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Why is this concept so hard for people? If you have money, the base assumption is that you have some level of competence. Competence = confidence since confidence comes from knowing you are fucking good at something. However, that confidence doesn’t always translate over to social confidence because men get in their own heads. Instead of focusing on things you’re competent at, men who are socially inept go about trying to please women. Owning a business usually means you’ve had to deal with peop…
/r/askTRP19/02/19 09:22 PM
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Your hypothetical is dumb because it requires you to presume that your girlfriend, who was getting drunk somewhere without limits, is in a room somewhere with some stranger by herself and didn’t have the presence of mind to ask her friends to watch her, should be automatically believed because she’s a sweet angelic damsel who did nothing wrong. If your girlfriend calls you when she was supposed to be at work but somehow got kidnapped and ended up in a strangers room, you fucking run straight to …
/r/askTRP17/02/19 01:22 AM
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Time to Gouge your eyeballs out. It’s the only way to prevent your toxic masculinity.
/r/PussyPassDenied23/12/18 11:06 AM
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Brah. I had a legal ethics class in law school where a panel of women attorneys came in to talk about how compliments are tantamount to sexual assault, and the only guy who spoke up was a gay dude who immediately became public enemy no. 1 to women everywhere because he “doesn’t know what it’s like to be pressured by men.” Irony at its fullest. It was a class of 60+. Only one dude spoke up the entire time. I can’t wait to get out of here.
/r/PussyPassDenied13/12/18 07:23 AM
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People laughed at him when he paid for a whore. Jokes on them, he was actually investing. Over 100% ROI is what traders dream of.
/r/PussyPassDenied13/12/18 07:14 AM
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Bro. You didn’t just apologize, you wrote her an apology letter you’ve dug yourself a massive legal hole. Best to just shut up and stop folding or talking about it. Period. Your story is: she commented on your height, you commented on her height. It’s unfortunate she took it the wrong way and it was never your intention to insult her. That’s it.
/r/askTRP03/12/18 07:00 AM
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I believe this question is better suited to the experts in trpwomen. The only thing I would note is that the general sense of how you feel so far from you is rather negative and could be an issue down the line. It sounds like you would, in the future, try to control your mans thoughts. Not on purpose, but if you feel terrible because you’re going around thinking your man fantasizes about women all the time, it’s going to reflect in your subconscious behavior. Thoughts and actions are completely …
/r/RedPillWomen29/10/18 02:00 AM
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No. At the moment, statistically the gates against it are greater than the incentive. Just because we fantasize, doesn’t mean the girl we’re with isn’t cute enough or satisfies us enough for us to say “nah, not worth it.” Additionally, statistics does not mean your individual choices don’t affect it. Remember that statistics account for all the shitty choices that dumb women make. With the knowledge in r/trpwomen, you’re able to skew those statistics heavily in your favor. Relationships are not …
/r/RedPillWomen29/10/18 01:13 AM
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No problem. What you said and I said both hold true. Men are more instinctively driven to spread their seeds, so to speak. Women have a biological imperative to seek the best long term mate. The defining factor here is opportunity. In a perfect world where there are no repercussions, men would fuck every hot women he could. He doesn’t care about maintaining a great fuck with one women. Trp recognizes this. What stops him from doing just that is opportunity and cost. Mens drive to spread and wome…
/r/RedPillWomen29/10/18 12:59 AM
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That depends on a guys status, background, and opportunity. Men in who derive their status from fame, fast money etc (Hollywood) are more likely to cheat. Men who derive their status from knowledge/slow money (doctors/lawyers) are less likely. The main determining factors for cheating is opportunity and cost. Younger women cheat more, older men cheat more. It’s directly related to SMV. Women cheat because they have TONS of opportunities to do so. You say every guy at work eventually gets hit on?…
/r/RedPillWomen28/10/18 11:57 PM
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I’m finishing law school. I’m currently working for the public defender, have worked for personal injury and bankruptcy attorneys and am slated to work at my city attorney’s office. I give zero fucks about a woman’s education, and am actually turned off by women who talk about how smart they are or try to list their accomplishments. As a friend I say “wow that’s amazing”, but I actually avoid dating any girls at my law school. In fact, the girl I’ve been meshing Best with is the pretty legal sec…
/r/RedPillWomen19/09/18 04:27 AM
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First thing's first: What do you define as hypergamy? Because the redpill definition is when one dates or swings to another of a higher class or social standing than themselves. When men leave their wives or LTR's for another women its usually because the other woman is PHYSICALLY HOTTER. It has ZERO to do with their social or class standing. Its not just younger women, men will leave ugly/fat women for hotter women period; irregardless of any other determining factor. Your first mistake was inc…
/r/RedPillWomen17/09/18 09:50 AM
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“I want you, tell me what you want me to do to you” An employee going to his boss and asking for more work doesn’t come off as demanding or overstepping his bounds. Same as a wife going to her husband and asking for sex is almost never going to do anything but make him feel incredibly desired. Grabbing him and pushing him into the bed while forcing his hands behind his back, that’s something that might not jive with some men (many still will go with it) because being forceful and controlling is …
/r/RedPillWomen14/09/18 12:54 PM
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Do you know then why the male suicide rates are higher? Is it because of the onus and responsibility placed on men, so that despite women being more predisposed to depression, men are more likely to suffer extreme cases leading to suicide?
/r/askTRP12/09/18 11:20 PM
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Submissive is only “bad” because this feminist strong independent woman movement has portrayed it as such. Soldiers are submissive to their officers. Employees are submissive to their bosses Children are submissive to their parents. In none of these relationships should abuse be tolerated, nor does it means they deserve no respect. It just mean there’s someone who leads and someone who follows. Women here follow nature rather than fight it, and just because you’re a little broken and unable to g…
/r/RedPillWomen09/09/18 11:13 AM
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Now imagine when we start letting m2f trans people compete in women’s sports “becuz muh equality”. Feelings over logic. Equality over results.
/r/TheRedPill09/09/18 10:01 AM
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Snapchat? Nah. I have a few rules when I do online dating. 1) 5 messages max. If I’ve sent five messages, 6 or 7 is a number close. If not; drop it. 2) I never ask for her number. “Give me your number.” Here’s some examples. https://imgur.com/a/UttmWnh 3) don’t accept alternatives. If I ask for a number I expect a number. If a girl isn’t really into you you’re increasing her chances of flaking. “But how do you know? What if it’s different?” If you wanna shoot for that 20% then fine. I don’t and …
/r/askTRP06/09/18 08:19 AM
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It highlights one point that your dad knew all too well though; people need to make their own mistakes. If your dad had FORCED your sister apart, they would've adopted a Romeo-Julet story (you know, the two idiots that decided to die for dumb reasons), and blamed your dad for their failures. If he had offered nothing more than platitudes, she might've turned to him and said "why didn't you stop me, this is all your fault". He found an amazing way to go about it. She can't blame him, and now has …
/r/RedPillWomen05/09/18 09:05 PM
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Wtf. Your Dad's wisdom was amazing. Offered an incentive that was neither pushy nor insignificant enough to pass over. Thank you, i'm going to take a page from his book for my future kids.
/r/RedPillWomen05/09/18 08:25 PM
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Its worse because she admits she REJECTED his initial offer of commitment. I hope OP reads your comment and really soaks it in. Of course someone's going to not treat it like a potential relationship after you've rejected them once. Does she expect him to stick around forever until she feels 100% ready?
/r/RedPillWomen01/09/18 05:13 AM
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If you've read both sides, this was deep.
/r/RedPillWomen01/09/18 05:10 AM
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Haha. You’ve already been outed as a liar and the only person who thinks your brand of dumb humor is funny is you. Goodluck finding that job though. With your personality it’s gonna be rough. You’re more disrespectful to women than anyone here with your “jokes”. I understand that you have a lot of free time being unemployed but hopefully you at least get a little better at trolling. I think there’s a sub that can show you how to maximize your downvotes; when you’re lying try to make the lies a l…
/r/askTRP29/08/18 12:47 AM
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Just a heads up, don’t bother with this one. I responded to another guy here; This guy majored in “international relations” and is 40k in debt struggling to look for a job. He’s a bad troll, he’s a shitty person who reads and purports to understand trp yet at the same time is mad because his life is shit so he funnels the anger here and calls it mysogonistic one second then professes alpha the next. He not a troll, he’s just too stupid to know that he’s an idiot. He lies about how much he makes …
/r/askTRP28/08/18 11:49 PM
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Lolol. The guy majored in “international relations” and is 40k in debt struggling to look for a job. He’s a bad troll, he’s a shitty person who reads and purports to understand trp yet at the same time is mad because his life is shit so he funnels the anger here and calls it mysogonistic one second then professes alpha the next. He not a troll, he’s just too stupid to know that he’s an idiot. He won’t argue or offer counterpoints and evidence to you; he’s just going to scream that Hes right beca…
/r/askTRP28/08/18 11:47 PM
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yes but what about the toxic carnivorism you're committing.
/r/TheRedPill27/08/18 03:36 PM
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Even better; let the deer teach you why your toxic carnivorism is damaging to the human race.
/r/TheRedPill26/08/18 05:56 PM
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Makes sense. Let a woman teach you how to be a man... lol. While we're at it, lets have white people teach black people how to be proper blacks. Maybe asians can teach whites how to act like a family loving white person. maybe transgenders can show straight people how to be good cis individuals. ​ Every one of the above sentences is ridiculous, but somehow... its reality.
/r/TheRedPill26/08/18 05:09 PM
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When a woman cheats it’s the mans fault for not providing what she needed. When a man cheats it’s his fault for being such a horny immoral pig. Blue pill and feminism preach this, so what is a blue pill man supposed to do? If he blames the woman her friends back her up and they hamster her into the victim because she was “just having fun” So you attack the dude. Because it’s easier to blame someone else that accept your own failing.
/r/TheRedPill22/08/18 08:13 AM
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Many people have said this already but this is important. PRACTICE. I’ll give you practical applicable advice instead of theory: 1) start small. Talk to one stranger. Pick ANYTHING about them. My first conscious step was talking to a random girl who wasn’t pretty at all, but she had a pair of headphones I liked. I did this once a day. Everyday. One stranger. 2) DONT limit yourself to talking to girls. Rule number one apples to ANYONE. I talked to the sweet grandma at the grocery store. The Mexic…
/r/askTRP18/07/18 06:41 PM
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Ive been broken up with 4 times. 2 times when I was younger I begged for them back. I flipped out. I told them I’d do anything. Never heard from them again. 2 times I said ok sure. They asked to be friends. I said no. Broke off contact. Both of them wanted me back after a month. The first one I rejected. The second one was hot as fuck so when she contacted me I said ok, let’s go have a drink. She got buzzed and we fucked like animals. Squirted for the first time in her life. I ended things with …
/r/askTRP18/07/18 05:32 AM
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Honestly it seems as though there are problems on both fronts. RPW does preach submissive behavior so the notion that you hold onto a negative emotion just to "not seem like a pushover" is pretty counter-productive. Sure you should definitely stand your ground when there's an issue you truly believe in or there's something that needs to change, but this should be done with a calm mindset, not an emotional tantrum. It seems like you're quite emotional, which is actually completely ok for a woman.…
/r/RedPillWomen17/07/18 06:45 PM
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Wtf..?
/r/askTRP09/07/18 05:57 PM
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You’re being extremely disingenuous and completely missing the point. Once again, I’ll reiterate that there are women who date hot men who are lower status but the main point here is that it’s less common because for women, social status/wealth/class is a huge factor in their determination of a mans attractiveness. They don’t just filter for ltrs, a mans perceived social/class status is actually factored into whether a woman will even talk to/sleep with a man. https://www.ibtimes.co.uk/women-fin…
/r/askTRP09/07/18 08:00 AM
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I’m not sure why you’re trying to force the concept of hypergamy into a small specific niche that only applies to yourself and a few others. This is like saying women are hypogamous because you know a female Fortune 500 ceo who only dated down and went purely for hunky guys. It’s an outlier. Additionally you’re not even truly hypergamous. You still date women lower than you and their attractiveness isn’t defined by their social status. You just happen to be as the other posted said “opportunisti…
/r/askTRP08/07/18 10:50 PM
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You misunderstand the concept of hypergamy. It’s dating up socially. It’s valuing someone for what they provide, how popular they are, their wealth, their power. You’re not hypergamous. If that 9.5 was from a third wild country without a penny to her name and not a single friend, you’d still fuck. You might even have the urge to take care of her and protect her even if she never lifted a finger or never did any work. Our desire is almost purely superficial. We’re not hypergamous because we don’t…
/r/askTRP07/07/18 09:47 AM
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Uhhh. Your idea of what hypergamous means is completely off. You then incorrectly apply it to the loyalty concept with your misunderstanding. Hypergamy is the nature of dating up socially. When you date younger hotter women it’s not hypergamy, since you don’t really care about her social status or class at all. She could be a broke and live out of her car but if she were gorgeous you’d still bang. It’s about looks and maybe a fraction personality. Whatever you think hypergamy is, is completely o…
/r/askTRP07/07/18 09:36 AM
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Its not the competence thing. Men and women may as well be equally competent in some things. It’s more that men are statistically less likely to require parental leave, more likely to put in longer hours, and be more aggressive. There are women who are the exception of course, but generally and statistically speaking, though women aren’t less competent per Se, they pose higher risk for the factors listed above, and prefer social equilibrium and well being over results and aggressive pushing.
/r/TheRedPill28/06/18 03:52 AM
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Lol. you're both blind and stupid! I literally listed the arguments as 1 2 and 3. I topped it with the insults, but the arguments are still there. So you're gay? that doesn't change the fact that you're trying to give her a pass because she has a vagina. Look i get it. You're too stupid and wrong to address the argument that's literally listed as 1 (open display is illegal) 2 (she was being uncooperative) and 3 (reasonable people dont pack alchohol not to drink), but if you wanna keep focusing o…
/r/PussyPassDenied16/06/18 04:54 AM
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you're too stupid to understand the difference between the argument (that she deserved what she got) and me simply insulting you for whiteknighting. Got it.
/r/PussyPassDenied16/06/18 04:41 AM
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The argument wasn’t that you’d sleep with her. It was that you’re too biased too see that she was being a bitch and her actions were deserving of the arrest. You painted her as the victim because she has a vagina. The rest were offhand insults for you being so skewed in your viewpoint just because she has boobs. I understand that you were too stupid to grab the root of the issue though. Let me know if you need me to simplify it for ya.
/r/PussyPassDenied15/06/18 09:13 PM
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You’re white knighting pretty hard right now. I means she’s cute bro and I understand it gets your tingles going but let’s be objective here. 1) open display is illegal especially in a public beach and that was the infraction. He was actually recorded stating he’s just going to pour it out and only give her a warning but SHE fucked that up. 2) She was being a total uncooperative bitch. Being a woman she thinks she’s untouchable and can fight someone twice her size. When reality hits THEN she she…
/r/PussyPassDenied15/06/18 07:17 PM
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Do what you want. She'll follow your frame. The moment you start doing things "for her" you'll start become her bitch, even if its slowly and in baby steps. Whats the play? No play here, just call her when you feel like it. IF you're new and inexperienced, just default to text/call only for logistics. Whatever you do, DONT call her just because she asked for it. She doesn't deserve your attention, she earns it. Girls are funny in that their strong feels will dissipate the moment the need is met.…
/r/askTRP14/06/18 06:49 PM
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Thanks. I was making a bigger deal out of it than I should have, but the objective points of view helped me not blow it up. I just saw her, hugged and said "disregard whatever i texted when i was drunk." We laughed about it. In the moment she was probably actually offended, but sometimes even I need to be reminded that making a big deal out of it makes it a worse problem. Frame is important. If its not a big deal to you, she'll usually follow that frame.
/r/askTRP14/06/18 06:29 PM
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They need time to think about whether or not they found the guy attractive. They were too drunk to remember their poor decisions They're trying to figure out if they want to retroactively withdraw consent because they had a bad time. Lots of silly little reasons nowadays.. There are real rapes, and that should never be condoned, but nowadays its more about "how do i feeeel about it"
/r/askTRP14/06/18 06:24 PM
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Hard? Important, sure. But difficult? I'm trying to get an objective viewpoint from someone who's not in the box. The woman aspect isn't the difficult part, its the i'm in law school repercussions. The girl herself isn't important, neither is her friendship, i'm just more concerned with what happens professionally. Outside of law school I dont give a fuck because picking up and dropping girls is as easy as blocking that number. This is just a long term thing. Call me a bitch, hit me with insults…
/r/askTRP14/06/18 05:09 AM
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Thanks for the response. I hate apologizing, it it might get he a scenario that calls for a quick one
/r/askTRP14/06/18 03:47 AM
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Thanks for the input. I don’t actually have any attraction or want to go anywhere with this girl. I don’t actually care what she thinks, but am very concerned with exactly that sexual harassment scenario. I have zero attraction for this girl. First and foremost is the repercussions with my responses going forward and my reputation. With girls I’m actually attracted to agree & amplify and she doesn’t like it drop her like a rock.
/r/askTRP14/06/18 03:36 AM
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That’s a lot of words, but I understand the sentiment. With any other girl I actually wouldn’t care, I’d shrug it off and agree & amplify. Goes double for a girl I’m sexually attracted to, if she didn’t like it I’d drop her like a rock. Ironically enough it’s a girl I have zero attraction for, but she’s in my classes. The only caveat is that in law school your reputation is important, and I agree that it makes me sound like a loser bitch, but it might have to make that sacrifice to ensure I don’…
/r/askTRP14/06/18 03:31 AM
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Why not both?!
/r/askTRP23/05/18 04:25 AM
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I agree with most of your points except for the not the best time to be a man part. Don’t fall into that trap. Sure it might be a little more retarded in terms of what women expect but remember that in these days most men have a choice. Decades and centuries ago the situation you were born into trapped you there. These days the bar might be a little higher but we have SO many opportunities. Don’t adopt that grass is greener mentality. Because so many men have bought into that fantasy feminist bs…
/r/askTRP23/05/18 04:21 AM
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Doesn’t matter. Ask her to hang out ASAP, avoiding scheduling weeks down the line nd especially avoid saying “sometime” She couldn’t hang and suggested an alternate day or the first available weekend. Is she into you? Maybe, maybe not ya doofus, but she doesn’t dislike you and isn’t creeped out by you yet. Just ask her out, make her say yes or no to a definite date and let your actions talk in person. Less texting more kino.
/r/askTRP22/05/18 10:42 AM
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Stay away from purely informational questions. “What do you do?” Followed by “oh ok, who’s in your family?” And “what’s your favorite color?” Etc. If I do ask something informational I follow with a feeling question. “What do you do?” “Accounting” “woow, that sounds kinda boring, how do you cope with all those numbers?” Or “you don’t get bored?” Say things that evoke emotional responses, good or bad. “How do you feel about that,” “no way, that must be so exciting isn’t it?” The problem people ha…
/r/askTRP13/05/18 05:41 PM
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Start saying the first dumb thing that comes to mind if you can’t think of the object. Get rid of the filler words and just use the silence. You said you use the pauses, what’s wrong with just letting it be silence? Honestly sometimes it’s about owning what you do ad doing it with confidence. Example that’s quite different but the same concept applies: The most enlightening thing I’ve heard is how dirty I am. I’ve had girls say I am the most inappropriate friend they have, but they can’t help bu…
/r/askTRP13/05/18 05:23 PM
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You want the best of all worlds and are trying to pick the best of what one man has (Sam) and shove it onto another (Oliver) while ignoring the fact that it’s possible that Oliver is attractive because of his perceived imperfections. Evaluate each guy in a vacuum and not against each other. That’s unfair and highly selfish of you. Selfishness isn’t a bad thing, but just to highlight the self centeredness and play devils advocate, nowhere in any of this have you mentioned what you have to offer o…
/r/RedPillWomen08/05/18 07:14 PM
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You’re amazing. She’s terrible. She’s exactly the entitled princess which sjws and feminists thrive on. She wants everything but gives nothing. In all honesty man you’re doing too much for her, and that’s going to make it worse. You’re literally going to read entire volumes because she’s obese lazy and doesn’t want to do the work herself. This isn’t going to work long term. Let her know firmly and in no uncertain terms that you’re 100% there for her but you will not lift a finger until she’s com…
/r/RedPillWomen01/05/18 10:11 PM
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Your response and attitude overall is very conducive to learning. I commend you for that. With that being said, What is baseline to you? What constitutes “a bit more?” Attraction is shallow. This goes for both sexes. Women base it off what they perceive as a mans worth through his actions and masculine presence. But they don’t see the insecurity and the past that he used to have. Men base it off a woman’s beauty and feminine energy. He doesn’t see her neuroticism or project what she’ll be like i…
/r/RedPillWomen01/05/18 06:17 AM
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You’re ignoring the attraction dynamic difference between men and women completely. You want to be loved for being you and all of these lovey dovey ideals. It’s like communism, it doesn’t work on a practical level. Men care about looks first and foremost. Anything else is a bonus. Men chase sex and short term ideals. Women are the ones that care about personality and drive and ambition etc. women chase commitment and long term ideals. There are exceptions but guys really don’t care about your ho…
/r/RedPillWomen30/04/18 03:13 PM
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Well. Redpill advocates no marriage. For different reasons though
/r/TheRedPill27/04/18 11:46 PM
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Turns out she did text me back later. Last text was me being a little antsy and following it up with something semi-normal because i'm a bitch and was worried it was too forward. Logistically it was because part of law school is getting outlines for the class is a good way to get ahead, and I try to get as many as i can for the class and that teacher. Still the main point is i'm still calibrating to see whats too much. I appreciate your comment, and would love any further insight you have. Curre…
/r/askTRP24/04/18 11:16 PM
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Still goin? 29 here.
/r/askTRP24/04/18 08:16 PM
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Bro. you seem pretty insecure and needy, yet you profess to be an alpha. People dont respond in like 20 minutes and you're already sending them a second comment asking them for more. Read the sidebar. The WHOLE sidebar. i'll give you one last piece of advice since you're too lazy and conceited to get it. Condescending and sarcastic dont work over text. Both of those requires confident body language or at least establishing from PRIOR INTERACTIONS that you're a higher status guy that can get away…
/r/askTRP21/04/18 09:18 PM
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And yet you’re here asking about what you’re doing wrong. The irony. If you truly believe that you wouldn’t doubt it. And if you didn’t doubt it you wouldn’t care how she responds and just move onto the next one. You expect people to respond the way you want them to respond instead of throwing it out there and being unphased by what comes your way. Again you’re not as good as you think you are, and you’re more insecure than you pretend not to be. Goodluck, you have a lot of work to do.
/r/askTRP21/04/18 08:45 PM
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Holy fuck. You scream of entitlement, insecurity and are just plain condescending. A) you have this idea of how people should be responding and when they don’t do it the way you envision its “their fault”. B) people here are telling you what’s wrong, to actually read all of the sidebar and you want a specific quick fix “just tell me what to do”. When people say what you don’t like to hear you put on your condescending face with phrases like “obviously, but please tell me exactly what to do”. You…
/r/askTRP21/04/18 08:25 PM
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You ARE just another client on her list. I talk to everyone. I also ask people questions about their life that I really don’t care about 10 minutes later but in the moment it’s interesting and good practice to learn about new people. Holy balls.
/r/askTRP19/04/18 04:58 PM
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Your post triggers my fawn response
/r/TheRedPill19/04/18 04:52 PM
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What feedback? you provided no details about any of the interactions. You're literally just talking to yourself, then following with self justifications.
/r/askTRP18/04/18 07:05 AM
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wut. this sounds like you talking to yourself and then saying "its ok me" after each line.
/r/askTRP18/04/18 06:22 AM
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Bro... you’re a walking contradiction. You’re not confident at all. You say you are but then you’re asking a bunch of questions in the vein of: “do you think she likes me?” And can’t even tell your iois from random interactions. You make tons of excuses for not asking girls out then say you assume every girl wants to fuck you. You’re pedestaling some random chick and unsure of what to do. You even feel awkward and she probably seems annoyed because of YOU projecting that on her. Even your questi…
/r/askTRP17/04/18 01:57 PM
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Easy has different meanings in different contexts. In this context I mean easy to obtain, as opposed to easy to deal with, or easy to like. Doesn't mean high quality sex either. I'm throwing in every low quality man that wants to put his wanger in your hoohah in this mix. Just like these days food is easy to get. two bucks gets you a greasy delicious cheeseburger that gives you the same emotional withdrawal that bad sex does. This is why women are and should be selective with their sex. they hav…
/r/RedPillWomen12/04/18 05:33 PM
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Sex is easy for a woman, Commitment is not. Commitment is easy for a man, sex is not. Plates start out that way but slowly get upgraded. A woman who is more feminine and submissive gets upgraded into commitment faster. Just like a man who is masculine gets sex faster. Men have to show they deserve sex. They do this by showing their masculine qualities of leadership, strength, emotional stability... funnily enough it’s “commitment material” guys who are weak, emotional will tend to mess up the re…
/r/RedPillWomen12/04/18 04:37 PM
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Wtf. No
/r/askTRP09/04/18 05:35 AM
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Bro. If you think you know so much then this is the wrong place to go. Your attitude is indicative of someone who’s still insecure about trp methods and “plugged in” so to speak. You want an answer that’s nice and proper and doesn’t hurt your feelings. That doesn’t happen here. Especially when it’s obvious you haven’t fully read and understood the sidebar. You’re getting offended at the good advice people are giving you because they aren’t saying it in a way that’s nice. This game you’re playing…
/r/askTRP09/04/18 01:26 AM
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Stop giving a fuck if other people can see. You should’ve just sat next to her. The only time you shouldn’t do that is when it’s not physically possible (table is tiny and only has room for one on a side. I always sit right next to a girl and start touching asap. I’ll have an excuse to compare hand sizes, grab her hand and look at her nails. Touch her arm as I’m talking. 30 minutes or so in I’ll start placing my hand on her thigh and just leave it there. In the past 4 first dates none of them ha…
/r/askTRP08/04/18 07:21 PM
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I do thank you for your time. I definitely will be calibrating as I apply it to practical situations (going on dates), I just like having a general guideline to consider beforehand. Conversation kino flow naturally so I can really focus on the push pull aspect of it now. Shoot my post an upvote for visibility! Thanks again
/r/askTRP07/04/18 10:37 AM
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Oh? well, everyone in the sense that i'm indiscriminate about the friends i make. Old/young/guy/girl' Its more that i'm friendly and comfortable enough to strike up a conversation with anyone at all, and i fully believe you shouldn't only talk to pretty girls. To me showing interest/flirting is different than just making conversation. Still.. i'm mostly having trouble with gauging when the kino is "too much" if at all.
/r/askTRP07/04/18 10:29 AM
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The thing is unless i'm REALLY not able to read her body properly, I dont get the sense that they're uncomfortable. They hang onto my hand. They don't say anything, they dont recoil/move back. Body language is relaxed. Conversation continues to flow freely while kino is happening.
/r/askTRP07/04/18 10:16 AM
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Interesting. My dread game is pretty direct, instead of something suggested or hinting at. I'll do things like: if i get a text from a girl, i'll show her the text, (which is flirty) and they generally know i date around. i talk to EVERYONE. Even during the date. The cashier. The interesting dessert that girl ordered at the next table to us. Make fun of the waitress. people respond well and reciprocate. I'm having trouble gauging when my kino is "too much". its never awkward, I just keep it cons…
/r/askTRP07/04/18 10:14 AM
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My friend. It’s not about her partner count. It’s not about your insecurities with the amount of men she’s slept with. It’s about the way she went about hiding it like it was “no big deal” followed by her lack of apology for hiding it. Did she apologize and was she sincere about not revealing it? From your description it sounds like she was more sorry she was caught. If a girls upfront about it before securing the commitment then sure I’ll make the decision before a contract is made. If it was t…
/r/askTRP02/04/18 12:29 AM
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You’re high on motivation right now. switch to discipline later when the high has worn off and don’t forget this feeling
/r/TheRedPill31/03/18 04:40 PM
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Im Asian and I do self deprecating humor in regards to the whole Asian penis thing all the time. I say things like “that’s huge...like, the opposite of my penis.” If you own it and laugh at it it takes the power away from others to put you down for it. I’ve only had a girl say I don’t date Asian guys to me once, and I just cocked my head to the side and asked “how come?” She gave me a bs answer and I laughed and told her that I’d introduce her to some nerdy white dudes if it doesn’t work out. Th…
/r/askTRP31/03/18 09:38 AM
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Eh? I actually have not had an issue with my sexual jokes at all. Ive done it with strangers I’ve just met, girls with boyfriends, most of my first dates. I can’t actually think of a time where it was awkward or didn’t work out. It’s not really about what you say but how you say it. Be straightforward but playful.
/r/askTRP31/03/18 09:26 AM
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Honesty doesn’t mean awkward. I make dirty comments that I am 100% serious about but my phrasing and body language give off the air of it being a joke. Girls like plausible deniability. Even if they know and you know it’s the truth, as long as they can hamster that it was a joke they’re ok with it. A good example is one of my friends that I study with. She has a boyfriend. I forget the context but she essentially said that she like my honesty and straightforwardness. I said, “of course I’m hones…
/r/askTRP31/03/18 09:19 AM
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Ignore them. Give them some awkward silence and continue talking to whoever you were talking to. Don’t even grace them with a response and be completely unresponsive to what they say. Best example was when I was out with some friends while we were bar hopping. One of my buddies had brought his friend who wasn’t too socially calibrated but definitely tried to play the one up game with big bad alpha. We’ll call him billy. I was talking with one of the girls in the group and she was telling me how …
/r/askTRP31/03/18 08:59 AM
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You haven’t read the sidebar for shit. If you had you would know that trp tells you to never ask “do you like me” and “are you even into me?” Yet when people tell you to read the sidebar you act like you know better. READ ALL OF IT. If you had you would already know the answer to your questions. Stop lying to yourself, you already failed trying to bullshit us. You scream of insecurity. To further compound the issue you are looking for the answer YOU WANT not the correct answer. You’re so far in …
/r/askTRP31/03/18 08:27 AM
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Holy crap. Literally everyone in this comment is saying you’re blind and being stupid. When everyone else is crazy, it’s usually yourself that’s the crazy one. Get your head out of your ass and stop making excuses. You came here for advice. When people give you the advice you don’t wanna hear you plug your ears and say “nuh uh you dont understand the full story.” You’re in the box and you’re being delusional. Goodluck, you’re neck deep in beta territory.
/r/askTRP31/03/18 08:15 AM
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You’re reading way too much into this. Wtf dude. To preface, you sound creepy as fuck. You’re analyzing how one time she said bye to you weeks ago. Then you tell us how you “ghosted” her but didn’t even have her number or any other regular form of contact. This just means you literally had no reason or method of talking to her so you didn’t see/talk to her for weeks because you’re practically strangers. What the shit. Girls who are into you don’t even mention their boyfriends when you get their …
/r/askTRP31/03/18 08:01 AM
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Monk mode doesn’t just mean you don’t talk to women you dolt.... Read more thoroughly since you haven’t been able to grasp the concepts yet.
/r/askTRP30/03/18 03:11 PM
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That’s why get upset. They feel entitled to all the benefits without any of the work. But if they can’t be happy no one can. All those dumb skinny girls never work their ass off to stay fit or anything, it’s all because muh genes. The skinny pretty women decided to focus on what guys go for and work towards that. The fatties blame McDonald’s and society for all their woes so they work on things like “spirituality” and “artistic mumbojumbo”. That’s like starting a fighting game, then getting mad …
/r/RedPillWomen30/03/18 08:01 AM
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Eh? Mine is the top comment and I’m a dude... I didn’t mention that in the comment cause it wasn’t so relevant but it’s pretty silly to completely rule out all guys.
/r/RedPillWomen28/03/18 05:25 AM
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Errr... when he said game online he meant gaming women online via tinder Okcupid and other dating apps. Not online video games....
/r/askTRP28/03/18 12:12 AM
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difference between you and him is the word "carefree" I'm no pro by any means, but i'm well versed in interacting with women in general, and the key difference is how much I care. You know that feeling when you're a little nervous and you're overanalyzing an interaction with a girl? "did i say that right? what do i say next?" The alpha with all three women doesn't have that. I'm working it out of my system still but anything below a HB 8-9 and i'm completely carefree. Above that i still catch my…
/r/askTRP27/03/18 10:39 PM
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You’re dumb as rocks if you think snipers don’t have to be as physically fit Sniping in real life isn’t what you see in video games.
/r/TheRedPill27/03/18 02:17 PM
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I feel like you ramble and are the dorkey kid friends don’t want to have around. You definitely sound like you aren’t very self aware. You’re not redpilled in the least yet you fancy yourself as being “philosophically redpilled”. Nuh uh. Even through text I can feel the gushing word-vomity talk that would turn people off. Good luck though. You need some time to really internalize things. At least be honest and admit when you’re still in a bp mindset.
/r/askTRP26/03/18 07:29 AM
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Step 1: decide what you like. Are you a more formal type? Do you feel good in classy attire? Or are you more casual? Do you prefer jeans and blouses or are you a skirt and dresses kinda girl? Maybe yoga/sporty. Step 2: know your body. Are you a bigger girl? Are you thin? Be honest about your size and even start setting some goals if you’re not happy where you wanna be. You can buying clothes now but if you’re not your ideal size I wouldn’t go crazy just yet. Form and fit are infinitely more impo…
/r/RedPillWomen25/03/18 07:00 PM
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Or stick it into someone else!
/r/TheRedPill21/03/18 04:06 PM
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10-15 times reminds me of Corey Wayne...
/r/askTRP20/03/18 05:28 PM
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You’re so very delusional right now. You’ve got a serious disconnect with reality simply because you’re obsessed with this girl. Every post has told you the same thing and you’re literally putting your head in the sand saying “nuh uh it’s not true” read all the posts again. Just because you don’t like what you’re hearing doesn’t make it any less true. We are all outside the box and you’re stuck in there with your scared emotions. You’re LOOKING for someone to say “it’s ok just do this and this a…
/r/askTRP18/03/18 09:04 AM
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I’ll keep you in mind. After you graduate lemme know if you need help with any medical malpractice my man. Your advice is definitely gonna help push it to the next level. Thanks for the tools. I’m gonna go practice till my dick bleeds
/r/askTRP16/03/18 02:49 AM
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Ya man. I've found my purpose, but its rough. Thing about all this is your body will always work against you when it comes to work and success. Our bodies want to conserve as much energy as possible. It doesn't have the foresight to put off short term benefits RIGHT NOW vs long term gains. Our minds are what separate us from animals. animals always do what feels good RIGHT NOW, but they are driven by scarcity of resources. We dont have that problem so we're prone to slipping into laziness. The w…
/r/askTRP15/03/18 07:06 PM
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Sounds like the experience is important. I noticed a huge difference from when i first started to now where conversations and introductions flow naturally. I remember the first time i re-emerged from that anti-social shell i talked to some random girl about her headphones and that was a huge victory. Now i talk to everyone if they have anything even remotely interesting passing by. My question for you specifically is: Would you honestly say you're fairly successful as far as closing on women? wh…
/r/askTRP15/03/18 06:42 PM
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Motivation doesn’t do shit for you. The other commenter has it right. Find that goal. Envision it. Own it. Now get off your lazy ass and work towards it. Successful people aren’t there because they wake up every day ready to tackle the world full of motivation to take in their next project. That’s bullshit and anyone who tells you motivation is key is feeding you lies. Motivation only helps you plan. When you feel a ton of motivation don’t actually go out and do one or two things. Use that energ…
/r/askTRP15/03/18 07:44 AM
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I’m a little bit self centered so sometimes I forget to actually read the girls body language and focus on my own, but I’ve recently started trying to turn that inner eye outward away from what I’m doing and more towards what she’s doing. Looks like it’s tinder time to fail a bunch and practice. Gonna be a rough journey to abundance. I need it though, neediness is a killer. I appreciate the help. Sometimes the little things have big results.
/r/askTRP15/03/18 07:10 AM
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Oh boy. Appreciate the reference, and just looked it up. I suppose my escalation doesn’t progress far enough. It’s rough and I hate “memorizing” things since it’s so unnatural at first but it looks like I’ll have to go out and fail a bunch a times to get the proper escalation down. Is that really the last lock? I’ve always just fumbled around by virtue of being decent looking and outgoing, but never imagined a plate spinning lifestyle was possible for me.
/r/askTRP15/03/18 06:45 AM
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Nah on both counts. Subconsciously maybe with the dominance but it’s more of an ego trip and two people being stubborn (you didn’t really have a reason to move though). He didn’t really want that seat as much as he wanted you to give it to him. More of a childish reaction than a planned assertion of dominance. I worked with kids and see it all the time. No one paid attention to that as much as you did. It didn’t magically gain anyone’s respect and not giving up your seat isn’t gonna make you som…
/r/askTRP15/03/18 06:33 AM
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Thing is, I’m pretty liberal with the innuendo. Even with girls I’ve only just met. I’m not sure if you can do it too much, but it’s not awkward and I pull it off pretty well. Playing the guess your bust size game, telling her to turn around again so I can get a better look, that kinda stuff is pretty simple and easy to pull off. It seems to be more of a problem with being sexually intimate. I’ve got the whole fun flirty vibe down and throw in a ton of sexual references, but it’s doesn’t seem to…
/r/askTRP15/03/18 06:24 AM
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Sounds more like a power play. Especially with other guys it becomes an ego thing. I definitely would’ve asked why, or if the ocd reason didn’t make sense I’d just say that doesn’t make any sense. Definitely wouldn’t move unless there was a legitimate reason. (need to sit close to the board and that’s the only spot) doesn’t sound like that’s the case. Just laugh it off and pretend it never happened. Guys do stupid ego shit all the time and worrying/stressing about something dumb like that is mor…
/r/askTRP15/03/18 06:14 AM
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Not that YOU are popular... its that THEY are popular and provide you with social proof.
/r/RedPillWomen21/02/18 06:35 PM
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His vote produces 80% of the results
/r/TheRedPill20/02/18 01:39 AM
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I’ve been with a great girl and fantasized about other close women. This was when she was away for about a month and I was super honey. The moment I blew my load Everything about that other women disappeared. Sex is a primal urge for us. It’s not emotional, it’s not about love. As a dude I will honestly never understand how intwined love and sex is for you. We’re just different that way. We can truly lust for dozens of women and still love just the one. The real question isn’t: omg how could he …
/r/RedPillWomen18/02/18 12:01 AM
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It’s great for letting an alpha know you’d make a great fuck buddy and keep you as a plate with nothing more, and it also works really well for making a low quality beta obsesses over you until he’s your resident stalker.
/r/RedPillWomen17/02/18 11:47 PM
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That’s a straw man if I ever saw one. You have a reduced chance of getting good relationships, but it’s not if ugly = beating. Ugly women still fall into relationships and many of them are good ones. The caveat here is they still get a shot. They still have a wide selection of low quality men to choose from, it’s just a little more difficult to find a good one. On top of that they have the option of free casual sex to fulfill that aspect. The poor decisions they make with their options are on th…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/18 04:12 PM
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Such a blind argument with zero perspective. Incels get NO attention from the opposite sex. No love, no sex, no relationships PERIOD. Low tier women still get sex. They just might not get GOOD relationships. Yet they still get relationships. Your dumb prostitute idea is irrelevant. Both men and women have access to prostitutes with money
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/18 09:57 AM
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It’s a good thing we base things on evidence rather than claims and beliefs. Murders will claim they’re not murderers. Robbers will believe what they did was justified and and/or they’re innocent. People lie, people are delusional enough to believe that despite all evidence pointing to the contrary they are in the right. We shouldn’t reward delusion and lying. You can believe her and she can believe herself but with all evidence pointing to the contrary, we shouldn’t reward your “beliefs”. Facts…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/18 09:17 PM
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But you only lose the money when you get caught!
/r/TheRedPill17/12/17 04:51 PM
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