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hlyfknsht/r/MarriedRedPill25/05/15 02:36 AM
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hlyfknsht/r/MarriedRedPill07/07/15 01:46 AM
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I'm not an expert, but the method I've used with mixed results. Change your locks , phone number(I use Google voice for this very reason),and schedule as much as humanly possible, borrow a car for a week or two. Take a trip, the first two weeks are critical. For the love of God do not answer calls or the door if its her, doing so resets the crazy counter and you start over and now she is convinced there is a chance. Have your friends say you moved in with your sisters cousins uncle out of state …
/r/askTRP26/09/15 07:42 PM
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In collage something happened and she said she has been over it, worked with a professional for years, its not an issue. The crying happened once before , I didn't understand it then, but just thought "huh, weird, wonder wth that was". Sex was good, she was reacting as if she was really digging it. When it's over, I go to get a towel and that's when the waterworks get going. What's really weird is it goes from good, neh, great sex, tears, nothing good or bad in 10 minutes or less.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/07/15 02:01 PM
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The judges will be fine. What about the same sexers that don't want to get married that will be relentlessly nagged about it. They are the real victims here.
/r/TheRedPill01/07/15 12:15 AM
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To much mental karate for me. Just set up some time with my backup option over lunch. Now taking tips for keeping your affairs under wraps.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/06/15 04:00 PM
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I'd expect that result from anyone but the awesomest of wives or an experienced professional. Most women I've encountered recoil with shock/disgust if you walk up to them and just ask for a BJ. OI seems a bit tricky for me at the moment. How does one want sex, but not care if it doesn't happen? I get OI on some levels. example "This relationship either works out or I'm better off with out it." Is the closest I can manage to OI to date. Work in progress.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/06/15 03:25 PM
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You are correct, there is 0 respect. As far as who is asking for it, her at first, then she backed off, things cooled off and seemed to be trending up, then a recent fight that was never resolved cropped up. I dropped ultimatum, skip trip and we double down on fixing things or its lawyer time. She went, I went for consultation. She scheduled appointment with a lawyer and canceled. She said if I wanted it I should do it. I asked her to go to speed things along, she wouldn't. I had been talking to…
/r/MarriedRedPill04/06/15 02:05 AM
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Just does whatever she wants. I can ask,demand,whatever as much as I want but in the end she does whatever. This is partially my fault because early on it was about decor or smallish things with the kids, no its open season, anything / anytime. I've said I wasn't OK with that. I think she thought I'd never leave due to divorce rape. Now I almost think her divorced friends / relatives are in her ear to the point she won't back down even if she wanted to. Im coming around to the idea there isn't t…
/r/MarriedRedPill03/06/15 01:32 PM
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What was the right way for you? Papers should come tomorrow. Neither wants to divorce, neither wants what currently exists relationship wise. Neither feels compelled to give in. I think she is an entitled brat. She thinks I work to much, don't care about her and kids, etc.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/06/15 01:06 AM
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Assertive yes. However I would let her wear me down until I caved. So effectively not really. I am the one saying we either both commit to getting our shit fixed relationship wise or we split, and i m sticking to it. Its currently divorce chicken with both of us swearing we won't blink. She is gathering allies to support during this difficult time. I couldn't help but notice they are all divorced, mostly "single til death" types. Not a good sign.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/05/15 08:30 PM
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Nothing I'm doing is instead of moving toward divorce. I've got lawyer lined up, already went for consult and have a call into him from last Thursday to set up something this week. I don't think what I want is possible. So with my preferred solution(happy loving, caring wife who wants oxygen > sex > water > other shit, and assists me in raising kids the neighbors are proud of.) Off the menu I'm left with the choice of either a lifetime of being a doormat(no one IRL would consider me a doormat, e…
/r/MarriedRedPill25/05/15 08:54 PM
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I made a plan. After much deliberation I went to her with "this is a disaster, some you, some me. Let's do everything we can to get our shit back on track. Not later. Right now". She had plans that weekend that she was unwilling to change. Said it was me being being controlling. My plan while at first glance sounds like a failure. A closer look leaves me thinking our differences are larger than I imagined. She is publicly saying she wants to wait and see , while privately prepping for divorce(as…
/r/MarriedRedPill25/05/15 08:36 PM
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I don't want a divorce but can't stay married. She isn't interested in making the most basic and obvious changes. She is not a $ person. She agree s I should handle our finances. Won't let me because I will not let her do what she wants whenever. 1 example of many . sex in her eyes should be earned(yeah I know how that sounds), and I believe she is currently in the process of lining me up for a very special assrape by saying she is, and plans to stay married while her , her mother and assorted m…
/r/MarriedRedPill25/05/15 03:33 PM
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Was aware of rp from a distance . Not well practiced though.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/05/15 02:28 PM
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She won't/can't due to kids. I'll ask anyway, can't see a downside, but as soon as her legal team gets word (friend, family, etc, maybe lawyer) they are likely to advise against.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/05/15 06:26 AM
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Really given her friend in her ear touting the vast advantages of divorce, I think the only thing keeping her from going to file ATM is fear. One of the things that attracted me to her in the beginning was her really being feminine. She wants the traditional patriarchal family(still wants the good parts, the others she could do without). She has also come to want the life of the new modern woman that the current culture tells her is her birthright. She doesn't dispute this . She seems to struggl…
/r/MarriedRedPill25/05/15 06:21 AM
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In retrospect I've made some poor choices. I include this among them.
/r/askTRP22/05/15 06:21 PM
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Her spending habits don't allow for much in the way of traditional "savings"
/r/askTRP22/05/15 05:29 PM
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Yeah, I considered this possibility. That's why in not going to let myself drag my feet.
/r/askTRP22/05/15 01:48 PM
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Jesus. Are you?? Are you following me around? She mentioned if we did divorce we would likely end up getting remarried. I told her that was definitely not in the cards. I'm putting up a passive front and not advertising my plans. Tbh I'm not out to see her get destroyed, I'm currently in ass preservation mode. Get my shit in order then make sure I'm able to do as much as possible for the kids.
/r/askTRP22/05/15 03:15 AM
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Correct. I told her when her friend got divorced we needed to be careful as it's sometimes contagious. She currently is saying she wants to wait to see if we can get things back together but isn't really wanting to change anything.
/r/askTRP22/05/15 02:47 AM
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House was mine before marriage but not sure how that will go , lawyer will sort it out. The amount of money I can set aside is minimal. Selling the house won't likely pass the smell test legally but I'll ask my legal team(membership 1). How does one go about moving closer to 0 ass to rape?
/r/askTRP22/05/15 02:43 AM
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Both 40. 3 kids. Married 8 years.
/r/askTRP22/05/15 02:28 AM
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