hirokinai Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
16	Craziness and disrespect despite dread in a marriage		hirokinai	/r/askMRP	09/10/25 09:41 AM
9	Do status and wealth matter more than looks?	Red Pill Theory	hirokinai	/r/TheRedPill	14/06/24 12:49 PM

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8	Strategies for slovenly wife. Bro. Stop trying to make her do anything. You keep asking for solutions instead of engaging with the right mindset. As I prepared to divorce my now ex wife, I stopped caring what she looked like. She was pretty, but not hot. I started calorie counting hard and dropped 20 pounds. Lifted regularly. I’m also the managing partner of my law firm and am very socially connected to powerful people, politicians, and constantly go galas and high end social events. I had money and status, but looks were la…	/r/askMRP	11/05/26 12:37 AM
1	Noticing shifts in women’s behavior…is being fake blue pill a real strategy? Here’s the nice thing about having money. You stop thinking about things in terms of money. Abundance applies to both women and resources. When I take a girl out, I don’t care about money. I’ll spend it if I have to, because it’s fun. Because I enjoy going out to fancy dinners. Because i can randomly buy plane tickets to fly out to a release party and book a suite because fuck it, I wanna have fun. But I also like cheap lunches at a local beach joint that allow me to sit next to, instead of acro…	/r/askMRP	19/04/26 04:41 PM
3	Friend got ragdolled in a wrestling match in front of his GF Hum. That’s on the fat guy. I’m a little Asian dude. 5’6”. Very lean, and toned. But I’d get destroyed in a fight with bigger dudes. No question. So I don’t physically fight and never will. I’ve joked about it before, and the joke is always that I’ll get my ass kicked, but I’ll happily get beaten because I’m a civil litigation attorney, and the cost of physically kicking my ass is going to be balanced out by the financial destruction that will follow when I sue you. I’m also a well respected com…	/r/TheRedPill	17/04/26 07:34 PM
7	Noticing shifts in women’s behavior…is being fake blue pill a real strategy? You can both want sex, and not expect it at the same time. Don’t act like you don’t want sex. That stupid, incongruent, and women will see through that lie in a heartbeat. But you can take the position that you don’t EXPECT sex, and will just roll with the punches. You can push for it. Escalate physically to see if she’s receptive to it, but at the end of the day if it doesn’t happen, then it doesn’t happen. Stopping the feeling of entitlement or expectation of sex, and just enjoying the moments…	/r/askMRP	17/04/26 07:16 PM
1	Craziness and disrespect despite dread in a marriage I’ve been busy with a festival I’m organizing coming up, so my replies come in waves. You’re probably right when you say I’ve lost frame; in the beginning when we were dating she was kind of a spoiled brat; however I cared so little that it never really escalated. She threw small tantrums, as in she would get mad, fuss, etc., but it never escalated, especially because I would just walk away and sleep in a different room, leave, not engage, and laugh at it. In the beginning, she was extremely com…	/r/askMRP	11/10/25 04:42 PM
1	Craziness and disrespect despite dread in a marriage I’m on the board for an organization that runs the largest lunar new year festival in our city, and operate as our partnership and sponsorship committee chair. The pageant is a sub part of our festival, and since I do a lot of the media appearances, partnership relations/meetings, and negotiations, I’m in charge of mentoring all of the youth, some of which are the pageant girls, so it’s incidental. I also mentor our community health youth, and our leadership development team. The festivals are h…	/r/askMRP	11/10/25 03:57 PM
2	Craziness and disrespect despite dread in a marriage I meant mostly sleeps through the night, but some nights he will occasionally he will wake up and requires some soothing. We listen to our pediatrician, who advised us that if he’s already been fed, and there are no issues otherwise, it’s ok to soothe him back briefly, but that we should avoid picking him up and carrying him into our bed. In my other post, I noted that if i wake up for it then I’ll get up and soothe, find a pacifier, rub his belly, basically everything outside of picking him up …	/r/askMRP	09/10/25 11:54 PM
0	Craziness and disrespect despite dread in a marriage I hear you. When I go silent, it’s really just me disengaging from the argument. I give her clear conditions, “you’ve taken this too far, and i am no longer arguing with you about it”. I give her the option of re engaging in a mature discussion, but only if she agrees not to devolve into a tantrum again. I will talk and reengage if she’s calm and genuinely ready to have a discussion, but it usually takes a day and several times I have to disengage again because she starts to get worked up. My re…	/r/askMRP	09/10/25 05:14 PM
2	Craziness and disrespect despite dread in a marriage Thank you for the insight. I help where I can, and avoid working on weekends, which I reserve for family. 7 month sleeps through the night unless my wife caves to the crying and picks him up. When it wakes me up, I go to him and soothe without picking up him up. I don’t always wake up though when it happens. I mentioned the pageants for context. Even though it’s purely professional for me, and I’ve constantly reassured her that it is, she still will go into overdrive thinking about it. What you’…	/r/askMRP	09/10/25 05:00 PM
1	Craziness and disrespect despite dread in a marriage I’m having trouble with this question, and I’m not sure. She does most of the time. Every now and then however, it’s like she “breaks” and her emotions get out of hand, even when she’s completely in the wrong. She comes around after I enforce the boundaries by going silent on her. I’ll refuse to speak to her and go about my business for a day or two. I appreciate any insight you might have.	/r/askMRP	09/10/25 02:19 PM
2	Craziness and disrespect despite dread in a marriage Thanks for the input and valid points. I don’t “use” dread in the sense that I’m going out of my way to instill jealousy. It kind of just happens because of what i do for work. Passive dread vs active dread. I don’t use any active dread, imply that there may be other girls, etc. She puts it in her own head that I’m going to leave her for one of the pageant girls, especially since I do mentor a few of them. The comfort tests have been happening, and balancing giving too much vs too little I admit…	/r/askMRP	09/10/25 01:53 PM
1	Do status and wealth matter more than looks? I tend to agree.	/r/TheRedPill	15/06/24 02:03 AM
1	Do status and wealth matter more than looks? Why’s that?	/r/TheRedPill	15/06/24 02:03 AM
6	Do status and wealth matter more than looks? You do bring up a good point I overlooked, which is the age and lifestage. From my experience though, status and social skills are everything. I’m not personally rich, far from it. While I may be a “rising star”, I was a broke fuck deep in student debt two years ago. Im doing well now, but I’m around rich people all the time because I handle their legal shit. Whether it’s the young, rich, but socially awkward tech startup CEO/engineers; the rich, middle aged businessman; or the old avocado tycoo…	/r/TheRedPill	14/06/24 02:00 PM
2	Do status and wealth matter more than looks? Social skills i kinda lumped in with status, but I suppose you would be correct for distinguishing the two. I agree on social skills mattering, but not so much on looks. For women, looks are everything, and social skills are just nice bonuses. For men, social skills seem to be everything, and looks are a nice bonus. On another note, what are your thoughts on the posts filled with cringey TRP language talking about how someone’s “field report”? Here’s a prime example: https://www.forums.red/p/the…	/r/TheRedPill	14/06/24 01:14 PM
173	Wife has lost her mind. I'm new to this sub. Please grill me on what to do. I still love her but she left me. Get your wife back? You need to be thinking about how to get your life back. You need a divorce attorney. Yesterday. You need to document your assets. You need to STOP GIVING HER MONEY. You need to start building your relationship with your children and focus on that. You need to stop looking at her Facebook. You need to stop sounding so desperate. She lied to you. She’s cheating on you. She’s stealing your money. She’s abandoning your son to go on vacations. And you being the simp you are, paid…	/r/MarriedRedPill	26/09/22 04:52 AM
1	Even her friend laughed But Alexandria Ocasio-Cortez only had to wait 7 years as a bartender before she could leverage her vagina and ethnicity to secure a well paying seat in Congress.	/r/PussyPassDenied	02/10/20 05:45 PM
17	Even her friend laughed Of course people are still individuals with individual personalities. However, people who gravitate towards a field like “gender studies” are much more likely to have fucked up ideas about life and equality. Their major is a predictor, but not a qualifier for crazy.	/r/PussyPassDenied	02/10/20 05:42 PM