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I mean if I agree to go on a date and don’t voice any complaint then obviously I’m interested, besides I only ever focus on one person and I expect my date to do the same. It only comes off as me not being interested if the guy is expecting immediate gratification, which is just not what I’m willing to give on a first date. If that’s not what he wants that’s completely fine. Works out great for me so far
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 05:41 PM
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Personally I am not willing to make out or have sex on a first date and the reason is really simple. That doesn’t mean I’m not attracted to the guy I’m on a date with, I just don’t feel comfortable enough to do it given it’s our first time meeting in person. And that has no bearing on how passionate a lover I am lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/25 10:02 PM
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How is any of that « lack of logic » though? If even hot guys as you said have issues getting a date if they don’t make the first move than logically it’s because girls just don’t like them enough to disturb their peace and pursue them themselves. Also women all having the same type has always been false but whatever
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/24 09:59 PM
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There’s nothing actually stopping you from dating models with big tits when you think about it, what’s wrong with having the same type than other people? If I like a guy I’m not gonna stop pursuing him because other girls are attracted to him, that’s not my problem. I can still shoot my shot and if he bites then good for me. Worked out great every time and I’ve never ended up being used just for sex so there’s that
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/24 03:39 PM
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No she has a point. I was the one who made the first move in all my relationships and I would never approach a guy I thought was less than « can’t take my eyes off him » good looking. Why waste my time pursing guys that aren’t fully to my taste? Sometimes we weren’t compatible anyway but at least physical attraction was there
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 10:59 AM
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I prefer the optimism of recognising that this is a generality and there will always be people who don’t behave according to what the red pill says and just hold out for one of those people
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 07:42 AM
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Again what details? Genuinely can’t think of anything you’d want to know more about
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 10:56 AM
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What more details would you want? Just ask if you think it’s too vague but I think the post is very clear and explains that you would have more chances meeting people in groups while already in a friend group yourself in a social setting that facilitates interaction and plenty of opportunities to talk and show interest. Then you offer means to contact you and the girl can act on it if interested or not, seems simple enough
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 08:43 AM
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If someone hits on you and there isn’t anything wrong with them but you’re just not feeling it for whatever reason or you’re not in the right headspace you can just decline. Doesn’t mean they « lose »
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 08:29 AM
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« If you’ve had a lot of partners you’ll never end up in a good relationship » is a crazy thing to say and very detached from reality
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 06:06 AM
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And a lot of prospective partners don’t care so we’re not really going anywhere with this
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 09:38 AM
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Nah man for a lot of people having casual sex is just whatever and isn’t viewed as « losing your dignity »
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 08:32 PM
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No I just treat them like every other person I’m not attracted to, so either ignoring them or friendly interactions like a normal person
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 02:10 PM
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that said how would you tackle a topic like adoption and parental surrender no matter the gender? Just like you would any other topic? Bring it up at dinner or something there's nothing complicated about it
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 08:39 AM
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As a woman I don't see any point in being in a relationship with someone if I'm not increasing their self esteem tbh any good girlfriend should uplift you
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 11:33 AM
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Most women don't want "extremely attractive men", most women want men they're attracted to just like everyone else. The problem being that most men aren't attractive to them. What I would consider extremely attractive is completely different from what my friends consider extremely attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 04:26 PM
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It depends entirely on the context. I go to a university that plans students nights out at bars and clubs very often and people hook up all the time because it's implied to be the time and place to do so and girls want to hook up just as much as guys do. Now when I go out with my friends on a regular night out it's really not the same mood and hook ups don't usually happen those nights for my guy friends
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 02:01 PM
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It's not though. I agree with everything else she said but "most" is a little exaggerated, though in my experience men who do want to sleep around do so just as much as women
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 01:54 PM
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Simply put it would just go against my morals and values to pursue another guy while I'm in a relationship, even if the guy is "better" than my current partner in some ways. I see great looking guys all the time at university but it does nothing for me so I don't even think about it All those things sound nice and all but I'm a strong believer in achieving things for yourself so I would feel bad getting presents that I consider too expensive like a car, I hate feeling indebted to someone. I'm th…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 01:41 PM
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To women in general I don't know but to me yes I value it a lot. I don't view my relationship as something that brings me status based on how attractive or rich my partner is though, the positives I get from it are invaluable things like support, intimacy, validation etc Almost majority of the divorces are initiated by women and the main cause cited is due to financial issues/disagreement in managing finances. This actually goes hand in hand with your point of view, why stay with someone who isn…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 09:57 AM
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I don't get why women here have to put out this fake stance where they say they would value any confident guys even if said guys aren't attractive/rich. Having an attractive and rich partner is ideal and everyone with half a mind would agree, yes. Though I don't believe any woman would actually say that they value a guy they didn't find attractive at all. He may not be conventionally attractive but I guarantee you if she values him then he probably is attractive TO HER. It happens pretty often a…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 09:21 AM
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Wow is it really that hard to believe women can love their partner for the person they are? I wouldn't even look twice at another guy lmao Being chivalric/kind is a bonus for sure but it's something some women value a lot for a relationship so it's pretty understandable
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/23 08:47 AM
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I've been in arguments with multiple guys about this because the conclusion is always the same: ok that's sad and all but there's really nothing to be done about it considering you can't force anyone to do those things for men if they don't want to
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 12:28 PM
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As a woman I don't personally think so but from what some girl friends have told me I guess being more vulnerable potentially could be a turn off if the girl is only looking for a one night stand and doesn't want to be involved deeper but in a real relationship I would say in my experience it's actually a necessity for the relationship to be healthy and shouldn't be seen as a weakness
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 11:40 AM
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Do you mean like as a kink? Bc that's just a sexual preference and there's nothing wrong with that of it's consensual. Obviously no one enjoys being stalked or manipulated for real
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 11:33 AM
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There are enough good looking guys that you shouldn't have to work that damn hard The entire point that I'm making is that they aren't good looking to me. And that's ok I can't force myself to find them attractive and I shouldn't have to I'd argue that it does work for most women which is why it's only men who complain about average women not giving them a chance
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 10:03 PM
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I think there is enough evidence that our attractions are malleable that we can jettison this idea that someone is either good looking or not I disagree. If I get to know a guy who looks ok to me and we click really well I can get past the fact I wasn't fawning over his looks in the beginning. However if I find him unattractive we will just both be miserable in the relationship. Women in particular hate personal responsibility of any kind In this context I don't understand what personal responsi…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 08:53 PM
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What can we do about it though? Genuine question bc as a woman who is very aware that I don't find most men attractive I don't see how I could change that. I've been told to lower my standards but I can't exactly force myself to find a man good looking and no physical attraction isn't a great start for a relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/23 04:29 PM
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I'm not sure they're equivalent given that the consequences are very disproportional. "Women evolved to be more selective" means that they will have higher standards. "Men evolved to spread their genes, using violence if need be" is a little more threatening
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 11:50 AM
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Some women do want the friendship though. I've had a guy I was sorta friends with (but we didn't know eachother that well) ask me out, I said no but since we still hung out in the same friend group we ended up being really good friends, going on vacation together and stuff. It really depends on the person
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/20 06:07 PM
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Well obviously I don't deny that men have it much worse than women in case of a divorce but that's not anyone's fault. Many women don't think that's fair to men and genuinely care about equality. In the area I live in women who rely on men for financial support and base their self confidence on social media are seriously looked down upon and despised, even by other women. Court rulings are actually fair and usually end up with 50/50 sharing of belongings and joint custody is equal unless there i…
/r/MGTOW17/12/18 08:53 PM
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I agree with everything you said to be honest but no one is saying that it's fair that men lose everything when they divorce and everything. It's also a matter of the country you live in. In France where I live the mentalities are a lot different than in America for example, from what I've seen all across the internet. Most women here definitely aren't hypergamous (and even if they were I don't really see why it's a problem if they hook up with a lot of guys but anyway) and don't rely on men for…
/r/MGTOW17/12/18 06:38 PM
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Juste like everyone else. Everyone has the potential to be a life ruiner, life in itself is a giant bet, you never know what you're gonna get so why do so many people here act like only women are capable of being malicious and back stabbing ?
/r/MGTOW17/12/18 06:06 PM
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Yeah, why not? It's just a question and I know them it's not like I'm asking a stranger. Idk about everyone else but I know that none of my friends ever had sex outside of their relationships. It's just not really a thing where I'm from
/r/MGTOW17/12/18 05:46 PM
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I know so many more non-hypergamous women than the opposite so I don't know where you find all these women. Literally all my female friends and most of the girls I know in my University (so we're talking about women in their 20's) only had 3-4 boyfriends they had sex with. At most
/r/MGTOW17/12/18 04:56 PM
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When scientists are studying animals they take into account that a single counter observation is enough to invalidate a whole theory. Example: "all swans are white", however, someone saw a black swan, therefore not all swans are white. You can apply that to your theory that "all women are superficial and shallow". Some aren't, therefore not all women are superficial and shallow. Not really that complicated
/r/MGTOW17/12/18 04:46 PM
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Thanks for your advice, however, nothing was underlined so I'm a bit confused, I still don't see where my mistake was
/r/MGTOW17/12/18 04:36 PM
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Maybe I should have mentioned that I'm not a native English speaker but how good would that do? You'd probably get mad anyway. Where did I make a mistake, if you're THAT bothered by it ?
/r/MGTOW17/12/18 04:15 PM
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No it's common sense that you shouldn't put everyone in the same category because some of them have a common trait. So what makes you think that all women are superficial? I really don't know
/r/MGTOW17/12/18 03:38 PM
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Oh ok, I get it. My point still stands though, women like these are just pathetic and delusional people but they're not all that common in my experience. At least not in the younger generations anyway
/r/MGTOW17/12/18 03:34 PM
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Why? Generalisation is never good nor accurate
/r/MGTOW17/12/18 03:27 PM
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The majority? Definitely not. Idk where you find these women dude
/r/MGTOW17/12/18 02:19 PM
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Do you really think every woman is a superficial, shallow golddigger? I feel kinda sorry you only had bad experiences tbh
/r/MGTOW17/12/18 02:11 PM
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You must lead a terribly sad life if you genuinely think that women only date to leech on their partner
/r/MGTOW11/12/18 10:05 AM
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Idk, it's possible that these girls are just terrible people. It's not the norm to be like that at all
/r/MGTOW09/12/18 02:06 PM
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My female best friend loved her boyfriend unconditionally and he just fucked her over by ending it after two years "because she was too invested in the relationship". No one's experience is universal, there are plenty of women who genuinely love their partners and aren't manipulative at all
/r/MGTOW09/12/18 02:03 PM
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