henry3case Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
47	The worst decision of my life = ex wife, Best decision of my life = divorce		henry3case	/r/Divorce_Men	09/10/22 07:50 PM
4	Does anyone in Canada pay less than table amount for child support for large income		henry3case	/r/Divorce_Men	04/03/23 01:27 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	Divorce feels unavoidable at this point. This post sounds like I wrote it myself a few years ago. The only difference is I had one kid. I can only say, when I was exactly, exactly in the same situation (wife’s words etc) ultimately I didn’t see any hope. It’s a tragedy. Here’s one perspective. If there’s no resentment from your wife, initiating divorce now (when there’s no resentment) may be the best course of action. This way there’s a path to reconciliation if she changes her mind in the future. Sometimes they don’t realize /apprecia…	/r/Divorce_Men	11/11/22 05:06 PM
3	The worst decision of my life = ex wife, Best decision of my life = divorce My ex had settled into a pattern of always criticizing everything and always being negative. This applied to even marriage therapist. After a few sessions, she would say the therapist is useless/incompetent/terrible, and stop going. After some time, I would find another therapist. Rinse and repeat, until a therapist told me, “if she stated to you that she’s not coming to therapy and stated to you that she’s not interested in putting efforts toward improvements, you have to make a decision.”	/r/Divorce_Men	10/10/22 03:22 PM
2	The worst decision of my life = ex wife, Best decision of my life = divorce It’s terrible for a child of course. This is the biggest reason why I tried to save my marriage for so long. Staying in for the child, when 1) conflict is relatively hidden and 2) there’s a prospect for recovery is a very reasonable decision. But (2) is the key. To stay in for the children, you must believe a realistic chance that it will get better. Otherwise splitting it with some shared parenting agreement is better.	/r/Divorce_Men	10/10/22 02:27 PM
3	The worst decision of my life = ex wife, Best decision of my life = divorce Mistake in my twenties: was in love and blind. Young and foolish. Extremely obvious red flags but simply told myself - no problem I can still make it work because love will triumph (?!). Something like that. I was full of passion and completely devoid of logic. After weekly flights and years of on and off multiple marriage therapists, and stonewalling. After trying my hardest, whenever my ex said no I’m not interested in another marriage therapist, begging her to give another try. My decision fo…	/r/Divorce_Men	10/10/22 01:54 PM
1	Divorce that won't end uhhh.. may I ask how it cost 1M??	/r/Divorce_Men	09/10/22 07:54 PM
5	Divorce that won't end I guess I’m the luckiest. Dragged 2 years but only $10k	/r/Divorce_Men	10/05/22 09:24 AM