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| 1 | Women are being shamed online for having standards nowThink of all the water you could buy lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/05/21 04:52 AM |
| 2 | Women are being shamed online for having standards nowYeah like, what a dumb example. I can currently get water from a tap so ReLaTiVeLy speaking the gem is to obviously the way to go, always has been. Even if I couldn’t get tap water, at least I can trade my gems for it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/05/21 04:52 AM |
| 5 | Women are being shamed online for having standards nowThese comments hurt my brain. It’s like mental gymnastics olympics. “What would be more important in the desert? A glass of water or a gemstone? Hmm?? Hmmm?? VaLuE iS ReLaTiVe” W H A T ?! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/05/21 01:41 AM |
| 5 | Don’t be meI know you feel terrible now, and there really aren’t any magic words that will instantly erase the pain. But little by little, you will chip away at it until you emerge stronger and more confident on the other side of these feelings. Can i point out how much smarter you are than so many others who would go through all of what you’ve been through and still go back? They’d never have the epiphany you’ve had, never choose better for themselves. It sucks when we have to hurt to grow, but by learnin… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/04/21 05:02 PM |
| 10 | LVM Gift AlertWow, mine too. It’s like they all take a class together somewhere on this stuff. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/04/21 01:07 AM |
| 7 | Did this crusty just blame rapist on women??Not to mention it was Brock Turners father who argued publicly his son shouldn’t have “his life ruined for 20 seconds of action”. But yeah, let this schlupp blame single mothers. 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/04/21 02:40 PM |
| 75 | Reddit hates women. THEY absolutely DO! My soul dies every time I see an award in this sub.I’ve only given out free awards. Reddit basically gives them away, probably to try and convince others to actually spend the money. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/04/21 08:49 PM |
| 95 | Men assume all bisexual women are open to being Pick Mes who help them exploit other womenShe’s just filming to get evidence for the divorce lawyer. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/04/21 08:45 PM |
| 31 | Oh hey, another shining example of how a LVM will destroy your life and sanity and how engrained gender roles make women think this is somehow okay.This is the way OP. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/03/21 08:53 PM |
| 61 | Men want to humble you so badly, they’ll defy logic to do it. Stay woke.That made me laugh out loud lmao. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/03/21 04:42 PM |
| 13 | As distressing as it is we need to learn about red pill men. Secrecy is part of their MO.Same! It’s amazing how abusive men who don’t follow RP or aren’t aware of it have their tactics down pat anyways. It’s also sad how many of us have had this experience. Hope you’re doing okay! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/03/21 04:08 PM |
| 329 | Taste of his own medicine!I tried this with a guy I dated. Needless to say he was a moron so he didn’t appreciate the irony. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/03/21 03:58 PM |
| 22 | They are definitely more fragile.Oh you forgot “she must be on her period” 🤬🤬🤬 Your last two sentences were like my ex’s whole philosophy on relationships lol. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/03/21 03:57 PM |
| 52 | Pickminique is acting all smug and basking in the attention she's getting from the backlash. FDS mods over here like 😐Honestly wouldn’t be surprised if a lot of the hateful messages she is getting are from the same trolls that make posts here pretending to be women and spouting bullshit to make FDS look bad to outsiders. It’s pretty scummy that she sent messages under the guise of helping dispel misconceptions about this sub, only to turn around and make that article cherry picking things to spin this sub in the worst light. It reminds me of that awful reporter from the New York post who did a hit piece on the … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/03/21 08:46 PM |
| 26 | Finally filing for divorceI’m so sorry for all you have been put through. Your children are lucky to have a strong mother who will stand up for herself and them. It sounds like you did all that you could have done to make your marriage work, but he has not yet found it in himself to do the same. You aren’t obligated to wait around forever subjecting yourself to abuse. When people with substance abuse issues refuse help there is literally nothing you can do until they hit rock bottom. And sometimes even then they won’t pi… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/03/21 02:12 AM |
| 14 | Not only is it totally not listening to her but he’s also a complete Neanderthal and the women in the comments saying “he’s just being comfortable/My BF does that too lolz” make me sad that so many women settle for this. 🤮Hail Satan!!! ❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/03/21 08:06 PM |
| 17 | Porn Actress interview-Luna - A childhood sexual abuse victim, failed by the system - and somehow the top comment is a sad scrote: "After watching a few of these porn stars videos I don't want to watch porn anymore. The fantasy is gone after being hit with their truths."This is one of the most heartbreaking videos I’ve watched on this site in a long time. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/03/21 04:07 AM |
| 12 | PUA dissection, have you ladies noticed the same thing?Crab in a bucket mentality 👌🏻 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/21 06:06 PM |
| 2 | Dr. Phil is a narcissistic bully with a TV show.Ugh, what a creep. I’d never heard this before but now I’m grossed out and not surprised. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/21 06:05 PM |
| 8 | Everybody, please acknowledge how wonderful she is and so not like other girls!!At least the paper clip won’t make her skin discoloured lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/21 05:54 PM |
| 14 | Men who lie about their careersDid we date the same “lawyer”??? Lol. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/21 05:32 PM |
| 207 | Boomers Mad Millennial & Gen Z Women Aren't pushing out enough babies for them to leech off of to their graves. Maybe if they didn't spend the last 40 years demonizing mothers, providing absolutely no support, and raising garbage sons, we'd think about it.That line about them deserving heir entitlements and to enjoy their retirement had my blood boiling. Like I’m sorry, you don’t want to face any consequences for the economy and society you helped fundamentally shape at the expense of gen Z and Millennials ability to live basically at all??? We should all just churn out babies we can’t afford so they can continue to live comfortably for the rest of their lives? Sickening. It’s so infuriating to watch the panic over this while governments simultan… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/21 04:13 AM |
| 23 | I came across an interesting troll today who said that all of our lesbian and bisexual members are fake accounts. Said they are all new accounts and implied all are created by the FDS mods. So please ladies make your presents known in this poll.Lol, it’s too bad this person will never understand the irony of acting like the type of person this sub preaches to avoid and therefore is reenforcing the FDS message that men like this are losers obsessed with women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/21 03:58 AM |
| 24 | Dr. Phil is a narcissistic bully with a TV show.Because he makes more money taking advantage of people than actually helping them. He sold himself out and showed his true colours. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/03/21 03:35 PM |
| 6 | Finally escaped 3yr relationship as a Cluster-B abuse survivorMe too. I’m so sorry for what you went through. These kinds of men leave scars that run deep. I’m years out of them now but I still feel those lingering anxieties. As for feeling bad about how you treated him you should google “narcissist fleas”. It really helped me understand how I was able to mirror behaviour I found totally unacceptable. It’s a coping strategy that can happen to people who are unaccustomed or inexperienced with dealing with narcissistic abuse. There’s no “default” in the brai… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/03/21 03:15 PM |
| 15 | In case you're still wondering if men view us as actual humans. They do not.Imagine what a relief it was to horses not to have to do all that shitty labour once the car was invented | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/03/21 03:05 PM |
| 36 | If size doesn't matter, why don't they make 3-inch dildos?Honestly any guy that’s said to look on the inside turned out to be horrible inside lol. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/02/21 10:10 PM |
| 44 | It amazes me how men have been creating the demand for sex work while simultaneously reproving women who supply it throughout history. Make it make sense!!No, it depends entirely on the type of witchcraft the woman practices. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/02/21 05:37 PM |
| 14 | Queen Jackie Weaver holds her ownI though of this sub when I saw that clip lol. Mostly because of the way she didn’t even acknowledge what he was saying. Just booted him nice and smoothly, then carries on. Boots another once he starts up. Then carries on. Never ruffled. I love it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/02/21 02:04 AM |
| 45 | Laughing so hard right now at all the ridiculous conspiracy theories being spread about FDS 😂Lol, this is truly hilarious FDS: Ladies! Stop having children with losers! Losers: oH nO!! eUgEnIcS!!! 😡 For real, super grateful for this sub. Gave me the reality check and confidence to ditch an extremely abusive ex and begin a journey of loving myself first and foremost. Now I stay for the laughs. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/02/21 01:51 AM |
| 94 | This shit 🤮He also said it’s the best sex he’s ever had and then in the same post says he is getting bored. Pathetic | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/21 08:21 PM |
| 25 | Why We Support Investment: The Fallacy of Focusing on Financial InvestmentWell put. Honestly spending a bunch of money on a date really isn’t impressive. If it hasn’t got any personal touch at all then “expensive” just feels like showing off and fishing for praise. And in my unfortunate experience sometimes when guys take you somewhere pricey they will legit get all butt hurt if you don’t want to sleep with them later. As though spending good money automatically should get them laid.”Do you know how much money I just spent on you for dinner??” No, and I don’t care fuc… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/02/21 02:02 AM |
| 83 | "You're being sex negative!" is so insulting to women. True sex positivity for women is impossible to achieve in a patriarchal world. Requiring women to be "sex positive" before dismantling patriarchy is such a "fuck you" to women.NUMBER NINE! I have read dozens of posts on the relationship subs where a guy finds out his gf was a sex worker and “just can’t” anymore. And even though I agree with the principle that people are allowed to feel how they feel and be attracted to whoever they want, the sudden turn off these men felt always rubbed me the wrong way for some reason. Like serious “I’m grossed out by this attitude” even though I do fundamentally believe people are free to feel how they like about things and obviously… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/02/21 01:29 AM |
| 29 | Reminder: The Wall is a lie men desperately try to project onto women to disguise their own pathetically lackluster lives.I do hear/see so many hair loss ads lol. But this is so spot on, and exactly what I needed to see today after fretting about some new wrinkles. Who cares? I don’t need to. This is why I love this subreddit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/01/21 08:37 PM |
| 33 | What’s the worst gift you’ve been given by a LVM? Here’s mine. Story in comments.I’ve not thought about this in years, but in my early twenties I dated a guy with a pretty severe alcohol problem. I’m talking drunk at work, losing his job at 22, angry screaming at me kind of alcoholic. He went to rehab a couple times and it never stuck because he didn’t try. Eventually I couldn’t take the abuse he dished out when he was drunk and ended things, by moving 5000km away lol. He had fucked up so many times at this point that I was just done, and what does he do? Buys me an engageme… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/01/21 09:40 PM |
| 2 | Just broke up with an otherwise HVM due to porn use...I’ve dated porn sick men. But they were generally assholes so it never struck me as anything out of the ordinary. I didn’t think I cared that much. But my current bf has stopped watching it. Not for me but because of me. He says that now he has me he doesn’t feel desirous of others and he feels weird watching it now. Its taken me some time to appreciate what that means and how much it’s boosted my own self esteem. I never asked this of him, I probably wouldn’t have. But the fact he did it on his… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/12/20 11:18 PM |
| 22 | Most men are vultures waiting for vulnurable women to abuseUnreal. And these losers always think it’s fine for them to have female friends. My ex “wouldn’t allow me” to have male friends or followers on social media. He insisted if my profiles weren’t private I was “begging for male attention.” Him? Lots of female friends, who he hung out with alone all the time. He even got mad at me for buying a pair of fuzzy men’s socks to wear at home for warmth. Their insecurities can be seen from space I swear. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/11/20 09:15 PM |
| 6 | Guy treats his GF like shit because he thought she’d never leave. She leaves him and is gone for good. THIS IS A DAILY REMINDER TO TAKE ZERO SHIT FROM MEN!I am laughing at this because my ex could have written this verbatim. It actually sounds a lot like the “apology” he sent me once I moved across the continent to get away from him. This guy hasn’t learned anything, I guarantee it. He’s so deluded he thinks he needs to go give others advice on how to not be a total asshole like it isn’t glaringly obvious and easy to any reasonable person. The whole post is just a “woe is me” cry for attention and validation. Logical my ass. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/20 08:32 PM |
| 5 | How to forgive your prior pickmeisha self...the flashbacks still make cringe.Focus on being proud of how far you’ve come in valuing and loving yourself that you can’t even consider these guys anymore. You are not alone, and some lessons get learned the hard way. Better late than never at all like some women... Focus on you. Hobbies, interests, and levelling up. Take time for self care and savour every moment that you get to spend ultra aware of just how much you are really worth. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/20 01:35 AM |
| 2 | I think she discovered FDS.. better late than never 👑There’s low effort and then there’s coffee and a field which sets the bar so low you’d trip over it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/20 01:27 AM |
| 12 | breaking up with my bf for texting his exI have an ex I’m on good terms with. But we don’t talk. I would never message him, not to mention he’s married now. And I wouldn’t be answering messages if he sent them to me. My BF is also on good terms with all his exes(as in the parted amicably enough), but they don’t speak. Why would they? The relationship is over and it’s not like they had kids. I don’t think you’re being controlling or insecure. You told him your boundaries, you communicated and he blatantly ignored you. And for what? Some… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/20 01:17 AM |
| 6 | Reminder to read the handbook and follow the values of this sub when posting and commentingThank you! Personally, the last thing I want to read on a sub I consider a safe space is anything promoting violence. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/20 01:00 AM |
| 6 | What is the reasoning behind men asking a woman friend or someone they are trying to date to change their profile picture on some messaging app?He wants to see if you’ll do what he says, even if it’s stupid. Glad you see through it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/09/20 09:14 PM |
| 5 | Herpes + poly = 🤮LOL K, this made me laugh right out loud | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/09/20 08:43 PM |
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