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Brother what. Please.
/r/Divorce_Men17/05/26 05:51 PM
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If your husband could have said anything to kickstart that self realization what would that be?
/r/Divorce_Men16/05/26 12:12 AM
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You can give a text-book example of a man stuck in a toxic relationship there and the replies will be "yOu ShOuLd SuPpOrT YoUr WiFe!"
/r/Divorce_Men15/05/23 02:53 PM
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It's not too uncommon unfortunately.
/r/Divorce_Men12/05/23 05:27 PM
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I get where you're coming from and why these answers of "just cut her off" may not hit your chord. You once cared for her, you may still do. You know that deep inside there is a human being. However, you cannot take responsibility for her anymore. It's not your responsibility to save her. You're mad because she makes you feel that way and you know it's not but yet you feel as the only one who can. You're not. She is.
/r/Divorce_Men12/05/23 05:25 PM
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Sounds like some sort of scare tactic. This type emotional terrorism is a common abuse tactic to simply get their way.. was their some sort of recent conflict? My wife does this all the time. Threatens divorce until I "behave". Just divorced me again a few days ago.
/r/Divorce_Men11/06/22 02:13 PM
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I'm not picking anyone and I've asked them both not to speak to each other so there is no contact.
/r/Divorce_Men05/03/22 08:04 AM
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No Yes, ive had to completely change my life to revolve around her. Yes but then next day she will backtrack it
/r/Divorce_Men05/03/22 08:03 AM
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No, it happened slowly. Started when our first was born, we bought a new house that needed renovating and my mom moved in next door, which we also owned, to help me renovate as we had renovated several times before together. My wife would constantly make me go over to my moms and tell her to "back off" and I had no idea what she was backing off from. She would say my mom was forcing her to work when my mom would say "If you want, I can take the child and you can do some gardening in the sun to c…
/r/Divorce_Men04/03/22 06:01 AM
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In any case, she doesn't have to worry about that. I handle all bills and all the practicalities of day-to-day life. She once had a bill in her name that I refused to pay out of principle. And I don't mean refused to give her the money for it, I refused to physically transfer the money because I wanted to see SOME action from her. I ended up paying 5.440 dollars in legal fees etc. after she defaulted on it to save us from them literally coming for our assets. Had no choice, I took it as far as I…
/r/Divorce_Men13/01/22 06:02 AM
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Texting to ask for something. It's those little details. My wife does this too. If I don't respond she will call. In the next room.
/r/Divorce_Men12/01/22 06:09 PM
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How do you see hours spent?
/r/Divorce_Men17/12/21 03:44 PM
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That's exactly what it feels like
/r/Divorce_Men17/12/21 03:42 PM
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Right there with you.
/r/Divorce_Men16/12/21 10:34 PM
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Yea I've had this experience first hand several times. My wife doesn't speak English very well but all of a sudden I was "gaslighting" her. I had to ask her to clarify what she meant and she gobbled up some crazy theory on how us disagreeing essentially meant that I was gaslighting her. I now realize where she gets it from. Guessing she's been reading this sort of garbage.
/r/Divorce_Men16/12/21 10:23 PM
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She got one 6 hours a week. That's what "broke" her.
/r/Divorce_Men16/12/21 10:18 PM
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The way she sold it, she would reap the fruits of seeing her children grow and her house become well furnished etc.
/r/Divorce_Men16/12/21 10:17 PM
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