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Next time you see one of them, be wearing it. Go, "You like my necklace?" If it's hers, she'll laugh and take it. If it's not hers, play it off like a joke. Pretend it's a necklace you found somewhere in your apartment building. This will only work in your apartment.
/r/seduction21/07/11 08:20 PM
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Turn it on as soon as you hop up out of bed.
/r/seduction15/07/11 06:12 PM
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This is the most solid advice in the thread. Honestly, it's like some of the guys here are delusional. Assuming attraction is just fine, but so is having common sense. edit: Even the headline of this FR. He makes it sound like he seduced this girl to his bed and got some last minute resistance. Sometimes, I don't know about r/seduction... edit 2: This is classic "nice guy" territory. Doing something nice with the expectation of reciprocity, in this case, boneage.
/r/seduction05/07/11 08:28 PM
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I don't care what you do. I was just pointing out an inconsistency in your FR.
/r/seduction22/06/11 10:33 AM
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I strongly believe that the PUA is a misjudged breed. It's not about manipulating people or hurting girls, as some outsiders see us. I wonder what you call this part then. I tell them she was trying to hook up with me, but I don't hook up with girls that have boyfriends. (I'm lying. I totally do.)
/r/seduction21/06/11 11:59 PM
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Wow. Another reason to admire you! Props.
/r/seduction14/06/11 10:19 PM
1

Well put.
/r/seduction13/06/11 11:35 PM
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Nice job, buddy! Hopefully the start of many successful nights to come!
/r/seduction13/06/11 01:37 PM
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What about if he took her out and gamed other chicks in front of her?
/r/seduction12/06/11 08:26 PM
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Christ, you're inspiring.
/r/seduction11/06/11 01:29 AM
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Nice job buddy!
/r/seduction09/06/11 10:42 PM
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No one's happier for you than me that you got some, but where was the game in this? she asked if you wanted to fuck, and you said yes. If anything, she gamed you.
/r/seduction08/06/11 02:15 AM
1

Good hook, but where's the follow through?
/r/seduction07/06/11 09:36 PM
1

Wow. I hope I'm as cool as you are at 40!
/r/seduction07/06/11 09:35 PM
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This isn't a troll, is it?
/r/seduction05/06/11 02:21 AM
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In defense of the pretentious hipster punks, it is a bit strange to photograph people without receiving permission. Sounds like they were startled.
/r/seduction04/06/11 02:04 AM
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I think I'm going to start printing out the seddit info that really resonates with me. Congats buddy, you've been published!
/r/seduction03/06/11 10:02 PM
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Haha, you're super funny! But what the hell did she do to deserve all that funniness. Give it to her a little bit at a time.
/r/seduction03/06/11 03:21 PM
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Elm City? Are you from Elm City, North Carolina or the Elm City aka New Haven, CT?
/r/seduction03/06/11 02:31 PM
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This is a great way to approach it.
/r/seduction01/06/11 09:15 PM
2

If you can't stand your own company, what makes you think anyone else will?
/r/seduction01/06/11 12:21 PM
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What is the meaning of calibration? Can you give me an example of a time you calibrated?
/r/seduction01/06/11 02:50 AM
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I think he's gonna go for a while.
/r/seduction01/06/11 01:46 AM
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Your advice was valid, but you need to communicate your ideas better. Imagine if you came to a friend for help with math homework, and he called you a pussy for not getting it? Wouldn't you get annoyed? Suddenly you're not so receptive to him any more. It's pretty awesome that you're passionate about helping people. That's a pretty rare quality. But as long as you are acerbic, no one will want to listen. I thought your edited comment was the best one in that thread. You have a lot of informative…
/r/seduction01/06/11 01:35 AM
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I read your advice. It wasn't particularly good or helpful. Let me repost it here: OMG GAG!!! Dude, stop being such a pussy. Here's what you need to do, grow a pair and learn how to touch a woman. Here's a amazing primer on the topic: http://www.vindicarlo.com/DiCarlo%20Escalation%20Ladder%20-%20vindicarlo.com.pdf http://www.kinoescalation.com/the-dicarlo-ladder-of-escalation :shakes head: This is why nice guys are seen as such wimps and guttless. Dude, real women want to be ravaged by MEN, not …
/r/seduction31/05/11 08:13 PM
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Ehhh, you're always going to encounter racism. You would be shocked at the number of times a girl has called me a nigger to my face when I'm out. Just use it like a filter though. They weren't even worth your time anyway :).
/r/seduction31/05/11 12:48 AM
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Papyrus is my favorite font. And you are my favorite sedditor.
/r/seduction30/05/11 06:33 PM
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Oh man, that sounds rough. Just think of it this way: if you can get over your fear of these guys, the sky's the limit!
/r/seduction30/05/11 06:30 PM
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Good luck and congratulations for having the courage! If you need any advice or support, we're here for you.
/r/seduction29/05/11 02:40 AM
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I'm actually on my way out the door, but tagging this for later! Chris Farley is hilarious!
/r/seduction28/05/11 04:14 PM
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I never got the whole "touch abdomens" thing.
/r/seduction28/05/11 02:39 AM
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...What?
/r/seduction27/05/11 11:46 AM
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It sounds like you just need to let her cool off. So just give her some fuck off space and then try to re engage her back on the flirtatious level. Try to text her like you guys never fought. Do something flirtatious. Browse r/dae for a text topic and send it to her. They had a good one earlier today that would appeal to a girl. "Hey remember those troll dolls everyone used to have when we were kids?" Or if you want to hook her: "Oh my god, I just saw the cutest thing!" and just never respond ba…
/r/seduction25/05/11 12:53 AM
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The sidebar is a treasure trove of information.
/r/seduction25/05/11 12:38 AM
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He gets downvoted because he has a vested interest in the links (they are from his own website.) That being said, his links are usually on topic and pretty solid all around.
/r/seduction24/05/11 07:36 PM
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Don't fall all over yourself apologizing to her any more. Give her the one apology and move on. Don't move on in the sense that you sever contact with her, but just move back to building up rapport and comfort. What were the sorts of things that you did to build up to a relationship in the first place?
/r/seduction24/05/11 07:33 PM
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You need to make your move. And by "make your move," I mean maneuver yourself into a situation where he bangs you. Does he like to dance? Take him to a club and grind on him all night. Every time he tries to dance with another girl, horn in on it and pull him away. Try to get him to make out with you a little bit. Not a lot but a few minutes. Then, when you guys are leaving, tell him you've got some wine back home and no one to drink it with. Boom. Or, tell him to come over and watch a movie. Ha…
/r/seduction24/05/11 12:29 PM
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That's pretty awesome of you to do that for your friends.
/r/seduction23/05/11 05:47 PM
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Nope. The context was, "Look at this picture of a dude in a dress- it's hilarious, and I hope it gives you a laugh."
/r/seduction23/05/11 12:46 AM
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So you're telling me that the mental image of a guy posting a thread on a female issues subreddit while in a sundress isn't funny to you?
/r/seduction23/05/11 12:36 AM
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My friends call this the binary scale. Every girl is a 1 or a 0.
/r/seduction18/05/11 05:35 PM
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Sounds like she was waving you in.
/r/seduction17/05/11 06:18 PM
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First off, I feel for you man. It sucks to be rejected. However, think about it from her perspective. She kissed you and tried to stay at your house. Basically, the subtext there was, "I'm gonna have sex with you." And you said no. Think about how much it sucks to have your sexual advances rejected. Now multiply that times a million, and that's how badly a girl takes it. She probably cried for hours after you shut her down. You humiliated her pretty badly. But there is a lesson in everything. Mo…
/r/seduction17/05/11 04:32 PM
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This is a joke, right?
/r/seduction16/05/11 07:36 PM
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What kind of guy are you? Are you the guy that makes jokes? Are you known for being the comedian, the serious type, the intellectual, etc.
/r/seduction16/05/11 07:34 PM
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Work on getting the friend to like you. If you do this, the target might warm back up. But if you send this message to the target, she will tell her friend. Her friend will hate you more. How is the friend being bitchy?
/r/seduction15/05/11 06:11 PM
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I missed it, what did she say?
/r/seduction15/05/11 06:08 PM
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To build on what TofuTofu is saying, she might say yes to a FWB while trying to back into a relationship. Just make sure she knows about your other women.
/r/seduction15/05/11 06:03 PM
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I'm going to call it right now- I see a long string of 8/9s in front of you.
/r/seduction15/05/11 03:05 PM
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Nice!
/r/seduction15/05/11 02:48 AM
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I'm with you, man. From what I could tell, the dude with the picture already sealed the deal and was just coming back to close it. Still, I should have gone with my original instinct which was to lightly mock the card. Basically, since the set had a time constraint, there wasn't anything I could do but move on. But my deflation downgraded our encounter from "attraction building session" to "forgettable encounter." I learned to always press my advantage.
/r/seduction15/05/11 02:47 AM
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Why is a job at DD considered low value?
/r/seduction15/05/11 02:44 AM
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Wow... this needs to be required reading for anyone with immigrant parents.
/r/seduction10/05/11 09:37 PM
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Heresmokethis here. Some days I see the Matrix. Some days it feels like the world is laughing at me. Goals for the future: tighten up my inner game. Fix my inner life and my outer life will follow.
/r/seduction10/05/11 12:14 AM
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I think if you fuck her tonight, she will consider it a one off and never let you hit it again.
/r/seduction10/05/11 12:06 AM
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That's a bit sexist. A woman isn't some delicate flower that needs the protection of a gallant night. Girls go out, get fucked up and go looking to get dicked down. Stop treating them like they don't have feelings too. When my friend broke up with his girlfriend, he went out to the bars, got hammered and fucked the shit out of some dumb girl he found. Guess what. His girlfriend went out and did the same thing with some douchey loser. If the person is too drunk to stand or is clearly unconscious,…
/r/seduction10/05/11 12:05 AM
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No... you don't. You tried to escalate, and she blocked you. She said she wanted space. So give it to her. Give her all the space in the world. From now on, you and she are not friends. She doesn't deserve to be your friend any more. If there's a venue that you know she'll be at, avoid it. Or if you go, don't engage her. Don't look at her. Don't even be on the same side of the room as her. If she talks to you, engage her cordially and eject. She knows that you're in her pocket. That's why she is…
/r/seduction09/05/11 06:01 PM
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This is salvageable.
/r/seduction09/05/11 04:23 PM
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Offensive/edgy humor is just fine, but in this case you were being insulting. Take TofuTofu's example: "That's a boring question. Why don't you ask me something interesting like Why is Japanese porn so weird?" Here, he starts a new conversation thread while opening up the topic to sexual themes. He was "edgy/offensive" without being a jerk about it. Worst case scenario, the girl gets grossed out and stops talking to him. Your comeback didn't have any of that. It just sounded stupid. I have never…
/r/seduction09/05/11 12:42 AM
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Well, I make a point of automatically upvoting all FRs, so I will be sure to upvote yours twice!
/r/seduction05/05/11 09:26 PM
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Some perspective: I don't know if you've noticed, but a lot of these so called "field reports" posted are neither helpful nor informative. Let's take a random sampling of all FRs off the front page. By my count, there are ten of them. Pretty good for a seduction board. Actually, pretty great. You get to read and analyze where sedditors are going right and wrong, right? Nope. Instead you get a string of what I call boast posts. They label them as FRs, but they're actually just bragging about thei…
/r/seduction05/05/11 03:23 PM
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Analysis: A FR indicates that you went sarging for him, but you didn't really. You broke one of the biggest rules, which is escalation. It's good that you kinoed him, but where was the escalation? By letting him sleep on the couch after letting him into your apartment, you put the brakes on the whole thing. All of your gaming was very passive. You "let him" grab your ass. You made him "come to you." You made it clear you were interested. Sex is easy for girls. But your actions here are very pass…
/r/seduction29/04/11 02:19 AM
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I'm not seeing the "money" aspect of this.
/r/seduction29/04/11 02:01 AM
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Did you get the date?
/r/seduction28/04/11 07:04 PM
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Size large
/r/seduction28/04/11 07:03 PM
1

Bro... you're overthinking it.
/r/seduction28/04/11 12:21 PM
1

What is this based on?
/r/seduction16/04/11 02:49 AM
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That parrot is doing a good job of initiating kino.
/r/seduction15/04/11 09:15 PM
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I have a litmus test for things I write on the Internet. It's hard because everything is anonymous, so you lose track of how much words can sting. I ask myself, "Could I say this to a person's face?" If the answer is no, I don't write it. Example- my original reply: "You come off like a humongous cunt, that's why they hated it." What you wrote was incredibly rude and did not provide any constructive criticism. Everything about it was incredibly confrontational from your user name down to your ti…
/r/seduction14/04/11 11:39 PM
1

Yeah. Now that I read my comment, I was doing the exact same thing I told him not to do. Ultimately, whatever your stance is on infidelity is completely irrelevant to the discussion. If anything, PUAs have the potential to build off each other much better than two naturals could. But they also have the potential to destroy each other as you found out with the first douche. I have a friend who is just like this. He is a natural. But he has to be the star of the show. If he isn't the social focal …
/r/seduction11/04/11 12:51 AM
1

Can you talk to him without getting weepy? If you can, then just treat him like he's an old friend. If he wants to get coffee or talk, tell him you're meeting a friend for dinner and bounce. Basically, act completely above keel but give him the impression that you don't really have time for him. Where are you guys meeting?
/r/seduction11/04/11 12:30 AM
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I think both of you bring up some fair points. TwiceWise is right when it comes to encountering other PUAs. If you think about it, when two PUAs clash in the field, all sarging goes out the window. They would end up AMOGing the shit out of each other while leaving the girls alone. The women would probably see the clash as a DLV situation and bounce anyway. I see it as a mutually assured destruction type thing. PUthrowaway, your situation on the other hand is more personal. I agree that there are…
/r/seduction11/04/11 12:25 AM
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Well, doing it is not congruent with my own values. Psychologically, it would throw me out of whack. But other people are able to do it. Thanks for your comment though. It shows me that you have absolutely no qualms with it. It supports my idea of congruency. I feel a lot better after reading all these comments.
/r/seduction08/04/11 08:07 PM
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Thanks for posting this. Above anything else, I was just looking for lots of different explanations. The conclusion that I came to is that I was looking at the issue from my perspective only. Do you know what I mean when I say congruency?
/r/seduction08/04/11 06:58 PM
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I've been thinking about it as congruency. For guys like you and me, sleeping with girls in relationships are not congruent with who we are. It's not a judgement thing. I don't think that I am morally superior. I just think that I'm not able to do it. Many of the comments here helped me come to that conclusion.
/r/seduction08/04/11 06:56 PM
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Yeah, but if I was gaming a girl who had a boyfriend, I'd feel extremely guilty and shitty while doing so. So, the reason why it's so complicated is that I can't understand the rationalization behind it. That's why I invited those who do to comment. To be honest, I was hoping for more of the high end users to comment. Instead, it was mostly people like you.
/r/seduction08/04/11 06:54 PM
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True, she does end up setting that precedent. Thinking about it in terms of congruence helps me alot.
/r/seduction08/04/11 06:51 PM
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Thanks for the female perspective. It's interesting. If I was in a situation where I saw someone cheating, I wouldn't care either. I guess that when I think about, it really puts me off. Which is fine. I don't think that cheating aligns with my own values. But if someone else wants to, I could really care less.
/r/seduction08/04/11 06:49 PM
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I didn't make a single comment in that thread. Even by looking at my user page you can see that I have made a total of 2 comments (now 3). You're mistaken.
/r/seduction08/04/11 06:30 PM
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I wasn't moralizing. All I did was ask for the thought process behind it. I specifically said "I don't think that I am right or you are wrong." I made that thread to widen my own horizons on the issue.
/r/seduction08/04/11 02:17 PM
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You could be right OP. But the positives FAR outweigh the negatives here. He basically gives us material free of charge in the form of excellent moderation duties over two subreddits, solid advice, field reports, and a huge kick in the ass to the sidebar. Seriously, look at that sidebar. You don't even need to participate in the community. That sidebar gets you up and going. If he was RSD, then he is an idiot because he is doing everything for free. Still upvoting this thread anyway because it's…
/r/seduction07/04/11 10:47 PM
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