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If you keep having the same issue, the problem is most likely you. You don’t want to hear this….but these are just growing pains. It’s always easier to learn things when you’re young, but you’re learning these skills at 40 so you just have to be patient. Keep going at it and eventually you’ll start to get the hang of it. The key for you is to constantly motivate yourself to try and try again. Not sure this is something you can speedrun my man.
/r/seduction27/01/26 11:46 PM
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Keep talking to her. Boyfriends are irrelevant imo, she’s clearly interested in you. Just keep saying hi and making conversation with her every time you see her. Work out together and get her number
/r/seduction30/12/25 08:54 PM
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Don’t judge
/r/seduction15/12/25 05:35 PM
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One number per 10 approaches I would say. One of every 4 numbers ends up going somewhere
/r/seduction02/12/25 02:49 AM
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I was just in your exact shoes. 37 now and I approach pretty regularly. The key for me was to just rip off the band aid and approach the most beautiful women. I figured the fear of rejection was holding me back so I just forced it. Try to approach in transitive places like Target or the mall to start to avoid any embarrassment. I still get nerves but I just push through and once I’m talking the nerves go away. Also consistency is KEY! If you take a week off you’ll be back to square one again wal…
/r/seduction01/12/25 10:32 PM
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As soon as you check in she’ll be ready bro. Can’t be more obvious. Enjoy.
/r/seduction27/11/25 07:06 PM
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Numbers game is definitely a thing. But I agree you should not just randomly approach women just to approach. I only approach women I’m genuinely attracted to and only persist if they show at least some level of interest.
/r/seduction25/11/25 03:56 PM
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All you need is the occasional fun weekend man. You don’t need to be a club promoter with most women. Rollercoaster only occasionally go full speed downhill.
/r/seduction18/11/25 10:27 PM
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Seems pretty straightforward. No context needed.
/r/seduction16/11/25 03:17 AM
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Bro. Time is a flat circle. Yesterday doesn’t exist, tomorrow doesn’t exist. Change now. Everything is happening in the eternal NOW!
/r/seduction16/11/25 01:11 AM
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Men are expected to do more. Just the way it is. It’s always gonna be on us to make things happen.
/r/seduction14/11/25 06:18 PM
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No one takes too long to respond. Everyone’s glued to their phones…..NEXT!
/r/seduction12/11/25 10:16 PM
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It’s not necessarily about sex. A woman may just want to text or talk on the phone on a regular basis. No need to ever push for sex in my opinion. It should happen naturally
/r/seduction10/11/25 11:57 PM
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Facts. It’s not about sex, just showing interest. One daily text is enough to show she’s interested.
/r/seduction10/11/25 11:56 PM
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Great advice. Also relaxes you which will make you last longer.
/r/seduction10/11/25 09:46 PM
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Squeeze and hold 10 secs, push out 10 secs. I do glute raises with the barbell and bench.
/r/seduction10/11/25 09:44 PM
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For sure. No porn, instagram or any sexual imagery. After one week you’ll feel compelled to talk to pretty women. It’s biology
/r/seduction06/11/25 03:41 PM
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Actual practical tip: get in a good mood beforehand. Listen to music, comedy podcast, go to the gym. Being in a good mental state makes all the difference. Also get social as much as possible. Talk to anyone and everyone. Also don’t jerk off ever. Do those 3 things and approaching will be surprisingly easy.
/r/seduction06/11/25 03:38 PM
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Kegels and glute bridges will go a long way. Go slow and pay attention to her reactions and try to actually enjoy yourself.
/r/seduction06/11/25 03:32 PM
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Honestly just being your self unapologetically. Sounds very woo woo, but people, especially women notice this and are drawn to it for some reason
/r/seduction05/11/25 05:01 PM
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How often do you do approaches? If you’re not doing volume (at least 1 a day) consistently you’ll never truly get comfortable. It has to be a muscle that is constantly being used in my opinion.
/r/seduction05/11/25 03:23 PM
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she would have liked you more also if you had just got her number and continued approaching. that being said, 5 approaches is good and you got the experience. thats what this is all about
/r/seduction05/11/25 03:34 AM
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bruh you cant be posting things this long if you want replies
/r/seduction04/11/25 04:36 AM
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was sitting in traffic and looked to the left and a woman was eyeing me so hard. without rolling down the window i made a phone to my ear signal to ask for her number. she then used her fingers to give me her number.....we went out a few times and it kinda fizzled away but i thought it was cool i got her number in traffic without exchanging any words. definitely a memorable one.
/r/seduction03/11/25 08:11 PM
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37 here. started doing cold approach and will forever kick myself for not starting sooner. that being said, i still feel young and feel that theres lots ahead of me in the dating world.
/r/seduction03/11/25 06:04 PM
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lol you gotta pretend to buy it then put it back before you leave. Or buy and return
/r/seduction29/05/25 02:40 AM
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No, and I’m not saying you’re wrong but you didn’t even address the question that was asked.
/r/seduction09/05/25 11:04 PM
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Did you read the post?
/r/seduction09/05/25 10:26 PM
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lol it’s not that deep. Learn to talk to girls, build yourself, bang a ton a girls, then find a wife. Relax.
/r/seduction06/05/25 07:45 PM
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I figured it would take a few months to get comfortable then up to a year to get good.
/r/seduction28/04/25 12:49 PM
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4 years? Nah I’m way more confident in myself than that lol.
/r/seduction26/04/25 03:41 PM
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Don’t take a break. Just keep going. It sucks. It’s supposed to suck. That’s kinda the point. Eventually you stop caring that it sucks and…it doesn’t suck anymore. Done.
/r/seduction18/04/25 10:34 PM
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Great post. Really resonates with me
/r/seduction11/04/25 01:16 AM
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So you’re the same age as me. How was your journey?
/r/seduction10/04/25 04:45 PM
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You’ll only get better by doing it man. There are no shortcuts. Trust I tried everything and eventually realized that all that matters is approaching. Once you get comfortable approaching and having conversations then you seek advice on the finer details
/r/seduction30/03/25 04:15 AM
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Weed helps keep you in the moment, that’s why you’re sociable. When you’re sober your mind is all over the place. You got to figure out a way to quiet your mind and just speak and act with no filter. Unfortunately the only way I know is just to rip the band aid off and suffer through enough awkward interactions until you stop caring. It’s the only way, there are no shortcuts. Just gotta do it buddy.
/r/seduction30/03/25 04:12 AM
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Really? I hear/see women routinely say they don’t get approached in public.
/r/seduction29/03/25 03:34 PM
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Happened to me too. Can’t explain it. My guess is some girls aren’t used to being approached in real life and truly don’t know how to react when it happens.
/r/seduction28/03/25 07:08 PM
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Flirt with her a couple times first, if she looks excited to see you come in then ask her out in front of everyone. She’ll love it
/r/seduction19/03/25 01:13 AM
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