. Nice troll!! I actually wrote a wall of text before I came to realize it's impossible for one man to be this much of a faggot. If you'd have left out the part of the story about the Domestic Violence hotline I would have believed it. | /r/askMRP | 18/03/19 07:59 PM |
| 10 | Huge fight with LTR, helpdidn’t like my arguments Stop DEERING, didn't read any further | /r/askMRP | 18/03/19 07:31 PM |
| 7 | Is this a shit test? Current girl came 10 times last night. I then asked her if it “ hurts more to come a lot”. She then replies “yes, but if it was like the size of an arm, Id come maybe once but I’d hurt like hell”.You licked.... a prostitute's wet, recently pounded vagina, still tasting of a recent man's dick and the damage it caused, with no dental dam, and all you did was just "lose your mood"?! Please tell me this isn't real! | /r/askTRP | 18/03/19 01:03 PM |
| 2 | Wife Checking on Where I AmMe 2 | /r/askMRP | 16/03/19 07:19 PM |
| 1 | Too lazy to fuck?First, STATS. Hieght/weight/lifts/body fat/books you've read from sidebar/is this an LTR/how long/social life/etc Triage Fix your frame. You are in hers, thinking about what she thinks... total hamster brain. Give less Fs about her pleasure, her approval, her opinion, and generally be less self conscious. Seduction is her pleasure, sex is yours. If she is giving you the green light it is because she is getting or got what she wanted already. When you post your current stats, that will tell more … | /r/askTRP | 16/03/19 02:59 PM |
| 7 | The Wife As A ParentI'm not against spanking, but I can tell you that it definitely doesn't work to make kids fall asleep or if it is done by someone who is acting out of emotion or frustration. Kids are far smarter than people think and they see and process it for what it is. | /r/askMRP | 15/03/19 11:07 PM |
| 5 | Too lazy to fuck?Stage fright. | /r/askTRP | 15/03/19 09:00 PM |
| 4 | The Wife As A ParentJust so you know, I've made ALL those mistakes myself and dealt with a coddling wife who usurped my in front of the kids yelling and making a big fuss. So, not judging you. I think everyone else has covered that you handled the not going to bed issue incorrectly, so to get to your question: Overall question is how do you deal with the coddling of a stubborn, strong willed wife? Her coddling For starters, you created the situation in which she felt the child needed coddling, so don't do THAT agai… | /r/askMRP | 15/03/19 05:59 PM |
| 3 | The shocking truth: Betas not only live hell in this life, they often go to hell too. Defining the christian alpha.Too bad. There are some things that need corrected and I have a short list going. Remember, iron sharpens iron. It would be better to correct with scripture, at least for the benefit of the other people reading this too. | /r/RPChristians | 15/03/19 05:30 PM |
| 5 | The shocking truth: Betas not only live hell in this life, they often go to hell too. Defining the christian alpha.Cowardice is NOT a virtue but a vice and a symptom of the soul. We often mistake it for humility but true humility can only come from a place of power, non-ignorance and conscious decision. Totally agree. See this in the church often. Although in a distorted form of that, the jezebel-unrepenting woman seeks worship and doesn't direct you to the proper worship of the Creator. This is AWALT too. In Genesis 3, part of the curse over Eve and, all women through imputation, that the woman will desir… | /r/RPChristians | 15/03/19 03:50 PM |
| 5 | The shocking truth: Betas not only live hell in this life, they often go to hell too. Defining the christian alpha.There is a lot to digest there and bad vibes aren't enough to dismiss it alone. I am not agreeing or disagreeing with you, but which parts do you actually have issues with. Even (IF) it's a bad post, we can still have a good discussion. | /r/RPChristians | 15/03/19 03:14 PM |
| 1 | OYS - Where Progress is Made (03/13/19)Evangelism. 3 I think it's easy to overthink evangelism. I used to have issues overcoming anxiety to talk about Christ and felt like I needed to know the bible inside and out and be ready to teach a theology class at any time before I could do evangelism. PTL, there's a couple scriptures that really pushed me past the pressure to be perfect, worry about my effectiveness, and knowing what to say. PRESSURE I knew a man who used to go from church to church finding bad preachers. Tom was always sa… | /r/RPChristians | 15/03/19 01:44 PM |
| 1 | OYS - Where Progress is Made (03/13/19)Sexy Christian is going slow. I'm getting ready for a work trip and I plan on reading it on the plane. I did the original Authentic Manhood by Men's Fraternity about 12 years ago with a great group of guys. At the time it the closest thing to red pill I had ever seen and don't recall exactly what was blue pill in it. It dealt with leadership, men's tendencies towards passivity, women's tendencies towards control, the effects of emotional trauma, and being brave, accountable, responsible, and see… | /r/RPChristians | 15/03/19 12:14 PM |
| 1 | I need hard advice from the communityYour version of being nice is to be a pushover and you seemingly left your own house to run from her? You haven't learned anything and are doomed to repeat your mistakes. | /r/MGTOW | 14/03/19 06:50 PM |
| 1 | OYS - Where Progress is Made (03/13/19)Now, that's not very fair to the rating system LOL, you don't even use the rating system at all!! | /r/RPChristians | 14/03/19 06:25 PM |
| 1 | What does it mean when she will refuse sex for various reasons but offer a blowjob?I'd say: "you nasty freaky slut, you want to suck some cock?" Oh wait, hold on it's not recording yet. Ok, start again, "you nasty....." | /r/askTRP | 14/03/19 06:23 PM |
| 4 | What does it mean when she will refuse sex for various reasons but offer a blowjob?u/onpuzzle what that a joke? | /r/askTRP | 14/03/19 06:21 PM |
| 2 | I need hard advice from the communityReal talk. You need to learn how to NGAF about her feelings. That stops this dead in it's tracks before it starts. STFU. Exit. The. Room. Without showing any hurt, from crying to raging, just be chill and do whatever you want. She can accept it or she can leave. This all happened because you let it happen. Not only that, but you need to keep reading Red Pill stuff, you haven't mastered FRAME at ALL. You've clearly not been good at defining and enforcing boundaries. Don't blame her for your inept… | /r/MGTOW | 14/03/19 06:20 PM |
| 20 | I went nuclear with laying down dread. Now I'm confused.Good advice from u/countpudyoola ! I like to think of my wife as a mirror. I don't hate the mirror when I look in it and see a fat and lazy beta staring back at me. I hate what it shows me. In the same fashion, when my wife is exhibiting bad behavior, I don't hate her, I hate that my frame is being perceived as weak enough that she feels like she can get away with it. Since the feminine nature lives "in the moment" her actions will immediately reflect weakness, but conversely if you error correc… | /r/askMRP | 14/03/19 05:52 PM |
| 2 | Am I too little too late?asexual conditioning The Superior Way of Man by David Deida. That book kind of took me through a journey through my passions and helped me realize that what I had to offer in the form of passionate sexual energy was a gift to my wife. It also explores some of the "darker" desires that you can have and evaluate if they are good or not. Oh, stop looking at porn too. When a man is actively using porn, it's VERY difficult to hold frame around a quality attractive woman. It makes you feel creepy and … | /r/RPChristians | 14/03/19 04:50 PM |
| 2 | OYS - Where Progress is Made (03/13/19)Yikes, looks like you not only work a 12 hour shift, but are spending another 1h 15m driving too. Compared to me, I have a 5 minute commute, work 8-5, then drive home 5 minutes. Gym is 8 minutes away. Even if you add the extra 10 minutes to drop my son off at school, your looking at 13.25 hrs vs. 9.5 hrs working and commuting. Did you hear back from that company closer to you? | /r/RPChristians | 13/03/19 09:22 PM |
| 1 | OYS - Where Progress is Made (03/13/19)I'm surprised that you only rated it a 5. Yeah, RC said something similar about a bible study, will adjust going forward. I've been grading as if a 5 is "average/acceptable/hitting the basic target" and rarely rank anything over a 7 unless I am really happy about it. Still haven't found the post with the scale, but I am assuming it's close to like in school? 0-5=F (with varying degrees), 6=D, 7=C, 8=B, 9=A, 10=PERFECT Ugh, that sucks. It's a recurring issue in our house too, women's hair, q-tips… | /r/RPChristians | 13/03/19 09:15 PM |
| 1 | OYS - Where Progress is Made (03/13/19)You've got a lot of stuff on your list her LOL, I see how that looks. That's my entire sub list on youtube, most channels make 1 video per week or LESS. Even then I mainly cherry pick based on titles. Probably not worth listing to be honest. I believe in one of the first couple 300 posts I talk about how the numbers should be either very high or very low..... I'd wager this number should really be higher right now I am never comfortable putting anything above at or above a 7 to be honest unless … | /r/RPChristians | 13/03/19 07:00 PM |
| 1 | OYS - Where Progress is Made (03/13/19)Fellowship: 2 Social: 2 I am seeing a pattern here and correlation. You have fellowship at a 2 since your first OYS. Later, Social appeared and is a stagnant 2 as well, save the week you had a dinner party. You mention that the fellowship is lacking because of work, but it's been like 6-7 months and you haven't found any open times to have fellowship outside of RPC? I live in a smallish town that is dwarfed by most and I know of a bible study that's open nearly every night of the week or before … | /r/RPChristians | 13/03/19 05:58 PM |
| 4 | OYS - Where Progress is Made (03/13/19)I get the feeling that a breakthrough is really close. I tried something, taught it to my wife, and have shared with others too. In the spiritual sense, we either hear an answer or we don't. Sometimes, we don't need to hear His answer and we can just trust. Other times, we need to hear something and we need to hear it now. Example, my mother's lungs failed her and I was on the way to the ER to meet my father, sister, and brother. They are all weaker in the faith and would be looking to me. I nee… | /r/RPChristians | 13/03/19 05:41 PM |
| 1 | OYS - Where Progress is Made (03/13/19)OYS #8 Last one here Background 40y, 5'7", 200lbs, 5 kids, 21 years with wife, married 14 of them. Was using and selling drugs in my teens when we met. Today, both of us pretty radically changed praise God. Clean from drugs since 20 years old. Drink an occasional beer or three but never get drunk anymore. We are both in leadership at our church. I preach sometimes, she does children's church. Both of us mentor/disciple men and women respectively. Currently Reading Bible, "SEXY CHRISTIAN" and sta… | /r/RPChristians | 13/03/19 04:25 PM |
| 1 | How should Red Pill Coach approach a sales meeting with a group of Pastors?Praise God! I love hearing testimony of when real men pray to a real God and get real answers. I am also pleased to hear more of your testimony because I enjoy the comments, the wisdom, and the leadership you take in MRP and RPC as well as the youtube videos. I feel similarly about 1 John 4 and helping men. I've mentioned before I want to make a men's group that focuses on these teachings with weekly OYS, teachings, book discussions, etc. Last time I had a men's group was about 5 years ago. At t… | /r/RPChristians | 13/03/19 04:01 PM |
| 3 | What are the differences of single and married Red Pill content?My question is, what from single red pill content do you all reject toward your married red pill lives? None of it is omitted really. All TRP stuff applies when married. Instead, there are additional readings that are important. Married Man's Sex Life Primer and The Mindful Attraction Plan both by Athol Kay are a must read. No More Mr. Nice Guy by Robert Glover I think is TRP cannon, but if not it is extremely important in an LTR or marriage When I say NO I feel Guilty by Manual Smith, again thi… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 13/03/19 02:20 PM |
| 8 | Overly reactive father. How to introduce him to TRP?I went against this advice and failed with my brother. He is even more of a beta today, but in addition to being a divorced cuck, he is also a beta orbiter and Incel too. To top if off, he resents me for my attempt to pluck his head from his ass. At best, drop little nuggets of truth in the moment and maybe they will ask more questions. It's kind of like joining the freemasons, they HAVE TO ASK FIRST. | /r/askMRP | 13/03/19 01:36 AM |
| 1 | How should Red Pill Coach approach a sales meeting with a group of Pastors?U/redpillcoach how did this go? | /r/RPChristians | 12/03/19 11:12 PM |
| 2 | Breaking the Nice-Guy: Take Ownership, Ask For HelpI want to help men in recovery, but this is one of many reasons I can't do CR. | /r/RPChristians | 12/03/19 11:07 PM |
| 9 | Victim Puke: Feel like i can't deal with life anymoreI had a business fail once. Best thing that ever happened to me, so congratulations! You sure God isn't trying to tell you something and you aren't listening? Either way, problems always seem bigger than they are. During this time, which I've been through myself, you need to remain STOIC. You should have an unshakable frame. Your leadership dictates how she sees the situation too, so be a great leader. Another positive, a lot of low quality women would bolt at the first signs of trouble, but she… | /r/askMRP | 12/03/19 09:21 PM |
| 1 | Is there nothing we can do?Companies in my city now advertise to charge women 20% less because of gender paygap. That was a promotion at a New York Bar, so it's about time they've paid their own tab. I'm sure it was a great success too. Kind of like "ladies night" with the smell of cat piss instead of post-wall desperation. | /r/askTRP | 12/03/19 05:57 PM |
| 3 | Why are some women so comfortable physically abusing guys?It's a man's fault. Seriously, hear me out. Some women feel comfortable hitting men because some men are so weak they put up with it. Most of you men are blaming society, police, etc. It's all BS. The truth is, her dad didn't show her what a man looks like. Maybe she don't even know him and mom's boyfriends and fwb were trash too. She grew up and found her own men that also put up with it because he had her on a pedestal and as long as she gave him some pussy, some validation, or whatever his we… | /r/askTRP | 12/03/19 01:44 PM |
| 1 | Epictetus quote on frameIt's not "wrong", but I still don't "like" it. LOL | /r/RPChristians | 12/03/19 12:14 AM |
| 1 | Plan A or B, MAP, or something different?True enough, a full OYS is needed. This guy is "6 month in", so he should be getting close if getting anything from the side bar. | /r/askMRP | 11/03/19 11:46 PM |
| 3 | Plan A or B, MAP, or something different?Look, I've been in business to business sales and biz-development pretty much my entire adult life. My close ratio is ridiculously high at the moment, but when I was building a business from the ground up, it was very very low. So low, you start taking a soft no really easy. Almost offer up excuses FOR them to hurry the call or meeting up and GTFO. Repeated rejection has a huge mental and emotional toll on a man. I think that's you right now. What you are describing is NOT GAME, it's just regula… | /r/askMRP | 11/03/19 08:11 PM |
| 7 | Plan A or B, MAP, or something different?Real talk u/dwebsterlight https://www.reddit.com/user/dwebsterlight Since this is your FIRST post asking for help and I see ZERO OYS posts, I'm not buying your story yet. That's a LOT of material to absorb in just 6 months. Like the kind of absorbing that leads to actually making substantial changes to your behavior. Even if you did read all that material, if you made all the recommended changes after 15 years of being a man that would tolerate sex 2 times a year, she'd have to be thinking you… | /r/askMRP | 11/03/19 03:09 PM |
| 4 | Dealing with a girl who's intentions I don't knowRuin her! Lol I think you give yourself too much credit for being able to make someone stay in a dumpster fire or are exaggerating your flaws because you are being cowardly. If you see her as wife material, burn the ships and make it happen captain. Or don't and just wonder, but if you already like her, the friendship is already over. She either is or is not going to be with you and there isn't any going back. She already made a move because you are scared, if you don't respond, she gonna next y… | /r/RPChristians | 09/03/19 10:15 PM |
| 11 | (F/R) It gets worse, but then betterShe isn't annoyed that you talk to other people, she's annoyed you aren't talking to her. You want a fun wife? Be a fun husband. They are like a mirror of our leadership. They are empathic, absorbing the mood around them. | /r/RPChristians | 09/03/19 07:01 PM |
| 3 | IndecisionExactly, Black Pill or MGTOW | /r/askMRP | 08/03/19 10:40 PM |
| 8 | IndecisionBalance u/mtwinemn Your young, so gotta trust me a little bit here. Imagine that you are born with a finite number of coins when you are born, much like a woman has eggs. Every time you insert your energy into something, you lose one. Got an opinion about a rack? 1 coin. Care what color the hand towels are in the guest bathroom? 1 coin. What kind of wine to serve with the dinner tonight? 1 coin. As you age, you will notice you get low on these coins and when they are gone, there will be no more.… | /r/askMRP | 08/03/19 10:31 PM |
| 4 | How bad do you wish you had your pre-kids wife back?Posts like this scare the living shit out of me. That guy is a faggot and he is banned now too. Read the top comments, he gets called out and rightfully so. Shallow man without a mission or direction. Drunk captain at best exhibiting low value behaviors and getting relentlessly shit-tested because of it. He hates her because her attitude is like a mirror reflecting his leadership skills. | /r/askMRP | 08/03/19 08:03 PM |
| 4 | How bad do you wish you had your pre-kids wife back?As soon as she was a mother of a baby, she said "It's like my heart went from inside of my chest to in my arms". That means a lot of things, including constant worry and anxiety about the kids at all times. Before the kids, she was carefree, fun, and just went with the flow without issues. | /r/askMRP | 08/03/19 06:25 PM |
| 3 | I may have messed up (F/R)Alan, RC is right on. You seem to have an obsession with always getting the "last word" then being unresponsive when you've upset people. You were DEERing, not STFU. should I have apologized? Again this goes back to mommy mode......OYS. You shouldn't have broken frame, then continued to escalate in the first place. Start by OYS on that. I wasn’t gonna apologize when she was acting crazy. Fair enough, I'd probably shot her a SHOCKED face, shrugged, and left without a word and more importantly wit… | /r/RPChristians | 07/03/19 08:13 PM |
| 1 | Accidental Desire Negotiation and OYS, advice? and a bonus question.Ok | /r/RPChristians | 07/03/19 04:14 AM |
| 1 | OYS - Where Progress is Made (03/06/19)Daughter Cellphone yes, she earns it too. She watches the younger kids often and helps with the household chores too. I don't want her working personally at the moment, I want her to focus on her schoolwork and getting into the post-secondary college enrollment program next quarter. I held her back a year transitioning from the trash "online school" she was doing and didn't learn anything for 2 whole years. So even though she is 18 she has about a years worth of credits. I'm pushing her to compl… | /r/RPChristians | 06/03/19 09:31 PM |
| 1 | OYS - Where Progress is Made (03/06/19)OYS #7 Last one here Background 40y, 5'7", 205lbs, 5 kids, 21 years with wife, married 14 of them. Was using and selling drugs in my teens when we met. Today, both of us pretty radically changed praise God. Clean from drugs since 20 years old. Drink an occasional beer or two but never get drunk anymore. We are both in leadership at our church. I preach sometimes, she does children's church. Both of us mentor/disciple men and women respectively. Currently Reading Bible, "SEXY CHRISTIAN" and start… | /r/RPChristians | 06/03/19 09:06 PM |
| 2 | Travel For Work - Texting game tips?Additional texting tips: Everything we've learned in CRP applies. You are the prize, you lead, you are have an abundant mindset, you are outcome independent to her, you don't get butt hurt, you keep frame always. Have her undivided attention. Ask if she is alone or free before starting. If she isn't ask her to hit you up later. If you're in an interesting place, take those pics to send LATER when you can have some back and forth communication. Don't be needy. Hold back the "I really miss you" st… | /r/RPChristians | 05/03/19 10:38 PM |
| 1 | Travel For Work - Texting game tips?I started a list of tips but had to leave, will post later | /r/RPChristians | 05/03/19 09:30 PM |
| 2 | Travel For Work - Texting game tips?The context and reason for texting is the key I think. When you are dating, women try to get their feelz and validation from texting. This reduces her need to see him in person where he can work his game and kino. Also, most men are terrible at texting in general, so it's best to be mysterious instead of disappointing. For the married man, it also gives woman feelz, but it serves a different purpose. While I am away, I am flirting and teasing my wife so that she isn't feeling alone and neglected… | /r/RPChristians | 05/03/19 06:57 PM |
| 3 | How to deal with back stabbing comments made by a co-worker?How about you quit being a snitch and the cool kids will like and trust you more. | /r/askMRP | 04/03/19 10:51 PM |
| 5 | Meditation, barriers and fragile egoI got a better idea! Just saw your OYS for the first time: Stats 1.88 m 71 kg Lifts: 42.5 kg Bench press, Squats, Dead Lifts, Barbell Rows. 60kg (body weight - 10) chinups, 30 kg overhead press Do I understand this right, you are doing bench, squat, dead lift, and barbell rows all at 42.5kg / 93lbs? What kind kind of crap is that? Do you only have a Fisher Price Weight Set and that's all the plates? Get serious, your squats/dead lifts should be double your bench and bar bell rows, even for a sel… | /r/askMRP | 04/03/19 10:45 PM |
| 3 | Wife giving the silent treatment after rejecting me“I want both.” Nice | /r/askMRP | 04/03/19 08:50 PM |
| 1 | Dan Bilzerian on Joe RoganRefreshing, although DB is leading the line of conversation as is usual for JR, he doesn't flinch or steer away at all. | /r/askMRP | 04/03/19 03:44 AM |
| 3 | Accidental Desire Negotiation and OYS, advice? and a bonus question.Demanding entitlements ...or ELSE is not leading. I'm maybe assuming too much but I get the feeling she is doing a lot of child rearing, getting very little sleep, and not getting much time to decompress from "mommy mode". Then, you are coming to her at the end of the day without flirting, gaming, touching, talking, and demanding your daily porn style sex sesh. Oh, post partum depression is a real thing too. My wife had it after our 2nd born. It wasn't good at all. | /r/RPChristians | 03/03/19 06:16 AM |
| 1 | OYS - Where Progress is Made (02/27/19)True enough. It is all ad supported, you earn points, then use those to enter into more serious tournaments. To be honest, the juice isn't worth the squeeze. If you actually earn enough points to qualify for a big tournament and then outlast 5000 donkey players to win $200 you probably spent at best 40 hours to get there. Waste of time in my opinion. Check freepokernetwork.net for a free local game. It is a points based league with regionals, state, and national tournaments. I have made a lot of… | /r/RPChristians | 02/03/19 03:23 AM |
| 1 | OYS - Where Progress is Made (02/27/19)I play at nlop.com. free rolls supported by ads. 100% free games are boring and I feel a conviction playing for money so I don't do it anymore. | /r/RPChristians | 02/03/19 01:11 AM |
| 10 | Wife giving the silent treatment after rejecting meShe seems annoyed whenever I try to game her Waiting until the LAST SECOND to initiate sex at the first sign of life is not game. I really do need to get better at gaming her. OK, I'll toss you a bone from the playbook here. She's been studying. Mind exhausted, neck tired. Give a neck massage that climbs slowly from above her bra strap and to the shoulders to warm up. Then spend about 5 minutes on her neck, which to her arousal level might as well be her thighs. Then change to a scalp massage wi… | /r/askMRP | 01/03/19 05:01 PM |
| 2 | When i say No the boss Stonewalls meGive us an update later! | /r/askMRP | 01/03/19 04:30 PM |
| 1 | When i say No the boss Stonewalls meLots of good advice here. Let's focus just on your assumed mistakes so far. Not assuming you and Ben are on the same team. You guys work together, get water from the same well, and when either of you steps in shit it splatters on the other guys pants. His problems ARE your problems, but you didn't really reflect any ownership here. Perhaps that's why his boss doesn't talk to you. Broken record while negotiating. First, everything in life is negotiating. When he came with his initial offer of $1k… | /r/askMRP | 01/03/19 02:43 PM |
| 3 | Analysis- was this dread?You get a B- You did some stuff right, however you only hid your butt hurt in comparison to the amount of bitching and complaining you normally do. If she could tell you were upset, you didn't hide it well enough, get tougher skin. When I’ve been a little Rambo mode in the past I don’t get this reaction from her No one cares what the angry person has to say. I say it to my kids all the time because it's true. Maybe buy yourself a real rambo poster and put in the garage as a reminder that he wo… | /r/askMRP | 28/02/19 11:24 PM |
| 2 | How do you guys view/approach ghosting?u/Billy_King Consider it a blessing. Quick Story: I had a crush on a girl from 5th grade to 10th grade. So bad too. I never got the balls to ask her out though, just kind of friend zoned myself. Looking back, she also liked me too. I dated two of her friends, but was too scared to ask her. She dated two of my friends but I never asked. Years later, I saw all of the IOI's. She would meet me late at night and walk around with me alone. Stand so close I felt like my heart would explode. Make excuse… | /r/RPChristians | 28/02/19 04:17 PM |
| 1 | Lifting question: Torn ligaments in shoulderu/Iseeitnow7 In addition to the good advice here, I'd recommend starting in a Smith Machine so if you ever feel like you are going to fail you just rotate the bar forward 10 degrees and rack it anywhere and don't need a spotter there 100% of the time. | /r/askMRP | 28/02/19 03:57 PM |
| 3 | OYS - Where Progress is Made (02/27/19)OYS #6 Last one here Background 40y, 5'7", 205lbs, 5 kids, 21 years with wife, married 14 of them. Was using and selling drugs in my teens when we met. Today, both of us pretty radically changed praise God. Clean from drugs since 20 years old. Drink an occasional beer or two but never get drunk anymore. We are both in leadership at our church. I preach sometimes, she does childrens church. Both of us mentor/disciple men and women respectively. Currently Reading Bible, just starting WISNIFG, just… | /r/RPChristians | 27/02/19 04:46 PM |
| 3 | RMV Checklist: How to know if a woman is good marriage material13. Bonus: She has a small social media footprint. Someone from Meninist once said "If she has over 1000 followers, she's a hoe" | /r/RPChristians | 27/02/19 03:19 PM |
| 2 | Wife will study in a different state for 2 yearsCould be coincidental, but I live in "Med City" and I've seen 2 marriages this year where the wife, who is an RN or CNA, left their husband for a co-worker who happens to be a physician assistant and a resident respectively. One of the guys is my actual brother and her new guy is exactly like him but makes triple his salary. | /r/askMRP | 27/02/19 02:48 PM |
| 1 | Lifting question: Torn ligaments in shoulderJust put some lavender essential oils on it. Just kidding. I tried to lift through some pretty rough tennis elbow and rotator cuff pain. I didn't improve until I started take two days off between lifting and deloaded. I was dumb and didn't take it easy or warm up enough while listening to my body. Also my gym has a water massage bed and shiatsu chair. I use them a lot now and it helps. | /r/askMRP | 27/02/19 02:41 PM |
| 0 | Wife will study in a different state for 2 yearsHypergamy allows for you to be a somewhat fat nerd when your in high demand and starting wages are $250k for your position. Especially to a woman that obviously doesn't set the bar high. | /r/askMRP | 27/02/19 01:27 PM |
| 5 | Wife will study in a different state for 2 yearsShe ain't coming back. You should have banged her sister instead of being a chronically unemployed man. You could have at least built dread. I agree with u/red-sfpplus you are next level. Ok, your begging for advice, so here it is. Stop lying about reading sidebar, just admit you skipped it all and thought you'd sprinkle a little on the open wound that is your life. You will get more patience and understanding for your extreme faggotry. You aren't lifting either. There is an awakening that happe… | /r/askMRP | 27/02/19 01:31 AM |
| 1 | Wife Went Full Bitch ModeNothing will put her in her place better than the echoing hamster replaying her own crazy words | /r/askMRP | 27/02/19 01:06 AM |
| 10 | Difference in priority with spousesSecurity.... Seeking to have security in a marriage as such a high importance is telling that you are feeling insecure and looking for her to validate you. Not sure validation is the right word, maybe more like reassurance? FWIW, you should be looking to God for your security and being the example of what it looks like for her to follow suit. Sex .... I should only have sexual experiences with my wife .... No porn, cheating, nothing.... just me and you ... only something I can get from you ... M… | /r/RPChristians | 26/02/19 10:25 PM |
| 3 | Porn, Marriage and Swallowing the pillI swear I can feel my testosterone dropping if I PMO | /r/askMRP | 26/02/19 03:59 AM |
| 7 | Porn, Marriage and Swallowing the pill+1 for caveman +2 to finish on her face as a reward for her kind generosity | /r/askMRP | 26/02/19 03:57 AM |
| 1 | OYS - Where Progress is Made (02/20/19)Turns out the cement slab under my front door isn't quite even First floor over basement made from 2x6 wood floor from 1940's. When I removed the the Linoleum I noticed there was about 1/4" gap between many of the boards, so I laid down 1/2" cement board to give a proper subfloor. When I took out some broken ones I saw that a lot of the tile had NOT made contact with the cement and you could still see trowel lines, so I am feeling pretty sure I didn't use enough. Was trying to not create a mess … | /r/RPChristians | 25/02/19 08:55 PM |
| 1 | OYS - Where Progress is Made (02/20/19)how much of your (possible?) desire for a 6th is really just a projection of her desire for another? This is the crux of the matter for me and my hesitation to start praying. I have been happy to give her the kids she wants, but it HASN'T been my plan except for the first one. Even that was a product of my Oneitis and immaturity at the time. "we" have unexpected bills Fair enough. It's money she spent, but they are mine to pay, so they are my bills. I think language is extremely important … | /r/RPChristians | 25/02/19 08:32 PM |
| 0 | Field ReportDEERing much? | /r/RPChristians | 25/02/19 06:11 PM |
| 4 | [FR] Be Social with EveryoneGiven your ability to read, understand, and learn from what you've read. Take a quick glance at the list of books in the sidebar. Is there any of them that maybe stand out as being one that might help you to make friends and/or influence people? | /r/MarriedRedPill | 25/02/19 05:48 PM |
| 1 | Spinning PlatesThose posts spell it out quite well | /r/RPChristians | 25/02/19 02:43 PM |
| 3 | Six month check-in: Progress, Dread, and the Road AheadI was in New Orleans, Nashville, and Vegas this year for work and I had time to myself. I went down to the fun parts of town alone and for the first time in a while, I used my game and tried cold approach. It worked. I had a great time. You can't fake abundance and it took me having the experience of successfully approaching real women to get it. One 25yo HB7 wanted to return with me to my room and another 35yo HB8 repeatedly asked to return to her room after drinks a different night. I passed b… | /r/askMRP | 25/02/19 02:08 AM |
| 1 | Now imagine being her and being married to a man she doesn't find remotely attractive?Lol, I am pretty sure your half teasing and half curious, so I'll answer. The app I currently use let's you make as many custom positions and locations as you want, however just "good" and "bad" for quality and "protect" or "unprotected". There is a customer notes field that I use sometimes and a number dropdown for # of female orgasms. For now I suppose I'm using multiple positions to indicate the enthusiasm and swallowing cum definitely gets it's own sticker. It uses the lips icon instead of a… | /r/askMRP | 25/02/19 01:34 AM |
| 3 | Six month check-in: Progress, Dread, and the Road AheadWhat do I do next? Actually lift. I mentor a young kid who was bragging about being able to squat 310 and he was mocking me for being bigger but only doing 280. was able to do 5 sets at 5 reps at 290 and he was only able to do 1 rep at 310 and he was finished. My criticism of CF is that some of what I saw them teaching was how to cut corners for impressive looking numbers and calling it "gains". Do full body workouts using a program like StrongLifts 5x5 or Grayskull LP (3 sets of 10 reps). Shoul… | /r/askMRP | 24/02/19 10:08 PM |
| 2 | How do I pray?u/the_cheesiest Kind of late to the party here, but we have a couple examples in the bible of different types of prayer. LUKE 11 is a three part lesson in prayer for the believer Luke 11 5:8 is a picture of what your persistence should look like. what to pray for. “This, then, is how you should pray: “‘Our Father in heaven, Father implies a relationship, our implies you are part of a community of believers, heaven speaks of the facts that he is on the throne, the one true God among many fake, … | /r/RPChristians | 24/02/19 09:29 PM |
| 1 | Now imagine being her and being married to a man she doesn't find remotely attractive?To be fair reach180 and rulezero, I think tracking rejections is pointless and I'm not ASD so seeing that data is fun to me most of the time or a sign that I need to reset and troubleshoot what I'm messing up. Knowing her ovulation is a cheat code though, I stand firm that everyone should track that. | /r/askMRP | 24/02/19 07:50 PM |
| 1 | Now imagine being her and being married to a man she doesn't find remotely attractive?He was a faggot. Not for tracking results, you are for not doing it. He was a faggot for showing her like she was the problem. Find that post and tell me if he frame, lifts, has game, or isn't anything but a covert contract beta pos | /r/askMRP | 24/02/19 06:07 PM |
| 3 | Now imagine being her and being married to a man she doesn't find remotely attractive?Seems too obvious to write that stuff but it's all correct. I all falls into the umbrella of not talking about fight club. | /r/askMRP | 24/02/19 06:02 PM |
| 0 | Now imagine being her and being married to a man she doesn't find remotely attractive?Am I the only one using an app to track my initiations, denials, positions, locations, enthusiasm, periods, and as indicated in her post, ovulations? | /r/askMRP | 24/02/19 02:41 PM |
| 10 | Let me be your Guinea pigYou say "let me be your Guinea pig" as if your going to do us a favor when in fact you should be begging someone to unscrew your head. Your the same kind of guy that would ask a web developer to build a site for your business and say your actually helping him build a portfolio. If this is how you treat people, good luck on your marriage. | /r/askMRP | 23/02/19 06:15 PM |
| 1 | A Reply: Yes, the church and Christian writers really say these ridiculous things.I didn't know "Shallow Hal" was an early church writer! Human nature is predictable and I think it's more likely that we had ourselves a LABAN trying to tell JACOB that LEAH was the more righteous choice and that he would be more sinful for preferring to marry up with RACHEL. | /r/RPChristians | 22/02/19 02:34 PM |
| 2 | Day 0 of Swallowing the pill after my wife mocked me - Is my marriage salvageable?https://www.reddit.com/r/marriedredpill/comments/as85ti/own_your_shit_weekly_february_19_2019/?utm_source=reddit-android | /r/askMRP | 21/02/19 09:44 PM |
| 3 | Day 0 of Swallowing the pill after my wife mocked me - Is my marriage salvageable?Weekly post in r/marriedredpill called "Own Your Shit" where you make an honest post and say what's going on and the rest of us, especially Mods and those with Flair will either congratulate you or call out faggotry. Best friends you will ever have since we don't care about your feelings, just brutal honesty. | /r/askMRP | 21/02/19 09:43 PM |
| 1 | Own Your Shit Weekly - February 19, 2019nice formatting! | /r/MarriedRedPill | 21/02/19 06:05 PM |
| 3 | Day 0 of Swallowing the pill after my wife mocked me - Is my marriage salvageable?Do I really want a third? Yes, yes you do. Well, no I take that back. You should abandon this one and not go back to it to be honest. Think of it as killing off the 14 year old captain that's been in charge. Now the new WOKE man is going to take it's place. Plus, when the hard work starts to pay off, many guys want to pay it back to the next man who wakes up from the blue-bill-matrix. Who's gonna want to take you serious? Other examples of big name changes: Jacob (means deceiver) became Israel (… | /r/askMRP | 21/02/19 03:48 PM |
| 1 | Hello Men, Opinions on JLP?Question: What do you think of Jesse Lee Peterson? "You are a BETA male!" "BETA!!"-Jesse Lee Peterson I watch him and enjoy him. At times he gets a bit off topic or a bit personal, but I find that just as entertaining as anything else out there. I admire that he consistently calls people out from the lies they believe and sticks to scripture. As a conservative libertarian myself, I see government as a necessary evil and I'm quite skeptical of event he best candidates true motivation and intent. … | /r/RPChristians | 21/02/19 03:30 PM |
| 1 | OYS - Where Progress is Made (02/20/19)Thanks for the response her beginning to initiate again may be the result of her wanting another kid This is very likely. After the previous three miscarriages she in fact did get pregnant within a year. I'm sure her hormones are telling her to do it again, and I love kids. However, it no longer seems like a safe thing to put her body through. Gonna need God to change my mind I think. So you've got 5 kids, your wife miscarried recently and you have this other couple's kids living with you right … | /r/RPChristians | 21/02/19 03:14 PM |
| 19 | Day 0 of Swallowing the pill after my wife mocked me - Is my marriage salvageable?I've seen better men lose better marriages and worse men turn around crappier ones. You have advantages. You are humble in realizing you are the reason. You recognize your actions that need to change and hate them. You took her off the pedestal, putting yourself and kids first. It is actually a very attractive way go be. You want to change and be a better version of yourself, to actually grow, not stay the same and recite a magic spell. Next: Read the sidebar materials... in order. Probably at t… | /r/askMRP | 21/02/19 05:01 AM |
| 1 | OYS - Where Progress is Made (02/20/19)I was thinking of switching when I plateau on DL 5x5 mainly because their app is pretty good. If I have to print spreadsheets I won't follow it, is there a good android app for GSLP? | /r/RPChristians | 21/02/19 01:59 AM |
| 1 | OYS - Where Progress is Made (02/20/19)OYS #5 Last one here Background 40y, 5'7", 205lbs, 5 kids, 21 years with wife, married 14 of them. Was using and selling drugs in my teens when we met. Today, both of us pretty radically changed praise God. Clean from drugs since 20 years old. Drink an occasional beer or two but never get drunk anymore. We are both in leadership at our church. I preach sometimes, she does childrens church. Both of us mentor/disciple men and women respectively. Currently Reading Bible, just starting WISNIFG Have … | /r/RPChristians | 21/02/19 12:12 AM |
| 1 | What are some good ways to practice being more dominant and putting/viewing women beneath you?Ah, so you feel cringey telling her what to do in bed? That changes it a lot then. I'm sure you were a child once and odds are good you had a mother. When you went to the store with Mommy, you probably wanted things. Gumballs, cookies, jolly ranchers, pokemon cards, etc. When you walked by them, you probably said some little kid stuff like "Mommy, will you buy me these cards?" or "Can I have a gumball?" and that worked, because she was mommy. Had the money, the authority to say yes or no, she wa… | /r/askTRP | 20/02/19 06:38 PM |
| 1 | What are some good ways to practice being more dominant and putting/viewing women beneath you?Different kinds of "good" and you just need to update your beliefs. Being passive, deferring to her wishes, following orders, compliant, are all "nice" things to do for most people, but are detrimental to the relationship as they cause you to lose value in her eyes over time. So the "good" thing to do is to have a mission and work it. Be a quality man who has goals and crushes them and puts his things above the whims, wishes, desires of his girl. She is after all, probably just distracting you o… | /r/askTRP | 20/02/19 06:01 PM |
| 2 | Games Are Fun... If You Know The RulesAgreed! I could go on and on about how playing live poker is like this too. So easy to learn the rules, but the rules have nothing really to do with who wins a hand, a session, or a tournament. | /r/RPChristians | 20/02/19 04:50 PM |
| 1 | Need to get a grip.That's awesome! LOL When my wife starts to get in my head, I "shrug it off" too. | /r/askMRP | 20/02/19 04:18 PM |
| 6 | She said i have the smallest dick she has ever fuckedMy indictment against you is as follows: You should just told her to lay down and shaved it your dam self. Not because of the actual hair, but because it's pretty awesome. Your teasing wasn't really that funny, clearly it crossed a line with HER and you should have known. You cared about the size of your dick. Which book in the sidebar says that women actually care about dick size? None of them. Zero. They only bring it up as a shit test because men are so sensitive about it. She's been with 30-… | /r/askTRP | 20/02/19 02:45 PM |
| 50 | She said i have the smallest dick she has ever fuckedThis! Short dick jokes always hurt insecure dudes. | /r/askTRP | 20/02/19 02:27 PM |
| 1 | A Red Pill Book, why the games, blue pill hate...I've read mens Fraternity stuff. It stops short if sex though, but in a way hits up tests and frame | /r/RPChristians | 20/02/19 02:29 AM |
| 1 | A Red Pill Book, why the games, blue pill hate...Robert Lewis' class is called Mens Fraternity and Promise Keepers have books and workbooks, look them up. Desiringgod.com is Piper's website, you have to look for the teachings on marriage and sex but he has a lot to say on the topic online. Hate on pastors? I have a lot of doubts you will get the Catholics in here to like Paul Washer, the Pentecostals to like John MacArthur, or the ones who read their bibles to like Joel Osteen. So I don't hate them specifically, I just HIGHLY DOUBT we can come… | /r/RPChristians | 20/02/19 01:58 AM |
| 1 | A Red Pill Book, why the games, blue pill hate...You just used 2334 words to say you wished this was more organized, noted some of the side bar disagrees with other authors, and you want this to be distilled, filtered and homogenized by "moderator" with a name that you recognized. There are some MODS working on books, but as you can tell if you reread your post, it's kind of hard to be really concise while at the same time being thorough. Takes talent to be both entertaining and not long winded. I read and wonder things on this website and c… | /r/RPChristians | 19/02/19 11:31 PM |
| 6 | Navigating my shit versus her shit.I also try to operate in the kind of frame in which I get the outcome I want in a way that benefits everyone involved (Ecology Frame) Give less fucks Contempt is her go to ....blah blah... I seem to be taking the bait. Give less fucks I try not to be a victim nor do I try to make her the enemy. This is a good start, try to see her always as a large child I can see both the need to establish boundaries Boundaries mean nothing, frame means everything. Acta Non Verba But if I'm not leading … | /r/askMRP | 19/02/19 07:09 PM |
| 2 | Briffaults law vs. you are the captian of the relationshipBL = Briffaults Law Your other posts and comments tell the story of a man: What weak behaviours are you speaking about? You swing from trying to be Mr. Comfort during different parts of her cycle and being accused of acting "too macho" in others. You are in her frame Clearly you care way too much about what she thinks and feels. You are in her frame. You have oneitis over your LTR, even though we can hardly call a Christmas to Valentines relation "long term". She used you for the holidays bru. Y… | /r/askMRP | 19/02/19 06:23 PM |
| 1 | Briffaults law vs. you are the captian of the relationshipRambo is not alpha. Going Rambo is an emotional overreaction to your butthurt feelz. You aren't rowing too fast. You might only be just starting to move the boat actually. Instead, what you are doing is throwing a huge temper tantrum that is rocking the boat, which is in rough water, because you were a drunk captain without direction, leadership, vision, or a real mission. This isn't BL to blame. You have established patterns of weak behavior and then traded that for instability and anger. You a… | /r/askMRP | 19/02/19 04:44 PM |
| 3 | Briffaults law vs. you are the captian of the relationshipUpdate to LTR break-up story and learn from my mistakes of failing too many comfort tests and being too alpha Apparently you must have been rowing your boat too fast and she fell off. | /r/askMRP | 19/02/19 03:54 PM |
| 1 | Psych of women who’s mother left the household?Still, she has support system, coping mechanism, etc. This has made her a person of conviction, loyalty, and compassion. So I guess my point is crappy childhoods create huge issues, but they aren't necessarily deal breakers imho. | /r/askMRP | 19/02/19 01:55 PM |
| 8 | Psych of women who’s mother left the household?Unresolved emotional trauma = Psychological/personality disorders I CAN OFFER A LITTLE INPUT: My wife was the oldest in her family. Her mother was the stereotypical 80's / 90's alcoholic single mother who would bring all kinds of Chads and Chesters home with her from the bar. She'd yell at my wife, who was the defacto mother to her sibling, and be a real bitch on a daily basis. Said stuff like "you ruined my life" all the time going all the way back to before she was even in school. She also kic… | /r/askMRP | 19/02/19 12:49 AM |
| 2 | Why All The Games?Jumping through random hoops to pass her silly tests I disagree that this is suggested by anyone in the secular or christian red pill community. Many actual vagina worshiping pastors and marriage counselors would probably give bad advice, but the notion that you do what she says is the exact opposite of leading. In my understanding, said tests are never to be directly acknowledged as SHE has presented them not to m her man and a direct response to them, anything ranging from happy compliance to … | /r/RPChristians | 18/02/19 12:03 AM |
| 1 | Why All The Games?Well, lol! That's the problem isn't it?! They are TESTING us because of OUR PASSIVITY, which is sin first. | /r/RPChristians | 17/02/19 11:23 PM |
| 1 | Why All The Games?This is part of the FALL in Genesis 3 1:7 First thing I want to point out is that Adam was placed in charge of the garden, he was with Eve when she ate, said nothing as far as we can tell, let it happen, and was totally being a passive (beta) while the serpent (a type of Chad) was chatting her up. Once she ate, THEN he did too. Her nature goes all the way back to Genesis 3:16 when God says to Eve To the woman he said, “I will surely multiply your pain in childbearing; in pain you shall bring for… | /r/RPChristians | 17/02/19 11:14 PM |
| 2 | Why All The Games?It's called DEFLECT. It is the letter D from D.A.R.E. You can also STFU / remove your presence in response to these tests. | /r/RPChristians | 17/02/19 10:49 PM |
| 2 | Any homeschool parents here?Thanks for the book, we are heavily Christian in our home so this will probably work out really well. I actually like Athol Kay's book Married Man's Sex Life Primer inspite of his non-Christian leanings. Kind of ironic. :-) My wife and I do a lot of amateur marriage coaching I suppose you could say. I find most of the MRP very biblical except upper levels of dread and the openness for infidelity. I never knew what book to recommend that she tap into. Marriage is in just as bad or worse shape in … | /r/RedPillParenting | 17/02/19 07:05 PM |
| 1 | Any homeschool parents here?Does your husband use MRP? How did you find WRP? What's your "holiest book"? | /r/RedPillParenting | 17/02/19 02:51 PM |
| 1 | Karate chop for touching her assholeOk, so I keep having this mental picture in my head of you touching your wife's turn cutter and karate chops automatically come flying out. I had a GI Joe action figure Snake Eyes that did the same thing when you pushed a button. Pretty sure you married Kung Fu Anus Barbie. I want a follow up field report to know if doing anything else in her butt makes her do any other special moves. | /r/askMRP | 17/02/19 02:15 PM |
| 3 | Any homeschool parents here?Off topic. What's the deal with women in the Red Pill Women sub? Like what is the 30 second elevator pitch? Why would a woman benefit from being there? What is the group's attitude towards dread, commitment, hypergamy, dread, etc? | /r/RedPillParenting | 17/02/19 01:59 PM |
| 8 | Karate chop for touching her asshole"For the past 16 years I've wanted to do butt stuff but was too much of a faggot to tell you." No? Too real? Yeah probably. Honestly, we are doing a lot of new stuff in the bedroom... in public.... and at the river too. First think is to never ask, always tell. That said, I find that being really vocal about enjoying her and then "announcing" my next move with heavy breathing or telling her what I want her to do just before the moment helps A LOT. Example: Doing it doggy, rubbing her ass, then p… | /r/askMRP | 17/02/19 04:54 AM |
| 3 | There's definitely a bigger issue but making sure I'm going about this correctlyAssorted mix. Doing what she asks: beta Taking care of YOUR home: owning your shit. Just asking a mix of questions to see who he is and what he's actually doing | /r/askMRP | 16/02/19 04:25 PM |
| 2 | I know how to neg, but how should a woman respond to negging?"I take it back I guess?" | /r/askTRP | 16/02/19 02:41 PM |
| 2 | What did you give/get for Valentine's Day?Took her with me to the gun range, then to a cash poker game, then put two more loads down range | /r/askMRP | 16/02/19 02:15 PM |
| 5 | What did you give/get for Valentine's Day?She gave me one also! | /r/askMRP | 16/02/19 02:12 PM |
| 1 | There's definitely a bigger issue but making sure I'm going about this correctlyOk, seems obvious but I'll bite. Check the OYS posts and you see stats. Lifting, weight, body fat, trips to the gym, number of books read, etc. Why track any of it? Why count championships, games played, points scored, touchdowns, three point percentages, income, debt, age, IQ? It is all the same, you track it to measure success brotha. The reason we are all here is to improve our sexual strategy with our wives. That is the only reason for tracking any progress, to plow more frequently to a horn… | /r/askMRP | 16/02/19 12:37 AM |
| 1 | There's definitely a bigger issue but making sure I'm going about this correctlyToo bad, looks like this is pretty close though https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=centertable.advancedscalendar Actually, that one looks much better if I am honest | /r/askMRP | 15/02/19 10:52 PM |
| 1 | What’s the most useful purchase you’ve made that’s improved your game/life?What PWO are you using? I don't use one and was just thinking about getting into something but have no idea where to start. Thanks! | /r/askTRP | 15/02/19 10:18 PM |
| 3 | There's definitely a bigger issue but making sure I'm going about this correctlyTracking sex is smart. Telling her you do or whining about the stats is weak. I use the paid version because I can customize the types of sex, rejections, excuses, when she initiates, etc. https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=com.wheel.menscalendar Get your shit dialed in and she will be initiating soon. | /r/askMRP | 15/02/19 09:56 PM |
| 3 | There's definitely a bigger issue but making sure I'm going about this correctlyPost in OYS and keep it up. Sounds like you have a way to go but your being honest with yourself. In MRP, it takes 1 month of doing everything right to erase each year you were fucking up. So for example if you were being beat for 5 years, once you "right the ship" expect 5 months of absolutely killing it without much payoff. Dread, respect, better sex, her improving, balance to the force, peace on earth, etc will then kick in. | /r/askMRP | 15/02/19 09:51 PM |
| 1 | Being the alpha in a group of menPick your battles son. | /r/RPChristians | 15/02/19 06:52 PM |
| 1 | Being the alpha in a group of menAt that point I was got. What am I going to do there? AA that and say “yea I drown me out too”? If the group laughed there's probably some truth to it. You probably do talk to much or feel the need to weigh in on every opinion and/or comment. | /r/RPChristians | 15/02/19 06:50 PM |
| 22 | There's definitely a bigger issue but making sure I'm going about this correctlyReally? This and all of your replies are so vague. I'm busting your balls because your words sound like the shit I used to say. Shit we've all said in here at one point. We all start out kidding ourselves and think we've got it figured out. You seem like the guy who got axed and said "Why they fire me? I didn't do nuthin!". Expand on these some more. House is handled What's this mean? Is she asking you to do chores and you are doing them? Lawn is mowed? All repairs and remodeling projects comple… | /r/askMRP | 15/02/19 05:44 PM |
| 30 | There's definitely a bigger issue but making sure I'm going about this correctlyWomen rarely speak the truth. I guarantee that she is unhappy with you about something, but it isn't your training. If you were owning all the other areas of your relationship she would be showing up to your matches, giving post-workout massages, and bragging what a bad ass you are on social media. Tell the class what a faggot you are in all the other areas you failed to mention. Kind of keeps like this is the only "alpha" thing you do. | /r/askMRP | 15/02/19 04:50 PM |
| 7 | Need Some Guidance From New DadsAs a new Dad, remember that this is YOUR family. Classic beta mistake is to "defer" the ownership to the wife. If she thinks your getting soft, the First Mate directive is to grab the wheel from a derelict Captain. Obviously, you aren't going to be telling her how to breastfeed or when to change a diaper right? So how does it look? Well when you're giving her positive affirmation you need to make sure you say things like I'm proud of the job you are doing. You are really Take good care of our da… | /r/askMRP | 14/02/19 09:34 PM |
| 10 | Day 0 - Valentines day off to a great start... Taking the pillWelcome to Married Red Pill. You've been working really hard at making her a princess for sure. There are three options to everything from now on. Doing the wrong thing. Not doing the wrong thing. Doing the right thing. I know you are trying brother, but this was still about 80% wrong.... by your admission. Most of the time, you aren't going to know what the RIGHT thing is, so focus on not doing the wrong thing. In case you didn't know STFU means Shut The Fuck Up. That's your go to move when you… | /r/askMRP | 14/02/19 07:35 PM |
| 1 | what to do instead of DEERing ?Why was this deleted? | /r/MarriedRedPill | 14/02/19 05:11 AM |
| 13 | Parenting - how are you equipping your kids for automation, AI, and uncertainty?General unemployment will skyrocket similarly No it won't or at least not for long. Big Lots, K-mart, Shopko, Sears, and other big box retailers are closing hundreds of stores. I also see family restaurants like closing Baker's Square, Perkins, and Denny's closing locations all over the place. What are all those people to do? Until about 200 to 150 years ago, the mining industry had remained the same for centuries. Enter a couple amazing intentions, namely dynamite, railroad, and the steam shove… | /r/askMRP | 13/02/19 05:58 PM |
| 5 | Valentine's PSAI like to alternate between decadent vacations and horrific tragedies. They say traumatic events are the most memorable things you can live through, so they really give you a lot of bang for the buck. This year I'm planning on kidnapping her at work, tossing her in the trunk of a rental car and then being the one to rescue her later. Probably gonna stage some mannequin to look like I went all Frank Castle to save her. I'll get head for sure. | /r/askMRP | 13/02/19 01:10 PM |
| 2 | Found a text suggesting lunch with guy from gym. Should I say something?Your boundaries mean nothing and you didn't confront IT head on at all. You basically said "I see you are giving Chad attention and it made me butthurt, please say something that makes me feel better". Then she did just that, told you exactly what you wanted to hear. She sees through you, her feelz compelling her to monkey branch were confirmed, you gullibility was reinforced, OpSec will be tightened up moving forward, and you just chilling and enjoying your night. I am all for checking if you k… | /r/askMRP | 13/02/19 04:09 AM |
| 1 | Why stay with an old womanSTATS?! Who are you, how much do you lift, are you in an LTR, kids, married, what books have you read, what do you understand from them? | /r/askMRP | 12/02/19 09:03 PM |
| 1 | Parenting contentYeah, just saying it makes things more complicated to advise on and from my experience a lot of step dads have unrealistic expectations. | /r/askMRP | 12/02/19 02:55 AM |
| 1 | When you’re in an LTR and you break up with her, she brings out the ‘suicide’ card. What will you do?Remind her it is "down the road, not across the street" | /r/askTRP | 11/02/19 11:57 PM |
| 1 | Parenting contentA little background: The older girl is 12 and not mine, the young boy is 8 and not mine. Oof. Shitty thing for you is you aren't their dad. That's a wound that you just can't heal my friend. No matter how good or bad that guy is or you are, they still wish that it was him in the house instead. They don't want to betray him, even if they hate his ass. At least you got her backing your play, I didn't even have that for the first 10 years. Work on that mission and get them involved. Build a vision … | /r/askMRP | 11/02/19 11:55 PM |
| 2 | Any homeschool parents here?Former. We did it for about 10 years. My wife did the homeschooling and she would spend about 3 hours a day teaching. Then do a lot of crafts, playing, reading, bible study, etc. We don't do it now for a bunch of reasons. Reasons to start, change to online school, and to go public are as unique as each family is, but it was a lot of hard work and we had varying degrees of success for each child and it would change from year to year. And do you teach your kids how to make lace doilies? We made ea… | /r/RedPillParenting | 11/02/19 07:31 PM |
| 3 | Parenting contentUnfortunately almost no one posts in there. The MOST important thing regarding parenting is you leadership. Ability to hold frame, keep from showing butthurt, being a good example, passing shit tests, etc. Most the behavioral problems you gonna see stem from YOUR lack in some area. That said, parenting takes a tailored approach which require some questions. It keeps going and maybe you get the point, but the idea is that raising kids is like standing on top of a greased bowling ball with wet sho… | /r/askMRP | 11/02/19 07:27 PM |
| 17 | The wife with other womenWe all have that fantasy bro, but very few men that are in success LTR/marriages can pull off the threesome with the wife and not mess it up completely. I'd say zero % chance when it is the wife's or the other woman's idea. The 5% of men that make it happen have to be so outcome independent of a breakup that I'd say they didn't have a quality woman to start with. When I was a kid still, a drunk and sad man I didn't know said something I wouldn't understand for years. He said "if you feel like yo… | /r/askMRP | 10/02/19 05:54 PM |
| 2 | The wife with other women100% agree | /r/askMRP | 10/02/19 05:49 PM |
| 17 | The wife with other womenSure, every guy here thinks he is alpha enough for a threesome with his wife and a plate. They also he can still keep her as a side chick and keep his wife happy too. I call bullshit. IMHO, you came off as week in your wife's eyes because, as her questions indicated, she thinks you are "letting someone else" kiss and/or fuck her and that made you look weak. Check her words out, if women spoke the truth and we all know they don't, she might have asked "what kind of man sits back and doesn't do an… | /r/askMRP | 10/02/19 04:44 PM |
| 1 | Shit and RespectThis tests stop when you stop failing them. Got married at 40? Is your name Andy and work at Radio Shack? I'm gonna just assume the movie 40 Year Old Virgin was a biopic of your life. Oh wait, your the faggot that said he's watched ANNIE HALL a thousand times and could watch it over and over again. Woody Allen is a BETA GOD and he's your hero!? From now on I will read all your posts and comments but hear his child molesting ass voice in my head, so thanks for that. | /r/askMRP | 08/02/19 05:21 PM |
| 2 | Do things change when baby is born vs. when your SO is pregnant?Oh yeah, and congratulations too! Being a father is the shit and after a while you're gonna wonder how you remained motivated to do anything productive that wasn't for the benefit of your family. Psalm 127:3-5 Behold, children are a heritage from the Lord, the fruit of the womb a reward. Like arrows in the hand of a warrior are the children of one's youth. Blessed is the man who fills his quiver with them! He shall not be put to shame when he speaks with his enemies in the gate. | /r/askMRP | 08/02/19 02:12 PM |
| 4 | Ex wife problemsShe might still have unresolved feelings. She might have regrets. She might have resentments. She might be bored and just want to suck up your time. She might be seeking to validate herself as the "better one". She might be psycho and addicted to drama. My guess is that it's all of them. Either way, she is only doing what you allow her to do. She's only trying to say this stuff because you clearly still give a shit what she thinks. Give less fucks | /r/askMRP | 07/02/19 10:28 PM |
| 8 | Do things change when baby is born vs. when your SO is pregnant?does the sex drive come back after baby is born? Perhaps. We have 5 kids, what I've learned... FEELZ. You are going to have some serious competition for giving her feelz, especially if your game sucks, and it sounds like it does. Baby is going to be making her heart swell, burst, and fill her with bubbles and butterflies for a while. Especially if she is breast feeding. Hormones will be crazy. DREAD. You will have to take your dread game down a few notches. It's not good to be making a new mommy… | /r/askMRP | 07/02/19 09:59 PM |
| 2 | Looking for a funny MRP commentGreat, I am now laughing out loud for realz like a bond villain. I think people in the other offices are calling security. | /r/askMRP | 07/02/19 09:42 PM |
| 3 | Asked my opinion and when I gave it honestly she tried to agrue about it?Alpha Romeo LOL! | /r/askMRP | 06/02/19 06:55 PM |
| 5 | Asked my opinion and when I gave it honestly she tried to agrue about it?Everyone can call me a faggot Faggot! | /r/askMRP | 06/02/19 06:53 PM |
| 7 | Asked my opinion and when I gave it honestly she tried to agrue about it?Am I being obtuse or something. You said you gave an HONEST opinion, but when talking about revealing clothing you began by saying " I lose a lot of respect for them and it turns me off.". That's fine, I completely disagree, but no judgement. When she asked you said " You can wear what you want but revealing clothing in public doesn’t turn me off." and changed directions by asserting "trengod does care". Now you are surprised because she is confused because she doesn't know if she has to cover u… | /r/askMRP | 06/02/19 03:23 PM |
| 3 | Best plan for vasectomy downtimeHow did that work out for you? *shots fired* | /r/askMRP | 05/02/19 10:58 PM |
| 2 | Best plan for vasectomy downtimeDon’t get a vasectomy. Your wife’s lizard brain will see you as less alpha when your semen is sterile and then her attraction to you will be reduced. I noticed this before Red Pill. Several guys I know said their wife just lost interest in sex after about 2-3 months post recovery. Plus, making a big mess is half the fun and you'll lose much of your volume, lol. I think the fact that you COULD get another woman pregnant on top of cheating means that she runs a higher risk of losing you. It's more… | /r/askMRP | 05/02/19 10:51 PM |
| 2 | Do you have access to your wife/LTR's phone, passwords etc?Do I have access? Yes.I have access because I am the tech and she is absolutely not. I have to make her create a password and then tell her what it is most of the time. Do I trust her? Yes.Men are the leaders and we set the precedent. If you are NOT trusting her, she will automatically not trust you AND start giving you reasons to justify your doubts. Do I look? Yes.Mainly out of boredom and I turn on the "save browsing history" feature on Amazon. That's how I make sure to buy her the right … | /r/askMRP | 05/02/19 10:39 PM |
| 2 | Do you have access to your wife/LTR's phone, passwords etc?she once dabbled in selected prostitution... Pics or GTFO! | /r/askMRP | 05/02/19 10:09 PM |
| 6 | Looking for advice on last night for me.First of all, when you said I told her that she had no reason to be that self conscious and if she didn't want to, I was happy to wait until she did You validated her actions, misread her intent, and totally missed what she was feeling. You should have been gaming her before hand. Slap on the ass while no one was looking. Hand on the thigh on the drive home. Text her from across the room to meet in the bathroom to make out really quickly. THEN, when you were about to put the boys to bed, TOLD HE… | /r/askMRP | 04/02/19 04:48 PM |
| 2 | Update on progress and victim puke from a month ago"What is about me touching you that is so wrong?" This question in particular implies several things. That she has the right to judge your actions/intent/motivations. That she is even aware of what she is feeling or doing and/or has some control over it. That it was even about you or about physical touch. That she even thinks that you are wrong. That there is a possible answer that she can say that makes this acceptable. Now, since you've reacted to it, she can conclude that rejecting your physi… | /r/askMRP | 04/02/19 04:01 PM |
| 6 | Update on progress and victim puke from a month agoKeeping frame To keep myself from being pulled into my wife's frame, I constantly remind myself that she is the oldest child in the house and that I am the only adult. For one it helps for me to be more forgiving of her shit tests because going rambo is counter productive to my mission. Secondly, as a father of 5 kids I know from a lot of experience that if you let the inmates think they are running the prison, things go south really quickly, so I never concede to the kids or follow their false … | /r/askMRP | 04/02/19 03:47 PM |
| 1 | Red Pill take on Overt Sexual BartersLOL, I was typing at a red light and I kind of lost my train of thought. I basically don't think the OP has the correct frame nor was this the right context to do this kind of trade and was thinking you could get away with it because possibly you are the prize in the relationship (he isn't) and that's why your version might be acceptable and his isn't. Also, you aren't DOING anything to EARN it. After reconsidering though, I am not sure I buy into the card game either. It seems like something yo… | /r/askMRP | 02/02/19 09:28 PM |
| 1 | Red Pill take on Overt Sexual BartersWhy don't you do a field report. I trust you are tracking your sexual frequency on an app like Sex Calendar or similar. Share with the rest of the class exactly how many BJ's you've had in the the past 30 days and the quality and then if that goes up or down in frequency and enthusiasm for the next 30 days. My prediction is that you will get 1 unenthusiastic BJ and no nut in the mouth and it will be followed by a drought for the next month or two. | /r/askMRP | 01/02/19 08:20 PM |
| 6 | Sex Drive, TRT, and Sex Workersfear of getting too close Your words expose your motivations. You are cheating because you are weak, insecure, and are probably already sucked up into HER FRAME. You have a history of being pussy whipped and then having your feelz hurt. Newsflash, having a 45 year old asian woman pull your dick for an extra $25 will not give you a strong frame, it won't keep your LTR from leaving you, and it won't stop you from getting your heart broken again. | /r/askMRP | 01/02/19 08:10 PM |
| 3 | Red Pill take on Overt Sexual BartersWhat am I going to do How about stop making more mistakes!?!?!? | /r/askMRP | 01/02/19 07:42 PM |
| 1 | Red Pill take on Overt Sexual BartersDifference is that YOU are still the prize. It's HER PRIVILEGE to receive sexual favors FROM HER. | /r/askMRP | 01/02/19 07:41 PM |
| 2 | Red Pill take on Overt Sexual BartersFTFY She gives gave enough oral on a regular basis Not anymore she doesn't | /r/askMRP | 01/02/19 07:39 PM |
| 1 | OYS - Where Progress is Made (01/30/19)I will just cut to the garbage. Relationship. 2 Got wife pregnant in Dec and we miscarried already. She's full of hormones that suck. It's been like one non-stop flip flop between fitness tests and then comfort tests. Last night was going to sleep on the couch I was so angry with her. That and her health anxiety is back to full strength. It's nuts and at times I really resent her for being weak minded. On the one hand, she is actually going through a miscarriage, but then she calls me and sincer… | /r/RPChristians | 30/01/19 08:19 PM |
| 5 | Newly separated and becoming tired with spinning plates...she is trying to blame me for the divorce It is your fault. It was your blue pill beta bullshit that caused her vag to dry up for you and get wet for Chad. If you don't internalize that we as men are key to both success and failure in our own lives and relationships, you are just gonna fuck up your next LTR. Learn this before you start getting oneitis again and start thinking you found a unicorn. You'll get into another LRT and think she's the shit because while she's auditioning for wife, she i… | /r/askMRP | 30/01/19 07:33 PM |
| 3 | Shit test questionHe says it was not about the other women because everyone is assuming she is jealous of them. This wasn't as much of a shit test as a comfort test or a bid for attention. If it WAS about other women, she'd have called you out WHEN YOU WERE checking out some hotties. BTW... I'm 7 years younger and probably a good point or two higher If both of these are true AND you are exhibiting more alpha than beta behavior, you should have a shit ton of dread going on here and receiving a lot of comfort tes… | /r/askMRP | 21/01/19 06:04 PM |
| 3 | How do you guys get your wives to workout?Yeah, it's been said already, but word repeating the three words.......... Thousand Foot Rope If you aren't leading the way, you are following hers. | /r/askMRP | 09/01/19 04:25 PM |
| 1 | Damage controlGTFO. You got a better take on it, share it. If not your just a troll. | /r/askMRP | 09/01/19 03:16 PM |
| 3 | Should I get a Nintendo Switch or PS4 w/ VR?Then clearly a gaming console is the last thing you need. Bench Press, Barbell Row, Dead lift, Squat, Over head press are the basic lifts you should be doing ever week to get your body in shape. The discipline of Lifting does many things that should be prioritized over the self indulgence of playing games. Boosts testosterone Increase confidence Builds attraction Makes you not GAF about small stuff Enhances your well being Fights depression Burns calories to make you less of a fat ass Boosts you… | /r/askTRP | 08/01/19 02:48 PM |
| 1 | Should I get a Nintendo Switch or PS4 w/ VR?What are your stats? Height, Weight, BF, BP, DL, OHP, ROW, SQ? | /r/askTRP | 08/01/19 02:30 PM |
| 7 | LTR bitchy in public(friends, family)You lack an abundance mentality and are in her frame. Clearly she isn't concerned with being dishonest and blowing you off with weak excuses because she knows you want the relationship more than her. You totally skipped the part that said "Zero regards to the relationship" like it wasn't there at all. | /r/askMRP | 07/01/19 01:20 PM |
| 4 | Meeting with divorce lawyer tomorrowGet her to go to work somewhere first bro. | /r/askMRP | 03/01/19 02:37 PM |
| 2 | Is overlooking a female's sexual past foolish?Is that an upgrade or a downgrade from a Participation Trophy Wife? | /r/RPChristians | 03/01/19 02:30 PM |
| 4 | Damage controlI'm thinking his worst decisions were made the next day under the influence of the blue pill. | /r/askMRP | 02/01/19 10:22 PM |
| 8 | Is overlooking a female's sexual past foolish?Said it before, woman are like cars. If it has... Salvage title (divorced) Aged (approaching the wall or older than you) Fleet owned (rode the CC or she spins plates) Rental history (prostitute) Multiple short term owners (she been abused and/or abusive) Really high miles (N count) A lien against the title (she has debt!) Been repo'd (banktuptcy) Been Stolen (drug use/abortions) Makes funny noises right away (mental health issues) Smell is off (bad chemistry doesn't get better) High maintenanc… | /r/RPChristians | 02/01/19 07:39 PM |
| 30 | Damage controlLet's play a game called "When you said.... she heard" ROUND 1 When you said.... I don’t remember and ......alcohol What she heard was..... He can't be trusted or held accountable for his actions. Audience: You did NOT own anything! Kiss even casual beer drinking goodbye without a shit test. ROUND 2 When you said.... I apologized for hurting her (by talking to a woman and touching her friend) What she heard was..... He just agreed that talking or touching anyone but me is unacceptable behavi… | /r/askMRP | 02/01/19 06:55 PM |
| 1 | OYS - Where Progress is Made (12/19/18)Yeah, he doesn't know how to explain what he is going through yet. Plus he is defensive of his actions and protective of those friendships, so I'm picking my battles carefully. Right now the "reason" he can't hang with them is because of the grades, but it will take him a while to catch up, so that limits his exposure to them to just school. I am hesitant to put my foot down and completely forbid him to be their friend at all because I can't enforce it at school. When he does get caught up I'll … | /r/RPChristians | 20/12/18 04:02 AM |
| 1 | OYS - Where Progress is Made (12/19/18)Middle child syndrome I suspect mostly. He feels like the black sheep now and kind of walks around with a but of a chip on his shoulder. I'm spending more 1 on 1 time with him and even taking him to the gym with me. He is up to 50lb sq/dl and 40lb bp/row and 30pb ohp on his 5x5. He also uses the weights at home too. | /r/RPChristians | 20/12/18 02:54 AM |
| 1 | OYS - Where Progress is Made (12/19/18)Background / Stats: 40yo, 5'7", 207, 24%BF (was off in my calc), 21 years together, kids 20m, 17f, 12m, 8m, 3f. Have read: Read MMSLP, WOSM, Bible, SANGAF, 5LL, RM, WISNIFG Physical / Lifting: StrongLifts 5x5. Sq 270 x5x, Bp 160 5x5, Row 160 5x5, Ohp 105 5x5, DL 265 5x1. Going 3 times per week. Diet: Cut carbs down to about 100 per day. Using low carb muscle milk, no stack. SPIRITUAL Assurance of Salvation: 10. This is on lock and has been for 12 years Quiet Time: 5. Improving Bible Study: 5. Im… | /r/RPChristians | 19/12/18 04:49 PM |
| 17 | On the topic of blowjobsit doesn't come naturally to her For what itis worth.....This sounds familiar, I once said something critical of my wife when she gave me head and she became self conscious.... for years. It wasn't until this year, red pill partly to credit, that she turned the corner. A lot of it had to do with my actions during the act. She felt like I was judging her performance more than enjoying it so I started breathing hard, making lots of noises, coaching her by telling her to spit on it, make it fucking… | /r/askMRP | 19/12/18 04:33 AM |
| 2 | How to help my brother/introduce him to the red pill?Give him BLUE PILL ADVICE, but make it obvious that it is sarcasm. You are fighting 3 major strong holds. A life long investment into blue pill ideology that is hard to abandon. So, you don't want to directly challenge his thinking. People are emotionally invested in their choices often and it's best to not do something that feels like a critique of everything they have done for the past 10-20 years. Pride makes the best advice is the is the hardest to follow, especially from your own brother. S… | /r/askMRP | 18/12/18 05:55 PM |
| 2 | OYS - Where Progress is Made (12/12/18)I would sell the Denali and get something more financially manageable with better gas mileage. She drives about 2500 to 5000 miles per year, it's a 2005, and it's a $100 part and easily replaced. Buying a different vehicle would certainly cost more money. I just waited until it was so cold I don't want to finish the job. It's been 15F / -10C lately. Have you read Walking on Eggshells? Warning, secular link, use Christian discernment here. No, but I've read "Don't sweat the small stuff" and I'm h… | /r/RPChristians | 12/12/18 10:29 PM |
| 1 | OYS - Where Progress is Made (12/12/18)Background / Stats: 40yo, 5'7", 205, 19%BF, 21 years together, kids 20m, 17f, 12m, 8m, 3f. Have read: Read MMSLP, WOSM, Bible, SANGAF, 5LL, RM, WISNIFG Physical / Lifting: October was rough due to traveling. Back to 3 days a week doing StrongLifts 5x5. Just did 1RM Sunday and at SQ 310, BP 180, DL 260, OHP 115, ROW 175. Back is hurting due to bad for I suspect on a couple squats. Diet: Not great. Not counting or watching carbs. I know they are high and they are making the belly show. SPIRITUAL A… | /r/RPChristians | 12/12/18 06:09 PM |
| 5 | Is repentance required in order to be saved?Salvation occurs when the Holy Spirit gives you a new heart and causes you to be born again. The first outward signs that it has occurred is having the knowledge that Jesus is the Christ, that you need Him, and that you need to repent. It is an all of nothing sort of event | /r/RPChristians | 11/12/18 05:07 AM |
| 5 | Did I handle this correctly?Recap of the facts: You met a girl and approached her. Gamed her successfully, escalated the kino, kissing, and groping. You both either verbally agree or have the kind of chemistry of a couple on the cusp of becoming an LTR, getting engaged, or married. Got her to consent to have sex, lost your v-card, and are content with your actions. You are NOW insisting on putting up strict boundaries ON HER She is confused because you were the one initiating and leading the whole way Did I miss anything? … | /r/RPChristians | 03/12/18 06:46 PM |
| 3 | Advice RequestThis kind of talk really bothers me and I have some thoughts and advice..... probably bad, but here it goes. "my mind has being going to some dark places" and after I asked if she is thinking of hurting herself, she replied no but then added "but sometimes I wish God would just call me home" Having known people who killed themselves, it's prudent to be genuinely concerned for anyone saying these things and to take notice. That said, I think this is totally a shitty comfort test. She was only loo… | /r/askMRP | 03/12/18 06:16 PM |
| 1 | Anyone here who keeps contact or became "friends" with their ex?Yeah, but that's only part of it. There is a reason that ex's come crawling out of the woodwork when you got a new girlfriend. They don't want you back either, they just want to make sure no one else has you and/or that you are more lonely and unhappy than they are to prove to themselves that leaving you was the right thing to do and that she was the one who was "too good for you". They also want to string you along making you think you might have a chance so they can use you. Possibly to move f… | /r/askTRP | 30/11/18 11:11 PM |
| 1 | Can you guys fucking answer this? Because I fucking can't.Post it anyway! I am 40 and just started. My numbers are shit too, but who cares. B 155 5x5 DL 245 5x5 SQ 255 5x5 OHP 95 5x5 ROW 140 5x5 | /r/askTRP | 28/11/18 11:20 PM |
| 14 | What should you do if your female boss asks (in a professional or indirect way) if you have a girlfriend/wife, but you don’t have either? I’ve had female bosses who literally say they think guys with girlfriends/wives are better employees/managers.It's illegal to ask about marital status or sexual orientation in an interview process. This violates the law in two separate ways. | /r/askTRP | 26/11/18 07:15 PM |
| 4 | Maintaining Frame with AlphasIf you're real, you don't have any frame to maintain. You only exist in the frame of your wife and opinion of your friends. They see it, we see it, you don't exist, so why bother talking to someone who isn't even there? You have been weighed on the scales and found wanting. Daniel 5:27 | /r/askMRP | 21/11/18 11:11 PM |
| 3 | Where are you guys at with your 1RM?I only count the progress on my 5x5 because it's not about the numbers to me. That said I only started 3 months ago and I am currently at: SQ 225 BP 155 ROW 140 OHP: 95 DL 240 In a year I'd like by 5x5 to be at SQ 325 BP 250 ROW 200 OHP 150 DL 300 | /r/askMRP | 21/11/18 09:44 PM |
| 5 | A redpill book for a 12 year old boy to read? Any suggestions ?Hatchet by Gary Paulsen | /r/MGTOW | 20/11/18 08:59 PM |
| 6 | Preparing for fatherhoodCongratulations! Fatherhood is awesome and it is the reason for all of this to be honest. Being captain now means something far more important than just getting good sex, it means raising healthy well adjusted children. Shit just got real! God bless all three of you! | /r/askMRP | 18/11/18 01:48 PM |
| 3 | Caught wife wanking offFirst of all, this is awesome news for you! The more comfortable she is with her sexuality, the better things are for you! OK, so I am a little late to the conversation, but I know what I would do. Knowing she likes to use it on her own, I would ask her to do a live video via facebook messenger, snapchat, or facetime when you are at work and she is at home alone. I love asking my wife to send pics when I am at work or traveling. I will text her and say that I've been killing it at work (never sa… | /r/RPChristians | 15/11/18 03:29 PM |
| 3 | What to do, now in business debt. How to communicate with wife about itYou are being pretty vague. I feel like you are letting the anxiety of telling her how bad you messed up get you down and hindering you from moving on. Been there and done that myself. Tell her how bad so you can get closure and move on. Feel the pain and let it run its course to teach you to not make the same mistake again. Do a postmortem analysis too so you look back to see what went wrong. | /r/RPChristians | 14/11/18 08:28 PM |
| 4 | Moving In To An Apartment With Pregnant LTR. What's The Best Approach?Not at all over, but shit's gonna change quick. One the MAIN differences between TRP and MRP is you can keep restarting if you are just spinning plates. Fail some shit tests? Ghost her before, now you need to be prepared to fix it, eat crow, reset, improve, and deal with fallouts. I think it's totally worth it and being a father is great, especially one that my kids see handles his shit and leads his wife, but you are on HARD MODE now. | /r/askMRP | 13/11/18 10:29 PM |
| 9 | Moving In To An Apartment With Pregnant LTR. What's The Best Approach?Posted by Peter_B_Long 5 months ago Would You Go Raw With A Plate Who's Going To Be On Birth Control? Top comment was: " Let us know if it’s a boy or a girl. " BWAHHAHHAHHHAAHHAH! | /r/askMRP | 13/11/18 10:26 PM |
| 1 | What are the tells that a woman might bait and switch sexually?According to your own words, you've stated that a woman's exertion of integrity is to choose the right man to make choices. So, your opinion is that goal is to find a man so she can absolve herself of her own agency, accountability, and responsibility? I agree, but she will also try to keep authority too if she is allowed. If she is allowed, she will not trust him too. Then she will feel justified in leaving and he will think it was a bait and switch, but he'd be wrong. | /r/askMRP | 13/11/18 10:17 PM |
| 1 | What are the tells that a woman might bait and switch sexually?Not white knighting, just being pragmatic. You deal with her agency through correction, dread, 1000ft rope, withdrawal, stonewalling, and divorce. Some women aren't worth the effort. | /r/askMRP | 13/11/18 09:14 PM |
| 5 | Is this unattractive?Commitment is the red laser dot and she is the cat. Keep it moving or she will look for something or someone else to do. This means talk less, especially shut up about commitment and the direction of the relationship, that is her job to catch/trap/trick you into buying the cow. Pretty obvious you are developing oneitis, and you can't let her know it. Be more mysterious and challenging or else she will get bored with you just like a cat when the dot stops moving. | /r/askMRP | 13/11/18 06:45 PM |
| 7 | Wife got upset about folding laundry. Was this a shit test and did I handle it wrong?If the "highlight" of her life is complaining about folding laundry, you sir are a fucking bore. | /r/askMRP | 13/11/18 02:04 PM |
| 2 | What are the tells that a woman might bait and switch sexually?Is it the cars fault that it rusts or is it in the nature of the materials, the environment, and the care of the owner? Sure, some makes and models will rust faster. Some within a line will be better and some worse. Some come from better have been given a clear coat, washed, waxed, garaged, and really cared for. Ultimately if not properly managed and maintenanced, all cars rust because that is the nature of metal and entropy. It is the same with women. Sure, some are definitely better than other… | /r/askMRP | 13/11/18 02:42 AM |
| 5 | What are the tells that a woman might bait and switch sexually?Exactly, it is ONLY the blue pilled man who would allow either scenario. The man who sees himself as THE PRIZE and knows that his SMV is higher than his cheating partner. At the end of the day, women don't PLAN to B&S, they just get bored or lose sexual interest in their beta husbands. Watch that same woman leave, get on Tinder, have raunchy hot sex with Chad and Tyrone and brag to her girlfriends about how much she missed it and how great it makes her feel. That's why you when your wife says "I… | /r/askMRP | 12/11/18 06:44 PM |
| 1 | Rape Charge Dropped Against USC Student After Security Video SurfacesStart by using an Automatic Call Recorder on your phone | /r/MGTOW | 09/11/18 02:25 PM |
| 1 | Rape Charge Dropped Against USC Student After Security Video SurfacesWord! | /r/MGTOW | 09/11/18 02:24 PM |
| 23 | Rape Charge Dropped Against USC Student After Security Video SurfacesNot quite, my cousin sent in jail for 2 weeks because of a false accusation from his current / soon-to-be ex girlfriend who decided to leave him for a cop. She got him arrested and thrown into jail after they had their last encounter. It's only because the judge saw her in a previous false accusation case that it got thrown out. He still missed work, still had to hire an attorney, still sat in jail, and nearly went to prison for over a year. | /r/MGTOW | 08/11/18 10:49 PM |
| 3 | How do I socialize as someone who doesnt drink or smoke?"So, what do you do for fun?" | /r/askTRP | 08/11/18 07:43 PM |
| 3 | Anyone here who keeps contact or became "friends" with their ex?Nope. They will either actively or passively affect your other relationships. | /r/askTRP | 05/11/18 04:39 PM |
| 1 | Follow up on Nuc or STFUWhether it's worth saving or not doesn't change that you need to keep improving. Drop the cold war conflict. Be like Reagan and tear down the wall. If you stay, you have to cultivate a warm home where people like each other. If you leave, you have to cultivate a civil relationship with her to win in custody and settlement. Insist on being annoyingly happy and nice to her no matter what BS she is up to. Use that anger to fuel your improvement. Her hypergamy will kick in and she will see you are h… | /r/askMRP | 05/11/18 04:37 PM |
| 10 | A question about tears in front of your LTR.Good cry or bad cry. Example 1: When I pray sometimes, I get overcome and tears flow from my eyes. I try to dry them up, but I see her notice and she will unknowingly smile about it because she loves that I love God and when I pray it's doing something real in me. Grieving the loss of a loved one, at the birth of a child, saying your wedding vows, being proud of your kids doing something, or reminiscing about the past. Good cry, frame improved. Example 2: In my early 20's, we are fighting a lot.… | /r/RPChristians | 05/11/18 04:17 PM |
| 5 | Follow up on Nuc or STFUSo I just withdraw my time due to bad attitude. We don't talk at all really unless its about the kids. First of all, you withdraw for the moment to correct bad behavior, not permanently. I like to do this for about 15 minutes max, any longer and you ARE being butt hurt despite what you think. Be honest, you aren't trying to correct her, you are stonewalling. That means you are hiding from her and/or avoiding her... possibly telling yourself you are punishing her, but you've been a drunk captain … | /r/askMRP | 05/11/18 03:40 PM |
| 2 | Odd test from my wifeDon't show off your new tricks, you will only raise her expectations. | /r/askMRP | 04/11/18 11:53 PM |
| 2 | This golden comment needs it own post.Getting into a relationship with a single mom, especially as a beta male, is like buying an old used role playing game on a shitty console that some fucking idiot already started and did a horrible job making characters, building shit, gathering stuff, and pissing off the npc's and they decided to just fuck off for a while and leave. You found it at a garage sale and started to play it to find out that you can't reset the clock, start over, make new characters, find hidden treasure, complete the… | /r/MGTOW | 03/11/18 05:06 PM |
| -1 | Losing erection, psychosexual therapy with wife.u/ponr Stats or GTFO | /r/askMRP | 03/11/18 04:52 PM |
| 1 | Losing erection, psychosexual therapy with wife.LOL "Chief Autist in Charge" | /r/askMRP | 03/11/18 04:51 PM |
| 2 | Wanting to be wanted.So weird, I am both relieved and disappointed. | /r/askMRP | 02/11/18 09:46 PM |
| 1 | Wanting to be wanted.I just need to know if you got both the pus and nut on her face? | /r/askMRP | 02/11/18 09:22 PM |
| 2 | Wanting to be wanted.Your frame is still shit JJC. When she rejects you, do not give a fuck. Tell her it's her loss and fucking mean it too. Leave the room and don't ever let her see you feel butt-hurt. Clearly, you are looking TO HER for validation, acceptance, and approval. Still operating on a covert contract trying to "earn" pussy. Flip the pressure. YOU are the prize (possibly in your case more than most) and any rejection she is giving you (assuming you are passing shit tests, lifting, taking care of yourself,… | /r/askMRP | 02/11/18 09:07 PM |
| 3 | Wanting to be wanted.What the actual fuck?! | /r/askMRP | 02/11/18 09:01 PM |
| 2 | Intro + questionI'm trying to figure out if I'm attracted to. You aren't. I see sometimes when two singles in a small group of christian friends are similar in age and SMV, there is an attraction to be in relationship with someone else in the same group. You both might be the most "eligible" to make a pair, but ask yourself some tough questions. Are you just picking the low hanging fruit out of convenience? Are there things about her or being around her that you really like? Would she add value to your life and… | /r/RPChristians | 01/11/18 07:55 PM |
| 2 | Pushing the wifes nuclear button aka criticizing parenting skills.Maybe it wasn't clear, but admitting error and apologizing is a sign of strength, not weakness. Being in error while also not acknowledging it or correcting it shows you are an unfit leader and not trust worthy. Admitting an error, giving a very brief apology or acknowledgement, then not repeating the mistake shows that you are trustworthy even after a big screw up. Knowing when you've screwed up is part of "owning your shit", especially if you do it BEFORE you are put in an ultimatum situation.… | /r/askMRP | 22/10/18 04:44 PM |
| 1 | Is approaching a girl from my class (20 people) considered shitting where I'm eating?Have at it then. To be honest, you should be practicing talking to women everywhere you go all the time. What the are you waiting for? | /r/askTRP | 21/10/18 03:17 PM |
| 1 | Is approaching a girl from my class (20 people) considered shitting where I'm eating?Have at it then. To be honest, you should be practicing talking to women everywhere you go all the time. What the are you waiting for? | /r/askTRP | 21/10/18 02:43 PM |
| 1 | Is approaching a girl from my class (20 people) considered shitting where I'm eating?Approaching? That's fine. You should be doing this all the time anywhere. Spinning her as a plate to the point of getting physical? No, don't do it. Many would argue to not even do that with anyone at your same school. For now, school is your workplace. Where is "shitting where you eat"? Anywhere you have to regularly go. Work, school, gym, neighbor, your kid's school, etc. The whole idea is that eventually you may have to ghost her and you can't if both of you are required to be in the same pla… | /r/askTRP | 20/10/18 06:10 PM |
| 1 | Why StrongLifts over GreySkull for beginners?power rack I wish they had those instead and thought about changing, but honestly, if my gym where any further away I wouldn't get in there often enough. I just have to keep working on technique. | /r/askMRP | 18/10/18 02:37 PM |
| 1 | Why StrongLifts over GreySkull for beginners?Maybe using the wrong word, perhaps a "smith machine" is the right term. It's where the bar slides up and down at a very slight incline on a track. My gym (PF) doesn't have Olympic free weights, but just several "cages" like this: https://i.ytimg.com/vi/RH9yIsMoUsE/maxresdefault.jpg | /r/askMRP | 18/10/18 02:32 PM |
| 8 | Average women are harder to date than beautiful women.I have a theory that the worst thing a woman can be is to be almost smoking hot. Those women are never happy with their looks, they are the most insecure, and never stop seeking validation. | /r/askTRP | 18/10/18 02:23 PM |
| 2 | Why StrongLifts over GreySkull for beginners?you can be in and out of the gym within 30 minutes Well not exactly. You should be doing some warm ups too. The free version doesn't give you a recommended warm up but you should be adding a routine. I've been doing just the bar for 10x3 (practicing form), then 50% for 10x3 (loosen my body up) and 75% for 5x3 (warm up my muscles) before starting the workout itself. I don't know if that's a "good" workout but it seems to have helped me and I hurt the next day less often. | /r/askMRP | 18/10/18 01:12 PM |
| 1 | Why StrongLifts over GreySkull for beginners?Mine too, my OHP form on the track was the problem I think. Took off about 5 days to recuperate while traveling for work. | /r/askMRP | 18/10/18 01:06 PM |
| 1 | Why StrongLifts over GreySkull for beginners?The "every day is leg day" of SL is one of it's main criticisms This is one of the reasons I like it! | /r/askMRP | 18/10/18 01:05 PM |
| 4 | Pushing the wifes nuclear button aka criticizing parenting skills.Damn right | /r/askMRP | 17/10/18 05:45 PM |
| 5 | Pushing the wifes nuclear button aka criticizing parenting skills.Idk why she calldd her dad She is living in her fathers frame, you are living in her frame. | /r/askMRP | 17/10/18 05:44 PM |
| 16 | Pushing the wifes nuclear button aka criticizing parenting skills.JD is right. Consider how you are focused on "winning" the fight. Winning a fight is all about gaining her approval and validation. That is the heart issue behind why men DEER in the first place. Participating in the fight is chasing pussy. When a man leads, he just says what he needs to say and that's it. Her reaction is irrelevant. Her response is not needed. If she throws a fit, it's par for the course, but you should not be moved to mood swings because of it or compelled to explain or defend… | /r/askMRP | 17/10/18 05:38 PM |
| 2 | BlowjobsYMMV for any close, none of it works without frame to be honest. | /r/askMRP | 17/10/18 01:38 AM |
| 1 | How do i stop seeking for approval? Start being a man? Stop being a pussy? Stop being the pathetic naive nice guy?Everything counts, but lifting counts more than anything else | /r/askMRP | 16/10/18 10:21 PM |
| 1 | How do i stop seeking for approval? Start being a man? Stop being a pussy? Stop being the pathetic naive nice guy?I see you are apparently from Iraq, but I am pretty sure you can find heavy stuff anywhere in the world to pick up and put back down again. Pushup, pull-up, chin up, burpee, squat, and jogging. Do it with jugs of water, backpack with rocks or sand in it, or a huge chain around your neck. Carry old truck/car axles or tires. Stop making excuses and be a man of decision and action. Bar Brothers Weighted Calisthenics Routine | /r/askMRP | 16/10/18 08:43 PM |
| 3 | BlowjobsWas it the showering that was asking too much effort in your opinion? LOL | /r/askMRP | 16/10/18 06:03 PM |
| 3 | How do i stop seeking for approval? Start being a man? Stop being a pussy? Stop being the pathetic naive nice guy?Lift. I can tell by your post you aren't lifting. I feel like I have the mind and mentality down pretty good 95% of the time. However, if I haven't been to the gym in a whole week, I literally can feel a change in my frame. The more I lift, the less fucks I give. Start a body building program that uses full body exercises like squats, bench press, dead lifts, over hand press, barbell rows, etc. Read. Couple books like "Subtle Art of Not Giving A Fuck" and "Don't Sweat The Small Stuff" will be gr… | /r/askMRP | 16/10/18 02:06 PM |
| 4 | BlowjobsBe clean. Shower after workouts, wipe from front to back, maybe some cologne under the sack. I shower before bed instead of in the morning because I could care less to wake up early to feel 5% more "ready" for work when I have a 200% higher chance of blowjobs if I just showered at night. Time it better. Feelz are everything to a woman. If she is happy with you, she has always been happy. If she is mad at you, she's always been mad. Making sure you have her in a good mood is crucial. Once she is,… | /r/askMRP | 16/10/18 01:39 PM |
| 3 | Maintaining frame after serious injury"oh, honey, my back hurts, please get me a X." You say this as if the only way you could ask her to put her hands on you is if you are being a whiny beta. Oh, and you are putting it out there as a request too. I overdo it at times and I am honest and tell her "I over did it today, grab a towel and the massage oil on the way to bed, I need you to heal me with your feminine powers". I am not asking, not whining, not begging, not saying please, but instead I am getting her to respond to leadership.… | /r/askMRP | 16/10/18 12:22 AM |
| 2 | Help me out of this pitI’m constantly questioning if Christianity is even true. Spiritual: I have no idea what to do here. Completely lost. And this is terrifying because I only want to marry a conservative Christian girl, but I wonder if I myself even believe in Christianity. I recommend you for one thing and one thing only and do it every single day. "Lord, In your word, you've repeatedly made yourself KNOWN to the prophets, to David, to Paul, and countless others since. You also said if I seek you, I will find you.… | /r/RPChristians | 12/10/18 04:42 PM |
| 1 | Help me out of this pitI’m very skinny/bony with bad posture - pics here: https://imgur.com/a/WM9unGL Posture: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=g-7ZWPCWv0U | /r/RPChristians | 12/10/18 04:30 PM |
| 6 | What the fuck have I gotten myself into?I'll start lifting in November since I have 3 business trips out of the country with no access to a gym I travel for work too, stick to Hotels that have gyms and look for weights. I haven't actually found free weights or a track, but you might find dumbbells. If I can't, I do pushups/situps/squats either to fail or will do some kind of 20 rep x 5 set with a 1-2 minute wait between sets. I have no safe people to talk to, no friends outside 2 guys at work (high introvert), so likely will rely on t… | /r/askMRP | 05/10/18 01:51 PM |
| 6 | Bad DecisionsStats or GTFO | /r/askMRP | 04/10/18 12:18 PM |
| 2 | Perceived Threats?Still, I can't escape the memory of yesterday so to speak (the habits, patterns of thoughts, etc). Let it go and don't give it any more thought. Move forward, you are dwelling on this way too much. There is like nearly zero chance he is a threat to you in real anyway. He may have had a crush on this woman and was trying to block you, but it is out of his own insecurity. Next time you see him, walk RIGHT UP to him, shake his hand, tell him it's good to see him again with a genuine smile. You shou… | /r/RPChristians | 02/10/18 07:23 PM |
| 5 | I still get so confused in frameIs it like being delusionally confident? In short though, yes! Or kind of anyway. Kind of, some books describe it that way, as in MMSLP I think it was. Might edit the actual quote if I am not too lazy. The reason you think it's delusional is that you don't think you can be "that guy" or that version of yourself. You are still probably thinking she's got the power because she has a vagina. As long as you feel like that, it's true and your frame is fake. It's a lie though. You are the prize and sh… | /r/askMRP | 02/10/18 02:44 PM |
| 2 | Avoiding awkwardness. We see each other every Sunday.Listen to her actions, not her words. Her telling you that she liked you is no joke. Women don't volunteer this up casually. In fact, it's more often that they will deny interest. She says she is not ready for a relationship, but it's a rookie move to listen to her WORDS. Look at her actions instead, they are more telling, honest, and useful. She is communicating with you interest on a number of levels and you aren't reciprocating. If you want to have a relationship, then just initiate it. I bel… | /r/RPChristians | 01/10/18 01:32 PM |
| 15 | How did you meet your wife?How did you meet your wives? First, I only have the one wife and this started back in the mid 1990's. I was screwing her cousin, broke it off for a number of reasons and about a year later her and I started to be a thing. There was a strong attraction when I first met her, but didn't make the move until later. One week into it I knew we'd get married even though I was just barely 18 at the time. Was pretty alpha at the time and had become an asshole, just never to her. I wasn't RP aware then, bu… | /r/askMRP | 29/09/18 01:54 PM |
| 0 | How to deal with assholes disrespecting you and your date in public? I'd like advice from some older guys 30+ years of age.Lol, rookie | /r/askTRP | 28/09/18 11:49 AM |
| 2 | My daughter screamed out that she didnt want me...Two books for you OP. https://www.amazon.com/When-Say-No-Feel-Guilty/dp/0553263900 and https://www.amazon.com/No-More-Mr-Nice-Guy/dp/0762415339 GOOD LUCK! | /r/MGTOW | 26/09/18 09:29 PM |
| 2 | How to deal with assholes disrespecting you and your date in public? I'd like advice from some older guys 30+ years of age.She told you like a good girl, so tell her to loosen up another button on her shirt and blow him a kiss. It will show that you are in control of her, not jealous, and you don't give a fuck. That will also translate into some amazing sex later. | /r/askTRP | 26/09/18 08:03 PM |
| 4 | Newly Red Pill Aware, fast gains, but.....Your plan for now is the 1000ft rope. As you are pulling away to nicer warmer waters, expect some trickle truth to shower in along the way. Maybe she cheated, maybe she didn't. I agree with others that Chad dumped her and she went scorched earth on everything to do with him. Now the phone is clean as a whistle, and she thinks she just has to be a little nicer until another branch comes along. Forget about the phone, if she offers it up again, act like you don't care. Being the pussy-police and i… | /r/askMRP | 26/09/18 07:46 PM |
| 3 | Introducing MyselfMy company works over the phone selling, training, implementing, and supporting business software (ERP). Almost all of us work remote and spend most days talking on the phone for 3-6 hours a day. We also do onsite implementation and attend trade shows where we are talking all day long. One of my coworkers focuses on implementations. He stutters. Every sentence. Usually ever three to four words mess him up. He has accepted it at some point and just chose to ignore it and act like it's not there. … | /r/RPChristians | 26/09/18 04:05 PM |
| 1 | What Red Pill Podcasts do you listen to?Have you been listening to the latest advanced series from Red Pill Coach Dave posted on the BluePillProfessor's youtube channel? Red Pill Coach on Advanced Topics in Marriage (9 videos currently) or the original series Married Red Pill Basic Course by the Blue Pill Professor (19 Videos) | /r/RPChristians | 25/09/18 05:53 PM |
| 2 | What Red Pill Podcasts do you listen to?r/https://www.youtube.com/user/EntrepreneursInCars | /r/RPChristians | 25/09/18 05:48 PM |
| 5 | Wife pulled a knife on me last night"If a girl ever pulls out a knife on you during an argument, pull out some bread & mayo, her women instincts will kick in and she'll make you a sandwich" - From a 2012 Meme. Ok enough jokes. She turned towards me with the knife and fork and stepped towards me and said “I told you to never touch me again.” So, did she "pull a knife on you" or she already had a knife in her hand from cutting chicken, you annoyed her, she turned around and it was obviously still in her hand? Reminds me of the you… | /r/askMRP | 25/09/18 05:39 PM |
| 1 | Uncharted territory for me... multiple women interested and I just chose one...How long have you been married? Edit: That's what I thought | /r/askTRP | 25/09/18 02:47 PM |
| 4 | Uncharted territory for me... multiple women interested and I just chose one...Married Red Pill is Red Pill on HARD MODE, so only LTR a woman you would actually marry. She falls in love with you as an alpha, then will try to make you a beta and if she is successful, she will hate you for it. You remove the NEXT button means that you have to own your shit all the time now. If you don't, your life will suck. That woman should provide more value than sex and a pretty face. Make sure it's not simply Oneitis, this is still a problem in marriage. Only actually marry a woman who … | /r/askTRP | 25/09/18 01:38 PM |
| 1 | Hard time deciding between cutting the cord or re-cultivating scorched earthI will PM you some thoughts. | /r/askMRP | 25/09/18 01:20 PM |
| 3 | Best approach with wife?Probably read Married Mans Sex Life Primer by Athol Kay after consuming the sidebar posts. Start lifting yesterday, 50% of your final grade depends on your lifting stats. | /r/askMRP | 25/09/18 03:20 AM |
| 13 | Shemale that I'm working with wants to have sexYou have to say "no homo" after you suck her cock | /r/askTRP | 24/09/18 10:02 PM |
| 2 | How to find a good churchHe's a former stand up comedian. Does a lot of evangelism and has been calling out false teaching for about a decade on TV, podcast, and online. Lot's of good content out there. | /r/RPChristians | 24/09/18 09:52 PM |
| 13 | [serious] How do you stop masturbating?It's pretty easy. First you stop being a creep and quit looking at porn. You are watching a video of some Chad nutting on some rando to get YOUR sexual gratification instead of getting pussy or head for yourself. It's weak. Next you look at all the time you find yourself bored. Fill it with actions that advance your mission. You finish all the sidebar materials? Doubt it. You got all the certifications you need to make top dollar in your field? You got all your finances on lock? If you got time … | /r/askMRP | 24/09/18 08:41 PM |
| 1 | I think it is time to leaveLOL, couldn't resist! Terryfold ft Justin Roiland with Lyrics (Rick & Morty Season 3) | /r/askMRP | 24/09/18 05:04 PM |
| 1 | 48 laws of poweru/stellarhit The book you want is the 23 hr version, the other one is a probably a summary | /r/askMRP | 24/09/18 03:19 PM |
| 4 | 48 laws of powerSounds like those are two different books | /r/askMRP | 24/09/18 05:06 AM |
| 1 | Proper interpretation of the Captain/First-Officer modelThis is awesome, Negan vs Rick would have been a great modern comparison. As for Star Trek to be honest I always thought of Kirk over Picard, he just has an attitude like he just assumed command on day one and no one had the balls to tell him otherwise. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 24/09/18 12:35 AM |
| 11 | Turning a failed deering around.She is a 1, he is a 2 or 3 | /r/askMRP | 23/09/18 02:25 PM |
| 2 | Not exactly shit tests - a little help?In light of new evidence..... She might be mocking you. However keep improving your frame. You just started 2 months ago, so you have 15 more months before she will full believe you and completely trust your leadership. | /r/askMRP | 22/09/18 09:29 PM |
| 4 | Not exactly shit tests - a little help?It is a form of comfort test. She is testing the waters too see if you like her attention still or if she is gonna get nexted or being cheated on. | /r/askMRP | 22/09/18 07:45 PM |
| 13 | Advice for a guy made unattractive by physical disability?I'd like to mention that my intellect is as sharp as a knifes edge so I'm good there Ok, I have an idea. Write up some comedy material and go to an open mic night, or copy another comedian's routine. Why? To get over you fear of cold approach and get used to practicing. It's all practicing anyway. If you bomb, it's because the delivery was shaky or they just didn't like the joke. CA is the same. Maybe they didn't like the line, maybe you were too nervous, maybe they are shallow and you dodged a … | /r/askTRP | 21/09/18 11:01 PM |
| 7 | As a red piller, what's the goal of pursuing a LTR if there are no unicorns?A unicorn by definition is a woman who is NOT subject to the AWALT characteristics such as hypergamy, hamstering, solipsism, etc. This doesn't mean that all women are bad, just that you are not going to find one that is exempt to those inclinations and some, are way WAY more subject to them than others. The idea that you could find a true "unicorn" would suggest that all the RP ideas would instantly become unnecessary as you've found a woman who is fully loyal and dedicated without any required … | /r/askTRP | 21/09/18 06:15 PM |
| 6 | Difficulty accepting my new reality.I suppose I'm coming to terms with the fact I wasn't the prize for her. Become the prize and do it for you! My wife jokingly called me the "golden ticket" a couple weeks ago even though for nearly 20 years she's thought and/or acted like I was the lucky one to be with her. | /r/askMRP | 21/09/18 01:36 PM |
| 2 | A little stumpedWe've all been there | /r/askMRP | 21/09/18 12:26 AM |
| 5 | A little stumpedA single glass of wine once a week after 3 months old at bed time won't do anything. Some doctors recommend breast feeding mothers to drink a beer to make the milk come in better. They are safely past the risk of giving it fetal alcohol syndrome I think. | /r/askMRP | 20/09/18 08:00 PM |
| 5 | A little stumpedWOW. The preacher's is gonna tell the truth and it's gonna hurt. Just remember you posted here and wanted to hear from men what the problem is. You know why you like the first part of u/justpickanyusername's hormone comment, but didn't internalize the rest of what he said? You think it excuses yourself from being a blue pilled maggot. See, in your mind, you now think bad sex and zero attraction is because of hormones. You think that the baby is in bed with you because of "attachment parenting". … | /r/askMRP | 20/09/18 07:55 PM |
| 3 | A little stumped1 week is plenty! | /r/askMRP | 20/09/18 07:45 PM |
| 6 | A little stumpedWe have 5 kids spread out over our 20 years. Lots of pregnancy and baby years. You have some stiff competition right now. Not only is she's getting TONS of her feelz from the baby, but probably a shitload of affirmation from all the pics that are pulling in likes and comments on Facebook and Instagram of that baby. This means lower dread. Basic strategy requires isolation. Sounds like she is a SAHM. Mine is too and I think it's cool. Realize MOST women today are going back to work and putting th… | /r/askMRP | 20/09/18 03:35 PM |
| 0 | Do a lot of men let their wives know the pin to their phones?No pin. IDGAF | /r/askMRP | 20/09/18 12:48 PM |
| 2 | Gents : Your competitionSee, there is the difference. Specialization into a more competitive and demanding position for higher compensation. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 20/09/18 12:03 PM |
| 3 | When is it time to date for me?I was 18, my wife 16 when we started "dating". Before she agreed she asked "what does that mean?". At the time I didn't have an answer prepared so I just shrugged and said "let's just see what happens". That was close to 22 years ago. I still recommend a relaxed approach with low expectations. It implies abundance, confidence, and an outcome independent attitude. Not that I knew what that was then. She is a quality woman, so if I had not started dating her at that time someone else definitely wo… | /r/RPChristians | 20/09/18 01:32 AM |
| 2 | Gents : Your competition80k vs 200k on avg | /r/MarriedRedPill | 19/09/18 09:53 PM |
| 1 | Gents : Your competitionRN compared to DR. Double is as close as it gets usually. Can be as much as 10x depending on specialty and experience. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 19/09/18 09:42 PM |
| 2 | Gents : Your competitionIt's kind of right. If we equate "working hard" to "effort", then I kind of agree. Women are conditioned to having it easy and the sense of entitlement runs deep in their souls. Even with the ones that claim to be egalitarian. They are used to being pretty and having someone else carry the heavy stuff. Not only physically, but in all ways. Considering this, if a woman wants to succeed in a competitive environment where merit is measured nonvisually, it is going to be twice as difficult to muster… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 19/09/18 09:27 PM |
| 23 | A plate just messaged me"don't you have other girls to mess with?""you looking to make some new friends?" | /r/askTRP | 19/09/18 08:54 PM |
| 3 | Do you fast?Yes, when praying and seeking God after feeling distant or when seeking answers to specific prayer for up to 3 days with no food or drink besides water. Fasting in general is downplayed all throughout the church. I suppose it's because fasting is situational. Like we aren't actually required to fast biblically, but when praying, seeking God, or as in scripture, attempting to cast our certain demons. Fasting is a very effective and powerful way to draw closer to God and allow the Holy Spirit to m… | /r/RPChristians | 19/09/18 12:48 PM |
| 3 | Her Sexual Changes (Direct vs. Indirect)In bed she's directly pushed back ("don't tell me what to do," etc). So, there's a trick you need to learn to master. Remember she has a hamster brain. A couple things can be going through her mind all at once and they are messed up. On the one hand they want to be a slut, want to get fucked hard, want to be treated like meat, but on the other they feel guilt, shame, and are told this stuff is "oppressive". Also, remember that guys casually say "suck my dick" as a way to diss each other, sometim… | /r/askMRP | 18/09/18 09:30 PM |
| 13 | Her Sexual Changes (Direct vs. Indirect)BOTH! Indirectly. Wife has gone from the WORST backseat driver to giving road head. I did give her some positive feedback and she says "Oh, I wasn't sure you liked that" and smiled as if I would have ever turned her down previously. Now, it's nearly a weekly occurrence. Never lets me cum in her mouth for past 19 years and now she doesn't stops until I am done. She told me she is working her way up to swallowing. On letting me finish in her mouth, now suddenly she says "HUH? it's not nearly as ba… | /r/askMRP | 18/09/18 05:53 PM |
| 5 | How do i stop feeling guilty after watching porn?Just stop doing it. You may be addicted or in a habit hard to break, but there is actually a lot of positive benefits to it. Check out the r/NoFap group or this interesting video by Improvement Pill: NOFAP - SCIENTIFIC EVIDENCE THAT IT WORKS | /r/askTRP | 18/09/18 05:26 PM |
| 1 | You're Not Thinking Big EnoughGood word. Feeling called to make a change, but not sure what it looks like. We are discipling and it's a team mission for sure, praying for more wisdom. | /r/RPChristians | 18/09/18 02:35 PM |
| 4 | FR: Go All InExactly, ACTA NON VERBA! | /r/MarriedRedPill | 18/09/18 02:02 PM |
| 3 | Anyone else with Aspergers know how to not make an ass of themselves.We found that our adult son probably has been dealing with Aspergers and we didn't fully realize it. Also, pretty sure my father does too, so I was raised by a man with these same challenges. My son is working through it, but after my dad just got married, he got a factory job and then abandoned hope of having friends, and pretty much stopped talking to people at 25-30 years old. people talk shit about me or just be nice to my face This is not unique to you or to autistic people. We all deal wit… | /r/askTRP | 18/09/18 01:37 PM |
| 2 | Sup fellas. Just saw my ex gf for the first time since we broke up last monthIt's pretty much the original Red Pill bible. https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/6hg9y0/the_rational_male_rollo_tomassi/ | /r/MGTOW | 18/09/18 12:53 PM |
| 1 | Question: Any Advice for a man wanting to start a relationship with a women?I would say something. Nothing hurts ad much as regret for things I didn't say when I had the time and opportunity to say them. Doesn't have to be a marriage proposal either, but I would start by telling her you think about her a lot when she isn't around and it makes you happy. Then see what she says. Also, pray and ask God to either confirm your suspicion or cause the feelz to fade quickly so you aren't investing yourself in the wrong way. | /r/RPChristians | 18/09/18 04:31 AM |
| 11 | Sup fellas. Just saw my ex gf for the first time since we broke up last monthRead Rational Male by Rollo Tomassi | /r/MGTOW | 18/09/18 01:03 AM |
| 2 | Anger problem. I have the divorce papers in my car.Remember to not punish her with anger or show annoyance when you are attempting to be stoic. When you fail to maintain your frame, you not only go from stoic to weak in the moment, but the entire time you had been stoic has now changed perception in history to have been whining and pouting. In short you lose credibility. You have only achieved stoicism when you have weathered the storm to it's full measure. Like a lighthouse in a hurricane, if you crumble at the last gust of the storm, you were … | /r/askMRP | 17/09/18 07:42 PM |
| 2 | We now have a Glossary of RPChristian terms and Acronyms on the Sidebar!Thank you Chuck! | /r/RPChristians | 17/09/18 06:05 PM |
| 4 | Come up with a plan...Ah yes, I remember you. It's a good plan you have here, but I think she is going to probably get super pissed and turn on you once she realizes you don't want to be the betabux anymore. Couple questions. How is your frame, seriously? This seemed to be the elephant in the room as she didn't really respect anything you were saying and treating your authority as if you simply aren't important. Divorce with kids involved doesn't mean the end of disrespect or shit tests, how are doing with regards to… | /r/askMRP | 17/09/18 05:24 PM |
| 3 | Why do girls cockblock each other?I know what you meant fam, but I've seen it happen more often that girls will turn a blind eye knowing her friend has a BF than policing her to be a faithful GF. Encouraging it even. This happens even more if said "friend" is herself single as she'd rather see her friend lose a BF rather than be single alone. Literally the opposite of a cockblock. | /r/askTRP | 17/09/18 02:04 PM |
| 1 | Why do girls cockblock each other?She got a bf. Not this, they love drama and unless she is dating her very own brother, this is not a factor. Her friend doesnt want to get ditched/go home alone. THIS plus jealousy. End of discussion. | /r/askTRP | 17/09/18 01:25 PM |
| 2 | The Golden TicketIf it's not obvious to you, click the link to read the entire article. The part that says "excerpt" is actually just an excerpt of the whole essay. Thanks u/rollo-tomassi It's too bad so many people never use their ticket! | /r/MarriedRedPill | 17/09/18 01:13 AM |
| 3 | Anger problem. I have the divorce papers in my car.Truth hurts. I think the truth you don't want to hear is your frame is garbage because you are easily upset and run out of patience immediately. She simply has no respect for your leadership and if you can't become a man who can handle her flooding she shouldn't respect you. She is a control freak. It is usually based in a fear of being judged or criticized. You let it go unchecked so long that you live completely in her frame , albeit unhappily. Relax. This isn't beyond fixing. Sounds like at t… | /r/askMRP | 16/09/18 03:05 PM |
| 2 | what does the monk mode mean?It means you need to read the sidebar materials | /r/askMRP | 16/09/18 12:30 AM |
| 1 | Appearing More Manly76 kg That is pretty light actually. Just what are you doing in the Gym? What is your workout? | /r/askTRP | 14/09/18 08:42 PM |
| 2 | Newcomer doing what a newcomer does: introducing myselfGood to hear from you brother. Looking forward to getting to know you better! | /r/RPChristians | 14/09/18 08:41 PM |
| 8 | Appearing More ManlyJust weight loss buddy | /r/askTRP | 14/09/18 08:28 PM |
| 2 | Wife refuses to be submissiveWOW! First, yeah I would bounce, immediately and probably permanently... staying can easliy escalate that to a DA charge. In the US, if she breaks her nail punching your nose, you go to jail. You absolutely should GFTO right away. Feel me? Never stay in that situation. In fact don't marry her in the first place, and don't tell me there were no red flags, you just saw how fine she looked and ignored them. She is a poor choice. Either way, you gotta understand this, your FRAME should be calm, cool… | /r/askMRP | 14/09/18 03:35 PM |
| 2 | Wife refuses to be submissiveI was gonna write a long reply and me mean, but I will keep it short and polite. Yes, Yes, Yes, the correct answer is never be emotional, you must always be rational and stoic. Or as you've observed christian families are red pilled it's because Jesus said we are to never be offended by anyone. If you show that you are butt hurt then run away, you've proven yourself to be a weak man. However, a quick laugh or confused look like the Nick Young meme and exit works really really well, especially wi… | /r/askMRP | 14/09/18 01:15 PM |
| 7 | Wife refuses to be submissiveBesides having a penis, I see no reason why she should respect you, follow your lead, or submit. You have no frame, you deserve no respect talking like like that. Even in... No especially in Red Pill, respect is earned, never demanded. You do that by OYS and maintaining frame. Frame as in you don't ever ever ever act emotional and easily angered, or frankly bothered about anything. You will here the same in u/rpchristians but with bible verses to back it up. Recommendation: read the sidebar and … | /r/askMRP | 14/09/18 03:13 AM |
| 2 | How to Smell AmazingWow, did you really type all that up? This VERY thorough!! I have used that fragrantica.com also to find other perfumes to buy for my wife that are similar to ones that I like or she does. | /r/RPChristians | 13/09/18 06:29 PM |
| 0 | Is there anything one can do about cumming too fast?Like I said, YMMV. If they are too small that damage is actually permanent. | /r/askMRP | 13/09/18 04:53 PM |
| 1 | How to make a girl insecure about her looks?OP, I don't think you know how this works | /r/askTRP | 13/09/18 04:35 PM |
| 3 | What kind of date do I ask her out on?Don't say anything. Leave it a mystery until you pick her up, just tell her what to wear like athletic, dress up, casual, swimsuit, whatever. Then her hamster can't start spinning up random doubts, fears, and hesitations and cause her to flake. | /r/askTRP | 13/09/18 04:33 PM |
| 3 | Is there anything one can do about cumming too fast?YMMV of course, but they would hurt after a while and make it feel numb at sometimes. Absolutely never use metal ones though. Look up on Google Images if you don't believe me. | /r/askMRP | 13/09/18 04:31 PM |
| 2 | What to make of this situation?This belongs in r/askMRP | /r/MarriedRedPill | 13/09/18 03:41 PM |
| 6 | Is there anything one can do about cumming too fast?I have a couple methods that I use. Frequent position changing. Just going from one position to another and after about the 2nd or 3rd change with 15 -30 second break between them and then I become desensitized and then can keep going at medium pace in almost any position as long as I want. Blowjob, Missionary, Blowjob, Doggy as long as I want until it's time to really plow the field... that is my fav combo. Separate cum from orgasm (ruin it). Kind of what u/rian_stone is talking about except no… | /r/askMRP | 13/09/18 03:32 PM |
| 1 | OYS - Where Progress is Made (09/12/18)Usually, will get daily unsolicited nudes too. | /r/RPChristians | 13/09/18 12:10 PM |
| 4 | How to not be so serious all the timeLifting gives you the DGAF feelz. Seriously, don't skip it, it is 50% of attraction because you look better, are actually stronger and know it, and your testosterone increases. Confidenve that can't be faked. Also, higher T makes you quit hamstering up the social anxiety. When you do, you can tell bad jokes and women and betas will laugh anyway. Get swole! Edit: until then, practice everywhere. Just tonight, I was in Walmart and this HB8 was in the same aisle and someone dropped and broke a bag … | /r/askTRP | 13/09/18 03:42 AM |
| 1 | OYS - Where Progress is Made (09/12/18)I have 3 tradeshows in Oct/Nov that will take me out of town for 4 days each. After that I will start to travel once a month I think. | /r/RPChristians | 13/09/18 12:03 AM |
| 5 | How to effectively number closeDon't ask her for the number. Say nothing, just hand her your phone without explanation. Then when she looks up at you, TELL her to add her number so you can text her to hang out later. | /r/askTRP | 12/09/18 09:38 PM |
| 3 | Traveling with a crazy plateYep. Women forget history as soon as new feelings wash it away. It's true if you did something really nice and forgot to compliment her shoes or cheated on her but took her on a romantic date. Apologize to her, turn on the game, get home safe and next her. | /r/askTRP | 12/09/18 09:35 PM |
| 1 | OYS - Where Progress is Made (09/12/18)Why do I keep getting comments flagged for profanity? https://imgur.com/51gR9w2 | /r/RPChristians | 12/09/18 08:43 PM |
| 5 | How important is a woman's sexual past to you?make, model, year, dealer reputation, # of miles, # of owners, trim, engine, was it a rental, borrowed out a lot, type of owner/drivers, warranty, service history, and yeah even the type of lube used and how often it was changed, rust, stains, dents, accidents, etc. Have your mechanic inspect it and ask people that care about you with experience and wisdom their opinion. Budget: Roughly speaking, your own SMV Make: What are her parents like? Model: Style, looks, attractiveness Trim: What benefit… | /r/RPChristians | 12/09/18 08:39 PM |
| 2 | OYS - Where Progress is Made (09/12/18)WOTSM Not yet, finishing Jordan Peterson, then Rational Male. Perhaps that one next. Regarding breaking frame last night, I got this message a little while ago: I am sorry about last night. I am genuinely very tired. It is not that I don't want to be with you. I notice the hardwork you are putting in to take care of yourself and I would like to spend time together when I am not very tired and falling asleep. You are looking good! It is just the late night approach that is difficult for me. With … | /r/RPChristians | 12/09/18 08:26 PM |
| 2 | OYS - Where Progress is Made (09/12/18)This is excellent. Does your wife go to the gym? She bought an outfit, but hasn't graced us with her presence yet! Personally I'm against setting a precedent of turning down sex This is one of the moments I broke frame, I actually came off a little whiny before leaving the room for 15 minutes because she said it with an attitude. Does your family read together, or is this something you are doing on your own? Both. We read at breakfast before school. Most days I read on my own as well, it hasn't … | /r/RPChristians | 12/09/18 06:36 PM |
| 2 | The new set of rules and the importance of frameUpvote worthy for sure! | /r/MarriedRedPill | 12/09/18 05:33 PM |
| 1 | OYS - Where Progress is Made (09/12/18)PHYSICAL: StongLifts 5x5. Started Aug 8 at BN: 80, SQ: 80, OHP: 50, DL: 110, ROW: 70 mainly because you all gave me crap for not having started yet. As of last night I am at BN: 140 5x5, SQ: 130 5x5, OHP: 95 55545 (first fail! yes!) , DL: 190 5x5, ROW: 125 5x5 Few last week did 1RM 150/145/95/230/140 Usually do 15 minutes on treadmill at like 3mph with 5-10 incline before and after lifts Also doing a 12 minute ab workout 2-3 times per week too. Not losing weight at all, but eating low carb and p… | /r/RPChristians | 12/09/18 04:13 PM |
| 2 | How important is a woman's sexual past to you?Use it, tweak it, make it better! this username is a throwaway | /r/RPChristians | 12/09/18 04:00 AM |
| 1 | Ranting?Your are failing shit tests left and right and are in her frame. Post your stats and which books you read! | /r/askMRP | 12/09/18 01:24 AM |
| 1 | Living in Christ's Frame - Defeating the Anger Stage and Finding Emotional StabilityVery well said. Hit that UPVOTE button peeps. | /r/RPChristians | 11/09/18 08:45 PM |
| 2 | Thank YouProbably. Also use the proper FLAIR and put "FIELD REPORT: " before the title. | /r/askMRP | 11/09/18 08:42 PM |
| 5 | Thank YouThis is a great post. I think it probably belongs as a Field Report in r/marriedredpill. I feel similar about my wife as you do to yours. Picked up on this not because of a deadbedroom, but a realization that I just wasn't nearly as good as it should be. Good for you! | /r/askMRP | 11/09/18 08:28 PM |
| 2 | Lift, Faggot, LiftYou'd be amazed at how fast the initial progress is. I work behind a keybaord and haven't done anything more strenuous than golf in 8 years. I started just Aug 8: SQ 80 5x5 (legs dead for 4 days!) OHP 50 5x5 DL 110 5x5 BN 80 5x5 RW 70 5x5 Today is Sept 11 and I am at: SQ 130 5x5 (+38%) OHP 95 5,5,5,4,4 (+47%) DL 190 5x1 (+42%) BN 140 5,5,5,5,4 (+43%) RW 125 5x5 (+44%) Other things I notice is that I walk differently, wife responds more, other women notice me more, and yes, I do hamster less. Lik… | /r/MarriedRedPill | 11/09/18 03:48 PM |
| 8 | Weird wife declaration - help me interpret this shitstill fat How you still fat? Thought you've been doing "crossfit and etc" for 7 months? No visible main event. Have you had your own yet? Like, I think you assume you are a fraction of the problem, but don't know that you are the entire problem. Most women, and I assume yours is in this group, will respond very well to a real man. She may have married you for resources, but understand that she didn't hope you'd turn into a toad. She had at one point HOPE that you would become something greater t… | /r/askMRP | 11/09/18 02:08 PM |
| 2 | Odd question, what is Askmrp's thoughts on kids if your shit is together?Co-captain and first mate / 2nd in command are MILES APART. | /r/askMRP | 11/09/18 02:28 AM |
| 3 | Is it true that doing the things that are emotionally uncomfortable for you (like meditating, or cold approaching) can make your life more easier in the long run?I don't think anyone says that meditation is emotionally uncomfortable, but to answer the question, yes. Anytime you "survive" or "endure" anything that is uncomfortable, whether it is an awkward silence or a near death experience with a long recovery, you will get stronger and every difficult experience you go through afterwards will seem much smaller by comparison for the knowledge that you will have made it through hard times before. Best things that ever happened to me include a brush with d… | /r/askTRP | 10/09/18 09:23 PM |
| 2 | What is TRP's view on nationalism?Like religion, indifferent. | /r/askTRP | 10/09/18 09:18 PM |
| 3 | If someone does you a favor should you always recipocrate a favor too instill trust?Ok. You gotta communicate with him so he knows what's up. Like if you aren't looking for a new friend and don't want to have Chip Douglas from Cable Guy stalking you, make it clear it's just for your benefit and hook him up with something for his time. Lunch, nugget, case of beer, $20 whatever. If this is more of a professional help that you NEED to count on and can't risk him flaking, then make an agreement for payment for ongoing meetings and don't stiff him. If it's just the one time deal and… | /r/askTRP | 10/09/18 09:15 PM |
| 1 | If someone does you a favor should you always recipocrate a favor too instill trust?Is he a plate you are trying to spin? | /r/askTRP | 10/09/18 08:56 PM |
| 1 | Odd question, what is Askmrp's thoughts on kids if your shit is together?It's never too late for improvement | /r/askMRP | 10/09/18 01:27 AM |
| 6 | Odd question, what is Askmrp's thoughts on kids if your shit is together?If you want to be egalitarian or co-parent, get a dog. No, a cat. Kids need an alpha and so do dogs. If you aren't committed to being the unquestionable leader then your kids will suffer the consequences. I got 5 kids, the old beta version of me fucked up the oldest pretty good. Last three are amazing. Wife is pretty much the same, but I changed in time to show them what a good father and husband should look like. I used to be weak, insecure, angry, and lacked patience. Doesnt mean perfect, but … | /r/askMRP | 09/09/18 10:14 PM |
| 8 | First post: Wife cheated on me with a chick...what would you do?Trickle truth had began | /r/askMRP | 09/09/18 10:05 PM |
| 2 | "You treat me like a whore"Keep it up, change is hard. I suspect she likes the changes but is testing to see if this is a flash in the pan or how you are going to be now. Remember for every year you were beta, you need 1 month of alpha before she believes it and is fully responding. It is also going to happen that a woman is gonna hamster up fears about "why" you are changing behaviors. This is the beginning of dread. She could be worried about you losing interest or attraction, keep gaming her and don't forget to reward … | /r/askMRP | 09/09/18 04:11 PM |
| 2 | How to hold frame when u’re tired?Amen to that brother. I usually take one kid at a time with me to the gym myself. And you're right btw, no reason for being an emotionally weak male (or female as Jesse Peterson would say). | /r/askMRP | 09/09/18 01:33 AM |
| 2 | How to hold frame when u’re tired?When do you see your kids? | /r/askMRP | 09/09/18 12:01 AM |
| 14 | The frame of ChristMuch of the RP teachings where biblical truths long before PUAs found out they could use it to their advantage. | /r/RPChristians | 08/09/18 10:44 PM |
| 1 | How to hold frame when u’re tired?I think I know what your problem is, according to my math you are jogging 8 kilometers per day plus one hour of yoga per day plus lifting everyday. It looks like you're spending at least 3 hours per day in the gym. That might be a little on the excessive side considering you've got kids and a wife and you're feeling too tired. I think the easy answer is to cut your exercise down to about one-and-a-half to two hours per day. Boom problem solved! Next | /r/askMRP | 08/09/18 09:19 PM |
| 4 | Anger causing me to break frame. And how to proceed with this.I will admit I am taking some liberties with that assumption. It's not uncommon for guys to go Rambo when the truth sets in. You can deny if you like, but be honest, each time she isn't perfect, you aren't shrugging and saying "well, that's AWALT for ya", instead you admit that these things "annoy the shit out of me lately". In other words her negative aspects of her female nature and fallible human existence is perhaps "piling up"? The fact that it annoys you so much and you have so much anger … | /r/askMRP | 08/09/18 03:35 AM |
| 3 | Should a man be friends with women he doesn't intend to marry? Let's chat.Only if he is sleeping with them. Just kidding. No, I am saying the opposite. That relationship is acceptable and deserving of more honor and respect that a "buddy". | /r/RPChristians | 08/09/18 03:03 AM |
| 3 | Anger causing me to break frame. And how to proceed with this.OP, you seem to be missing the point and reverting to talking about HER. You gotta get over it. She fucked up and gave you quite a scare. Process that fear for what it was, a close call. You may also feel let down that you trusted someone who made a mistake, too bad. You also probably have some Oneitis going on and this mistake ruined your hope that she was unicorn material if only she could make a couple changes. I get it, all three of those hit you at once. MCTC is right, anger is not the prim… | /r/askMRP | 08/09/18 03:00 AM |
| 1 | Looking professional as a black maleSee if you can't find a reason to pay a visit to a business that is just like the places you're going to apply, look around see what everybody looks like and when you show up to the interview try to look exactly like you fit in. After you get the job then change your look to whatever you want. | /r/askTRP | 07/09/18 11:17 PM |
| 3 | Looking professional as a black maleCreative fields like photography and video like "hip" and "unique" looking people. Don't change it. | /r/askTRP | 07/09/18 11:00 PM |
| 4 | Should a man be friends with women he doesn't intend to marry? Let's chat.As Christians, we aren't supposed to be "friends" with women. 1 Timothy 5:2 Treat older women as you would your mother, and treat younger women with all purity as you would your own sisters. This means that we should not only interact with them, but that the level of respect, consideration, and honor should be much greater than we would give a friend. You wouldn't try to sleep with your mother or sister. You also wouldn't avoid them as if they have ebola. Is it so hard to imagine a woman like th… | /r/RPChristians | 07/09/18 09:29 PM |
| 1 | Wife wants to do couples counseling.I generally hate askMRP for it's garbage fire status. It's so hard to resist watching tho.. | /r/askMRP | 07/09/18 08:35 PM |
| 3 | Wife wants to do couples counseling.I remember that now. It was actually a great OP. The comments went sideways though. Something about the cost of spaghetti on the open market was inversely proportionate to the cost of steak when visiting a sex starved Italy, right? | /r/askMRP | 07/09/18 08:29 PM |
| 6 | Wife wants to do couples counseling.Guys in "our" boat either improve or get divorced, become bitter, then go MGTOW and die young of heart disease. Good news is that IF you seek advice and are able to receive it, you have nearly a 100% chance of improvement. Read the sidebar books and lift. By the way, being a "born again Christian" is a huge shortcut to having that new heart that is eternally optimistic, but you can't fake it. Just something you have to pray to receive and believe it will be answered. | /r/askMRP | 07/09/18 07:28 PM |
| 1 | Do I chase this girl?Use texting for logistics only and just for something in the next couple hours. "Hey, just got off work and I am free. You want to meet at IDK at 9pm?" It puts pressure on her to decide to commit without time to make excuses to bail. If she can't, never be butt hurt, just reply "Ok" and try again in a couple weeks. When you try again if you fail a second time, then wait 3-4 weeks. Why you don't have text conversations. Your life needs mystery. Stuff like vacations, work, school, or whatever you … | /r/askTRP | 07/09/18 06:36 PM |
| 1 | How to be a better critical thinker?u/whatisfortnite Edit this post: rephrase into a Red Pill topic and provide some specific details. Example: Are you trying to figure out to interpret if a girl is interested, if you are being shit tested, how you became such a beta faggot, etc? | /r/askTRP | 07/09/18 06:14 PM |
| 6 | Wife wants to do couples counseling.I’m that guy you cut in front of who gets blood red, flashes his lights at you and gives you the finger. Hello. I used to lose my shit all the time and almost never. Realize a couple things about anger. #1. No one cares if you are angry. The person who cut you off doesn't know you. People aren't conspiring to harm you. The world is just a broken place where messed up things happen all the time. Reacting with humility, forgiveness, and grace is what Jesus did and teaches, so when your wife says s… | /r/askMRP | 07/09/18 05:52 PM |
| 13 | My mom causes arguments out of nothing and I can't fucking handle it any more. What do?Buy her some noise cancelling headphones and a high quality ball gag. | /r/askTRP | 07/09/18 01:03 PM |
| 2 | When MGTOWS wake up.You realize the castrated him and disemboweled at that point? | /r/MGTOW | 07/09/18 12:21 PM |
| 11 | If your going your own way.....Bye Felicia | /r/MGTOW | 06/09/18 09:51 PM |
| 2 | Lifitng with a physical job.Right, sounds like you are getting a lot of "light cardio" at work. Those chicks from the 1980's with the spandex and little dumb bells messed around with 5lbs. How are you thinking that is lifting? According to this video, you are doing "cheerleader workouts", not lineman! https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=d08Cy0Xfj8o | /r/askMRP | 06/09/18 07:31 PM |
| 1 | Lifitng with a physical job.I use the Stronglifts 5x5 Program and App and it's helped me make pretty good gains and only takes about 40 minutes to do. | /r/askMRP | 06/09/18 07:31 PM |
| 4 | Introduction and BackstoryGreat testimony and thanks for emerging from lurkdom! Looking forward to seeing your name more often. I had a moment where I had to choose the real God, not the one that had been presented me. The good news is that he CHOOSE YOU. Not just that, but he did it before he formed the foundations of the world. | /r/RPChristians | 06/09/18 07:17 PM |
| 5 | Help needed with response....not quite a shit test...LOL, I tease my wife saying "Honey, I always wanted to be a barber and I just really like a clean shave!". However this gives me the idea that when I notice when things are "satisfyingly smooth", to say "mmmmm so smooooth" and smile and look at her crotch until she notices. | /r/askMRP | 06/09/18 07:11 PM |
| 26 | Help needed with response....not quite a shit test...Tease her back. "oops, sorry, wrong person!" | /r/askMRP | 06/09/18 06:21 PM |
| 2 | Sick Wife - We cant have sex anymore because im going through menopause.Thank you! Next, which books have you read? Give a 1 sentence summary of what you learned from each of them. | /r/askMRP | 06/09/18 02:12 PM |
| 1 | How do you guys handle loneliness?I used to be very self conscious and shy and eventually I couldn't take it anymore. At some point, you have to believe that the prospect or pain of loneliness is worse and than the prospect or pain of a potential rejection. So, you start by making eye contact with people, then smiling, then saying hello, then small talk with people that look like you. Like you might have things in common. If you find something in common, ask if they want to (verb) that (activity) with you the following week. If … | /r/askTRP | 06/09/18 02:08 PM |
| 1 | Sick Wife - We cant have sex anymore because im going through menopause.redpilled 9 months. What books have you read? What did you get from each of them? What are you lifting stats? You really can't guess at your wife's weight? What is your SMV and her's? | /r/askMRP | 06/09/18 01:32 PM |
| 5 | Sick Wife - We cant have sex anymore because im going through menopause.STATS OR GFTO | /r/askMRP | 06/09/18 12:58 PM |
| 8 | Sick Wife - We cant have sex anymore because im going through menopause.Agree, be honest u/FoxShitNasty83 if she left you for another man, she'd be fucking his brains out, at least in the beginning of the relationship. | /r/askMRP | 06/09/18 12:56 PM |
| 1 | Introduction + Questionhttps://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/8m8tqv/talking_with_women_always_dare_never_deer/ | /r/RPChristians | 05/09/18 11:09 PM |
| 1 | Field Report. I asked my wife to write an erotic fantasy story and she didn't, but something else unfolded instead.how serious is she about her faith? Her faith is equally yoked to me. Women's group leader, children's church teacher, participates in women's conferences and prayer teams. Baptized same time, she was filled with Holy Spirit for the first time before I was, I got involved in church leadership first. We have been like two feet on the same body taking turns with our strides forward. We are both totally different people today than when we met and God did it in a way that we didn't split as it often… | /r/RPChristians | 05/09/18 04:10 PM |
| 4 | Introduction + QuestionWe've agreed to take it slow and figure things out as we go Great idea. Patience, mercy, and grace is key in marriage. I still remember asking my wife to date me. She replied by saying "what does that mean?". To that I shrugged, "let's just see what happens". That was 21 years, 9 months, and 9 days ago. I digress.... You will find a lot of articles written about the TRAITS of a Godly woman. A lot of proverbs, and a bunch in the new testament too. Those only show the end product, not how the saus… | /r/RPChristians | 05/09/18 03:31 PM |
| 1 | Field Report. I asked my wife to write an erotic fantasy story and she didn't, but something else unfolded instead.What sort of role play? Being abused? Giving abuse? Being comforted? We aren't abusing each other here, but we BOTH have very powerful feelings we've tried to pack away that got stirred up. So much that she did require about twenty minutes of comforting at the end of the second date where she was almost crying. That's a bit of a mystery where it exactly came from, but it was as unusual as any of this is. For me, it got a sense of excitement, anticipation, and sexual tension I haven't felt since … | /r/RPChristians | 05/09/18 02:34 PM |
| 1 | Field Report. I asked my wife to write an erotic fantasy story and she didn't, but something else unfolded instead.Not only did it happen, but seems to be increasing in intensity. | /r/RPChristians | 05/09/18 01:53 PM |
| 1 | ALPHA FUCKS BETA BUCKS.WHORE SLEEPS AROUND WITH 100 GUYS IN HER YOUTH NOW DENIES SEX TO HIS FIANCE.Answer for her: You shut up and put out like you are in heat! Answer for him: Never date women 25 or older for marriage! | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 04/09/18 06:54 PM |
| 13 | Do alpha widows have hope?The consequences of unchecked hypergamy. A woman sees an alpha player and thinks "he is the one, I am going to land him". Then she swims in the waters above her SMV and distorts her own worth. Then has a hard time accepting the reality of her situation and either quickly adjusts, gets back in her lane and thinks she has settled, or hits the wall still looking to make up for the one who got away. Oh, men do this too, it's why you don't get in an LTR with strippers or Insta "models". AWALT doesnt … | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/09/18 05:17 PM |
| 1 | Possible PTSD, OCD, or anxiety from a year of tripping on LSD & Mushrooms.This wasn't your run of the mill 'bad trip'. This was the worst experience of my entire life. Been there, done that. In 1999, I was doing a lot of stuff. Then I ate a bunch of shrooms and got all paranoid about the government one night. It passed and I did my last trip a couple weeks later. I took liquid LSD on a cracker and was told it was 2 hits, but "my friends" thought it would be funny to give me a quarter sheet's worth or more, not sure the exact amount. That trip was beyond dark too. Coup… | /r/askTRP | 04/09/18 04:50 PM |
| 19 | What is the difference between MGTOW and being an incel?Incel is an INVOLUNTARY celibate. MGTOW is men going THEIR OWN way. Also, MGTOW is not necessarily celibate either. | /r/MGTOW | 04/09/18 03:18 PM |
| 2 | Long Distance RelationshipsIt happens all the time when SO's are deployed overseas for military service. Many of these relationships are Christians and they do just fine. That distance does cause loneliness, pair that with insecurity and unforgiveness, and infidelity happens in both believers and non-believers. Think about it, Bathsheba and Uriah were technically in a LDR because of his assignment in the war and look what happened. On the other hand, some women seek out men in prison with life sentences or on death row fo… | /r/RPChristians | 04/09/18 03:01 PM |
| 8 | Divorced RP after 50 (Part 2): Reflections on FrameThis is why I am teaching my 12 and 8 year old boys about frame. My father had none and so did I for a long time, then developed one, got married, lost it, then found it again. Hopefully, they will live their entire lives in their own frame. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 04/09/18 12:59 PM |
| 2 | How do you guys explain... Me? (21/F)TLDR. Won't read. you lost me at 21F. I don't think you are lying, I think you are lost. This is the wrong sub. | /r/askTRP | 04/09/18 12:53 PM |
| 2 | How do you guys explain... Me? (21/F)Bye Felisha! | /r/askTRP | 04/09/18 12:44 PM |
| 3 | A plate sent me this recently. I'm not sure what she is actually trying to say.First you have to read it, then you have to do it even though it doesn't feel right, then you need to see some results from the experimentation, then you start to believe it deep in your mind, after that it becomes a part of you. But you have to start by reading the stuff for yourself the whole book. This might also seem redundant, but are you lifting? It's not something we just say to everybody because it sounds like something fun to say to a pussy, or faggot. Lifting actually increases your co… | /r/askTRP | 03/09/18 10:17 PM |
| 8 | A plate sent me this recently. I'm not sure what she is actually trying to say.Rational Male by Rollo Tomasi | /r/askTRP | 03/09/18 10:07 PM |
| 5 | Handling “will you ever leave me” question"Are you asking for a friend?" | /r/askMRP | 03/09/18 06:25 PM |
| 1 | Afraid to be alone | God is isolating meAllow God to work in you and trust in Him for the results. Sounds like you weren't exercising very good discernment and because God DOES love you, He removed them from your life. He does that if you won't sometimes. Romans 8 26 Likewise the Spirit helps us in our weakness. For we do not know what to pray for as we ought, but the Spirit himself intercedes for us with groanings too deep for words. 27 And he who searches hearts knows what is the mind of the Spirit, because[g] the Spirit intercedes … | /r/RPChristians | 03/09/18 02:23 PM |
| 1 | Afraid to be alone | God is isolating meSounds like typical female behavior though. Why are you hung up over it? Are you upset because you had feelings you didn't express or regret not making a move? This is hardly the kind of thing that should stunt your entire social life over. | /r/RPChristians | 03/09/18 01:07 PM |
| 1 | Afraid to be alone | God is isolating meWhat are you doing flirting with another man's woman? You were her beta orbiter and when she got the commitment she wanted, you weren't needed anymore. Have some self respect and be glad she ended it, I guarantee you looked a lot weaker and desperate that the fantasy you've imagined. | /r/RPChristians | 03/09/18 05:28 AM |
| 5 | FRs: Blue Pill Husbands Make Their Wives MiserableAmen, divorce rate in the church is equal to that in the rest of the country. Blue Pill is a primary cause. I feel like this is a calling for a very select few men. I don't believe God intended his men to be such lame, miserable, and pitiful leaders in their homes. | /r/RPChristians | 31/08/18 09:01 PM |
| 3 | Need some encouragementFeel the pain, don't numb it down or avoid it. It's the best motivator for improvement. | /r/askTRP | 31/08/18 04:46 PM |
| 1 | How do I break this cycleSTATS or GTFO. I have a feeling you haven't read any of the sidebar and your lifting program is garbage. | /r/askTRP | 31/08/18 02:37 PM |
| 1 | How do I break this cycleOr maybe just tell me to stop being a pussy. Stop being a pussy! | /r/askTRP | 31/08/18 02:26 PM |
| 5 | I have a little bitch voice. How to put some volume in it?Dude, you're in luck. Elliot Hulse just made a video recently about how his voice changed from sounding like kind of a pussy, even though he is far from it, to sounding more manly and deep. Call's it "speaking in his balls"! https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=P41ER1Wmkj0 FYI, Elliot was a speaker at the Red Man Group and frequently joins Rollo Tomasi and Richard Cooper in discussions on youtube. | /r/askTRP | 31/08/18 02:14 PM |
| 1 | How to adjust to harsh realities? (AWALT, Hypergamy and Women's inability to Love)Yes. Rpchristians are against it. Nofap cites lots of real world benefits too, but Red Pill in general is amoral about it. | /r/askTRP | 31/08/18 12:01 AM |
| 1 | How to adjust to harsh realities? (AWALT, Hypergamy and Women's inability to Love)Look here for starters: https://www.reddit.com/r/RPChristians/comments/6lzonx/welcome_to_red_pill_christians/ Couple big differences are monogamy/plate theory, some of the upper levels of dread, some reading material suggests the use of porn. | /r/askTRP | 30/08/18 09:54 PM |
| 1 | How to adjust to harsh realities? (AWALT, Hypergamy and Women's inability to Love)Oh shit, yes and no. I will try to answer best I can. This is complicated to articulate. First of all, make sure he has his father (your SO) in his life and that you never undermine that relationship or his authority. Also, show him what a good woman looks like and don't shit test, hen peck, harpy, or dead bedroom your man. Some of those MGTOW's are bitter mofos because they were eaten alive by shitty women or their dads were. Also I will add that mothers can model the value of the male leadersh… | /r/askTRP | 30/08/18 08:13 PM |
| 2 | How to adjust to harsh realities? (AWALT, Hypergamy and Women's inability to Love)There is a constant power struggle between two in a relationship. Submit or dominate. Lead or follow. The struggle to do either one is already in the man and in the woman. He needs to undergo a self-actualization (I hate that term). To be enlightened and see himself as the prize and his that displaying his strong, confident masculine attributes as the best way to live his life. As it plays out, even you, as a non-toxic female, with all good possible intentions can't "make" him lead. You can be s… | /r/askTRP | 30/08/18 05:25 PM |
| 6 | How to adjust to harsh realities? (AWALT, Hypergamy and Women's inability to Love)How do I teach him to deprogram from this toxic narrative that has destroyed so many lives of men AND women. You don't and can't. That isn't how this works. Even if he listens and obeys, he's still in your frame. | /r/askTRP | 30/08/18 04:41 PM |
| 8 | Shit testing from afarWith the limited puke you gave, it seems like your in her frame still. Still. STILL. Think of communication like a boxing match. Both fighters supposed to be ready and engaged in this, right? You got 90's Tyson in his prime (supposed to be you) and some chump who's just there for the purse (her). Remember, you are the prize, not her. The contender has been training for months asking himself "what the fuck is Tyson going to do to me?". The contender is IN Mike's frame. Watching his head, his eyes… | /r/askMRP | 30/08/18 02:43 PM |
| 2 | holding frame but i didnt have the right words to say?Tough spot. Honestly. I've never been in a situation where it played out well for me and I have still had a good time afterwards. | /r/askTRP | 30/08/18 03:54 AM |
| 7 | My Life is OverThere was an excellent post in the r/TheRedPill PILL on what you are about to go through. SOLID FUCKING GOLD SHIT HERE! https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/8dl54b/im_pregnant_and_you_are_going_to_be_a_father_a/ Save this post!!! | /r/MGTOW | 29/08/18 08:46 PM |
| 13 | How important is a woman's sexual past to you?Easy, it is just like buying a car. Start with a budget and a finite number to pick from. Then consider make, model, year, dealer reputation, # of miles, # of owners, trim, engine, was it a rental, borrowed out a lot, type of owner/drivers, warranty, service history, and yeah even the type of lube used and how often it was changed, rust, stains, dents, accidents, etc. Have your mechanic inspect it and ask people that care about you with experience and wisdom their opinion. All same, except this … | /r/RPChristians | 29/08/18 08:17 PM |
| 5 | Need advice: handling a procrastinating wifeI rationally explain to her You can lead a horse to water, but you can't make a woman think. get a driving permit made Set the appointment and take her there. I still need to do everything for her. She is trying to make you take the lead. Do it. Take control of the money in the relationship, even hers. oversized 30 year old infant she currently behaves like AWALT?!?!?!? She is and always will be the oldest child and you are the daddy. Welcome to MRP! Don't be butt hurt over this stuff, a… | /r/askMRP | 29/08/18 05:51 PM |
| 1 | gave random girl at gym a card with my name and numberPreselection still applies if you meet up with her and her group of friends. Where there's one, there's usually more. | /r/askTRP | 29/08/18 04:07 PM |
| 8 | The NMMNG / Red Pill contradictionhow do you have a conversation with your LTR that you are getting advice from strangers on how to be less of a pussy and improve your alpha male traits? You don't do that. First rule of fight club is you don't talk about fight club. This also means you can't quote any sources, you can't reference an author as a source of authority, you can only use the wisdom itself and it NEEDS to appear to have come from you and you alone. How do you explain your new updated beliefs and change in behavior pa… | /r/askMRP | 29/08/18 03:58 PM |
| 1 | Have been in a ldr for 2 years, have to marry to be together, is it worth it?I took her virginity and she took mine. She is clearly a sexual predator, stay away! Jk divorce in Canada are 40% Canada and US is not the causation of the high divorce rate, high N count is. Studies show that if a woman specifically has 1-2 sexual partners in her lifetime, they have an 80% chance of being satisfied in their marriage. Conversely, having over 20 partners drops it to a whopping 20%. This was posted recently in r/MGTOW like 2 months back. Perhaps I'm foolish, but I'd still rega… | /r/askMRP | 29/08/18 03:23 PM |
| 4 | Married Push / Pull examples pleaseThought of a couple more on the way to work. This goes two ways too. You can pull them in and push away or push away to pull them in. Playful teasing. If you help do the dishes, which I do faithfully at least once a year, use the sprayer to hit her in the tits or on the ass as she passes by. In fact, Nerf gun, squirt gun, rubber bands, etc... Insert your own slightly bratty way to tease her, not in a mean or rude way, but like you probably did to girls in middle school. Startling her or mild hea… | /r/askMRP | 29/08/18 01:39 PM |
| 3 | Married Push / Pull examples pleaseI’m not giving specifics examples. Pussy | /r/askMRP | 29/08/18 12:50 PM |
| 20 | Married Push / Pull examples pleaseIf you respected me before, you are a bigger faggot than I thought. | /r/askMRP | 29/08/18 03:52 AM |
| 5 | Married Push / Pull examples pleaseMy wife is pretty and knows it and expects ...EXPECTS compliments. She sells make-up and gets facebook likes from friends and customers on her daily Facebook and IG posts. Therefore standard "you look nice" doesn't work. I gotta be subtle and sneaky for affect. I'll "act" mad because she's trying to seduce me. The way I will do it is start by reading near her and stop with an upset and clearly annoyed tone and say "Don you mind?". She is always caught off guard and surprised and will ask "What a… | /r/askMRP | 29/08/18 01:57 AM |
| 2 | I seem to attract older womenGame younger women. Surround yourself with them. Engage them. Stop being intimidating as if they are difficult or higher value than you are. It's pretty obvious that they intimidate you, so get over it. Maybe your right and you really do look older, but realize that there are plenty of older guys that are only approaching women under 25. You are putting off some insecurity towards those women and NOT towards the older ones. Just keep trying and be outcome independent. | /r/askTRP | 28/08/18 08:09 PM |
| 3 | I seem to attract older womenI’m also more comfortable with them because I know there won’t be any long term expectations - so I’m more myself. I haven’t approached younger women yet. Pretty obvious you only feel confident making eye contact and cold approach to desperate women. Women who’re starting to hit the wall mistake my age for 27-28 Wrong, they know your age, but they can smell fear and insecurity on you. You don't think alpha yet and they know it too. They will prey on you because they know you have that higher… | /r/askTRP | 28/08/18 07:35 PM |
| 2 | Update: 2 Month Separation and the Beta OrbiterFor each year of beta, you need a full month of alpha. Not half either, like a man who's got a grip and not failing any shit tests. Also, IMHO, if you were alpha for say the first 5 years, then beta for 10, your initial status is null and void and all count as beta years now. Women rewrite history and erase previous gains and accomplishments. | /r/askMRP | 28/08/18 07:14 PM |
| 2 | Insta-thot's hypergamy bullshit got her bf's ass kicked.Deleted | /r/MGTOW | 28/08/18 01:20 PM |
| 6 | Insta-thot's hypergamy bullshit got her bf's ass kicked.Deleted | /r/MGTOW | 28/08/18 03:09 AM |
| 34 | "Now I want to settle down but there don't seem to be any single guys left"FOR SALE: Trophy wife for cumming in at 301st place! | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 27/08/18 09:03 PM |
| 1 | How to plow through oneitis at college and kick some butt?Wow. No I don't have suggestions. Not even sure if extensive reading is a good idea??? Audio books and walking perhaps? | /r/askTRP | 27/08/18 06:18 PM |
| 1 | How to plow through oneitis at college and kick some butt?What is the health issue? | /r/askTRP | 27/08/18 05:10 PM |
| 2 | How to plow through oneitis at college and kick some butt?Let the pain course through you and feel it to it's full measure. Living through pain is what makes a boy into a man. Learn to love it, hit the weights and the sidebar for your therapy. That same pain someday will drive you to do things you are currently uncomfortable doing like cold approach a woman you normally count as out of your league. | /r/askTRP | 27/08/18 04:54 PM |
| 1 | Is oneitis the end of the road?No, the only harm was that you looked VERY undesirable to her. If she wants to try to hook up with good 'ol broken dick again, you don't have anything to lose. If you reach out and she ghosts you, take the hint and beware of the friend zone. | /r/askTRP | 27/08/18 04:36 PM |
| 5 | [34F] "I'm not the same woman I used to be. I don't sleep around anymore. Just trying to find an honest, truthful man for once in my life."Read the fine print!! If your mind is on having sex 24/7, then don't bother hollering at me! Please reply to this so I can provide you every man's dream.... a dead bedroom! | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 27/08/18 04:22 PM |
| 0 | Is oneitis the end of the road?got whiskey dick Rookie move. Forget Oneitis as your issue, I can hear the plate shatter from here. No way she thinks it was the booze. She thinks it is either you being are either a faggot or don't find her attractive. That is why this is the end of the road. | /r/askTRP | 27/08/18 04:18 PM |
| 5 | Natural Alpha Traits - SourcesWhere exactly do you feel the strongest influence of alpha and beta traits cam from in your life? From a christian perspective, I think the biblical account makes a lot sense to me. Men were basically created to be the leaders. It's in our DNA. Intertwined in our very being to lead, be strong, be brave, get a wife that turns us on, grunt, sweat, and do "manly" stuff. It's why we don't need to be taught to like characters like Samson and David in the bible or John Wayne and Arnie in the movies. W… | /r/askMRP | 27/08/18 03:56 PM |
| 1 | Ready to get engaged (in light of past PMO)That's great! I've never heard an audible response myself, but always get the answer the WAY I need to hear it. Sounds like you did too. God Bless brother. | /r/RPChristians | 26/08/18 03:03 PM |
| 3 | Soon graduating, need to get bettereveryone is telling me to take my time Yeah, your friends are right, be patient. What do you suggest I read and study and apply to my life? Which books have you read from the sidebar / post series? https://www.docdroid.net/05viVhA/rpc-full-compendium.pdf | /r/RPChristians | 24/08/18 10:14 PM |
| 1 | New to Gym, stats suck! I have tennis elbow too, need adviceAs I said on another comment, I had been going 25 push-up, sit-ups, jumping jacks, and squats for a while before the gym. That helped a lot as just doing 25 regular squats had me in a lot of pain after the first day. | /r/askMRP | 24/08/18 07:27 PM |
| 1 | Question on femdom fantasies.Exactly | /r/RPChristians | 24/08/18 05:39 PM |
| 1 | Question on femdom fantasies.A lot of guys that are into this stuff orgasm without sex and even with male chastity devices on. That's kind of the fantasy is that they are teased by the dom but denied the sex then try to O during the pain portion. Sometimes are made to O "against their will", or brought to the "edge" and it is then denied/ruined. | /r/RPChristians | 24/08/18 05:17 PM |
| 1 | CMV: For short men, Leg Lengthening Surgery is the best solution.We've seen it in real life and the media and even studies. Its a fact that being short as a man is detrimental socially, romantically, and financially. FTFY: We've seen it in real life and the media and even studies. Its a fact that feeling insecure about being short as a man is detrimental socially, romantically, and financially. I am about 169cm and in high school, I was insecure about it and always felt like the "short guy" and worried about my own prospects to land a high quality woman. I a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/18 04:13 PM |
| 1 | New to Gym, stats suck! I have tennis elbow too, need adviceThat is pounds? Those aren't bad stats by all respects given You started 3 weeks ago, even if they are 100%RM. Yes, 'meruca! Thanks for the encouragement. You started 3 weeks ago I had been doing 25 weightless squats with my boys along with push-ups, sit-ups, and jumping jacks daily for about a month, so that helped. Are You cutting or bulking? Bulking. I warm up on treadmill for 15-30 minutes and try to run at 6mph for at least 2 straight minutes. I want to mainly to get used to having my blood… | /r/askMRP | 24/08/18 03:24 PM |
| 7 | Question on femdom fantasies.This seems "trollish" to me, as in not a real person expressing real feelings, but I'll bite. Granted, I am a bit more liberal in this bedroom advice. From my teens I have a femdom (BDSM) fantasy as a slave/submissive to women This is fine as long as she is doing this because you have told her to do it and it ends in the bedroom. I've always tried to suppress and everytime I suppress I hurt myself mentally and physically No, you didn't hurt yourself mentally. What do you mean physically? Like, w… | /r/RPChristians | 24/08/18 02:55 PM |
| 2 | Performance reviews and putting yourself out there.I hamster that I'm good at talking but just don't like to... Bullshit, you are hamstering your weak behavior. Truth is that you don't like to speak because you don't think your good at it. Like ChadTC, I was really shy. Speech was a required class and I clearly remember telling that teacher "I was never going to run for office, so I don't need to take this class, I am only here because I have to be.". Well, instead of getting a CS degree, my gf/wife got pregnant and I found myself in SALES! What… | /r/askMRP | 24/08/18 01:32 PM |
| 1 | New to Gym, stats suck! I have tennis elbow too, need adviceAwesome! | /r/askMRP | 24/08/18 02:08 AM |
| 7 | Ready to get engaged (in light of past PMO)The only loose end is one friend advises me to get some kind of counseling to make sure I've kicked porn before I get engaged/definitely before marriage. This sounds unnecessary to do "before" you get married. It's true, you will have temptations. You will get fitness and comfort tests, but if you are reading the sidebar materials and have swallowed the Red Pill, you should pass those better than 85-90% of men out there. Still, you can get married and still get counseling after your wedding if y… | /r/RPChristians | 23/08/18 07:51 PM |
| 2 | What is the fly in the ointment of your success?STFU, you once posted about how to COPY AND PASTE?! LOL | /r/askMRP | 23/08/18 03:14 PM |
| 2 | What is the fly in the ointment of your success?Exactly, you can't negotiate attraction, so in order to be a "fly in YOUR ointment" it has to be something you are in control of that you struggle to master. | /r/askMRP | 23/08/18 03:11 PM |
| 4 | What is the fly in the ointment of your success?So... what is the fly in the ointment of you achieving your optimal level of success? 1. Complacency. It's why I ignored the gym so long. I used to be beta as hell, for real. I am pretty sure my dad has actually undiagnosed autism as a matter of fact and he was my role model apart from drug dealers that associated with as a teenager. Through studying men's psychology and men in the bible, I updated my thinking a while back with decent results. My wife, thankfully, responds really well now after … | /r/askMRP | 23/08/18 03:09 PM |
| 1 | New to Gym, stats suck! I have tennis elbow too, need adviceGood advice brother. I got it prior to joining gym, and yeah I am going to a "lifting class" before work where we talk form, programs, etc. | /r/askMRP | 23/08/18 01:51 PM |
| 2 | New to Gym, stats suck! I have tennis elbow too, need adviceSquats. I started at 120lb and bring it all the way down and back up. Could barely walk for 4 days so I cut it down to 75 and working it back up. All my numbers are atrocious to be honest. Tennis elbow is a bit of a mystery. Swam for couple hours, played bball, woke up with the pain. Reaggrivated it several times since. I'm doing the SL 5x5, 30 minute treadmill, and a 12 minute abs program 3-4 times a week. No PMO for me. Not sure if that a joke about the elbow or about my testosterone levels. L… | /r/askMRP | 23/08/18 12:51 AM |
| 2 | Why do mgtow always talk about women?For a lot of guys, MGTOW is a pit stop to detox from blue pill conditioning. More than 50% of the men in here will be in relationships in a year or two, but will be better for their break. | /r/MGTOW | 22/08/18 05:37 PM |
| 2 | Lets say hypothetically Asia Argento gets in absolutely no trouble. Do more men go MGTOW?Who cares? Women are hypocrites and want special privileges and special treatment. Nothing new here. | /r/MGTOW | 22/08/18 05:31 PM |
| 4 | I start college next week, should I leave my gf and go MGTOW since so many girls cheat during college, and just except the best times of my life are behind me?MONK MODE! | /r/MGTOW | 22/08/18 03:59 AM |
| 3 | Feminist bitch can't take pain and whines like a little kidMay you stub your toe on a coffee table for posting that video and may she lose all her subs and have her channel deleted. I tried to watch it and it made my so mad. What a rambling idiot. Terrible editing. Soooo much talking and not saying anything. Did you actually watch the whole thing? Good grief brother, get some hobbies, go to the gym. I had to clear my watched history just to make sure Youtube doesn't think I am the sort of douche that wants to see more of her or people like her. May God … | /r/MGTOW | 21/08/18 03:36 PM |
| 2 | woke up... at last... what with the sex now?FYI, reading the sidebar isn't just the text written there. There are links to several books and posts. Read all of THOSE. | /r/askMRP | 21/08/18 03:29 PM |
| 11 | What is love?What is love? ...Baby don't hurt me Don't hurt me No mo.. | /r/RPChristians | 20/08/18 07:00 PM |
| 41 | Succinct Timeline of Alpha Fux/Beta Bux and Retroactive CuckoldryWas probably her man before the baby daddy to begin with | /r/MGTOW | 20/08/18 06:03 PM |
| 3 | Society expects men to be 'tough' but also calls us 'rough'If he's a MAN, he doesn't hear that shit | /r/MGTOW | 20/08/18 03:29 PM |
| 3 | ShitttestsOk, in this case, a really clever comeback will only make you look more nerdy, even if you roast her. Ignore the word nerd and don't defend yourself from it. Escalation is your only salvation here. | /r/askMRP | 20/08/18 01:39 PM |
| 12 | Wife doesn’t want me to volunteerAnd Graham, be consistent FFS. First and foremost, take responsibility for this mess. You caused it and only you can fix it. We can direct you, but ultimately you have to get mad at yourself and update your beliefs. Your posts all seem to have the same feel and it's that you are looking at your problems as if you didn't cause them and that you aren't responsible to fix them. Like a man who drove home drunk and in the morning he sees his car full of trash and vomit and with a busted grill with bl… | /r/askMRP | 20/08/18 01:23 PM |
| 2 | Man's FollyYou guys are being dramatic. First of all, every generation has faced dangers and persecutions, there is nothing new here for the church. AI is a threat and might be the antichrist for all we know, but God is sovereign and has saw it fitting to have all of us alive during this time. We are not only closer to the return of Christ in years than all previous generations because that is how time works, but prophetically speaking, the past 100 years has seen such miraculous events unfold that previou… | /r/RPChristians | 20/08/18 02:00 AM |
| 3 | Nuked it last nightAre you mad that she fucks random dudes or mad she did it without you watching in the closet and licking the mess up? | /r/askMRP | 20/08/18 01:47 AM |
| 1 | GO AND SCARE YOURSELVES FUCKERSIs this CONCERN TROLLING? | /r/askMRP | 17/08/18 02:18 PM |
| 5 | Fun sex to shit test harpyHey, I just noticed the username. Aren't you engaged to get married soon and came from a place of being an huge beta pussy? Sounds like you have implemented some changes and it is working. Let me say in addition to the other comments here that she isn't going to immediately trust your leadership. She is responding but is trying to see if this is legitimate or just a flash in the pan. You should really think of some one liners before you come home too, her shit tests are child's play compared to … | /r/askMRP | 17/08/18 02:16 PM |
| 2 | Fun sex to shit test harpyGot wrapped up in my earlier alpha victory and validation that RP Is working. Alpha victories last as long as your post nut glow. Then it's right back to the game. MRP is not a destination you reach, but a path you choose to follow. | /r/askMRP | 17/08/18 02:04 PM |
| 1 | Fun sex to shit test harpyJust said this in another post. WOMEN REWRITE HISTORY. It's what they do. Don't hate them for it and don't try to reconcile the books. Update your belief system instead. Each time she is acting up, assume she really needs some good dick but is embarrassed to ask for it. | /r/askMRP | 17/08/18 02:01 PM |
| 3 | Fun sex to shit test harpy*Big grin* Sorry, babe I wasn't listening. *coy laugh* You know how you look too fucking cute and sexy when you get all worked up like this and it distracts me, then you said blowjob and that made my dick tingle *walking towards her* .... Shit, I am completely lost now. What did you say? I think you were asking for a glass of wine right? *finger massage on the back of her head* Or was it a bottle of whip cream? | /r/askMRP | 17/08/18 01:59 PM |
| 1 | Fun sex to shit test harpyTruth! | /r/askMRP | 17/08/18 01:51 PM |
| 2 | GO AND SCARE YOURSELVES FUCKERSIf you didn't nearly die this week your a pussy. OP What did you do to almost kill yourself? Why didn't it work? What can you do to improve? Watch point break. Is that it? Is that what you do? You are SOOO bad ass. | /r/askMRP | 17/08/18 01:48 PM |
| 12 | Rule Zero of this subreddit is that you are willing to help men achieve their self-improvement goals. Here I am, asking for help.Download the Strong Lifts 5x5 app for your phone and since your single, read Rational Male by Rollo Tomassi first. Join closest and cheapest gym to you. Upgrade later if necessary. | /r/askTRP | 16/08/18 07:03 PM |
| 1 | Questions about keeping mystery, keeping her busy, leading the family.Forget the weights in the basement. Go to the GYM. She can't miss you if you're never gone. Plus, there's other women there to boost your ego if you look good and give competition to her. She might even start going too. What woman can't use a little cardio? | /r/askMRP | 16/08/18 05:25 PM |
| 3 | You're a bad dad!My wife used to talk shit to me and my oldest son still acts like I am some kind of step dad. She grew up around it because her mom was a typical welfare pos that would find terrible men and bounce them every 6 months. Of course, she brought it into our marriage and I was very young and dumb and not equipped to handle someone raised with a black belt in shit testing. I used to get so mad and get into huge verbal fights which, in the kids eyes, proved she was right. What I ended up doing was to F… | /r/askMRP | 16/08/18 03:49 PM |
| 5 | How Do I Overcome Victimhood?I feel mediocre in a world where the rich, the intelligent, the robbers, the politicians, the babyboomers, etc.. all have it better than me Go and volunteer at a soup kitchen or homeless shelter. Maybe mentor a kid who's got a drug addicted mom and never met his/her dad. I don't think you understand how good you have it. My wife and I did foster care last year. Beautiful little girl, 18 months old, spent most of her life up to that point in her high chair and in dirty diapers. Mom and dad have a… | /r/askTRP | 16/08/18 03:07 PM |
| 1 | Question on priorities.Thanks! | /r/RPChristians | 15/08/18 03:21 PM |
| 2 | Question on priorities.When we are born again and filled with the Holy Spirit, our motives and desires come from this new heart that was given to us from God (Ezekiel 11:19; Ezekiel 36:26; Jeremiah 31:33; Hebrews 8:10). It is also God who gives us our desires and fulfills them (Psalm 20:4). From my walk, I have come to find that God is in every small detail in my life. Nothing too big or small. That doesn't eliminate temptation from sin (James 1:13-15) but if it is good it is from God. | /r/RPChristians | 15/08/18 03:03 PM |
| 13 | Question on priorities.I like how Paul writes in Colossians 3 and tells the christian that everything we do, we do it AS THOUGH we are doing it for the Lord. I guess this could be your pan theory, but I have to admit I've never heard it explained that way. In my head, I have always seen it more like a SPY THEORY? I know, it's probably dumb, but imagine you are sent by the US government to Iran. You have a mission to blend in and survive. That includes getting friends, a salary job, a place to live, a car, eating food … | /r/RPChristians | 15/08/18 02:53 PM |
| 4 | Alpha Boss ProblemOnce you "go beta" I think all previous years you had alpha traits become null and void. Women rewrite history. She falls out of love for you for 1 year and she will now say she doesn't think she ever loved you. You got about 10 more months of hard core work for full results. | /r/askMRP | 14/08/18 05:13 PM |
| 3 | Alpha Boss ProblemPeople who fuck at work - you can tell...... You think she fucked him 2 years ago? Let me tell if she did you would find out about it by now. If she sucks, he wouldn't be fucking her anymore and most likely not working for her. Agreed. This was a crush and an emotional affair that didn't materialize. Most women can handle this kind of disappointment and stay working there. However, if she gave him the pussy for six months and he broke it off suddenly, I highly doubt she would keep working there,… | /r/askMRP | 14/08/18 05:09 PM |
| 1 | Alpha Boss ProblemYeah, I like it that too, but unsure about doing it in front of her. Context is key I suppose as you don't ever want to appear insecure or jealous. | /r/askMRP | 14/08/18 03:24 PM |
| 4 | Alpha Boss Problem"hey idiot, are you listening to this hypergamous confession?" Good news is you know the truth and have realized your wife is not a unicorn. I thought my wife was immune too until she got all judgy about a friend of ours dating a younger guy working minimum wage. I said, "give her a break, she told us during poker that she hasn't been with a guy in over 5 years!". My wife says "If..you know, we didn't work out, I would try to settle down with someone MORE established, maybe a bit older, with his… | /r/askMRP | 14/08/18 02:16 PM |
| 2 | Make new couple friends?segway tours ?!? | /r/askMRP | 13/08/18 08:26 PM |
| 11 | Make new couple friends?Here you go. Find cool shit in your area that YOU like to do. Concerts, hiking, boating, sporting events, stand up comedians, movies, bbq, cars n coffee, gambling, wine tasting, restaurants, golfing, under water basket weaving (jk), etc. Not here to judge what you do, but just find something you and your wife think is fun and keep it in mind, like with your memory. As you live your life, make small talk with other humans part of your normal activities. Practice often so you don't sound like Data… | /r/askMRP | 13/08/18 04:34 PM |
| 6 | The average women is 5'3'' and weight 168 lbs wearing a size 16-18 and views 80% of men as below average in looksWomen lie about their wants, desires, standards, diet, weight, age, credit score, education, career, N-Count, bra size, dress size, amount of time to get ready, etc. | /r/MGTOW | 13/08/18 02:03 PM |
| 9 | Do women ever admit to cheating ?Come clean! In another post, you claim you swallowed the pill 4 years ago and already have a baby. Here you confess serious noob behavior. Not checking FB, you should trust but verify, but not knowing what stats are, why you are supposed to post them, no backstory, flipping out on her, getting pissed about a circumstantial situation, losing frame, believing her words (she swore/back together), shitting where you eat (cheating with co-worker), giving a shit what she thinks, or not recognizing shi… | /r/askMRP | 13/08/18 01:58 PM |
| 4 | Grooming question: Body hairthere is a reason serious lifters have little to no body hair Well? What is it? | /r/askMRP | 12/08/18 01:01 PM |
| 3 | Grooming question: Body hairThat's been my assumption for 20 years, but trying to remain humble and teachable even at my age. I dont care to groom any of it. | /r/askMRP | 12/08/18 02:38 AM |
| 6 | Birthday Gifts and anger phaseJoking! | /r/askMRP | 10/08/18 06:49 PM |
| 13 | Birthday Gifts and anger phaseBuy her a pair of slippers and a dildo. If she doesn't like the slippers, she can go fuck herself! | /r/askMRP | 10/08/18 06:49 PM |
| 4 | Was I just shit-tested upon?White knighting between two women makes both of them enemies. In this case you aren't even sleeping with either of them (I hope). | /r/askMRP | 10/08/18 01:59 AM |
| 6 | Was I just shit-tested upon?F-ing brutal, no objections though | /r/askMRP | 10/08/18 01:57 AM |
| 3 | Kicking Porn For GoodMy cellphone. Seems infantile compared to Job, but I wanted to use something that only affected me and a friend that recently died said something accidentally prophetic about his phone that came true before his death, and my phone is something I use all the time as a reminder and I had often used for porn too. Seems childish now, but it's been effective and it seemed relevant at the time. Tip o' the hat to Job, he was hardcore :-) | /r/RPChristians | 10/08/18 01:33 AM |
| 5 | Kicking Porn For GoodI want to share and add something about accountability. I consumed porn from probably 4 years old until a few years ago voraciously. It nearly cost me my marriage and jobs on many occasions. Did the "Every man's battle" men's group study. Had accountability partners. Installed filters, software, etc. None of that worked because I could simply lie and get around anything. I am not going to say those authors are ill-willed or that the programs are complete trash, but I will say that for me and eve… | /r/RPChristians | 09/08/18 05:46 PM |
| 1 | Help a plate define TRP, so she recruit a GF for a threesome.Don't bother. Honestly, I am not sure how you got here. There is a SEVERE cognitive dissonance that both men and women have when it comes to red pill theory. It basically shows there is a way for men to tip the odds in their favor, that the traditional work invested is worthless, that there are no unicorns, and realistically that is usually too unsettling. There is a reason Neo and Morpheus didn't simultaneously free all the minds in the matrix, it's too much for most people to accept. Just talk… | /r/askTRP | 08/08/18 07:05 PM |
| 1 | Conditinally loving a unicornStats or gtfo | /r/askMRP | 08/08/18 01:27 AM |
| 2 | My wife wants to be a unicornLook, think of a house on the east coast USA, like Florida. Hurricanes come to your area once every 20 years and fuck shit up. Now picture an anxious homeowner who is worried about the place falling down on top of them during a storm. So every day they test the house. They push on the exterior and interior walls of the house really hard to make sure they don't fall down, jump on the roof, bang on the foundation. A good house won't move, creek, wobble, bend, sink, dent, break, or have that person… | /r/askMRP | 07/08/18 05:48 PM |
| 2 | My wife wants to be a unicornbut my wife doesn't want a manipulated man This is true, but this won't stop her from shit testing you and trying to break you. These kids sure do look like me at least Congrats! | /r/askMRP | 07/08/18 02:34 PM |
| 1 | Does shitting where you eat apply to Highschool?If I knew what I know now back then..... To answer yes, it does. | /r/askTRP | 07/08/18 02:52 AM |
| 2 | Steps to take after a breakup (LTR ~5 years)Focus on yourself either way. If you did that the whole time it might not have went to shit. Your call to seek out going MGTOW or not. However, consume all the books listed in the sidebar either way. And start lifting yesterday. It will help you work through your current sads and the rage that is right around the corner as you learn that all women are like that. | /r/askTRP | 07/08/18 02:37 AM |
| 4 | Is my wife pregnant by another man (I need some advice)That is a good post he linked to. Well, it is a good start. She sounds as crazy as a random stranger, so the advice is relevant. You fucked up, but on the bright side you aren't in prison or have a terminal illness. Plenty of life left, don't die yet. Start lifting immediately and read the side bar. | /r/askMRP | 06/08/18 10:32 PM |
| 5 | She doesn't want me to make out with other girls, but we're not even datingSure, just seems like she is on your mind, not the other way around | /r/askTRP | 06/08/18 12:38 PM |
| 17 | She doesn't want me to make out with other girls, but we're not even datingGuys escalate sex, women escalate commitment. One thing is sure, she sucked you into her frame tho! | /r/askTRP | 06/08/18 12:25 PM |
| 5 | New BIL slapped my wife's ass as a 'joke' - am I handling this right?You talk like a woman. For the record, I have punched people for doing this kind of stuff. It was weak. I went to jail. She cheated on me a month later anyway. Very dumb move. Maybe you don't say abundance, but you don't completely lose frame over this. Edit: look friendandadvisor, you've posted good stuff before, but keep the #me2movement for a different sub. | /r/askMRP | 06/08/18 03:26 AM |
| 4 | The MRP and real life respect.Women want a lot of dirty sex and want to be our little sluts. We just have to BECOME the kind of guy they want to do that too, all while they TRY TO MAKE US into a spineless piece of shit that they hate at the same time. It's all very simple. | /r/askMRP | 06/08/18 01:47 AM |
| 1 | My wife wants to be a unicornNoticed a theme here One great thing about our relationship is that we are very open communicators Thing is, I trust and believe her. She has been up front with me about things she would definitely like to hide .... but seems to be living up to her vows to be forthright and truthful. And a problem too....... ... a trained actress ... She's a fucking tricky one ..... She could get away with just about anything. All women lie to their men all the time and if you know she could get away with anythi… | /r/askMRP | 06/08/18 01:39 AM |
| 3 | RPC approved books and podcasts?Robert Lewis has some books and a bible study. Covers authentic manhood and raising sons. I found it way better than Wild at heart. Find it at http://www.mensfraternity.com As I recall he even gets into some of the reasons we lean towards the beta behavior like our relationships with our parents, abuse, the fall, etc. | /r/RPChristians | 05/08/18 07:30 PM |
| 4 | Just took MRP three days ago...need quick adviceSame question, new generation. "Do I look fat in this dress?" New version "Do you think I need a boobjob?" She probably read it in Cosmo. Just tell her you need some research and make her take her top off, grab, kiss, suck on the and make it lead to sex. Then conclude they worked just fine. | /r/askMRP | 05/08/18 06:46 PM |
| 3 | New BIL slapped my wife's ass as a 'joke' - am I handling this right?His wife was sexually groped White knighting SJW? Whipping the BIL's ass Now you are a bad ass now with bail and lawyer money, and a free week to spend in jail? Are you both Daniel and Johnny from Karate Kid? | /r/askMRP | 05/08/18 03:10 PM |
| 3 | New BIL slapped my wife's ass as a 'joke' - am I handling this right?Agree. Don't mate guard, etc. Hopefully he keeps it up and you keep getting blowjob, lol. Risk v reward. | /r/askMRP | 05/08/18 04:19 AM |
| 4 | Melatonin and 9 month old3 yr old minimum, a warm bottle of formula is fine | /r/askMRP | 05/08/18 04:13 AM |
| 6 | Melatonin and 9 month oldNot in an infant | /r/askMRP | 05/08/18 04:12 AM |
| 1 | Life advice and direction needed.Couple scriptures and thoughts for you regarding something in your post. My current relationship with Christ is not as close as I’d like. James 4:8 Draw near to God, and he will draw near to you. Cleanse your hands, you sinners, and purify your hearts, you double-minded. Application: If you exert any energy towards finding God, he will be there and reciprocate. It's not difficult except for the part of overcoming your own pride to "do it alone" and humble yourself. On double mindedness, don't pr… | /r/RPChristians | 03/08/18 05:19 PM |
| 1 | Latent anger - thought I was past it; wife may have cheatedTo be honest, I don't disagree with you, but a lot of men won't be able keep it to themselves anymore. So if that is the case at least keep frame and use it for leverage. Also, you could have her sign a new prenup (postnup) if she wants to stay to prevent divorce rape. | /r/askMRP | 03/08/18 02:38 AM |
| 0 | Latent anger - thought I was past it; wife may have cheatedShe cheated. You must have learned her actions speak more truth than her words ever would. Her hamstering about your loss of frame justified it before she even took the trip. Leave or stay, you need to be better. You are no less of a man now if you leave or stay, but either way you should let go of that anger that you have towards her and turn it into disdain for becoming a beta. All things happen for a reason and serve a purpose. Pain has a purpose. It teaches what words fail to convey. A small… | /r/askMRP | 02/08/18 06:54 PM |
| 2 | Is there any reason to date if you don't intend to marry for a while?Don't be jaded. You just learned that the games at the county fair ARE rigged, HOW they are rigged, and WHAT to do in order to win. Get over it, and get over it fast. No matter when you start dating, it won't matter if you are still disappointed in women and life. | /r/RPChristians | 02/08/18 05:49 PM |
| 1 | I'm a headfuck!Caught in a fight between being in mom's frame, his LTR's frame, and his own, what a black hole. If there's one thing the Red Pill community proves to the world, it's that women cannot raise boys into men. I do not believe the OP has read or understood NMMNG or WISNIFG. | /r/askMRP | 02/08/18 03:01 PM |
| 1 | I am attempting to "jump start" my wives sexual creativityDay 1 down. Joined a Planet Fitness 5 minutes from my house. We wont talk numbers yet though, but I am feeling it. | /r/RPChristians | 02/08/18 01:18 AM |
| 6 | Tell GF about porn relapse?RE: Wife as accountability partner. Been there done that. This puts her "over you". It's awful, she will treat you like a child and you will both hate it. Ask "how are you doing with XYQ" all the time. That alone will cause resentment and animosity. Your confessions will make you look weak and pathetic in her eyes. God forbid you do relapse, you will be tempted to lie to her to keep face, which is worse than PMO. It's not biblical either. You should have a mentor IRL, not just on reddit. Someone… | /r/RPChristians | 01/08/18 10:41 PM |
| 1 | IntroductionSo much to say, but I want to be concise and other's have covered some of the points I made, so I cut it down. Get over yourself and get over them. It's clear you've put high value women on a pedestal. All of them. Like they are a different species from another planet entirely. If you learn anything in RP, let it be that women are not complicated super beings. In many ways, they are simpler if given proper leadership. If you allow them to be in control however, they are chaos. You've swallowed t… | /r/RPChristians | 01/08/18 05:46 PM |
| 2 | Oneitis with a long time friendThere's your answer | /r/askTRP | 01/08/18 02:15 AM |
| 1 | Oneitis with a long time friendPlates aren't friends and friends aren't plates. I am not against having female friends myself, but you gotta remember all the rules that apply to plates can and will ruin that real friendship. Unless you are planning to start posting in r/askMRP which is a different story altogether. Are you thinking LTR? | /r/askTRP | 01/08/18 01:04 AM |
| 4 | [FR] Fixing your SMVAre you appropriately balancing your efforts? Or are you trying to master something you're already proficient at? Probably | /r/RPChristians | 31/07/18 08:25 PM |
| 1 | Blue Pill example - Do not be desperateWhat makes people think that kind of crap would even work? Is it in movies? Books? | /r/askMRP | 31/07/18 06:19 PM |
| 3 | Finally got a confession of her past, Specifically who she slept with. A real piece of work.Lumberg Fucked Her https://i.imgur.com/hZdaVEm.gif | /r/askMRP | 31/07/18 02:08 PM |
| 1 | Finally got a confession of her past, Specifically who she slept with. A real piece of work.This is petty, you are being petty, don't be petty | /r/askMRP | 31/07/18 02:06 PM |
| 2 | Basic question re: shark week, feelz, and bitchinessIf you're over 35, it has to be a Harley to work? LOL | /r/askMRP | 30/07/18 04:39 AM |
| 2 | Basic question re: shark week, feelz, and bitchinessDo not acknowledge bad behavior. Neither punish nor reward it. Fog / stfu until it passes. If she were more calm when she brings it up this is a good one to AA, "honey, think of all the hot chicks that will wait on me at the hospital, this plan is foolproof!" Her fears haven't much to do with safety, but about dread. Even fat ugly old guys can get laid with a motorcycle. | /r/askMRP | 30/07/18 12:41 AM |
| 3 | Relationship started Secular/RP and now I'm wanting to reset it in the way Christ designed. Is it possible?My wife and I abstained before marriage even though we both had other partners AND also had 2 kids together. It was supposed to be for 6 months before the wedding, but things happened and we postponed it. During that time, the p-wipped version of me died and a new man emerged. Also, our bonds grew! Learned to know, love, and appreciate each other MORE. When we finally married we were closer. The period solidified our relationship. For you, keep the road you are on and remain outcome independent.… | /r/RPChristians | 29/07/18 09:21 PM |
| 3 | Parking tickets need validationHow far off is the wedding? | /r/askMRP | 27/07/18 02:42 PM |
| 1 | I am attempting to "jump start" my wives sexual creativityBefore last baby it was 5x but me 90% | /r/RPChristians | 27/07/18 03:21 AM |
| 1 | I used to be cool.....That's the best I've ever seen. I'm in a bar and just won a poker tournament and Im laughing so hard I'm almost crying from that fucking bot! | /r/askMRP | 27/07/18 02:50 AM |
| 1 | Am I going rambo?Please update tomorrow | /r/askMRP | 27/07/18 02:39 AM |
| 1 | I am attempting to "jump start" my wives sexual creativityShe told me she has it already mapped out and broke from the given request to include us in the story and the cowboy guy as a side character. Guess she agreed with you that picturing other people was weird, especially since I do look more attractive than who she picked. I should have just said that, it was weak to ask otherwise. *As said above, joining the gym tomorrow after work. *style is on point, good question. *Career and social status too not that anyone asks about that in the sub. | /r/RPChristians | 26/07/18 11:53 PM |
| 1 | I am attempting to "jump start" my wives sexual creativityYeah, I don't buy that excuse. I don't either, hence the quotations. I know it's just my hamstering. Good point about missing me too. I do play in a weekly free poker league and that has me out for a few extra hours. Are you tracking your calories? Not closely, just doing Keto, my TDEE is around 1800-1900 (desk job). Weight loss is stagnant for past two - three months. I am going to join the gym this week, have one picked out that's open 24x7. What gets measured gets done. This is really the wea… | /r/RPChristians | 26/07/18 07:03 PM |
| 1 | I am attempting to "jump start" my wives sexual creativityI know, just an amazing coincidence | /r/RPChristians | 26/07/18 07:01 PM |
| 2 | I am attempting to "jump start" my wives sexual creativityJust read that full post. My wife just went through a bunch of bs medical testings for gallbladder, kidney tests, H.Pylori, liver tests, pancreas, etc and all she had was some ulcers. | /r/RPChristians | 26/07/18 06:27 PM |
| 2 | I am attempting to "jump start" my wives sexual creativityWas the 3 year old sleeping in your room until this? First 1.5 years in the room, last 1.5 we converted the study right outside of our room was being used as a nursery. Kid wakes up multiple times per night and she will go to her and sooth her back to sleep by patting her, getting a cup of milk, covering her, etc. It's been a constant 2-5 interruptions per night for all 3 years. The 20 year old moved out 4 months ago and finally moved her in that room last night. Are you lifting? What are your s… | /r/RPChristians | 26/07/18 06:03 PM |
| 5 | The "Men Prefer" ControversyIn all of my reading here, I have yet to come across any end-times prophecy. Why is that? This sub is dedicated to helping men find their manhood and win in marriage. Posts about pre/mid/post tribulation rapture, the day of his return, identifying who the antichrist or beast is, or other theological stuff like infant baptism, sovereign grace, already have many homes and communities. As a real person who is alive in this moment, if my house isn't in order, those things are honestly difficult to f… | /r/RPChristians | 26/07/18 02:04 PM |
| 5 | Am I going rambo?Take the power back! Congratulations, you found your balls! You always new after you put them in her purse, you'd have to fight to get them back, but is there anything worth fighting for more than the chance to live your own life on your own terms? At that point I thought her words had gone too far so I just left the apartment. BTW: STFU and EXIT are never RAMBO! It is always fair game to remove yourself from childish behavior and you don't owe her a word. In fact for my wife, hearing the echo o… | /r/askMRP | 26/07/18 01:42 PM |
| 6 | Comfort or DNGAFFor over a year i've been trying to assist her with getting some help (remote/virtual workers, etc..) but she never follows through.. I've gone as far as sourcing people and pre-screening them as potential sub-contractors for her work. This is where you've messed up. Women do NOT want a logical solution to their problem because they are important to her. Her identity is wrapped up in how hard her life is and somehow that's what makes her important. You just listen and do your best to repeat what… | /r/askMRP | 25/07/18 08:30 PM |
| 94 | Cruel twist of fate for single woman who froze her eggs in her 30s to ‘free her career’she said. “I questioned, ‘Why me?’ ‘What did I do wrong?’ ” No comment necessary, just gonna give you my favorite quote from the article. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 25/07/18 08:06 PM |
| 0 | Married woman wondering if I can post?I was fucking humiliated for having him in the house thinking surely he wouldnt harm the baby ...... I felt like it was entirely my fault. Absolutely not, you should be able to trust someone with their own child. This isn't on you. Still so vague on his part. I don't know what to tell you, I don't know how you could work this out if he doesn't even confess what he actually did. Dangerous, unstable, unpredictable, unmanaged, next?! | /r/askMRP | 25/07/18 06:15 PM |
| 7 | Married woman wondering if I can post?admitting to assaulting our 10 month old when I wasnt home What the actual fuck does that really mean? Like, he punched a baby? Shook a baby? Raped a baby? I don't see how an event can occur that merits the word ASSAULT against a baby and you'd still consider working on this. Like, did he in a peabrain moment think he could "spank" the kid on the diaper for being naughty before it could walk? The story isn't adding up here? | /r/askMRP | 25/07/18 05:38 PM |
| 2 | I just don't knowThe juice is worth the squeeze, it is not too late. However 25 years of beta means roughly 25 months of rp for full effect. You will enjoy milestones though. What else you gonna do, go back to being a beta bitch? One of my favorite milestones was realizing I was getting a huge shit test that would have normally resulted in a ling fight and thinking to myself "you know what, I used to fail these, but tonight she is going to suck me off" and actually making it happen. Besides, being "un-fuck-with-… | /r/askMRP | 25/07/18 01:09 AM |
| 1 | Paradox of MarriageAgreed. Of course, the popular play is to wait for the other one to give in to sex then try to justify remarriage. Sad. God will allow such a thing but I don't believe he will bless it. | /r/RPChristians | 25/07/18 12:24 AM |
| 1 | Paradox of MarriageWe are off topic a bit, but that is my conclusion too. At 37, he doesn't want to improve and fight for the marriage accepting her version of rewritten history (she says hasnt loved him in 8 years) and is accepting defeat. First he says he took his vows seriously and will be single, but as is fashionable he is now claiming to be lonely and wanting to date. Keep in mind, she just moved out 6m ago and they haven't even separated bank accounts or filed any papers. | /r/RPChristians | 25/07/18 12:22 AM |
| 1 | Paradox of MarriageShould have said full MarriedRedPill not just RedPill. Otherwise the MRP and biblical man do have a lot in common up to the point of causing fear of leaving or cheating. I dont read much in reg red pill, so in my head MRP is the extreme. I agree on remarriage, culturally the church tolerates it. Although, even though it is a sin, it seems it must be as forgivable as any other, so I am myself unsure how to counsel say my brother. He never hit his wife or cheated on her, yet the church they attend… | /r/RPChristians | 24/07/18 11:19 PM |
| 2 | Paradox of MarriageMy point is that WOMEN don't fix anything. They "look to us to fix it", hence we are leading, going first, being the example, responsible for outcome.... Honestly even my wife will rarely accept responsibility for her end, let alone the whole thing. I KNOW I am not alone here! Lol 2-3 She didn't always. After first 2 kids, I went beta so hard she should have left me. That said, my actions caused her to call me an a-hole and $ tested me day and night in front of the kids. I was 100% in her frame.… | /r/RPChristians | 24/07/18 10:57 PM |
| 3 | Paradox of MarriageI don't see this as so much of a paradox with leadership. Guys, women don't want to "work" on the marriage, rather they want the men to do it. Think about it, if the marriage sucks, who has to fix it? Never the woman, always the man. She will come with a scowl, give you a tone, cross her arms, and start by saying "we need to have a talk". Then bring her grievances to the leader of the house to have them addressed. The man is instructed to lead by "giving himself up for her (Eph 5:25)". That is t… | /r/RPChristians | 24/07/18 08:19 PM |
| 3 | Having a tough time keeping my mouth shut, handling shit testsTwo thoughts SHORT TERM: I recommended the FOG METHOD to deal with them in the moment: Take it all with absolutely no reaction. Let them call you a BADASS. Let them call you a PLAYER. See it as a nomination to be their leader. Be Mother Fucking stoic and their jealous words will echo in your silence making you look like the new Bruce Lee. LONG TERM: You are the average of the 5 people you spend the most time around. Not only is that how your peers observe you, but it's human nature, just how thi… | /r/askTRP | 24/07/18 05:24 PM |
| 4 | Wife is pregnant - what do I do?CONGRATULATIONS! I am still trying to master MRP, but have 5 kids, same woman. Kids are the best man. People have been having babies since the garden of eden and handling shit just fine. It's not as difficult as you think. WIFE: She is gonna feel more entitled to ask you for stuff and probably try to bend your frame more than before. You will see an increase in comfort test and shit tests, but sounds like you are doing well there. It's OK to have feels for her. It's OK to be monogamous too. You … | /r/askMRP | 24/07/18 03:28 PM |
| 1 | Amused in killing the puppy...is this wrong?Nicely done! | /r/askMRP | 24/07/18 02:40 PM |
| 3 | Can you ever trust a girl's number (partner count)?Just checked "Jerry's" facebook and his profile is of him and his brother and his status now says SINGLE! | /r/askTRP | 24/07/18 02:15 PM |
| 2 | Can you ever trust a girl's number (partner count)?Funny story about an honest N count. At the bar with a buddy (call him Jerry) and his new fiance who is a HB8 (33 5'3" 120lb, platinum blond, quite pretty face with great skin). First time we'd met her and Jerry's aunt and uncle are there to. We find out Jerry and his woman had been together just 6 weeks and have been engaged 3 weeks already. They are both drinking pretty heavily and she wants to play "truth or dare". I hadn't done this in 20 years, but whatever. Goes around twice and then she p… | /r/askTRP | 23/07/18 09:46 PM |
| 1 | Wife still wants to see friend who's in love with herGotcha! | /r/askMRP | 23/07/18 09:08 PM |
| 1 | “On the fence” - one month updateI don’t think I’m in a position to divorce her right now because I am not in a position of strength. Think of her as a prime NFL running back at age 30. If you have no intentions of giving her babies, then she will be happy to be cut in order to sign with another team and contribute in a run at the playoffs. With no kids, no investments, no businesses, and just the house to give her a one time pay off for? Better than 90% of men I know. She would probably take a one time payoff on the equity of … | /r/askMRP | 23/07/18 04:34 PM |
| 7 | Can you ever trust a girl's number (partner count)?A relative of ours says 25 and we found a notebook with over 200 names with 1-5 stars behind them. LOL | /r/askTRP | 23/07/18 01:40 PM |
| 1 | Wife still wants to see friend who's in love with herBoundaries won't help. Mate guarding only increases her desire to nominate you for cuck of the year. | /r/askMRP | 23/07/18 04:00 AM |
| 4 | Ditching the "Honey Do" ListI think men allow it out of our flesh nature to be lazy because we see it as the "bare minimum to do list". We should be owning our work and I should be harder on ourselves than them. Also, the honey do list is linked to the covert contract too, the imaginary sex point system. | /r/RPChristians | 22/07/18 04:02 PM |
| 1 | mgtow/redpill characters in fiction?That one doesn't count, LOL | /r/MGTOW | 21/07/18 11:04 PM |
| 1 | mgtow/redpill characters in fiction?True, but he left all of them in the dust except for Vesper, she died | /r/MGTOW | 21/07/18 09:24 PM |
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