helderss Archive

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4	Performed poorly. Could use some resources to help me set up my intimacy game.		helderss	/r/seduction	27/08/16 12:18 PM

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1	Holy fuck I've learnt more in two days than two years. I'm not one to rain on people's parades but this thread serves no purpose, other than for you to brag? Which fair enough. All i get from it is " I was awful with girls, moved to somewhere where i'm exotic as fuck and girls throw themselves at me". It will be funny when you get removed from that environment, and things go back to what they were. Because from your post i don't read any self improvement. Sure you say that now you are going to Friendzone this Chinese girl, so i guess you could say y…	/r/seduction	11/08/16 08:57 AM
1	How do I be more confident around women and get a girlfriend? Mate, it really wont matter how much exercise you do, if you not eating enough. In General ( lets not get stuck into macros and stuff): Lose weight: Calories in < Calories out Mantain Weight : Calories in = Calories out Gain Weight : Calories in > Calories out If you are really skinny, the room for you to gain Size and Muscle if you are not in a caloric surplus, is pretty much non-existant( given you describe yourself as " too fuckign skinny". Can't eat more? Eat more often. I'm sorry if you get…	/r/seduction	05/07/16 12:30 PM
3	Fat Dude! Improving yourself for you should always be your number one priority, not because it will make it easier to talk to girls, but because it will make you feel better about yourself, and that truly will make it easier to talk to other people. I have worked out and got fit because of girls before, and when my previous needy mind set got rejected by a girl whom i got super attached to dumped me, i let myself go, because my self worth was tied to how other people saw me, and clearly even tho my appear…	/r/seduction	04/07/16 12:40 PM
3	Being short - how to take advantage of it? The issue here is with you more than anything. First and foremost every single woman has the right to reject you for whichever reason she sees fit. Regardless of how superficial it may be, guys do this all the time (with us more like " i'm not going to approach her because she is fat"), so why shouldn't they have the same right. What is cripling you here is more than likely your insecurity about your height, rather than the height itself ( I'm 172cm tall ). Never once got rejected because i was …	/r/seduction	24/05/16 03:09 PM
1	Is it possible to friendzone yourself to lower her defense and then seduce her? What you are suggesting is way worse than naturally falling into the Friendzone. You would actively displaying friend like behaviour so she sees you as friend, then all of sudden you start with sexually charge actions, which will weird her our " why is this dude who has always been nothing more than a friend, acting like this". Also the above is extremely needy behaviour, which believe you me is not attractive to women at all. Better cutting off contact, and re-engaging when there is less fricti…	/r/seduction	26/04/16 02:25 PM
2	Is it possible to friendzone yourself to lower her defense and then seduce her? Should have taken her for a cheeky Nandos bruv.	/r/seduction	26/04/16 01:47 PM
3	You're my Guy Friend It's important to impose your bounderies. Be stern on what you will and wont tolerate. Strong bounderies, are the sign of a independent and confident, non needy man. Someone who will not put up with shit from anyone, and this is a very attractive quality for women. I'm not comenting on the example of the delivery you posted, but on the concept which i agree .	/r/seduction	25/04/16 09:56 AM
1	How do I stop taking rejection so hard. I'd suggest you read Models. I found their rejection section of the book very good. Simply put, rejection is nothing but a filtering tool, to skip past the women who are not a good match. It's much better to get rejected straight away than 4 months than the line. Also you come accross as extremely needy. You need women to acknowledge you. Thats what your self worth is attach to. You are way to invested in what other people think of you, specifically these women you find attractive. Things wont c…	/r/seduction	25/04/16 09:45 AM
1	How do you guys reacts to a rejection? Models has a pretty good chapter on rejection. Loads of men look at rejection as the Boogeyman. This is because they are way more invested on what other people think of them than they should. Rejection is nothing but a tool that filters unreceptive woman. So the earlier on the better. Sure if she is rejection because she thinks she is too hot for you, and all she cares is money and looks, She is doing you a favour. So i'd just " Have a nice day/night" and remove myself.	/r/seduction	25/04/16 08:18 AM