This comes as a response from that post about "shit tests." I acknowledge there's all types of girls and some may test you. However, I do hope everyone realizes that there is the possibility that it is a polite rejection and does not necessarily and automatically means that "she's a bit interested in me."

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So as a way to self-reflect and to prevent this place from becoming an echo chamber and yourself from being a "creeper" who can't take a hint, I'd like to ask:

  1. When have you realized or can tell she's truly not interested in you? And that she wants you to leave her alone.
  2. How have you disengaged when you realize she's not interested?
  3. When she has told you, "I'm not interested," what is your go to response?

I think it's important to recognize when someone is testing you or when someone is truly not interested. Understand that there is the possibility that you may not be able to change her mind and the possibility that she doesn't want to be your friend. So this post is to reflect how you've reacted and how you should have reacted.