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Of course there's no real accurate prediction, but in terms of the timeline, I would say the actual problem starts when humanity reaches technological singularity, which is predicted to happen sometime in the next 10 - 30 years. That's basically when AI is not controllable anymore. Unless governments come up with regulatory and defence mechanisms for it, it will happen. Elon Musk for example has been pushing for these regulations for a while. Except for AI, I wouldn't be too concerned about any …
/r/askTRP05/01/21 01:13 PM
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Fingers as well. Fatties usually have chunky fingers.
/r/askTRP04/11/19 03:47 PM
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Of course not. If you’re telling her that you’ve already lost frame. Just say you prefer not to. That’s all.
/r/askTRP01/06/19 04:03 AM
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It’s not really clear why the date went so bad. It sounds like you fucked things up somehow and then ghosted, she got confused and then you let your emotions run amok texting her again and now she sees you as weak. I wouldn’t put much time into this anymore. You’re done.
/r/askTRP20/05/19 04:46 AM
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Best advice here.
/r/askTRP20/05/19 04:27 AM
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That’s true. At 25 you’re actually young. Chicks be really into 30 - 40 range. I really do believe a man’s SMV’s peak at 30s.
/r/askTRP20/05/19 04:22 AM
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This is not always true. I’ve had situations where they wouldn’t offer alternatives and I assumed it was dead and then they hit me up again and I set up another date and they ended up in my bed on the same day. Some chicks just don’t have any attitude or conversation skills at all and you have to do everything.
/r/askTRP20/05/19 04:15 AM
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Take their numbers and keep them as back up when you have time. 0 effort and you got yourself a couple of down bitches when you need.
/r/askTRP20/05/19 04:03 AM
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I’d go for it, if she has a vag and a pretty face who cares.
/r/askTRP20/05/19 03:59 AM
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Sounds like you should cut off porn and masturbation
/r/askTRP18/05/19 08:50 PM
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Just don’t. They move mountains when they’re interested. She’d promptly accepted your invite. Next.
/r/askTRP14/05/19 01:30 AM
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Problem with Tinder is that even if you strike while the iron is hot if the situation or timing isn’t right you’ll likely never meet in real life. I’ve had countless situations where I’d have a small convo and even get dirty and set up a meet and then when the time came they flaked or lost interest. My advice is go straight to the point. Be flirty, don’t validate, no emojis. Pictures if you’re hot. Text sparingly and set up date as soon as things get hot.
/r/askTRP02/05/19 12:58 AM
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Night game is better if you’re looking for low effort. Problem with Tinder is that you can’t see their actual bodies or faces and so when you meet in real life you’ll likely get disappointed.
/r/askTRP02/05/19 12:51 AM
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There’s no difference between closing a Tinder date from a date off real life game. The only difference actually is that you haven’t seem them in real life and there’s a huge chance they’re a lot fatter and/or uglier.
/r/askTRP02/05/19 12:48 AM
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That’s been the case for me as well most of the time. I always assume they’re 2 - 3 points worse than in pictures.
/r/askTRP02/05/19 12:21 AM
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It does help though. It’s more a matter of not being a complete social retard, which from looking at most posts here it’s safe to assume it’s quite common. I’ve had my fair share of lays off looks alone. Especially if a girl is particularly into one “type” looks wise and you happen to be that guy. It’s like 0 effort. But then again it’s hard to maintain plates like that as they do require more “depth” in terms of frame and personality.
/r/askTRP28/04/19 04:46 AM
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I think it’s important to reiterate that dreading or withholding attention is ineffective if you don’t offer value. So one thing does require the other. Dread with no value won’t make women more attracted to you.
/r/askTRP26/04/19 03:12 PM
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You’re the one spewing BP shit here dude. I’m a good looking guy myself and I overall I had more failures than success. Nowadays I do fine but back when I had the looks but was socially retarded it was fucking depressing to have decent looking chicks approaching me and suddenly getting dry because I had no game. This shit is real. Chicks will go on a date with a decent looking dude with game over a hot buff who’s socially inept any day.
/r/TheRedPill16/04/19 11:20 PM
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Yes. Forget her and focus on yourself. You’re one step away from becoming her orbiter.
/r/askTRP23/03/19 03:54 PM
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Why is feminism good for attractive men?
/r/askTRP12/03/19 04:06 PM
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This guy gets it. Overall, feels are the most important factor. Sometimes even more than status. Even if you are at the very top, you won’t get all pussy you want. Even if you do everything right.
/r/askTRP12/03/19 04:05 PM
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And even then, sometimes you can vet a girl for a year and you still won’t get a good read on her. I think you’re only eligible for a happy LTR if you’ve had a LOT of experience with women so you are able to see through their BS and act accordingly. It’s way to easy to get caught up in their mind tricks and once you’re in their frame it’s really hard to switch back.
/r/askTRP09/03/19 11:04 AM
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If she’s on Bumble it’s already a red flag. Most women I met off dating apps were damaged in some way or another. Be careful because she might be putting a good girl act just to get something out of you, and you don’t even know. As you know, it’s really hard to get a good read on women. So be skeptical when things are going exceptionally well.
/r/askTRP27/02/19 12:19 PM
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Besides the men hating posts across all social media. It has become a trend somehow and things are blowing out of proportion. Honestly I’ve unfriended at least half of all girls I had on social media due to how they’d post every single day about how man are utter trash. I’ve even deleted my Facebook app and still use Instagram but just for photography. It’s insane how girls are toxic in social media.
/r/TheRedPill26/02/19 03:46 AM
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She needs to be sending you IOIs in order for you to feel comfortable when you finally make your move Would you consider neutral response as positive? For example, she's not clearly reciprocating your moves but is not rejecting either. I've been in a couple of situations where I'd get neutral response and had to do all kino work but eventually it led up to sex, so at the end of the day I got what I wanted, but still.
/r/TheRedPill24/02/19 02:59 AM
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This is really good insight. I mostly agree with it except not splitting if it's one drink for each. I always split. Anyway, this is minor. If you've established higher value, taken her for a ride on the emotional roller coaster and escalated like a man, you'll be fine. Most importantly, remember it's a numbers game and even if you do everything "right", sometimes it won't work, and that's fine, as long as you have other options.
/r/TheRedPill24/02/19 02:53 AM
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Not worth it to pursue this IMO. Sounds like a drama queen or attention whore type.
/r/askTRP16/02/19 02:38 PM
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As others have pointed out, she is clearly not interested. As you get more experienced with women, you'll notice that if you enter their frame, they'll trick you into thinking they're interested just so they can get even more attention, and will drop your ass once they get enough of it.
/r/askTRP03/02/19 09:33 PM
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Hard to tell. You can usually tell by their hands. Either way, I'd pass this. Easily.
/r/askTRP15/01/19 11:49 PM
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She's obviously trying to put you in orbiter frame. Have you ever had a girl being interested in you? Did she come up with this friendship bullshit or was she receptive to your moves? Think about it, man. Don't waste time with this girl.
/r/askTRP15/01/19 11:45 PM
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I've been clubbing (mostly solo) for the past two years. If I had to put a list of things to have in mind, in order of importance: Have fun: don't go out with the sole purpose of gaming. Pick a club with the music & vibe you like. If you end up not getting any pussy, you had a great time anyway and won't be frustrated. Outcome independence: when approaching, the goal is to entertain yourself with a girl. If she rejects, just dish it out and laugh about it. Her loss. Appearance does matter: that'…
/r/askTRP11/01/19 07:02 PM
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Only valid advice. Your "text game" should be a reflection of real life game, and ultimately used to set up dates.
/r/askTRP11/01/19 12:22 AM
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But isn’t this a bit too casual even tho they’re still designer branded jumper and joggers? That's fine dude. You're overthinking this. Most women don't have a good sense of fashion, and care even less about what their date is wearing. I've seen so many times. Dudes wearing awful blatant ripoff brands with hot decently dressed chicks. As long as you don't look like a retard you'll be fine. Women don't care as much about this.
/r/askTRP09/01/19 06:58 PM
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I cannot get a read on her full back tattoo of a geisha favorite book is Memoirs of a Geisha friends with a lady who runs an escort business Pretty sure she's a hooker on the side. In regards to your question: she just wants the attention. If you still want to fuck her, text sporadically. Wait days to reply her. Say you're busy and move forward with the convo. Eventually, if things get stale, initiate again in a couple of days and act like nothing happened. I was in a very similar situation last…
/r/askTRP09/01/19 01:20 PM
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Same clothes I use when I go clubbing or pretty much any other night social scenario. Usually patterned or solid color shirt tucked in with less colorful/black pants and some nice leather shoes. Always get compliments. I’m usually better dressed than the girls I hang out with and IMO it’s another good way to display higher value.
/r/askTRP09/01/19 12:49 PM
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There's no negative impact from being seen with HB5 (average) girls. It's neutral, and potentially beneficial as you're not alone. Average is not low value. Things get hairy when you're seen hanging out with fatties. Just don't. People automatically assume you're very low value, and there's no way to prove otherwise. If you have a thing for fatties or can't get any better material, fuck them but stay low key and ghost afterwards. There's nothing weirder than seeing a normal looking dude hanging …
/r/askTRP08/01/19 01:29 AM
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You're putting things in your body that are inherently harmful What is inherently harmful about Viagra? I've been using it for a while now to treat PIED and have never had any issues.
/r/askTRP07/01/19 04:54 PM
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No, I treat everyone the same way, with respect. If someone clearly needs help, I'll help them. That's all.
/r/askTRP07/01/19 04:49 PM
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This. I’ve basically given up watching mainstream movies/series for the past 2 or 3 years. Take the last Star Wars movie for example. Pure feminist propaganda.
/r/askTRP06/01/19 10:14 PM
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I get approached a lot in clubs. Not so much in daily situations, if ever. I'm not sure what's the angle with this "getting approached" talk. You're the man. You're supposed to lead the interaction. Women have other ways of showing interest.
/r/askTRP06/01/19 03:33 AM
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Stop overthinking Tinder. You'll likely never meet them in real life. Say whatever you want.
/r/askTRP06/01/19 03:31 AM
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They’re much more entitled too. Thanks to Tinder and social media inflating their ego any 5 or 6 feels like she’s a 10. In my experience truly hot girls are much more down to earth and easier to talk to.
/r/askTRP06/01/19 01:22 AM
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I'm above average in terms of looks, that's pretty much the deciding factor in OLD. And I did bang some uggos when I needed to nut so there's that too.
/r/TheRedPill05/01/19 09:05 PM
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Never be friends with a uggo fatty virgin. I'd go as far as saying just don't get involved with fatties at all. Not worth it. They catch oneitis pretty easily and are a hassle to get rid of later on if you ever bang them. ​
/r/askTRP04/01/19 09:11 PM
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People there would assume that is my gf This will only up your game. Your "potential plates" will hamster like crazy and next time you hit the club they'll be all over you. ​
/r/askTRP04/01/19 09:06 PM
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Women usually don't approach, unless you're far above other men in terms of looks (fashion model tier). I've been told multiple times I could do commercial modeling because I have a very handsome face. I'm not as tall though (5'9). I get approached constantly in clubs. Have never been approached in day game, but a couple of times in social circles. Anyway, approaching is sort of like a last resort for women, because it might make them feel like sluts for doing so. So instead, they move closer to…
/r/askTRP04/01/19 09:03 PM
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I asked her to hang out with me and my friends and New Years This communicates scarcity. New Years is either for family, friends or FWBs/LTRs - people you have some sort of connection. It's a special occasion. I ask her if she's up for hanging out tomorrow You should have led the interaction by saying "Hey, let's do [insert activity] at [insert place] tomorrow [insert time]." "that sounds like fun but I remembered I have to work early tomorrow, still getting used to the new schedule" She's obvio…
/r/askTRP04/01/19 08:55 PM
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You reek of scarcity, man. Why are you hamstering about a girl who's supposed to come to your town in a few months? Forget her ass and game other girls you can fuck now. When she comes to your town hit her up and fuck her brains out.
/r/askTRP04/01/19 08:08 PM
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No one can date multiple women at a time unless you are going for ugly women. You can’t be serious.
/r/askTRP04/01/19 02:38 AM
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Fuck man I wish girls would care solely about looks like guys do. It'd make it so much easier for me since I have zero personality. See, that's the thing. Girls will prefer hanging out with an ugly dude with game over a hot buff with no personality any day. ​
/r/askTRP04/01/19 02:01 AM
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Status is like playing in a local band. They might pay you 100 bucks for a gig but you'll still get plenty of ass because you're out there playing for a crowd. I know plenty of broke ass dudes who have nothing going on in their lives but get a lot of tail just because some chicks saw them playing at some lame ass festival in town.
/r/askTRP04/01/19 01:58 AM
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People are telling you to line up several dates, I think this is a terrible idea this is a lot of effort Why is that a lot of effort? It literally takes 5 seconds to text her and another 5 to flake, if necessary. Just pick the hottest one who confirms and give a lame ass excuse to the rest. They'd to the same in an eye blink. They say yes to keep piling up dates but when the day comes they just go with the biggest chad. No shit there's tons of posts here telling the same story. "Scheduled plans …
/r/askTRP04/01/19 01:41 AM
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Yes, you can. I'm no 10/10 and last year multiple times I had 2 - 4 overlapping dates in the same day. A date is a plan, it doesn't mean they'll show up, so who cares.
/r/askTRP04/01/19 01:34 AM
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Because they don't. And it's not because they say so. As you state in your post, there are countless examples of hot chicks with disgusting looking dudes. I'd go as far as saying the majority of decent/hot girls I know date men below their level in terms of looks. Easily. That's because women are much more attracted to personality traits rather than looks. You can't say the same about men. It's rare to see hot men dating ugly ass chicks. If I had to rank the importance of attraction traits, I'd …
/r/askTRP04/01/19 01:25 AM
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It's your third date already. You don't have to heat her up. She already knows you. Women are very capable of picking up beta signals. It will be clear for her you're chatting her first in the hopes of getting a "yes" for a date. Not because you actually have something substantial to say.
/r/askTRP03/01/19 02:15 PM
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You'll gain much more if you're sober in terms of confidence. It might be difficult in the beginning, but in the long run, it's the right choice. You can't use your alcohol confidence in day/social game unless you become an alcoholic.
/r/askTRP03/01/19 02:09 PM
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Should I take the lead? You know the answer, man. Text her and set up a date. If she curves you, soft next.
/r/askTRP03/01/19 02:00 PM
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This. Either AA or ignore. Anything else you're losing frame. Keep this one as a plate at most. Quality women don't do that.
/r/askTRP03/01/19 01:56 PM
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I know this will create unneccessary drama Just say you never talked about being exclusive. There's no other way around it. She'll probably try to push for commitment. Say you're not looking for that right now. If she doesn't like it she can walk. That's the best way to handle it. You don't want to get sucked into a relationship with a girl you barely know. And even if you've known her for a long time, things can change. Remember, LTR is red pill on hard mode. It's really hard to see through wom…
/r/askTRP03/01/19 01:49 PM
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Look man, you've only spent 2 nights together. You'd be retarded to think about committing to a girl you've just met. I bet this girl has been dicked by another dude at least once since you've met, and here you are feeling guilty about banging another chick. You have two options. Either read the sidebar and man up, or commit to her and get cucked.
/r/askTRP03/01/19 01:26 PM
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You're right, and it's the only solution in OP's case. Back when I didn't have my own place I used to do this every week. It worked 70% of the time. In the long run this is not sustainable though. Eventually you'll fuck more, and with the money you pay for rooms you can easily rent a decent basement to actually live.
/r/askTRP02/01/19 06:33 PM
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Don’t book a room. Escalate as if you had your own place and then suggest going to a motel or your car. If she’s wet enough she’ll accept.
/r/askTRP02/01/19 03:41 AM
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im gonna give it one last go this weekend. Don't do it, man. You'll come off as if she's the only pussy available for you in the world. Women move mountains when they're down to see you. I've had girls who took 1h train trips plus an extra Uber ride to hang out with me. If they're interested, they'll find a way. They won't make up excuses. It sounds like you've never read any Red Pill material. Visit the main sub and do some reading. You're not supposed to supplicate for dates.
/r/askTRP02/01/19 02:57 AM
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She's not interested. Move on. Don't waste your time.
/r/askTRP02/01/19 02:54 AM
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He's referring to watching her actions not her words.
/r/askTRP02/01/19 02:53 AM
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Any ideas? Stop being her text buddy. Ask her out. Escalate, invite her to yours and fuck her brains out.
/r/askTRP02/01/19 02:08 AM
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My ex-girlfriend did the same last year. Blocked me and unblocked me at least 2 times. And she's also got a boyfriend. I think it's out of curiosity. Or, in your case, I wouldn't be surprised if it was related to some new year's resolution BS to overcome past relationship problems. I'd expect a girl to do that.
/r/askTRP02/01/19 01:34 AM
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Status > Game > Looks > Money
/r/askTRP01/01/19 12:28 AM
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Tinder is a waste of time unless you’re a 9 or 10. And if you’re that guy you’re not even using Tinder, so there’s that. Can you get lays off it? Yes. I had over 40 in the span of a year. But the time I wasted in that I can’t get back. I would’ve spent at least half the time with same or better results had I gamed IRL.
/r/TheRedPill31/12/18 11:45 PM
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Right. Why bother grabbing drinks with a rando off Tinder when she can get boned by a number of chads on demand IRL.
/r/TheRedPill31/12/18 11:37 PM
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Night game is the best source for ONS. Day game or social circle is still better for plates as they’re not drunk.
/r/askTRP31/12/18 11:31 PM
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In my experience that’s the case most of the times.
/r/askTRP31/12/18 10:09 PM
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Overall yes, since most girls nowadays lean towards a SJW/liberal mentality, which basically pictures heterosexuality as something to be ashamed of. work out, make a lot of money, be high status, be dominant and masculine, in order to even stand a chance with women This is a bit of an exaggeration. I know many disgusting looking nobodies with no money who pull regularly. I've always had the money and the looks but had a hard time with women for a long time, and still do to a certain extent. It's…
/r/askTRP31/12/18 06:14 PM
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So if anything being hit on by men could be a good barometer for judging ones own looks The thing is gay men tend to be much more straightforward when showing interest than women. Instead of twirling their hair and moving closer to you, they'll straight out tell you you're hot and will try to touch you. So yes, this is a good barometer.
/r/askTRP31/12/18 05:53 PM
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It's her job to ask for commitment.
/r/askTRP31/12/18 05:45 PM
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I'd suggest a threesome. However, since she has feelings for your GF, she might get attached and become a potential pain to get rid of. Not worth the hassle, IMO.
/r/askTRP30/12/18 05:39 PM
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Make an observation. Could be about the music, place, people, whatever. Also, delivery is key. Straight posture, eye contact and speaking clearly goes a long way.
/r/askTRP30/12/18 02:46 PM
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How much time do men put in to this tinder thing? A lot. And it's simply not worth it. The effort to result ratio is abysmal. You're usually bedding 1% of your matches, assuming you're attractive and have decent game. I gave up OLD a while ago and it's the most productive thing I did in terms of game, and I recommend you do the same. You'll have to approach, otherwise you won't get pussy. And by approaching, you're way ahead of the other men in her inbox. You exist to her, you provoke feelings. …
/r/askTRP29/12/18 06:01 PM
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This is an interesting perspective. I'd notice it multiple times back when I used to fuck around with OLD. Or even night game, for that matter. They'd just use me to dick them and then would ghost. That's why abundance is key. I used to have a rotation of at least 5 girls per month back then. Never ran out of pussy because at least one of them would be horny because of this.
/r/askTRP29/12/18 05:50 PM
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Not only does it come across as try-hard, you’re giving off huge nice guy vibes. You’re basically communicating you’re okay with anything they say to you.
/r/askTRP27/12/18 02:37 PM
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OP is referring to smiling as a response to anything, which is a common beta trait, especially in interactions with women.
/r/askTRP27/12/18 02:35 PM
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you can't tell which plates are heading towards an LTR Absolutely. You just don't tell them, which sounds like what OP is referring to.
/r/askTRP27/12/18 02:48 AM
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This. Back when I used to fuck around with OLD I'd fall into the trap of texting until the date comes. Turns out I got flaked most of the time so it didn't really make a difference. Honestly, OLD is simply not worth your time. It's nice to keep it as a supplement but it only works if you're really attractive and live on a city where the dating scene doesn't suck.
/r/askTRP27/12/18 02:39 AM
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Plausible deniability. Telling her you want to fuck her upfront will trigger her ASD. Be smart. Unless your gut tells you she's a slut. Then go for it.
/r/askTRP27/12/18 02:37 AM
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If you've already taken her for a ride on the emotional rollercoaster then just tell the truth. Don't be a clown. Otherwise just say some over the top shit. AA kind of stuff.
/r/askTRP27/12/18 02:34 AM
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plan to make her your LTR. I'd wait first for her to ask for commitment. ​
/r/askTRP27/12/18 02:30 AM
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Do your thing. Dance and enjoy the music. Approach the hottest one.
/r/askTRP27/12/18 02:29 AM
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If you suffer from PIED, or any sort of anxiety that stems from porn, yes. Other than that, it's useless after a week.
/r/askTRP27/12/18 02:27 AM
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Why would a high value man go out of his way to talk to a girl during the day? I'd put this differently. With a high value mindset, you go about your day normally - assuming you have lots to do - and if you happen to cross paths with a girl that catches your eye, you approach and lead the interaction. The key difference here is that you don't go out with the sole purpose of approaching. It's an addition to your life, like women are supposed to be. Now I only approach if she is absolutely my type…
/r/askTRP27/12/18 02:25 AM
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It's not. They might fuck around more when they're young but after a year or so they'll settle down with a rotation of 1-2 year boyfriends. So it's safe to assume their n-count is within the 10 - 20 range. Anything more than that is slut territory.
/r/askTRP25/12/18 02:16 AM
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Stop giving off nice guy vibes. Do your thing, escalate and go for the kiss. If she rejects, next. Avoid having long conversations with club broads. They'll use you for your attention and will drop your ass the moment chad shows up.
/r/askTRP25/12/18 02:10 AM
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Best advice here. Tinder is a time sink. Even as a good looking guy.
/r/askTRP23/12/18 10:24 PM
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Even if you are attractive, they'll still rather get dicked by someone they already know. You don't exist to them.
/r/askTRP23/12/18 10:23 PM
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Well, they have very masculine facial traits, so whatever style they rock will look good. A beard might make you look more masculine, that's why some women are turned on by it. But if your face is ugly it won't help much.
/r/askTRP23/12/18 10:20 PM
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Nothing new here. It's pretty clear online dating isn't worth your time unless you have a very high SMV, in which case you wouldn't even be on Tinder, so there's that. OLD is a dead end even if you're above average with decent game. It's a time sink. You might pull some here and there but it's simply not worth your time. Go work on yourself and on your social skills IRL.
/r/TheRedPill22/12/18 02:36 AM
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plates or girls I meet on dating apps That's what they're for. Fucking. You're not supposed to have a connection with them. Try going the FWB route. It's a different mindset but might make you feel more fulfilled as you're hanging out with someone who shares same interests. I wouldn't recommend having an LTR though. Not at your age. You'll end up either cheating or breaking up because you'll get tired of fucking the same girl over and over again.
/r/askTRP21/12/18 11:57 PM
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pretty social dude As a recovering socially awkward good looking man, I can assure you women will prefer hanging out with an ugly player over a hot buff with no game any day. I've witnessed it countless times. It's all about the feels.
/r/askTRP21/12/18 11:46 PM
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Mobile has more traffic.
/r/askTRP20/12/18 11:38 PM
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This. As someone who once was a hard core social media/Tinder player, the effort to result ratio is simply not worth it. Had I put that much effort into my real life social skills and looks I'd be in a much better place now.
/r/TheRedPill20/12/18 11:39 AM
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You should avoid them altogether. Plate status at most, and if drama starts they can walk. It's not worth the hassle.
/r/askTRP18/12/18 01:29 PM
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I’ve recently made my ex girlfriend into a plate You shouldn't have done this in the first place. Anyway, hard next to avoid any additional drama.
/r/askTRP17/12/18 01:52 PM
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Who cares what some Tinder hoe is saying. You’ll probably never meet her in real life anyway. Waste of time.
/r/askTRP16/12/18 03:54 PM
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Go ahead and do it if you feel like. Eventually you’ll get bored of casual sex and will find something else to do. Earlier this year I was pulling 3 - 5 new girls each month. At some point I got literally tired of fucking around and started putting that energy into a hobby. I feel a lot more productive now.
/r/askTRP16/12/18 03:52 PM
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What's your question? Not getting the point of this post.
/r/askTRP13/12/18 08:57 PM
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I messaged all of them. I had a text script back then I'd just throw in the chat, ignore whatever they said and ask for number. I probably had an actual talk with 20% of that, which is still huge. Granted I got most of those matches while traveling, so by the time we'd actually set up a date I was already gone.
/r/askTRP13/12/18 08:51 PM
0

If she’s taking 2 hours to reply, take 1 hour to reply back. Always wait half the time she’s taking to reply NEVER INVEST MORE THAN THE GIRL IS INVESTED. This is conflicting advice. Waiting half the time she took to reply is investing more, as you're communicating your time is half less valuable than hers.
/r/TheRedPill13/12/18 05:41 PM
1

Tinder matches mean shit. I had over 5k last year but banged slightly over 40. Complete waste of time unless you're a validation man whore.
/r/askTRP13/12/18 05:10 PM
1

Say your actual height. She'll likely shit test you on her reply. AA. If she keeps saying anything else not related to the date leave her on read and next.
/r/askTRP13/12/18 05:08 PM
1

This is not game. Anyone who thinks this would work is straight out retarded.
/r/askTRP13/12/18 05:05 PM
2

nice nails, back in the emo days are we? On paper, this is not bad. You're complimenting but also negging. It can be your delivery, or your looks. Or both. If you're above average looking you shouldn't be having problems like those.
/r/askTRP13/12/18 05:00 PM
2

It's funny how men write thousand word posts asking how to flake whereas any average girl does it almost daily. But I don't blame you. Been there before. Anyway. If you're not down to fuck now, reschedule. Keep her as backup if hot ones on your rotation flake or ghost. Otherwise come up with a lame ass excuse and flake.
/r/askTRP13/12/18 04:49 PM
1

You're the prize. You don't chase by giving out compliments. You chase by leading the interaction and showing higher value. As for what you should text, make a witty comment about your day, or show empathy by saying something that she can relate. The key is to trigger an emotion. Then ask her out.
/r/askTRP13/12/18 04:41 PM
1

Met a girl on Tinder That's what's going on. Tinder is full of BPD types with all sorts of social and emotional issues. I've had plenty of first date lays off Tinder that went exceptionally well but ghosted afterwards. Quoting from her text: Do you mean next Friday? You should have noticed she's clearly curving you here and should have replied whatever you replied except the explaining yourself/date schedule part and left whatever she replied on read. ​
/r/askTRP13/12/18 04:38 PM
1

The best way is to not respond at all.
/r/askTRP13/12/18 04:23 PM
2

These things have to come naturally. You need to have real abundance to not care. You need to be busy in order to take hours to reply.
/r/askTRP13/12/18 04:14 PM
8

Here's what usually happens on OLD. They install the app and hook up with whatever chad comes up first in their inbox. Then chad ghosts her after first date because it was an easy lay. She's now aware she'll get pumped and dumped on Tinder dates moving forward. Starts using the app only for validation. Might flirt with you to keep you hooked but ultimately will curve you when you ask her out. Don't be an orbiter. Next.
/r/askTRP12/12/18 10:29 AM
1

Doesn't matter. Ask her out again and stop hamstering. She's probably an attention hoe anyway.
/r/askTRP12/12/18 10:07 AM
1

I was in a similar position a couple of months ago. At some point I had a rotation of over 5 numbers per day I'd game with a couple of messages and then ask them out. Mostly off dating apps and night game. In reality that would land me one or two dates for everyday of the week. Out of 30 - 40 girls. It's a numbers game. Eventually you'll become desensitized to it and won't give a shit anymore.
/r/askTRP12/12/18 10:05 AM
3

Think as you like, but behave like others.
/r/askTRP12/12/18 09:57 AM
1

In the time it took you to write this you could’ve approached her and invited her to X place at Y time, and you’d know by now what you’re dealing with. Right? The hamstering is strong with this one. ​
/r/askTRP12/12/18 09:54 AM
1

Does she need to prepare? Absolutely. Tell her to do an enema first. This is of utmost importance. Should I do it when she’s drunk so her inhibitions are lower? No. How should I ask her? Tell her you want to fuck her in the ass. If she's down then tell her to prepare. ​
/r/askTRP12/12/18 01:21 AM
1

What do you think bombs hard? Having the stones to approach in real life.
/r/askTRP12/12/18 01:13 AM
1

Last Friday I told a girl that I like her Are you 5? I was just surprised that after a rejection she would reach out to me Women leveraging beta behavior get orbiters! Who would've thunk! Seriously, it sounds like you've never read any TRP material. You should never ask for commitment. It's their job. This situation is likely fucked by now. You could be fucking her on the reg if you didn't come up with this relationship BS. Now you're in orbiterville and probably won't leave. My suggestion? Next…
/r/askTRP12/12/18 01:05 AM
1

"Ok". Next.
/r/askTRP12/12/18 12:51 AM
0

I hold hand with FWBs just fine and they know we're not exclusive. In some settings it might up your social status (assuming she's hot). It's all about establishing limits. It has to be clear to her you're not exclusive. If she gets butt hurt she can walk.
/r/askTRP12/12/18 12:47 AM
1

You don't have to be supper attractive or jacked to pull. That's just incel thinking. In fact, when you're in a shopping mall or a park and take a look around. You'll see plenty of disgusting looking dudes with hot girlfriends. With that in mind, as a lot have pointed out here, it's a numbers game. Most men don't get laid because they don't have the stones to approach.
/r/askTRP09/12/18 04:59 PM
2

Don't overthink Tinder. It's a waste of time. Game in real life. I had over 5 thousand matches in my old profile. I've only managed to bang slightly over 40 of them. Granted that I got mostly of them when I was traveling, but still. It's only effective if you're truly a 9 or a 10 - and you if you're that guy you're not even on Tinder.
/r/askTRP09/12/18 04:48 PM
5

I find these games very immature and would expect from anybody to at least tell the other you're not interested or too busy. Women act upon their emotional state and will play games even if subconsciously. It's their nature. You come off as someone who either doesn't have much experience with women or has just entered the dating market. This happens quite often. It will happen less as you up your SMV, but it still will happen. Eventually you'll get indifferent towards rejection. Would you block …
/r/askTRP09/12/18 04:44 PM
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You don't have to do anything to lay down the groundwork for a next date as long as you demonstrate higher value. And even if you do so, you might get ghosted. This happens quite often, especially if you're getting them off online dating. It could happen for a lot of reasons, and ultimately, thinking about it only leads to hamstering. Don't waste time trying to figure this stuff out. Do some productive shit instead. I'll usually message within a day after the date saying I had a good time. A cou…
/r/askTRP09/12/18 04:03 PM
3

Good point. There has to be a baseline level of empathy for all situations. Even ONS. That's why charisma is one of the facets of game, and an important one. Ever heard of a charismatic asshole? That's the mindset you should have.
/r/askTRP07/12/18 11:35 PM
1

is there a second meaning to these showoffs? Getting attention. Honestly, don't waste time trying to figure this stuff out. It's male hamstering, and ultimately it's useless. ​
/r/askTRP07/12/18 09:40 PM
1

Basically, you should be talking to everyone. Not just girls. Eventually you'll be comfortable talking about anything with anyone, and that's the flexibility you're looking for in terms of game. Being comfortable and confident with your thoughts.
/r/askTRP07/12/18 09:36 PM
1

Obviously. Before swallowing the pill I used to fuck around with fatties. Not worth it. They'll try to drag you down with their misery and will try to commit ASAP. Why is it so hard for you to get an average looking girl?
/r/askTRP07/12/18 09:33 PM
2

Forget Tinder and work on your social skills. Even with the best "Tinder" game you won't bed chicks if you're a retard in real life.
/r/askTRP07/12/18 08:35 PM
16

Her attraction to you is not based on your attention but your value. Once you've established higher value you don't need to "balance" attention.
/r/askTRP07/12/18 08:34 PM
1

If your first meet up was on Sunday she’s not a plate.
/r/askTRP07/12/18 04:37 PM
1

Stop watching porn and fapping. Pop a Viagra if you have to fuck.
/r/askTRP07/12/18 04:35 PM
3

Porn induced erectile dysfunction.
/r/askTRP07/12/18 04:34 PM
2

This whole "earning her number" is BS to keep you hooked as an orbiter. She just wants the attention. If she was down to meet she'd given you her number right away. If you're still willing to go along with this, treat it as a shit test. Agree and amplify. Ignore her answer, drop your number and say you'll go do something else. Ball is in her court.
/r/askTRP06/12/18 02:50 AM
8

Which one sounds more alpha to you? To me it's easy. The first one communicates leadership and outcome independence. The other comes off as if you're asking her a favor.
/r/askTRP06/12/18 02:42 AM
1

They're fine for ONS or even plate material. Nothing more than that though.
/r/TheRedPill06/12/18 02:25 AM
3

Same thing. You don't exist to her. Girls who are down to meet IRL don't come up with this BS unless they're not interested. I've used OLD enough to know. I've literally had lays after 5 - 10 messages and flakes after almost a month of texting. ​
/r/askTRP06/12/18 02:07 AM
1

It's a numbers game, man. You need to work on your outcome independence. You don't approach or chase to convince her to like you. You approach because you're a man and you're leading the interaction. If she flakes, there's literally hundreds of other girls around you. Outcome independence and abundance mentality go hand in hand. Or would you try some convincing? No. There's no such thing as "persistence" in game, as much as some in the PUA community seem to think. If she's interested, she'll mak…
/r/askTRP06/12/18 01:51 AM
6

You don't. Say you prefer to talk in person. If she's still reluctant, next. That's the thing with online dating - more than any other form of interaction, it's a numbers game. You're only pulling 1% - 5% of your matches. 5% would be best case scenario. Women themselves love to admit they use Tinder just for laughing and to get that sweet ego boost. They're interested for the first few seconds and then you're just another pretty face buried in their inbox, as much "high value" you think you are.…
/r/askTRP06/12/18 12:59 AM
2

Contrary to what the majority of PUA community claims, women don't need sex as much as men, because of testosterone, which is directly correlated to libido. From what I've seen and experienced, they'll usually sleep around when they’re in their 18s - 20s, and then they go through a rotation of 1 - 2 year boyfriends until they hit the wall. Branch swinging may happen. With that in mind, no, they don't sleep around as much as PUA or TRP makes them out to.
/r/askTRP05/12/18 01:16 AM
4

Stop wasting time trying to figure this stuff out. It's useless. Grow a pair and approach. Anything else is just mental masturbation.
/r/askTRP05/12/18 01:03 AM
2

Still attractive but the weight is a definite turnoff. If you decide to go the LTR route, it's all downhill from here. Dread might help, but chances are she'll get fatter as time goes by. If you're in LTR territory, you should damn well like her body. I'd vet her for a couple of months. 2 months is too early to think about LTR. She'll eventually bring up "the talk", but just duck it and keep spinning plates on the side until you make up your mind.
/r/askTRP05/12/18 01:00 AM
2

Vetting is for potential LTRs and it's an extensive process. You don't vet some broad you met at the club after the first date as she's no potential LTR, unless you're autistic. With that said, read The Vetting Process by Rollo.
/r/askTRP05/12/18 12:50 AM
3

Lift, game women IRL.
/r/askTRP28/11/18 09:33 PM
13

Your mistake was to set up a date 4 days in advance. Things will definitely get stale. Girls will say yes to keep piling up dates. When the day comes they just go with the biggest chad, and you'll come off needy when you send a confirmation text and she flakes with a lame ass excuse. Anyway, text whenever you want to. Let things flow naturally. You don't text much because you have other shit going on and you don't have time for that. That's the mentality you should be going for. You're a high va…
/r/askTRP28/11/18 12:22 PM
1

It's not just humiliating, it's your first sexual experience. You'll remember it for the rest of your life. It's not even like it's some random drunk ONS. Work on your social skills and game. You should be converting those girls you're kissing into plates.
/r/askTRP28/11/18 01:06 AM
1

I'm talking about OP. He does not strike me as high value as per this post, hence no way pussy is falling into his lap.
/r/askTRP28/11/18 01:02 AM
1

Probably not. Lift, grow a pair and approach. Work on your game.
/r/askTRP27/11/18 05:37 PM
3

It's funny to see how fucked up the sexual market is nowadays. Any 2-3/10 girl can get thirsty males who are way out of their league through dating apps. You'd probably never approach them IRL, but since the 6s and 7s you've matched with couldn't give two shits about going on a date with you, your last resort is to bang the fatty. Can't you just game a regular looking girl IRL? There's plenty of them out there. Or hire a hooker if you have blue balls. Have standards, man.
/r/askTRP27/11/18 05:31 PM
1

Honestly, it sounds to me that you're just waiting for pussy to fall on your lap. That's not happening. You have to approach. Answering your question, yes, you can become depressed due to lack of sex. It's a basic necessity for anyone with a baseline T level.
/r/askTRP27/11/18 05:24 PM
28

I've had so many last minute flakes I can't even bother to think which one was the worst. From a girl who super liked me on Tinder and literally said was counting the days to see me and then flakes an hour before due to a "family emergency", to some who simply did not show up at all even after confirming 20 minutes prior to the date. That's why I don't even bother making plans anymore, nor do I look forward to any upcoming date. I set multiple overlapping dates and pick the hottest who confirms,…
/r/askTRP26/11/18 01:33 AM
3

As I said, just watch him and do the same things he does. Watch his posture, his body language, voice tonality - his overall behavior. And do the same on your approaches moving forward. Practice makes perfect.
/r/askTRP26/11/18 01:20 AM
14

The whole tone of the post makes me think your game is way too neutral and safe whereas your fat friend's is bold and witty, which is what makes pussy wet. Honestly, your best option is just watch him and replicate his moves until you develop a style of your own. You can see him as sort of a mentor. From the way you describe, it sounds to me he's a natural. You're not, and that's fine - as long as you put in the effort to better your social skills and outcome independence.
/r/askTRP26/11/18 12:12 AM
13

You probably come off as a nice guy and also don’t have the looks to make up for your beta traits.
/r/askTRP25/11/18 10:03 PM
2

For how much time would you recommend doing that?
/r/askTRP24/11/18 11:45 PM
5

You shouldn’t. Also don’t be nervous. Keep frame, go to her place and fuck her.
/r/askTRP24/11/18 11:44 PM
10

Especially since girls are a million times hornier than guys. That is a myth and biologically impossible - see Women & Sex by Rollo. I follow her on Instagram and she has over 30K followers. Has to be an attention whore lol. You shouldn't have followed her unless she followed you first. Or you should have sent her a message without following her. What would be the most Alpha thing to do here? You treat her the same way as you would treat anyone else. You're putting her on a pedestal. There shoul…
/r/askTRP24/11/18 09:59 PM
2

but I travel to LA often and Hinge right now is on fire in LA, I get 50 matches before I get off the plane and girls are responding and actually meeting up, not just using it for validation That’s probably one of the only valid uses of a swipe app - it’s a situation where there’s no guilt or history because you’ll be gone soon so it’s take it or leave it for them.
/r/TheRedPill24/11/18 03:23 PM
2

Quit the rapport building bullshit. You offer value as a consequence of being a high value man. It seems that you're a bit unclear as to how sexual dynamics work. Your job is to make the first move and lead the interaction, not to be her jester. If she rejects you, next. Remember, it's a numbers game. You end up bedding a very small fraction of your approaches.
/r/askTRP22/11/18 12:31 PM
2

None. I quitted dating apps a couple of months ago. Best decision I've ever made in terms of game. It forces you to grow a pair and approach in real life, otherwise you won't get pussy. I had over 5 thousand matches in the span of a year, but banged roughly around 40 of them. The rest is either too far, flaky, attention whore types or socially inept.
/r/askTRP22/11/18 02:12 AM
2

Become either rich or famous. Can't see any other way.
/r/askTRP22/11/18 02:04 AM
1

I don't see why you shouldn't - I've had plenty of lays off Instagram. I've had situations where I'd just post a story and went basically straight to logistics with girls who replied. The same can't be said for text as you don't have that kind of interaction. Ultimately, don't become an orbiter - do not watch their stories, like their posts, etc. Social media is clearly a validation and attention machine, but if you limit your usage you can definitely have it as an extra source of pussy.
/r/askTRP22/11/18 02:00 AM
1

the main reason why I get laid is because I’m attractive Women are more superficial than most of the PUA community seems to think. The only trait that trumps looks is status. Other than that, if you have the looks, just don't be retarded and you'll be fine. ​
/r/askTRP21/11/18 06:26 PM
3

There are a few scenarios in which girls consider going on an actual Tinder date: SMV gap: as you've experienced it yourself, 3 - 5 girls love Tinder because they can get cocked by thirsty 6 - 8 males. Lack of social circle: shy or socially awkward girls. Sluts: they need a fix and can't find decent cock available at the moment. Tourists: those who want a flavor of local dick without guilt or history. If you are being flaked by one of these types, then you may want to improve your online game (a…
/r/askTRP21/11/18 11:58 AM
8

Don't go there with the sole objective of getting ass. Your goal is to have fun.
/r/askTRP21/11/18 11:34 AM
1

You're right but you're also wrong. Clubs are a very superficial environment. In terms of game, it's similar to online. It's purely based on looks and social proof. If you have that, then it's a great place to find plates or ONS. If you don't, then don't even waste time with it.
/r/askTRP20/11/18 01:18 PM
6

It's a numbers game. I'm good looking and get ghosted left and right as well.
/r/askTRP20/11/18 01:11 PM
0

Just don't. They'll try to drag you down with their misery and the sex might be traumatizing. Honestly, there's literally thousands of decent looking women around you. Game them instead.
/r/askTRP20/11/18 12:55 PM
1

That's how it works. You'll get flaked left and right. It's a numbers game. Raise your SMV and work on your social skills and game. The more you have that, the less flakes.
/r/askTRP20/11/18 12:52 PM
5

I see two possible scenarios here: You didn't lead the interaction by texting 1 - 2 days after the date to schedule a new date and things got stale. Your text gives off nice guy vibes. You shouldn't have asked her how she's doing and then say you're hoping she's having a good Monday. Pick just one. Either way, she's definitely seen it. Nobody goes 24h without checking their phones anymore. If she answers, wait at least a day before replying and schedule a date. If she doesn't, hard next.
/r/askTRP20/11/18 12:49 PM
6

The advice on here has allowed me overcome beta behaviour and allowed me to reach my potential as a male. So why not continue to follow it? Wait for her to say it. Same principle as waiting for her to ask for commitment. ​
/r/askTRP20/11/18 12:43 PM
1

You should message her what I said in the first comment: I surprisingly had a good time last night. Let’s meet at [insert place] on [insert day and time] Add whatever place is closer to your place. ​
/r/askTRP20/11/18 12:41 PM
3

No, you should not. You should have standards. If you're average, don't fuck anyone below average. If average girls are not fucking you, you're doing something wrong. Work on your game. Hire a hooker if you desperately need to nut.
/r/askTRP20/11/18 12:27 AM
3

For regular dates, 20 minutes at most. I do however think it’s valid to travel long distances as long as your priority is to enjoy things for yourself first, not meeting said person - in fact you should already have multiple dates set up for when you’re there.
/r/askTRP19/11/18 11:20 PM
1

Let’s meet at [insert place] on [insert day and time] That’s the part where you’re asking her for another date.
/r/askTRP19/11/18 11:16 PM
1

you should immediately follow up with plans for another date. That’s the opposite of you should do, as it communicates you’re desperate and she’s your only option. I surprisingly had a good time last night 🙄, I’d like to see you again. This is good, I’d word it a bit differently though: I surprisingly had a good time last night. Let’s meet at [insert place] on [insert day and time]
/r/askTRP19/11/18 08:38 PM
2

Some scenes definitely look like a setup or someone he might have already known. And he's not even that attractive. He has a decent build but a very average face. If you're good looking it's definitely easier to pick up, but you're still prone to rejection, especially if you let your beta side slip. It's like if you had a somewhat lower "beta behavior" threshold.
/r/askTRP19/11/18 10:59 AM
4

You're overthinking Tinder. There's a very high chance you'll never meet in real life - and that's for almost all of your matches moving forward. In fact, if I were you, I wouldn't even consider a "learning experience" on Tinder, as it differs quite a lot from reality. Men are disposable commodities on these apps. Even if you manage to come up with a successful conversation script, chances are you'll get ghosted, or flaked in the last minute of a date. So why bother? You're better off in real li…
/r/askTRP19/11/18 01:30 AM
2

You should lead the interaction by sending the first text after a date. You'll want her hamster to spin for some time but don't wait too much or else things will get stale. Usually the sweet spot is within 1 or 2 days. Say you're going out tonight, text tomorrow night or the morning after that.
/r/askTRP19/11/18 01:06 AM
7

LMR? No such thing. Passivity? Not evident - only aggressiveness. Wining and dining? Not needed. So many men don't get this. If they're interested, they'll make it easy for you. That's why there's no such thing as "persistence" in game. As you said, they're just bearing your ass until someone better comes along, and if that doesn't happen, they'll give you sex every once in a while to keep you hooked. That's why I don't even waste time with chicks who don't respond properly to my moves. One flak…
/r/TheRedPill18/11/18 05:51 PM
2

Have you ever read any RP material? If not, you should. You're clearly putting her on a pedestal. It's simple - if she was interested, she would have at least suggested hanging out some other time. She outright disrespected your time by not even letting you know she wouldn't be able to make it, and you're still texting her back. Don't reply and unfollow her.
/r/askTRP18/11/18 05:29 PM
1

Just let things flow naturally - you can make comments or observations about your surroundings, about the music that's playing or the weird outfit of someone in the bar. Most importantly, you should be flirting and escalating.
/r/askTRP18/11/18 05:18 PM
4

I can see your problem very clearly just reading the title - you treat women as if they were a completely different and mysterious species to interact with. There's no difference between starting a conversation with a woman or a man. You should be starting conversations with everyone in a regular basis. Then it will just flow naturally, regardless if it's a man or woman. You're clearly overthinking this. If you had your conversation skills tight you wouldn't even be thinking about what to say in…
/r/askTRP18/11/18 05:15 PM
1

I don't see why you wouldn't. Approaching should be part of your nature as a man.
/r/askTRP18/11/18 05:07 PM
4

Being FWB does not necessarily mean she's a slut. I've met plenty of open minded girls who are fine just hanging out without commitment and most of them are not sluts. I could see why you'd enter a relationship for intimacy and deep connection, however, it's simply not worth it in the long run. Eventually you'll want other women, and you'll feel you're locked in your relationship. Trust me, I've been in 2 LTRs, and that happened in both of them. The first months you'll feel fine, but after a whi…
/r/askTRP18/11/18 05:00 PM
0

Just don’t. What’s the advantage in commitment for high value men? None. You can do the exact same things you’d do in a LTR with a FWB, minus all the drama and the possibility of her branch swinging (which is high).
/r/askTRP18/11/18 02:39 PM
3

This. You think your value depends on how much pussy you get (both quality and quantity). I was in the same situation a couple of months ago. At some point I had a rotation of 3 - 5 girls I’d fuck every single day. Eventually you’ll get bored of sex as well and will find something else to do. That’s when you’ll find balance - you’ll only chase pussy when you feel like, not because you’re addicted to it. I say continue your sex streak until you realize how pointless it is and find something else …
/r/askTRP18/11/18 11:25 AM
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