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helpanon123/r/seduction02/10/18 06:51 PM
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I'm not sure if there's anyway to "fix it." Be honest about your intentions that you're only looking for a friends with benefits situation. Though if she's already very attached there's not much you can do or say that'll keep her from getting hurt. Might be better to just end it than have it drag on.
/r/seduction17/10/18 03:17 AM
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You sound like one of those guys that sleep with a girl on the first date and thinks she's a "slut" or "whore," since she slept with you on the first date (seeing as how you mentioned " Thinking back, I realized how easy it was to sleep with her"). Now she's "low standard" and will jump on every guy's dick, but you'll always be a "high standard" individual.
/r/seduction15/10/18 06:36 AM
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But you don't even know. You just assume the worst of her.
/r/seduction15/10/18 06:19 AM
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I hope she finds someone better than you.
/r/seduction15/10/18 05:01 AM
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"Oh I don't know my plans" or "call me later" might not be a shit test and it's her giving you soft "no." Like someone else said, give her a time and place and if she's interested she'll make the effort to schedule something with you.
/r/seduction14/10/18 11:51 PM
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I hope her boyfriend breaks up with her. No level of "hotness" will justify that kind of crazy.
/r/seduction13/10/18 07:01 PM
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I agree, I think she's just embarrassed. But you seem like the type that wants to try pursing her again. So sure, try asking her out again and if she says "no" then leave her alone.
/r/seduction13/10/18 03:06 AM
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Did your friend file a police report? That other girl is bat shit crazy.
/r/seduction13/10/18 02:51 AM
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Dude don't do it. If it doesn't work out, work will be hellish.
/r/seduction07/10/18 05:13 AM
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Thank goodness. I've been watching too many episodes of Paternity Court and Maury. Wouldn't want to see you up there.
/r/seduction07/10/18 05:11 AM
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Nice. And you were "safe" right?
/r/seduction07/10/18 04:50 AM
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lol what does it even mean to be main bitch and not side bitch? That she'll sleep with you more than the side bitches? But you'll be ok if she has side bitches as long as you're the main one she sleeps with the most? If you wanted anything remotely exclusive with her, it's ok to admit that it didn't work out and just move on. If you want a FWB situation going with her, then you gotta explain what does being the main bitch mean to you lol.
/r/seduction07/10/18 04:45 AM
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I'm not sure what are you asking? Are you interested in her and still want to pursue her even though she is with someone else?
/r/seduction07/10/18 12:54 AM
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Not sure if it was bad, but if you want to see her again set up a third date. Can text her something like "Had a great time last night," and then continue to talk normally/regularly until Tuesday or Wednesday to set up the next date.
/r/seduction06/10/18 06:06 AM
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Well since you guys aren't "officially" bf and gf. Maybe the other guy sees it as fair game to still pursue her? Or she sees the other guy as backup since you guys aren't "official?" Ultimately, you need to realize she's not going to drop all of her guy friends, so are you going to be comfortable with her hanging out with her guy friends. If not, probably best to move on.
/r/seduction06/10/18 05:47 AM
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Great advice. Kind of disturbing that some thinks "no" means keep trying. Like one of the commenters said if she's saying "no" to test you, don't put up will that bullshit and move on.
/r/seduction04/10/18 08:10 PM
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I'm not sure how bad the situation was with the guy from 5 years ago from high school, but realize it was 5 years ago and high school. You don't have to befriend them or go out of your way to talk to them, but realize whoever she dates has nothing to do with you. Don't change your routine or how you go about the day, because of them. It just makes me think you're not over her. If you were, you wouldn't care about what she does or who she dates.
/r/seduction04/10/18 08:01 PM
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I'd say to give it one more try. Doesn't hurt. You can text something along the lines "Sounds good, let me know if you're free this upcoming weekend for that coffee." If she doesn't respond then it's a rejection. Keep us updated.
/r/seduction03/10/18 07:25 PM
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I think the confusion occurs when there's misinterpretation of a girl's response. Some view it as a "shit test" when it can be a rejection. The guys expects to receive an EXTREME NEGATIVE response before it's accepted as a rejection. However, girls tend to give polite rejections or excuses because they are AFRAID, yes AFRAID of how some guys react with a blatant negative response. Read r/niceguys , there's also been news about how a guy stabbed a girl because she rejected him or how some have be…
/r/seduction02/10/18 08:25 PM
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I think the issue is some do not have the social skills to recognize they are rejected. Or when they are rejected they call the girl a "whore" or "slut." Have you seen the response on r/niceguys ? I think part of seduction is know how to disengage, without getting angry and moving on.
/r/seduction02/10/18 07:40 PM
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