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https://www.removeddit.com/r/childfree/comments/dbducw/cf_lounge_sep_30oct_06/f28ybgn
/r/PussyPassDenied14/10/19 01:44 AM
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I got a chance to try an oculus setup recently. They are worthy of all the hype. Considering that this is still very much the early days of VR i’m Excited to see where we’llbe In a few years.
/r/MGTOW02/11/17 10:34 PM
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Imagine the outrage if a guy admitted to doing something like this to women.
/r/MGTOW31/08/17 11:24 AM
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I second the motion. Should be interesting.
/r/MGTOW29/08/17 09:19 PM
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I'm still shocked at times by how shallow their emotions are. My wife was super attached to a pet we had. If you've ever had a dog that practically worships you, it's almost impossible to not become very attached in return. When I came home from work one day to find it whining and obviously in distress I quickly rushed to the vet, but it was no use. I dreaded calling her to give her the news as that little dog was with her every waking moment she was home. It would even crawl up on her to sleep.…
/r/MGTOW15/08/17 01:24 AM
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I must have been a defective 15 year old boy then. I was not interested in any of my teachers. I think I'd have rather fucked a coconut. It would have had a less abrasive personality and more compassion than any of that bunch.
/r/MensRights14/08/17 11:56 PM
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Frankly it's all of the above.
/r/MensRights14/08/17 11:51 PM
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This brings up something that has always made my blood boil. Public schools always circle the wagons to protect their own. They stall obfuscate and outright lie. Nothing is ever the fault of a faculty member unless things blow up. Then they blame the parents for not bringing it to their attention. I saw this more than once when I was in school and I've seen it multiple times as an adult. Pay attention to your children, and if you deal with a school document the hell out of it. Don't give them a …
/r/MensRights14/08/17 11:31 AM
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Don't forget with the kid and the low income, she'll get a much higher tax return. I wouldn't be surprised it her income tax rate didn't turn out to be 0%. Some people even end up with more money than they paid in. You just know that the child support payments aren't taxed on her end.
/r/MGTOW18/07/17 11:14 AM
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Eloquently put.
/r/MGTOW18/07/17 03:26 AM
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I know what I'm listening to this week.
/r/MGTOW17/07/17 12:43 AM
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That sums it up nicely.
/r/MGTOW17/07/17 12:26 AM
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Absolutely. I think I was in my mid 20's before I began to realize how young I really was. Even now 2 decades later I still have to make myself look forward to just how many years I've probably got left.
/r/MGTOW14/07/17 02:32 AM
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I'm a bit late to the party but here goes. I was one of those bright eyed idiots who married his high school gf. In effect I was her practice beta. She kept me working my ass off while starting college to give her a life of ease. She had the better car, plenty of toys etc, while I was scrimping just to afford lunch. Looking back it's obvious but it's amazing how blind one can be. I'm a frugal guy so I'd saved money from the time I was little. She ran through that in pretty short order without my…
/r/MGTOW09/07/17 12:28 PM
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The bible also calls wives to do their part but those verses have fallen out of favor in recent years.
/r/MGTOW08/07/17 12:09 PM
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"Real men". Whenever you hear that you can bet that whoever is using the phrase is attempting to manipulate you.
/r/MGTOW08/07/17 12:05 PM
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Thank you. I'm saving this one.
/r/MGTOW02/07/17 03:58 AM
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Find another job. I would advise against leaking that info. If you absolutely feel you must leak that info at least be smart about it. Give notice, leave with a smile, handshakes, best wishes etc, maybe even buy them lunch on your last day. Then wait until you've been gone for a few months and they've already replaced you, before leaking it parked outside some place with free wifi from a cheap tablet you only use once. Bonus points if it's from an area you seldom frequent.
/r/askTRP28/01/17 01:41 AM
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I've never understood that. Imagine you have two kids, one is a drug addict, and the other is doing well, and attending college while living at home to save money. Which one would you be inclined to be more lenient with? Sadly a lot of people fail to see the logic when it comes to their children. My own grandparents coddled the worst kid they had and now my uncle is an immature brat in his 60's.
/r/askTRP28/01/17 01:23 AM
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Make that 45$ cost him more than it's worth. If your parents won't stand up to him, it's up to you. I know that being 19 and in school that your options are limited but I'd catch him when nobody is around to overhear and tell him that you will make his life hell until he repays it and stops stealing your stuff. Follow through with it if you have to. If he drugs himself unconscious tell him you'll give him a Sriracha enema every time he does until he gets his act together. It's an unpleasant task…
/r/askTRP28/01/17 01:20 AM
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I can state for a fact that the indoctrination goes back to at least the 1980s. That's plenty of time for it to have gone through one generation of kids, who have since had children who are getting a more thorough indoctrination.
/r/MensRights23/12/16 02:02 PM
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Ignore. She is getting her feelz by stringing you along like a little puppy (from her perspective). If you MUST give her one last chance, make it the absolute last time. Don't even respond to her. Just block her completely and walk away. It will be far more frustrating than anything you could possibly say.
/r/askTRP17/12/16 01:58 PM
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Perhaps a bit but mostly I was relieved. A lot of things finally made sense to me.
/r/askTRP08/12/16 04:23 AM
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It made me more cynical, but in an odd way that helped me see through a lot of bullshit that I would have otherwise fallen for hook line and sinker. I just wish someone had taken me aside and explained TRP and a few other things to me at 20 years old.
/r/askTRP08/12/16 04:22 AM
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It takes time. The fact you figured it out so young is promising. My story is somewhat similar. It made me a weird kid and an awkward beta for most of my life. Looking back I tried FAR too hard to make people like me. I'm not sure what strategy would have helped because I was much older than you when I figured things out. By then I had grown out of most of it just by experiencing life and becoming more comfortable in my own skin. I think that is why TRP really woke me up about so many other thin…
/r/askTRP08/12/16 04:20 AM
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I think we can both agree that both should be avoided.
/r/TheRedPill08/12/16 04:12 AM
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I agree with most of that. It's yet another reason to run from any girl who tells horror stories about their past. The only thing I'd disagree with in your comment is about the 90's. Claiming to be a victim may not have been mainstream but it was alive and well. Women have probably been using variations on that theme for millennia.
/r/TheRedPill03/12/16 02:15 PM
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I'm glad that helped. As men we automatically look for solutions or fixes to problems. In this case it often works against us. You can't fix another person, especially when they don't want to be fixed. For some it's more comfortable to play the victim card (even when genuine) because it has always gotten them what they think they want. I feel kinda sorry for those because they have never known any other way to relate. I don't feel sorry enough for them to get roped into any sort of relationship …
/r/TheRedPill25/11/16 01:09 PM
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Wait. I thought being superstitious was bad luck.
/r/TheRedPill25/11/16 05:00 AM
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I can't say my marriage is perfect, but it is a hell of a lot better for a number of reasons. First and formost TRP has largely solved the mystery of why women behave the way they do. A lot of the time I can anticipate my wife's reactions now. Before I found trp I completely failed to recognize shit tests for what they are. By finally focusing on myself and my needs more than I used to, life in general is better. She began to realize something was changing and while I have not intentionally play…
/r/TheRedPill25/11/16 04:13 AM
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Let me ask you a question. Have you ever known someone who survived a traumatic event? I'll use the example of a combat veteran who saw and experienced terrible things in a war. If you have, then think about that person for a minute and tell me whether they immediately tell people all about it shortly after meeting for the first time. I've known a few old veterans who saw action in WWII and Vietnam. None of them liked to talk about it. To a man they all agreed than anyone who bragged about seein…
/r/TheRedPill25/11/16 04:02 AM
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This is something I hadn't seen mentioned elsewhere in the thread and I can't back it up but it is something to think about. Have you ever known anyone who has survived an extremely traumatic experience? I'll use the example of a veteran who experienced terrible things in a war. If you know someone like that, think about them for a minute. Do they talk about it all the time? Was it something they told you about soon after you met, or did the story come out in drips and dribbles. Did it really ev…
/r/TheRedPill25/11/16 03:48 AM
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I have. She was a widow so that doesn't really count.
/r/TheRedPill25/11/16 03:39 AM
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You're welcome. I just hope some young buck on here reads comments like mine and manages to avoid being suckered in.
/r/TheRedPill25/11/16 03:33 AM
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"shitry" I suspect that was a typo, but I prefer to think of it as a new word. She was performing all sorts of shitry.
/r/TheRedPill25/11/16 03:29 AM
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You're quite welcome. To be fair I was extremely lucky that things didn't go worse. I fell for the damsel in distress routine more than once. When I I finally started to catch on I went several years barely even dating because I didn't want to go through that mess again.
/r/TheRedPill25/11/16 03:26 AM
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Don't kick yourself too hard. We're all here for a reason. Even now my marriage leaves a lot to be desired. With trp things have been improving. I was on the verge of divorce when I found trp, but things have been steadily improving. If it doesn't work out, well then at least I'm better prepared for the future.
/r/TheRedPill24/11/16 03:12 PM
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I can second this. I nearly married a woman with a personality disorder. She kept it hidden until shortly after I proposed. (this was many years ago) When it finally came out, she went absolutely around the bend. She lied about taking birth control trying to get pregnant, threatened suicide, then threatened murder when I broke up with her. Fortunately her family knew all about her tendencies and handled her pretty well. It would have been nice if they had bothered to let me in on the secret. She…
/r/TheRedPill24/11/16 02:58 PM
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Third. My ex was also my first gf we were young and I wish I'd read something like this well before we met. She played me like a fiddle and I never saw the end coming. I nearly killed myself trying to keep her happy. I don't think I ever even raised my voice in anger to her. She stayed with me until I was bled about as dry as I was going to get. (she didn't work of course) Then she grabbed the next branch and swung to the next chad/victim. Of course she told every one of our friends that it was …
/r/TheRedPill24/11/16 02:41 PM
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Not that it matters, but I agree. I have no idea about this film but any exposure to real TRP is a good thing in my book. TRP will always be slandered and minimized by some, but that is nothing new. Maybe some time in the spotlight will cause word to spread and save a few more guys like me from a life of misery. I don't post here much but TRP has made a vast improvement in my marriage and my life over all and there is still room for improvement. Let people say whatever they want to about TRP, it…
/r/TheRedPill26/10/16 12:10 PM
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A company I used to work for required us to call for ANY sort of traffic accident in a company vehicle, no matter how minor. The reasoning was that people sometimes lie, or print up fake information. Getting a police report helps nail down what happened. Some years ago I was the victim of one of those people who cause a minor accident which will get blamed on the other party, then they try to milk it for every penny they can get. At the time I didn't realize what was going on. I fell for it and …
/r/PussyPassDenied08/10/16 12:40 PM
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That summarizes things nicely.
/r/PussyPassDenied25/09/16 07:23 PM
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This is where I'm at too. If our income suddenly went to $0.00, we'd be ok for a few months. We can maintain our basic needs with one of us working our current job, or both working minimum wage. It would be the height of idiocy to do this, but not too long ago I sat down and figured out how long we could live off my 401k if we had no other choice. (you lose 40% to penalties and taxes right off the top) It worked out to a bit over 3 years with no changes to our lifestyle whatsoever. I would never…
/r/MarriedRedPill27/12/15 01:52 PM
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Getting out of debt is far more important than most people realize. Even so I would put the emergency fund slightly ahead of getting out of debt. Start with a small one, and increase it slightly as you pay off more and more debt. I am just a few years away from paying off my home. Other than that, I'm completely debt free. If I suddenly lost all forms of income before that happened, I could still make my house payment and keep the lights on while I sorted things out. If I were a bit closer to ha…
/r/MarriedRedPill27/12/15 01:46 PM
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This is 100% correct. Even though as a BP I made a lot of mistakes, this is one thing I didn't manage to fuck up. Let me tell you, it's not always fun to live within your means and set money aside. What is fun is how it changes your life and your mindset. If the wife's car blows up right before payday, it means neither of us have to worry about money to repair, or replace it. The same is true with major appliances and home repairs. When your company gets bought out and the new bosses start makin…
/r/MarriedRedPill27/12/15 01:18 PM
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Public school teacher (aka government employee) I'm not surprised at all.
/r/TheRedPill16/11/15 01:42 AM
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I'm watching this one with interest. I would gladly do this if divorce laws in my state worked the same way. That is one hell of a dread game whether you intended it that way or not. As others have said, I'd have a conversation with your lawyer if you haven't already just to make sure you're covered, if/when you "next" her. Out of curiosity, how has this effected her behavior toward you?
/r/MarriedRedPill09/09/15 12:11 PM
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I fall into the camp that thinks anal is overrated. I admit to being curious about it for quite a while, and I do like the idea in the context of bdsm play. (you were bad, so instead of making you orgasm, I'm going to use you like this instead.) One day, my wife comes home from a get together with some of her friends, and starts talking about what a terrible story 50 shades of Grey was. Now she's gone so far as to call any fantasy where someone gets tied up as "dark" and "degrading". So I didn't…
/r/MarriedRedPill08/09/15 11:49 AM
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I think you hit the nail on the head. She doesn't respect me, and that's my fault for failing to lead for far to many years. It appears I'm being too tactful, and I hadn't considered physically leaving the area. That ought to put a little dread into her. If it doesn't, then at least I know where I stand. I can't help but think she has gotten used to having things her way and it freaks her out now that her safe little beta provider has suddenly developed a spine.
/r/askTRP03/09/15 11:03 AM
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Thank you. I've been shutting conversations down but hadn't thought about physically leaving the area. She can't pretend not to notice that.
/r/askTRP03/09/15 10:55 AM
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I grew up around firearms. The "all guns are loaded" analogy is brilliant. I have a young friend who I was recently giving some relationship advice to. He has a severe case of oneitis. I think I'm going to toss this one at him the next time we talk and see if it does any good. Than you sir!
/r/TheRedPill29/07/15 04:37 AM
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Thank you. I hoped this would encourage some other new guys like myself. I'm glad to hear that it has. Keep up the good work. It pays off. Hell I'm barely getting started, and it's already been well worth the effort.
/r/TheRedPill29/07/15 04:02 AM
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To be honest I held off for almost a week before posting this. I just wasn't sure it was going to mean that much to anyone but me. I'm more than a little surprised at the response. I'm not sure how to respond other than to say a hearty "Thank You" to everyone. Just when I didn't think TRP could get any better, it proved me wrong.
/r/TheRedPill29/07/15 03:52 AM
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Thank you. It seems Oz is well represented in TRP at least.
/r/TheRedPill29/07/15 03:36 AM
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Thank you. On a side note, I'm sure Australia must have it's share of assholes. Do you all conspire to keep them locked up somewhere? I've yet to encounter one.
/r/TheRedPill29/07/15 03:31 AM
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It depends on the vehicle. A lot of them will require you to buy some upgraded engine and a premium package to get a version with a manual. Some of the lower end new cars offer them as an option with the base engine.
/r/TheRedPill29/07/15 03:24 AM
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Speaking as an American and a total gear head, not all of us are fond of automatic transmissions. I've always preferred a stick shift. The exception to that rule is, road trips in a big old American rear wheel drive land barge. I grew up around 1960s-70s Chryslers. There's just something about a 2 acre hood and a big block out front, a front seat that's as more comfy than your living roam sofa, and a smooth slushbox that makes the miles just disappear. Of course the single digit miles per gallon…
/r/TheRedPill29/07/15 03:12 AM
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In an odd way, it has. I've buckled down and started working harder on myself. I've already lost enough weight that I had to punch an extra hole in my belt. I can't see it in the mirror yet, but the wife has noticed, and she's getting nervous.
/r/TheRedPill29/07/15 03:02 AM
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I hear you. He definitely went out with his boots on.
/r/TheRedPill29/07/15 02:56 AM
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Mopeds you say? And here I was drooling over a Morgan 3 wheeler.
/r/TheRedPill29/07/15 02:49 AM
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This definitely applies to men, but in my youth I had more than one girlfriend who threatened suicide for attention. So far as I know they are alive and still making some other poor sap miserable.
/r/TheRedPill29/07/15 02:48 AM
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I really have no idea how it will turn out. In this case there was no crosswalk, nor intersection for a half a mile in either direction. This is on a straight wide road with good visibility for a minimum of 1/4 mile in either direction. Furthermore There's probably a mile of road with on street parking along either side of the road, but only a few of the older houses at the other end of the street ever have cars parked there. The rest have drive ways. From what I've been able to gather, he waved…
/r/TheRedPill29/07/15 02:46 AM
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I used to be on the road a lot. I could write a book with all the close calls and boneheaded things people have done to me in traffic. To be fair not all of them were women.
/r/TheRedPill28/07/15 11:08 AM
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Thank you, that is far higher praise than I ever expected.
/r/TheRedPill28/07/15 11:02 AM
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Thanks, but i can assure you they haven't said anything I haven't already thought of myself.
/r/TheRedPill28/07/15 10:51 AM
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It's still too soon to say. She wasn't arrested at the scene. I do know that the police took her cell phone and kept her vehicle for a while at least. It happened right in front of a neighborhood cookout so there were witnesses interviewed by the police. A friend of a friend was there but was seated facing away from the street. He said those that saw it reported that she was speeding, and that he was nearly to the sidewalk when she got him. Apparently she never touched the brakes until she'd alr…
/r/TheRedPill28/07/15 02:58 AM
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I have to give you props for that one. Dark Beta fits the situation perfectly. Someone stick this one in the glossary.
/r/TheRedPill21/05/15 02:26 PM
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I know this is an old post, but I felt the need to comment. I can't speak for others, but I don't have the leisure time to read as much as I would like these days. I do however spend a lot of time behind the wheel. Audio books are a good way to learn something rather than just listening to music, or people arguing via the radio. In just the last year I've covered most of the classics again, listened to biographies of most of my country's founding fathers, and picked up a few bits that could pote…
/r/TheRedPill18/05/15 11:56 AM
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